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Your title doesn't align with the question you asked at the end of your paragraph What are you asking? Why do you think Reddit is trying to convince men that body count doesn't matter ? Or Why you think people here on Reddit seem to argue that having a partner with a low body count is seen as a vile thing ? Or Why does it seem like there is a double standards among body count between men and women ? I don't know what you're asking...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:11 AM
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That sounds like a clickbait troll post more than anything. A little bit late for April 1st
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:30 PM
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And what would you do if you end up with creating a family closer to your size than that of your potential husband ? Similarly, a man could reject you for your height citing similar arguments (not as common with women but still), in that case, would you think that it could be unfair ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:36 PM
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That's fine, you do you. Everybody has preference. But that's not what the title of your post implied: "Why won't men accept the fact that tall men are desirable compared to short men?" It not only looks like a troll post but severely closes the question preventing any form of discussions on the matter. So if it's a preference issue, your whole post is meaningless. Furthermore, your view on genes and tall factors was hanging around the negative part of eugenics showing an inability to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:45 PM
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Age and height however aren't comparable in my opinion. Everybody ages. Some say men age better than women but in my experience, it's a case by case basis. My parents looks fortunately young for their age, and some people that are as old as them look like they could be in a retirement home etc...you get the idea. Now, when it comes to dating, people in general seem to be more comfortable dating people in their age group. However, some people prefer to date older individual and others the opposit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:46 PM
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Well, I know my case is anecdotal but I would never reject a women based on her mental struggles or struggles in life in general. My therapist always said men usually come to see him when they reach a crisis point It's an interesting thought. Usually, if we go to see psychological professionals, we're seen as "weak", "mentally unstable", "unsociable". With men, going to the therapist usually means, shit is really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:32 PM
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Textbook case of generalization. men don't want to date post-wall women Some men do, I don't have a problem with it men have the nerve to complain about women wanting tall men And what are you basing this comment of ? Reddit ? The world is bigger than that you know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:19 PM
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It's a popular trait. It's genetic, you didn't choose to have it and you can't "improve it". You can't work on it and you just have to accept it. There's also the stigma that society has on short men: they aren't taken as seriously and are sometimes seen as less masculine or "weaker". There's pride to be taken into becoming a better person. Develop a good sense of humor, be social, dress well, develop a good hygiene and so on. It's things you can change and in which you can put effort in. It fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:12 PM
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Perhaps, but I'd say less than women, that would be my take. I think it's more of a deal breaker with women rather than men. Often, we're required to be fun to hang out with, have a good sense of humor, bring happiness etc...and tbh, they're all for good reasons. I completely understand why those traits are valued. But, mental illness stick with people often for long, sometimes for life, it's not something you can snap out from. Even mentioning mental illness and emotional vulnerability in men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:05 PM
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There's a lot of things people can improve on, like hairstyle, clothing, smell, regular showers, trips to the gym, humor, personality, nobody said the opposite But at the end of the day, it seems that physical attributes, count for some, for a good part of the "initial attraction". It, basically gets your foot into the door especially in casual relationships. On top of that, It seems we can't be depressed or have mental issues, it's like an instant deal breaker for women, but not so much for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:21 PM
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But a lot of your personality and such is not your doing. We do not pick to have x personality, enjoy hobby y, etc. You do have a choice. Nobody is born with a personality. It's something you develop over the course of a life. Regarding your comment, you might try out different hobbies over the course of your life, drop some, get interested in new ones but you're the only one who picks what you would or would not like. Same goes for personality. Now, through the people you meet, the events you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:22 PM
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that women include criteria completely divorced from what makes the individual themselves and I'm sure you heard the stat that women initiate 80% of divorce. Yes, indeed. My initial opinion was that the factors you listed could play a more important part in a women's decision process. And this, perhaps more then men. But truth is, I am not completely sure of it. This uncertainty needs, imo, to be lifted, hence why I should make more research on the matter, especially on the divorce stat, I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:17 PM
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Tbh, I wouldn't know. I don't know if any studies actually showed conclusive results that men care more than women on a "emotional" level. I would argue that it's mixed within men and women. It depends too much on a person's upbringing and personality rather than it's gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:47 PM
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She is still the same person but she is not the same. Yes, it's true. If those thing happened while or after a women enters a relationship, Hopefully, her partner should recognize her for who she is as a person rather than what she is. Regardless of what happened to her, her partner built memories with her and any physical changes that occurred should be trivial at the very least (unless it's life-threatening of course like morbid obesity). Now, if she's not in a relationship, the question is mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:45 PM
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And nobody falls in love with a personality exclusively in a person they otherwise find completely repellent Yes, it's not false. I can't argue against that. Looks will get your foot into the house and sometimes ease the process although I would argue that each individual has their own taste making it difficult to quantify or qualify what exactly "good looking" is. but not your money, job, house, car etc etc all the shit women care about. Sure, but I wouldn't think of them as great partners if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:30 PM
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I think this is a great point, but a blurred line between have/does and is. If I man has/does great things he is a great man. If a women loses her attractiveness or femininity, she is no longer who she was. Perhaps I can chime in here. How would a woman lose her attractiveness exactly ? Aging ? Weight gain/loss ? She is still who she is after even after those things happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:24 PM
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But it's not what makes you, you. You didn't get to choose what you looked like, as in a character selection screen in a video game. Your personality is all of your doing. You can decide whether you want to change it, improve it etc...You decide what you want to be. So, loving someone strictly for their physical appearances can sometimes feel ungratifying since you had no say in the said process edit: commas and typo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:19 PM
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I feel like it's easy to say "life isn't fair" when life hasn't been too harsh on you, at least from the people I know. When life continuously throws its shenanigans at you, you can't help but feel frustrated that you didn't have the same things that others had. It's not a rational mindset but it's human. It's normal to feel frustrated, unhappy. Some days, when I see people striving in life because of something they had that I did not, whether it'd be wealth, attractive traits, I can't help but …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:02 AM
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When you choose to game over human interaction...its too much. It depends on the person. Some people are just not big fans of human interactions, that doesn't mean they're not prioritizing other aspect of their life. Like it has been said before "too much" depends on a person's life and goals. It is set up by the individual and it's up to him to decide how much time to dedicate to his hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:46 PM
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You can do both, you can play video games and lift weight or play video games and work, or play video games, lift weight and work, whatever floats your boat. It's entertainment, same as watching tv series, watching sports etc... As long as you don't prioritize it over other important aspect of your life, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:40 PM
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Could be, or not. In your opinion, what is it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:11 PM
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To answer OP's question: Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? They are "everywhere and nowhere at the same time". Sometimes a handful of people with terrible personalities can make it seem like the world is filled with people with terrible personalities. Furthermore, defining a "terrible personality" is quite tricky because of the broadness of the term "terrible". It is also hardly quantifiable in terms of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:08 PM
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? Nobody said that. Your encounters aren't special, they are anecdotal, which justify what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:56 PM
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"Most guys I meet are decent normal cool dudes who can hold a convo perfectly fine." You pretty much answered your own question. From YOUR perspective, it seems like most men you meet are normal cool dudes. Others have had different experiences. There's no "official stat" on terrible personalities so everyone is going to have a different view on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:51 PM
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I'm gonna sound incredibly rude but if it's "just your general experience", it would be better to mention it beforehand. People can take up that number and make it an "official stat". I've seen that happen way too much online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:53 PM
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That's a pretty depressing viewpoint of life imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:49 PM
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20%, just curious, where did you get that number ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:46 PM
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