| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerOther priorities are more important and he has the authority to spend time with whoever he wants without being dependent on them. There's something romantic in a fun and temporary woman, there's nothing romantic in a definite marriage proposal. All the pleasure fades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?Overall - you’re either gonna get hitched during education or you’re gonna have to go through online dating. This just sounds like nethead culture. People constantly meet each other through mutual friends, common parties, concerts, seminars, conventions, etc... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?26 actually, and just try a more loose place. Maybe you went to a very rigid place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?Well, I think the western world could model its sex work laws like Germany or the Netherlands. In fact, the whole western world found brothels quite normal before late industrialization. Athens today has their famous "studios" all over the city, and in New Orleans, we can still see traces of a raunchy sex worker community, it's so common over there together with Las Vegas. What are we doing still living like a bunch of Mormons? And plenty of western women support the legalization and regulation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?But then why didn't the personal sections in the newspaper flourish? I mean is it mostly of a visual photographic thing? Back in the Dutch Republic there were plenty of matchmakers. In India today and for many years there is a consultation of an astrologer over relationship advice. I mean are people just less inclined to find suitable relationships among their own group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?Well, you said "it wasn't all that great before". Why not? What was bad about it? I figured that it was because you just didn't go to interesting places that had interesting single people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?You didn't meet anybody because you didn't go to any interesting places where single people mingle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Why wasn't there more effort to prevent the growth of online dating?No, it doesn't have to be 'out in the wild'. People meet through mutual friends, people meet in classes and local events, house parties, community events, etc... The options are not solely dating online or meeting people at a bar on a Friday night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Was it a positive thing to mix boys and girls in schools together?Yes, but you're underestimating how much the town church had a role in peoples lives. You simply cant compare the dating system of 12th century Parisian or London laborers to 21st century ones. Yeah, there are some similarities but immense differences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Was it a positive thing to mix boys and girls in schools together?Yes, but courtly love and modern urban dating are very different things. People mingled but it was still very paternal and girls didnt have the liberty to "date" anybody. Especially among the laboring classes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:40 AM |
| – | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationships"If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need." - Cicero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.I admire fuckboys for their lack of empathy. They can hurt a woman's feelings and move on. I have a hard time doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Housekeepers make relationships healthierGood point on the bathrooms. You're spot on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Housekeepers make relationships healthierNo, Im a single man. People can still be working class and get a cheap housekeeper. Just have him/her come once a week I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Housekeepers make relationships healthierI guess you have a fair point. Everybody in the 21st century practically had childhood trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Men: Do you prefer to date an intelligent pessimist or an ignorant optimist?Well, think about it, what kind of adult would have stuffed animals in their room. Theres a ton of childish women out there and they like to cling to these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Men: Do you prefer to date an intelligent pessimist or an ignorant optimist?He just said it, guy, its a sign of emotional instability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?Right. That's typical in barbaric societies where things are violent and unpredictable. But you also don't want someone who is too soft and innocent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 01:52 AM |
| -4 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?Hahaha. Not really. But funny answer. A man getting cucked by an emasculated man sounds like a comedy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:35 PM |
| -3 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?sweetheart, I work in the entertainment industry. The men in my field are extra ridiculous, including me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?You found a treasure chest. Although, as a man finding a treasure chest is very hard. Hence, why so many hermits and priests exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?I guess. Maybe you like androgynous men just like sometimes I can appreciate the beauty of an androgynous woman. But these folks are very hard to find | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:24 PM |
| 0 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?Oh please. I can get a woman. I just happen to attract newspaper reading women who have cats and had a "I'm With Her" sticker back in 2016. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:19 PM |
| -3 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?But my guy. Are you looking to lounge or are you looking to work? Some men are looking to just chill and have a maternal girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?Oh stop insulting the poor girl. She's an artist. She likes to focus on her works. Sometimes folks just want a relationship for the convenience of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 0 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?Ahh yes. Like Cruella del Vil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 0 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?I dont think its that. What usually is the case is that many men are intimidated by artistic women because they tend to be more intelligent, which spooks a lot of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What inclines certain women to choose emasculated men?I work with art and its certainly not a boring thing. If you ever dated an artist you would see that they are far from boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousAhh... then perhaps she will go for the stoic humble man one day. Either that or the flamboyant narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousWhat a bold man you are. But let us remember to not be too bold otherwise we will offend the modesty of ladies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousWe bachelors certainly are ridiculous as well. Especially the hedonistic ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag.Sad lonely people. They're the lost ones. Maybe they should just be gay lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousIm a single man and I have single female friends. I myself always felt very skeptical towards relationships and so I feel admiration for those who know gow to stay single. And yes, society wants people to pair up because thats how the human race will continue. But I think that if one is able to go against the grain, its something admirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousYou're absolutely right. I admire those women the most! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 07:34 PM |
| -4 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousBecause a lot of my friends are like this. Both men and women. The men, on the other hand, console themselves with more superficial things, which many of my female friends do not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 06:04 PM |
| -2 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousOh no, not at all. I dont believe that. I just find it interesting when they express the frustration of being single while also being uncompromisable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't folks having sex?High expectations. These folks dont want to lower their standards because entertainment and social media have shaped their minds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Should we take someone's social media seriously?This is why I think its better to date within one's social network. Via introductions at social events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Should we take someone's social media seriously?There is that too. Omnia vanitas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 01:21 AM |
| – | I’m confused - why very attractive women stick around dating apps?Attention and compliments give them a sense of purpose. But alas, a musician shouldn't respect the applause of a deaf audience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:51 PM |
| – | Why do we push for legalizing prostitution yet denigrate the men who patronize prostitutes?Ahh a very good question. It's because Anglo society still has the taint of Christian puritanism in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Less laughter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Modern women and modern men are not compatibleJust go to eastern Europe or Latin America and find a woman there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Standards?I could see myself having a transactional marriage. Why not? Marriage is a regular part of civilization, it involves the court and the government. If I end up being the single middle aged man, my clients are going to think I'm some shallow pervert addicted to drinks and hookers. Being single is for monks, artists, and writers. Not businessmen. They have to be more conventional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Sexual attraction is nearly 100% culturally conditionedAh yes. That explains why all those prisoners fuck the twinks in the cell. It's the culture of prison. Biology doesnt play into it at all! s/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating women forces men to be superficialThis is because women live more in the present than men. It gives them that sense of cheerfulness that we like so much in them. The future is something they don't like to consider, not only because they know they will eventually lose their beauty, but also because they don't feel that considering the far future is as important as the present. When we look at female politicians, we can see that they are much more masculine and not as given to superficial trifles. This is because they have a more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How important is sexual intercourse to a human's well-being?You know I always thought that people like saint Anthony and those old monks from antiquity probably were lunatics and mentally unstable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | How important is sexual intercourse to a human's well-being?I think so. I have lived in various places and I can see how the culture is affected by these things. I live in Miami now and its an incredibly sexualized city. All of Florida is, really. This wasn't so much the case when I lived in Vermont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 3 | What leads a girl to befriend young men and avoid female friends?I have a witty lesbian friend. Everybody should have one of those lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How much do diets play a role in relationships?Sounds like he's suffering from provincial mentality, a lot of uneducated young men have that. Does he at least know how to cook burgers and make pizza? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 3 | It is better to be with someone with similar taste than similar intelligenceHmm... could you elaborate? Perhaps you're just a radical individualist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being the object of visceral lust is the only way to have a truly satisfying sexual relationshipAlas, the cheerful feminine girl wins again. What John Rolfe couldn't find in the charming parties of London, he found in the woods of Virginia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Are dick pics as common as people think they are?"Stupidity in a woman is unwomanly" - Nietzsche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How does a city's crime rate affect its dating market?I an extrapolating but then again, I came over here to get different thoughts and opinions to widen my views on the topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How does a city's crime rate affect its dating market?Never claim I did. Also, what is your take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | How does a city's crime rate affect its dating market?New Yorkers and Bostonians do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How does a city's crime rate affect its dating market?No, a building with security in Miami | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleAnd I sympathize with it. In many ways, it's more organic and romantic. It's how many of our parents or grandparents met. But I'm a bit too stiff for that sort of thing. Urban life can be a bitch. You become less trustworthy of your fellow neighbor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleRight. But then again, you could do that for sex. I mean isnt that why you would get all those fake products to begin with? Slip them on, play the part, get laid. Wham, bam, thank you m'am. Or just get a mistress/side hoe. It could be dangerous though, proceed at your own risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleWhat are you talking about, guy? I specifically wrote about online dating. My post is long but its in there. I said that its an intermediary between the two. It is a form of controlled spontaneity. You message the guy/girl and then you meet them in person. It's common but not that common. Many people still date via social circles, I would argue most people still do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleYes. A ridiculously bold move. I agree with you that it should be separated by a couple of degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleWell then you can take part in the events in your local library or take a class | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleI like your assessment and think option B is the best one. It makes more sense. Online dating is silly too because it makes the whole process of sexual selection too bureaucratic. Institutional dating is always another great option. When you are members of the same day club, health center, museum or other such facility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | We should revive the stigma towards divorced parentsWell to be quite frank, it doesn't look very good with my international clients who are really rich and have relations with members of parliament. See thats the thing, divorce lowers your credibility. It also further complicates property and investments. Im not going to date some woman just for her looks or her taste in memes. I have to be pragmatic because I have several businesses to run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | We should revive the stigma towards divorced parentsYou're tripping dude. You have no idea how many wacky Protestants live in US. They just dont go on social media as much. I live in Miami. I say urban settlement because In trying to point out how urban settlements and suburban settlements have different cultures. I dont consider suburban people "modern". Im biased towards them. So I really only take the urban dating market seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 0 | We should revive the stigma towards divorced parentsWell thats a wonderful idea. Yes, people from divorced parents should date each other. That sounds like a pretty good solution and they have that in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:18 PM |
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