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Watch Dylan James on YouTube
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 10:47 PM
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Absolutely. Do it and find out if you can actually share a space. Some people are totally different until they live together and see how they run their home.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 02:57 PM
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I'm on both sides. If I'm interested in someone, I'll communicate back n forth frequently. But if I'm not so sure about how much I like someone, then I feel overwhelmed by the constant communication. I'm also an introvert, which even if I explain this to people can be taken as offensive.
/r/seduction30/01/21 02:11 PM
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It's not about me "feeling good because I won reddit", again it's about helping her. You commenting with your negative perspective is doing way more damage then help at this point. I'm also not on a "high horse", which clearly you seem to be upset at the fact I've had success, shared it with her so she might have success as well. You commenting " when she gets smacked around" sounds like you're projecting from your own toxic experience. Calm down and realize this post isn't about you or me, it's…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:24 PM
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Isn't he fantastic??? He's on a whole other level!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:18 PM
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Hmmm, toxic because I've done the work, had success, and give others advice on my success because she's on the same boat? Your point of view is very twisted and inexperienced. You're now just pointlessly arguing and being negative. She wants to help and support him in getting help, not up and leave. Just because you state she needs to leave, doesn't mean it's the one answer to all in her specific situation.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:15 PM
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I learned and was successful- and yet you seem angered that I'm giving successful advice. Seems like a toxic perspective to have just to feel like you're right when someone is reaching out for help.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:09 PM
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I'm sorry you feel so negatively about something you don't have experience with. I'm here for you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:07 PM
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Absolutely! It will also help add strength to your relationship, letting him know he's not alone and that you guys are in this together. He might feel embarrassed at first, but the calmer you are when approaching all of this, will be much more rewarding for you both.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:05 PM
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Also, if he does give you some resistance with anger management videos because of the subject itself- put on videos of Dr.Joe Dispenza. He helps you understand the mind and emotions as a whole, giving you ways to control and thrive from it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 06:01 PM
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As someone who suffered with anger problems in the past, it meant THE WORLD to me that my partner stayed by my side through all of it. When you have issues like that and other try to address them, you can be fearful of change and new ground. That's what being in a relationship is about, having that other person's back without judgement. I wish you the best hun, I hope this helps you both💓
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 05:59 PM
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It's not an empty statement, this post isn't about arguing with commenters, it's about helping the person who made the post. That "epiphany" you speak of, is anger management classes, a need to better himself.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 05:55 PM
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If it were me, I'd start putting on anger management videos at home when he's there, or literally make an appointment to go with him to the classes together so he feels supported. The classes will also explain how people with anger issues make others feel around them in a way that can resonate deeper with the individual. Anger destroys relationships, friends, lovers, family. He needs to understand the depth of that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 05:53 PM
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I understood your comment. If the person doesn't start finding new ways to better himself and exercise control over his emotions, there's nothing that can be done because it's not her, it's him. Just like most of the other comments saying the same thing, needing "Anger Management", regardless of her and you commenting how it's Unlikely, it's still what's needed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 05:42 PM
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You can't help anyone with anger problems, they have to help themselves. Anger Management classes help, regardless of if the person considers going, or refuses.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 05:33 PM
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As someone who's gone through Anger Management, I beg to differ. Taking classes changed my entire perspective and life. Edit: Dyslexia
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 05:31 PM
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Anger is sadness held in to long. Anger management classes will help give him perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 04:26 PM
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When you're stressed out for long periods of time, your body creates chemicals that are being pumped into your body. Your body gets addicted to these chemicals, even though you may feel unhappy. Look up "Trauma Bonding" and listen to Dr.Joe Dispenza. It will help.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/21 03:42 AM
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What.in.the.actual.fuck.???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 03:16 PM
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After seeing this, my vagina has literally never been so dry. The shit stained underwear takes the fucking cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:04 PM
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I'm selective about who I talk to in the first place. Alot of my interests aren't common subjects for other people, from which I've made peace with. I also hate small talk and won't entertain others for the sake of making them feel more comfortable, or fill in silence with meaningless bullshit. I've had alot of people comment on how quiet I am, and in my experience, I've found it's because most people don't want to engage in deep conversation and stay on the surface. I've come to the age where I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 03:26 PM
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Heh, I'm also 5"10 and have modeled and told I'm Intimidating. But I'm an introvert, I've been told I have a very deep stare which makes people uncomfortable because it feels like I'm looking into them. What it comes down to is, are you intimidating, or are they intimidated? Don't ever dull your shine because some dude shys away from you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 03:36 PM
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Doesn't matter what she's comfortable with, you're in the relationship, not her. If you and him are happy, then leave it alone.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/20 04:10 PM
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I feel that expecting a guy to pay every time gives me to much anxiety, but I've dated a few who get insulted if I try to pay at all. It depends on the guy. But I'll also be the aggressor if I have funds and insist on taking my man out on a date. There's a great reciprocity when doing that in my case, or if he makes it clear he wants to take me out I'll say if I can or cannot afford to and most of the time if he's inviting in the first place he doesn't expect me to pay at all.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 09:09 PM
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