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Women and men are free to date whatever height they prefer - men always go for women shorter than them and nobody shames them for not pursuing taller girls. Older women who go for younger men also get shamed and called creeps. You are comparing very different things. "Preference for younger" makes you sound disgusting. You can have preference for things which happen to be more common among younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:13 PM
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Weird options. You can easily make everyone pick Option 2 if you add that, thanks to your wife also working, you have cut back your working hours to the average 37 hours. Less pressure on the man and more time to spend with his family, and still making close to $1 mil I would be interested to see the result of a post with more balanced options
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:43 AM
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What you do sounds amazing but how is any of this "traditional"? Seems like the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:09 PM
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And you'd want to be with a woman who gets the ick from this? Seems like a solid filter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:06 PM
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Not quite. Both men and women are more tolerant of women's rants because women are mostly harmless / less violent while incels go on killing sprees so it's actually scary when men say they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:06 PM
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You got the people the wrong way around. His wife had that rule while he didn't care at all what she did and with who.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:45 PM
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Another great comment for OP /u/No_Incident4004 There is really nothing else to add. Maybe collect signatures of people who are happy to pay for the abandoned children and those who are interested can work with you on it? The fathers can message you for child support money and everybody wins
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:22 PM
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The whole thread can be closed with this comment. This would be so easily exploitable. Do we make a rule that "you can only sign away rights to one child per year"?! LMAO. And people would just pretend to be split up to farm the free money, which they already kinda do with the current systems but it would be even easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:04 PM
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Also... "Marriage": the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship (historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:39 PM
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If it was about feeling threatened, it would apply to more than just age gaps. Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:23 AM
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Missing the point. Men do not commit suicide due to sexual harassment from their female coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:42 PM
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Yeah, we all know - there was literally a thread today about a young military woman who killed herself because of endless sexual harassment in the army. We all know those jobs will never be "equal" for women because women can never reach men's levels of strength and the pay is not worth all this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:30 PM
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Kinda weird that you only "lost faith in academia" after women were given a little advantage, but you thought it was perfectly good when men had all the advantages for hundreds of years when women weren't even allowed to go uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:23 PM
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You really want to be a victim huh. You're insulting black people by comparing their suffering to your hurt feelings due to women not blindly trusting men they don't know. For some reason OP didn't reply when I offered to trade his "hurt feelings" for women's "constant worry about getting sexually assaulted, raped, etc." when it ALREADY happens too often and we don't "blindly trust all men" like you wish we did. You didn't even stop to think how dangerous that would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:17 PM
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Extreme??? A direct consequence of women blindly trusting all men would be an increase in rapes and sexual assault, did you not consider the consequences at all? You do not have a point as you provide no realistic solution to keep women safe. You should be happy that your only issue is hurt feelings rather than having to constantly worry about being overpowered and raped by someone. Fucking hell. Let's trade! Also, I have never seen a real "kill all men" post, I only know about it because guys l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:15 PM
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Duh, who cares if women blindly trust every man and the rapists exploit that trust, at least his feelings won't be mildly hurt. Bet he also trusts random homeless drug addicts, can't assume they're all dangerous, amirite u/-snickerss- ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:14 PM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:34 PM
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What makes you think that? I'm none of these things, except the GoT tshirt... which was a gift from my bf lol. Most men want a woman they share interests with Many women who frequent this sub are in happy relationships, check past threads
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:43 PM
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It should be pretty common sense to any guy that only acting as a friend with hopes of love is not fair to the woman because the whole friendship is fake. I and many girls had experiences with the types of guys you'll see on r/niceguys and I feel like guys don't take the time to understand the difference so they think it applies to any nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:03 AM
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I think you missed their point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:06 PM
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It's quite easy to do all of the above and also work lol, which lets your man work less, enjoy his life more and reducing his stress of being the sole provider Btw it's clear you're a man, nobody talks like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:27 PM
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More work experience = more money when getting promoted or finding a new job More relationship experience =/= better relationships in the future, you're less likely to find a good partner as all the good ones are taken
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:14 PM
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And experience gained in a job also helps to get better paying jobs in the future. Doesn't really work like that with relationships lol, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:09 PM
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No amount of complaining and blaming women will help such guys, and the sooner they accept the only action they can get is from other incels the better for them. It's really hypocritical to complain that women want to sleep with people they're attracted to but then turn around and say incels won't fuck other men because they're not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:11 AM
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Most if not all things u/badgersonice said were correct so the comment probably saved you from embarrassing yourself further When I was little I wanted to be a soldier or policewoman but realised my gender will make it impossible for me to 1v1 most men or carry a wounded ally. Now I work in tech at a cozy office which I almost DIDN'T do because of the, as you say, "minority bullshit" and all the issues related to that. Fortunately I managed to find good female role models and I'm outperforming t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:58 AM
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She's not dating a CEO though. She's dating a techie, and there is a ton of those, and jobs in tech don't necessarily require a university degree. Stereotypes would say the techie would be a forever-alone nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:22 AM
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Hilarious timing. I'm reading "Girls That Invest" right now and only checked Reddit because I went to the bathroom. It's a beautiful sunny day so I'm reading in the garden and my bf made me a strawberry smoothie, awesome! (only saying this because some commenters think we must be miserable to be here lol) Hope you follow your own advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:03 PM
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It's very simple. This is more interesting than watching some romance drama tv series because it's real. Sure I have a thousand better things to do, but this is kinda addicting and every comment has potential to positively impact someone's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:46 PM
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Men cannot be rating women accurately because the comparisons are between women with makeup and without it, as well as manipulated angles. I hope someone will do a new, less flawed study soon so people stop quoting this useless Tinder study.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:45 AM
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Giving up on all women because some women like hookups... Not very logical but if you're happy then that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:10 AM
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I'm not sure what his identity has to do with this. The point is that a guy claiming to be a 9 would never come to Reddit to tell women "please don't try to fuck me, aim lower". If we are going by hookup websites, men overrate women's looks because they are tricked by makeup and filters. I guess the same applies to the women you've spoken to, or they're just saying it to be nice (definitely seen a lot of exaggerated "omg goddess" types of comments) For judging personal attractiveness, I've come …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:22 PM
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I'm really suspicious of OP's claims. He claims to be a 9. Why on earth would he come here and ask women to stop trying to sleep with him, reducing his own pool of potential sexual partners? It doesn't really sound like it's coming from the goodness of his heart. I'm trying to understand OP's goal with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:21 AM
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Why "obviously go for the 9" who's above your league* and will always only use you (per your argument)? Why not go for same league or even lower, if you are concerned about how the other person respects/treats you, go even lower for maximum worshipping! Why go for your equal in attractiveness when you can gain so much from less attractive people! Weird argument. Putting people in leagues is so cringe, *Nines are rare, and people, especially men, overestimate their attractiveness. Further, a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:01 AM
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If you think duration is enough for proof a healthy relationship, like in examples where a woman is stuck with a guy because she has zero work experience or is purely a gold digger then... Errr.... Good luck man. She was never interviewed so you don't even know if she's happy. I know a couple who have been together for 10 years and they're both psychopaths (let's say they call the police more often than me lmao), and the guy has some beliefs that fit into the RP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:28 PM
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I didn't say they don't get into relationships, I said they get only low quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:41 PM
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Why are you blaming feminism when 99% of men's problems stem from the lack of socialisation because technology took over our lives? Internet addiction and limitless access to a variety of people is the problem, not feminism. "the sexless ones might learn something from the successful men" absolutely no woman cares what you do. I have never thought "oh man, I need these random men to be single forever". I know it feels good to just blame the other side for all your problems but that's not how any…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:07 PM
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Why are you blaming feminism when 99% of men's problems stem from the lack of socialisation because technology took over our lives? Internet addiction and access to a variety of people is the problem, not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:06 PM
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1) RP tactics only work to attract golddiggers and emotionally unstable women, resulting in lack of successful long term relationships, which then results in a lot of RP men coping by saying they spin plates. I'm yet to see any of the noisy RP men's amazing, loving wives (because they don't exist). Notice how Red pillers NEVER show you how a happy relationship looks. 2) Men who need RP rarely have enough emotional intelligence not to turn into toxic people in their attempts to be seen as "sexy b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:36 AM
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"The basics are to live a healthy lifestyle (eat right and lift), dress nice, strive for more occupationally, get your finances in order, and don’t get caught up in women." Why are we giving all the credit to RP for these ideas? These are common dating suggestions from BP and no pill, combined with being yourself (behaviour). Maybe with less focus on finances. But absolutely about fitness and being clean/dressing well. The only difference is that RP says you will never be successful unless you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:22 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:42 AM
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Pffff yeah, it's all about having power over men, not protecting the women from trafficking and physical abuse. Nice lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:27 PM
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Radical feminists*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:14 PM
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How the fuck can you talk about empathy when you encourage bottling up emotions? That's obviously damaging to mental health. I never once stated how I feel about soldiers and such so you don't get to accuse me of anything. I can guarantee you're making everything up because you wouldn't be shitposting about it like this. You have nothing more of value to add so I'll mute this conversation. Learn to have more empathy, or at least understand that your approach is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:46 PM
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I would tell you who hurt me but I'm not allowed to complain because you had to kill people. Surely you must see the lack of logic in your arguments? By your logic, you also have never complained about anything because nothing is as bad as killing people. We both know that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:10 PM
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OKAY FINE Here is your Giga Victim award 🏆 Your life is officially the hardest and any person who complains about unreasonable expectations (eg. a woman's plain and natural face, unlike a man's, does not look decent apparently, so they will be fired) or anything ever just simply needs to suck it up. Nothing is ever allowed to improve because it's not as hard as killing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:05 PM
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You missed the point completely in your attempt to dismiss a rather common problem (women being required to wear makeup for some jobs) to make yourself look like the bigger victim. Children in Africa have harder jobs (and lives) than you. That doesn't mean we cannot ever complain about first world problems. This isn't a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:51 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Not sure if you realise, but women can and do have jobs where they have to kill people too. That's not a "men vs women" argument. Just admit men have it easier when it comes to looking professional. You're acting like it's a competition you have to win at any cost. "I chose a job where I had to kill someone, nobody can ever complain about anything ever because my life is the hardest! Here is my "Biggest Victim" medal to prove it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:31 PM
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YOU HAVE TO KILL PEOPLE TO KEEP YOUR JOB?! 🤣🤣🤣 Ofc I'm just joking but you are shifting goalposts. We are discussing looks here. You can compare "killing" to other things women are expected to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:20 PM
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Lol you one of those dudes desperately liking random women's posts in hopes they will notice. Do you also walk up to women you find attractive in real life and give them a thumbs up or do the heart symbol with your hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:00 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:42 AM
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Do you not realise how insane this sounds? You are mad at women for respecting and befriending men. Zero accountability on the guy's side to make his intentions clear (that they have romantic interest) and get mad at the woman for not realising it. So contradictory. Stop talking about men as if they are too dumb to understand this and so easy to exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:38 AM
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Say that to the redpill pseudoscientists please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:23 AM
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Both toxic masculinity and toxic femininity are real because they are just words to describe behaviours mostly seen displayed by one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:16 AM
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Context matters. It could be either (asshole behaviour or not) depending on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:09 AM
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🤣 A pickme is simply a female simp, stop trolling man. And both toxic masculinity and toxic femininity are real and you can google definitions that the majority of people accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:03 AM
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I agree with your comment but it sounds like you're saying OP's friends are users? Why are we assuming that? They might see him as a friend and care about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:36 AM
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I think she used "mansplain" correctly here, because while I was reading his reply to her comment I was wondering why the hell is he attacking her for something she never said. Unless I missed another comment or something, she only talked about male fertility, saying it also gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:08 PM
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Why are you replying to her comment about female fertility when she only mentioned male fertility? Why are you and a few other dudes attacking her for something she never said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:48 AM
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Where did she write about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:46 AM
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What the hell are these guys replying to? Your comment doesn't say anything about women, only men, so why are they arguing with you about something you never said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:45 AM
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Very well explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:28 AM
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So you achieved the goals of RP, like all those redpillers here who claim to be successful, yet every single one of you is still miserable and hating on women. Which is proof that RP doesn't provide long term happiness, just short term satisfaction from mediocre lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:58 PM
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I'm confused. Your beliefs are the same as mine but you're also saying I'm wrong because I'm a woman (who is in a long term relationship with her high-school partner)? You are against the red pill because of their pseudoscience (since you say you can't really understand women's nature), and also because they encourage chasing pussy instead of love. That's what I said. RP makes men think that is the right way to live, but the majority of them will fail because they will work themselves to depress…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:31 PM
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Becoming fit and having a lot going on is not unique to RP. This is stuff women tell men every time men ask what they should do to improve. But having interesting hobbies is totally different from the RP grindset and acting like women are a different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:26 PM
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Then watch Aba debate Sneako, if you're too fragile to listen to a guy everybody likes just because he enjoys different things. Same message from a straight guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:23 PM
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Apparently many guys watching these redpill shows are too young to have even experienced anything the RP complains about. They're setting up young guys for failure and also the naive older guys who might get to smash but soon realise how unfulfilling that lifestyle is. I recommend watching the debate between Aba and Sneako. Captain Sinbad is also a good example for men. He is like the RP but without vilifying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:19 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:15 PM
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How is this horrendous advice? Destiny also gets to sleep with other women, and he was and is successful with many women without being a stereotypical alpha. He makes good arguments against and pokes giant holes in many RP teachings in his recent streams. If you have a problem with Destiny then watch the debate between Aba and Sneako. Aba is straight and has mostly the same messages as Destiny. You are reinforcing the stereotype that redpillers are insecure and have no idea how to have quality r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:12 PM
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Also based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:00 PM
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It would be great if men really tried to understand female nature, but the hilarious RP pseudoscience is not it. RP men do not improve their chances of finding love, they only become more attractive to shallow leeches, the women they hate, which in turn makes them hate women even more. RP must start valuing other things in women in order to attract better partners. Men, ditch RP and watch some debates by Destiny to learn how to become real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:25 PM
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Almost all women find it insulting. Reported for trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:35 AM
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That's a great explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:23 AM
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You're being intentionally obtuse. There is a massive difference between worrying the nurse might accidentally mix up the babies and showing your wife that you don't trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:55 PM
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I think that's around my bf's height and it's great, only slightly taller than me (like 8cm or so?). I like being closer to his face. I don't like it when men tower over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:36 PM
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There are some ridiculous things, yes. But they're not in the comment you replied to. It will take years of undoing the hundreds of years that lead us to go for the careers we go for. I can't even explain exactly why I prefer working in STEM, so I wouldn't know how to encourage other women. And the issues of makeup are to do with always being told that your value is only in your looks and the fact that most women use it. So a woman who chooses not to use makeup will feel more unattractive than s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:34 AM
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That happens when you don't give fair explanations of issues. You give some very simplistic examples of issues without understanding why they happen. I do agree with most of your points though, I do pay half (or more when I make more) and right now I make more than my guy while working at a traditionally men's job in STEM, but I also understand why most women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:25 AM
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When you say "teaches us about X", you are generalising.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:18 AM
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The whole "paying" thing is more about showing the woman that he is able to provide for her and their future children, because women desire stability (a stable income, not worrying about bills), especially when the woman is pregnant and maybe unable to work. The last thing you want during pregnancy is to worry whether you will be able to keep the house and feed your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:11 AM
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Not faux. Unfortunately her comment misses the many reasons why women end up going for jobs that pay less, and why they use makeup. It's not as simple as just "don't buy it". This is a whole offtopic conversation that you can google about if you're interested. But I already have the feeling that you're not interested in the truth, "feminism bad" amirite?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:57 AM
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She said some women, not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:34 AM
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Okay, anti-science bro, whatever you say. Another emotional comment with zero logic. I repeat: Less emotion, more thinking. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:30 AM
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Not most but many men do deal with stress that way. It's a terrible thing to claim one gender is better at handling stress than the other. I just don't believe your stories are true because it doesn't make sense. You would want to keep your secrets to yourself because you wouldn't want to make more competition for yourself. Why help other men steal women from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:26 AM
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I know this is the reason for some guys but I would bet it's not for most. The reason is more simple than that - the dopamine is just too easy to get with minimal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:19 AM
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But your example is also extreme. We don't normally share one man between ten women. The world mostly functions in a way that men and women pair up for life. So my man has the most value to me, and women will never have value to me. The value to the society as a whole is mostly irrelevant to individual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:09 AM
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What context is this "inherent worth" about? If anything, wouldn't the study prove otherwise, since men were viewed as more complete humans? As a woman, other women don't have this "value" to me, men do. And women have value to men. I never understood this "inherent value" stuff. Women can't have children with other women. Value changes. If all men except one disappeared, he would be the most valuable human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:43 AM
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What? So you think all or most men were using prostitutes? Coomers really hate to admit there are men out there who aren't addicted to porn like they are. For science, I would love for the internet to go down for a month or more and see you guys panic. I didn't realise we live in a world where every single man has access to porn or prostitutes!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:20 AM
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It's a bad example because cake isn't free or in endless supply with instant access. Even guys who aren't properly addicted are negatively affected in many ways, from not getting so excited to fuck their wives, not being able to keep it up, to completely avoiding real women because it's easier to watch porn. It's one of the reasons why sexlessness and loneliness is increasing and I know a few guys irl who are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:08 AM
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He is totally right. Men and women handle stress differently. Women rant for a few minutes, while men smash furniture and hit their women. /s Edit: Holy shit this guy dedicates a lot of time to writing redpill strats. I don't believe he is real, it all sounds like his fantasy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:03 AM
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I've read that comment as well and I think you got a little bit too emotional so you were unable to read it properly. The commenter didn't propose we do anything, they just said that it would be better for the society if there were less men, which is no different than saying "the planet would be healthier with fewer humans", which is a fact AND does not mean anyone is calling for mass executions. Do not let your emotions cloud your thoughts and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:04 AM
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I'm talking about men's interactions with other men, not about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:12 PM
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Probably just bored of talking about the same thing a thousand times?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:41 PM
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I love gaming and I agree that eliminating it would force a lot of guys to stop escaping reality. I know too many guys who would benefit from that and it's sad. That's why China limits how long young people can play games. Of course I would never want games to be restricted, and personally I was able to succeed in my personal life while also gaming a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:58 AM
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Women would have to work out for years to do a construction job the same way as an average guy who never works out. I don't even know how much years of lifting would help since our upper bodies are built so different. So it's not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:34 AM
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Your solutions, which of course sound great in theory, could breed some serious problems. The main one being that if people could afford to live solo, less people would feel the need to get into a relationship and end up having kids, resulting in less workers, which is something that is already kind of happening (for multiple reasons). Another issue is that many people are already educated but still unable to find good jobs, plus the society benefits from restricting access to education for some…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:29 AM
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Do you have any male friends? Most of my friends are guys and many of them do the exact same thing. So there goes your biological explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:50 PM
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KiloChad, MegaChad, GigaChad, TeraChad, PetaChad...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:59 AM
2

Great comment. I would also add that in most relationships, even if both partners work, the woman still ends up doing most of the house chores/unpaid labour, so it's only fair that the guy pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:33 AM
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Please stop making things up just to make yourself feel better. Improve yourself instead. Your life will never improve if all you do is pretend women are to blame for your lack of success. It's like a jobless person being mad they have to work to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:45 AM
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Why do you make it sounds like men in relationships slave away for sex when in reality both people contribute to the relationship and get more sex than people who sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:39 AM
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People don't call "men who speak about dating struggles" incels. They only call them incels when it's clear that they hate women and blame women for all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:30 AM
1

Really good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:42 PM
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You think they don't have ugly backgrounds. Like some people I know, them and their families put on a wholesome act but the behind-the-scenes is riddled with drama and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:02 AM
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Facts. I was going to say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:56 AM
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I didn't mention CC but as I understand it, you're in favour of it and I think the culture of sleeping around is over-glorified and nobody actually gets that much enjoyment from the "variety". The intimacy and convenience of sex in a relationship is underrated by people who obsess over numbers, they just seem like they have no life or hobbies outside of chasing sex. There are countless other studies showing that because people are social creatures, our brains are wired to enjoy deep connections …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:55 PM
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Studies show the opposite. Married men are happier than married women and single women are happier than single men. Men often get what basically feels like a second mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:46 PM
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Your whole comment is just a massive cope. You talk as if there are no confident, hot and good men. Nobody cares if you want to sleep around without committing, you are free to do that, but many guys will be more than happy to not do that and get a girlfriend. I'm sure you are aware that married men are generally the most happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:45 PM
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Sometimes terrible comments don't deserve more than a one-word insult. Any argument against the view would be ignored anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:35 PM
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Attractive people don't get anxious?? Of course they do, because if she has many options then the guys she's actually interested in will also have many. When was the last time you spoke to a human woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:04 AM
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And then they wonder why they have no luck with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:32 AM
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Bruh who cares about the opinions of some anons? I don't care what your opinion about my reddit account is. You didn't even look at my user name. Why do you think women care? Obviously everyone cares about opinions in real life but nobody is here to make friends, we are here to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:29 AM
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You completely missed the point. You're acting like women's sexuality is the same as men's. The point is to see if the guy cares about the woman as a person. Once she feels he is truly into her, I'm pretty sure they have plenty of sex (in most cases). If a guy refuses to wait then clearly he wasn't very into her and he didn't think she's worth it. It's a good way to filter people out. 9 months is very strange though and she is probably using him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:19 AM
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You completely missed the point. The point is to see if the guy cares about the woman as a person. Once she feels he is truly into her, I'm pretty sure they have plenty of sex (in most cases). 9 months is very strange though and she is probably using him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:14 AM
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Then why don't men actually do the things that increase their chances of getting sex? Most men don't work out nor learn skills to become more attractive so I disagree that it's in their nature. Most things men do are for their own enjoyment, like gaming or collecting cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:05 PM
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No, the comment doesn't cover an important point. I have asked out the two guys I was interested in (with success), but I understand why many won't. In a recent thread, women discussed how men saying "I will say yes to any girl who approaches me" is a bad thing because you don't know if the guy likes you for you or if he's just going to use you because you are his only option. Some said that guys will not put in as much effort into the relationship if they are not the pursuers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:48 AM
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Nope. The motivation is not having to rely on somebody else to provide for you and be left with nothing if you end up separating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:32 PM
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u/Impossible_Dealer421 I'm pretty sure I understand why you got banned, and it has nothing to do with feminism, but nobody on here will tell you that because they're here only to be hateful. You got banned because saying "not all X" is very dismissive and it's said very often when it's not needed. "Not all white people hate black people" ok? But nobody is saying all white people, yet there is a not-insignificant amount. "Not all feminists hate men". Ok and? Can we shut this subreddit down now be…
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 09:15 AM
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You were not feminists then, because you didn't take the time to understand the movement. People who really understand feminism don't convert. Every religion has extremists, but that's not why people quit their religions.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 09:05 AM
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LOL I was going to accuse you of making this up, and then I googled it... YOU DID MAKE THIS UP. The only other page google shows is a post by you. This doesn't happen in real life. People in your original post also called bs. This is no more than your hate-fantasy rooted in some personal issues.
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/22 08:55 AM
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Aba and Preach despise fresh and fit. I never watched FAF outside of Aba and Preach's videos on them but they seem like total losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:43 PM
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Yes. Marriage Rate Graph - this one is only for the USA, but other countries have a similar trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:49 PM
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First time on PPD? Or did I word it incorrectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:44 PM
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Humans can adjust to any living situation fairly well, but quality of life would definitely be better if we let earth grow back some of its forests, if we didn't produce so much trash, have to live in housing blocks and tourist destinations weren't so overcrowded. Many houses in my country don't even have a garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:42 PM
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Why is it born at all? There could be many reasons why a woman would or wouldn't abort, but money alone should never be the reason. Money comes and money goes. When two adults have sex, they both know the risk of the woman getting pregnant, and should be ready to live with the consequences. If nothing is done to interrupt the pregnancy, there will be a child, and the man must accept that. If the man doesn't want a child, he should communicate this before having sex. This would prevent the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:32 PM
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I was agreeing with you until the extinction part. That's simply impossible. It would be amazing for the planet and for future humanity if we had a big drop in population. We wouldn't have to live on top of each other anymore and fight for limited resources. And of course western people are still having kids, just later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:04 PM
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It's rare that you would have a child which has no features similar to their father. Some studies even claim that children are more likely to look like their dads than mums (this is debated, but quick research shows mostly support for the idea).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:45 PM
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That's such a non-answer... Obviously children grow up. You can see many similarities to their parents when children are 3 years old. 5 years old. 7, 10. In some RARE cases, the child won't look like the parents, but most children will have some similarities. There are even studies claiming children are more likely to look like their dad than mum (there is some debate on this but there is some support for this idea).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:36 PM
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"women happiness is more important than men's rights." The child's life is more important than the man's rights* Once it is decided that the child will be born, its wellbeing will be prioritised over the man wanting to save a couple bucks. Taxpayers should not be made to pay for other people's kids, that's even more unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:18 PM
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Is it more fair to force everybody else, meaning the taxpayers, to pay for a child they didn't create, than the father?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:10 PM
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I was going to comment the same, I'm glad to see someone else already did. Your comments in general are some of the most reasonable and best thought-out ones on this subreddit. Instead of making laws with many loopholes and which punish the children for being born, people should normalize having the very unsexy conversation of "What are we gonna do if contraception fails?" before sex, and not sleep with incompatible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:05 PM
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The idea of (the waste of money that is) marriage is dying out so that's not really gonna help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:59 PM
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How does this dumb theory explain men soon realising the kid isn't theirs because it looks nothing like them? He will have a natural urge to murder the child (not, just exaggerating like these theories do), and women would never want to risk their children's lives like that for a few bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:27 PM
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The main flaw in this dumb argument is that it's often easy to tell when a child isn't related to the father, and women wouldn't be so stupid to risk having their children killed by the "beta" who would soon realise the kid isn't theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:19 PM
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I'm not saying you're wrong but couldn't there be some confirmation bias? Maybe you haven't met a lot of the women who are still virgins in college. I know that other factors (people living with their parents longer on average and such) increase sexlessness but I don't know if that's the same as the 80-20 thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:17 AM
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"Which is it?" I'm not sure why you're confused by this. It's like asking if you should be shouting or whispering in a conversation. Extremes of most things are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:07 PM
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That's not a fact. The fact is that women 10 years ago did not find 80% of the selfies men took attractive. No other conclusions can be made from this information. 10 years ago, only certain kinds of people actively used the internet and even considered online dating. It was viewed as really embarrassing to meet someone online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:22 PM
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You should also write a poem about all the children you rescued from the streets and gave them amazing lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:23 PM
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I see. That does make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:51 PM
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When was it decided that men are problem-solvers? Many people say this, yet there are so many guys with mountains of problems they would rather ignore than solve. And I as a woman, and my mum, are ones to try to solve problems instead of just listening. I feel useless when I hear someone has a problem I can't help them solve, and I don't think it's rare for women to be like this?? I understand that sometimes when women rant about something, they might just be looking to vent and not get advice b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:40 AM
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There definitely is, which is why I said most guys. Or maybe there are many more but they're too embarrassed to admit being interested in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:52 PM
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I think women, regardless of their relationship satisfaction, are much more likely to be interested in reading about/discussing this type of stuff than happy men. I believe that most unhappy men, if they found happiness, would leave this sub shortly after because it would be no longer helpful/relevant to them. To me, going on here and r/relationships is like watching a romance movie, except it's unscripted, real, and much more dramatic, so it's way more entertaining. And sometimes I can educate …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:38 PM
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All the same here, minus the newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:32 PM
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If "his chances deminish" then he wins. Why would he want to date a weirdo who pretends to want to split just to appear like a good person? That sounds toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:33 AM
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"I mean it's (gold digging) biologically based" How do you reach that conclusion? Women don't get to choose to date broke men. They are forced, by how the society is structured, to be with men who can provide for the family when they are unable to because they just gave birth and have to look after their children because so many guys are hopeless at it. Almost no woman would care about a guy having money if we lived in a world where the children were guaranteed a good life regardless of how much…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:21 AM
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There is also a problem with the male results: It's often that men have seen a woman they met online in real life and were severely disappointed with how she looks because she used photo tricks and makeup to appear better-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:03 AM
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I agree that some feminists make cringy broad generalisations but every movement, religion, and etc. has extremists and in my opinion that shouldn't stop you from being part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:48 PM
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You should add /s because it's not very clear that you're joking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:52 PM
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I'm not saying there aren't couples who fight frequently, I know a few of those, but specifically that I don't know any women who pick fights purely for control/dominance/shit-testing. I can't even imagine how a fight like that would start, so I would appreciate some specific examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:17 AM
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We've been together for nearly 10 years. Both early 20s. We live like a married couple, will probably elope some day just for tax and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:30 AM
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Could you give me some specific examples of the pointless shit-testing fights these women pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:16 AM
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That's why I'm here - to speak the truths that other people don't have the balls to speak. I don't think so. It takes 0 balls to post anonymous comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:10 AM
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None of the women I know pick fights with their boyfriends/husbands "for control and dominance". Where do you get this insane idea from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:55 AM
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How is that any different from guys "shitting their pants" about women going after men out of their league, the "Chads", which we see on this sub very often?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:55 PM
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Do you genuinely enjoy the company of 18 year olds? I would feel really awkward yet I'm not much older and pretty childish myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:13 PM
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Gaming is not STEM but it's is a perfect example of something that women didn't do just because it was seen as "for nerdy men only". As women were shown how fun games are, more and more got into gaming. Another example is that men used to wear makeup hundreds of years ago, but today it's seen as a "women's thing", and men don't use it. *Only because that's what they learned from their culture/society.*Also, you absolutely do not need to have an unhealthy obsession, there are many resources avail…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:30 PM
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Ok, so my confusion was because you wrote in your first comment "women ARE interested in STEM" instead of "aren't". Not really sure what to tell you. Your experience is opposite to mine. Last week, I attended an event for Women in STEM where there were hundreds of women passionate about tech. I personally also find it really interesting, and achieve top grades in my assignments. Discrimination is definitely a thing in some places because guys want to keep it a "boys club" kind of environment. ST…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:41 PM
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Your joke shows that it's not a gender thing, it's all about social status and wealth. It disproves the rest of your comment claiming that people only care about gender. That's all there is to it. You shot yourself in the foot. Just move on. Edit: Fun read though, but it makes me feel kinda bad you spent so much time on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:52 PM
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WFH being a thing now should help with that. Much easier to balance having a job and taking care of the house and kids when you can work from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:50 PM
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Sorry, I'm not sure what you're trying to say here? Women complaining about the lack of women in STEM have no idea what the real issue behind that problem is: women (the vast majority not the few exceptions) are actually interested in STEM. Ok. You're saying women are interested in STEM. How does that mean that women don't understand what the issue is? Did you mean to say they aren't interested in STEM? If so, hardly any woman would put herself through years of uni only to make her parents proud…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:42 PM
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They're all becoming nurses. I'm a woman studying IT and all of the computing and engineering courses have like 1-5 girls and about 50 guys. I do not think that we would ever have a perfect balance in those fields but these numbers are definitely not what they should be. If my dad wasn't a techie, I would've probably ended up in some stereotypical female role myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:49 PM
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Ok so it was a joke, which means you have ridiculed your own argument before making it? I don't see how that helps anything. Your joke shows that it's not a gender thing, it's all about social status and wealth. It disproves the rest of your comment claiming that people only care about gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:40 PM
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I mean nobody said women have to pick one YOU TOLD ME TO PICK ONE in your previous comment wtf?? Please. Take two fucking minutes to think about what you just wrote. You would 100% be more worried for your female family members in a broken down car in the middle of the night than your male family members. Almost all men get to live their whole lives being stronger than almost all women on earth. Women are more likely to be raped if out on their own. To balance out this biological unfairness, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:16 PM
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Don't need to pick one, holy shit. Nobody ever argued that women are biologically the same as men. But women can do many of the same jobs as men equally as well. Next thing you're gonna tell me is women shouldn't be allowed to vote!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:10 PM
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"Haha jk (not really)"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:52 PM
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Then clearly you have no idea what you just wrote because the rest of your comment shows it was more than a joke because you actually believe it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:36 PM
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That's a bit of a shit comparison. You're comparing a billionaire to an average person. But obviously, if you tried to compare fairly, you wouldn't have a point. For the second half of your comment; Nobody cares about the DATING issues of the opposite gender because it's not a big deal compared to actual issues like employment and education where men had more privilege (and in certain places still have). Men don't care about women's dating issues either and they're not expected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:23 PM
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It doesn't take a genius to understand why this happened. You're just mad and refusing to put yourself in the shoes of a woman who is an easy target for rape or robbery if stuck on her own in the middle of nowhere. Easier target than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:22 PM
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Sorry but this may be the dumbest thing I've read on this subreddit, and I've seen some wild shit. Men would do the exact same thing as women. They would go for hotter skinnier girls with bigger boobs and asses, who can cook the best meals, fulfil various fantasies, have amazing personalities, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:31 AM
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You choose to view it that way, and you can't blame women for that. Just stop viewing it as a reward and start seeing it for what it is - an activity that makes two people happy. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:16 PM
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You're looking at it completely wrong. Just because it sounds like it could make sense doesn't make it true. "their girlfriend made them jump through hoops" If you've read yesterdays thread, you've definitely seen the comment explaining that women DO want to sleep with "boyfriend material" guys but don't do it because they don't want to seem "easy" as many men would slut-shame them and lose interest. It's the same as men lying about having experience in bed when they're actually 30-year-old virg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:13 PM
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So you'd rather fuck a woman once a year than multiple times a week? Please don't cry on reddit that men don't get any sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:04 PM
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Did you mean to say "the fact that you agree with his feelings"? I wouldn't get into a relationship with my bf if I knew he slept around in the past, but I also wouldn't dump him if I now found out he did. My feelings would be hurt, for a while. But so what, if we have a great relationship? I guess "The end justifies the means" and not everything can be black-and-white.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:05 PM
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What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:01 PM
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Please see my edit. It is a lie, yes, but there is really nothing wrong with sleeping around. I say this as somebody who is against it for various reasons, but I recognise it's not morally wrong. It's not like she killed somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:41 PM
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That's a pretty bad example. By that logic looks fade and he will abuse her when she stops being hot. It's not moral, but the guy never has to find out she slept around. (I don't support it, I'm just saying how it is)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:23 PM
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Why do you think they don't see this? Of course they do (or at least I hope so). Men lie about having experience in bed because they're afraid that the woman will think he's a weirdo for being a virgin. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:20 PM
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They don't represent women the same way incels don't represent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:35 PM
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"She didn't want you to think that she's easy" that is literally it. That is the answer, well explained. Case closed. Edit: I'm not saying it's something I'd do. I wouldn't sleep around. But I also don't think it's a bad thing if someone does, I just wouldn't want to date them. It's comparable to men lying about having experience in bed when they're actually virgins. They don't want to be judged and for the women to be creeped out and lose interest. (this does not reflect my views, there is noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:12 PM
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Of course any reasonable "high value" man would see that feminist as wifey material, because he recognises it would be unfair for the woman to work same hours as him and then come back home to slave away while he gets to play video games. Not every man is lazy like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:01 PM
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But the vast majority of women who want men to pay for dates do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:34 PM
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What the hell did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:33 PM
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This should be the top comment. This is always said and immediately forgotten and we end up having this discussion so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:50 PM
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Because it is. There is a big difference between a guy who can have any but chooses one and a guy who goes through them all. I would not like the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:40 PM
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Your links don't prove your point, you just showed gender % by subject but not their grades nor how much the % changes each year. I think you misunderstood the previous commenter, they didn't say women already outnumber and outperform men but I've also seen articles saying they're starting to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:38 PM
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Not limited to any group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:27 AM
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Nah, I'm cool with all people until they show that they are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:12 AM
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Women make more money too or (often AND) become better homemakers. Compare a 40 year old woman to a 20 year old who's just learning how to cook, live independently, manage all paperwork like documents and bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:48 PM
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So you're getting many dates but the women don't have the same interests as you, isn't it possible to ask them about their interests before you both waste each others time by going out to dinner? Are you also adding women who might be intelligent but not that hot on their profile pictures? Many women are told their entire lives to focus on their looks and on being good mothers and wives. And you have the weirdos on here who say they couldn't care less about what career or degree their women have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:29 PM
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People value a combination of Looks + Personality + Intelligence. If you are often misunderstood, you might not be as intelligent as you think, or your communication skills are so bad that conversing with you is not enjoyable. Why would a woman want to be with someone she can't have a good conversation with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:19 PM
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You wish lmao. When I'm focusing on uni assignments, I stop checking my inbox to avoid getting sucked into a time consuming debate, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:24 PM
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I know one girl at uni (I think she's 20) who fits your description well. Also I've seen a bunch of girls in my age range (early 20's) obsess over a character from "Arcane", Viktor. Skinny nerdy guy. But I don't know how well that translates to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:45 PM
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Most replies on this sub are honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:42 PM
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Several studies being maybe one or two from online dating websites where women wear makeup and pose in ways that make them look most attractive. Guys take unflattering photos and often look much better irl. I don't know about women but I guess they usually look less attractive irl than in photos, at least I know I do when I take selfies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:23 PM
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While this value thing may be true to you because it makes you feel better to pretend that women have lower value as human beings, that is not the case for "normal" people who don't struggle to find a quality partner. You know, those kinds of couples who see each other as equals, both contributing equally to the relationship and experiencing the great things life has to offer together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:41 PM
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Lol what? How can you say "someone only has to step outside into the real world", when doing just that will prove YOU wrong? If you actually go outside, you will see that attractive women in your city are not dating superstar billionaires. Both your and the person you replied to comments drip of "No real life experience and too much TV/internet"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:36 PM
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As a woman, that is exactly what I would do!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:59 PM
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Let me rephrase since you seem confused - Where is the evidence of career women being "like men, therefore unattractive"? I don't need evidence for the well-known psychology on agreeableness, I'm asking for real examples of those disgusting career women. Because I know for a fact this is all your imagination. Also let me amaze you, many career men are not disagreeable assholes!!! They're cool and nice guys! SHOCKER! https://gyazo.com/9096bc2805ca475ab84af9351d84910d https://gyazo.com/f6857f0b407…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:12 PM
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How is it fair that women have to take pills every single day, which are among many other issues, linked to blood clots and breast cancer? How is it fair that you get to not wear a condom? How is it fair to the child who didn't ask to be born that his mother is a liar and his father knew the real risk that there is a chance the woman is lying (or pill fails) and he still took his chances? It's only truly unfair to the man if he wore a condom or had the snip and the woman still got pregnant becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:58 PM
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All evidence here is anecdotal. You threw us a little bit of well-known psychology but gave no real examples, so I gave you some real examples. I also asked for proof and was given none. I can't see your comment votes so I thank you for informing me that somebody actually downvoted you. I haven't voted on your comment lol, what a risky thing to accuse someone of when it can backfire so badly. Yikes. Edit: My previous comment has 2 upvotes :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:30 PM
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Not sure what the two posts about Japanese men have to do with the points you've made earlier, but to comment on that subject, the issue with the whole "toxic masculinity" topic is that there is no clear explanation of how to be masculine without being toxic, so guys take "avoiding being toxic" to the very extreme and as a result end up very passive and unattractive. It's a complicated thing to explain but men like my boyfriend know how to be masculine and hot without being toxic. It's easy to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:23 PM
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I've come across many career women and they have all been very different. No, I haven't seen any timid push-overs in power, but just because they were confident and knew what they wanted, does not mean they were like men. I also saw a post recently (I think on r/TrueOffMyChest) where a guy said the more his wife got promoted at work, the more submissive she became to him. (could have been a fake post of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:34 PM
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You must have clicked on the wrong comment because I didn't say anything funny. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:30 PM
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LMAO fuck off, I never said or even implied that and you know it. I did say it makes the woman a bad person but you are also responsible if you decide to have sex without a condom. And the core of the whole argument is about what's fair for the CHILD, not the woman. The child doesn't deserve to be punished for their mom being a bad person and their dad wanting to get their dick wet so badly he refused to wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:21 PM
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Good thing women aren't known for that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:40 AM
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Do you think you were a better, more interesting person with more knowledge when you were, say, 18, or now, when you (judging by your comments) are 30+ years old? Or were you immature and clueless about life back then? Would you say you lost all your value? And as the other commenter just said, some old cars do become more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:51 PM
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She might be into it but don't forget that all the other women in this subreddit said this is not true. If one guy came here and said he likes being forced by the woman to take it up his ass, it does not mean most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:39 PM
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something that claims to be of high quality, but really isn't If, to you, women only have value because of reasons related to sex, just buy a sexdoll dude. As humans age, they usually become more mature, more experienced in life, have more knowledge, etc., so they don't lose value, they gain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:23 PM
3

most career women look and act like men... Hhaahahahah! Nice parody account. Great stuff. On a serious note, I'm very curious where you're getting this information from. Not from the real world, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:13 PM
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The fact that women hold 100% of the responsibility for protection when you refuse to wear a condom is massively unfair already. The pill and other ways of preventing pregnancy all come with multiple disadvantages to the woman just so the man can nut freely. It definitely makes the woman a bad person if she lies about taking the pill but you chose to sleep with her without a condom, you knew the risk, and even if she did take the pill, it fails sometimes, so you should be responsible. With that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:10 PM
1

From my experience none of this is true As I said, none of this. I asked for examples, but I highly doubt you will be able to find any evidence to support your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:53 PM
2

From my experience none of this is true, I wish people arguing this would post some evidence. Where in mainstream media have people said "kill all men"? (no angsty teenager blogs please, that's not a good example) When did feminists say they're against men's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:55 AM
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Thank you for explaining this to him, I want to roll my eyes so hard every time I see people bring up that stupid statistic from a completely unfair study (and with women having the advantage of makeup and knowing how to take good looking photos). Also, if 80% of men on tinder are below average, they probably rate Tinder women higher than they actually are because they have lower standards, hence the big difference in results. I hate that study, there are too many things that you need to control…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:12 PM
0

Hahahah I say the exact same thing. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:03 PM
1

And how do you know the real reasons? Have you spoken to a thousand self-aware and unbiased divorcees? Were you at their dinner tables when their marriages were falling apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:26 PM
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People lie all the time, so we can never believe anything and you are wasting my time making me read your comments too because your "truth" is also a lie, you can say "people lie in studies" and be right but you can't claim to know their real reasons, both they and you are biased. People will say whatever makes them look good. They will never tell you the full list of reasons for a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:28 PM
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You spoke to thousands of divorcees?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:32 AM
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"Research has found the most common reasons people give for their divorce are lack of commitment, too much arguing, infidelity, marrying too young, unrealistic expectations, lack of equality in the relationship, lack of preparation for marriage, and abuse."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:41 AM
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What women are you talking about? I don't see many toxic women on PPD. Maybe those posts don't show up on my feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:17 PM
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I HATE arguing with those I care about. But arguing with strangers who say toxic things online? Exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:28 AM
7

I'm the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:25 AM
1

I don't understand your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:15 PM
1

Out of 6 of my closest female friends, 5 of them are a few points above their boyfriends in terms of being objectively good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:12 PM
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And do the men who date "ugly" women believe their women are ugly or is that your opinion? Either way, online dating isn't really the same as real life. You "line up" a bunch of people and choose the most attractive one, and guys 100% would go for hotter options if they were available to them. In real life it's not that straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:53 PM
1

I don't know, it's kinda hard to believe MOST of the men you know could do better and are all amazing giga chads. That does not sound realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:20 PM
1

Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:18 PM
1

Are women more superficial than men? Wouldn't men do the same if, like women, they had more opportunities in online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:33 PM
1

"It had nothing to do with "too dumb" or "too emotional", stop de-valuing women." Don't say that to me, say that to the men who believe it, and obviously you'll hear it from women too who have been raised to believe it as well (nature vs nurture). The same way terrorists have been raised and brainwashed to think what they're doing is "good". There are also men who still refuse to hire women because "women = drama", or because they want to upkeep the "frat boy culture", which is prevalent in many…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:59 PM
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It's kinda funny you are trying to call me a bigot when the article you linked says the exact same thing... This article You're also a little confused about why women are being recruited. Men ran the world in the past, and absolutely nothing stopped them from doing whichever job they desired, while women were pushed to do "ladylike" jobs because it was believed women are too dumb, too emotional and that they need to focus on raising 10 kids instead of having a career. Edit: From another article …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:25 AM
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I know, but I doubt this actually happens often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:06 AM
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Yeah, I find it very weird that people actually think divorces happen just because of one thing going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:05 AM
1

But women generally get different degrees to men, so unless they decide to change their specialisation after graduating, it's not really such a simple explanation as Women more degree = Men less job
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:56 PM
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"Women being in the workforce obviously lowers the jobs available for men" Yes and no. I said "Not really" because OP made it sound like the whole other gender is now applying for all jobs. But women and men generally get different degrees, which is why, if you research tech or engineering companies, you'll see the teams are majority men. 1) Just because the male-dominated jobs are recruiting women doesn't mean there are a ton of applicants. Small numbers is exactly why they have to aggressively…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:53 PM
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You should re-read her comment. It would be hypergamy if she said she would leave her man if a better one came along. But spending 15 years with a person adds to their value, and nothing can top that. No Lambo or long schlong. She chose the best and didn't settle for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:45 AM
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/u/ToughAnswers You replied that it's more difficult for men to get jobs if women now apply for them as well. My reply was: Not really. It's not like women are all aggressively applying for male-dominated jobs. Lots of women are applying to feminine jobs men don't want to do like beauty, nursing, and such. I'm studying a STEM degree and out of a class of about 100, only 3 were women and that's how it still is in many places. What about the rest of my comment? Aren't you making generalisations ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:32 AM
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(Need to re-post this comment because the main comment chain somebody else made was removed. Collateral damage.) Am I reading this study wrong? If husband is unemployed, the divorce probability is only 3.3%, and when the wife is unemployed, the divorce probability is only slightly lower at 2.5%? This is supposed be significant and groundbreaking? Also some interesting bit from the study: "Involuntary nonemployment may negatively affect marriages more strongly than voluntary nonemployment, by aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:31 AM
4

hell yeah my dude 😂😁🤣 PREACH KING
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:52 AM
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😂😂😂OH MAN YOU GOT ME GOOD THERE BRO😂😂😂 YOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:05 AM
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Don't feed the troll. Nothing will convince me that guy isn't trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:28 PM
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"government incentive$ to hire women" It's not fair to the men searching for work today who did not create this male-dominated society, but it's a good way to speed up something that would otherwise take many years to change. I've read stories of men who simply refused to hire women for sexist reasons (eg. believing women = drama, or pregnancy). It would also take a certain kind of woman to "pave the way" for others, women who don't mind being the first woman in a team full of men. I wouldn't mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:49 PM
2

Weird but true. 2D > 3D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:03 AM
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+1 for Leone (I'm not gay IRL but anime girls are different haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:20 AM
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Katsuki for me! If he wasn't so mean to Deku and didn't shout so much, he would be perfect. I hope once he grows up he will learn to be nicer. I hated him at first but he quickly became my favourite when he wouldn't accept 1st place without truly beating Todoroki. He also respected Uraraka (I expected him to say it will be easy vs a girl). He's passionate, hard working and immediately admitted he was the one to start the fight with Deku instead of trying to avoid blame. Just some examples off th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:14 AM
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Yeah, weed is fine. I despise what it does to those close to me and how they smoke it all the fking time, but it's their choice and mostly harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:54 PM
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Does it though? You'll see way more comments like the above than ones saying a woman has paid fully for a date or split 50/50, it's like restaurant reviews - most happy customers won't leave a review, but the angry ones often will. Currently, I pay for most things in my relationship and my bf drives me everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:39 AM
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A little off topic but drugs should definitely stay illegal, the world doesn't need more addicts who rob or kill people for drug money or endanger other people's lives with unpredictable behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:56 PM
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As another comment here said, even abusers think they're nice guys who were just "provoked to do bad things". So how do you decide which guys are nice? Have you asked nice guys in relationships about their experience? Some people are nice to some but mean to others. It's obvious that everybody will say they are nice, but are they really? Off the top of my head, I personally know at least 4 couples where the guys are sometimes abusive (like verbal abuse or even stealing money from their partner) …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:37 PM
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You're saying if a woman hasn't seen another woman grope a man, then she has no social life. Outside of clubs, where am I supposed to see women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:26 PM
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Dude she's a complete bitch with no empathy, but you completely misunderstood the video. She DID say he was a doormat, he was "over-pleasing". She said she would verbally abuse him and he would either agree or stay silent. He would do everything she asked for. That is the DEFINITION of doormat. Doormat: a submissive person who allows others to dominate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:46 PM
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Are you implying going to clubs the only way to have a social life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:36 PM
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Yet you completely missed the point. No man is getting a (sane) woman if he is never nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:24 PM
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You didn't even read my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:40 AM
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They don't LTR them. I know it's hard to imagine but "asshole guys" aren't usually assholes 24/7. It's most often that when the asshole guy is happy, he treats his woman well, or when he feels like she's going to leave him, he will act like the perfect man, but when he has a bad day she will get treated like shit. And the woman will excuse it as "he's not usually like that". Just as one example. No man is getting a (sane) woman if he is never nice. "Right, because they're ugly, not because they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:35 PM
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"you can take niceness away and women will still be attracted" To sleep with, not to LTR. Just like men. And men won't be attracted to ugly nice girls either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:55 PM
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You mentioned stats, so I gave you a stat. But you don't like the stat so it must be a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:13 PM
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The stats say that men message mainly the hottest women while women message guys they rate as average and above.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:31 AM
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Have you considered that the successful tinder guys would almost never come here so you can't say this is "every mans tinder experience"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:53 AM
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You've written a thousand comments in 2 years, are you sure you go out often enough? Or observed and interacted much with real women (not online)? Don't mean for this to sound offensive, just that it doesn't seem like you're telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:20 PM
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Rise in sexlessness isn't just because of Tinder. Top search result : Male Sexlessness is Rising But Not for the Reasons Incels Claim
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:02 AM
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It's clear a lot of these guys have either no real-life experience, hence their hyper-focusing on Tinder. Small amount of them actually lives in crappy areas like small towns with limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:59 AM
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It's easy yet most guys won't do it, or they will only do it at the start of the relationship and then get bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:01 PM
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"men generally have no problem admitting they're pieces of shit.", guys here definitely do. Any guy who is successful with women = chad abuser. Them = sweet guys who do no wrong, who just want to love and be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:19 AM
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This should be the top comment. Perfectly explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:06 AM
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You have some issues my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:59 PM
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Because this guy is constantly being fed negative stories about women, so he's gonna think every woman is like that and be even more depressed? Are you saying it's better to flood him with "women are the devil" stories? How could that possibly make him feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:27 PM
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How can someone like you or an average PDD man who has little experience with women (especially little HEALTHY experience) make such assumptions about all women, and dismiss any insight from someone like me who actually spoke to women who date toxic men and asked them why they do it? Guys who were dumped for men they see as "abusers" will obviously be biased because they are angry, they will never try to be fair to the people who hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:55 PM
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Then how come I don't do it, and none of my friends do? Is it a cultural thing? What hellhole are you fishing those women out of? "The only way women have to achieve what they want", what do they want that they can't get through normal communication? Since I have no context, I'll ask; have you considered you might be in the wrong in those situations, since people don't usually act mental for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:28 PM
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That's not what normal women do. Don't date crazy bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:22 PM
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Men don't report being abused as much as women do, and don't talk about it as much. Yet apparently women also abuse men a lot. It. Is. Not. A. Gender. Thing. You're the one doing gymnastics to make it seem like men only ever choose non-abusive, sweet girls, over the hot crazy bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:48 AM
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Men do too. We have discovered nothing today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:44 AM
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So you're telling me no man dates crazy abusive bitches just because they're hot? Do you not see that none of these things are gendered, and they can't be generalised? I'm not any pill, and if anything, you're the one pulling lines from some "all women are bad" script.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:41 AM
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Maybe she was toxic, or maybe you are just perfect for somebody else, but not for her, and she was just more attracted to her ex's looks and lifestyle (let's be honest, he is a human with skills and hobbies too). Like I actually wouldn't date a party guy, because I find that lifestyle boring. I'm very happy with my gamer boyfriend being home with me, and we also enjoy travelling. Anyway, she couldn't have been that good if she went back to an abusive rapist. You didn't lose much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:37 AM
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The guys in this thread sure do love being victims, "I was a perfect prince charming and she still left me for this waste of space abuser", completely dismissing any other reasons why she was attracted to the other guy. Your comment isn't really disproving mine. Also, men always complain a ton about their wives. Why do men date and marry bitches? Or maybe they don't and people all have their issues? I can guarantee a lot of these "nice guys" in this thread are abusive in their own ways, emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:03 AM
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Correlation does not equal causation. Lots of people are assholes. People are complex. You are also assuming the people dating all those abusers aren't abusive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:57 PM
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"Many antagonistic." Thats funny, because most of my comments just take the guys comment and flip the genders. And if you have really seen my comments then you would know I don't deny that some women will prefer a hot abuser over a boring guy, especially if the abuse is not physical. It's observable by many that men date hot chicks who are abusive deadweights in the relationship. None of you are discovering any hidden truths about women, this is something that happens to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:52 PM
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Lol you are so triggered. I'm simply pointing out the stupidity in some comments. Show me where exactly I'm blaming men? It'd not my fault men like bitches. In case you aren't getting the point of my comments, I'm saying that both genders are willing to tolerate abuse if the person is hot enough. Stop victimising yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:46 PM
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You've clearly never asked a woman why she's with a toxic guy. I've spoken to a few. They always had their reasons that "yeah, he can be an asshole, but...." and they list all the things they find irresistible about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:34 PM
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Men are not rational beings, they are driven by their dicks and prefer dating hot dumb chicks than wise women. Then they end up being abused by their girlfriends but they stay with them because they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:28 PM
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Wow, so some men are abusers and also some women are abusers. What an amazing discovery. Are all women trashy because some are? Is your comment meant to represent how most women think?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:25 PM
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Men would rather be beaten than be bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:24 PM
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What exactly are you trying to say here? Are you surprised that not every woman is a flawless angel who always makes the best decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:23 PM
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I can't believe you seriously think that "Many women do genuinely prefer abusive assholes", that's insanity. I've never met anyone, male or female, who prefers abuse. But I have seen plenty of men and women who tolerate abuse from their partner because they are very attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:19 PM
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Won't work if the guy is boring. That's not how any of this works, lmao. The reality is that exciting people are sometimes toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:34 PM
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One was boring and one was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:45 PM
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Except that's not what happens, please stop making shit up. They seek out more interesting men over boring guys, and sometimes those guys do bad things but they make up for it with whatever keeps the woman hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:26 PM
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Why should guys who have an easy time getting girls use tinder? And as people say, "the good ones get snatched up early" so they're off the market too. So it makes sense that whatever is left over ends up on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:05 PM
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It's just logical isn't it? If hot guys can get hot girls without the help of tinder, then they won't be on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:23 PM
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All that tells me is that less attractive guys are more likely to use tinder, because they struggle to get girls. If makeup was banned from dating apps, women would be rated much worse too. (I say this as someone who wears makeup). Nobody is discovering America with these stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:42 AM
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Doesn't this show that the 80/20 "rule" applies to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:27 AM
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Stop reading this bs on the internet, it's harmful nonsense. Why wouldn't a game dev get a gf if warehouse workers, plumbers, taxi drivers etc., all are able to find wives? And don't make excuses for not being able to exercise, it's not like you need to be at the gym 24/7 or work 24/7, you will burn out and it's unhealthy. People who spend their days working at pc's NEED to work out. Do it for your own benefit, not to attract women. Buy weights or an exercise bike if you cannot go to the gym. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:28 PM
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The world would obviously look completely different, but does it necessarily mean it would be worse? We will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:26 AM
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"stories I've heard" People rarely say things like "My girl made me an amazing dinner last night and bought me the thing I wanted." but they often say "Oh my god that bitch was crazy, she did X Y Z!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:01 AM
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Where did you get breadwinner from, if in this context both people are working? You are making assumptions. No couple I know makes 6 figures. The world is bigger than your back garden, you know? This just completely kills your argument. To live in an expensive area, you need money, so obviously women are forced to look for men who can help them afford living there, not because THEY want to. If you want to find a woman who doesn't need you to make money, go live in a cheaper area and don't assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:53 AM
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Where did you get breadwinner from? The commenter before me said she works hard and expects the same from her partner. >so many people especially women are materialistic You're the most materialistic person here. (we're just making random assumptions, right?) > I live in a HCOL Then stop. Go live somewhere more affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:13 AM
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It's not women's fault that men have to work harder these days, having a decent life just became harder to earn. And it's not proving your point at all, because you said women want men with expensive cars, when the reality is not so extreme. They just want financial security which was always the case, because that's what men also want. Men also want to have a bit more money to spend on fun stuff. Women aren't asking for 6 figures. For people with opinions like yours, I can only recommend that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:47 AM
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Hold on, so /r/reluctantly_red, you have divorced twice and you don't think that your tactics for finding the right partner could not be working very well? This could easily be showing that either you (a guy who doesn't wait for women to be ready) make a terrible partner, and therefore women should be happy you filter yourself out OR the women who don't withhold sex don't make good partners (maybe because they're trying to lock you and your money in as quickly as possible). Honestly hearing that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:04 PM
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You're trolling, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:05 PM
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This. Men also aren't attracted to kindness and respect alone but they want their partners to be kind and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:17 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:09 PM
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What does the latter have to do with being a good partner? Getting laid quick is completely different to building a relationship, which takes completely different skills and personality traits. I've seen this argument a couple of times here yet it still doesn't make sense to me why it matters how easy or hard it is for someone to get sex. Hot guys get easy sex. Like the current top comment, as a woman I also am not into men who sleep around. I don't care if a guy has "game", if he sleeps around …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 08:13 AM
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Or have both work and save up so you can both retire early.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:55 PM
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Slaving away at home is a privilege? Making no money for it and getting no thanks because you are expected to do it EVERY DAY of the year? At work you at least get some recognition, some rewards. You get to socialise with adults, while the SAHM has to watch the kids and entertain them and make sure they don't kill themselves. I've watched a young child for one day and I much prefer working. PS: You don't have to work for a crappy company, my managers are great people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:04 PM
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Maybe I've misunderstood your comment, but that's like saying "you can't ever complain because African children suffer more"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:50 AM
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I can't find any evidence of this. Some posts are suggesting male nurses do not want their partner to be the breadwinner or are already in relationships. And my guess is female doctors might already be married before they finish their studies. But 95% nurses being female must make it easier for the guys to find suitable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:15 PM
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Wouldn't this be mainly because there are not that many male nurses?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:35 PM
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