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Amazon also allows books that glorify terrorism by authors like Aleksandr Dugin and Yukio Mishima, as well as the books with instructions on how to do so, like the Anarchist Cookbook AND The Turner Diaries so miss me with that shit. How many domestic terrorist attacks have been inspired by SCUM aside from the author’s attempted murder of Andy Warhol, vs how many domestic terrorists were inspired by The Turner Diaries? You can look it up on amazon right now, all I had to do was search for “The Tu…
/r/MensRights10/12/20 08:43 PM
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Genuinely surprised how many people aspire to BBQ on here. Seems oddly specific and 100% doable; chase your dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:02 PM
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I’m half Japanese and went through a phase like this with Chinese women and other fully-Asian women, but especially if they were Chinese (one of my exes was obsessed with Asian women- Chinese in particular), and nearly every non-Asian man I’ve dated has used me as a “stepping stone” and exclusively (or mostly) dated Asian women after me + cheated on me with them. I hate racial fetishization and now realize that other Asian women, particularly ones that aren’t mixed race probably have it even wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:11 PM
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I went through this with an ex that let his yellow fever completely consume his entire life, and I’m half Asian (not Asian enough for him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:36 AM
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She needs to go to a crisis center/halfway house ASAP. This is EXTREMELY abusive and she’s trapped there. She needs to get the fuck out with her child. OP, your husband is committing financial abuse, reproductive abuse, and emotional abuse. He’s coercing you into having sex with him, you are abused and it will only get worse. Get out NOW. Here is a link to the domestic violence hotline: https://www.thehotline.org Please find a resource in the closest city you can. You need to go to a crisis cent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:53 AM
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A threesome with both the mother and her daughter 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:54 PM
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They want women to take care of them, while they abuse them in exchange so they can feel better about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:01 PM
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He is absolutely useless as a human being and he knows it. Men like this become predators because they’re narcissists, and would rather take advantage of/assault women and/or a young girls than actually work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:00 PM
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A million times over - I’d rather die completely alone and celibate than be with someone abusive or untrustworthy. I’ve reached my quota for that, and I’d prefer death over experiencing what I’ve been through again. It nearly cost me my life a little under two years ago, and I’m now living on my last chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:41 PM
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They have those, they wear body makeup and have their skin cleared up post-production. Also just wanna let everyone know that the same can be said for camgirls and other live-streamers. Pro-lighting + the filters on OBS can make you look flawless. Men are comparing you to an illusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:45 AM
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If people really knew what percentage of men were pedophiles, everyone would be throwing in the towel. Ive come to accept that the majority would fuck a mid-late teenagers given the chance, and probably ~10% are actual pedophiles. I’ve just decided to be alone from now on or only be with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:41 PM
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Right??? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:50 AM
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On my goooood, there is so much I want to say about this. I feel EXTREMELY conflicted when it comes to this subject but there is SO MUCH I want to say. Idek know where to start, but you can look at my post history if you’re wondering where I’m coming from. I’m a sexual masochist and have been in therapy on-and-off since I was a child specifically because of this; I don’t think anything in the world can change this about myself (I even attempted chemical castration two years ago). I’ve tried to c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:31 PM
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Women in the US and other first-world countries selling sex on OF pales in comparison to what is happening in developing and war-torn countries. This is a global issue and US is only just now starting to touch the tip of the iceberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:40 AM
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Me too but at this point, there are so many existential threats looming near that I feel pretty hopeless; the issues surrounding sex work are just a very small symptom of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:11 AM
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It’ll probably look like an utter hellscape tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:02 AM
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Thank you so much for the recommendation. I don’t know how to do any of that, but my brother also taught himself how to code and did backend development for some companies for a short while before starting his own business in something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:39 AM
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I’ve heard before that the admins were hiding videos of disabled streamers in an attempt at good optics, but I don’t now if this is something they are still doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:14 AM
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I mean, I think that is maybe a point that I disagree on. For so long, “prostitutes” have been dehumanized and treated differently by other women in the sex industry - perpetuated by terms like “escort”, “yachter”, “sugar baby”, etc who for the most part, all offer the same thing (full-service) but want to distance themselves from women in “lower level” sex work. I understand what you mean about the term “sex work” white washing people that have been trafficked and/or forced into sexual slavery,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:29 AM
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Thank you, you’re so sweet! I agree that’s it’s definitely been a thing for a while now and it would have come to this point regardless of COVID, I just think we’re are seeing a large spike rn because of the recent mass unemployment due to the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:25 AM
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I just wrote a really large comment on why I feel this is an issue, and how I feel it got to this point. It’s mostly all my own speculation, but should I make that as a post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:56 AM
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Ok, but I’m going to risk sounding like a crackpot. Also, this is going to be a very, very long-winded post. Honestly, I think at the heart of all of this, the issue is the commodification of sex, relationships, and literally anything else imaginable. This 100% isn’t something new but due to recent events, it’s been accelerated. Sex work is the oldest industry in the world, so this can’t all be blamed on capitalism, but you can’t deny that it’s a major factor either. At the turn of the 20th cent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:40 AM
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As far as cam girls/dancers/escorts/sugar babies doing this, I think it’s mostly a matter of not wanting other people to know if you’re struggling in the industry. There’s a huge expectation for sex workers to make a lot of money effortlessly; broke or struggling sex workers are generally treated with some level of repulsion and second-hand-embarrassment within the SW community. As a result, you get these echo chambers of SWs bluffing about how much they make, how easy their job is, etc. A lot o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:41 AM
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With OF, you take photos/videos and sell the content that you want to sell, you don’t have to take custom requests. If you’re not relying on it, it’s easy to to quit and move on. It’s not something I’d encourage but I know there are girls that are determined to do it no matter what, and my advice to them is to not make it their only source of income, and to not get sucked into the industry financially or mentally. Honestly, it’s incredibly hard to make money via onlyfans in a void, so for the va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:16 AM
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I know this will make me sound like a conspiracy theorist, but sex work has always been widely used for political/financial blackmail (Jeffrey Epstein’s sex ring is just one example), so idk why online sex work wouldn’t be an intel asset as well. Everything is recorded and accessible through the website if you know how to get ahold of it. Remember the Ashley Madison data breach? Cam/subscription sites have the potential to be even more incriminating depending on who the patrons are, what kind of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:11 AM
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There’s more I want to say about this than I feel I openly can on here, so if you need someone to open up to about anything, in any way you’re comfortable with- feel free to reach out. I’m so, so sorry for what you’ve been through and I really understand. This is not something that sex workers are normally able to talk about without fear of losing their jobs or being harassed/stalked; it can be extremely alienating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:44 AM
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Oh, I can really get into this and talk about it all day but it’s really part of a larger cultural/political discussion that might seem a little irrelevant to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:21 AM
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Yup. I started barely-legal and looked extremely young for my age. For years that was my only asset as a SW; most of society has literally no idea how prevalent pedophilia is. I don’t just mean men that are attracted to women that look like minors; daily I would get requests to ageplay as a prepubescent girl (usually age 6-12) - frequently men would confess to me that they watch child porn and/or that they want to molest/rape their own children, nieces, students etc. This fucks with your head an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:11 AM
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Online sex work is almost the most competitive sector of sex work because of the sheer amount of online sex workers, most of them new, and most of them barely legal. It is very, very hard to keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:49 AM
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Yeah, I’ve been doing this on-and-off for ten years and I am constantly on the brink of homelessness. If you already have issues with mental health, this is the worst fucking career path to get into. You have to completely dedicate yourself to make a living and money is inconsistent. I’ve been mainly just camming, but imagine having a particularly bad day coping with PTSD or depression, yet still having to fuck yourself for hours while being harassed and treated sub-human just to make rent. Just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:43 AM
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Oh fuck. It’s been like two years for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:42 AM
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How long did it take you to get over it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:00 PM
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I mean, I kind of hope she did but who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:01 AM
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He also ditched Pam, she didn’t leave him. The article is a smear campaign against her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:57 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me and it’s left me horribly traumatized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:22 AM
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This is so uncomfortably awkward. Of my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:19 AM
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Men with a foot fetish would actually probably prefer her feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:16 AM
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I’m 5’5” with the same size feet, or slightly smaller (so they look even larger on me) and I used to be insecure too. Now I charge people for photos/videos of my feet because many men actually think they’re my best physical attribute (including a couple of my exes- which is kind of insulting but w/e). Even men that prefer very petite women still like my large feet. I don’t think they like them entirely because they’re large, but it definitely isn’t a mark against me in any way. Just another anec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:14 AM
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As far as men hijacking women’s lib, this has been going on since the the start of the “sexual revolution” in the 60’s. Even Hugh Hefner said he “loved” feminism and he considered himself to be a fighter for women’s libertarian (of their bodies). Polyamory has been pushed since then as well. It’s just evolved and become more mainstream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:34 AM
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It’s likely because their exes were even more emotionally distant than they are and they were afraid of losing them. As soon as they know they have you, they’ll drop the ball.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:24 AM
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Yep. Weak men don’t really want pickme types. They stay with them temporarily because they don’t have the strength to be alone, but they don’t truly want her- they’re looking for an unobtainable woman that they have to work for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:44 AM
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These men actually treat loyal, chaste women the worse. The more you sacrifice for them, the less they will value you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:42 AM
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Thank you for your thoughtful and in-depth response. You make a few really good points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 02:08 AM
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I have a question that I’ve been meaning to ask a few other women on here as well. If you are in a happy relationship with a HVM, why do you follow a dating strategy subreddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:12 PM
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Yes, but how old are you and how much older are you dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:39 AM
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No contact ALWAYS. Move on, he sin the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:49 AM
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I can’t agree more. When I was younger, I’d date men a decade older. Men that date women significantly younger than them are almost always immature and shallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:48 AM
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I’ve seen people on reddit blasting women on r/relationshipadvice for finding child porn on their partner’s phones. Like, how dare they snoop even if they have a suspicion of child abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:00 PM
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My ex only complimented my appearance once. He said “you look nice” right after he broke up with me because he didn’t know what else to say when I was visibly destroyed. He’d always tell me about how hot his exes were, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 10:25 AM
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Calm down lol. Im not trying to convince you to do anything, I’m just letting you know that you’re not likely to get what you want unless you take some specific steps, since you’re looking for advice. You seem a bit bitter and delusional, so I’ll leave you alone. Looks like you were really just looking for someone to reassure in the end, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 11:15 AM
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It’s not a matter of desperation. When you do your makeup, do you feel you’re doing it for a man? What’s the difference? It’s a matter of taking care of yourself and looking your best. You seem to have an issue with stigma. No one is going to give you what you want because you’re a “nice girl” or whatever. You have to be bringing something to the table as well, because not only are most younger women perceived as being more attractive by default, they’re also more educated than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:45 AM
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Girl, you don’t have a job, you don’t have an education, and you’re overweight, yet you want to date a high value man. You’re going to need to try much harder than most women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:22 AM
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Isn’t she still dating Stav from Cumtown? I’d say she’s already halfway there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:58 AM
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In my experience, tall men usually date short women since they have more options (and most men prefer short women). The only men to put me down or reject me for my height (I’m 5’5”) have been men over 6’ tall, and it’s always been because they saw me as being too tall for them. I’ve dated men as short as 5’2”. Was I crazy about it? No, but at least they treated me like a woman and not some repulsive, masculine behemoth for being an inch above the average height (the irony isn’t lost on me). And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 01:12 AM
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That’s just how most narcissists are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 03:36 AM
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They go out of their way because you don’t give them sex. Their egos can’t handle it and they see you as a prize. Keep it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 03:32 AM
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Honestly, she has the right mindset. If you expect love from a man, you’ll be miserable. If he’s a player, just bleed him to death, then move on to the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 03:30 AM
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A lot of this is also applicable to Asian women in a way. Unfortunately, I think a lot of Asian women specifically look for men that fetishize them. Please, PLEASE stop doing this, it’s a huge disfavor to the Asian women that don’t wanna our up with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 03:26 AM
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Most young men nowadays are gold diggers themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 03:23 AM
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If they’re really into you, sex will get better over time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 02:48 AM
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If sex is incredible at first, that’s actually a bigger warning sign than it being “meh” in the initial stages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:34 AM
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By avoiding narcissists all together. They’re not LL, they just don’t want to fuck their partners. Trust me, if they’re not already fucking other women on the side, they’re definitely thinking about it and resenting you for getting in the way of it .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:33 AM
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Not always. The illusion of abundance (OLD) is often times the culprit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:31 AM
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Narcissists don’t actually enjoy sex. They use it as a tool to prop up their ego and once they know they have your love and admiration, they completely lose all sexual interest in you whatsoever. I’ve had this same issue in nearly every relationship. Everything was great until the moment I fell in love with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:29 AM
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*coming on very strong shortly after meeting you, acting like it’s “love at first sight” (love bombing) *talking about sex/romantic feelings with/for other women (trying to make your jealous) *talking about their ex being too high-maintenance or needy *spends a lot of time talking about themself, ignores you when you’re speaking *proudly bragging/showing of their skills/talents/whatever *talking about things they know you don’t know about without using laymen’s terms, or talking in an overly com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:00 PM
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“I mistreated you some more because you were acting nervous/scared when I mistreated you previously.” Gaslighting at its laziest and most generic (for men).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:35 AM
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Seriously, FUCK these guys and anyone with a racial preference. I get this all the time but in a different way; they typically say something along the lines of “I’m usually intimidated by Asian women but you’re different” Translation: “You’re trashy/unattractive enough to be the obtainable one”. Another one I often get is “you don’t act Asian/Japanese at all!”, Which can only mean “I know little to no Asian women but you’re far more human and flawed than the delicate, vacant androids I imagined …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 01:46 AM
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I don’t feel guilt but I feel a profound emptiness when I realize that I am unable to feel a connection with anyone now that I have standards and value my wellbeing over my fantasies of love. I’m not even asking for much, but it’s still enough that I’ve accepted that I might live the rest of my life as a celibate. I just want monogamy, to go on a date once a month, to have a photo together, and to celebrate anniversaries/birthdays/valentines day. I’ve been in long term relationships before and a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:56 PM
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I’ve been in a similar situation and I hate to say this, but the only thing that will help you move on is accepting that he doesn’t love you and isn’t attracted to you. In fact, he thinks absolutely nothing of you and that’s why he’s playing these mind games, knowing fully that he can ruin your life by doing so. Every time he tells you he loves you, that he cares for you, that he’s sorry- it’s a lie. It’s all a lie. The only reason he’s still with you right now is because you’re sticking around …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:46 PM
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