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For your own good, you should
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:25 PM
7

You have no idea what it’s like for “most women”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:25 PM
1

You need to touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:08 PM
1

I’m almost 50 and you’re a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:03 PM
0

The only people who get offended by being told to touch grass are the ones who would benefit from touching grass the most. Get off your computer and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:07 PM

This- being nice or kind isn’t the same thing as being a pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:37 PM
3

People can dress whatever way they want. What I’m against is the implication that women who don’t dress in a hijab deserve the negative attention they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:21 PM

Have you ever been cheated on? I never would have thought she would have been unfaithful until I found out she was. It’s not fair to the mother and it is making her deal with the trauma a previous partner put on the dad- but the intrusion is so slight why not give the dad the peace of mind? I dunno- I say that, but the truth is, after being cheated on in my twenties I told myself I would paternity test all my kids. When it can time though- there was no need, I trust my wife and it would be total…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:00 PM
1

Yes- that’s what makes it an analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:44 PM
0

That’s real easy for someone who’s sex makes this just an abstract idea instead of a possible reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:40 PM
0

Ah yes- advocating for hijabs is very enlightened, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:12 PM
1

When I use it I just mean you need to get out in the real world. But let’s say you’re right and it’s used solely as an insult. I don’t know how to say this without being harsh but the “niceness” of the message doesn’t it’s content. It’s not nice to call someone fat- but if “fat” was the go-to insult people consistently had for me I would think I maybe I should work on losing some weight. The same concept applies here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:11 PM
0

If that’s how you want to interpret it I can’t stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:45 PM
6

I don’t think a woman should have to wear a religiously themed blanket in order to walk in public without being harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:19 PM
1

The better advice is to get involved in activities where you are likely to mingle with women instead of just cold approaching a girl you think is cute on the street. If you’re in school- get involved in coed clubs. If you’re older- find beer league sports or outdoor activity clubs or even take a cooking class or something. Finding a social group to do out of the house activities with is going to improve your chances of meeting someone interested in getting to know you by a hundredfold. If you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:28 PM
9

I’m sure she would have gotten less catcalls if she was dressed as a nun as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:23 PM
4

Telling people to get offline and interact with the real world isn’t the attack you are framing it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:21 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:00 PM
2

I would say the same thing to the guy I was responding to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:02 PM
8

What does “I’ve been around several women” even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:44 PM
5

Your “argument” is so divorced from reality it doesn’t need a counter That is my counter- the only way you can ever hold this opinion is by never having a close relationship with a woman in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:31 PM
20

You really know nothing about women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:17 PM
9

How sexually attractive is Bruce Willis at his current age and state of mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:10 PM
2

What specific behaviors are you talking about? It’s hard to agree or disagree with what you’re saying when I only have a vague idea if we are even thinking about the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:30 PM
11

I would say it’s a feedback loop - both sides feeding each other. It doesn’t really matter if it’s the chicken or the egg was first, it’s just about breaking the cycle.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 03:53 PM
2

Changing dating issues into marriage issues doesn’t solve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:57 AM
2

That’s not really the age gap these people are talking about though. At least not in my opinion. You’re right up in the border though- as I was with my wife at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:28 PM
8

That’s not an astronomical difference in age at that point in both of your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:58 PM
7

Where has anyone said that in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:25 AM
1

He should have broken up with her instead trying to force into being the person he wanted. Dude is famous and loaded- there’s plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:11 PM
1

I don’t tell people what their thoughts are. Most people don’t take kindly to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:07 AM
2

They call you an incel because comments like yours are what incels would write.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:45 PM
2

I don’t think anyone says looks don’t matter. Looks aren’t everything though. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:43 PM

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:02 PM

I agree with the other guy. You are weird and a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:17 PM
1

Who?
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 10:26 AM
4

Yes -it takes effort from both of the marriage is going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:49 AM
2

It’s the responsibility of both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:35 PM
1

You’re adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:31 PM
0

Largely only stay at home parents do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:26 PM
12

I like going on dates and having fun. Why would you marry them if you don’t enjoy their company?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:21 PM
1

I can’t imagine why you’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:53 PM
0

A loving companion to share your life with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:33 PM
23

Men are just much more confused when it ends up affecting their relationship too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:05 PM
1

The fact you think that’s a rule is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:48 PM
0

Yes- because everything stays neat and tidy while casually dating like you’re describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:48 PM
2

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:37 PM
2

Not if you have the kids for an equal number of nights throughout the month. At that point it’s quite equitable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:30 PM
4

Why would you want to be with someone who has no other options? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who actually wants to be with you? Even if that means you have to put a little effort into their wants and needs too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:27 PM
3

I can’t imagine a scenario where dating in your forties is easier than in your twenties. More than half the women are married- those that aren’t - at least half of them a have massive red flag issues which is why they are single in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:23 PM
78

Yeah- you have to keep dating your wife. So many guys get fat and boring and then wonder why their wife is bored and unsatisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:20 PM
3

No- I think it very much is toxic bs. You’re reading justification that I’m not implying.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 08:08 PM
2

Psych 101 isn’t going to help you talk to girls. You guys seem to be misunderstanding what I am saying. RP is an easy to understand set of rules that allows people with very little social IQ to make sense of the world around them.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 07:02 PM
-10

The red pill is “baby’s first steps” in understanding social interaction for a lot of socially oblivious young men
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 11:28 AM
10

You honestly sound incapable of love. What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:01 PM
14

Kind of a commentary on the morality of American conservatives- no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:00 PM
1

They don’t have to worry as much about being raped and murdered, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:28 PM
2

That the girl was an awful piece of shit for cheating on you.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 09:36 PM
2

I have no real opinion on the morality of her actions as I have no frame a reference how serious or involved their relationship was. For all we know she had been dodging his calls for weeks before this was the final nail in the coffin. I can see how you view her as being sketchy or bad, but I also see OP has a hard time gauging interest and letting go after the fact. What we do know is they are not a match for each other. My only point toward the OP is I wouldn’t be beating myself up, thinking I…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 03:08 PM
4

She met someone else, realized she was falling for him and broke things off with OP. It’s several months later and he’s stalking this girl’s social media and trying to get I touch with her to talk about what he did wrong. She wasn’t feeling it with him so she broke up- what do you feel like she owed him?
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 02:45 PM
3

Three months is nothing dude- get real
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 01:42 PM
13

There’s what you are saying which is healthy. The red pill is advocating this also as a form of dread game as well.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 06:17 PM
3

No, I don’t. At least not anyone I’ve hung out with since my early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:13 PM
3

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:55 PM
3

Spoken like a man who doesn’t know women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:53 PM
3

Infidelity is traditional too
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 10:42 PM
0

Who is the leader? What money, outside of subscriptions, are being taken? In what way are they purposely cutting them off from friends and family in order to keep them from straying? What are the secret ceremonies? How are they saying the end of the world is near? What former members are delegitimized?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 02:28 PM
-1

What makes red pill a cult outside of a metaphorical way?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 01:12 PM
0

What is your definition of a “cult”?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 12:44 PM
-2

Using manipulation does not automatically equal a cult
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 12:43 PM
4

They’re teenagers, that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:52 PM
1

If he can get laid so easily why does he have to assault women to get his dick wet?
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 12:36 AM
1

Don’t act like I care. Explain how what I said is “cope” though.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 10:04 PM
1

I’m not saying any of that. I’m saying your delusional if you don’t think those models appearing in red pill videos aren’t being paid to be there.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 08:33 PM
1

You’re naive if you’re buying what they’re selling
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 08:21 PM
1

Why you dick riding? You made an account just to stick up for your role model?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 08:02 PM
1

Wat?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 07:58 PM
102

Til - paying strippers to appear in your videos is the same thing as actually having women like you.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 01:09 PM
8

And what are the ages of the women sampled?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 02:56 PM
1

Meetup.org used to be a thing. Local papers or websites.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 03:06 PM
2

Most cities have organized outdoor activities (like hikes or bike rides) that are great places to meet singles. Especially if you have a wingman to help with breaking the ice and keeping the conversation flowing. If you’re not into being outdoors, there’s things out there for something you’re interested in like cooking or beer league sports or art. Basically- if you want to meet new people you’re going to have to insert yourself into social situations where people you don’t know are going to be …
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 12:58 PM
6

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:25 PM
15

How is fucking who she’s attracted to unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:23 PM
2

Why do you type like your sending a text message in 2002?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:22 PM
1

Dude a if a girl is going to cheat- her being a virgin isn’t going to change that and magically make her loyal. Take it from personal experience. That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:01 PM
1

A 27 year old fetishizing 18 year old virgins. Nothing at all creepy about that. Shocking that women are turned off by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:27 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:33 AM
2

Hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:37 PM
1

Do you even want to be with a woman? You seem to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:36 PM
4

It’s shitty the same way it’s shitty for a girl to string a “nice guy” along for him to buy her stuff and fawn over her. He’s consenting to the “friend zone” as well but it’s still using emotional manipulation to get what you want out of someone. Are you being obtuse or do you really not understand that. As I said- if he is upfront about simply using her for sex and she is OK with it - that’s fine. But you know exactly what I am talking about otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:31 PM
2

https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/logicalfallacies/Appeal-to-Extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:52 PM
4

https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/logicalfallacies/Appeal-to-Extremes A fallacy isn’t something that is untrue. It’s just a shitty argument
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:52 PM
3

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:55 PM
6

It’s shitty if she thinks you are fostering a relationship when you’re only using her for sex. What part are you having trouble understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:55 PM
5

Unless that is also what the woman wants- yes that is shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:45 PM
12

Hmm- and here’s my lack of sympathy for you when you end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:44 PM
8

Sorry you have unpopular opinions. What should be done about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:36 PM
-1

That’s shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:35 PM
1

Other women don’t judge it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:18 PM
12

It’s a logical fallacy is what you’re doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:17 PM
13

An appeal to the extreme is not a great way to make your point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:17 PM
14

Not everyone on earth is going to like your personal opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:15 PM
14

I actually agree. They are very similar in level of toxicity. But at the end of it- they are both preferences that the person being judged can do very little to change now. If you’re a man who is bothered by a woman’s past- you shouldn’t pursue a relationship with a woman with a past. You shouldn’t be shamed for it - but I also don’t feel much sympathy if you can’t find someone who meets your personal criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:14 PM
3

How’s your emotional intelligence?
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:15 AM
8

Do you understand the whole point of science is finding repeatable results?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 11:21 AM
7

How are you this dumb and unable to talk about the subject you brought up?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 11:19 AM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 05:35 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 04:24 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 04:21 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 04:20 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 04:19 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 04:15 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 03:16 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 03:16 PM
1

How would they do that?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:48 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:59 PM
1

👍
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 12:40 AM
53

Why aren’t you confronting men who are abusive? Why aren’t you personally holding them accountable?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:22 AM
1

I would say the answer varies depending on what the woman values in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:13 AM
25

Don’t you understand? - acknowledging that being a single mom is a hard, thankless job is the same thing as idolizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:41 PM
1

Why does every cheater think everyone else is naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:34 PM
1

“It’s not bad when I’m the one doing it”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:01 PM
1

Depends on your definition of “quality women”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:59 PM
3

Obviously. Dunning Kruger in full effect in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:57 PM
1

Why are you being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:55 PM
3

Sounds like you’re friends with a lot of shitty people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:54 PM
0

Yeah- because men who are good at pleasing women in bed talk like this 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:16 PM
1

Women want men who are confident in their abilities and are able to deliver on that confidence.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 10:15 PM
1

But- they are happy
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 02:51 AM
3

They had an infant at the time and his complaint was she gave him starfish sex. What are you talking about?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 06:02 PM
3

Sure, I agree - but you seem to be extending that into the delusion that a good marriage never has its trials and tribulations and romanticized thinking like that leads to unrealistic expectations on what marriage is really like
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 05:35 PM
9

You’ll never keep a spouse if you leave the very first time things get rough.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 03:49 PM
1

If 50% are married to an older man- what’s the other 50% married to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:08 PM
2

Do you have a source for what you’re talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:07 PM
2

Why are you trying to organize and codify human interaction like this? This isn’t how chemistry works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:59 PM
3

This sounds like you are speaking with authority on something you don’t have personal experience with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:36 PM
2

You need to try and understand what people are talking about when they say “they have good chemistry together”
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 01:21 PM
1

Lispish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:46 PM
3

What movies, specifically, are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:33 PM
4

You’re basing your ideas about society off disney movies buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:32 PM
2

How have the perceptions any of those traits changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:31 PM
1

I don’t understand why Sarah calling her former fuck buddy is a foregone conclusion if they break up. Has she said something like that? Is that just what Shawn is assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:23 PM
15

They think they are attracted to the majority of women because the ones they aren’t attracted to are invisible to them. Because they don’t view women as people just objects of desire
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:40 PM
3

Yeah- I see plenty of men pine away for their first love. What he is describing isn’t unique to women in any way whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:35 PM
3

Having the wisdom to understand the way things are is not the same thing as using generalities as an excuse to stop living in the world and trying.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 02:27 PM
4

Accepting reality is not toxic. Laying back and expecting the world to change to make it easier for you personally is pure delusion
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 02:26 PM
6

Are you asking why aren’t women the more aggressive gender sexually?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 02:25 PM
8

Expecting the rest of the world to cater to your own personal experiences and expectations is the definition of narcissism
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 02:23 PM
4

And people like you cry about the nature of the universe instead of finding a way to be happy with hand you were dealt. No- not cold approaching, but actually making friendly relationships with women and treating them like individual people instead of an incomprehensible monolith hive mind.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 01:47 PM
7

Why are you so passive that you need a woman to chase you? You make no effort and then cry that they aren’t making one either. It’s silly and childish. Grow up and be a man
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 01:41 PM
6

In what way are they actively treating them? What is the harm?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 01:31 PM
8

Do you think the world revolves around you in every way or just this one thing?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 01:27 PM
9

You can fruitlessly rage against nature or you can accept that is the way things are and move forward. Feeling like a victim is not going to help your situation
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 01:25 PM
4

That’s just the nature of things. It’s not like they are consciously trying to make things hard for you personally.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 01:23 PM
0

The problem is- a guy could potentially father hundreds of kids- financially “abort” himself from the situation and then the state is left caring for hundreds of this deadbeat’s progeny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:16 PM
3

Why is it so hard to convince people like you to take care of your child? It’s your child- care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:14 PM
13

It sounds like you’re the one deciding you won’t relate to them rather than them telling you that. Friendly people don’t care about the differences between you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:32 PM
2

Don’t expect the rest of the world to follow your Bronze Age scribblings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:31 PM
1

It doesn’t sound like she has fond memories of her experience with an “attractive person”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:02 PM
2

That’s not what I am saying at all. I’m not saying attraction builds over time just by existing in the same area as her. Attraction is built by being attractive. Your initial attraction to someone never changes over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:25 PM
1

That not how it works from the ones I’ve seen. The ones that blow up like you are describing are women who purposefully go out in search of a provider to exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:34 PM
2

You don’t understand women’s sexuality if you think their attraction can’t grow over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:33 PM
2

It does seem like people looking for excuses not to try more than really discussing human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:04 PM
6

I’m not understanding what she is exploiting for personal gain. They’re financially equals. Are his “bucks” emotional well being and happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:54 PM
4

Why would you expect that to be the outcome given what you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:15 PM
10

It’s weird that the story ends with them both being happy and you’re immediately focused on why you would be unhappy with that outcome for …reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:00 PM
2

The story sounds like she’s head over heels for him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:55 PM
15

Wouldn’t the red pill just say R is beta bucks after she got off the carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:54 PM
1

You’re confused? I’ve been confused since you entered the chat talking about sour tastes. Fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:10 AM
1

What? I said I like doing it. Do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:18 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:25 PM
1

I wouldn’t eat pussy if I didn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:08 PM
1

So if you try something, decide you don’t like it, you still have to continue doing it for the rest of your life or else you don’t love your new partner? You understand how crazy that sounds, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:33 AM
47

I would add the biggest red flag: hiding or purposely downplaying the depth of the relationship in front of your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:32 PM
5

I think you are taking the people who post on Reddit and extrapolating that their experiences translate to what is common in America. It’s not. The people who have normal relationships with their kids grandparents like you describe aren’t posting on Reddit about it for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:00 PM
1

He is socially aware like most other adults
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:29 PM
3

Yeah- you’re doing great in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:28 PM
3

I knew you didn’t have an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:16 PM
2

Explain the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:02 PM
2

I don’t understand what you are saying. Is annoyance not being uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:55 PM
0

Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:30 PM
0

Does telling people their feelings are invalid work for you often? Do girls like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:29 PM
0

It’s the same logic as gun safety. Treat every gun like it is loaded even if you are sure it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:28 PM
6

Even OP is approaching to feel them out as a target. That’s the whole point of the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:26 PM
1

This guy (op) has obviously never been to a bar if he thinks guys handle rejection well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:22 PM
3

You mail it out like an artificial womb is something that would be easier to create. I’m not sure it’s even possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:35 PM
5

Yes. Violence bad. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:58 PM
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I’m struggling to find the leap in logic where “most violence perpetrated against women by men is spouse/partner related” tells you “women invariably select men predisposed to this type of behavior” I don’t understand how the first statement means it is invariable behavior through all women That’s like saying “all ravens are birds” tells you “all birds are black” Considering the rest of your argument is built on that dumb leap in logic I can’t really take any of the rest of it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:08 PM
1

No, but I do think most people need a social life with intimate friends and family in order to be healthy and happy. Some people get it from a spouse and kids and others get it from a close network of friends and/or extended family. Some people can manage happiness in a solitary life, but I don’t think most people could
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:36 PM
4

What’s shameful about taking control of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:30 AM
0

Toddlers and younger are a ton of work - helicopter or no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:55 PM
5

You have no idea about the problems most marriages have. Even in your scenario- you say it’s her fault for not being attracted when the reality is it’s both their fault for not marrying a good match. You’re saying “incompatible couples struggle more” and think it’s this profound insight when it is really base level common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:55 PM
1

He was always seen as a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:50 AM
1

I wholeheartedly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:35 AM
5

Are you kidding? 90% of the posts on this sub is exactly that!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:38 PM
1

Is anyone on earth saying there isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:52 PM
1

Yes- there are more considerations to weigh when you are a parent. That doesn’t mean you should cease to live your life in a healthy way. You’re making it out like the two extremes are the only options. I agree, a lot of people do not go about this in a healthy way, but that doesn’t mean the alternative is to live a life of celibate devotion to worshipping your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:16 PM
3

Wait- how is a date night any different in the two scenarios if you aren’t involving the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:27 PM
2

Who disagrees with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:22 PM
5

This isn’t just directed at you but it needs to be said: a person’s emotional, social and sexual needs as a human being do not cease to be there when they become a parent. Being a healthy adult in these ways is part of the example you are setting for your children. Pretending like those needs don’t exist is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:28 AM
7

That’s not really mathematically possible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:19 AM
1

What is bad about the example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:07 AM
4

Why would you be introducing your kids to every date you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:05 AM
3

You seem to be arguing against things no one else is saying buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:04 PM
1

Eh- it’s not that hard to tell the difference if you have any self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:54 PM
0

But you do agree that arrogance, aggressiveness and emotionlessness are negative attributes and we shouldn’t encourage those behaviors in boys, right? And there is a concrete difference (albeit subjective) between assertiveness and aggression, etc. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:11 PM
1

It’s really not. Just like you don’t have to be a crime lord to be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:08 PM
2

I mean, maybe the women you’re pursuing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:13 PM
0

Which of those are considered toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:59 PM
15

Also- don’t be afraid to call her out on her bullshit. Stand up for yourself.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/22 04:58 PM
0

Specifically, what traits are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:52 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:27 PM
1

I mean, I’m a middle aged dad and there’s nothing sexual about it. The person I’d be most likely to do it towards would be a middle aged or older lady (they eat it up) but I say it to younger people too occasionally. My wife said she thinks it cute but I don’t even think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:20 PM
4

Tony Soprano or Walter White is toxic masculinity Hopper from Stranger Things or Raylan Givens from Justified would be examples of positive masculinity It’s not that hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:22 PM
4

I think you’re taking your own personal experience and assuming it’s universal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:27 PM
4

Well which is it? They don’t want you or they aren’t worthy of you- because those are 2 very different things. It all just sounds like sour grapes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:20 PM
2

I call people thing like that in retail interactions pretty often. Like I say “thanks dear” when they hand me my food in a drive through or something. Would that usage anger you as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:17 PM
6

The ratio of men to women is still 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:10 PM
0

Not only that, but having a kid and being a good father really ups your emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:08 PM
2

What was your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:52 PM
1

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:51 PM
0

Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:30 PM
6

Your question was dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:28 PM
8

No, most murders are men. That’s not the same thing and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:18 PM
9

Yeah, why learn something that will help improve your understanding of interpersonal relationships. Better shitpost “women be crying” instead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:51 PM
13

You don’t know many women if you think that kind of behavior is the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:49 PM
9

Men kill their entire family, their ex girlfriend. They can’t control their anger so they beat their wife and children It goes both ways buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:48 PM
19

Disgust is another approved emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:46 PM
1

Empathy is useful especially before we were verbal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:45 PM
2

This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:00 PM
5

This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:58 PM
1

Yes- having a sister makes all the difference in the world and I think all the guys in the red pill could benefit from that type of relationship in order to dispel so much if the bullshit you guys think are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:18 PM
1

Yeah you’re not wrong. They just need a wake up call every once in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:33 PM
3

Like, how on the edge of rejection do you have to be existing where a single quick text kills it? These guys think because they are finally getting laid they’ve figured out the cheat code to women or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:31 PM
3

Yes the red pill is about attracting shallow women, I agree. What is think is laughable is your surprise when shallow tactics yield shallow results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:04 PM
5

I would say they are both pretty equally shallow if that’s your only criteria for mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:00 PM
8

You guys foster the most shallow of relationships possible and then act surprised when they are fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:01 PM
4

How do you know that was the source of her losing interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:23 PM
1

In the context of the conversation and the point where you said it? yes saying that is creepy. You are free to disagree with me but I’m not interested in talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:47 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:32 PM

I’m just saying that mindset is creepy. Sorry if you misunderstood me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:23 PM
1

You’re saying “alpha”, but I’m reading “creep”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:44 PM
0

👍 totally not a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:35 PM
0

In reading your reply it's easy to assume you mean that you can have sexual attraction for your siblings. Like I said. Just because someone doesn't act on it doesn't mean it's not present That’s not what I meant. If that’s what you get off my comment I think I’m done here. Good job proving you aren’t a creep. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:42 PM
1

Maybe because I’m older but sexual attraction / tension is not that big a deal and is really easy not to act on if you take any sort of care in what you say and do. I define a plutonic relationship as a non-sexual non-romantic relationship. Similar to what you would have with a brother or sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:36 PM
1

I think if you are both available and unattached having a friendship like that would be tough. It really depends on how close of a friendship you are talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:30 PM
1

So, are you saying you can only have plutonic relationships with unattractive people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:26 PM
1

I don’t understand how it affects the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:19 PM
3

None of the stuff he brings up are new complaints. Women complained about this stuff long before the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:16 PM
1

I didn’t realize asking you to explain what you meant was such a hassle. It’s fine. For someone who is here for the downvotes you’re really quick to play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:08 PM
1

The fact you can’t explain it tells me my gut reaction was probably closer to the truth than you want to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:05 PM
1

I’m serious. What am I misunderstanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:12 PM
1

Then what was the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:06 PM
1

You said that as reason why you aren’t friends with them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:01 PM
0

Use your words then. How does finding them attractive affect the forming of a friendship? What did you mean by your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:56 PM
1

You’re just backtracking from what you said earlier because you agree it sounds creepy. I don’t know if you’re a creep. I have no idea who you are. I’m just saying you sound like one from comments you were leaving in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:51 PM
-1

How does finding them attractive affect the relationship then? To the point where you are friends with no women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:44 PM
1

He says his desire to fuck ruins every relationship he’s ever had with women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:48 PM
2

If you can’t spend time with a woman without trying to fuck them you are a creep, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:36 PM
3

No offense, but you sound like a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:15 PM
1

Yeah- taking advantage of a woman in distress is alpha behavior, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:12 PM
1

There’s no reason to feel pathetic simply for having a generous nature. It’s good of you to wise up and not let people take advantage of you though. What you are calling pathetic would be viewed as a positive by a quality woman if you are able to be generous from a place of strength instead of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:10 PM
0

I feel like a lot of Red Pill men would have benefitted from growing up with a sister they got along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:02 PM
1

Yeah- and people feel like they are entitled to companionship although they aren’t bringing anything to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:26 PM
1

“Be your best self” is more helpful advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:26 PM
16

“Be your best self” is probably a better way to phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:39 PM
2

I guess it just depends on what you are looking for in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:39 PM
2

To your original question- I would much prefer a partner where we challenge each other and can speak our mind than the mommy bang-maid you describe as option one. I can’t imagine having an interesting conversation or really great laugh with the person you describe as option one- add to that the lack of sexual variety and that sounds like a boring life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:38 PM
2

Are you saying you’ve never met a woman who formed her whole persona around her idea of what she thinks men want?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/22 02:23 PM
2

Good for you. I hope you find the right match soon. I don’t think option one exists in a healthy relationship. Only in someone’s idealized imagination of what it would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:53 PM
0

I agree but I also believe morals are not dependent on religion. If your only reason for morality is fear of punishment, I would argue that’s not really moral behavior, just submissiveness to authority
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:25 PM
2

You changed when you got a boyfriend. Almost all of option one’s description is about how she treats a mate. You were never option one, unless there is something else I am missing. You can say you imagined that’s what you would be like, and I would agree, but that’s not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:23 PM
3

So then you weren’t option one were you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:38 AM
2

Religion fosters shame in order to breed compliance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:36 AM
3

Sociopathic to the extent that they really can’t empathize with the opposite sex? Most of them. Actual sociopaths? Not many. Otherwise they wouldn’t care so much about interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:58 PM
6

They have a chip on their shoulder because they are jealous that other people are living their lives and don’t owe them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:37 PM
5

It is a young incel coping mechanism. Just like they say the jocks will peak in high school and the nerds will be millionaires when they are older because they are so smart. It happens, but not nearly as often as they hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:22 PM
6

You’re just getting older dude. Those old people don’t look so old because you are closer in age with them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:18 PM
6

You’ll find, as you get older, “the wall” gets older right along with you. - it’s always just a few years ahead of where you are personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:17 PM
2

Why is he using 30 year old data ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:12 PM
1

Yes, if just everyone else followed the rules, the way you think they should, life would be perfect. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:23 AM
1

All people are capable of emotional manipulation. Great observation. I choose not to base my relationships off of emotional manipulation. I don’t make friends with people I feel are emotionally manipulative. Monks are men who’ve convinced themselves that the red pill is the only way to understand human dynamics, but don’t have the heart to be emotionally manipulative. Married red pill are ok with purposefully emotionally manipulating their spouse. And we both know who the successful red pill bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:37 AM
1

Listen, if you’re going to keep putting words in mouth this is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:22 PM
1

Using emotional manipulation to get what you want out of women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:00 PM
1

What exactly is the red pill- in your opinion, just a quick answer. I feel like we are going to be talking past each other unless that is established.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:51 PM
1

If all women loved Justin Beiber equally across all personality types you might have a point (AWALT) Otherwise I don’t see what your point is and how means any pill ideology is an accurate, universal representation of human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:06 PM
0

That relies on self reporting. And how can that happen mathematically for there to be such a large discrepancy between the sexes? Who are these guys having sex with if not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:57 PM
1

What does that have to do with what’s being discussed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:53 PM
2

Having had those experiences, I don’t put near as much weight to their importance or impact. It’s a completely different thing getting your rocks off compared to trying to do everything right to keep them from wanting to leave. Even as a man it’s a completely different set of feelings and goals and expectations. I don’t know- I’m not trying to be cynical or rude, but it seems like all this angst just boils to lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:35 PM
2

Yes, girls with less confidence are easier to manipulate. Stunning observation there. I wouldn’t be crazy about dating a woman with an abusive ex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:29 PM
1

I’m not understand the thought that is connecting all those things you mention together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:52 AM
1

Sick burn bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:43 AM
1

I think all the pills are stupid Human are much more varied and complex than that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:43 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:46 AM
-1

I’m not new but it still baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:29 PM
5

So, one experience with a hot man and a woman is ruined for life in your opinion? What kind of magical powers do you think these Chads have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:42 PM
7

I’m in a happy relationship and I’m here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:06 PM
0

What? How are you getting that from that comment?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/22 02:41 PM
1

Your life experience (or lack of) is what is forming your opinions on these topics- I’m not meaning to insult you with any of what I am saying or distract from the point. It’s not an ad hominem. Most women I know aren’t like what you describe. I’m more curious what life experiences you’ve had to make this your opinions about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:26 PM
2

Generally, men don’t bring empathy into the conversation but approved feelings like anger, fairness, and disgust don’t count because… reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:00 PM
3

You’re the one who drug it out of me and then you are blaming me for saying it. I tried to end the conversation several comments ago. Hopefully by 38 you’ve found someone and my read was completely off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:44 PM
3

Are you saying I’m wrong about you? I’m a good bit older than you and feel like I’m a decent judge of character. I’m saying women are just as varied and different in personalities, values, motivations, ethics as men. If you got to know more of them you would realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:28 PM
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I’m not disagreeing on what you think is right for you. You know better than me. It just seems like an opinion born out of naïveté and lack of real interaction and closeness with the opposite sex. That’s not meant as an insult just a qualifier for where your opinions are coming from. Get out there and actually meet a diverse range of women and all their personalities and see how many of these declarations actual hold true in reality. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:17 PM
4

Whatever dude- good luck finding whatever it you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:01 PM
4

You say you aren’t requiring a partner to be a virgin, just not participate in casual sex, but all sex outside of marriage is casual sex so… what the fuck are you saying other than women who express their sexuality are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:29 PM
5

No worries, you’ll need all the help you can get with the hang ups your displaying in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:52 AM
2

Good luck finding the woman of your dreams dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:48 AM
3

Good luck finding someone who wants to be with you buddy. I hope it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:39 AM
3

But then you called serial monogamy casual sex too, right? So how does that work then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:22 AM
4

Right- but you don’t get to invent new definitions for words and declare that the new meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:14 AM
3

Yes- but you’re not allowed to complain when you can find the snowflake that meets your weird preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:11 AM
13

The Madonna/whore complexes are off the chart in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:10 AM
14

It sounds more like you are inventing this tough spot and then blaming women for not meeting your weird expectations. If the only things that is going to satisfy you is a chaste virgin or a ho who puts out as soon as she meets you - I think that says a lot more about your psychological hang ups than how bad women are. Good luck knocking that chip off your shoulder buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:09 AM
15

I don’t understand how these people think being hot automatically translates to being good at sex.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 03:41 PM
2

Any woman you see- there’s someone, somewhere who is sick of her bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 03:40 PM
6

Relationships also carry a lot of responsibility with them. Not everyone is ready for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:41 AM
1

Yeah- either you’re misunderstanding me or the red pill is perfect for you. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:39 PM
1

You said the woman’s participation doesn’t matter for your enjoyment. Did I misunderstand that part?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:34 PM
1

Sounds like you haven’t had very good sex if you think the woman’s participation no matter the position doesn’t affect your enjoyment. And I prefer to be on top as well and actually my fav is taking her from behind. No idea what kind of assumptions you are making about me off of such little info.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:24 PM
2

I am saying, in my personal experience, the girls I could pull with those techniques weren’t amazing in bed. The insecurity fostering and shallowness of the connection led to not great results. Maybe I wasn’t turning the screws enough to get what other people say is possible, who knows. I know it is just an anecdote, but it’s my anecdote so it’s true to me until someone can prove me otherwise. Red pill type philosophy did help me get my mojo back after a particularly bad break up though, so I un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:18 PM
3

Personal experience with the types of girls these techniques work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:47 PM
1

Yeah- I’m taking what you said and applying to the red pill’s results
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:20 PM
5

I mean- if your goals are mediocre at best sex with women who are hard to be around - then by all means- knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:15 PM
12

This exactly. The red pill works- but only on a certain type of woman. That’s the biggest lesson the RP never seems to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:29 PM
1

Have a good weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:53 PM
1

Well, I hope you never get cheated on so you can continue to feel that way. Have a good weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:35 PM
1

So, if your wife has been having an affair behind your back and you have no idea about it. It’s still his fault for trusting his wife. You are a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:10 PM
1

They know if they fucked more than one person in the time frame. There isn’t a defense for it. Just because you can find some to take advantage of doesn’t make it right. This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:43 PM
1

Tell the truth is all she has to do. Jesus Christ. I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:19 PM
1

It’s everyone’s job to be a decent human being and not knowingly deceive someone and affect every aspect of their entire life. Sorry that seems crazy and unrelatable to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:13 PM
1

She knows if there is a question of paternity. We’re just circling back around on your total inability to empathize with a man in that position. It’s fine- but it’s obvious you’re never going to see my point of view so have a good weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:45 PM
1

Because she is the only one with the knowledge of who could be the father. She’s literally the only person in earth with that knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:22 AM
1

I guess that’s where we disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:29 PM
1

It just baffles me that you think there is no guilt to be assigned to the mother whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:00 PM
1

So the lack of violence is what makes him not a victim? I don’t know, by your rationale, no one who falls victim to a conman is actually a victim. They should have just vetted them more and that makes it their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:30 PM
0

That was beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:42 PM
1

She had no obligation to walk through that park. She should have secured protection if she was going to do it. The raped woman isn’t the victim if she took no effort to protect herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:14 PM
1

If you didn’t want to get raped you shouldn’t have walked through the park at night. We agree both things are stupid, unsafe behavior. That doesn’t change who the victim and who the wrong doer are in both situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:25 PM
1

You seem to be changing the goalposts here in the middle of the discussion with the mother not telling him he is the father. Even so, that is still a lie of omission by the mother- isn’t it? Why are you going to such lengths to defend this deceptive behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:20 PM
0

So give them even more tools to fuck me over with? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:14 PM
1

How does that make it different in a way material to our discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:13 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:48 PM
1

Funny how none of the blame or responsibility is falling on the party that is actively deceiving the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:45 PM
1

You underestimate the harm caused in a relationship when asking for a paternity test if the mother knows there’s no question of the paternity. Underestimating to the point of naïveté
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:54 PM
1

It really is impossible for women to empathize with men on things like this. My wife is the exact same way (albeit for different reasoning)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:42 PM
1

Whose fault are these situations? Who is being dishonest to cause these situations? Why can’t you make that connection? Even here you are blaming the “couple” instead of the person who is actively deceiving the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:33 PM
1

Lack of empathy it is then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:18 PM
1

The woman is the literally only person on earth who knows if there is a question to the paternity. She, at best, is lying by omission when she tells someone they are the father. You can assign blame to men for being too trusting of their partner - but that is 100% taking the blame off the bad actor in this situation. If you cannot see that truth, you either lack the ability to empathize with men or you are just deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:10 PM
1

If she didn’t want to get raped she shouldn’t have dressed like that and went into the park at night. It’s an incredibly step and she should not have gone into that park if she was at all unsure of the safety
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:02 PM
1

It’s not a good argument to put the blame on the victim. You should know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:53 PM
0

You really can’t see a scenario where a man has no reason to distrust their partner until more information is discovered after the fact? I’m not a MGTOW or anything, but your argument is it is OK to financially burden people for acting in good faith. It’s not a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:47 PM
3

Yes- how could power like that ever be misused?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:43 PM
1

Right- in the past society didn’t focus on mental well being or health. I’m not sure how that is an argument against focusing on it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:46 PM
1

That might not be your intent, but that is what it sounds like from this outsider’s opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:46 PM
1

How is what I said not in good faith? I’m being serious. You can’t regulate human behavior like that and expect good, healthy and happy outcomes. That’s not how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:33 PM
1

I don’t think the population at large is that concerned about upending everything and strictly regulating half the population in order to ensure you get your dick wet. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:22 PM
1

Culture is nothing but humans natural behavior. The people participating are what makes the culture. Attempts from the outside to regulate human behavior is society. That’s what laws and regulations are. Society is only minimally affective at actually changing culture. That is the entire reason why China is struggling to control Tibet, and why Americans were unable t for native Americans to just “act white” because the culture is resisting the society being forced on them. You can talk about reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:07 PM
1

Because it’s showing a pretty fundamental misunderstanding of how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:02 PM
1

I think you are conflating society with culture when they aren’t the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:44 PM
5

So you’re saying all of society and culture should change because you are having trouble getting your dick wet? Are you listening to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:42 PM
1

Have any attempts to engineer culture been successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:41 PM
16

If she is able to lock him down- is she really going outside of her “market value”? Doesn’t the market decide what her value is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:38 PM
4

(It’s always been an incel movement)
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 03:49 PM
1

Tom Cruise is like 5 foot 5 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:26 PM
1

Yeah- that’s why they think welfare should just be handled by charity and babies will be fine as long as you force the mother to give birth to them without any other support whatsoever. Totally not just wishful thinking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:33 PM
1

This sounds more like a personal axe for you to grind than an actual discussion about society
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:54 PM
1

In my experience that is 100% bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:00 PM
1

So, you’re just against child support in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:59 PM
1

It’s all those things and more. It really depends on what the people participating are putting into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:35 PM
1

Whatever you say buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:27 AM
1

I’ve been talking down to your argument from the start. That’s the whole reason I’ve had to hear you cry about it all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:00 PM
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The fact that you are calling it “punishment” is exactly why I am saying you have a childish outlook. I also don’t think you know what an anecdote is. Look- I’m sorry your brother is at a rough time in his divorce right now, but I’ll say it again, your brother picking a shitty person as a spouse doesn’t mean the system is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:32 PM
1

I don’t understand how your brother marrying a shitty person somehow makes it the system’s fault that he is getting divorced. Women can marry bad lazy partners too. You said yourself she was the primary caretaker of the kids even when they were together so why wouldn’t she continue to be their primary caretaker? The naïveté is you and the other poster acting like earning money is all it take to raise a child and that it isn’t hard work on its own. If a wife leaves her career to focus on childcar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:13 PM
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I am saying you have a childish view of parenting and marriage that is not informed from experience and it is obvious to those reading with said experience. I don’t know how to explain this in a way that you wouldn’t find insulting or wouldn’t be a total waste of my time. You’re free to hold any opinion you want, that doesn’t mean it automatically has merit to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:22 PM
1

Do you have children of your own? Have you ever been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:17 AM
1

Your view isn’t any less childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:10 PM
1

Is that what match.com is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:36 AM
0

Maybe you would have more success if you didn’t hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:06 PM
4

I’m 45 and I agree with your assessment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:05 PM
13

Yes- it’s all those others guys’ fault you can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:30 PM
0

Not in my experience and my split was far from amicable. Keep on assuming you know me though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:41 PM
1

It’s not, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:39 PM
6

They both fail the “half your age plus 7” rule
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:25 PM
16

You must have no female friends if you don’t realize they get groped constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:44 PM
1

Personally going through the family court system is what opened my eyes to how full of shit people like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:46 PM
0

Do you think money is the only work it takes to raise a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:44 PM
0

That’s because most women do the bulk of the work raising the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:23 AM
1

True, but something tells me OP wouldn’t be a fan of those either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:28 AM
1

What a childish way to view divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:50 PM
1

I’m saying “divorce rape” cases are well outside the norm- especially compared to just a few decades ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:46 PM
1

and your anecdotal evidence doesn’t prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:57 PM
1

Yeah- you definitely sound like you are slaying the pussy out there. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:26 PM
1

Who else would it be on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:18 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:17 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:11 PM
2

I’m saying if you aren’t catching the fish you want you might be using the wrong bait. If you don’t understand the point I am illustrating that’s on you but purposely misrepresenting what I am saying in an attempt to turn it around is not as clever as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:10 PM
8

If you run into an asshole in the morning, and asshole in the afternoon and an asshole in the evening, most likely you’re the one who was the asshole all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:06 PM
3

Well, good luck to yah. You’ll need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:03 PM
4

Wow- you certainly sound lovable and fun to be around You must do really well with the women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:58 PM
3

And you’re absolutely delusional if you think banning abortion is somehow going to make child support payments less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:50 PM
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You people? What the fuck are you talking about? At 50% split physical custody, it only factors in differences between income level at that point and similar income levels mean no support payments. I have a few coworkers and friends who fall into that category. I’m sorry that the stories you read on the internet aren’t always true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:49 PM
1

Then that decision is up to the custodial parent, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:36 PM
2

No, you are trying to make me feel sorry for Drake because he too has to support his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:32 PM
1

You don’t need a lawyer to petition a change and there is no fee. I changed our support arrangement several times with no issue. That’s great that you assume I’m the exception but my ex fought custody and her aunt bought her the most expensive lawyer available. The thing is: I’m not a piece of shit and wanted to see my kid so custody was split because there were no grounds for me not to see my kid. The support is done totally by entering incomes and time spent with each parent into a formula tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:30 PM
3

I’m sure that statement make sense to you, but it makes zero sense to me. Parents should support their children. I don’t know why you have a hard time understanding and supporting that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:22 PM
3

If the mother is the primary care taker who else should get the money? The child can’t pay rent, bills and health insurance on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:20 PM
1

Yes- won’t someone please think of a way to protect a rich man’s wealth? That’s really the most important consideration that should be driving all the decisions around this issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:19 PM
5

All three
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:16 PM
4

No, but I think Drake deserves to support his child to the best of his ability. I think a child deserves the support of his father when it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:15 PM
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If the father wants to reduce his support payments he can take a more active role in the work of raising his children. Support is decided by how many night a month they spend at which parents house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:13 PM
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Is that not the case currently? Are you under the impression that living under government assistance isn’t living under squalor?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:11 PM
1

Actually it’s all just a calculation they plug into a formula to determine support level and modifications can be done within a month. At least that’s my experience having gone through the family court system in my state for 20 years. But I guess I should think about it more since you obviously know so much more about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:08 PM
3

They already adjust per income level and total number of kids you are supporting. You can petition a change anytime there has been a change in income by either parent. What extra protections are needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:22 PM
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Yes - won’t somebody please do something to protect rich men’s wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:51 PM
16

How shallow are your connections if you are running into tons of women who have nothing to offer but sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:03 AM
1

What point? Sexist women exist? Really insightful contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:51 AM
1

I dunno, about as dumb as blaming all women for one woman’s writing like the guy I was responding to. That was the entire point being made
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:13 PM
2

Are you seriously suggesting no man being taught on a college campus or has been influential in academia has had sexist writings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:49 AM
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She was a lesbian activist first and foremost Still- I can find plenty of far worse sexist writing by many more than one man about women. Does that make all men’s rights activists guilty by association?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:32 AM
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Yes- find a lesbian separatist and then blame all women for her writings. Makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:17 AM
2

And of course the world operates on your very selective experience with your parents- right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:14 PM
9

You are picking apart why this stranger’s relationship is not valid or on “easy mode” or whatever to discredit it. How can you not see that? Are you that oblivious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:47 PM
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I was monogamous with my wife 3 months into dating well before we got married- was that not a relationship at that point? I really don’t understand what you are hating on in this person’s relationship that is obviously working for them. Are you just that hateful a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:38 PM
7

What do you call someone you’re in a relationship with if you aren’t married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:31 PM
9

Yeah- they are dating. What the fuck do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:27 PM
0

This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:36 PM
3

Keep n mind, all those tales are just one side of the story
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:30 PM
1

They struggle to find attraction to someone they don’t respect. That covers everything, not just money. If you are surprised by this or think it is unfair, I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:19 PM
1

Who is the step dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:39 PM
1

I would add companionship and intimacy to the list as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:06 PM
3

Maybe if you’re a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:38 PM
3

All you’re describing is exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:34 PM
3

Yes- desperate people are easy to exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:31 PM
1

You can’t brute force women to go against human nature, no matter how much capital you throw at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:30 PM
3

Most women don’t want to do sex work. Those who do, wouldn’t do it for minimum wage unless they were coerced or had a addiction to fuel. Your entire scenario ignores the reality of human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:28 PM
1

What is it about sour grapes that triggers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:52 PM
5

Why do you think I’m triggered? Are people who go to the circus and laugh at a clown also triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:59 PM
5

“I don’t want those grapes. They’re sour. “
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:11 PM
1

In the same way that the red pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:43 PM
1

That’s all men’s game is too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:29 PM
1

I’m not one, but from what I can tell is they need to be able to signal interest, flirt and engage in some banter to start. I don’t care how attractive a woman is- if I can’t have a conversation with you I’m going to get bored long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:29 PM
1

What the fuck are you talking about dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:03 PM
1

Yeah - I’m talking about early to mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:19 AM
8

Even the dishwashers got laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:06 PM
8

It was all going to house parties and working (or having friends that work) in the food industry or any other place that also a had lot of young people who are willing to hang out outside of work. Some guys struggled more than others but this was also the first attempts at being social by them. People you would meet or pick up at bars are friends of friends or friends of coworkers instead of cold approaching strangers like so many think the bar scene is like. This was close to twenty years ago t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:44 PM
17

You seem to have a skewed idea of what “average” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:15 PM
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Outside of college, all the average men I knew who were at least trying didn’t have that much trouble getting laid nor finding dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:02 PM
3

Hmm- I wonder why people think you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:09 PM
4

For some reason this doesn’t ring like an idea from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:30 AM
2

He nice but he isn’t sexually attractive. How does that make her a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:57 PM
3

https://www.mintel.com/press-centre/social-and-lifestyle/all-the-single-ladies-61-of-women-in-the-uk-are-happy-to-be-single-compared-to-49-of-men This study seems to disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:17 PM
1

Yeah- red pilled don’t seem like woman haters at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:14 PM
4

What’s your source of this data
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:41 PM
-2

Same can be said for red pill and their stated goals
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:15 PM
1

Many men following the red pill end up single forever as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:01 PM
13

From what I can tell they are trying to avoid getting pumped and dumped- which their strategy definitely helps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:01 PM
1

Cool- now do men’s perceptions of women vs real life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:46 PM
1

Is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:53 PM
12

You realize all parents get those comments- right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:25 AM
2

The guy you are questioning is talking red pill points, numbnuts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:50 PM
7

(he won’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:26 PM
1

So, there are no hobbies you are interested in outside of video games, DnD and legos?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:06 PM
2

I don’t share that many hobbies with my wife. I prefer it that way. Gives us something to talk about. I may be way off base, but most women would prefer men who have hobbies that are interesting. If they are interested in hearing about your DnD campaign- more power to you. Most women aren’t interested in that shit though. I’m not saying stop playing DnD- I’m just saying have some interests that are accessible to outsiders. I play video games, I just don’t talk about them to my wife. Asking your …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:08 PM
0

So, it is a threat. Talk to a counselor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:02 PM
0

Is this a threat or something? Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:29 PM
0

You should probably lower your standards then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:27 PM
0

Are DnD, video games and Legos the only hobbies on earth that interest you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:22 PM
2

What’s up with all the false equivalences?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:35 PM
1

If your using a toupee you’re doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:00 AM
15

Because they want to eat their cake and have it too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:50 PM
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A man who objectifies and manipulates women to get what they want sexually from them. Most of them seem to be unaware how much their language reflects a person who deeply hates women. Usually it’s a short term coping mechanism after a bad relationship, which is understandable. Life long adherents are broken in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:11 PM
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It’s called “alienation of affection” in the states and comes up in divorce cases as well. It’s grounds for divorce in states that are not no-fault divorce states
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:36 PM
1

What is the origin for the data on that graph?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:05 PM
1

You’re being purposely obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:56 PM
1

That wasn’t what I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:50 PM
3

You don’t think there’s a middle ground between “throwing hygiene out the door and not trying at all” and “reinventing everything about you into a facade of shallow attributes in order to just get laid”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:37 PM
1

Well you definitely sound like you have it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:14 PM
1

I love how you leap from the Bronze Age to today without any consideration of the millennia in between. I thought blue pill men think that if they are nice enough a woman will want him. If you sacrifice enough a woman will find you worthy. You have a very weird idea of what blue pill means and not one I’ve seen before
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:18 PM
2

So does liberal= blue pill now? What the fuck are you talking about here? You seem confused
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:34 PM
4

Is that comment supposed to show how the red pill is based in science? Is that comment another example of red pilled sex positivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:32 PM
2

They positively want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:27 PM
3

Where are you getting these ideas from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:26 PM
0

None of that sounds like blue pill beliefs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:25 PM
4

None of what he is describing is science
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:22 PM
1

So, not being Republican makes you “citified”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:42 PM
1

All you are doing is showing your ignorance as to what it takes to work in the trades.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:59 PM
2

You don’t think there’s tradesmen with families in the suburban northeast?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:56 PM
1

I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:37 PM
5

Most people are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:59 PM
2

It still kinda betrays your point that most brides were chaste virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:56 PM
1

Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:26 PM
3

That’s why the Romans caused Silphium to go extinct, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:25 PM
23

One reason- you can usually tell if someone is a passive doormat during the first date - not so much if he’s an abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:24 PM
8

They omit the “someone else” from the phrase “The sort of man that someone else will marry and make he will make very happy, but not me”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:22 PM
1

Who says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:49 AM
7

I was that age in the nineties. Things are not different than parties back then- it’s just uploaded for everyone in earth to see now. Look at that “Spring Break” movie from the early 2000s from the producers of the “Real World” Not much has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:14 PM
2

OK… and?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:59 PM
5

That literally what the word celibate means a person who abstains from marriage and sexual relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:31 PM
2

Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:24 PM
21

It sounds more like you were just a late bloomer, not a magical ascension into different percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:21 PM
4

Just because you aren’t self aware doesn’t mean that isn’t the common perception of your group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:25 PM
5

And red pilled men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:33 AM
1

Considering you wrote the original post I am calling bullshit on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:47 PM
2

Funny that they always choose to leave. I’m sure that has nothing to do with you though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:12 PM
2

Good luck living life never knowing how to sexually please a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:59 PM
2

Christ- you really don’t understand women’s orgasms do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:46 PM
1

Yes, neither me nor my wife are the same people over time. That said- your core personality doesn’t go through radical shifts outside of medical reasons like a brain tumor or something. That’s the work I’m talking about in my first post. Changing together into something better for each other. It sounds really lame typing it out, but it’s what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:43 PM
1

Why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:34 PM
0

It’s a part that a lot of the “men’s rights” groups seem to overlook. If you marry someone who isn’t a good relationship partner then getting married isn’t going to change them into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:33 PM
0

That’s all stuff you should figure out before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:19 PM
1

2 or 3 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:17 PM
1

Are you asking how often I have sex with my wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:15 PM
2

I dunno, I’ve been with my wife for over 15 years and our attraction for each other is about as strong as it has ever been. It’s great but it takes a lot of effort from both of us. I did get lucky finding my match, but just because we are a good match doesn’t mean our connection is effortless and doesn’t require mindful attention to how you are making each other feel. This inevitability of lost attraction doesn’t seem that inevitable from my point of view. It sounds like an excuse for people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:29 PM
0

Do you think you are powerless to foster your partner’s desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:21 PM
3

Are you saying red pill wannabe incels don’t have unique insight into what a woman wants? I’m kinda shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:41 PM
3

There’s a reason why “the grass is always greener on the other side” is a saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:37 PM
2

“The only thing I value in women is access to their genitals” “Are you sure you actually like women?” Does that clear it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:55 PM
3

When you’re both 40 he isn’t going to look old too you anymore (assuming he takes care of himself) At least that’s how it’s been for me as I have aged
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:45 PM
5

You’ll find your standards change as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:25 PM
1

But it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:01 PM
3

Yeah- it sounds like you are really happy and don’t hate women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:37 AM
3

I disagree with his premise so I don’t really have an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:01 PM
3

Why would a woman want to fuck you if that’s all you have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:23 PM
2

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:52 PM
2

Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:25 PM
13

No, I don’t. Every guy I’ve heard women call “marriage material” were all around desirable guys. Nice but not pushovers. Maybe I don’t hang out with enough emotionally broken girls or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:11 PM
1

So, you want an open access whore who is also a virgin as your partner? You ever think there might be other reasons why her treatment of you deteriorates? There might be reasons why she is more comfortable around “Chad” than she is around you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:32 PM
12

Is sex the only thing you interested in a relationship with a woman? That’s what it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:20 PM
10

You don’t sound like marriage material
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:18 PM
1

Ashley Ingle is making the laws?
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 12:33 PM
-2

The person who posted the article is acting like it is definitive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:15 PM
2

I don’t think you can make definitive conclusions about human nature from a study of 131 college students
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:44 PM
1

So you have any with an actual sample population?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:45 PM
12

I don’t think you can make definitive conclusions about human nature from a study of 131 college students
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:26 PM
1

That doesn’t seem likely to work
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 02:54 PM
1

So, women aren’t allowed to change their behavior due to regret?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:10 PM
2

Your opinion sounds like sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:35 AM
1

You say that like it is somehow impossible for you to start exploring it now.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 03:26 AM
2

Then where is the disagreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:25 AM
3

I am saying men are not as powerless in their fate as you are implying. The only reason women have more say in the birth is the method in which abortion is legal in the United States. Body autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:53 AM
1

I’m saying the man has much more control where he shoots his seed than the woman does. Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:25 AM
0

Actually, they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:03 AM
7

That’s not true - the disparity is from men not seeking visitation, not from courts being unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:58 PM
9

Women don’t shoulder the burden of raising a child? Are you crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:57 PM
2

Men are 100% in control of where they dump their loads. Give me a fucking break
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:56 PM
1

Yeah- why would you want to use something that would solve the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:54 PM
8

It’s boys without much life experience guessing what it is like out there instead going out and seeing for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:38 PM
9

I know- I was being sarcastic. Dude is taking the rarest people in society and than extrapolating ideas about all of society from their imagined experiences. It’s dumb. Most men are blue collar or office workers. Most men don’t have that much trouble getting laid either. OP just sounds jealous he’s never had a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:22 PM
6

Don’t you see wealthy actors and professional athletes walking around all the time? Going to the same bars as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:06 PM
2

Thanks- those make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:29 PM
2

Yes- what are some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:16 PM
9

This all reads as someone who doesn’t really talk to many women trying to figure out what their internal lives are like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:30 AM
3

It’s both and abuse by the father is common as well (if he’s in the picture) Abuse is what teaches the kids how to hurt others and molestation is how there sexual drives get crossed up as well. It’s not at all a hard and fast rule though- any of this, just trends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:34 AM
2

It’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:32 AM
3

Because not having that source of unconditional love early in development is incredibly damaging to the psyche. It keeps people from being able to emotionally connect to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:31 AM
2

More often than not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:08 AM
6

More often than not- the lack of parents love is what caused the psychopathy. Almost all serial killers were abused by their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:00 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:42 AM
9

How would either of those “help”? Sanctions? What kind of sanctions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:58 PM
16

Considering the only solutions you have brought forth are sex slavery, why are you surprised no one is discussing the “solutions”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:03 PM
1

Your argument is nothing should be done ever to correct the economic equality because eventually it slides to the extremes. That’s like saying we shouldn’t steer the boat because the wind is always going to blow it off course. It’s a childish way to look at the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:53 PM
1

That’s not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:41 PM
1

That’s not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:41 PM
5

You’re a crazy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:02 PM
3

That’s not how it works in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:01 PM
1

Yes - there is no room society to exist except for just those two extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:00 PM
13

Slavery is also a way to solve labor problems. That doesn’t make it an amenable solution to today’s society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:58 PM
11

This is the best explanation posted by far
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:49 PM
5

Ditto here 12 years married, 4 years dating before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:42 PM
0

I was a single father, married now, but when I was dating as a single father many more women wanted absolutely nothing to do with me because I had a kid than those that saw it as a positive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:21 PM
1

You’re just repeating the same fallacy over and over again like that will magically make it a good argument. People trust the weather report, but it isn’t right 100% of the time. That doesn’t mean it is useless as tool when planning your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:14 PM
1

What questions? No one is saying it’s infallible. I haven’t never met a woman who said her intuition is infallible. That doesn’t change the fact that socially aware adults are doing this constantly in every interaction and you should be aware of the energy you are giving off if you want any success. You are inventing this position that women think their intuition is infallible and arguing against that because you know you are wrong unless you insert your own bullshit into the other side’s argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:31 PM
1

Are you like, 14 or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:54 PM
1

You are making strawmen to argue against instead of actually talking to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:41 AM
1

What the fuck are you talking about? Who has said any of what you are arguing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:55 AM
0

You’re the only one calling it infallible in order to create a strawman that is easier to argue against. It’s bad faith arguing and you know it. Not only that, but many abusers are able to conceal their true natures when meeting others. That’s why most of those relationships start out with love bombing by the abuser until women have “bought in” to the relationship. You’re just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:23 PM
1

Regardless, people are constantly making those judgements, whether consciously or not, so you should be aware of the “vibe” you are putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:15 PM
1

You are surely wrong and are just mentally masturbating. Reading body language, tone, and general energy is something all socially aware adults are doing constantly. Just because you are ignorant of how social interactions work, doesn’t make their existence irrational or the same as a belief in psychic powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:11 PM
0

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:45 PM
2

You need training to be able to discern precise events like crimes. But everyone is constantly doing the same thing, and acting on those perceptions, in almost every social interaction. Just because someone isn’t a trained novelist doesn’t mean they don’t know how to write a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:15 AM
2

The amount of times you're surely wrong and just mentally masturbating is staggering. It's far more likely you're inserting the meaning than that it's truly there but it's like that logic doesn't even cross your mind. It’s hilarious that you write out this entire paragraph without being aware of the slightest bit of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:13 AM
3

This whole post just reeks of someone’s who doesn’t really know a lot of adults nor their motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:27 PM
4

Everything in this entire OP and all the comments are nothing but anecdotes. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:35 PM
7

How would gold-diggers exist if men didn’t also base their decisions off feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:31 PM
2

I have not met a self described incel that would not struggle to find companionship no matter what “age” you are currently living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:45 PM
2

If you say so buddy. I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:24 PM
3

Social awareness helps with all that, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:09 PM
1

Being able to read social situations and body language is incredibly important. I have no idea what you are going on about. Knowing how others are perceiving you is what I am talking about. Yeah- if your personality is toxic, you won’t attract anyone. But I’m not talking about the extremes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:59 PM
6

Just about every couple I see is a looksmatch, that’s the whole point of the thread, so I have no idea what you are going on about. If you are struggling with dates you should work on your social awareness to figure out why you are striking out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:56 PM
2

All the ugly women in my family’s husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:51 PM
2

No, I said working on your social awareness is the best way to improve your chances with women. You’re the one filling all the gaps with that fatalistic bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:51 PM
5

You need much better social awareness than just “looks” to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:43 PM
1

You can develop your social awareness, but core personality is much tougher to change
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:42 PM
10

Not trying to be insensitive, but: Why don’t ugly men date ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:41 PM
8

So, you’re just hating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:39 PM
2

Most of them are personality matches as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:38 PM
0

...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:15 PM
1

I think trying to make ideas like these into hard and fast rules is a fool’s errand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:26 PM
16

This. People don’t realize “dating isn’t fair” means you have to play to your strengths and around your weaknesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 10:34 AM
0

I never met a woman who felt that way solely from flowers only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:25 AM
2

I don’t know any woman who defines love the way you do in your title
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:25 AM
8

All of his examples are failing because of not reading the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:04 PM
3

Sounds like you are taking your own personal opinions on how sour the grapes are and assigning the same opinions to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:04 PM
12

Looks really matter if you are interested in a one night stand. Looks help, but aren’t as tantamount if you a looksmatching for an actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:02 PM
1

You have my permission to end the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:41 AM
1

Yes it is just as bad for a woman to date a man solely for his money. It’s called being a gold digger and it pretty universally looked down upon. What exactly is your point? Just had to throw in a “whatabout” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:25 AM
1

What is a success object?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:15 PM
1

It’s not objectifying to have standards or wants traits in a partner. It is objectifying to boil someone’s entire existence down to their genitals’ cost Can you really not see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 10:55 PM
1

How is that objectifying?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:10 PM
17

I also hear women talk about how hot men who work with their hands are to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:33 PM
1

How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:29 PM
4

It’s weird to call racism “spidey senses”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:04 AM
0

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:57 AM
0

Yeah- I’m married too. That’s why I said what I did. Weird that you would insult me for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:56 AM
4

Sorry you have to pay more for the pussy. It must be tough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:57 PM
15

Yeah - you really sound like an expert on how most women behave
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:53 PM
18

Yes- posts like this are from people who “it’s working out for”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:53 PM
7

I don’t know about you, but I don’t like to objectify people I want to get intimate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:51 PM
2

I didn’t say anything about being foolish in the way you choose to help out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:25 AM
13

I would say the moral obligation is to help ANYONE in need, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:20 AM
1

This is only true if you are faking your status
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:33 PM
3

No idea. Parents didn’t socialize them enough? Extended adolescence? Who knows. Most grow out of it though- at least the guys I grew up with who were similar did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:02 PM
3

A large percentage don’t know what a shower or proper grooming is. They can’t make eye contact when speaking with you. They are very hard to talk to and can’t carry a conversation nor do they seem interested in social interactions. You can also tell they are lazy as fuck just by how they carry themselves. This is coming from another man (me). Frankly, stuff that makes them unattractive. Maybe awful personalities was harsh, but personalities that are not dateable by most would be more accurate. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:48 PM
3

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:10 PM
-1

Because that’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:01 PM
-2

I work in a college. Most men aged 18-24 have awful personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 03:44 PM
1

Why even try when you can give up now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:58 AM
1

And this is all from your imagination?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:56 AM
1

Average personalities are boring. Plenty of attractive dudes get rejected for being boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:28 PM
7

I’ve seen plenty of conventionally attractive men struggle to get laid because of their awful personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:23 AM
5

If you have that attitude- most definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:22 AM
2

Maybe ask yourself why you’re getting downvoted instead of crying about the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:54 PM
3

I’m not downvoting you, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:48 PM
6

I have plenty of women I consider friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:13 PM
7

What are you offering other than anecdotes? You trying to out-anecdote him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:09 PM
4

Strawmen are fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:08 PM
10

Take this from a fellow man- you sound like a psychopath- talk to a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:16 PM
2

I agree. No amount of confidence will render you super powers giving you the ability to make any woman on earth desire you. Very astute criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:24 PM
1

You’re kinda moving the goalposts from “able to get a date” quite a bit don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:38 PM
0

So- you disprove my generalization with further generalizations? 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:09 PM
24

Self assurance and confidence is far more attractive than your “outfit”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:17 PM
3

You glanced over the most important part like it was an afterthought. “Carry yourself confidently” is all it really takes. Being self assured and comfortable in your own skin is what is attractive. Your wardrobe is just window dressing for the core message underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:16 PM
9

Yeah, men do it to. Half the men in here have a chip on their shoulder because their mom told them they were perfect just the way they are and any woman would be lucky to have his fat, only hobby is DND and video games, low hygiene ass. Making yourself desirable is a lot of work. Maintaining a relationship is a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:49 PM
3

Where’s the disagreement? The best way for individuals to change something is knowing what caused it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:42 PM
5

What grievance are they committing that would their “fault”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:38 PM
15

It’s almost like that’s the baseline relationship they had with their father figure and it affected their ability to emotionally bond with others when they are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:21 PM
3

Why remove a post that’s generating discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:17 PM
1

“I’ve seen women show similar entitlement that men show, therefore entitlement isn’t real. “ You are a genius
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:31 AM
4

“Those grapes are sour any way”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:11 AM
8

Isn’t most of the change attributed to skyrocketing obesity levels since the 1980s?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:47 PM
2

Get fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:40 AM
1

Now, why do you have to turn it around and be a little bitch when we’ve been having a nice respectful conversation? Defending your family from harm is not toxic masculinity. Trying to break someone’s side view mirror in road rage incident is. You know this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:34 AM
1

Success in life is all about finding the measured balance that works best for you and those important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:30 AM
1

😬
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:26 AM
2

You have no idea what toxic masculinity is. None of what you describe is what people are talking about. Defending your family viewed as toxic? Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:25 AM
1

I dunno- I can see the difference between “being masculine” and “toxic masculinity” and I’m happily married with 3 kids. I think the husband being masculine is essential in having a healthy household dynamic. I don’t consider myself an artist, I was just using that as an example of OP not knowing what gets girls wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:06 AM
1

Yeah- it sounds like you’re having a lot of success at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:57 AM
3

Where did I say anything about women liking weakness? And deny it all you want, the artist gets fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:52 AM
3

I mean- if there was an ounce of truth to this, the “brooding artist” wouldn’t be a trope. Emotional availability is not the same thing as weakness- especially not in the eyes of women. Other men on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:47 AM
2

Male
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:44 AM
4

Shh- don’t stifle his imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:42 AM
3

Disagreed 100%, I’m 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:41 AM
0

If this had any truth to it “the brooding artist” that so many women pine for wouldn’t be a thing. You’re full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:37 AM
1

Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:26 PM
0

You’re fucking delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:59 PM
1

Because it’s not their bodies growing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:57 PM
2

And you don’t think the inverse is also true for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:16 AM
2

I dunno, I see plenty of ugly women who have families- according to you half the female populace is undatable and will forever be alone. Which interpretation do you think is closer to reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:35 PM
2

It sounds like you’re just talking about yourself and then assigning those thoughts to “all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:27 PM
3

You haven’t dated many HV women if “looks” are the only thing you look for in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:24 PM
16

Why do some women marry abusers? Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:34 PM
0

Men in this thread need to understand the difference between being vulnerable and being needy. Vulnerability and intimacy are not a turn off to most women- neediness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:12 PM
3

It’s all just sour grapes. It’s so transparent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:44 AM
2

This sounds like sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:43 AM
2

You’re right- but if his thesis is right- that would have been just as good as actually having sex with her. Is that the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:48 PM
7

Yeah, they’re getting both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:46 PM
3

What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:46 PM
2

I don’t find your second paragraph to be universal, at all. I’ve never even heard of this happening. Yes, girls are praised for being pretty and such, I agree, but boys are praised for being handsome, strong, or cute- all good qualities to be attractive when older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:45 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 01:06 AM
1

That’s stupid You sound like a 12 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:55 AM
1

Maybe when I was 18 or 20. I don’t know. What’s the point you’re trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:41 AM
1

My earlier story was from when I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:31 AM
1

If I were single and hard up... maybe? That’s a hypothetical I am pretty far removed from. I happily married, so I can’t imagine a scenario where I would be willing to blow my life up just to get some strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:04 AM
2

44 and celebrating my 10 wedding anniversary this Spring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:50 PM
4

Yes, I have turned down sex with attractive women. No I do not have a checklist. She was a bitch and I didn’t want to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:29 PM
5

Or... everybody is different, including within their gender- and they all have their own preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:31 AM
16

Don’t attribute your lack of standards to an entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:29 AM
2

I don’t think this is a gendered thing. I think some personalities attribute greater significance to the sex act than others and neither is wrong. They just aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 01:10 AM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:13 PM
1

Truth hurts. Think of the truth like disinfectant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 08:20 PM
1

If you are dumping loads into a woman you are signing up to be a father. The man is the one who controls where his sperm goes, not the woman. Use a condom, pull out, do it in her face, whatever takes. Take a little responsibility for where you cum dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:29 PM
1

I love how me saying “you have to work to be attractive to the opposite sex if you want to get laid” somehow got you to lead me down the rabbit hole where you declare that you don’t care about 12 year olds being sex trafficked. And somehow in your broken soul, you are holding yourself up as the moral one in this exchange. Good luck getting that chip off your shoulder buddy. You’ll feel better once you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:38 PM
0

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:27 PM
0

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:25 PM
0

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:02 PM
1

So you think taxpayers should be stuck with bill of supporting a deadbeats’ progeny? That is somehow “more fair” in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 05:35 PM
1

How exactly is it a body autonomy issue for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:36 AM
1

Sour grapes on the parts of the men The behaviors the women are complaining about, they are usually the victims of so it affects them directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:30 PM
1

Well- if you understood the logic of what makes abortion legal you would see why it works the way it does. Considering your other arguments I don’t have much faith you will do that. Body autonomy is not the same thing as what you are talking about. Seriously- are you sure you’re not gay? You really seem to hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:25 PM
6

It doesn’t apply to most women, especially outside of their teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:56 PM
1

Are you sure you’re not gay? You really seem to hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:53 PM
0

“Oh my god- I have to somehow manage to not be utterly repulsive- I’m the real victim here”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:07 AM
3

Yes- having to work on yourself to make yourself attractive if you want to get laid is exactly like rape and sexual trafficking. You are such a brave survivor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:02 AM
1

There’s people who defend and want to marry serial killers too- that doesn’t mean society supports serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:22 PM
1

This is basically just another incel sub at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:21 PM
-2

Life is hard. Cry more about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:19 PM
11

So many red flags it almost looks like a false flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:14 PM
0

Most people with souls aren’t okay with starving children. Why talk about “should” when it’s never happened in the history of mankind?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:35 PM
1

Birth control is much cheaper than food stamps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:06 PM
1

Yes- let’s ignore reality and say we should just be holding up this imaginary ideal that has never existed in any society in the history of human existence. Surely it’s the people acting like every human who came before them who are in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:22 PM
1

Less unwanted pregnancies is a public good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:58 AM
0

Then you have problems with reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:13 AM
0

The linked articles do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:52 AM
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From your own source: Editors’ Note: Oct. 12, 2016 Later reporting by The Times and others has called into question significant elements of this account. Subsequent Times coverage includes a review of the case on the 40th anniversary; the obituary of the killer; an essay and video on the case; and a Times Insider account.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 12:02 AM
3

I love how that is your takeaway from his comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:39 PM
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Don’t be a disgusting human being is the first step
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:57 AM
3

Good for you? I had a lot of ideas about what my forties would be like as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:54 AM
2

This comment says so much more about you as person than any insights you think you are sharing about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:47 AM
2

That’s just as true for men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 11:43 AM
2

Abused as a child is one reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:15 PM
1

You are clown shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 07:21 PM
1

What does “find a niche where you’re competitive” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 04:48 PM
1

So what’s your advice then, they should just roll over and die? That their situation is hopeless? There’s plenty of ways to expand your social circle through clubs or sports or other activities, even after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 03:26 PM
1

I didn’t realize that only exceptional people had the ability to expand their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:24 PM
-1

I didn’t realize “make some friends so you perform better socially” was such a huge ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 07:19 AM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:15 PM
5

Considering the “constantly shits his pants” rumors from the Apprentice- I would agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 11:13 AM
1

I didn’t really realize that simply being able to satisfy a woman was “sexual prowess” Not really setting a high bar for yourself, are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 04:04 AM
2

I know you think you sound cool, but saying stuff like that on the internet is fucking pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:29 AM
2

Keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:20 PM
3

No, I know how to make a woman cum- unlike you it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:49 PM
3

Yeah- you sound like you understand women really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:38 PM
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I don’t understand what the pint is then- are seriously trying to say that sexual satisfaction isn’t a major driver of a woman’s emotional satisfaction within a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:22 PM
4

I feel like girls only make that mistake once- but what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:23 PM
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You realize satisfying sex is a large driver of “the feels” for women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:35 AM
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I didn’t say they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:40 PM
3

In saying that you are ignoring companionship, fidelity, stability and ton of other things that are fostered by marriage. Those traits also become much more desirable as you age and in-all promote general well being. None of those things have anything to do with simply shitting out some kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 06:53 PM
0

Why are you judging her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:47 AM
1

And happily married people- how do they fit into your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:56 PM
1

“You can’t fire me, I quit!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:51 PM
2

Yeah? You have a lot of experience with success at finding a spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:05 PM
4

Not like a v lookup function on a spreadsheet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:04 PM
1

Oh I don’t. Genuine pity is a closer description of my feelings towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:03 PM
7

You think human nature works like a V lookup command in a spreadsheet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:01 PM
5

How you think this is an insightful comment on human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:00 PM
4

Sorry- that message was meant for another poster. These guys are fucking clueless as to what drives peoples’ actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:58 PM
1

That explains why you are so clueless about human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:46 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:58 AM
1

And this all out of your own ass? Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 11:34 PM
1

No, you’re just bringing up historical anecdotes. They are still only single points of data. Useless. With a dash of “appeal to authority”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 11:07 PM
2

So let me get this straight. Any man who is able to get laid consistently, only talks to women in order to fuck them. That’s what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 10:59 PM
1

All you’ve brought is anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 10:57 PM
1

Try me on the more recent example. I’m genuinely curious. Was I right about the sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 10:03 PM
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So the only men who weren’t solely interested in talking to women in order to fuck them- those are so rare they are sanctified? I’m guessing you didn’t have a sister when you were growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:53 PM
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More like- they’re salty for being generalized as creepy sex pests, but, at the same time, women are stupid for not realizing that all men are creepy sex pests, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 04:25 PM
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Your little thesis only makes sense if there are no men who are genuinely interested in friendships. Do you really think the only reason on earth men would be nice is because they are thirsty?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 04:22 PM
3

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:03 PM
3

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:03 PM
5

Or she got molested by her uncle or something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:59 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:58 PM
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They also happen to find some success with outliers and then assume everyone in that age group is like the outliers. There’s always been a subset of women who were into older men. It has never been the norm though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:56 PM
14

It seems like you view sex as transactional by nature and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 02:39 PM
1

Same age as you- I’m sure the resources don’t hurt your options. I’m happily married but I agree with you about the emotional intelligence. I work at a university and I see the kids and how they act. I have a 20 year old daughter and I talk to her and her friends. All it takes is being able to be comfortable with who you are and able to talk about something that interests her and almost all the work is done. There’s a huge portion of guys who just don’t get it but I disagree with you about it be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:31 PM
2

Most women have always found it to be weird (along with a sunset that likes it). I think you’re just talking to some outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:16 PM
2

Yes- no one has had it harder than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:20 PM
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Yes, that is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:12 PM
3

If you like what you see you flirt with the chance of going home together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:29 PM
5

How is any of that different from singles bars in the seventies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:46 PM
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I’m not sure this is even an American thing. Yeah, drug dealers can get girls, but so can just about everyone else. These guys are so outside of the norm, they are only guessing what sexual interactions are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 08:31 PM
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This isn’t something unique to women though. The easiest way to keep a conversation moving, especially with someone you just met, is to get the other person to talk about themselves. It’s not narcissistic, it’s just general human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:44 PM
1

Sorry for giving you advice. If what you are doing is making you happy, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:08 PM
1

That’s like saying you know everything about dog care and breeding because you pet a dog in the park once.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:56 PM
1

You said you’ve never had a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:08 PM
2

Women are attracted to confidence, charisma and a challenge. You have to nurture those traits in yourself if you want any success
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:59 PM
1

No- I just think you don’t understand what women mean when they say “good man”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:57 PM
2

It’s called the Electra Complex in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:48 PM
1

This definitely sounds like something a good man would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:45 PM
1

Then how do you know you’re a “good man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:44 PM
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Women don't want "good men." They want "men who they perceive as good. For them." Are they supposed to want what you perceive as good for them? Jesus Christ- do you think this a profound insight or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:42 PM
2

It sounds like the women you are interacting with are teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:52 PM
2

You did not come up with this theory from talking to women- I can tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:49 PM
1

It’s the same in the states
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:48 PM
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I don’t know what to tell you. None of what you are saying contradicts my point. The points you are arguing all ignore the reason why abortion is legal in the US and this is the same reason why none of your arguments lack legal merit. I understand the reason you feel it is unfair, and in some ways it is. Regardless the only solution to your problem ends up with the state (and the tax payers) supporting deadbeats’ children. If you can argue a reason why it’s more fair for the taxpayers to support…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 02:39 PM
2

The difference is- the OP’s argument isn’t “don’t have sex” it’s “don’t dump loads in women if you do t want to support a baby” You have control of where you nut. It’s not that hard to avoid unwanted pregnancies if you can control yourself to pull out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 01:55 PM
5

They can’t. Not unless the mother agrees
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:40 PM
1

Only if the mother agrees to release them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:39 PM
1

This whole argument completely ignores the reason abortion is legal in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:37 PM
2

I mean- there are guys who are actual rapists but that doesn’t mean all men are rapists at heart. I’m not denying that there are women like you describe in your OP or what I’m replying to. Where your lack of experience with women shows is the fact you think this somehow translates into a universal rule about women in general. I wouldn’t even call it an average behavior (because it isn’t) But whatever man. If you think human interactions can be boiled down to simple algebra- more power to you. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:31 PM
2

Yeah? Where did you conduct this research? Is it peer reviewed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:06 PM
3

It’s not universal in the ways you are describing in your post, no, it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:57 PM
4

It’s not universal though. It’s not the same for every person nor is it the same thing that attracts a single person to multiple others. Human don’t work like an algebra equation. I gotta be honest- you’re just further confirming my initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:30 PM
10

They so desperately want something like a+b=get laid When human attraction doesn’t follow logic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:26 PM
0

I’m talking about you, numbnuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:02 PM
10

I wonder if any of these posters here have even talked to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:40 PM
2

Whatever you say buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:27 PM
1

That’s important too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:36 PM
2

That’s what the money is for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:34 PM
1

Girls will give you several shots before they give up. They are much more forgiving then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:32 PM
3

I’ve fucked 7 girls in a year too. (Granted that was 20 years ago). It’s nothing to hang your hat on. Especially if you couldn’t manage to give one O to any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:30 PM
2

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:21 PM
2

jfl @ your obvious lack of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:21 PM
2

Yeah, I agree with all that- but I doubt you would be OK with never ever having an orgasm with your partner ever. Is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:20 PM
3

Dude here is just bragging about his ineptitude and is too oblivious to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:01 PM
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Well yeah- same goes for a girl who is a total starfish in the sack and thinks bj’s are demeaning. There’s gotta be a foundation to build on. You can’t teach someone to ride a bike if they can’t even walk. OP’s post read more like “if he isn’t dynamite in the sack from the first try, why bother wasting your time” and my comment is more to explain why that sort of thinking doesn’t really produce good outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:57 PM
6

Yeah- that statement just makes me more confident in my initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:43 PM
21

Here the problem I have with your post. Open and easy communication is the bedrock foundation for satisfying sex. That is the reason (at least in my book) relationship sex is better and the reason casual sex usually sucks. Sure you could blow through dozens of dates, rolling the dice that one’s personal style matches up directly with yours but odds are slim. I’d rather be with someone I connect with on other levels and I feel comfortable talking frankly with and build a sexual rapport with. In t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:29 PM
5

“Yes, they get a lot of things wrong, but the things that would never affect me negatively are perfectly fine”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:20 PM
19

Other women just expect you to be good-looking and don't care about your actual 'performance' or whether they even get to orgasm or not. Any woman who doesn’t care about orgasms, probably has never had one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:18 PM
1

Tall women are treated exactly like short men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:29 PM
2

I’m guessing you haven’t made through you thirties yet if you still hold this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:48 PM
2

You’re right if the only thing you wish to gain from a woman’s companionship is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:22 PM
2

You’re right if the only thing you wish to gain from a relationship is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:24 PM
2

Or it could just show that men cheat later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:49 PM
1

That’s awfully convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:44 PM
5

... I don’t want to burst your bubble, but that’s no different today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:23 PM
4

Then don’t you think you should qualify that statement with some sort of data?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:57 PM
3

Incels were most definitely a thing back then, as well as nice guys, white knights, chucks and simps. They might not have the same names, but these things aren’t new phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:56 PM
1

That’s me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:25 PM
4

Yes women want dread game, a partner who thinks feminism is toxic and believes in Briffaut’s Law. Get your head out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:44 PM
6

No - simps kowtow to women in hopes that they will love them- pick maishas do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:11 PM
7

A pick me is just a female version of a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:41 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:29 PM
4

I dunno- I’m not here to defend an ideology- just pointing out that the two strategies are not that dissimilar. That said- learning mind games (like dread game) to keep a woman on the hook is not fulfilling her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:14 PM
5

How is that different from red pill talking about spinning plates? Keeping a woman on a leash of your validation so she keeps fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:01 PM
10

From my brief time over there- almost all their strategies are born out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:32 AM
26

Stop having casual sex. Insist on commitment before sex and half of your dating problems would vanish, ladies. You shot yourselves in the foot and are blaming men when you pulled the trigger. That sounds like something straight from their sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:30 AM
54

Very similar to another sub on this site, just the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:14 PM
2

Genius level takeaway there, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:56 PM
4

That’s some weird circular logic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:32 PM
9

Or maybe you can toughen up if being called a creep for going after 18 year olds is too much for you to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:53 PM
1

If you had such a healthy sex life,why would you be here? Failed incel lol. He said, completely oblivious to the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:11 PM
1

Yes- having a wife who craves my dick is such a brag. Having a normal, healthy sex life now has graduated me from “cuck” to “incel” You think having a healthy sex life with your wife is not the norm. What does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:22 PM
1

Yes- the fact my wife enjoys fucking me makes me a cuck. Keep on swinging and missing, big hitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:22 PM
1

You and I, limp dick. I guess you can add reading comprehension to the list of things you aren’t skilled at (along with getting your wife to want your dick.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:59 PM
1

Yeah, we agree, you don’t sound like a “true man”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:46 PM
1

That sounds like a personal problem being dressed up as a universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:56 PM
1

Why do cheaters always try to make their betrayals sound virtuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:35 PM
2

Are you seriously saying that women are safer walking alone at night than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:48 PM
2

That’s for all crime, not the scenario we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:31 PM
3

Yeah- thank god. You would suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:51 PM
2

I am a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:51 PM
1

You sound like an A+ parent there chief. People like you are why others cringe when they see kids at a restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:33 PM
1

How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:32 PM
1

But- validating a crying kid is what you’re supposed to do (assuming they have reason to cry) and it’s the quickest way to calm them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:46 PM
4

Yeah- there’s no way anything negative could happen once you throw a gun in the mix!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:45 PM
2

Your saying a man is more likely to be assaulted than a woman? Everything else being equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:44 PM
2

Are they really “in” the marketplace in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:42 PM
1

She died about 8 years ago, so a widow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:01 PM
2

Pointing out how clueless you are makes me a white knight now? What exactly am I saving them from? Keep on showing us all how well you understand women buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:54 PM
4

I’m not shaming, just pointing to your resume to give your comment the appropriate “weight” it deserves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:36 PM
5

Yes- the guy who posts on 4chan and dank memes knows exactly what women want and has his finger on the pulse of the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:21 PM
18

I thought it was as simple as “women=bad” but what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:54 PM
2

Sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 03:34 PM
2

That doesn’t change what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:10 PM
2

Not everyone gets over it as easily as you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:28 PM
0

Who is the “they” in this scenario? Lizard people from the center of the earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:26 PM
1

He supports his rationale with data from the study. Do you have a study that contradicts it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:54 PM
1

Thanks btw I found that one but thought he was talking about one more recent than 2015
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:42 PM
1

Lack of religiosity is what’s stated in the analysis. Did you read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:59 PM
2

But the 68% increase from 2002 to 2015 in the incel share of the male, never-married, 22-35-year-old population is mostly due to a decline in marriage, not never-married men having less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:52 PM
1

But the 68% increase from 2002 to 2015 in the incel share of the male, never-married, 22-35-year-old population is mostly due to a decline in marriage, not never-married men having less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:52 PM
2

And I’m just supposed to take your word for it? Some random stranger on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:28 PM
2

And that’s different from 10 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:57 PM
0

You got a link to said studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:38 PM
6

Something tells me you weren’t in the dating market back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:28 PM
57

“If you ignore all the work of raising kids women get a ton of free time” You know how I know you’ve never raised kids yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:16 PM
1

You should work on your reading comprehension
/r/MensRights08/02/20 01:01 PM
1

It’s almost like you didn’t read it
/r/MensRights08/02/20 01:00 PM
1

Do they spend equal time with both of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:49 PM
5

There are plenty of adults who never get out of that teenaged way of thinking. That kind of goes hand in hand with failed relationships as an adult so you can see why there’s so much overlap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:34 PM
49

I don't know why they even assume the future will be on their side? Anything can happen tomorrow. You can get sick, you can die.. Why do they assume they're going to be rich and successful, especially when they're not doing anything to make that future a reality right now. 43 year old man here. I know I’m not supposed to comment but I can offer some insight from seeing it with my peers. It’s a coping mechanism. Just like nerds in high school tell themselves the jocks are going to be losers when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:20 PM
0

A cannot lower my standards and be with a fat woman. I have no arousal patterns to chubby, plump or obese women. If your post history is true and you’ve never been in a relationship and your only experience is with escorts- maybe you should lower your standards buddy. You might look OK, but given how often you rail against fat women I think it’s a safe bet your personality is shit (and it shows- women can see that a mile off) You should be giving these women a shot because you never know what mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:29 PM
9

Yeah- the guys who killed themselves, They should have just played sports. It’s really their fault if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:03 AM
10

Well, we had kids commit suicide over bullying far worse than “an occasional wedgie” It also doesn’t sound like you were often on the receiving end of this bullying either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:45 AM
19

It sounds like you didn’t live in that time and think the movies are what it was like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:30 AM
9

Christ- have you ever even talked to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:56 PM
9

What you call “good fortune and luck” I call “hard work by both parties to make it work”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:51 AM
10

1.5 times a month off of 30 year old data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 04:43 PM
7

Yeah dude- you sound like a real catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:54 AM
3

No- I’m Gen X
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:09 PM
24

How old do you think the posters in this sub are? I’m 43 and my parents were married post women’s lib as were everyone who is not a baby boomer on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:43 PM
2

During the Victorian Era it was women who were seen as constantly horny and unable to control their urges. Some of the basic assumptions you are basing this off of are not supported by historical trends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:22 PM
2

Upper middle class might have a cleaning service but he’s talking about full blown service staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:31 PM
2

Yes- are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:30 PM
3

I don’t think you understand what middle class is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:39 PM
13

I don’t think having several servants has ever been seen as middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:52 PM
4

Racist grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:26 PM
2

I’m 43 years old- I don’t need to ask what it was like. All of what your are saying just screams “lack of personal experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:20 AM
2

Tell me more about “how it used to be” between women and men when you were in elementary school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:04 AM
1

It does matter when you are making generalities about how “all women” behave when you have interacted with very few of them outside your own high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:50 AM
3

I love how this 18 year old thinks he has it al figured out and is telling the adults how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 10:00 PM
1

Thinking you’re full of shit is not the same thing as being bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:52 PM
1

Right you found the .000029 of the population with a member that size.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:39 PM
0

You’re full of shit, or need to learn what 10 inches actually looks like (unless you found the 1 in 10 billion men with a freak dick)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:53 PM
1

Considering men with ten inch dicks are only 0.0000290278% of the population. “She” either is full of shit or needs to learn how big 10 inches really is. https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/4254842/amp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:52 PM
1

Just take the “L” buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:56 AM
1

Right, they are collections on anecdotes- not studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:42 PM
1

those aren't studies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:14 PM
1

SO, you just made all this up and pass it off like it's a fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:13 PM
1

Keeping forming your ideas of girls around what ancient Greeks thought. How’s that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:16 PM
2

Reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:26 PM
3

The science of the paper has says nothing about any affect on the female nor does anything you post have anything to do with pair bonding. Appeal to authority is worthless, especially considering he was doing his research 150 years ago Dude - I understand why you feel the way you do, but you aren’t posting science to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:18 PM
3

That is about flies nor does have anything to do with pair bonding. It also say her progeny displays attributes of earlier mates, not the female fly at all. Care to try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:08 PM
1

And it’s spelled “sweetie” numbnuts, unless you think I sweat a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:03 PM
2

Post one link proving it and I’ll eat crow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:03 PM
2

and you can’t find a single fucking study to support your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:51 PM
3

They also believed the woman’s womb could wander around the body, so I’m not sure you should be relying on their thought as your only “proof”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:48 PM
1

In what planet is it my job to support your outrageous claims? And I have googled it, nothing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:41 PM
5

Posting a link about disproven ancient theories isn’t really helping your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:37 PM
1

Then fucking post something that actually proves your claim!! You can probably end this rather quickly!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:33 PM
3

I have googled it and you’re full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:15 PM
3

If it was recently discovered you would be able to post a more relevant study then, would you not? The studies you posted don’t support the claims. Seriously: work on reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:59 PM
5

One is about flies whose immature eggs’ exposure to seminal fluid affect their growth. The other is about women who had male babies sharing blood with the fetus. Neither support this: The sperm can be found in their brains, spine, etc. Her ability to pair bond with you will diminish and she will always be looking to swing to the next branch and do double monkey backflips. and you should learn some reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:54 PM
5

I can only feel those contractions if I am absolutely still and not moving at all. Even then it’s nowhere near as obvious as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:51 PM
6

Your links don’t support the claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:48 PM
14

So, you’d rather her not communicate what she needs to have an orgasm and just fake it for your benefit? And you somehow think this will be good for the relationship and she would be less likely to cheat? Are you an idiot?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:43 PM
1

A gish gallop is what it’s called.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:23 AM
2

/r/lostredditors
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 01:47 PM
51

Keep on moving those goalposts dude.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 01:39 AM
4

congratulations, you figured out what the word "except" means
/r/MGTOW05/09/18 04:46 PM
0

This is all about your own motivations and nothing at all about the population at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 03:28 PM
5

She is just as much a Mary Sue as Luke was in the OT
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:01 PM
5

It took years and training under two masters for Luke to develop enough Force ability to hold his own in a fight with Vader in ROTJ What movies were you watching? Luke especially - what they did to his character was downright blasphemy. They basically gave him the same personality as Yoda in Empire He had, maybe, weeks of training at best
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:58 PM
-1

Or- they want to fuck someone who can actually make them come. How shocking
/r/MGTOW04/12/17 05:26 PM
2

What- that your woman will leave you if you are unable to give an orgasm? How is that shocking in any way shape or form?
/r/MGTOW04/12/17 05:25 PM
6

most men smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 07:00 PM
1

why are you trying to twist my words?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 05:07 AM
8

Why do you think I'm distressed? Because I'm calling you out for being a creep? You need to find another angle, buddy - it's not working
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 08:04 PM
6

I'm grossed out by creeps. Please forgive me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 07:31 PM
12

still creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 06:24 PM
3

New in the sense of the last century or so, not new as in since the year 2000
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 03:38 PM
1

Are you dense? Everyone who has disagreed with you, you have accused of using a strawman argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 05:40 PM
2

Saying everyone who disagrees with you is using a strawman argument isn't helping prove your point. It's just showing you don't really understand what a strawman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:11 PM
1

And, of course you are getting downvotes. Obviously, the neckbeards know what it's like to be a woman in the workforce better than the actual women.
/r/MensRights16/04/17 02:09 PM
12

So the only time a man is at fault is if he is a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:38 PM
14

Is there any room in any of those scenarios for anything to be the man's fault at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:17 PM
9

You should ask them their astrological sign while you're at it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 01:41 PM
3

so, rape is OK in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 07:01 PM
1

What you are describing is not ogling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 12:08 AM
1

they are going to talk and that will ruin it for me. This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:43 PM
1

You think there is nothing creepy about an 18 year old obviously ogling a 5 year old? You don't think her that would produce a sensation of uneasiness or fear if her parents witnessed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:35 PM
1

What exactly is unbelievable about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:01 PM
2

Prove you're a dumb motherfucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:51 PM
1

So, in your book, the only way someone can be creepy is by actually molesting someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:50 PM
1

You think there is nothing creepy about an 18 year old obviously ogling a 5 year old? You don't think her that would produce a sensation of uneasiness or fear if her parents witnessed it? You don't think it's repulsive? Are you being serious here or are you just afraid to back down from your stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:21 PM
1

It's weird is that another way of saying it's creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:11 PM
1

Is an 18 year old ogling a 5 year old creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 07:02 PM
1

An adult in his twenties ogling an 18 year old is just as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:54 AM
1

OK guy, good luck with your Konami Code for sex. I hope it continues to work out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 05:11 PM
1

no- you are sick for thinking like that. It is not the way things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 04:41 PM
1

Yeah, that's gross and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:05 PM
1

That's not what you said though. You say sex is a reward for good behavior and other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:20 PM
5

Wait- you view sex as a reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:56 PM
3

OP's entire post is nothing but a giant straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 09:55 PM
0

I'm sorry but "get an education and get a job" is not even the same ballpark as "change who you are on a fundamental level"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 10:09 AM
0

Most of life is about (trying to) changing who you are to fit a mold that you think others want. if you say so... to me, that sounds like a really pathetic life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 02:42 AM
3

Flip more coins is red pill advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 10:09 PM
0

Interesting note about Nietzsche - he was the absolute opposite of everything he espoused the ubermensch should be. He ended up dying penniless and alone, while living with his mother until she died and then with his sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 09:20 PM
5

and red pill is about changing who you are to fit a mold that you think others want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 08:58 PM
0

Get out there and flip more coins!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 08:57 PM
1

This seems to disprove red pill theory if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 08:56 PM
3

Most "alphas" I know and have known want a girl who actually knows what the fuck she is doing in bed and actually has a sex drive - but go after whatever want. Only betas are that concerned about "alpha" and "beta" classifications anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:28 PM
4

I'm sure that sex tape is a sore spot, even for Kanye. He tries to play it off like he doesn't care ("my girl a superstar all from her own movie") but I know he does. He's still human. Kanye deep down is a wildly insecure person. If you listen to his music it's pretty blatantly apparent. You are quite possible the most beta person I have ever encountered- you have no idea what goes through the mind of an alpha. God, being so insecure about partner count practically SCREAMS beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 04:16 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 11:48 PM
1

Yes, but virtually all women use some form of cosmetics compared to what? The absolute bottom 1% of men who need self help books in order to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 12:15 PM
7

Yet, we see a self-help industry to help men get laid, no parallel for women. How big an industry is cosmetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 08:55 PM
3

If bonobos were like humans they wouldn't be living in the forest. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 08:52 PM
8

"Sluts deserve their shame"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 08:26 PM
1

They didn't even ask them to stop, they asked what grounds did they think made it OK.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 07:33 PM
3

eh- that's not right
/r/MensRights04/06/13 04:57 PM
6

you should definitely make a meme about it and post it on Reddit
/r/MensRights04/02/13 10:58 PM
7

actually, yes
/r/MensRights04/02/13 10:50 PM
18

That whole thing terrified me. Engrossing read
/r/MensRights28/06/11 02:24 PM
4

you are right- if he gives up his parental rights he never gets any right to see the child ever again
/r/MensRights28/03/11 11:05 PM
1

not the case when I posted- glad to see otherwise
/r/MensRights25/03/11 12:07 AM
2

I know- right? Completely changed my perception of the casee when I found that out.
/r/MensRights24/03/11 11:21 PM
7

When did she say she was unhappy with the death of chivalry?
/r/MensRights23/03/11 09:44 PM
2

ah- I present facts that might challenge your pre-conceived notion and get downvoted without a response
/r/MensRights23/03/11 06:43 PM
7

I know I will be downvoted, but the reading comprehension of most of the posters in this thread is abysmal.
/r/MensRights23/03/11 05:49 PM
0

where do you get she is unhappy about it?
/r/MensRights23/03/11 05:43 PM
8

The coffee was so hot is melted off her clitoris. Let that sink in and still tell me she didn't have a right to sue.
/r/MensRights23/03/11 05:36 PM
0

I did that by angling my body and maintaining eye contact. After we stopped talking I kept my body position angled toward her.
/r/seduction30/11/10 12:33 AM
2

When the topic comes up is there a good strategy to compensate for this biological demonstration of lower value? I laughed
/r/seduction29/11/10 10:02 PM
-6

you sound like a robot
/r/seduction29/11/10 09:57 PM
19

Women be shoppin!
/r/MensRights05/11/10 07:42 PM
1

I am shocked that you are an engineering student
/r/MensRights20/09/10 08:36 PM
1

you sound like you are fun at parties
/r/MensRights20/09/10 08:33 PM
2

that seems like a lot of "if's" "and's" and "maybe's"
/r/MensRights01/09/10 07:08 PM
9

you sound like you are fun at parties
/r/MensRights04/05/10 05:12 PM
4

Find fries you like and then come back for a big mac every once in awhile.
/r/MensRights30/04/10 08:42 PM
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