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When I was younger I was a total virgin pushover. Funny that after I started seeing escorts, grew a backbone and openly talking about this to my friends...I started to get wayyy more genuine female friends rather that ones looking to lead me on. And trust me, it's not the "you're just not as desperate now bro", cos I'm still a flirty bastard, even if I'm a short-ass haha. Admittedly, a lot of my female friends are quite sex positive and socially liberal due to the whole escorts thing...but it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:40 PM
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Honestly most men would be better off doing charity, cultivating diverse friendship groups and seeing the odd escort when they get horny. There problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:24 PM
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Sex robots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:25 AM
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I've loved cars since I was in nappies tbh. My dad used to buy and sell sports cars and I used to eat my dinners behind the wheel of my favourites sometimes - It's part of my blood. I think there's a stereotype that people get into cars for the opposite sex and stuff but I just love cars like some people live Whiskey, Watches and Cooking tbh! For me it's beyond a status symbol, it's much deeper than than that 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:35 PM
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Nothing I can do unfortunately. My article was effectively shadowbanned. The toxicity on Reddit these days is absolutely galling and I've already told the moderator in question that I won't be participating on this sub again (with this banned thread being the obvious exception). More than happy to continue the conversation with you in a private message if you feel you need to talk. Might start my own subreddit soon tbh 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:03 PM
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Very good points and food for thought indeed! 🙂 I just think there's a lot of genuinely good men out there who have been beaten down by certain parts of life. Most of those men I've met have actually been great people!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:11 PM
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Hmm, like I said I put my hands up and admit my evidence is anecdotal. But I've come across a lot of men in my position and none came off as resentful...quite zen if nothing else!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:56 PM
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I think I know my friends well enough to know that they have. But you are welcome to doubt 🤷🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:54 PM
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Male 31, brown, 5'1 short stack, decent looking but (unsurprisingly) don't get touched by a bargepole romantically 😂 Contrary to what everyone shreiks about on here though, I'm well adjusted, well liked, not bitter, in gainful employment, extroverted, have a wide circle of diverse male and female friends...and I present myself pretty damn well if I do say so myself 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:40 AM
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But was is "who he was"? How do you define that? Not getting at you or anything, but presumably some combination of personality, looks, sense of humour, etc. Which is fine btw. But how do those attributes really differ from that of the traits: work ethic, money, social status...I mean you can't say most rich people are born rich so it's unfair... because most attractive people are born attractive 😂 At the end of the day it's all just arbitrary values that society places on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:31 AM
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Men who feel sexually frustrated are men who have too much time on their hands. If they had an active social life, with friends, family; if they had their time filled with their hobbies and past times, projects and goals for their life, they wouldn't be as obsessed with sex as many men seem to be. Hard disagree - huge generalisation. I have a very active social life, extrovert, and a large pool of diverse male and female friends. HOWEVER, as a very short ethic man in a western country my dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:43 PM
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To answer the OP question as succinctly as possible - I think there are two mutually reinforcing factors at play: (1) Technological advancements: i.e. the pill, implants, social media, automation of middle class jobs, etc. (2) Socio-Economic change: women entering the workforce, feminism (radical or otherwise), changing social expections of women and femininity, etc. Those two factors are the main pillars of why male sexlessness is rocketing upward. [NOTE: I'm aware PPD is strawman city, so bear…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:21 PM
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To answer the OP question as succinctly as possible: (1) Technological advancements: i.e. the pill, implants, social media, automation of middle class jobs, etc. (2) Socio-Economic change: women entering the workforce, feminism (radical or otherwise), changing social expections of women and femininity, etc. Those two things are the two pillars of why gender relations are so tense right now. [NOTE: I'm aware PPD is strawman city, so bear in mind I'm not saying these thing are necessarily good or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:26 PM
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Cool. Story. Bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:01 AM
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I’ve never in my life heard a woman (or ever experienced the feeling) of liking a man just because other women like him. How can you know this for sure? I honestly don't mean to burst your bubble, but if you're a female with an active dating life, then the type of quality men your going for will most likely have other femaled Pershing them...don't get me wrong, not obviously in a vulgar way...but there will definitely be interested parties on the sidelines. And I'm sure that that wpild be a fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:38 AM
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People aren't upset with women going for the top 5%. They're upset with the hypocrisy of people constantly proffessing that it isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:45 PM
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Yeah indeed, it's a complex issue imo. I personally think it's fine to cut ties with someone that's giving you emotional pain...at the end of the day our own health comes first. Ultimately, it wasn't the blocking that annoyed me...I understand that and even respect it. Hell I would do it to protect my own mental health so I can't judge! 😂 The thing that annoyed me was all the leading on and social politics and bullshit around it...the world would be a lot better without that stuff imo 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:45 PM
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All these guys who bitch about being friendzoned were never really friends with the girl. I understand wanting more intimacy than she wants to give but she still decided to give you friendship. I understand not being able to stay friends because we can't control our emotions and sometimes we need space to get over someone. But shaming girls for rejecting you and offering friendship is such a dick move. I agree with pretty much everything you said but, as a counterbalance, women can also pull sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:23 PM
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You don't meet any guys that have a problem with porn and/or sex work? ....seriously!? I find that hard to believe when literally every other thread on the Reddit "men's-dating-sphere" is some variation of: porn should be restricted/escorts are bad for men, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:14 AM
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I like this concept! 😁 Brutal truth: whether we admit it or not, I think a lot of guys want a conventionally attractive partner - which is fine - but are unwilling to accept the ramifications of that. We say we're happy living without relationships...or waiting until we achieve the right status to date/fuck how we want... then we go right back to ruminating about our deficit like an emo kid in the early 2000s. We look down on things like pornography and sex-work, while consuming this content ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:11 AM
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The thing is though it's all relative. At 5'1 on a good day, I'm a very short brown guy 🤣 so for me - and I'm betting for a lot of men out there - 5'8 is definitely more than avarage...in fact in the UK the average for men is actually around 5'7, so over here he certainly was. I'm also willing to bet that, despite your words, he was at least a conventionally attractive guy. But either way, we all have our struggles in our own ways. At least I have my life in order and am very, very financially s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:03 PM
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One million percent brother - couldn't have said it better myself 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 09:44 PM
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I think it's interesting that were talking about going back to the values of the 2000s. To me, they weren't much different today If you look at the culture of the time - R&B, Rap and movies in particular - the "betabucks" strategy was still well and truly alive then. "A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me" - TLC "They wanna spend that on me" - Destiny's Child Tbh the early 2000s was actually quite a good mix of relatively decent women's rights (not saying it was perfect, of course) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 09:40 PM
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One million percent my brother 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:51 PM
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That's an immature mindset. What if the attractive party-couples looks fade? What if the hipster couple start to earn different amounts of money? What if an asteroid falls on the earth causing a mass extinction...? Who the hell cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:41 AM
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Easy. Before technology and automation competed away men's traditional avenues of masculinity. And after the inequalities that arose from a patriarchal society. So I would say roughly 1990-2010 - not saying everything was perfect here, but dating was significantly easier along with women's rights being upheld to a sufficient degree. There's a lot of neckbeard types that shake their fist at modern day feminism(*), when the real issue is one of economics: back in the day, your average, unnatractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:04 AM
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"the same station in life" - lmao Further proof that the modern dating market is essentially a feudal caste system 😂 Which is pretty much why I'm happy to just check the fuck out - save my money, volunteer, drive nice cars and see escorts now and then. To paraphrase Sun Tzu: the best way to win a shit game is simply to not play at all. [not intended as a personal dig btw, your comment just inspired me a little 😁]
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:08 PM
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There is almost always a transactional element to relationships and - yes - to love as well. The more "hippyish" types HATE when you say this but honestly it's all around us: The attractive couple have exchanged looks...THEN became LTR compatible. The hippie couple exchanged looks and/or social status...THEN became LTR compatible. The wealthy couple exchanged a mix of money, social status and attractiveness...THEN became LTR compatible. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying there can't be beauty in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:07 PM
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100% Tbh these people are mostly coming from a position of fear as they are protecting themselves in the "looks hierarchy" we currently have in the west. This is one of the downsides of the egalitarian push we have in developed economies imo. When you take away people's ability to compete in various hierarchies, you just tend to bring out baser instincts. Don't get me wrong I'm not a super conservative guy or anything, I appreciate progress - it's vital in my opinion. But we're going to have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:38 AM
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I think the problem is that those "attractive people" are just way more visible on social media for obvious reasons. I know loads of ugly, unnatractive people that live really interesting lives...it's just nobody cares/looks their way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:12 AM
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Actually this is an interesting point... If approaching and accepting rejection politely was "re-normalised" and bad behaviours were nipped in the bud, etc, that could actually be a good antidote to online dating. If it was socially acceptable for me to approach random people on the street and politely chat them up (like in the old days lol)...I would get a lot of rejection for sure, but also a lot of people who may have thought I was "ugly" at first but then connecting with me on a personality/…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:00 AM
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Agreed. There's a lot of "hot takes" on this sub that are just frustrated men and women venting and over-generalising 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:56 AM
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Like I always say. I've been stopped and the street, completely unprovoked and called ugly by a group of women in the past. Ironically I'm not even that bad looking just really short and brown (which is enough in the western world these days 🤣) And this was just one instance of many of people openly trying to ridicule me in public. Don't get me wrong I'm not gendering this, it's been a fairly equal split of males/females doing this tbh...but to anyone on here that says we don't judge people on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:43 AM
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I think your missing the external impact of technology in free societies as well. For example, birth control technology was one seismic shift. Within the next 15 years or so I expect the next big shift to be sex/companionship robots and VR (contrary to most people I believe that robotics is actually in a more advanced state than VR though, we'll get robots before advanced VR imo).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:37 AM
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I'm pretty open and pro-legalisation of most types of consentual sex work. Including things like escorting and OnlyFans etc. I would certainly marry an ex-adult film star if the opportunity presented itself...don't get me wrong I'm a tiny asain dude so it's unlikely 😂 but I have no problem with it at all...I don't even think my slightly traditional family would mind if I was really into the person (they might resent it at first for a bit but then they'd be fine probably). I think the times have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:55 PM
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I like to think ice got my ducks in a row financially. I'm a very short brown guy at 5'1, so dating in my UK will probably always be a severe challenge. However, eventually I should have enough to at least find a decent partner abroad. Beyond that I'm gonna keep fit, maintain my large social circle, do my community volunteering and just try to be the best person I can be 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:49 PM
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Exactly this. What humans (of both genders) find attractive is not a monolithic, unchanging thing. For example - and famously - in older times larger women were found attractive as they represented wealth and being able to afford high quality food. Conversely, in indigenous tribes, I believe that intelligent trapper men are just as prized as the "warrior" types. I personally love curvier women, whereas in the 80's the "skinny" look was highly in vogue. Attraction varies along with external socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:41 PM
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I work in marketing, writing sales email copy. I've also been lucky enough to be interested in index fund investing from my early 20s so those are literally starting to pay dividends now 😂 I also help my dad with his buy-to-let business, hard work but worth it! So, many strings on my bow currently 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:43 AM
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Thanks! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:41 AM
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I might actually do this tbh! Men need some positivity out there instead of all this depressing red/blue/white/orange pill stuff! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:09 PM
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Cheers dude! Yeah the kid thing does get to me sometimes I have to admit. But the way I look at it - at 31 - I actually have a little more time for that goal 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:04 PM
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100% my G
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:21 PM
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I'm a 5'1 brown guy from the UK. So that should give you a decent picture of what I "get out of dating". That being said I'm not bitter about my situation. I'm really just focussed on making my money (which is going REAL well tbh), driving nice cars, volunteering in my local food bank and, yes, seeing some cool escort girls I know when the mood takes me... I call it: "losing with style" 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:38 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but there's only a smae size of 502 in that study. If so, that's way too small to be drawing conclusions from imo. It's a tough metric, but the average human meets around 2-300,000 people in their entire life...so it's not even indicative of one human lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:14 PM
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Lesser, maybe, but still worthy of inclusion in my opinion. Unless we're viewing the dating market as a Mad Max apocalypse world where the biggest baddest barbarian gets the prize. For example, contrary to popular belief, the Alpha Male chimp, for example, is often not the strongest or most successful in mating, but the one with the most social connections within the group...basically the most charismatic, trustworthy chimp often secures positions of power. He also has bodyguard chimps that lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:44 PM
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Money is intrinsically linked to status, which is in our brains not a social construct. There's an isolated, ancient tribe in Micronesia that actually has its currency as large stone disks with holes in the middle. The guy with the largest stone gets the best cows, houses food and, yes, wife. Nobody told this tribe how to develop this as they were thousands of years old. Status, and thus currency, is hardwired into the human brain - like it or not. That's leaving aside the philosophical argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:21 PM
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Thanks man! I'm a fan of both the meme and the racing driver so it really works! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:00 PM
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If a young guy goes to a noisy nightclub (minimal conversation possible) and has a consentual one night stand with a girl...the currency there was clearly looks/status. As much as we deny it, one night stands are highly transactional relationships. If a guy pays money for a sex (with a consentual, non-trafficked sex worker) what's the difference? What makes the social contract of looks/status bargaining different from that of financial resources? Why does society view looks/status as innately mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:20 AM
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I very rarely meet unnatractive men who feel an entitlement to dating attractive women. IMO this sounds more like built up prejudice than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:13 AM
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One million percent this. The escorts I see are emotionally and financially stable, friendly, and actually really enjoy their job. When women on here say they're anti-escort (*) those women are usually just afraid of legitimate sex work taking away one of their biggest ponts of leverage: SEX. *note that I left out trafficked/coerced/streetwalking sexworkers, which is a different world and one that should be condemned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:29 AM
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Women not wanting to interact with you is not mistreatment. I'm sorry, hard disagree on this one. If anything this is the first step of mistreatment. For example, if a highly islamophobic guy is working a crowd he will more than likely deliberately ignore the opinions of Muslim people by not giving them a platform, this stengthening his position. The same with any authoritarian dictator for that matter. There have been many peer reviewed studies on this: less attractive people get less attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:26 PM
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Say what you want, but as a 5'1 brown guy living in the UK I've literally had women come up in the street completely unprovoked saying "you're so ugly!" right to my face in front of my friends (ironically I actually think facially I'm pretty decent looking, but I suppose being a short guy is enough these days 😂). I've also had multiple women make fun, ridicule and laugh at me in public because of my height. Weirdly, I am an extrovert with a diverse range of male and female friends and am conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:28 PM
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Coming from an ethnic minority UK perspective, the women here are now very opposed to dating Asian/East Asian men. According to my dad it never used to be like this (he had an white wife as his first marriage)...but of course back then in the 70's and 80's men literally earned more than twice what women earned so it was a different world. I think, because of the welfare state (just to clarify, I'm not against such policies), UK women are not nearly as impressed with money as US women. So to summ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:44 PM
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Admittedly I'm biased as I'm very pro sex-work legalisation. But nevertheless, you should be very wary of "studies" on legalisation. A lot of them aren't peer reviewed and - purely due to the nature of the industry - tend to have small sample sizes and incomplete/innaccurate data. It's a bit like the old immigration argument. Immigrants DO increase the crime rate when they come into a country...but that doesn't mean they're innately violent (or sex work is innately damaging), just that there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:34 PM
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Nobody's saying you should sacrifice your body. Stop strawmanning. For example technology could be of great help here: Medical advancements to keep people healthier into 100+ years old Body augementation for those that don't fit current beauty standards Artificial wombs and babies We're really not as far off from these things as we might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:14 PM
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A lot of immaturity showing on this thread - saying things like "population decline is good, let's encourage it, YOLO". To those people I ask...are you ready for an inverted pyramid demographic structure? Where there isn't enough young people to look after the elderly when you grow older? Where the economy stagnates and even the government can't afford to look after you? Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those trad-con idiots, far from it tbh, I'm a UBI and sex-worker endorsing liberal male for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:37 AM
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I take your point, although it's easy to call people dumb on the internet behind a keyboard on an anonymous forum - you should have some more respect. I suppose equilibrium isn't the best choice of words and the dating market has kind of already reached its "equilibrium", albeit an unbalanced one (imo). I suppose a better wording would be that sex robots would, at the very minimum, represent an external shock to the dating market, increasing the supply of attractive "bodies" (for lack of a bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:17 PM
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Hmmm not sure about that in all honesty. It looks like robotics and VR are pretty much marching in tandem in my estimation. I'm willing to bet by the time we have true brain interfacing VR, realistic walking sexbots will most definitely be a thing - expensive probably - but still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:35 AM
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I'm pretty sure they'll improve with time. But hey, I'm a nerdy and biased Ray Kurzweil futurism fan, so happy to agree to disagree! 😂 Right, back the VR headset for me...✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:27 AM
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Yes, and my point is I think one of the next "formats" is likely physical sex robots. Is it that hard to rationalise?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:19 AM
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VR porn, OnlyFans, chatbots, sextoys, etc. All of these are rapidly growing, multimillion (maybe soon billion) dollar industries. Why do you think it suddenly won't apply to robots in 10-12 years time? For reference, this is where we are now: https://youtu.be/fn3KWM1kuAw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:12 AM
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Good! Cos' I'm gonna keep on recycling questions pumpkin ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:01 AM
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Somebody get Charlie Brooker in this thread STAT! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:25 PM
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One million percent. It's kind of going away in the UK, but yeah still needs to change a lot. FFS most of the escort girls I see are (1) super emotionally stable and (2) have their lives in FAR better order than me 😂. There's a huge difference between the online MYTH of the average sex-worker and the reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:20 PM
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The legality point is bang on imo. Even when America goes on about "illegal" prostitution, it's always a clever re-phrase away from legality. I.e. paying a person for their "time" as an escort - if they decide to have sex with you, well that's just one thing leading to another. However, I've always been semi-open about seeing escorts here in the UK...and I have to say over here its way more socially accepted than in the US and much more common than you would think (although not always publicly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:12 PM
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Exactly - I agree. Put simply, I think sex robot tech could be, at the very minimum, a STABILISER for a dating economy that is (imo) out of equilibrium.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:06 PM
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That's a very interesting thought! Very Black Mirror! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:59 PM
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Huh...I'm all for legalization my friend, always have been! Never said anything about countries - you got the wrong guy! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:47 PM
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Honestly, we're probably much closer to sex robots than the level of tech needed to cosmetically/genetically manipulate our bodies in a complex way. Just look at the Boston Dynamics dancing video. Robotics is definitely on an exponential slope right now. All considered, I think we're probably about 12 years away from the first basic sex robots. And, contrary to popular belief, I think the impact on the dating market will be seismic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:27 PM
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"Why is male sexlessness bad" That's a big question you've asked my friend, but I'll try my best to approach it 😂 Here's my thoughts: I'm a bit of a reductionist and I think that humans have become so successful on this planet because we cooperate and help eachother. So when our brothers and sisters are in pain I think it's a good thing to reduce this as much as we can. Not saying it's the only factor, but I strongly suspect male sexlessness is correlated to birthrate decline (as is clearly the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:08 PM
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Meh, I'm a tiny little brown dude with high standards, so I just get with some cool escort girls that I know. Some people would call me names, but honestly fuck the world and it's boxes...I'm just focused on being as good a person I can be and helping others, while still gettin that 🍞 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:39 PM
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You do realise the western/developing world is heading for a birthrate crash? So just look at Japan to see "why it's bad": -Inverted Pyramid social structure (more old people than young) -Healthcare crisis as not enough younger people being born to look after an (accelerating) aging population Japan has massively increased immigration to combat this...but as the whole world develops birthrate decline is honestly the most likely way humans die out. Not saying this with any agenda, just stating fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:24 PM
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Just speaking abstractly, not for myself or anyone in particular. But I do agree with your second statement 👍 On my side, I'm a tiny little brown guy that's given up on traditional dating and I just see some cool escort girls that I know 🤣 Got loads of female and male friends. Just accepted that "long-term relationships" are not something that's gonna happen for me I think. Don't really have any entitlement and/or resentment at all, so - probably like you - I struggle sympathising with some of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:59 PM
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I'm a decent looking but very short 5'1 brown dude. I'll be the first to admit I've got high standards and it's not in my personality to date women "in my league". However I have zero entitlement and fully understand this means that a relationship/family is not a boat that will sail for me...and I've made peace with that. I've got loads of great friends (female and male) and focus all my energy on investing, foodbank volunteering and cars :) I also see a few sex-workers who are actually really c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:48 PM
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I'm confused. You said that you don't care who men go for...but then go on to say that they should "read their League, and the room". As far as I can see you can't have both...so which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:40 PM
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I would consider myself a libertarian favouring universal basic income. Government ownership only for true public goods like schooling healthcare, military, certain infrastructure etc. The rest should be left to the free market. 👍
/r/MensRights26/06/21 09:56 AM
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I'm a big fan of Jordan Peterson and he's right on a lot of things. But he's not the moral arbiter of society that so many peolem make him out to be. This is just my opinion, but his traditionalist views on both sex-work and economics fall very far from the mark...and the bias shows through strongly. His views on social hierarchies and the dating market, etc. are bang on though.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 07:04 PM
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Highly subjective statement. What is considered degenerate or not has varied greatly through time/culture/context/etc. In Ancient Greece soldiers would regularly have anal sex with eachother almost as a semi-sexual method of bonding...I think many people would now consider that "degenerate". In modern times women kiss in public and show their ankles...stuff that would literally get you killed in most medieval societies for being a "degenerate". Admittedly I'm pro sex work, but it will do you no …
/r/MensRights24/06/21 12:40 PM
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Yeah some interesting points there for sure. I think for me it just boils down to this: nobody has any right to tell two consenting adults (that are not deprived, coerced, trafficked, etc) what to do with their bodies. I'm fairly open in saying that I employ the services of escorts and, while I don't profess to having any sort of large studies to back me, I have seen specialist websites in the UK with thousands of users that put a ton of power in escorts' hands. All of the girls I see are well e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:14 AM
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It's clear we have diverging opinions here and I respect that. Agree to disagree and all that 👍 However it's worth mentioning that you made some sweeping statements there regarding the majority of sex workers being trafficked - do you have any studies/sources for this claim? As far as I'm aware there hasn't been any large-scale study on this mainly due to the private nature of the industry (even when it is working well). There was an article back in 2011 in the UK which suggested that the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:55 AM
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Agreed, I get that impression too! A bit of a generalisation but kind of the male young- professional types that say they're all for womens liberation but get strangely deaf when they hear those views coming from normal sexworkers 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:53 PM
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*Prepares downvote shield Holy crap this sub could be re-named TheOmishPill as it's full to the brim with prudish views on sex/sex-work. Tbh I think most of these views come from America which has a puritanical history and hasn't seen a legalised system which (more or less) works. My views are simple: as long as the sex worker is not coerced/pimped/trafficked etc. then people need to accept that it's two people participating in a consentual act - they don't need to be told what they can and can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:46 PM
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Fully agreed. I'm quite a short guy at 5'1 (Mauritian islander genes lol), so getting a girlfriend is harder for me than most. Never been prone to depression per se, but it did give me anxiety/breathing issues. Was referred to a (female) counsellor who was absolutely HORRIBLE. She kept on saying that she was totally impartial, etc. but kept trying to lead me down a path with her conversations, i.e. asking what kind of women I'm attracted to then saying "why do I feel 'entitled' to those women"..…
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