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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2395	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one)	Activism/Support	__PETTYOFFICER117__	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 05:54 PM
18	Does someone have a comprehensive reference for men's issues?		__PETTYOFFICER117__	/r/MensRights	05/12/20 12:53 PM
0	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments)	General	__PETTYOFFICER117__	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 01:06 AM

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-11	Equality to a point Except that ignores the generational effect that racial discrimination (which is the most often context in which people talk about affirmative action) has. When black parents are discriminated against, that affects their children, who are all black. When a male (or female) is discriminated against - in this case subjected to the horrors of war - it affects their children, who could be female or male. So affirmative action can be beneficial in one context and superfluous in the other.	/r/MensRights	09/10/21 04:14 AM
192	House passes bill requiring woman to register for draft. Funny how intersectional feminism often ignores men's issues.	/r/MensRights	28/09/21 07:35 AM
-17	Building the First Shelter for Abused Fathers and Children Check out /r/menslib for a more tempered attitude than this sub. I personally prefer it, but stay on this sub just because news posts seem to be more frequent here.	/r/MensRights	20/07/21 05:29 AM
-1	Study: of 1,500 men who committed suicide, 91% had been in contact with a health agency to seek help. The notion that men die because they don't ask for assistance is untenable. Stop supporting misogynists	/r/MensRights	01/06/21 07:59 AM
1	Study: of 1,500 men who committed suicide, 91% had been in contact with a health agency to seek help. The notion that men die because they don't ask for assistance is untenable. Some feminists blame all men. So we can blame the specific feminists who agree with that statement. Your comment shows a vast lack of critical thinking or emotional intelligence. Just a mirror rule of a social equality. To pick apart your abysmal aphorism, a mirror only reflects light. That light's gotta come from somewhere. Let's say respect is blue light and disrespect is red. If one person is rude for no reason, and nobody is respectful for no reason, and everyone else just reflects emotion l…	/r/MensRights	01/06/21 05:40 AM
4	Study: of 1,500 men who committed suicide, 91% had been in contact with a health agency to seek help. The notion that men die because they don't ask for assistance is untenable. You fucking blame me for being bitter after my experiences that is stupid and outright victim blaming and you know it. I didn't blame you for being bitter. You have a right to be bitter. I said it's wrong to take that vitriol and spew it at all women as a group. Blame the individuals, try to move on. I know for a fact most women are incapable of caring about men If it's such a fact, do you have a source? Because the majority of women I know care very deeply about men. Sounds like anecdotal exper…	/r/MensRights	01/06/21 04:02 AM
-9	Study: of 1,500 men who committed suicide, 91% had been in contact with a health agency to seek help. The notion that men die because they don't ask for assistance is untenable. If you smell shit everywhere you go, check the bottom of your own shoe. Not saying that some women aren't dismissive, but you sound very bitter and are taking that out on all women. In fact, I'd argue that you're a stereotype which feminists use to argue the same kind of thing for men. I've had similar bad experiences with counseling, but I don't take it out on women in general. I judge each person as an individual.	/r/MensRights	01/06/21 03:37 AM
3	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Dude thank you. And if someone can't appreciate that then I'm not gonna vibe with them anyways. Everyone on reddit seems to think that'll result in negative attention, but it'd be attention from the wrong people so who cares? At least someone gets it.	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 05:26 AM
2	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) If judges are giving harsher sentences because of unconscious internal bias that legit and aren't mentioned/pointed to/relied on in their decision expressedly, how is that the fault of the system? The system shouldn't leave room for bias, or should correct for it in some way, basically. The fact that the system leaves enough room for that bias to work means that the system needs fixing, so therefore it's a systemic issue. Again, that's just the way I look at it. Not necessarily strict dictionary…	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 03:20 AM
5	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) You owe me $50 cause she didn't respond.	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 02:07 AM
2	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) I'm already using Bromite, has a little less bloat, but thanks for the tip.	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 02:06 AM
3	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) https://i.imgur.com/d4OsvIp.gifv	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 12:06 AM
2	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) I'd argue that even though it may not be technically written in the law, things like differences in sentencing are systemic because the system is the problem. The rape definition is certainly systemic. So technically speaking some of the things I mentioned still wouldn't fall under that. Certainly would've been a valid rebuttal if she'd stuck around for a convo.	/r/MensRights	19/05/21 12:00 AM
-6	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) You should check out /r/menslib - I actually generally like it much better than this sub. Very along the lines of what you're talking about tho.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 11:12 PM
3	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Haha I almost always have an incognito tab open. It's what I use to do most of my searching.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 10:58 PM
11	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Point taken	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 10:23 PM
6	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Word	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 10:18 PM
8	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Women People don't like getting Called out on their shit. FTFY	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 10:07 PM
8	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Nope, unmatched with no reply lol. Not that that's a surprise.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 10:06 PM
6	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Fair enough. It's hard to find a good balance of firm rebuttal to "lol no" while also leaving room for conversation. I didn't get the feeling that a convo was going to happen regardless, so I opted to basically drop as much info as I could and hope she absorbed some of it for later. 🤷	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 10:06 PM
5	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) I may not like her, but "bitch" is a pretty derogatory word with a lot of sexist connotation that I've been trying to stop using. Name calling is never really helpful in convos like these, and if anything will result in your argument being more easily dismissed. But fully in support of more people putting this stuff on their profile! The more noise we make, the harder it is to ignore. :)	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 09:55 PM
16	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) overall not as bad as women but yes still inequalities It's not a competition. Stop trying to make it one.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 09:31 PM
6	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Meh, I'm doing fine. I've got some killer profile pics which is really 90% of the struggle on dating apps. Maybe if I was down bad I'd think about pulling it off my profile, but I ain't. Thanks for the concern tho.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 09:26 PM
110	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) From talking to homeless dudes, it seems like homeless females are afforded more resources/opportunity and generally looked upon less as a "stain on society". I don't have any figures to back that up, so take it for what it is. (Unproven anecdotes) I think the inequality in the criminal justice system must play a part. I'm sure a large part of it is also due to the fact that men are far more likely to have substance abuse issues than women. (why that is is a whole other conversation) And I think…	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 09:20 PM
3	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Yeah but maybe she'll think twice next time she's about to be dismissive of men's issues, if for no other reason than she doesn't feel like dealing with another person like me. And even if that's the outcome, it's still a win because she'll be less dismissive in the future!	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 09:11 PM
6	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) You're being dismissive right now. The very thing that's so upsetting when people do it to men's issues. The actual thing that sparked this post. Some feminists may practice misandry or promote hate, but labeling all feminists that way is counterproductive.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 08:54 PM
7	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) I think you may have UK laws in mind here, but this is not quite accurate anywhere in the world that I am aware of. It's not really the inclusion of penetration that excludes male victims. Nope, US. Here's the definition straight from the Department Of Justice. A more general statement along the lines that "criminal definitions of sex crimes exclude many male victims" would usually work better. Fair enough. I have a personal anecdote about the penetrative thing so it usually works better once we…	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 08:52 PM
7	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) So someone can't be in feminism and men's rights subs? I agree their comment is wrong on many levels, but your "you're on this sub, leave" is just toxic. Like I said in my original post, it's not "us vs them" it's "gender equality". Inequality affects us all.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 08:46 PM
9	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) I wouldn't be attracted to her regardless.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 08:45 PM
16	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Sorry, where in any of my messages did I blame women for any of these issues? something that feminism actively discourages Where was I dismissive of feminism?	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 08:19 PM
24	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Apparently Hinge doesn't let you copy messages so I had to run the screen cap through OCR. Hopefully it worked alright. Males receiving longer sentences: https://www.ussc.gov/research/research-reports/demographic-differences-sentencing Males more likely to be convicted: https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/gender-differences-sentencing-felony-offenders Males receive lower grades for same work: https://mitilimit.edu/sites/default/files/project-documents/SEll-Discussion-Paper-2016.0…	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 08:07 PM
300	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) It's a filter haha. Plus I hate the traditional dating "small talk" shit. My favorite dates are the ones where we talk about real shit, and having stuff like that on my profile leads to interesting convos.	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 07:11 PM
29	Too harsh? Interested to see the response (if there is one) Yeah but I've had discussions like this which resulted in a change in thinking by the other person (and myself, on occasion). Both online and IRL. If we're not willing to educate others (and let yourself be educated), even if they may ignore us ultimately, then how are people gonna learn about these issues?	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 07:08 PM
1	Yes Google, I choose products not by their quality but by the vendor's genitals. Ah yes, let's have have state-controlled media, healthcare, oil, a dictator who has his political opponents assassinated, LGBTQ+ people openly prosecuted just for being themselves, widespread mob control, state-censored internet, etc. Better to have all that than those gatdamn leftist libtards! Can I get an amen? spits dip Sarcasm.	/r/MensRights	22/04/21 02:16 PM
1	Yes Google, I choose products not by their quality but by the vendor's genitals. Never use a free VPN.	/r/MensRights	22/04/21 02:05 PM
-11	This isn’t about you @thetinmen Unfortunately that kinda mindset exists in this sub a lot. Plenty of people here don't want gender equality. They have a victim complex and believe that women face no issues. Both "sides" (and I hate to use that phrase when talking about gender issues) have plenty of people who refuse to have a genuine discussion and listen to the other gender. EDIT: typos	/r/MensRights	25/03/21 07:00 PM
-1	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) Apparently not. And apparently women in America face literally no challenges. Too wrapped up in their victimhood to realize empathy for others is an important trait.	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 06:55 AM
2	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) Where in that do I say that we should focus on women's issues before we focus on our own? And I wasn't responding to anyone in that comment, I was making a post talking about the often toxic nature of this subreddit. I was very obviously speaking in broad strokes and using a post and a comment as examples.	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 04:01 AM
1	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) Wow, nice way to run all the way around my very simple question. Lemme know when you can answer a straightforward question.	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 02:56 AM
-4	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) Damn, just took a quick glance there and it seems to be everything I wish this sub would be. Thanks for the reference.	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 02:00 AM
0	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) we should fight for other people's issues before we can focus on our own? Sorry, can you quote where I said that?	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 01:58 AM
-5	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) Here's a few women's issues I can come up with off the top of my head (I'm sure if I talked to my sister/gf I could come up with a few others, but these are the ones I see discussed a decent bit which I've found to have some credibility) Inequality in hiring practices Inequality in representation (govt, high-power positions, etc.) More often sexually assaulted Women are often expected to meet a certain standard of appearance in the workplace, which takes more time to get ready. Women are still o…	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 01:53 AM
-3	Guys, if we don't want to be seen as a toxic community, maybe we shouldn't promote toxicity... (more in comments) Okay, first off - I don't want to stir up too much drama, but after seeing the post currently on the front page, I thought it was important to bring up that sometimes people claiming this sub is toxic are right. This sub can be toxic. While I wholeheartedly agree with the mission of this sub, I do not agree with how many people here go about discussions of gender issues. We should strive to understand and fight for women's issues just as we ask women to understand and fight for ours. The fact th…	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 01:13 AM
1	Delete if not allowed. Man posted a story about how his wife lied about being on birth control and tricked him into having a kid - I recommended he join this sub and share his story. INSTAbanned from r/offmychest - this is their response when I appealed. Have since been muted. I mean I can't say I agree with what they did, but as someone who's been here for quite a while, there is quite a bit of toxicity/sexism towards women on here. Just a couple days ago I got downvoted for saying that men and women are both oppressed in different ways, and that minimizing women's issues was sexist and we should strive to understand and fight for women's issues just as we ask women to understand and fight for ours. The dude I was talking to also posts in MGTOW and other toxic subs, …	/r/MensRights	25/02/21 12:55 AM
1	Hate to be the bearer of bad news, people, but according to my fact checking, Amber Heard is not fired from ‘Aquaman 2’ despite claims to the contrary. And even worse, she’s getting a pay raise. Inequality is everyone's problem because it affects society as a whole. People here (myself included) get upset that females often ignore or dismiss male issues, but you seem to be doing the same for female issues. Do you not see the conflict in that?	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 04:03 PM
0	Hate to be the bearer of bad news, people, but according to my fact checking, Amber Heard is not fired from ‘Aquaman 2’ despite claims to the contrary. And even worse, she’s getting a pay raise. Ah so women saying "believe all women" are right Okay, so when did I say I agreed with that? Oh right, I didn't and you're putting words in my mouth again. nice double standards dude. Not a double standard when I never said the thing you're saying I said. also try checking out FDS from time to time if you think what I said makes me a "misogynist joke" I already addressed your mention of FDS in my prior comment. Learn to read. congrats dude you're a fucking sexist piece of shit for thinking all f…	/r/MensRights	23/02/21 10:33 AM
-1	Hate to be the bearer of bad news, people, but according to my fact checking, Amber Heard is not fired from ‘Aquaman 2’ despite claims to the contrary. And even worse, she’s getting a pay raise. I never said you mentioned it Sorry, let's check your comment again: "You get on this sub and think feminism really stands for equality" (emphasis mine) Excuse me for reading your comment as it was written. I'm stating that people who usually come here saying feminism stands for equality are wrong Why would you even bring that up when nobody in this thread has had even mentioned feminism? are you actually that dumb that couldn't understand a single thing from that or are you just ignorant?. Nah …	/r/MensRights	23/02/21 09:17 AM
-2	Hate to be the bearer of bad news, people, but according to my fact checking, Amber Heard is not fired from ‘Aquaman 2’ despite claims to the contrary. And even worse, she’s getting a pay raise. You know what I noticed, everytime that I have said men are the ones who are oppressed on this sub there's always some asshole instead of acknowledging that fact, trashes on it. That's because your statement is ignorant. You get on this sub and think feminism really stands for equality Sorry, could you please show me where I said that? their stupid motto is "believe all women" that is what it led to here. Who exactly is "they"? Idk what day and age you're living in bud The one where both genders…	/r/MensRights	23/02/21 08:24 AM
0	Hate to be the bearer of bad news, people, but according to my fact checking, Amber Heard is not fired from ‘Aquaman 2’ despite claims to the contrary. And even worse, she’s getting a pay raise. Yeah I think the biggest problem I see in general with discussions like this is a lack of nuance. Way too often there's an inability or reluctance to try and understand the other person, or to acknowledge the shades of grey of an issue, and it's more about winning the argument than achieving any real progress.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 11:33 PM
-1	Hate to be the bearer of bad news, people, but according to my fact checking, Amber Heard is not fired from ‘Aquaman 2’ despite claims to the contrary. And even worse, she’s getting a pay raise. Men and women are both oppressed in different ways. Minimizing the very real issues that face either gender is sexism. I realize this is an unpopular thing to say on this sub, but women do still face discrimination/inequality in America (and all over the world). Especially in America, I don't think you can easily point to one gender or another and claim "oppression" by the other gender. There are plenty of inequalities and issues for each gender. People on this sub get mad that women won't liste…	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 10:00 PM
1	Progressive Female Conflates Anti-Circumcision With Nazis Why would you link to the actual article? You're just giving her direct attention.	/r/MensRights	11/04/20 03:34 AM
0	Savage burn I could tell you didn't make it since it's a screenshot of a screenshot, my guy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/09/19 04:58 PM
0	Savage burn Wow what a roast my dude. Almost on the same level as your post. Maybe if you screenshot it and throw some shitty filters on it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/09/19 12:40 PM
2	Savage burn /r/comedycemetary /r/lostredditors Also is there a subreddit for when you have to unsubscribe from a subreddit because all the top posts there are unfaithful to the name of the subreddit?	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/09/19 09:42 AM
0	They’re married now The society we live in is one where idiots think reality TV is real.	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/05/19 09:02 AM
12	Sydney barber who refused to cut girls hair settles discrimination case \| Women-only gyms are legally protected, but a male barber who isn't trained to cut women's hair cannot refuse a demand that he do so. I've been going consistently to the gym for a couple years now, and maybe a couple times seen dude chatting up a girl. Don't remember seeing anyone obviously annoyed either. I don't doubt it happens, but I think the bigger problem is probably just people eyeing other people... Which also happens quite a bit to dudes.	/r/MensRights	11/07/18 02:23 PM
5	"You must destroy his favourite shoes when your bf doesn't obey you!!!" Actually I have two pairs of shoes I wear: boots and running shoes. And both are well-worn. But I'm not so lonely and miserable that I have to go raining on other people's parades.	/r/PussyPassDenied	25/12/17 08:21 PM
13	"You must destroy his favourite shoes when your bf doesn't obey you!!!" Jeez dude, why so hostile? If that's what they enjoy, more power to them. I may not enjoy the same thing, but everyone has different interests. Some people have cars they work on, some people have too many headphones (myself included), some people hardline pipe their computer because it looks cool. None of those are bad things - if someone enjoys one of them and can afford it, why do you care?	/r/PussyPassDenied	25/12/17 07:59 PM
26	Girls strip 11 year old boy naked and post it on YouTube. Police call it prank until news gets involved. The boy's mother even mentions how big the outrage would be if genders were reversed, but says she doesn't want to ruin girls futures. This idea that boys deserve no modesty is horrible. Well yeah, she failed to press charges.	/r/MensRights	10/05/17 12:50 AM
25	Girls strip 11 year old boy naked and post it on YouTube. Police call it prank until news gets involved. The boy's mother even mentions how big the outrage would be if genders were reversed, but says she doesn't want to ruin girls futures. This idea that boys deserve no modesty is horrible. The mom's. She failed to press charges, saying that she didn't want to ruin the girls' future. It's all over in this thread.	/r/MensRights	10/05/17 12:50 AM
196	Girls strip 11 year old boy naked and post it on YouTube. Police call it prank until news gets involved. The boy's mother even mentions how big the outrage would be if genders were reversed, but says she doesn't want to ruin girls futures. This idea that boys deserve no modesty is horrible. Quote from the mom: I'm surprised that these girls can do this and get away with it. Or, there are no repercussions. AND WHOSE FAULT IS THAT!?	/r/MensRights	09/05/17 09:05 PM
2	Jodie Foster tired of ‘the woman thing’: There’s no ‘big plot to keep women down’ - "It would be nice to be able to have a more complex conversation and to be able to look at it more than just a quota or numbers." Reading it initially, it sounded like she was saying that about men making the decision to go to Vietnam, and that decision being stupid was the result of men... But now that you mention it, that probably makes more sense.	/r/MensRights	23/04/16 10:03 AM
14	Mother Who Filmed Herself Raping Her 1-Year-Old and Sold it for $300 Gets House Arrest and Community Service Don't know you, probably won't, but here's my guess, confirm or deny for me will ya: Reading comprehension, nonexistent...	/r/MensRights	07/04/16 09:27 PM
5	This really resonated with me My dad had a vasectomy... Then a reversal. Neither sounds fun.	/r/MensRights	07/03/16 07:05 AM
3	The Marine Corps gets it Relevant	/r/MensRights	23/02/16 02:45 AM
38	IRL I've seen a lot of men who were hit by women, but I've never seen a woman being hit by a man. Still these absurd posters are everywhere A "social experiment" I can actually get behind.	/r/MensRights	16/01/16 10:30 PM
2	Former Congressional candidate admits to sending death threats to herself. In 1998 she was sued by a man sent to jail for attacking her, who claimed he was falsely accused. I'm not your friend, buddy.	/r/MensRights	31/10/15 12:38 PM
9	This woman is literally a psycho (x-post from pussypassdenied,cringepics). I know a women like this, this is sad. /u/zexyp is a fucking douchebag, from the sounds of it he's a young teen who hasn't seen the real world yet, and needs to have the crap kicked out him a couple times. I don't usually check peoples' post history, but this guy is the kind of sexist scum that people talk so loosely about. He is blatantly sexist, talks down about women, etc. - basically I'd pay to see Ronda Rousey beat the crap out him, and then I'd give everyone in /r/MensRights the chance to let loose on him. Wouldn't be surprised…	/r/MensRights	13/08/15 01:54 AM
2	Texas judge orders young man to marry girlfriend and write Bible verses to avoid jail time Exactly.	/r/MensRights	09/08/15 04:18 PM
6	Texas judge orders young man to marry girlfriend and write Bible verses to avoid jail time Yep, exactly. I hate when "Christians" do shit like this because then we all look like big asshole morons who like to force our beliefs on others. This judge deserves to have the book thrown at him.	/r/MensRights	09/08/15 02:31 PM

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