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What you have stated is a bit general and can be equated to 'I don't get girls please help', so the best course of action may be to read through most of the top all time posts on this sub (and other self improvement subs) and apply both the long and short term strategies they recommend to your life. My instant reaction from what you wrote is that ypu are coming off a bit meek, if you have the positive personality traits that you described you should work on bringing them to the fore front of evr…
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:47 AM
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Ermmm alright. A lot of the tactics you are going to read on this sub are not very applicable to someone your age. I'm going to hazard a guess that both you and her are sexually inexperienced (not that this is a negative). However this may mean that the sexual messages she is sending you might be her just experimenting. It doesn't necessarily mean she's literally down to fuck. Any sexual messages I received from girls at 16 tended to be more of an indication that she likes you primarily over her…
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:47 AM
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You young bro? You sound a bit young no offence
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:38 AM
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I don't even know what I'm reading ahahah. Man it's all G she just hasn't opened it yet.
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:23 AM
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Now ya see I think this post is actually really interesting and telling for this sub. There are already some negative comments here regarding OP's post, but here are my thoughts: Firstly I believe OP, he has no reason to lie and he even admits his own methods failings. You can also read his profile and see a consistent set of stories. Secondly OP's writing isn't spectacular and in other posts he has had mentioned his verbal game isn't too strong. This is why many people on this sub will choose n…
/r/seduction17/10/17 02:50 PM
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Don't improve your game just yet, improve you. Start back at the gym with an approved workout. Then stick with it. You probably want to build some muscle, so check out the sidebar on /r/fitness. Don't forget the diet either, especially if you're looking to lose weight. I know you've tried before, but I'm fairly confident you have the same biology as every other person on the planet. Could be a mutant though I guess. Join some clubs and activities that you imagine would be challenging and even pu…
/r/seduction17/10/17 02:14 PM
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Morally you're fine. Legally is depending on your local laws. And also, don't now think that because you're in the moral clear you can break the law to try and be with her again. It's hard because she's a girl and she's fun, but it would be a huge mistake to knowingly Perdue her. Anyway have a nice day man :)
/r/seduction17/10/17 01:43 PM
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Good luck !
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:21 PM
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This isn't an issue for this sub. This is an addiction issue and I implore you to seek out more appropriate subreddit a for your problem. I'm not trying to be shitty here, but I assume you need better advise than 'delete your dealers number' which is all I have to offer.
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:17 PM
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Yeah, probably not going to get laid if you start your approach by whipping your cock out. However I feel there is a counter intuitive culture on this sub to stick so hard to the rules that in undermines ones ability to be adaptive. Because this is a text based website we typically end up reading dictated conversations and picking them apart meticulously. Yeah we might be improving each other's specific phrasing by 1%, but we are probably missing the bulk of rapport building. Which is based on t…
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:09 PM
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Take the conversation off of tinder and onto another social media platform. It's the digital version of physical escalation. If you've already done that then start organising a time to meet up. If she ain't keen after that then I guess it's time to move on buddy.
/r/seduction15/10/17 11:52 AM
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Idk if they think I'm a player or what man it's damn frustrating This indicates a problem. How do you not know? It should be a simple task to gauge the responses of the girls you are speaking to. If they think you are a player they would have no qualm in telling you that one way or another. If they think you are a creep they will freeze you out and become awkwardly silent during your presence. If they aren't showing any interest or disinterest at all then you are probably not making your intenti…
/r/seduction15/10/17 11:49 AM
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There are no absolute rules here. Human beings are weird and extremely varied, meaning many different tactics can be successful. That being said there are often general patterns of behaviour and that's what this sub is all about. So for very attractive girls, they usually know it. Not because they are bigheaded, but because they are told all the time by many people. Most people don't want to be used for solely their body, so it's counterproductive to open a conversation with a hot girl by tellin…
/r/seduction15/10/17 11:26 AM
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Alright so people are giving specific advice and I just want to share something general. You are going to grab some sushi with a friend and potential partner. This is a person who has already decided that they like you enough to spend time with you and share a meal. Think of all the people in your life you would genuinely go out of your way to sit down and eat with, even it means crossing town and dressing up and trying a new restaurant. Probably not very many people. Now here you have a person …
/r/seduction02/06/17 06:26 PM
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I think this a good tip, it ensures the exchange of numbers and even sets a light hearted tone for the following conversation
/r/seduction04/12/16 11:51 PM
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Just a quick note on people who say it takes years to master game. It depends. Some people are social recluses who need to build up years worth of experience they should have already gotten from their childhood. Others just need a push in the right direction, getting over approach anxiety etc.
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:43 AM
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3 comments but I can't see anything. People are shadow banned here
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:04 AM
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You may struggle to find a person to specifically be a wingman for you, but that doesn't mean you can't have a passive wingman through one of your regular friends. I don't have a particular guy as my dedicated wingman, but all of my friends are interested in going out, drinking and partying so when the situation calls for it, they will step up and help wingman for me. You need to find friends who are the type to go to big social events. Even if it's sports gatherings, hobby meetings etc, it does…
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:02 AM
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You can still have platonic friendships while trying to seduce a partner. As a matter of fact I highly recommend having male and female friends, they keep you grounded, give you a wall to sound off etc. just stop trying to fuck your friends I guess? I'm still a bit confused how you managed to lose your male mates though. Seduction =\= perfection. Perfection doesn't exist and striving towards it will only bring disappointment. That is not to say you should stop trying to improve, but just learn t…
/r/seduction02/12/16 04:36 AM
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Could you explain a little bit more about how trying to seduce people has lost you friends? I can't seem to link them in my head
/r/seduction02/12/16 03:35 AM
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Thanks, just dropped into this sub, having a little read around ahah
/r/seduction02/12/16 03:09 AM
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Honestly man you are doing well and trying hard, there are a couple things I would have done differently such as getting the girls number, but really man it's a matter of time before one of these pans out for you
/r/seduction02/12/16 02:57 AM
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Those feelings bleed into your conversation, even if you don't think they do.
/r/seduction02/12/16 02:49 AM
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The thing is there was no need to call her out for it. You both knew what it meant in reality, all you were doing by pointing it out was venting. You were angry and so you exercised that anger on her. I've read a lot of your comments, your post and your edit. You do seem a little bit bitter, and I'm not saying this to try and take shots at you. It is just a part of your problem, which you yourself have stated you want to overcome. You came to an open platform for advice, and the resounding feedb…
/r/seduction02/12/16 02:41 AM
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Show your interest in one of the girls you like, make sure to be obvious, flirting isn't a secret. Also, you mentioned that a few girls had caught your eye, don't fall into the trap of going for all of them at once; people like to feel special, so single out the person you are most compatible with. You should probably ask her out sooner rather than later, you want to continue to escalate your relationship rather than let it settle at a platonic colleague level. She may say yes, she may say no, b…
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:46 AM
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