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I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. Please give yourself some grace. You're not a loser and you're not ugly. We live in a world that says materialism and vanity are the most important aspects of life. That's not your fault. Vanity has made the world uglier. You are so young. I know you've probably heard this a million times. But you are. Who you are now is not who you are going to be. You're still growing in to who you are. Be kind to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/25 01:26 AM
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You only need to dress nice if you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:51 AM
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If you are hot enough, people will disregard red flags. Everyone does this. Men and women. The main difference I've noticed is that women are reluctant to admit that they dated an asshole, knowing he was an asshole, because he was hot. It just seems like virtue signaling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:15 PM
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Everybody will disregard bad behavior if they are attracted enough to someone. Everyone. Men and women. I've had batshit crazy girlfriends. I knew they were crazy. But I thought they were hot and the sex was great so I ignored it. I've seen the same thing with girls I know. They were dating jerks but he was hot so it was easier to ignore. This isn't a male or female trait. It's a human one. Men will be with asshole women and women will be with asshole men. Men are horny. Women are horny. It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:39 PM
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Seems like a woman. Women talk about the bare minimum required to survive, like having an education and a career, like it's an accomplishment because they have the choice of not doing those things and still being able to survive. Men having to work to survive is the literal bare minimum. We don't get to marry someone well off and be stay-at home-whatevers. Why would we boast about something the majority of men are also doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:24 PM
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Men and women put up with bullshit and will ignore red flags if the person is hot enough. Men, more often than not, will admit that they were with a crazy woman because she was hot. Women tend to fall back on blaming the man she was with instead of acknowledging that she was as responsible because she knew he was a POS but ignored it because he was hot. The repetitiveness of it comes from the observation that women will do everything they can to avoid admitting this. This post itself is trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:52 PM
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Yeah. This gender war stuff fascinates me. I think the level of resentment and distrust it has caused has essentially ruined marriages in general. The only logical option is to not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:47 AM
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If women and men don't trust each other, then they shouldn't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:44 AM
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The simple answer is don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:41 AM
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I didn't say it was every instance? But yes. Statistically, children of single parent households are more likely to experience negative personal, societal and economic outcomes than children raised in a two parent home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:07 PM
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It's really all about single parent households, whether they are single mother or single father. Children fare much worse in everything from suicide to incarceration in these circumstances. I've made the connection before in my personal life that some of the craziest women I've ever met were from single mother households. I knew one lady who was raised by her mom and became a single mother herself, who became a grandma at 33. Single parent households can negatively affect men and women in a mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:56 PM
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You're absolutely saying men care about it. "But 'a lot' of men (Not all) really see this as a threat to their ability to provide." You can't at one point claim that men are threatened and on the other claim that they don't care. That doesn't make any sense. Of course women will admit they fuck hot guys. It's that women are just as prone to disregard red flags and warning signs if their partner is attractive enough. Most women don't admit that part. Which is my point. Women are just as shallow a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:10 AM
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My point was to show how unreliable these studies are. They in no way can be used to judge who rates attractiveness higher. Unless you agree with these studies that show that women are unreliable at self reporting and rate attractiveness higher than they are willing to admit. Because you conveniently gloss over those "facts" in the studies when they don't validate your point. And if you admit that those things are also true, than you are also admitting that women cannot be trusted to report the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:50 AM
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It's actually really simple. I can admit that I'm shallow. Most men who are in to casual sex will readily admit it. I have in the past completely disregarded bad behavior because of how attractive the woman was. That's the point. Many women cannot, or flat out will not, admit that they do the same thing. Men don't care about how much you make or what your career is as much as you think it does. Studies used by women to show that men value attractiveness even slightly higher than men also show th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:46 AM
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Studies trying to establish if attractiveness matters more to men than women are unreliable and inconclusive at best. Those studies that you and many women try to cite as proof that men care more about looks than women aren't the "facts" you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:37 AM
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"A recent study published in the journal Evolutionary Psychological Science set out to see whether women care about men’s physical attractiveness more than we claim to. They determined that, indeed, we do." Heres a study showing that women are unreliable when reporting what is more important to them, personality or attractiveness. It also shows that men are more open to ADMIT how much attractiveness matters to them. https://psychnsex.com/women-looks/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:35 AM
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"For men, looks seem to matter slightly more, on average, according to research. However, the men that were studied still valued personality traits like thoughtfulness, spontaneity, and humility. It’s important to note that these are averages and that there can be great variation between individuals, so it’s IMPORTANT NOT TO GENERALIZE ABOUT SOMEONES PREFERENCES BASED ON THEIR GENDER. Moreover, many people identify as genders other than male or female, so these research findings may not represen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:30 AM
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Here's another one. This one specifically talks about the fact that "Looks matter more than women admit". And again, this wasn't a self reported study. https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:22 AM
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Those data points from those studies are self reported. They aren't objective. They're subjective. Unless you can find a study that isn't self reported, then there will always be a level of bias that makes the studies inconclusive at best. Self reported studies have always been less verifiable. That's why controls are used in studies. Because frankly, humans are terrible at self reporting. There are no controls that I'm aware of in any study indicating women's preferences aren't based on appeara…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:08 AM
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Ahh. I didn't see the "not" before "shallow". My apologies. I agree with you there. No gender is more "shallow" than the other. But I do disagree that women's preferences aren't any less looks based than men's are. That's my argument. Women very often disregard a man's red flags if they're attractive. Not even "if" they're attractive. It's because they are attractive that they do. That's because women are just as looks based as men are. I don't understand why that's so controversial. We all like…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:49 AM
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No one is saying that anyone is better than anyone else. I have never once said that. You're projecting because deep down, you believe women are better or less shallow than men. They are more similar than they aren't. Both genders will choose to be with shitty people if they're hot, but only one gender admits it. Men will say they're in it for the pussy, but women try and justify it by blaming everyone else for the fact that they chose an asshole because he was attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:18 AM
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No, they won't. They'll admit immediately that they're only with her because she's hot. I don't think I'm better than anyone. You're projecting because even now, you can't admit that you don't care what a guy is like if he's attractive. Your whole argument is based on the delusion that women are somehow less shallow than men are when that just isn't true. Of course women like confidence and social skills. But if it's down to two guys who are equally as confident and socially adept as each other,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:04 AM
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Yes, they do. Men will admit in a second that they would be with a shitty girl if she was hot. Women hide behind "confidence" or "social skills" to justify that they chose a shitty person despite the warning signs. Then they act surprised when the asshole turns out to be an asshole. Then the blame everyone else act begins. All because they just can't admit that it doesn't matter if the guy is a piece of shit if he's attractive. I was a shitty person when I was younger. I did lead girls on and li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:31 AM
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I've seen this in both hookups and relationships. The difference is men admit it. I've admitted before that I stayed with girls because of how hot they were even though they were shitty people. Women don't do that. It's always someone else's fault and God forbid anyone imply they're just staying for the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:05 AM
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That's isn't true. Even on this post, the comments are the loser had better "social skills" or they're more "confident". No doubt that has a play in it. But none of that would matter if he was ugly. They're fucking them because they want to. But instead of just admitting it, they try to spin it in a way to make it seem like they aren't as "shallow" as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:02 PM
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I've had women tell me that too, but I've had just as many women try and justify hooking up with a "loser" without having to just be honest and say they wanted to fuck. "He led me on" or "He pretended to be someone he wasn't". Or my favorite, "He manipulated me". No doubt people lie. But red flags are so easy to spot. But they don't care about them if the guy is attractive. Which is fine. Just don't pretend that somehow their intentions aren't just as shallow as the men they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:49 PM
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Women should just be honest. They often fuck guys who are "losers" because they're attracted to them. If you look good enough, nothing else matters. Not your job or your social status. They are driven by looks and physical traits just as much as men are. But they can't admit it. Because then they're just as "bad" as men are. Men are "shallow", but not women. Never women. It's just silly. I fuck girls because of their looks. But I can admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:05 PM
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It doesn't matter what the goal is. They will just move the goal post. Women lie about it to make it seem like they aren't shallow and that they are somehow the more "noble" sex. Their intentions are "pure" and men are shallow pigs. Or whatever. Women should just be honest. They fuck losers because they're attracted to them. If you look good enough, nothing else matters. They are driven by looks and physical traits just as much as men are. But they can't admit it. Because then they're just as "b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:01 PM
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Makes perfect sense. Maybe you're just an idiot? And? I've been able to tell when a girl was bullshitting me. Every time. If I choose to ignore those signs and she ends up hurting me, then that's just as much my fault as hers. You're not some master of disguise, dude Haha Ghey noticed your red flags, they chose to disregard them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:22 PM
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Great counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:15 PM
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I never said their couldn't, dummy. Learn to read. I said women created the culture of casual sex and no they weren't coerced or forced to do so. Take accountability for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:12 PM
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Yes? Women created casual sex. Not men. It wasn't men forcing them or coercing them. It was "sexual freedom" or "liberation" or whatever. A consequence of the prevalence of casual sex is that you will be lumped into the behaviors that men are seeing around them. Those behaviors indicate that most women are having casual sex. So when you ask someone to wait, you're going against the status quo that women have created. That isn't men putting pressure on you. That's women putting pressure on you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:47 AM
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They ignored your red flags. It takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:36 AM
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That's a situation that women created, though. If I know that you had sex with strangers and did everything with them, why would making me wait make me feel special or wanted? Why would I be in a relationship where you treated strangers with more intimacy and affection than me? That "pressure" is completely self created.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:31 AM
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The fact that you would have mediocre sex with someone you aren't attracted to just for help with bills is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:13 PM
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You're on the internet complaining that your husband is healthy and looks amazing. You realize that, right? Like I know that now you're reassured, but you really didn't have a reason to be worried in the first place. That's why I don't get it. I mean, I get it. But not really.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 04:58 AM
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Let me get this straight. He has a masters. He provides for your family. He looks amazing. He's doing something healthy and beneficial for himself and your family. You're married to a man that most women would kill for. And yet, you're not happy. Am I missing something? Is he an asshole or something? Because you've literally described what many people would consider an ideal partner.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 04:40 AM
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There's nothing wrong with not wanting to settle. Nothing wrong at all. Just don't complain that others aren't willing to accommodate your "standards". This goes for all sexes, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:50 PM
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I'm agreeing with you. Unattractive people, man or woman, are treated differently than attractive people. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:25 AM
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Everyone gets treated differently depending on how good looking they are. It's just the way it is. Women are treated differently by guys depending on how they look, too. I've seen women being ignored basically because the women around them are "hotter". They're not even ugly or anything. It happens to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:54 AM
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Yeah. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:02 AM
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I've addressed each of your points. I've been having a clear discussion. Your points don't make sense. You're trying to apply your views and narrative to a position that doesn't support it. You've used analogies that don't support your argument. You even implied that employers are glad to hire people who's resumes would include 40 jobs because you need it to be so to fit your analogy Haha But yeah, I'm rambling. Of course I dismiss your points. Your point is ridiculous. What bad behaviors should…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:44 AM
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Please. Women need to be called out on their bullshit just as much as men. You know, like I'm doing with you. What bad behavior of men's am I ignoring? Having a preference for women with low body counts isn't bad behavior. It doesn't hurt you at all. So why do you care? Why are you so upset about that certain preference? No one is saying women are at fault for everything. Get your head out of your ass. What they are saying is for women to accept the reactions to their choices. That's it. Be who …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:34 PM
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You live in some made up land where all actions have the dame reactions. Of course people grow up. Of course they learn. Acting like having 10 jobs and sleeping with 50 people will garner the same reaction is just stupidity. It is. Even more so when the analogies you use don't align with your argument. And they don't. Keep up, buddy. We're talking about a specific situation where women have dozens of partners, do everything with those partners and expect men to wait around for them when they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:21 PM
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What am I talking about? Your analogy doesn't even align with your narrative because it's false. It's not reality. You are sincerely saying that if an employer saw your resume and that it said you worked 40 different jobs from 20 to 30 that it shouldn't matter? Of course it does! You're yelling into the void about how it's not a big deal. It's not a big deal to YOU. I know for a fact I wouldn't hire that person. You sincerely think that "I was exploring" is going to benefit your attempt at getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:31 PM
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I think it needs to be recognized that this isn't really happening as much as the internet makes it seem it is. The vast majority of men in their 30s, if they are in a serious relationship at all, are dating people in their age range. It's a very slim percentage who are dating younger and it's usually just to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:16 PM
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You're hearing what you want to hear to justify the narrative you have about men. Nobody is saying you can't do what you want to do. You can experiment and explore and whatever else you want to do. But there will be different reactions depending on what your choices are. You seem to have a problem with the fact that most men don't want to be a settle down person. They want to explore and experiment, too. You're saying that men shouldn't care about being in a situation where a woman is not just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:07 PM
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The vast majority of men behave just fine. They aren't creeps or arrogant. They don't violate women's boundaries and they show respect. That's the point. Women don't want that. They want the guy that is "exciting" and a "bad boy". "Chads" and internet incels are not representative of men. The vast majority of men don't commit crimes like abuse and assault. At some point, there needs to be self accountability that they are choosing "thousands of men" that will treat them like shit instead of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:09 AM
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Yes they have. Unnatrective men created the term, sure. They didnt create the situation. Not long ago, those type of men were looked at as creeps. By men and women. Men didn't change that. Women did. Women started going after the guys they knew weren't good people and then acted surprised when they turned out not to be good people. Of course you wouldn't. Every woman thinks they're a unicorn Haha Im lucky enough to be decently attractive. It isn't a narrative. It just is. I see it and experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:38 PM
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Women have facilitated the "chad" phenomenon. Not men. You're acting as if guys are just scum bags. No. The guys YOU chase are scum bags. But that's the culture women have created. You only want the guys who don't want relationships and then are upset when you're done "growing up" and nobody wants your leftovers. Men are mad? I see as many women crying on tik tok and Youtube about how "all the good men are gone" as red pill content. Having sex isn't "growing up". I've had a lot of sex and it did…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:18 PM
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Exactly. This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 PM
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I won't be with someone who was sexually open with everyone and their cousins and then decides she doesn't "like it" when it's time to "settle down". Being promiscuous with tons of guys isn't "I tried it and didn't like it so I'm not doing it with you". That's total bullshit. She did like it. Just not with you. And that's fine, but I won't be part of that. Men do do the same. I know I do. But I'm not reaching 30 and then complaining that there are no good people left to date. Please. Most often …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:24 PM
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Look. A lot of guys just aren't in to being the "settle down" person for women. Like, she was sexually open and did a lot of different things with a lot of different guys in her 20's but then she wants to "settle down" in her 30's and doesn't want to do the things that she so freely gave away back in her 20's. That doesn't sound appealing at all. Especially when you hear about dead bedroom situations where women withhold sex and affection after getting married. No thanks. I'll keep my hookups an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:12 PM
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You're acting as if women are jumping all over fat men. Fat is not attractive to the majority of people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:06 PM
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