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0	"A man should never hit a woman" -- Why not? So why don't you join groups that allow you to challenge your preconceived notions instead of hitting up echo chambers? Let me get this through to you. The law does not agree with you. Society doesn't agree with you. You are not correct. It isn't that everyone is against you, unlike what TRP is selling you. It is a method that cults utilise in order to indoctrinate people. You are being played with by them. Run away and be your own person. Get a great education. Listen to the views of others. Th…	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 05:46 AM
0	"A man should never hit a woman" -- Why not? I'm saying it is wrong to use lethal force unless facing a potentially lethal threat. A slap is not sufficient. Legally, ethically, morally wrong. A slap is not a lethal threat. Step back. You are being brainwashed by TRP. I'm being completely serious.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 05:28 AM
-2	"A man should never hit a woman" -- Why not? Yeah, but it prevents those violent men (people) from using lethal force.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 05:17 AM
0	"A man should never hit a woman" -- Why not? Oh, but if you had an education you would realise that the law is not to protect women; men are more likely to be a victim of assault. Again, go get an education! It will expand your critical thinking and reasoning. Nothing is black and white. No, TRP is not a club that will make you a better person. You need to be around real, normal people. Join a group sport. You will not find self improvement in that echo chamber. Seriously, PM me if you need someone to talk to. At the very least, I can try …	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 05:06 AM
-9	The stats indicate it's safer for a woman to walk down a dark alley than it is for a man. Anyone else find this surprising given the stranger danger we always hear about? And my point still stands.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 04:59 AM
-4	Just watched that football / DV video again. She backhanded him before getting in the lift and then lead the way into the lift with him toddling along behind her - she def. appears to be the more dominant, more aggressive partner. The media and even some among ourselves are misreading this. Everyone is obliged to know their own strength, which is why we have laws re: proportionality. Professional fighters are held to a higher standard, but Joe Citizen is still expected to show restraint. As is he.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 04:58 AM
-8	The stats indicate it's safer for a woman to walk down a dark alley than it is for a man. Anyone else find this surprising given the stranger danger we always hear about? Yeah.....I did read the report....that is why I made that statement...	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 04:02 AM
5	"A man should never hit a woman" -- Why not? You won't. Trust me, you will mature and my goodness will you cringe when you think back. If you don't mature, that is a personal failure on your behalf, and evidence of a failure to educate yourself. It is not a noble thing to stunt personal/educational growth no matter what TRP is trying to sell you. Run from them as fast as possible. Go outside and join some team sports. Right Now. Go join a car club. Whatever groups interest you, as many as possible. DO IT NOW. If you need someone to talk to…	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 04:00 AM
-11	The stats indicate it's safer for a woman to walk down a dark alley than it is for a man. Anyone else find this surprising given the stranger danger we always hear about? Women are less likely to be in that situation. So, no DUH. Useless statistics.	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 03:52 AM
1	"A man should never hit a woman" -- Why not? Okay cool. So I get to kill men who grab me with ill intentions? I am defending myself! /s Thanks, but I prefer civilisation. Go back to the red pill and grow up. You are so young, which explains your immature views. FYI. This would be a legal nightmare. It would be abused by anyone who wanted to kill another person...just claim they hit you, which permits you to shoot them. Christ, I really hope you do not represent the majority of posters here. If so, I give up on trying to advance human right…	/r/MensRights	12/09/14 03:48 AM
0	Most child abuse is committed by women. As a response, here is a campaign telling men not to abuse children. :-D	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 02:34 AM
2	Female teacher Emily Fox jailed for having sex with female pupil. Interesting in that usually female teachers are not imprisoned for sex with male pupils. Why the heck was a child rapist given custody of a child?!?!?!	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 01:45 AM
16	[DISCRIMINATION] South Carolina DMV says no makeup for a boy's license; boy sues This is absolutely discrimination. In what sense was this person deliberately misrepresenting their identity? This is their identity! That policy needs to be amended.	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 12:51 AM
1	Most child abuse is committed by women. As a response, here is a campaign telling men not to abuse children. I had a quick look for you, and for some other countries. After only a very quick look, I have found that many countries do not report the gender of the offenders. My personal opinion is that they found the distinction to be irrelevant and unhelpful.... Because I believe that it is a gender irrelevant crime. Without a doubt, you should not blindly believe anything.	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 12:38 AM
-1	Most child abuse is committed by women. As a response, here is a campaign telling men not to abuse children. Aaaaaaand another insult. I'm going to call out on people when i see them resort to insults. It adds nothing to the discussion and harms your cause. The promotion of human rights is NOT best served through derogatory remarks and nasty insults.	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 12:28 AM
1	Most child abuse is committed by women. As a response, here is a campaign telling men not to abuse children. See, attacking the intelligence of a poster adds nothing to the discussion. You are pushing people away from the movement every time you are hostile.	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 12:16 AM
1	Most child abuse is committed by women. As a response, here is a campaign telling men not to abuse children. It is pointless arguing with these people. Facts are irrelevant. Child abuse is a gender irrelevant crime, but they just want to hate on women.	/r/MensRights	08/09/14 12:05 AM
2	How can I explain that misogyny isn't real? Maybe there is nothing wrong with his relationship? Just because his brother is not a mrm doesn't mean his relationship is not working.	/r/MensRights	07/09/14 10:33 PM
1	[Meta] I have sought Admin approval to start a petition to remove /r/TwoXChromosomes from the default sub list I can PM you some if you desire. Is that acceptable?	/r/MensRights	07/09/14 10:22 PM
-4	[Meta] I have sought Admin approval to start a petition to remove /r/TwoXChromosomes from the default sub list Yeah, I've been attacked with name calling. It happens in this sub absolutely unfortunately. Also, the stats here have been fudged and misrepresented. I'd say both sides are in the wrong for that one.	/r/MensRights	07/09/14 07:33 AM
2	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? *in your opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 12:44 PM
1	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? Duuuuuuude. There are sooooo many generalisations there that I honestly don't know where to start....really messed up narrative... FYI, it is an interesting topic, as to whether laws are legal always. : )	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 11:16 AM
1	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? Your original post was saying that fathers should be able to take the child out of the custody of their mother on only his say so.... We should at least try education. Again, not even so much about the mechanics of sex, although that is important. Childbirth doesn't have to be taught in such a way as to scare people. You absolutely cannot make sweeping comments about counselling for men. And, I'm really interested in relationship education. Sex ed is a part of that, but have focus on sexual dyna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 07:07 AM
1	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? The right is to have a relationship. The child can still do that if there is infrequent contact. Infrequent contact is not neglect in of itself. Moral principles, but also codified enforceable laws. Laws can be moral as well as legal. Educate them before they are parents : ) educate them on birth control and sexual health, and how to navigate sexual relationships. We are taught the mechanics of sex, but not so much about anything else. Relationship counselling should be free to all people, singl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 01:23 AM
1	Infanticide On that study only, for those geographic demographics only, and again, it is only a majority in the sense that in that study, slightly more did. It is by no means overwhelmingly women who are offending. Majority it is not. It does not appear to be a gendered issue. Saying that it is only distracts you from getting to the root of the problem, and therefore finding solutions. Another user posted a different report that went the other way in relation to child homicides. It also suggests that on tho…	/r/MensRights	17/08/14 01:13 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Uh, so people cannot be proactive and call for assistance until they are beaten to within an inch of their life? I also think that threats and threatening behaviour are abhorrent regardless of gender. I would rather a proactive approach to requesting law enforcement assistance, then wait for serious harm. But it still doesn't say that no abuse occurred. I don't necessarily think more police are the answer. More education may help, to discourage DV by educating both genders about what DV is, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 01:02 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Maybe you broke even because you used the money properly and actually put it towards their care? Most is a generalisation. You don't know why they do it, which is why I qualified my comment as being an opinion only. I certainly observed it in my placements. Yeah, I also went into homes that were at capacity. Sharing beds does happen! And it sounds like you think that there is a significant amount of abuse in foster homes...so maybe a significant amount do it to gain access to children? I still w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 12:46 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Again, you are generalising the whole system based on your opinions. And you haven't addressed the fact that in my situation, testimony was not required. Unrealistic because there just aren't enough services or homes for foster kids? My argument is that we need more funding in this area of the legal system so that all victims get a right to have their case heard, regardless of the severity of the alleged abuse. I am arguing that because of funding constraints, some people miss out. I couldn't ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 12:31 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Very few, sounds like you are changing tack. Before you said there were none. Thank you for qualifying your experience as being your experience only. Generalisations are unhelpful and don't support your case. To administer justice, we need to listen and take seriously all alleged victims, but that would require much more funding to all services and courts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 12:23 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? So, you have no evidence then? : ) It's silly to claim our system is completely gender biased. It's not. Do you understand what I am doing here yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/14 12:17 AM
1	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? Human rights are legal statutes when they are codified as such. They are not only moral statutes (thankfully!) So, mediation works for both parents! Better than the courts! (Exceptions aside) It is morally abhorrent to the child; on a person level (warning, subjective opinion!) I don't care about the rights of the mother, only those of the child in these situations. I'm protecting the child's rights. For the record, the child has the same right re: its father. The courts agree that the rights of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/14 02:38 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Law enforcement was there when I was being beaten (for the last time), but he was armed and I was at risk of being killed if they shot him. They didn't need my testimony for physical abuse or attempted murder. Severe malnutrition is easy to spot, and easy to prove. And the fact that he didn't seek treatment, my testimony is not needed. The fact that we were starved almost to death and were not given treatment by him is enough. Sexual abuse leaves physical evidence too. How many kids under 10 hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/14 01:35 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? I am flattered that you want to respond to all my posts...? Prisons mean that at least for a short time, victims are less available. What I am trying to say though is that the current deterrents (jail, social condemnation) aren't enough. Frivolous, yeah, in your opinion, perhaps. You are very fond of sweeping statements! Look, if you think it is some vast conspiracy against men, that is fine. But unless you personally were in the same room and watching when the alleged DV occurred, then you cann…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/14 01:23 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Yeah, you can't say that 80% aren't abusers. You just don't know for sure. You can only say that 80% are accused, and you haven't even given a reference for that so I will disregard that until I see proof. Even with proof, it only shows that 80% were accused, it doesn't say that they are lying. I agree it is impossible to investigate all...I don't agree that this is fair. I will become a foster parent one day, for the record. I need to pay it forward. Or at least ensure that I can give a non abu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/14 01:17 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? So, are you saying that there are no support services for men at all then? I don't believe that at all. If I even find one service, I disprove your sweeping statements. You can say whatever you want about your supposed role, I don't believe a word of it and there is no way for you to verify it without exposing your identity. I believe facts that can be proven, not your unsubstantiated, unverifiable statements about your self proclaimed role in the system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/14 01:06 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? It's nice that you believe that gender is relevant but that's not how courts or related support or laws like VAWA work	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/14 01:01 AM
1	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? No, he strips them of a fundamental human right. That it legally what he would be doing. His rights are not more important than the child's. If either parent does this they breach a human right possessed by the child. The exception is where contact would lead to harm. Please note that there is a difference between some contact and no contact. Our mediation system does nothing of the kind. Feedback surveys appear quite positive for men and women. I've seen the raw data. You cannot monitor group h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/14 08:39 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? I will help anyone who needs it. I mean that honestly. PM me if you change your mind, I'll listen to what you have to say. Everyone deserves a voice. I think we can agree that the system fails everyone perhaps. I create redpillers eh? Well, if you want to turn it around, it is people like you that create feminists. For the record, I think the red pill exists because it is easier to hate and blame and manipulate others than work on yourself. I'm an equalist. I think people are equally wronged. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/14 05:17 AM
1	Infanticide I checked the figures in that data, they are close to parity, much like the child homicide data. Again, it doesn't appear to be a gendered issue. Nice insult. I'm trying to be professional here. I'm here to learn, not to blindly follow sweeping statements. I don't think that it is a gendered issue any more than child homicides are. Majority it is not.	/r/MensRights	15/08/14 03:45 AM
1	Infanticide I don't think you read that page properly. It does not support your proposition. And even if it did (it doesn't) it is a disreputable study that is not well based. In fact, the link isn't even to that disreputable study, it is to the Wikipedia page of the disreputable study. I will not respond to bad references.	/r/MensRights	15/08/14 03:21 AM
0	Infanticide Sigh. References. Good ones, primary sources. Or just give it up. I'm not engaging with trolls. Either provide accurate, peer reviewed, relevant, up to date data from an unbiased source with links to raw data with statistical analysis tables or please don't make sweeping statements. I literally won't respond to garbage references, I'll just ignore your response. I'm not going to feed trolls. I'm open to debate facts, not garbage sweeping statements. Troll somewhere else. For the record, this isn…	/r/MensRights	15/08/14 02:39 AM
1	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Nice to jump to conclusions about her just wanting an alpha. Or maybe, it is not uncommon that mentally ill people frequently put themselves in dangerous positions, as is the case you brought up. Psychiatry supports my assumption, nothing supports yours. I'd bet that she either has a diagnosed or undiagnosed condition and I know I would win that bet. Ignoring the courts, law enforcement, her friends and her family is only supporting my theory. These are not the actions of a rational person. I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/14 01:05 AM
0	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Maybe she is mentally I'll? Sure sounds like it. Doesn't sound like a bad thing that she should be separated from him by law honestly. We have laws to protect the mentally ill from themselves for a reason. DV continues because to few cases are prosecuted and there is no real deterrent for either gender. It also continues because people don't know how to leave, or are afraid to. My father stalked me after I was removed from his care. I can absolutely tell you that people stay in bad relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 11:02 PM
1	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? And we should not ignore the vast data that suggests that group homes are highly toxic for children. There is a reason they have been almost wiped out as a means of raising children. Orphans are different to children of separated parents. The non-orphans still have both patents alive, and to have a father strip them of a human right is not conducive to upholding the child's best interest. You can argue all you like that under good circumstances group homes are better. But it doesn't make it true…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 10:29 PM
1	Infanticide The fathers are more likely to kill their child than a male associate according to that data (31% vs 23%). And not quite parity on the statistical level, there is as light bias towards fathers killing their offspring with 229 more deaths attributed to fathers. Small difference though. At solely the parental level, the data in this report suggests that this is not a gendered issue (at least in that demography) in relation to perpetrators.	/r/MensRights	14/08/14 10:07 PM
1	Infanticide The link you provided does not support your proposition at all...it referred to step parents for one, and only briefly mentioned step fathers. I don't know why you are trying to denigrate step parents exactly? Furthermore, that study has serious critics and criticisms, as noted in your link. Finally, it is bad to attribute this to being the woman's fault. We don't know why the male acquaintances murdered the child, we don't know if they were even boyfriends of the women. That is pure speculation…	/r/MensRights	14/08/14 09:56 PM
4	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? I can see you are trying to think outside the box for solutions, but what about single mothers that are good parents? Or widowed women? Or women that have to leave violent partners? Or women who have husbands in the armed forces (father is deployed)? What about couples that live together on paper but the husband spends a lot of time outside the home or overseas? How does one determine what the exceptions are? There would be too many exceptions. A law needs to be somewhat steadfast in order to wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 01:56 PM
4	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? I'm open to having my view changed, but your sources are biased and have no actual data. There are no actual statistics that are reliable. I am diligent, and rely on primary sources from reputatable sources that are peer reviewed. None of which supports your views. Neither men or women are given the benefit of the doubt. The level playing field is there. If the child's best interest is with the father, he gets primary custody. The reverse is true too. Neither the mother nor the father's rights s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 01:09 PM
2	Infanticide That report is nearly 30 years old.... *that is, the data they are using is quite old (from the 80s)	/r/MensRights	14/08/14 12:22 PM
8	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? I checked your second link, and there are still no primary sources. You made the initial statement that single mother families are the worst environment, it is your responsibility to back it up with reliable sources. You are getting some bad information. Anyone can abuse the courts/system, it isn't gender specific. Procedural abuse is a tactic used by crap people of both genders. It isn't only available to women. The best interest of the child should absolutely be default. This is supported by b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 11:50 AM
1	Infanticide According to that report, most of the offenders are male and most of the murdered children are male. There seems to be a bias towards males killing male children. 54% were killed by fathers and male acquaintances, 30% were killed by mothers (no data on female acquaintances), with 81% of children who weren't killed by either parent being killed by a male. Not making any comments in the reliability of this study, just commenting on its findings.	/r/MensRights	14/08/14 10:56 AM
10	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? Yeah, I checked that link. No mention on actual statistics as to success rates for single father households other than wishy washy statements with no references. In fact, not one of those statistics is backed up by links to the findings. Not. One. Link to primary sources only, otherwise they can write whatever they want and it could all be garbage. Please also point me to the section comparing (objectively) the outcomes for group homes, single mothers and single fathers, not that biased garbage.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 10:10 AM
4	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Yep. That and how so many other people around me were treated. My friend was gang raped. Never reported it because she wasn't believed by her own friends. Another friend was molested, and her abuser also saw no jail time. Priests have been protected like crazy by the churches too. Very few of them will see jail time. Their victims (the acknowledged ones) were bought off. Abuse in group homes has definitely gone largely unpunished. I can go on. Re: my father. The social services took it very seri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 09:41 AM
8	Why is it a woman's right to get an abortion, but it is not a man's right to get a vasectomy? And where do the babies and children go? I'll tell you what is worse than single mother homes...group homes and orphanages. I doubt you have ever spent time in one, I'm sure your statistics are unreliable. No way are single mother households worse. Besides, children have a right to be involved with their parents. If a father denies a child the right to live with its mother, he is taking rights from the child. And what about divorces? The child just goes into state care eh? Coz I'll tell you righ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 09:24 AM
4	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? It is unjustifiable for men to hit women but they do it anyways.. It is unjustifiable for people to hit other people but they do it anyways.. Even though violence against women and children by men is socially unacceptable, it occurs. That may suggest that abusive men don't care about social rules or that women and children are not receiving justice so perpetrators correctly determine that the odds of not being punished are in their favour. This may be the same for violence committed by women. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 07:59 AM
2	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? I've not told my story before, so it must have been another user. Sad to think someone else went through the same thing. Ultimately, the blame rests with my father and the other abusers. The legal system perpetuated/s the problem, but the abusers are the real issue. My case never even made it to court, other than a procedural matter of removing from his custody. Not one incident ever lead to charges being laid. He is free to abuse whomever he can access.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 06:12 AM
3	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? Not just women, everyone. People seem to think that rape is such a load of shit and that rape laws are onerous on the (mostly) men who are accused. Absolute bullshit. Rape charges almost never get convictions, if they even make it to a hearing, if they even get reported. I've not told anyone about my experiences, and no one would expect it happened. No one even knows I'm a former foster kid. Just because you personally haven't seen rape doesn't mean it doesn't happen, it just means that no one w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 04:36 AM
6	Violence: What physical confrontations have you experienced? I was molested, beaten, had multiple attempts on my life taken by my father. I was also severely neglected to the point that when my male sibling and I were removed from our father's care, the authorities had to test us to make sure that the severe malnutrition had not permanently stunted our growth. After being removed by law enforcement, we both had appointments with social workers. I spoke about in a matter of fact way about the extent of the abuse, and was not believed. They were convinced b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/14 03:52 AM