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| 1 | There’s this beautiful girl in college whom i’ve been dying to date for a while. Whenever i catch sight of her, it’s like i lose my balance. I do wanna approach and establish more of a connection. Yet, there’s no common ground that i can think of. So have you people got any idea how to move forward?Did you mean to reply to me? I’m pretty sure I’m arguing the same thing as you. | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 05:15 PM |
| 7 | There’s this beautiful girl in college whom i’ve been dying to date for a while. Whenever i catch sight of her, it’s like i lose my balance. I do wanna approach and establish more of a connection. Yet, there’s no common ground that i can think of. So have you people got any idea how to move forward?So you think that subtly maneuvering yourself to get into the orbit of someone you don’t know just to ask them out will come off less creepy than just being open and non-threatening about your intentions? | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Is there a list of best videos?Here's a great place to start. | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Indirect, is it worth it?The obvious answer? Try both, and see which works best for yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 03:44 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/12/13I disagree, just the fact that you're texting her after and trying to make her feel bad about not going feels needy. If the activity was actually that much fun, you wouldn't even be thinking about her. If you're going to text anything rather than move on altogether, go with something like this the day before: "Hey didn't hear back from you so i went ahead and made other plans. I'll make it up to you another time, promise.". Instead of fishing for a reaction, you're simply moving on logistically. | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 08:05 PM |
| 3 | First time being painfully honest with a girl. Went better than expected.I think by concerning yourselves with who's the one "running shit" you're getting caught up in the exact same mind games she is. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Using the game on an ex?You feel like you have something to prove to her. Don't. You should have something to prove to yourself, and she shouldn't even be a blip on your radar. As long as you let her thoughts and perceptions affect you, you won't truly be able to move on. | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 03:12 AM |
| 19 | Confession: I've been lurking for over a year and still have not approached a girl. Can't get sustained motivation.As an addendum to the baby steps, while it's a great way of overcoming approach anxiety, make sure you do it somewhere like a mall with strangers, not with your classmates. With your classmates, I'd just get used to talking to them as people, and become more socially involved. Not necessarily to pickup, just focus on making female friends for now. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Girl broke up with me because, although I'm hot by her definition I have ZERO sex appeal, SEDDIT care to help me?You could be the hottest guy in the world but if you fail to take initiative and take the lead any girl will get bored eventually. I'm guessing (since you fail to really elaborate) that you were very passive sexually, and that she was forced to initiate and progress most sexual encounters. There's a side to every girl that wants to be dominated, wants to be thrown around, and wants to feel like she's just along for the ride. Any man that can fulfill this has "sex appeal". | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 12:06 AM |
| 23 | Video Example of Advanced ApproachingHere you go, 38 episodes worth of this post. You have to sift through a lot of awkward, and nobody quite matches up to Cajun, but it's still great to watch. If nothing else it shows you just how easy approaching is. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 03:29 PM |
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