___alchemy Archive

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1	Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininity You are likely confusing women’s propensity for bandwagoning with actual primal attraction. You have zero idea how much raw primal sexual attraction women have for "effeminate twinks". If you ever want your worldview crushed, look up fanfiction and that entire world. Women will write entire essays about the BTS members gangbanging them, in excruciating detail. Probably much more of that around than similar stuff for your average superhero actor. I happen to be a fan of some "twink" celebrities a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 12:37 AM
1	Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininity I guarantee you that anyone looking like Harry Styles (not literally him, but that type) would be VASTLY more successful than your average Chad. The Chad might be more attractive to a few more women, but the HS dude will also have hoards of women nutso for him AND he's much rarer to find, so he will be much more sought after. Of course, Harry Styles or BTS are still conventionally attractive, that is a must. They're at least moderately tall, low body weight, symmetrical attractive faces, good sk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 12:33 AM
1	Is it truly possible for a woman to desire you when you don't have the right body type? I couldn't keep Harry Styles or one of the BTS guys either, but I'm not afraid to admit they're smoking hot. Finding a dude like that (skinny-toned, pretty face, nicely styled longish hair, more emotional / androgynous than your average dude) in real life or tinder is actually 20 times harder cause they're so much rarer than muscle jocks / "chads". I see dozens of them in my gym and on tinder, and no thank you. Men just want to look like what they wanna look like - fine, but they don't wanna adm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 04:38 PM
0	Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriends People will do anything for someone that is ridiculously attractive, with certain restrictions that (IMO) women would at least try more because most women are submissive and men will ask them to do SUBMISSIVE ACTS. I think you vastly overestimate how many women are submissive ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 10:41 PM
2	On popularity of male K-Pop singers and other popular androgynous men Girl I love your post <3 speaking the truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 10:15 PM
2	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? Right. That's why their fanbase is 97% women. I don't disagree that they're exceptionally talented, doesn't change the fact that most of their fans would like to smash real bad. I would know, since I'm one of them and know many others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:58 PM
2	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? The reason they've managed to become rich and famous is because so many women find them attractive. Not the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:52 PM
1	Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking men I'm over 25, white and western, and only like "twinky" guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:49 PM
1	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? I'm being honest: look at BTS and how they're a target of an incredible amount of female lust. Most of them are around 5'7 - 5'11 and very skinny but somewhat toned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:47 PM
2	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? A ton of kpop guys. https://i.pinimg.com/736x/d3/04/44/d30444a0b8ea4827584415518930a08d.jpg https://64.media.tumblr.com/0ae0b718d98c2d8483a62c2b8c1c1b29/35fcc8809985eacc-56/s400x600/5351a7eee6358e466ca7e0cc9ab4e40c16df9842.gifv https://i.pinimg.com/originals/fc/de/56/fcde56bc76620131d54824e5d557e24e.jpg https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-78a3eb493ce59a825db0a0e71bbabf1b-lq You get the idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:35 PM
1	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? How tall are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:13 PM
3	Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction? No, quite the contrary. I only like skinny men. Ideal is skinny-toned, not bulky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:13 PM
-1	Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"? You talk about "spinning plates" but then say you don't want a hoe. So you wanna be a hoe but don't wanna be with a hoe. That seems inconsistent. I am not frustrated, but i really would enjoy a solid relationship with a quality, low body count, not cancerous woman What's your idea of "not cancerous"? I assume it means some form of "submissive".	/r/askTRP	03/05/21 08:38 PM
5	Do women really like Boyband members? I assume by "effeminate" you mean that they look more androgynous and "refined" in the face, rather than "gorilla" or neanderthal like (the typical "gigachad alpha" idea that a lot of men adore for some reason). Or that they put a lot of effort into grooming, having great hair and skin, and emphasizing their handsomeness with some subtle makeup? I see none of those things as bad or negative. If they are mid-20ies, you shouldn't say they look like teen boys. They simply aren't. Maybe they come ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/21 08:15 PM
4	Do women really like Boyband members? Yeah, being attracted to mid-20ies, youthful fit well-groomed people with good genetics is bad and such a weird concept, whether for men or women. GTF outta here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/21 06:40 PM
5	Dick does nothing for me. Haha I never got the hype around abs. I truly don't care about them. But YES to the toned body. Tall, low body fat but visible tonedness. I'm REALLY into collarbones and lean, long legs, arms and fingers for some reason. I think it just looks graceful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 02:07 PM
13	Dick does nothing for me. I don’t feel super straight, I have some level of interest in women but not enough to really be interested in them sexually. I think I’m just really only attracted to a small proportion of men. Same. I think I can explain it like this: I find 95% of men repulsive physically, 4.9% of them mildly attractive, and 0.1% INCREDIBLY ATTRACTIVE. Whereas I find maybe 20% of women repulsive, 75% completely neutral, and 5% mildly attractive. So for example if I HAD to do prostitution to save my life, I wou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 12:28 PM
47	Dick does nothing for me. Girl I feel you so much! I'm a virgin though, but I've tried dildos and vibrators and it just does NOTHING for me. It is either mildly uncomfortable or even straight up painful, never anything else. And I can have the greatest orgasms, just leave the vagina alone. There are no pleasurable nerve endings inside there. It's similar to anal for me, just feels like nothing's supposed to be inside there. I don't generally find dicks repulsive though. If I'm really attracted to a man, I'm interested in…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 11:34 AM
34	Dick does nothing for me. I’ve noticed most of what males think “sex” is, is really just masturbation... not even necessarily mutual. Yes, absolutely. And consider how many men feel insulted and disappointed when they can "only" give you a clitoral orgasm. I've read posts on reddit where the guys moans and bitches about how yes his woman can orgasm, but only from oral or hand, and how that's not really great for him, he wants her to cum from his magic dick. So even when they consider your pleasure, for a lot of men it's …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 11:29 AM
24	Dick does nothing for me. I feel very similar to what the OP describes, but I am very attracted to men. But only VERY FEW men. I only like men that are beautiful, thin, full hair, kind of androgynous looking. I really like a lot of men in K-Pop for example. I believe that if sexuality is a spectrum, I'm just on the cusp of heterosexuality. But I am there. I have fallen head over heels for men, heart pounding, sexually aroused, but I never felt that way for a woman. I just want a beautiful androgynous man and I'm more int…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 11:25 AM
1	There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sex YES to all your points. All super important points.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 09:33 PM
1	There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sex Were these men that you otherwise had great chemistry with and "clicked" with? Did you enjoy making out with them? I ask because I totally know that feeling of just not clicking or having chemistry with some people. Some people I can't even properly talk to, others I can talk to for hours without noticing the time goes by. I would like to imagine that if I click with a guy like that, and on top of that I'm really attracted to him physically and get all hot and bothered by kissing and touching, P…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 09:28 PM
1	There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sex If you don't mind answering, which culture is that? It seems to have really understood something about sex. Do most men in your culture perceive it the same way?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 09:23 PM
1	There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sex Ugh that sounds hellish, I'm sorry. Because apparently sex is the only thing that makes something a relationship Giving me real flashbacks over here. Some 10 years ago this was already one of my favorite points of arguments with scrotes (on- and offline). "The only thing that differentiates a friendship from a relationship is THE SEX". I was so absolutely baffled by this - had these idiots never heard, let alone felt, things like romance, sparks, butterflies, dare I say, soulmate-ship? Then it f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 09:21 PM
44	Pay extra attention to how he talks about his ex! [from Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft] I knew a guy who was actually abused by his girlfriend. Including him locking himself in the bedroom because he was terrified of her screaming and banging on the door, demanding he cut off all ties to friends and family for her. After he broke up with her, she stalked him, hanging around his house in the evening, cutting herself and saying she'll kill herself if he doesn't take her back. Things that would actually qualify as emotional abuse. You know how he talked about her? "Yeah ... well she w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 07:49 PM
15	I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sad Gross. I also recently spotted a covert narc NVM dude I used to have a crush on, on a dating site. He's also a teacher, and he appeared as 32 when I know his crusty ass is 38. He's probably also trying to go for much younger women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 07:34 PM
4	If you're not FDS, you're a Pick Me So right. Attraction is also so heavily underrated for women. It's all about how WE can become most attractive, hot, feminine, sexy, desirable, to men. To "snag" a man. For what? Just so that we don't have to suffer the stigma of being a single woman? There's hardly ever any talk what men can do to be more attractive to us. If men give advice to each other about women, it's usually on how to dominate and manipulate us. Red pill and PUA bullshit. And the occasional "go to the gym I guess, but mos…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 07:27 PM
3	Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep it Just think of all the extremely disgusting and debauched things men watch in porn. They get off watching prolapsed anuses. Just think. Spitting on crotches, crying women with smeared mascara gargling and almost vomiting from being orally raped. Urine. Scat. Torture porn. All "sexy" in the eyes of men. "Kinky". But OMG an adult female with natural body hair? The horror! Disgusting! Gross! Can't perform! Would never! The lies men tell, to women and themselves. These types of men just get off on su…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 06:38 PM