___bruce Archive

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7	"I am trans and hate the online demonization of masculinity" \| The Michigan Daily OP-ED There have been so many articles like this. But, why does the politicians are not taking men's issue seriously? I wonder what can be done. It's really soul crushing to see these stuff happening day after day.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/24 08:00 PM
17	Have you ever met any women who was sympathetic to men’s issues? Actually, many women. All of the women I had relationship with or dated were more or less pro-men. Most of my friends are pro-men. Most of my co-workers are pro-men. I have found many who are against alimony, unfair division of marital property, unfair division of custody and child support, affirmative action practices etc. Women face a lot of issues. And, it does not need anyone to be a woman to empathize. Same goes for men's issues. Some women and men are hell bent on turning women anti-man. T…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/05/24 06:48 PM
4	Is all this a good use of our time? Would we perhaps be happier just cutting social media out of our lives and training ourselves to become less reactive? I have to say, you are completely wrong. Men are being harmed at different levels in real life. If men were just demonized in social media only and did not face any real world issues your statement could be considered acceptable. But does being here help in any way? Not directly. In my opinion, unless some political party starts representing men's interest these problems won't g…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/24 07:25 PM
1	The National Coalition for Men files complaint against the Selective Service for sex discrimination against men. In their website, I did not find any recent success stories. It is quite saddening.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/05/24 05:05 PM
12	Left wing silence is not personal to men, the oppressed/oppression narrative ruins it all The oppressed vs oppressor dynamic is actually a new one. I don't think this was the case even two decades ago. I never understood why left turned out to be this way. I wish there were some resources which correctly explains this.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/05/24 04:54 PM
1	You're not alone in your views on financial abortions. This article from Australia even draws comparisons to how they are fundamentally compatible with feminism, which may help those who won't accept MRA viewpoints If you by yourself can not take care of a kid physically, emotionally and financially, then you should not take a kid anyway. In case you think you do and later find out that you can't, it's best to give up the kid to a loving couple/person who can and are willing to. Certainly, it is completely immoral to hold someone else forcibly responsible for the financials or other responsibilities for your inability. People should stop thinking that their kid is their property. A human is not a property.…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/05/24 06:11 PM
2	How do you combat the stats of men vastly outnumbering women in nearly all crime? What's there to combat? If someone is committing a crime, the law should take care of the situation. That's it and that's all of it. You, me or any other men should not be impacted in any way for other men's crime. Now, what does men committing more crime than women actually prove anyway? Men committing more violent crimes does not prove that men are more violent. Think of it this way. If you say, men invented most of the science. So, men are better at science than women. Women would never accep…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/24 08:41 PM
2	How do you combat the stats of men vastly outnumbering women in nearly all crime? Do men collectively offer something extremely beneficial that women do not? Are you for real? You don't have any brain? Sorry to start this way, but what you said is really dumb. Have you ever read a science book? How many scientists were female? Just think of one tool: Computer. From the very simplest form to what we have now, a lot of people contributed to it. How many of them are male and how many are female? And, this is just one tool. What I said is pretty much true for all important techno…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/24 08:21 PM
12	Reddit man is expected to pay for a home and wife doesn't wanna help with money You have raised a good point. Once you go a little further with your moral standing, you soon understand how the concept of marital property does not make any sense. Yes, you are right. She should not have to sell the pre-marriage properties. But, he wants to buy a property after marriage. And, he should not concern himself with how she brings the money in. But, she should pay half. You might say, the husband should not suggest his wife how to bring in the money. That's the extent of wrongdoing …	/r/MensRights	11/05/24 07:02 AM
2	What are mens rights activists still fighting for? I will list five: Men don't want to get discriminated during a selection(getting a job, getting into an education institution etc.) Men want to keep their asset(money, land, house etc.) in case a romantic relationship ends Men want equal rights as a parent Men want the same treatment as the other genders in the justice system Men don't want society/law to blame them for other men's actions	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 08:55 PM
3	What are mens rights activists still fighting for? Men got into these jobs based on their merit and effort. When you get something based on your merit and effort then it is not considered privilege. It is considered reward.	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 08:43 PM
4	AI girlfriends will worsen the crisis of male loneliness, not relieve it Not everyone experience loneliness the same way. I think, men enjoy men's companionship more than women's. That's why you will see after getting into a relationship there is often a situation where the woman complains that the man is not giving her enough time. IMO, women's companionship is different from men's companionship in two ways for heterosexual men. I discuss them below. One is purely social. If a man can manage to get women's companionship, they get respect from the society. Because, i…	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 08:07 PM
37	An impressive story by an ex-feminist who got fed up with misandry To be honest, most if not all the issues men face are because of organized systems(law, university, companies etc.). Yet, men have to always hear how the systems benefit men. The truth is, there is only one solution to these problems: Some political party represents men's interest and these systems are forced to treat men fairly because out of moral compass they surely wont. But, I wonder if there will be any political part of this sort.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/24 07:38 PM
3	South Korea mens movement success Hey. Can you share some links? I searched on youtube and nothing came up like you suggested.	/r/MensRights	07/05/24 08:20 PM
2	Is there anything I can do to help my partner at work? Frankly, what you described is just so common that you won't believe. Just try to think about it. You folks followed all the proper channels(boss at work, ACAS and maybe some other entities) and nothing is happening. Your partner almost got killed and no one bats an eye. Everyday we men see that the institutions, laws, people in power are just dead against us and doing everything they can to help women at our expense. I don't know if you are a woman. But if you are try to keep this experience in…	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 06:53 PM
2	Men don't need to open up more; society needs to be more perceptive. On point. Generally, these comments come from women because they have seen in their life that opening up more solves a lot of issues.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 08:52 PM
2	Men don't need to open up more; society needs to be more perceptive. One of the reasons you did not mention but is very important: Men don't open up more because it makes sense to not open up. Women can cry a river every time they have a little issue. It is still okay in the long run. Because, they have a back up option of dating/marrying/divorcing men and using their resource. But, for men this backup option is not available. If a man is facing an issue, his subconscious will remind him to suppress the feeling and get on with his life. Because, if he does not, n…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 08:49 PM
5	70% of palestine victims are women and children I understand. I just wanted to mention that because I have heard him say a lot of things I agree with. Completely agree with your observation "Implicit in that statement is that the men that died are less important than the women if female deaths are being used as an indicator of greater loss."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 08:35 PM
6	70% of palestine victims are women and children Generally, I find him to be a good man. I remember once he said that we put too much emphasis on race and gender which we should not. I don't remember exactly what he said. But, he said something similar to that. I believe he made this comment about Gaza in this specific manner so that people can feel empathy for people of Gaza. It actually shows a deeper problem in society that we do not feel empathy for male victims.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/24 08:23 PM
10	A comprehensive collection of gender-studies facts and claims made by renown Masculinist Warren Farrell. The first issues discussed are very similar to the marriage laws. If I have worked hard for the first 25 years of my life to prepare myself for a career, I should be able to keep the income from my jobs. My romantic partner did not help me to get those job or help in my day to day responsibilities at those job. But, the law thinks that it is okay to give a sizable portion of that income to my partner against my will. But, if I were to commit a crime, the script flips. I will be the only one who …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/04/24 06:48 PM
2	Trans Men Are Our Greatest Allies Well said. They actually agree with us in principle but because we are men they will deliberately ignore our issues.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/24 03:58 PM
26	Trans Men Are Our Greatest Allies Agreed. I would say that the whole trans community is our ally. Trans men are our allies precisely because of what you said. They finally understand how we feel and what we go through. Trans women are also our allies. One of the reason is they expose the myth of male privilege. We can see clear examples in sports. It shows that the threshold for men to succeed at sports is significantly higher than women. But, it is not just sports. It is true for a lot of other fields, too. Sports are just very…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/24 08:58 PM
3	Does anyone have any examples where misandry is being celebrated openly? Depends on what is considered misandry. Men in Russia and Ukraine are forced to go to war. The media not losing their mind 24 hours a day seems a glaring example of celebration of misandry to me. But, a lot of people will of course disagree. The point is, misandry is not only celebrated at personal level but at the national/legal level. So, it is already accepted. So, to many people it won't feel like misandry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/04/24 07:49 PM
3	What are the criteria for determining gender discrimination? To draw a parallel to what you said in your post, the people who are fighting in this war are mostly male. Whatever the result is, you can say males fought to produce this resource(land, independence, peace etc.). However, as soon as the resource is produced they will be asking for half of it and pointing out the difference in the total resource held by male and female.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/04/24 07:28 PM
3	What are the criteria for determining gender discrimination? They generally highlight group performance metrics. For example: most of the best chess players are male. So, according to them there must be something discriminatory to females which is causing this difference. Same goes for most fields. They don't even want to identify the root causes of the difference and the solutions to those causes. The only thing they are interested in is taking half of the resources related to that field. But, since almost all of the resources of that field is produced b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/04/24 07:24 PM
1	Have you been denied housing before for being a male? It's very common in the countries I have lived. I myself have been refused a lot of times. But, in most cases they will say that they are looking for a family as a tenant because it is a family environment and blah blah.	/r/MensRights	15/04/24 05:22 PM
1	As a feminist what can i do to support men’s rights without diminishing those of women? Glad to see that you are taking an interest in this topic. I think, the problems are so deeply rooted that you might(not saying you have to) have to change your complete understanding of reality. It will be a very long discussion if we get into it. So, I am not going to do that. The sad truth is things have gone so far that you probably can't do what you want to do which is helping men without hurting women. But, you can choose to help humans without looking at their gender. That would be an eas…	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 04:32 PM
15	Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3 One of my friends did the same thing after his wife complained he is not doing enough. This should be a norm at every household: Make a list of all the common responsibilities and divide it into two so that each of the partner are prepared to take any of the option.	/r/MensRights	10/04/24 06:46 PM
5	Why are males more likely to be conservative, and females more liberal? One way to think about it is liberal ideology now promotes redistribution of resources(money, power etc.) from men to women. The reason is men as a group hold more resources than women as a group. But, the issue is people live their life as individuals. Some men don't have enough to eat while some other men have a lot of money. So, the men on whose expense the redistribution is done of course will be against the liberal ideology. Even if some men are not the victim of these practices, they may f…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/04/24 06:34 PM
3	Campaign for a Minister for Men - Update The number of sign ups are really low. This needs better reach. Wishing all the best.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/24 08:13 AM
2	How to avoid alimony and child support. How do you calculate what is marriage asset? If someone prepares themselves for a job for first 30 years of their life and then get a job and then get married, would you consider all the salary that person gets to be marriage asset? If yes, why?	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 06:58 PM