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There is a misconception a lot of people have that they should go along with things that aren't within their boundaries because they do not want to "burn a bridge prematurely". Any bridge you burn from defending your boundaries isn't a bridge you want anyways. Let it burn. A good man will not push your boundaries in this manner if you have them clearly defined. If someone is doing this, you simply wouldn't want to be with them anyway? So what's the problem?
/r/RedPillWives28/02/22 02:05 AM
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A virgin has never had sex... It doesn't matter how many partners you have had. I may as well have had more sex than average but with the same person. Which is even more ideal in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:59 AM
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Just do something endearing for him. It will be okay.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 01:00 AM
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We have to find out what was said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:17 AM
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If we are being quantitative, I would say over 10 is undatable roughly speaking. Anything less than 10, and I consider the potential for a long relationship although I would prefer if her n count was much closer to mine (4).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:43 AM
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My n count is 4, and I even feel like that is almost too much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:41 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:39 AM
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If it gets to the point you don't want to work there anymore, you should consider emailing her/management about it. They can't fire you after that, because it would count as retaliation. You would get a massive paycheck in court if they tried to do so. This is what I've done in the past when I'm getting to the point where I've had enough, and I'm ready to leave a company. I'm also rather disagreeable, and I do not put up with nonsense like this at all so take this with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:55 PM
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I'm a traditional man, and I will settle for no less than a traditional woman. The men you are talking about are weak/nontraditional men. You cannot be a traditional woman to an untraditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:23 AM
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Elegant and intelligent response. We need more women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:42 AM
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What's wrong with being promiscuous? This is hard to explain, but in general, studies have shown promiscuous people are less happy in monogamous marriages and tend to divorce at higher rates. If you're the one making her wait until marriage, then she might be. Why wouldn't she be? She gets the best of both worlds, getting to have fun and also settle down with a nice guy who wants to marry her. It's strategic pluralism. I agree that in a committed relationship it would be harder to get away with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:09 PM
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Yes, actually it shows all of those things. I believe as a society we are way too promiscuous. Also, your argument about she may sleep with other guys while she's with you is nonsense. If she was doing that, then she wouldn't be the type of woman who would wait until marriage. She would just be another hoe who cheats, and you would know that after a while by her character. I also highly doubt someone like that would have the restraint to wait anyways. I agree for the average man it is very diffi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:27 PM
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Well keep in mind I'm saying that if she wanted this. There's no way I'd keep this up by myself as the man in the relationship. Also, if she is willing to wait until marriage, isn't that a very good sign of her character? It's easy to just have sex whenever you want, and it doesn't mean anything. If you can find a woman worth waiting for, then maybe the probability you stay married is increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:37 PM
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For marriage? Sure. I would love to date someone who took it slow like that if I was serious about her. It has nothing to do with not being physically attracted to her. I feel like it would build a better relationship to wait until you got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:25 PM
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I'm on the women's side for this one. I think it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to hold out on sex if that is what she wants, and she is not doing so just to piss you off. I think a man pretending to want a relationship to get sex is trash. I actual really enjoy waiting to have sex. Honestly, I would probably prefer we waited a year into dating before we did anything. Usually the women I date are practically begging for it after 2 weeks or so, so I've never really had the chance to have that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:02 AM
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Hm... Maybe reread my comment? You might be confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:13 AM
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Wow taking the time to respond to every part lol I get it. Lol yes I like to practice articulating myself. although my number is probably a little bit high it doesn’t really speak to who I am or how I would be in a relationship. People can change. It defines part of your past but not the whole thing. Good luck. I hope that you set your boundaries in the future and are comfortable with your future partner. You seem very self aware, so I have high confidence you will figure everything out. I wish …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:24 AM
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I would like you to reread your comment and search for the irony in it You don't have the intellectual capacity to debate like an adult 😂 You stoop to low level responses like this. "Grow a pair"? Really? How can a 30-something year old behave like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:00 AM
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Lol no. You are told to stop being emotional when you start only saying things that make you feel good instead of what is reality. You are not "standing up for yourself". You are bending reality into whatever makes you feel good and pretending that is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:51 AM
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Everyone is worth of a monogamous relationship if that is what they want regardless of their past. Yes, I agree with this actually. Everyone does deserve this. Does this mean I should have to settle with women with more of a past than I want? No. It doesn't. There are many red flags with dating a woman like that, but that same woman does deserve a relationship if that's what she wants. She would most likely have to find someone more like herself though. Everyone wanna be “sex positive” sexual co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:35 AM
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You also have no evidence supporting that... Further proving my point you do whatever makes you "feel" good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:17 AM
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lol... No. I'm not the one denying reality. I accept the truth in the world. I have no desire to be weak and lie to myself so that I "feel" good. You on the other hand....lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:15 AM
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Also, to directly address your last point, I did not call you emotional, because you had an opinion... That is another emotional answer of yours that has no meaning in reality. I called you emotional because YOUR RESPONSES are based solely on emotion. You just say whatever makes you "feel" good. You do not care to look at reality or logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:10 AM
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lol... Do you really think women reach their sexual peaks AT 40?? Are you delusional? There are virtually no women at 40 who are dating younger men... This is crazy and attributes to what I said about you wanting to "feel" good. You think that you can just say these things and they become reality... The reason I am calling you emotional is that you are acting crazy... None of what you are saying is logical anymore. You are so used to not having your ideas challenged that you think you can say an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:09 AM
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Also, the "sexist rhetoric" isn't sexist... It's the truth... Just because it doesn't make you "feel" good doesn't mean you can change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:04 AM
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And now we see the overly emotional side. HUMANS DO LOSE VALUE AS THEY AGE! What do you think the value is...? He is talking about Sexual Market Value... If you think that women don't lose that as they age, then you are in denial... "individuals who make shitty life choices may not have much to show for their time spent on earth, but that isn’t specific to either sex." ^This is nonsense. Who is even talking about this...? Nowhere did I state that if you made shitty life choices and your old that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:00 AM
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Tests don't always reveal everything... Many diseases like HIV don't even show up on tests sometimes until months after... Asking someone how many people they have slept with is a great indicator of what you are getting yourself into. Also, you are saying that is irrelevant for other people to know...? Who are the other people...? I'm talking about a relationship... If you think that is irrelevant for a potential partner to know how many people you have slept with, then you are beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:57 AM
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The analysis is gross, but there is some truth in it. Women do lose value as they age. Men are valued more for what the bring to the table, so if a man works on himself, he usually has more value later in life. A woman peaks in physical attractiveness around 24. A man peaks around 33. That already proves that "Both men and women are cars." Is not true. Women are much more likely to think not what the sentence MEANS but how it makes them FEEL. This can be seen in your reaction to the post denying…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:43 AM
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I don't think asking how many people you have been with sexually is dumb at all... There are multiple studies showing how women with very high body counts aren't happy in monogamous marriages... Higher rates for STDs... There are so many reasons why you would ask this. How could you claim that asking about it is dumb? What self respecting man wants a woman who slept with over 100 guys for instance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:10 PM
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This post is a joke. It is such low level thinking... How much intelligence does it take to come to the conclusion that people in a strip club is a HORRIBLE representation of the entire population? I hate to say this but... no wonder she is a stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:06 PM
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You're judging all men off of a very small subset of men that frequent a strip club...? How do you think that is even remotely logical? People at a strip club are obviously going to be less moral...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:54 PM
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And? What is slut shaming to you? Am I slut shaming if I don't want to date a woman who has been with 100+ men, or am I just intelligent? All of this "don't slut shame" nonsense is a coping mechanism for women with bad morals to tell men they can't be held responsible for their actions. People like to talk about this nonsense of don't judge others... Lol... We judge others all the time. If someone is a murderer, and I know he is a murder I will judge him as such. I'm not going to pretend he isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:10 PM
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Ahh. Well, that's close to what I thought. Of course then if you misjudge then vetting can be bad. We were talking about two different things. I'm still learning the terminology of this community.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:44 PM
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What? Doesn't vetting mean waiting until having sex to get to know the other person? What is the misreading red flags and blocking coming from? It sounds like you are beginning to talk about something else than what was originally mentioned. Your situation deviates way too much, and it seems like you are trying to prove a point beyond what I stated. In your example it's so obvious that that is bad behavior it's cliche. It's also irrelevant to what I'm saying. I'm unsure how you can reply that to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:31 PM
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I would say that one way it could backfire is if a woman was very promiscuous, and she decided to be a saint all of the sudden. A lot of men may feel like they are undervalued because they slept around with everyone else without them having to stick around for a while first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:27 PM
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How do you use the word clearly here? As if that is obvious? I would say almost never it backfires. I'm sure there's some example out there where it did, but it is a great strategy for women to take. I don't really see much of a drawback outside of losing a partner who likely wasn't good for you anyway because he didn't want to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:26 PM
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Hypothetically of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:23 PM
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I don't really see what consequences a woman would face for this. Of course, hypothetically it's possible, but realistically it seems only beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:21 PM
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It can go wrong. For them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:27 PM
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The act of vetting pushes the odds in your favor and reducing the probability you meet someone like the red piller who gave you this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:23 PM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:48 PM
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Who cares what those people think anyways? They don't even talk to people outside their communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:37 PM
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How does that disprove anything I said... Who said anything about comparing wages between men and women... Are you drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:33 PM
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Offending someone is better than a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:30 PM
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The AVERAGE man... I said it scales with age. That's not the AVERAGE. It turns out my half a brain comment was right huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:26 PM
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When they get older a lot. Age is the #1 predictor of wealth. Anyone with half a brain would know that. I think some women resent men, because they made horrible life choices. Now that they are old and washed up they want to play the victim and deny the reality of their situation. Men do this too. Humans are flawed. Some women are just generally low value women who should look for a low value man or try to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:03 PM
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Women have make-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:43 PM
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I'm here for the exact same reason. I can't stand how the truth has become illegal. Men and women who sleep around are less stable than their counterparts. Its great to be able to speak your mind and argue your view point with people rationalizing their view points as well. Instead of this nonsense that it's become almost illegal to say the truth if that truth will hurt someone's "feelings". Sure, let's protect everyone's feelings and lie to each other so we feel good. Let's see where that takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:41 PM
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This is true, but men will date below their social economic status. Women will not. The concept comes from will they do it or not. A man being a cashier meeting a CEO is a lot less romantic than a woman cashier meeting a CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:38 PM
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If you really believe that women don't lose options after 30, you're a bit delusional. It does get harder for women after that age. I don't believe it's this "wall" that RP talks about, but at 30 it's getting very scary. Your options are decreasing fast. A very successful 30 year old man likely wants a beautiful 25 year old. One relationship that doesn't lead to marriage can take you out and leave you 35 and single. Then you're stuck with options of men that are 35+. Why isn't someone married at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:36 PM
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If you're dating a woman who engaged in threesomes, you've already made a mistake on who you're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:26 PM
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