__ideal_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Which are the most sexist subreddits against men?		__ideal_	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/19 02:03 PM

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1	Saying that men need to be taught to not rape is as offensive as saying black people need to be taught to not steal. Meh, people are all different. I find it extraordinary that you're around my age (likely older, I am 42) and have no concept of that??? Plenty of people have no concept of consent which is why it's important for it to be taught just in case. The fact that I cleaned up my act is reasonable, some people understand consent but genuinely enjoy crossing people's boundaries. That's a far bigger issue imo.	/r/MensRights	18/12/19 02:52 AM
1	Saying that men need to be taught to not rape is as offensive as saying black people need to be taught to not steal. What do you find extraordinary? Sex ed that included consent? Yes, it was very progressive. Our sex ed ran once a week for a year, in addition to the course content we were required to all submit a question into a box at the conclusion of each session. We could submit blank paper but everyone had to submit something. Brisbane Qld Australia.	/r/MensRights	18/12/19 02:42 AM
0	Normalizing single mothers Not trolling. I am 100% happy to read peer reviewed research which shows that hypergamy is an actual phenomenon. If you link some I will read them with an open mind. I haven't done any research, it's true. I admit it. But it just doesn't make sense because continually repartnering requires high level energy expenditure and has an unknown payoff, it just doesn't seem rational for the average woman who just wants to live a contented life.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/19 05:44 AM
1	Normalizing single mothers I've yet to meet a middle aged man who is happy in his marriage in a way that would objectively appeal to most men Then those men should divorce and go after their happiness.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/19 05:32 AM
2	Saying that men need to be taught to not rape is as offensive as saying black people need to be taught to not steal. I understood about not taking other people's belongings but I did not understand about sexual/ romantic relationship consent. I grew up in the 80's and back then we were all told that guys thought about sex every 2 seconds and the sex was a 'favour' that women reluctantly submitted themselves to. When my sex drive kicked it it was mayhem. I thought something was wrong with me. Literally no one told me that that would happen. Couple that with a naturally aggressive nature and a female sexual hara…	/r/MensRights	17/12/19 05:22 AM
0	Normalizing single mothers Hypergamy is not wide spread. I don't know anyone personally that has engaged in it, do you? If hypergamy was part of the female nature we would see it in celebrity women - of whom we know everything about their love lives - and we do not see it. Think about Brittany Spears - married a loser had his kids - yes she divorced him but she did not do it for another man. Think about Jennifer Aniston - no kids - but she married down after her divorce. Angelina Jolie - ends her marriage - again not for …	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/19 04:55 PM
1	Normalizing single mothers I don’t know. I’d have to look it up.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/19 10:15 AM
7	Saying that men need to be taught to not rape is as offensive as saying black people need to be taught to not steal. I get how statements like those can be offensive - and they are. It should be phrased, teach teens about consent. I learnt about consent 20 years ago in high school - it was a lesson that I needed, I am female and used to harass guys (I begged a few go out with me repeatedly, like I would not drop it) I didn't know what I was doing was wrong until I was taught. A good lesson.	/r/MensRights	15/12/19 06:42 AM
2	Normalizing single mothers The issue is when a woman settles for a man she doesn't respect. Yes, this would be a HUGE problem for any marriage, it's over before it starts. You should end relationships immediately with people who don't respect you. Your self esteem depends on this. Circumstances may change too - in a marriage when once a woman respected her husband she may become disillusioned and fall out of love. I agree. Boredom too, can happen. But honestly, either party may want a divorce - and sometimes both do. Cons…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/19 03:09 AM
-1	Normalizing single mothers Also the danger with unchecked hypergamy is that there is always someone who is better. I think you overestimate women's energy to constantly pursue new partners. God, even just the thought of repartnering every few years exhausts me. It's called 'settling down' for a reason. People want to rest and settle down with someone.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/19 02:13 AM
-2	Normalizing single mothers It is not worth the risk to get involved with one only to be discarded later when the mother finds it advantageous. I don't understand this statement? If you're a quality partner then she will never find it advantageous to discard you.	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/19 01:59 AM
1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Inequality is a serious and emotive issue. I care about men's rights very much. I believe discrimination towards any section of society has a negative impact on us all. By that I am talking about things like - unfairness to father's in family court hurts not only the father but also his extended family, his children and his new spouse. For example. I only care about making things better, fairer for everyone. To improve society for all of us. That will only happen if we work together, not if we j…	/r/MensRights	14/11/19 12:48 PM
1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions stop thinking men are trying to persecute you Projection much? This whole thread and this entire subreddit is WoMeN aRe PeRseCuTinG MeN.	/r/MensRights	13/11/19 04:19 AM
1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Troll or feminist? Those are the only options a woman can have? Grow up. Get help.	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 09:56 PM
1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions I'm not a feminist. When did I ever say that?	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 05:40 PM
-1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions No it doesn't actually. But, by all means, feel free to continue to make yourself believe you are constantly victimised by women. I am sure that it's the path to enlightenment and happiness. Oh, and be sure to recruit as many young, vulnerable boys and men to this way of thinking as you can while you're at it. I'm sure their lives will be enriched beyond measure.	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 05:23 PM
0	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Trust me, you were in desperate need of it long before now. jfc.	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 05:13 PM
1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Feminist is in THE TITLE like I mentioned several times already. Plus the old school men who forbade their sons from crying were anything but feminists in case you don't know? No man who identified himself as a feminist would tell another man that he shouldn't cry. Who are you tryna kid?	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 05:02 PM
0	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Wow, get therapy ffs. You seem to think that men are divine beings who are constantly being victimised by dangerous women. Oh, and they don't harm other men either... Men and women are no better than each other. Both can be pieces of shit. Creating a divide is wrong. MRA's absolutely do teach vulnerable young men to fear and hate women. I see posts about how women destroy men's lives every single day on this sub. I know it's harmful to those young men. This sub is often a good example of how men…	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 04:52 PM
0	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Define Feminist? I literally just went over to r/feminism and could see no man hating posts. Nothing like the woman hating posts that I see here on the regular.	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 04:24 PM
0	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions And if it’s women and men shaming men for crying then why is the title of this post specifically blaming feminists? You know in a few years there will be a LOT of very angry young men who are furious that they’ve been taught that women are the enemy. They will be hurt and angry that they’ve lost a lot of tenderness and love because they were taught to HATE, fear and mistrust instead. I wonder who they will blame when that day comes?	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 04:14 PM
1	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions When do women do it? And feminists in particular? You got a source for this?	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 04:04 PM
-2	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Oh no, I get it. WoMeN ArE EvIl aNd bAd tO mEn aNd tHe cAuSe oF alL mEn'S pRoBleMs, Fuck Feminists, amirite? Do I have an understanding of how you see the world?	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 03:49 PM
-2	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions When? How? Boys were traditionally stoic around their fathers and other men and allowed to cry around their mothers and sisters. I've never seen a woman tell a man not to cry.	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 03:41 PM
-3	(fits here) I hate it when feminists insult men and call them weak just because they showed their emotions Last I checked it was other men who were shitting on men for crying 'acting like skirts' or 'acting gay' - not women.	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 03:35 PM
1	Avoiding child support No, it was for advocating illegal activity. I have a question. You say that fathers get primary physical custody in 10% of cases. How would you feel if those non-custodial mothers refused to pay child support?	/r/MensRights	11/11/19 11:01 AM
-3	Single Mom Complains About Her Deadbeat Ex - A Conversation lol, get therapy.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/03/19 01:18 PM
-12	Single Mom Complains About Her Deadbeat Ex - A Conversation Who are you to give advice? Seriously, I'm asking. You must be in a happy, long term committed relationship? Actually, scratch that. I just checked your post history, get some therapy stat. Oh and don't give advice to anyone, you're not fit to advise my dog.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/03/19 09:26 AM
7	The 30s divorced single mom starter pack. If she's a single mother she wouldn't buy meals for one, she would need to cook for her kids.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/11/18 05:32 AM
3	Woman hates dating in her 30s and wonder where all the good men are. Yes, it's sad. Truthfully, they are to be pitied.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/09/18 08:55 PM
26	Woman hates dating in her 30s and wonder where all the good men are. That's because the women who focus on what they can give rather than receive are never single	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/09/18 04:27 PM
18	Woman hates dating in her 30s and wonder where all the good men are. Everyone has stuff to give. Affection, compassion, kindness etc. If I were single again I would be focusing on what value I could bring to a man's life, not on what he will bring to mine. But I've never had problems finding or maintaining relationships. Go figure. Her thinking is bizarre thinking, the thoughts of a woman who is selfish and oddly doesn't like men. I predict that she will be single for a really, really long time to come. Maybe forever if she doesn't adjust her attitude.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/09/18 04:22 PM
17	Woman hates dating in her 30s and wonder where all the good men are. Nah, she still has plenty to give. She is just too selfish and self centred. All she thinks about is herself. No one wants to be in a relationship with a selfish user.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/09/18 03:30 PM
20	Woman hates dating in her 30s and wonder where all the good men are. Yeah, she's boring because she is self absorbed. She also has issues, she thinks people lie about their relationships on social media and that relationships are misery traps. wtf? She also bitches about the expectations of men but also makes sure we know of her expectations of them. (free meal, treated like a queen puke) wtf? She just doesn't like men, doesn't enjoy them. She's emotionally stunted and chronically immature. She needs therapy. For real.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/09/18 03:28 PM
0	My state is trying to ban "female genital mutilation" but no word mentioned about literally the same procedure being done to the males. To OP - start a movement to have MGM banned then. If no one else is spearheading that campaign then why don't you?	/r/MensRights	21/07/18 01:05 PM