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| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.To a straight woman who really wants a relationship, dating is like being stranded on a desert island where the only food is a giant pile of coconuts. And for whatever reason, some of those coconuts are rotten inside. To a straight man who really wants a relationship, dating is like being stranded on a desert island | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:28 PM |
| 11 | If you're 'lonely' purely due to a lack of sex, you're not 'lonely', you're just horny.What you need to understand, OP, is that sex isn't just about fucking. It's kissing, loving, holding each other, cuddling, and being close to someone else. It's about sharing something intimate and beautiful. It's about a connection. Men don't get a sexual life handed in a silver plate like women do. A man can have a "socially active life with friends and family" and still not know what an intimate hug feels like. We don't get intimacy and affection on demand, we need to work for it. For men, a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Searched a girls name from tinder on IG, now shes asking how I found her...I would just end it now lmao damn bruh | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Lifting....Changed everythingathleanx lmao this dude uses fake weights | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | If Chad is so desirable to the vast majority of women, why is he fucking average looking and below average women? Either "Chad" isn't a Chad or women aren't impressed by male beauty.I thought Chad was exactly what women wanted, making women go crazy with lust, where they cant help but dry hump Chad’s leg begging him to pump and dump them, even willing to cheat or dump their husbands for him…… Here is the problem, OP, you can't distinguish between memes and real life. Your entire "analysis" is based on a literal interpretation of a hypothetical internet caricature. It would be beneficial for you to think about things before formulating arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 03:44 PM |
| 4 | If Chad is so desirable to the vast majority of women, why is he fucking average looking and below average women? Either "Chad" isn't a Chad or women aren't impressed by male beauty.Pedophilia would be legal if sex was a need. this is by far the most asinine statement I've ever read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?I had to secure my financial position before even thinking about dating / having a social life. that's a strange way of thinking, people at all levels of income date and socialize every day | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:43 AM |
| 0 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?And my biggest desire was to have a health social life and romantic experiences. I failed. so your biggest desire was to have a healthy social life and romantic experiences, but instead of pursuing social activities and dating, you devoted your time to acquiring wealth? that's like me saying that my biggest desire was to become an engineer and then feeling like a failure after finishing med school What would you recommend? doing things that get you closer to your goals, instead of random unrelat… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.So what are your guys thoughts what’s going on here? attractive girls always date multiple guys at the same time she picked the one she liked the most, and then canceled the other dudes one of them got mad, she wasn't talking about you | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 03:29 PM |
| 4 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.Try being bald and 5'4 and indian | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWomen are just as horny as men women only get horny to a few men so they're not as horny as men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSuddenly evo-psych will return to its rightful place as astrology for modern-day misfits. the feminist wet dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Simply "doing something in order to get laid" is NOT "putting women on a pedestal"If you're changing for someone else, you're elevating them above you, a la the pedestal. Getting women is a skill. I want women, so I develop that skill. I'm not changing for someone else, I'm changing to obtain things I want and don't have. With your logic, if I wanted to learn how to play piano I would be putting piano on a pedestal since I'm changing myself by learning it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 02:40 PM |
| – | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayshe is talking about social life and asked me if I have a lot of friends and I said "No" lol what are you doing Im 6'5 keep grinding homie, you'll drown in pussy once you develop some game | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 5 | The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like YouI did the pee-pee dance for her. if your account gets deleted this quote will be grossly misinterpreted | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 30 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.The same way NiceGuys™ confuse basic kindness with attraction, women confuse sexual interest with romantic interest. It's just a lack of awareness of basic intersexual dynamics, combined with entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women that complain about men that they're disinterested in approaching them, should APPROACH MEN.Where all those girls who ask out live at home, on tinder, asking out the same Top20 chads as every other female is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Every single girl in my environment has a boyfriend (serious)How tf is it possible that every one of them has a boyfriend? Even girls I'm not interested in are taken. What should I do? All girls want Top20. The more attractive you are, the easier it will be for you to get romantic female attention/affection from an attractive woman. Always. Be. Looksmaxxing. Seek to improve your physical appearance in every possible way you can. Work on your game, it can only benefit you. Dating is a numbers grind for non-Top20 dudes. You will feel frustration, anger, and… | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women indeed do not care about muscles, you guys are just too uglyHandsome skinny guy > Buffed normal face guy > Ugly buffed guy This analysis is flawed and the complete version will point the error in your argument: Handsome buffed guy > Handsome skinny guy > Buffed normal face guy > skinny normal face guy > Ugly buffed guy > Ugly skinny guy Women like attractive men. Being fit is more attractive than being out of shape. By being in shape, you increase your SMV and therefore your ability to get sex. TheRedPill doesn't tell men to hop on gear and go full gymce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 12:18 PM |
| 0 | 6/6/6/...7?I have an LG Stylo 5. ewww found the incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 10:49 AM |
| 15 | Conversations with an average man with an above average sex lifeI'm 29, 6'2, 90kg. ok chad | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:58 PM |
| – | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?I've always been well muscled with an athletic build. I am 5'8" and weigh #150. Despite being muscled, having a small-ish frame can be a dealbreaker with many women. Even if you're buff, if you're not taller than her on heels its usually game over. You didn't mention jawline and hair either, but if one of those things isn't looking good then I could see you not in the Top20. But in case you do have what it takes to be a Top20, physically speaking, then maybe your game is lacking or you're boring… | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 03:56 PM |
| – | Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up.4 years with the ex She ended it pretty suddenly a couple months ago. Yeah no shit you're struggling with being happy. If the person you loved left you, being happy will be off the table for a while. I assume many of you found this sub after a rough break up or hard times with women, how did you make that switch? What changed your mind? Not all men are the same. Some men are perfectly happy doing the hookup/bachelor thing, while others want to be in a relationship with someone they love. If you … | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With Girlstl;dr: to get better results with girls you have to become more attractive you don't say OP | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 11:53 PM |
| – | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenstop chasing women Female sexuality is reactive. They enjoy being pursued by attractive men. No amount of tricks, PUA or "game" is going to manipulate her into bed. Seduction/game is not the same as manipulation. Women enjoy being seduced by attractive men. The bar is set so low False. In the past women could only have access to men on their social circles, but with the invention of online dating and social media all women have an endless supply of possible suitors vying for her attention at all… | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 3 | I don't believe that women are attracted to 'hard work' and 'effort' as much as we are made to believe. Instant gratification from those who have already attained success is a lot more attractive, even if they achieved it without any effort at all.Would you date a fat chick who may lose weight and become hot in the future? Both men and women seek partners that are high value, not that could be. In the case of women, yeah, a talented underdog is an attractive prospect; but if they get attention from an established, Top20 man, then hypergamy will take control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Stop citing that fucking OkCupid studythe average man is not struggling to get laid hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Women are far less shallow than men.why don't most women watch porn? Because actually having sex is better than watching porn. Women don't watch porn because they can just have sex. Why don't they want to watch men strip at clubs? Why would a woman pay to see a naked man, when she can download Tinder, find an attractive man, have him pay for the date, and then have him undress for her at her house? Why is "playgirl" so hilariously unpopular? Women don't need artificial sexual stimulation because sex always free and available for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Women getting more attention from the opposite sex doesn't mean that they have it easier in the dating world.Despite having "options", women can definitely struggle and be just as lonely/sexually frustrated as men. Not having options for women: "no Top20 male is actively pursuing me for a relationship, and I'm not attracted to the five average men that are." Not having options for men: "I don't know what romantic affection from the opposite sex feels like." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Should men always pay for dates?So how do we men can protect ourselves from this ? If I'm asking a woman out, it's my treat. Don't do dinner dates for the first time, stick to coffee or drinks. If she tells you that she "prefers dinner dates", stop responding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Banning artificial appearance-enhancers would instantly balance the SMP.Men did not evolve to chase women and women did not evolve to "pick" men. Any scientific evidence to back this up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 05:32 PM |
| – | Different women want different types of men. Why is this so hard to understand?Different women want different types of attractive men. All women want top 20, but they do have preferences within the top 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Despite a women claiming to have "diverse taste" in men, it would always be positive for a man's sexlife to be taller, with a stronger jawline, a more symmetrical face and more dominant.A woman who is 5'11'' is going to think a guy who is 5'9'' is too short. However, a woman who is 4'11'' will probably be more than satisfied with his height. hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 01:45 PM |
| 14 | Are most women even attracted to men?The physical features on their own have no relevance for me. What about those tinder chad experiments then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common?Unflattering glasses lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Two evolutionary psychologist argue that Evo Psych should move from a MCFC(males compete females choose) model of human mate selection, and focus more on a MMC(Mutual mate choice) model.We advocate a stronger focus on the MMC model. Hear that, ladies? Two dudes say you should start dating non-Chads. Better get to it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Why aren’t women able to “regulate” who they’re attracted to like men can?yep, garbage post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.you're just mad because you can't cube | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What causes a guy to get so caught up in his jealousy instead of trying to suceed in romantically/sexually?ok, boomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Ltr gets touchy with another guy during dinner when sitting in front of meholy shit | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships?Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships? Monogamy from both men and women is expected in monogamous relationships. This is a cultural tradition. In a monogamous relationship, both parties are expected to not fuck other people. This is the definition of a monogamous relationship. A man's innate sexual strategy to spread his seed is common knowledge now. It is. Men, even in 2019, are generally expected to be pursuers, providers, and protectors. Correct. With that in mind, what do women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/19 01:43 PM |
| 35 | What do you feel about this?only top-tier men get it lmao fam i am no top tier man and yet i manage to find girls willing to ring my dingaling | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 06:39 PM |
| – | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyeswomen also tend to sniff out the "hot fuck bois" quickly and get rid of them haha cmon dont lie to the man | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 11:55 AM |
| 7 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?I don't agree with what you said so I'll make the claim that you've never engaged in coitus with a female. This will diminish your social standing within this interaction, therefore making your argument incorrect. be better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 02:16 PM |
| – | Alcohol seriously helps so muchweed is also the tits | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men who have strung women along for sex. Was the sex worth it? Did you feel bad after?It is no different than a woman stringing along guys she has no intention of sleeping with for attention, validation, free rides, money, emotional tampons etc. The OP talks about a man pretending to be considering a woman as a potential LTR in order to extract sex from her. Your average instathot isn't promising sex to her orbiters. In most cases, these guys only get a shitty, one sided, platonic "friendship". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Would you be serious with a potential partner if they revealed they had a threesome?If you don't really care...WHY? Why would I? I'm willing to commit to any attractive woman that brings value into my life. What I value in women is affection and sex. I couldn't give two shits about how much dick she took in the past. It's not about her past, is about whether I'm getting my needs met or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react?Wouldn't give two shits, honestly. I don't see dating a woman as "competing with the other court jesters to win her approval". I see it as "I think shes hot, I wanna have fun seeing what I can get". Never ask women if they're getting other dick, it's a total beta move my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/19 04:46 PM |
| – | Self aware smooth guys of reddit, what mistakes do you see non-smooth guys make while in conversation?don't be needy yeah but the thing is I'm starving for romantic affection | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating is destroying my self esteem and confidence..My theory is that you're not attractive enough to get commitment from the guys you like. The fact that you're not getting what you want makes me think that your current attempts to become more physically attractive are not enough. In what areas do you think you might be lacking? How will you work on yourself to fix those areas? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Dating is destroying my self esteem and confidence..Watch weight, new clothes, makeup, hair extensions, etc There is more to attractiveness than looks. Just because you're fuckeable doesn't mean you're likeable. How old are you? What are your hobbies? What are your interests? What is your career like? What do you when you're on a date? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating is destroying my self esteem and confidence..RP bibliography states that men date down and women date up. However, there is a limit on how much above your SMV you can date. It's easy for a woman to get sex from guys two or three leagues above them, but when it comes to commitment, most guys who are 8s don't want to be committed to 5s. If you can't secure commitment from the pool of guys you're dating, there are two options available for you: Lower your standards and date guys with a lower SMV than the ones you're dating now. The lower the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How can a commuting STEM student meet girls?Get on the apps and start grinding boi. | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 01:56 PM |
| 5 | I'm ready to be the girl who has game."girl game" is basically "not looking away when a man makes eye contact" lmao | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Says she needs time to decide whether she likes meGame other chicks while she decides. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | If you think that dating for women is some easy party you are simply revealing that you have almost no dating experienceWomen don't lie. Damn I wouldn't want to go through life this blind. Good luck man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Don't give up on Tinder just yetI think to myself, fuck it just gonna leave it and don't care about it and put minimal effort It boggles my mind how there still are men, in the year 2019, that don't have this approach by default when it comes to online dating. The only effort you should put into online dating is taking good pics. After that, anything beyond swipping when you're in the toilet and practicing text game to close dates is not worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/19 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Is Ephebophilia the reason grown men shit on male teenage heartthrobs so much?Not into emo tbh, I think my niece liked them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Is Ephebophilia the reason grown men shit on male teenage heartthrobs so much?it's mostly grown men who do that It might be an american thing? I (35M) live in Berlin. Could not give less of a shit about boybands. No animosity. If they're doing their thing and banging prime pussy while making money, hey more power to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | A girl told me she wouldn’t bang me because “I’m me”What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Nothing, really. She's just being a cunt. Women can get away with that. Ignore her, keep gaming her if you feel like it, but don't expect much. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with me f25 with m25Stop wasting his time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | [16M] Should I quit playing video games entirely?Don't quit, but be aware that gaming is unattractive to the vast majority of women. I also game, but only in the weekends and in small amounts. Don't mention it to girls. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I'm worried that my boyfriend thinks I'm boring.A woman being boring is not too much of a dealbreaker for most men. Predictable, unassertive, agreeable, and introverted are negative traits only when a man possess them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/19 01:52 PM |
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