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To a straight woman who really wants a relationship, dating is like being stranded on a desert island where the only food is a giant pile of coconuts. And for whatever reason, some of those coconuts are rotten inside. To a straight man who really wants a relationship, dating is like being stranded on a desert island
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:28 PM
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What you need to understand, OP, is that sex isn't just about fucking. It's kissing, loving, holding each other, cuddling, and being close to someone else. It's about sharing something intimate and beautiful. It's about a connection. Men don't get a sexual life handed in a silver plate like women do. A man can have a "socially active life with friends and family" and still not know what an intimate hug feels like. We don't get intimacy and affection on demand, we need to work for it. For men, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:26 PM
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I would just end it now lmao damn bruh
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:59 PM
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athleanx lmao this dude uses fake weights
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:44 PM
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I thought Chad was exactly what women wanted, making women go crazy with lust, where they cant help but dry hump Chad’s leg begging him to pump and dump them, even willing to cheat or dump their husbands for him…… Here is the problem, OP, you can't distinguish between memes and real life. Your entire "analysis" is based on a literal interpretation of a hypothetical internet caricature. It would be beneficial for you to think about things before formulating arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:44 PM
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Pedophilia would be legal if sex was a need. this is by far the most asinine statement I've ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:33 PM
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I had to secure my financial position before even thinking about dating / having a social life. that's a strange way of thinking, people at all levels of income date and socialize every day
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:43 AM
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And my biggest desire was to have a health social life and romantic experiences. I failed. so your biggest desire was to have a healthy social life and romantic experiences, but instead of pursuing social activities and dating, you devoted your time to acquiring wealth? that's like me saying that my biggest desire was to become an engineer and then feeling like a failure after finishing med school What would you recommend? doing things that get you closer to your goals, instead of random unrelat…
/r/seduction28/07/21 12:57 AM
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So what are your guys thoughts what’s going on here? attractive girls always date multiple guys at the same time she picked the one she liked the most, and then canceled the other dudes one of them got mad, she wasn't talking about you
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:29 PM
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Try being bald and 5'4 and indian
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:50 PM
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Women are just as horny as men women only get horny to a few men so they're not as horny as men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:54 PM
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Suddenly evo-psych will return to its rightful place as astrology for modern-day misfits. the feminist wet dream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:52 PM
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If you're changing for someone else, you're elevating them above you, a la the pedestal. Getting women is a skill. I want women, so I develop that skill. I'm not changing for someone else, I'm changing to obtain things I want and don't have. With your logic, if I wanted to learn how to play piano I would be putting piano on a pedestal since I'm changing myself by learning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:40 PM

she is talking about social life and asked me if I have a lot of friends and I said "No" lol what are you doing Im 6'5 keep grinding homie, you'll drown in pussy once you develop some game
/r/seduction14/07/20 12:38 PM
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I did the pee-pee dance for her. if your account gets deleted this quote will be grossly misinterpreted
/r/seduction29/06/20 04:19 PM
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The same way NiceGuys™ confuse basic kindness with attraction, women confuse sexual interest with romantic interest. It's just a lack of awareness of basic intersexual dynamics, combined with entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:11 PM
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Where all those girls who ask out live at home, on tinder, asking out the same Top20 chads as every other female is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:36 PM
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How tf is it possible that every one of them has a boyfriend? Even girls I'm not interested in are taken. What should I do? All girls want Top20. The more attractive you are, the easier it will be for you to get romantic female attention/affection from an attractive woman. Always. Be. Looksmaxxing. Seek to improve your physical appearance in every possible way you can. Work on your game, it can only benefit you. Dating is a numbers grind for non-Top20 dudes. You will feel frustration, anger, and…
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:30 PM
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Handsome skinny guy > Buffed normal face guy > Ugly buffed guy This analysis is flawed and the complete version will point the error in your argument: Handsome buffed guy > Handsome skinny guy > Buffed normal face guy > skinny normal face guy > Ugly buffed guy > Ugly skinny guy Women like attractive men. Being fit is more attractive than being out of shape. By being in shape, you increase your SMV and therefore your ability to get sex. TheRedPill doesn't tell men to hop on gear and go full gymce…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:18 PM
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I have an LG Stylo 5. ewww found the incel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:49 AM
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I'm 29, 6'2, 90kg. ok chad
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:58 PM

I've always been well muscled with an athletic build. I am 5'8" and weigh #150. Despite being muscled, having a small-ish frame can be a dealbreaker with many women. Even if you're buff, if you're not taller than her on heels its usually game over. You didn't mention jawline and hair either, but if one of those things isn't looking good then I could see you not in the Top20. But in case you do have what it takes to be a Top20, physically speaking, then maybe your game is lacking or you're boring…
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:56 PM

4 years with the ex She ended it pretty suddenly a couple months ago. Yeah no shit you're struggling with being happy. If the person you loved left you, being happy will be off the table for a while. I assume many of you found this sub after a rough break up or hard times with women, how did you make that switch? What changed your mind? Not all men are the same. Some men are perfectly happy doing the hookup/bachelor thing, while others want to be in a relationship with someone they love. If you …
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:15 AM
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tl;dr: to get better results with girls you have to become more attractive you don't say OP
/r/seduction18/03/20 11:53 PM

stop chasing women Female sexuality is reactive. They enjoy being pursued by attractive men. No amount of tricks, PUA or "game" is going to manipulate her into bed. Seduction/game is not the same as manipulation. Women enjoy being seduced by attractive men. The bar is set so low False. In the past women could only have access to men on their social circles, but with the invention of online dating and social media all women have an endless supply of possible suitors vying for her attention at all…
/r/seduction17/03/20 06:49 PM
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Would you date a fat chick who may lose weight and become hot in the future? Both men and women seek partners that are high value, not that could be. In the case of women, yeah, a talented underdog is an attractive prospect; but if they get attention from an established, Top20 man, then hypergamy will take control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 08:28 PM
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the average man is not struggling to get laid hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:01 PM
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why don't most women watch porn? Because actually having sex is better than watching porn. Women don't watch porn because they can just have sex. Why don't they want to watch men strip at clubs? Why would a woman pay to see a naked man, when she can download Tinder, find an attractive man, have him pay for the date, and then have him undress for her at her house? Why is "playgirl" so hilariously unpopular? Women don't need artificial sexual stimulation because sex always free and available for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:00 PM
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Despite having "options", women can definitely struggle and be just as lonely/sexually frustrated as men. Not having options for women: "no Top20 male is actively pursuing me for a relationship, and I'm not attracted to the five average men that are." Not having options for men: "I don't know what romantic affection from the opposite sex feels like."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 08:26 PM
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So how do we men can protect ourselves from this ? If I'm asking a woman out, it's my treat. Don't do dinner dates for the first time, stick to coffee or drinks. If she tells you that she "prefers dinner dates", stop responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:18 AM
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Men did not evolve to chase women and women did not evolve to "pick" men. Any scientific evidence to back this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:32 PM

Different women want different types of attractive men. All women want top 20, but they do have preferences within the top 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:24 PM
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A woman who is 5'11'' is going to think a guy who is 5'9'' is too short. However, a woman who is 4'11'' will probably be more than satisfied with his height. hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:45 PM
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The physical features on their own have no relevance for me. What about those tinder chad experiments then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:33 PM
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Unflattering glasses lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:11 PM
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We advocate a stronger focus on the MMC model. Hear that, ladies? Two dudes say you should start dating non-Chads. Better get to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:37 AM
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yep, garbage post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:35 AM
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you're just mad because you can't cube
/r/seduction14/01/20 04:47 PM
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ok, boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:57 PM
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holy shit
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:30 PM
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Why is fidelity expected from men in relationships? Monogamy from both men and women is expected in monogamous relationships. This is a cultural tradition. In a monogamous relationship, both parties are expected to not fuck other people. This is the definition of a monogamous relationship. A man's innate sexual strategy to spread his seed is common knowledge now. It is. Men, even in 2019, are generally expected to be pursuers, providers, and protectors. Correct. With that in mind, what do women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:43 PM
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only top-tier men get it lmao fam i am no top tier man and yet i manage to find girls willing to ring my dingaling
/r/seduction31/10/19 06:39 PM

women also tend to sniff out the "hot fuck bois" quickly and get rid of them haha cmon dont lie to the man
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:55 AM
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I don't agree with what you said so I'll make the claim that you've never engaged in coitus with a female. This will diminish your social standing within this interaction, therefore making your argument incorrect. be better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:16 PM

weed is also the tits
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:22 PM
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It is no different than a woman stringing along guys she has no intention of sleeping with for attention, validation, free rides, money, emotional tampons etc. The OP talks about a man pretending to be considering a woman as a potential LTR in order to extract sex from her. Your average instathot isn't promising sex to her orbiters. In most cases, these guys only get a shitty, one sided, platonic "friendship".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:35 PM
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If you don't really care...WHY? Why would I? I'm willing to commit to any attractive woman that brings value into my life. What I value in women is affection and sex. I couldn't give two shits about how much dick she took in the past. It's not about her past, is about whether I'm getting my needs met or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:46 PM
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Wouldn't give two shits, honestly. I don't see dating a woman as "competing with the other court jesters to win her approval". I see it as "I think shes hot, I wanna have fun seeing what I can get". Never ask women if they're getting other dick, it's a total beta move my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:46 PM

don't be needy yeah but the thing is I'm starving for romantic affection
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:08 PM
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My theory is that you're not attractive enough to get commitment from the guys you like. The fact that you're not getting what you want makes me think that your current attempts to become more physically attractive are not enough. In what areas do you think you might be lacking? How will you work on yourself to fix those areas?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 03:32 PM
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Watch weight, new clothes, makeup, hair extensions, etc There is more to attractiveness than looks. Just because you're fuckeable doesn't mean you're likeable. How old are you? What are your hobbies? What are your interests? What is your career like? What do you when you're on a date?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 03:16 PM
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RP bibliography states that men date down and women date up. However, there is a limit on how much above your SMV you can date. It's easy for a woman to get sex from guys two or three leagues above them, but when it comes to commitment, most guys who are 8s don't want to be committed to 5s. If you can't secure commitment from the pool of guys you're dating, there are two options available for you: Lower your standards and date guys with a lower SMV than the ones you're dating now. The lower the …
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:55 PM
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Get on the apps and start grinding boi.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:56 PM
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"girl game" is basically "not looking away when a man makes eye contact" lmao
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:33 PM
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Game other chicks while she decides.
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:25 PM
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Women don't lie. Damn I wouldn't want to go through life this blind. Good luck man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:20 PM
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I think to myself, fuck it just gonna leave it and don't care about it and put minimal effort It boggles my mind how there still are men, in the year 2019, that don't have this approach by default when it comes to online dating. The only effort you should put into online dating is taking good pics. After that, anything beyond swipping when you're in the toilet and practicing text game to close dates is not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 03:12 PM
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Not into emo tbh, I think my niece liked them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 01:08 PM
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it's mostly grown men who do that It might be an american thing? I (35M) live in Berlin. Could not give less of a shit about boybands. No animosity. If they're doing their thing and banging prime pussy while making money, hey more power to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:46 PM
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What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Nothing, really. She's just being a cunt. Women can get away with that. Ignore her, keep gaming her if you feel like it, but don't expect much.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:33 PM
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Stop wasting his time.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 05:08 PM
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Don't quit, but be aware that gaming is unattractive to the vast majority of women. I also game, but only in the weekends and in small amounts. Don't mention it to girls.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:09 PM
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A woman being boring is not too much of a dealbreaker for most men. Predictable, unassertive, agreeable, and introverted are negative traits only when a man possess them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 01:52 PM
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