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Men's Rights_and_a_PhD/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 01:56 PM
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So if it's "Hey , I'm going to the gym" Her "You're doing this to meet new hotties and leave me" You "What? No, no, I fully intent to bring the hotties back here. Hotels are too expensive so no fear of me leaving." with a smirk. This is exactly what I did when I started. It pissed her off, but I shagged her rotten that night in a moment of logic and clarity of what this meant for her situation. About a year later when she noticed some major changes in my body, she has now figured out she needs t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 04:54 AM
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I would next her. I have a very good friend that dated a girl just like this and married her because he thought she was a "wholesome" girl. They had sex before marriage, but he had to wait about 8 months to get any. Want to guess what his sex life is 8 years into marriage? He's lucky to get some more than 4 times per year. She did the whole "once I say do, I say I don't" to him. The most sex her ever got was when they were trying for their first kid, which meant he had sex about 8 times in one y…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:52 AM
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This screams "kettle bell", pull ups and push ups in addition to standard weight training. The control required to handle and control a KB will help build a lot of upper body strength. I would add a 1.5 to 2 pood regimen of Kettlebell swings Kettlebell clean and press Kettlebell curls if your biceps are weak Kettlebell floor press Kettlebell thrusters to balance your core Interspersed with pull ups and push ups as opposing workout. One of my favorite workouts is a crossfit inspired 15 min AMRAP …
/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:10 AM
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Girls at your schools are totally in bounds. Use caution with girls in your classes, especially those in small classes, or those in your same major that you will have lots of classes with. Girls in study groups, your job during school, or in other campus activities that are "where you eat" are also out of bounds.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 11:24 PM
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Here are two real world examples from some friends of mine. Both of them found out their SOs were cheating on them withing about 3 months of each other. One friend went to counseling, tried to fix the relationship etc. He found out that she was pregnant (they didn't have kids) from the other guy, so he decided to marry her. They fought all the time, he was miserable and started drinking a lot and racked up a few DUIs, and turned into a total wreck. Long story short, they married, she cheated aga…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 08:47 PM
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It is a Montana thing. My brother lives there and most women are like this. The women there are essentially like MGTOW, except a weird female version mixed with a funny California surfer/snowboarder and Alaskan hunter culture. Its a fun place to go, but be sure than none of those women are looking for a LTR, just their own version of the CC.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 12:36 AM
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This, and adoption are essentially impossible for men as you are assumed to be a child molester. If you were to get a surrogate, and in highly likely chance she takes your money and runs, the court will not look in your favor. Even then, if she changes her mind later she can easily get 50/50 custody. For adoption. Yeah right. No adoption agency in the country would let a single man adopt a child. EVER. Even for gay couples, it is very rare for this to be allowed. At best, some of the foreign age…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 12:27 AM
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For those telling you to next here this is a bad plan. Let's be honest, this is your first relationship and you are 25. You have some things to learn. This chick is a good one to learn some things with. I'm not saying go out any marry her, but you definitely need to learn some things about women, so just keep her as a plate. Of concern is the fact that you sex drive is lower than hers. You need to get to the gym pronto and start lifting. Your libido should always be higher that your woman's. Lik…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 01:12 AM
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Don't shit where you eat and get over your case of oneitis. End of story.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:25 AM
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Your cell phone is for YOUR convenience, not hers. If she really needs something, then she should call you. Texting/snapchatting and bitching that you don't reply fast enough is her attention whoring. I'd find someone new, this many problems after 6 months does not bode well for the future.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:22 AM
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Word, don't waste your best years on someone that hates you.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 04:30 PM
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My advice, take the investment bank job. Alpha male the shit out of the job, rack up your bonuses and get promoted and make $250+k per year. Get a nice house, a nice car, pay of your student loans and some nice girls on the side. After 5-10 years of working your ass off like this you can shift to a less stressful position, but because you have a high salary history and you have cut your teeth under pressure you can command a high salary and work MUCH less, but be financially secure. $65k isn't a…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:49 PM
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Divorce her before she gets pregnant. Full stop.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 04:52 AM
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Sounds like you have your head on straight. Go for it and have fun.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 05:45 AM
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Lift weights. Better yet, join a crossfit gym. There are some hot chicks there that will get you over your oneitis in a hurry. You'll get built and have many opportunities to expand your "horizons". I don't know why crossfit doesn't get more TRP prop, but it is literally like shooting fish in a barrel even for the 300 lb video gamer looking to make changes in their lives. Once that 300 lb gamer makes the drop to 275 with some definition and lifting some heavy weights, they turn into chick magnet…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 05:44 AM
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It is impossible for a single man to adopt. Single men are not allowed to interact with children, because all single men are child molesters. Don't believe me, look at what mothers do when the see an man by himself get close to their children, let alone look at them. Better yet, go have your lunch near a children's playground and you can bet you will get dirty looks or even worse have the cops called on you. My cousin is a kindergarten teacher and male. His class never has more than 20 students …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 05:39 AM
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You have a serious case of "oneitis". 1 year is nothing. You miss having convenient sex, not your partner. You should be on no contact forever and move on to someone better.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 10:44 PM
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I would agree with this with a few caveats. Take it slow. Don't rush to move in together or get married just because having a co-parent for your kids would be useful. If you make good money, you can afford a live-in nanny. Is this new woman worth committing to versus hiring someone to help with the kids is the question you should ask. Be careful of "damaged goods" from her previous marriage. You are not her counselor to fix her past ills. Likewise, you do not want to be damaged good to her eithe…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 10:40 PM
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There are numerous problems with this study particularly with regard to how the study was controlled. In particular, you can tell right off the bat there is hype when the primary source for the study hypes the result as they did. The IGF-I data in particular is very problematic and is highly correlative and over blown in the headlines from the study. It is suggestive, but in no way links animal meat consumption to cancer. This is always the problem with these survey studies of diets and correlat…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 07:32 PM
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Trans fats are artificial chemicals that should not be the part of anyone's diet. You don't have the ability to break them down as they are not naturally occurring in our diets. Trans fats are what have made butter so bad for you, as well as other fat containing food that are hydrogenated. I suspect at some point we will find out that trans fats, no dietary fat per se, has bee been the problem with high fat diets. You link goes to exactly what I was saying even if part of it is by implication. A…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 03:54 AM
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This is sort of correct. You should read "Why we get fat". Your body can work off of carbs OR ketone bodies, but getting your body into ketosis is hard work. Once you switch over and adapt to it over a few weeks, everything is normal. The problem with Atkins is not the fat, dietary fat does nothing good or bad for heart health, it has never been proven. The problem with Atkins is that it is not well balanced and sets you up for cycles of crashing, which is why Atkins probably died obese. The pro…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 03:14 AM
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Solid advice here. Texting is a low investment form of communication. If it takes more than 2-3 texts then you make her call you, tell her to come over. This... Her: Some lame initiation (translation, I'm lonely and need attention) You: What do you need? Her: More lame neediness You: Be at my place in 30 min to hang out or You: I'm picking you up in 30 min for coffee/drinks/dinner if you are more cautious Either Her: But I'm too busy You: Ignore for 3-4 days (you now are not wasting your time on…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 02:49 AM
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Good catch, I didn't notice until you mentioned this, but sure enough she does, with a "fuck me stance" to boot next to those two guys. In my post below, scenario #1 is all but certain, and the only thing keeping her from fucking these dudes is the judgement of her co-workers. If they are all sluts, they are all slutting it up right now. I bet you good money her suitcase is full of sexy lingerie, not intended for you OP.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 02:39 AM
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I mostly agree, however, I suspect she has a branch to swing to, so if he is not alpha anymore to her this could back fire. I recommend a full TRP makeover first, then a dread game.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 09:52 PM
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Get experience fucking well, but keeping it discrete and the pussy will follow. The problem with high school is that girls want to fuck guys, they just don't want to get a reputation of being a slut, even if they act slutty. It is all about attention until they do the deed. Girls in high school also get tired of Johnny two seconds in a hurry. Most of the guys they will have sex with will come in 1-2 strokes, maybe 30 seconds if he jerks off a lot. If you can fuck a girl so that she has so many o…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 09:33 PM
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There is also more tacit approval for this behavior amongst military wives, than the general population. All the wives know how much it sucks to have their husbands deployed for 9-12 months and all figure it is ok to get some dick on the side if they shape up when their husbands return and are taking care of the kids. This is my first time living in near a military base and it literally shocked me the first time I went to the bar and observed this first hand. Outside of the military, women alway…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:59 PM
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These pictures are not for you (obviously) but are sending a signal to her friends. I'll start with the good news first, she is not fucking any of these guys on this trip. This is also going to sound a bit harsh below, but you are in a really bad position. The bad news, is that she fucking somebody else, or planning on it. One of her friends in her circle is also doing the same to their LTR. These photos are for her friends to show them that she still has it and can ride the cock carousel with e…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 08:54 PM
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I live in a town close to a military base and is also a college town. The easiest lays in town are military wives. It sets up an interesting social dynamic where guys with normally low SMV anywhere else, actually have a high SMV here with hot college girls because all the other high SMV guys are busy laying military wives because they are so easy and disposable. It is so easy to lay a military wife that I cannot go out to the bars without getting propositioned. I was out for a drink with my frie…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:40 AM
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First thing, women with health problems are never worth it. As soon as they nail you down with marriage, then the sex ends full stop under the guise of "health problems". It can also start when you become a LTR. Sure, when she is showing off she will work around her health problems, but after you are nailed down that effort will end, sooner rather than later. Next here immediately. Girls know one of the best ways to betafy a man is to withhold sex. It kills a mans SMV, self worth and makes them …
/r/askTRP30/06/14 12:24 AM
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FYI, if you need experience, start an open source project on GitHub. Likewise, start contributing to other open source projects. When you put in your resume, you put that you started said open source project and they can look at your code quality and software design at the same time. Also list the projects you contributed to as well (include your user name too). There is an army of college grads with programming experience, but actually doing something with it, even an open source project, is su…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:56 PM
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Don't bother. Texting empowers a women and can make you an orbiter, as this one is doing to you. Texting is a low investment way to communicate passively. Use sparingly and only for essential communication.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 01:45 AM
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Bingo. If it is rape, go to the police and press charges there. I realize some cops in small university towns are loathe to move on rape cases, especially with athletes, but this is the only fair route. Conversely, if women start reporting "regret sex" and "drunk sex" as rapes, it will do a lot of damage to cases of women who were actually raped. In other words, the feminist "rape culture" on campuses, if pushed forward, will ensure that innocent men are permanently punished for essentially noth…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:46 AM
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What should be happening on campuses is that if there is a rape, there should be an independent police agency these cases should be referred to. Either the town, county or state police. They should perform all the investigations and refer cases to the appropriate prosecutor. Colleges and Universities are simply not equipped to adjudicate sexual assault. Their proceeding are designed to adjudicate matters such as cheating, drinking on campus/dorms, classroom conduct issues and so forth. Nearly al…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:08 PM
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I agree, but disagree. The problem is that universities and colleges are going to be forced to take action on the issue and articles like this are pushing a very hard line into turning all men into rapists. Of course having sex with a falling down drunk girl is never a good idea and IS rape. After the Duke lacrosse incident and a close call a friend of mine had with a one night stand turning into a rape accusation, we all had a strict "no drunk girls" policy in college and beyond even in border …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:49 AM
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You are right on. I'm in the hard sciences and the "fact" that 1 in 4 women are raped id BS. This is a very accurate analysis of the results. http://aspiringeconomist.com/index.php/2009/09/11/rape-statistics-1-in-4/
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:21 PM
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In the original study that claimed that 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted, if you dig deeper into the data you find some interesting facts. Most important is that sexual assault in that study was conflated with regret sex because most of the women that reported being assaulted did not report it because they felt they were responsible. I.e. they were not sexually assaulted, just regretted having sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:40 PM
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Except this time they are burning men at the stake. Look out.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:31 PM
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Feminist logic: Women should have the same rights as men in society. Especially leadership roles in companies and in government. However, if a man is present she immediately becomes helpless and needs special rules to protect her from the the scary men of the world. Moreover, even though women are supposed to be leaders, they are completely divorced from responsibility for their actions.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:23 PM
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Bag it and then take it with you. No exceptions. A college friend of mine caught a plate pulling the condom out of the trash and ever since all of us guys started to carry it in and out. I have said it elsewhere, but in a pinch if you can't take it with you, dump peroxide in the condom or spermicide lube and then flush them. Flushing them is not ideal, but never leave one in the trash. However, the best policy is to have a ziplock bag in your coat pocket or at least in your car to bring them hom…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 10:43 PM
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This isn't all that new, but still very scary. I had an acquaintance who was selling positive tests for $20-50 each back in 2006 or so. At the time I was living in a city with a major military base and it was especially popular amongst military girlfriends to do this to their boyfriends about to be deployed. Some even wanted to buy urine to fake a live test.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 10:39 PM
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I feel really bad for the men that will marry the girls/women that are currently 6-15 years old. These girls have been brought up on a "princess" complex where they assume that the world revolves around them. Most have been planning princess weddings since they could talk. This princess wedding has absolutely nothing to do with what the guy wants (do weddings ever include the man's input?). We are going to see new heights of largesse spent on weddings and even more failed marriages after these p…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:20 PM
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Exactly. The feminists have conflated sexual assault with rape in a real funny way. They are very careful to say something like: "Rape culture in the US is a major problem, 1 in 4 women report being sexually assaulted". Right there they conflate rape, which is relatively rare, with sexual assault. While sexual assault is indeed bad, it is not nearly as bad as rape. I have seen some of the surveys used to come up with these numbers and sexual assault is very loosely defined. Some will define sexu…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:22 AM
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Makes sense, though I find newbs to lifting are hesitant to start creatine early. I know I was.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 01:11 AM
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Solid advice here. To the OP: Someone who is 6' should ideally be 165-195 lbs. The only way to get here is proper nutrition. You diet should consist of fresh meat, salads, eggs and a small amount of fresh fruit and dairy. If you are 145 lbs, it is almost certain that you aren't eating enough quality food. Even though I disagree with the concept of the paleo diet, most of the paleo recipes and nutritional balances are a good place to start. The big thing I disagree with on paleo is their stance o…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 09:42 PM
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I agree with this. 8-10s are almost always very very very high maintenance, and the older they get the worse it gets.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 09:28 PM
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Admitted to cheating in Nov. ended it = been cheating for most of their marriage, he should check to see if his kids are his, especially the caboose 4 yr. old. Folks, this is why paternity tests should be mandatory. Just look at this article and read the comments to see what women really feel about paternity tests and this should indicate how often women cheat. http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2014/04/dear_prudence_my_husband_demands_a_paternity_test_for_no_good_reason.html
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:18 PM
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The boomers are spoiled, but no where near as bad as the millenials. The problem with the boomers is their "fuck you I've got mine" attitude. I have never seen such a generation fuck the younger generations as badly as the boomers have and currently are doing. However, the millenials have both an entitled attitude, have never failed at anything, expect a trophy for showing up, and have a "fuck you I have mine" attitude as well.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:05 AM
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I would agree with this. If a kid screws up in class, it is the teachers fault, not the kids fault. If I screwed up in school, got a bad grade, etc. you can bet that there would be hell to pay when I got home. I got a C on a math test in 2nd grade after I told my parents I didn't have anything to study for that week so I could go and hang out with friends since it was spring after a long winter. I still remember it, because my punishment was that I had to till the garden, and work compost into t…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:34 PM
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Even worse are the males that are a product of single mothers as they essentially perpetuate the problem.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:23 PM
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A combination of factors. 1) More kids, especially millenials, were raised by single mothers and who have grand parents that were single mothers. 2) "Helicopter" parents that protect their kids from failing producing large quantities of beta males. I'm not sure why this parenting culture arose, but after the 80s and early 90s I noticed a sharp rise in "helicopter" parents tightly linked to an increase in feminism. In the early 90s a lot of this was focused on females, but now has spread to males…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:41 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA, so many from my undergrad days say exactly this! He is still orbiting girls and he is in his early 30s.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:21 PM
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I totally agree with this. One of they key rules is to always bag it and take it with you to do everything possible to prevent child support. Never ever believe that they are on the pill or have their tubes tied. Always assume they are not and that they will do something nefarious with the used condom. One thing that does prevent gold diggers is spinning them and holding frame. Once they figure out that it will be a lot of work to tame you, they will move on to more beta pastures. Especially if …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:20 PM
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If you are doing things right, then time isn't a problem. The key is to just not care. Want to play video games even though a plate wants to do something? Play video games, if she wants to come over and fix you a snack or bring you beers, then this is fine, but don't do anything she wants to do. If she calls and wants to go out, but you want sex, tell her to come over and shag her. This works just about anywhere. If you have the proper frame, as the OP does, you only need to be high value male. …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:25 AM
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I see this all the time amongst my college friends from nerdy majors. Pussy on pedestal and a lack of sexual experience leads guys to doing some crazy stuff just for the possibility of getting some. The saddest ones are the guys that are super socially awkward, into porn and get seduced by strip clubs. A guy in my graduate school class literally spent hundreds per week at the strip club on what he called his "girlfriend". We could never figure out who his girlfriend was that he was always talkin…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:09 AM
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This pretty much describes about 90% of the guys in my undergrad majors (chem E and biochem) and my PhD (biochem). All are very smart, hard working and make a lot of money. Many are a nerdy and socially awkward, so there are many are 20 and 30 year old virgins that are heavily into porn, video games and over weight. I was in a fraternity and always did ok with girls, so it was quite the contrast. They are so used to putting the pussy on a pedestal that many fall into a trap like this. They eithe…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:57 AM
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A few points: 1) Be careful with fooling around with drunk girls. It is a recipe for disaster. Moreover, you shouldn't need to get her drunk to get her interested in you. A few drinks are fine to lubricate the situation, but if it is borderline on whether she will remember, you should always pass. There isn't enough detail here, but if she was drunk you should have passed, if she wasn't drunk, this is a shit test or she is dropping you from memory - being drunk is an excuse. Time to move on. 2) …
/r/askTRP15/04/14 09:32 PM
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ALWAYS take the condom with you or flush it. No exceptions. Especially if you have a good job or resources. A friend of mine caught a girl taking the condom with her. He is an environmentalist so he keeps a ziplock bag folded up in his wallet and in his car for just such occasions. He carries them in an out. If you get into a situation where you can't do this wash the semen out with peroxide or spermicide lube to kill the sperm off. It takes a few seconds, but is worth it versus paying 18 years …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:41 AM
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I learned early not to care as the exact same thing happened to me my freshman year, though it only lasted a few months, not years. My only rules are no crazy girls, no drunk girls, don't initiate if she has a SO, but accept if it is being given away.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 05:07 AM
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The best I can tell is violin players spend years of having their parents push them to be good enough to be professional violin players in an orchestra. To the point of forgoing any semblance of a personal life and are extremely repressed. Violin is not something you dabble in, as the violinists I knew in high school insanely competitive. Once you get them going it is like unleashing an animal. Also many are pretty hot, but don't know it. Once I got with one of the violinists, she told a few of …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:49 AM
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I learned an awesome trick in my fraternity days. Our fraternity frequently had men come in from nationals to help with programming and various other things. Those guys always wore expensive suits that were perfectly tailored every second they were on campus and every second they were in bars. Not some frilly trendy suit, but a nice Armani charcoal suit, with french cuffed handmade shirts and trendy ties. They would also wear some piece of expensive jewelry. Either an Rolex, or a diamond ring on…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:04 AM
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Same for me. By the time I was a junior, I was pretty good at lasting a long time and giving girls multiple orgasms. I had quite the reputation and was the first for a lot of girls. Word gets out quickly about those that are good since most high school girls figure out most horny guys pop after a minute or two. One of the most interesting things that happened to me, is that I ended up spinning this girl who was from a very religious and very rich family that was country club member. She had a pr…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:59 PM
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When I was I was in high school, I had sex with all my girlfriends within 4 weeks, often on the first or second date, or I moved on. I never got to less than third base. Out of a few dozen girls, only 2-3 never slept with me. And it wasn't just the typical sluts, religious girls were always the best and the freakiest. Followed by violin players. Something about repression seems to make girls crazy in bed. My rule of thumb, is that if I wasn't at second base by the second date, it was time to mov…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 05:33 AM
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Others may not know this, but there are huge incentives for women and minority owned tech company founders. I'm sure this started this way (male engineer using a female to get VC) and then spiraled into this.
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