_aut0mata Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Only use texting to set up a date. For beginners? What's your end goal here? If it's just to get laid, anyone can do that, it's pretty formulaic. If it's to find a partner you actually connect with, ideally this makes us all beginners, unless you're already married... or a seasoned LTR veteran with 20 2+ year LTRs under your belt. Which you shouldn't really be at unless you're 40+ years old. And honestly, if you haven't figured it out by that point, you're doing something drastically wrong. And you probably have a shit personalit…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 02:38 PM
2	Only use texting to set up a date. Disagree. Guys. Remember this. You're not just trying to find out if she likes you, you're also trying to figure out if you like her. Put your genuine self out there, if she likes you, and you like her, you'll build a natural connection. And it will feel amazing. No, don't text so much that you're seeming like you don't have a life, but do what feels natural at the time. Remember, you're building interested, not attraction at this time. The attraction part comes later, your both trying to figure…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 02:01 PM
5	Have a few reliable male friends. Some guys struggle with girls bc they have no guy friends, so they depend on the girl to give them all their emotional support, or help them everytime they're in trouble. Learning to make and keep good male friends is an important skill that's not practised enough. No, you're right about that. But she is certified in ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and hypnosis so we could probably just imagine doing that, if I were to guess.	/r/seduction	20/02/21 02:12 PM
8	Have a few reliable male friends. Some guys struggle with girls bc they have no guy friends, so they depend on the girl to give them all their emotional support, or help them everytime they're in trouble. Learning to make and keep good male friends is an important skill that's not practised enough. Who needs friends? That's what I pay my therapist for.	/r/seduction	19/02/21 11:35 PM
13	Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date? So is the social gaze eye both eyes and mouth then or nose and mouth? And the professional gaze is right between the eyes and the forehead?	/r/seduction	18/02/21 03:05 PM
3	What if it's the opposite? Hey thanks. I just don't know how I can be simultaneously self-conscious while admitting my faults and somehow not humble enough. Everything about me, I've worked towards, even the flawed traits. But I'm not humble enough because I recognize that and take responsibility and am proud of the positive things that I have built. You'll never be good enough for some people.	/r/seduction	13/02/21 04:30 PM
6	What if it's the opposite? Maybe I'm not looking for just someone to fuck. Instead I might be looking for someone with some intelligence and real self worth. Bare minimum, at least a little bit of reading comprehension and tact.	/r/seduction	13/02/21 04:13 PM
11	What if it's the opposite? Somewhat true. I'm a "polarized" person in this regard. Meaning that I'm for sure some women's idealized man; handsome, fit, well travelled, some education but career oriented with a good job, bunch of different interesting hobbies, doing ok financially, emotionally available etc... But I'm black with a preference for white women and I believe women who are options for interracial dating are in the minority. The women that prefer black men or would consider dating a black man can fall head over …	/r/seduction	13/02/21 03:18 PM