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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Sex is mandatory in relationships	Discussion	_dontWakeDaddy_	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:00 AM

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-1	CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers. All of these arguments come down to the woman usually has a hyper inflated ego due to social media and doesn’t meet the requirements to be in a long term relationship with the men they want. They’re also able to have sex with those men since men will fuck way below their level of attractiveness, it further boosts the ego. So you’ve got women who are average, looking for way above average men and that’s what the men on this subreddit don’t like. Me personally, I don’t care, I’m married and have b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 03:54 PM
0	Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women? Well keep trying your way and see how it works out lol. If you think doing chores with the expectation of sex in return will lead to a healthy relationship then good fucking luck dude. When a woman in any way views you as someone to be taken care of and told/reminded what to do, the way she looks at you changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:43 PM
-2	Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women? This is THE comment all the men need to read, screenshot this shit and save it as their wallpaper. You need to be GENUINE and you can’t be genuine if you don’t have self love and self respect. Doing all the things for self improvement should just be a sign of that self love. Within the relationship there can’t be covert contracts you make up in your head that dictate “if I do this then I get sex” (or whatever else).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:46 AM
3	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? In a serious relationship the order of operations is taking care of yourself first, then your relationship, then the kids. It’s a situation where you put the oxygen mask on first in order to be able to properly care for others. A relationship or marriage where the kids come first will fail, it doesn’t just apply to single moms. They’re the target of that rhetoric because of the obnoxious “my babies come first” stuff on dating profiles when it’s clear that they’ve never actually prioritized their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 03:32 PM
10	Are women finding less men are willing to help them? Yeah this whole thread is going to be mixed reviews. I’ve helped women change a tire, little old ladies very frequently ask me to get stuff off the top shelf at the grocery store, I’ve been in multiple “Hey everything good here?” situations at parties and ended up intervening just with my presence. It could also be a generational thing, I never really had to worry about someone with a smart phone trying to shame me or create some fucked up situational content. Who knows if that’s the actual reas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 01:41 PM
–	Women of the purple pill, if you met a guy whose IG was full of selfies, what would you think of him? The word is overused for sure, especially on Reddit and to describe relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 01:17 PM
1	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. Women and bears apparently	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 01:36 PM
1	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. And now you finally get it, you’re calling red pill cringy while sporting a cringy ass flair. It only took you a full explanation to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 01:32 PM
1	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. Yes and it’s still cringy af	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 01:30 PM
0	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. You’ve got bear pilled as your flair, I wouldn’t be throwing stones calling anyone cringy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 09:40 AM
2	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 11:36 PM
0	What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women? How could I possibly know anything about your personal relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 10:27 PM
2	What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women? I’ve already educated you, it’s a simple Google search if you want to actually read up on the information opposed to relying on anecdotal information. Not only are men more avoidant but it spans across countries, it’s not just here in the West. A couple of things to add: This is something that attachment specialist agree on. Again, it’s a simple Google search and actually absorbing the information instead of reacting based on anecdotes would be helpful if you want to have a conversation about it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 10:11 PM
0	What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women? The number of restraining orders filed is completely irrelevant because men are less likely to file to begin with, your anecdotal incidents don’t matter when it comes to statistics. You’re making an emotional argument because the actual statistics are on my side, men are more likely to be avoidant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 09:34 PM
6	What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women? Well your wish is granted because it is true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 09:18 PM
3	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. What I said that’s objectively true is that you can’t generalize a group based on the most extreme examples of that group. I’m not red pilled, I haven’t even commented what my ideas are other than not lumping everyone who’s red pilled into the same extreme group, so you’re just straight up caught there. That’s done. I’ve defended red pill from being put into a box (hopefully you get the irony there) and openly criticized parts of it, so again you’re just making things up and it’s easy to verify …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 05:32 PM
1	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. That’s the most fair criticism of what I’ve said by anyone so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 05:09 PM
3	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. You’re making up a boogeyman in your own head and trying to fight it, which isn’t going to work. Everything I said is true and in an objective way, it’s not just my opinion. This post takes the most extremes of red pill and lumps it all together, speaking as an absolute conclusion, which you said earlier is a dead giveaway that OP is struggling to understand the point of view. I’m not red pill just because you FEEL like I am, I have my own reasons and criticism of red pill influencers due to som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 05:07 PM
3	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. I’m not red pill, which is ironic because you’re putting me in a box. It’s impossible to believe because the actual message of the content doesn’t reflect what’s being discussed unless you’re speaking in the extremes. You can’t generalize a movement based on the most extreme versions of said movement. Hop on off the high horse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 04:51 PM
8	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. Well then it’s on you for misinterpreting the information because it basically boils down to taking care of your body, seeking purpose, and not living solely for the purpose of getting/keeping a woman. I’m sorry you’ve had bad interactions with whomever but if those are in real life opposed to the internet where it’s always going to be inherently toxic and has been since the internets inception, then I’d just question why you’d be around those types to begin with. Take any form of internet ideol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 04:48 PM
27	Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS. I swear most of the posts in this subreddits read like attempts to troll a group of people. Nobody who actually has taken the time to consume red pill content could come to the conclusions you’re drawing. The only people who have this opinion haven’t taken any time to consume the content or give it any real thought, they just keep posting the same points that confirm the fact they haven’t consumed the content to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 04:36 PM
36	What do you think it is about avoidant, "emotionally unavailable" men that makes them so intoxicating to, what seems like, the vast majority of women? It’s opposing attachment styles and it’s not gender exclusive. Avoidants attract anxious types and vice versa. Women tend to be more anxiously attached and men tend to be more avoidant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 02:14 PM
6	Misogyny on the Internet See you’re just proving my point again, you aren’t someone who actually thinks about any of this at all. You’re emotional, attempting to subvert conversation, and not really making discussion possible. I’m not red pill, but I’m emotionally intelligent enough to realize that there’s a good reason why the content exists to begin with and the value it can bring. Ideas bring value no matter what side of the coin you’re on, but people without the ability to have conversations don’t. That’s the catego…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 07:33 PM
6	Misogyny on the Internet You’re exactly who I’m talking about, based on everything you’ve said you haven’t actually consumed the content at all. It’s the equivalent of reading a headline yet being bleeding heart about your opinion, when in reality you don’t have enough information to actually form an opinion to begin with. “Terper” “little guys” “grifters” You’re just throwing out buzzwords in place of any kind of rational thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 07:07 PM
6	Misogyny on the Internet The only problem with the red pill space is its perception from people who don’t actually consume the content. There are plenty of good resources that give great life advice for men and if men follow it, they’d be way more likely to become successful both in their own personal development and relationships. I’m not unaware of the red pill influencers who give bad advice either btw, I’m just saying that all of red pill is lumped into the grifter category and that’s quite frankly a retarded take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 06:29 PM
1	If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time? And you’ve decided that a “horny woman” is just a woman with higher testosterone? Do you realize that if these women had excessive levels of testosterone they’d begin to take on the secondary sex characteristics of men? Facial hair, bone remodeling, deepening of their voice, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 08:10 PM
1	in your experience who initiates break-ups more? It’s downright necessary for men to be amongst other men, it’s how most of us deal with emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 06:49 PM
1	If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time? I don’t even know what you’re trying to argue. You said some women have high T, comparing them to men, which is ridiculous to begin with due to the normal ranges. Then listed extreme cases as what? Examples to prove your point? Even if a woman was triple the normal range it wouldn’t be anywhere near most men. These conversations are not based around extreme outliers in society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 06:37 PM
3	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. Ding ding ding ^ We have a winner ladies and gentlemen, this is exactly right. This topic is such a pain in the ass to even read about because the same old gripes come up again and again. Chore play, submissive vs agreeable, women don’t want a man child, men don’t want a woman who is XYZ. Im just a normal dude, I’ve got a wife and two kids, and I feel like most of the people commenting haven’t attempted to raise a family. If I had to worry about matching my wife 50/50 with childcare and chores, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 01:11 AM
-8	Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working? Prime example of accountability not being taken, lmao. From the marriage counselors own mouth: “I’m seeing this issue more and more” It’s a huge issue and honestly, while I’d like to say I care, I don’t. Women will suffer greatly from the dating dynamic that’s being created. Men need to step up in so many different ways, but only to have the options to immediately recognize and leave hostile women who demand all of those things to give love. Conditional love is not what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 10:08 AM
-9	Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working? This is just false. I’m all of those things, while doing at least 50% of the housework, while making triple her income, while being emotionally available and sensitive to needs. Yet we still needed marriage counseling and what it came down to was that her mother had basically raised her to be a clone of herself; a hyper independent, passive aggressive, man hating bitch. It took plenty of therapy for us to finally be happy and the only way that came to be was her accepting my leadership for thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 09:59 AM
–	Has Manosphere ideology been a net positive, or net negative? If they’re acting like a smelly half mad recluse then by definition they aren’t focusing on themselves, so there ya go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 12:32 PM
–	She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex. Sex is a responsibility in a relationship, it’s on both people to figure out why it isn’t happening. Withholding sex doesn’t have to mean it’s punishment, it can also be refusal to deal with issues that are causing the disconnect to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 10:42 AM
2	If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up? You’re saying you don’t want to discuss stopping the pursuit of romance but that’s literally the answer. Stop chasing a woman and focus on yourself, build yourself into someone who attracts what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 01:23 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. Are you talking about a girl who lifts vs average man? Because it wouldn’t be a “slight” advantage. If you’re talking about a woman who’s trained MMA for years vs an untrained dude, sure I’ll take the woman all day in that scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 02:27 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. A woman should look for an opportunity to run or yell for help	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 02:24 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. If you don’t train the self defense regularly, there is no might.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 02:15 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. If you’re untrained it’ll be quick, not seconds, but you don’t have as long as you think. I’m a white belt myself who trains bjj almost 2 years in, new white belts come in and their strength is gone in about 1 minute of trying to rip my head off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 02:12 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. That’s some McDojo bullshit dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 01:56 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. Those “dirty tactics” don’t work to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 01:55 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. Bullshit lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 01:49 PM
–	I feel like people underestimate womens physical strength. So I know you don’t realize this because maybe movies have blown this out of proportion. But a kick to the balls when you’re pissed off enough to already be attacking someone does fuck all. Using your teeth is a good way to get them torn out of your mouth, and eye gouging is just one more way to piss the dude off enough to seriously hurt you. So no, those aren’t two ways she could win. Those are two ways to get her fucked up quicker. People like you are why I have a really difficult time taking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 01:49 PM
–	Are most men "low quality"? If so, why? Having more money doesn’t make him broke as fuck, and you are wrong. In general, for most people, what I’m saying is true. Which is the entire point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 02:38 AM
0	Are most men "low quality"? If so, why? My overall point is that you’re just wrong. Kind, loyal, and trustworthy aren’t enough for most men to get or keep a woman. You’re right that women aren’t surveyors, they don’t even decide who’s high quality. But they do pick up on specific traits that can easily be generalized and put under an umbrella of “most women look for these things” You say your boyfriend has positive traits you prefer but make him broke as fuck with no purpose in life and you aren’t going to stay attracted to him becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 06:06 PM
-1	Are most men "low quality"? If so, why? Yes really. It’s why older men have more success, the outcome is what I’m talking about. Most men are “meh” at a young age, especially in the fatherless homes that today’s age is producing. Everyone gets to decide the traits of the person they’re after, but there are traits are that universal, generally speaking. If you said you preferred a dad bod who doesn’t have ambition and low emotional IQ, quite frankly mam I’d say you’re full of shit and/or lying in an attempt to win an internet argument.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 02:31 PM
-1	Are most men "low quality"? If so, why? I don’t think it’s meant to be something that women can judge like that, men decide what men are high quality and women tend to want qualities that are often present in those high quality men. It’s not a niche thing, if a man isn’t of high quality in some aspect he won’t get the time of day to begin with. The “he’s less attractive with a dad bod but funny” movie stereotypes are few and far between, they just aren’t what most women want. And from my experience the ones that say they do want that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 04:07 AM
-4	Red Pill analysis of relationship power dynamics between men and women inevitably leads to supporting ‘traditionalism’ or ‘patriarchy’ as it only thing that can theoretically limit or destroy ‘womens power.’ This is one of the least intelligent things I have ever read on Reddit. Seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:46 AM
3	The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggerated Dude I’m from Alabama and I can assure you, there is no shortage of casual sex lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:31 AM
1	Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy? Because it’s not just preference, it’s based on attachment issues. Secure attachment seems to be pretty rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 02:25 PM
1	Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy? Deep seated emotional issues based in attachment issues and personality disorders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 02:24 PM
2	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Feminism is always conditional	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 12:31 PM
2	Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters? You’re just, wrong…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 12:39 PM
1	Do you believe in the idea of "just be her first?" Parenting absolutely has an effect on attachment styles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 01:57 AM
–	Men are delusional as much as women, if not more. The only issue I have with modern day dating as far as the sociological implications go is that the online world has made below average looking women think that they are much, much more attractive than they actually are. There’s a level of delusion there that men can never match because of the dynamic between the sexes and online dating. In fairness, it’s partially men’s fault, the amount of men who will degrade themselves and people please to get sex is so high there’s no reason for them to thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 06:58 PM
2	Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right? Lmao, no they don’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 02:38 AM
2	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? We’re probably agreeing more so than disagreeing here. Like you said, semantics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 05:25 PM
0	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? Entirely depends on how you define it within the context of text of a relationship. I’m an entrepreneur, my wife “submits” to me in that she dedicates part of her time to helping me. She also has her own business but our drive to win is waaaaaaay different. I’m very much relentless in my day to day tasks and she has more of a “if I feel like it” approach. It’s very much in her interest to help me so we can succeed. If I fail, we fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 05:18 PM
-2	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? Abusers seek out the weak, but I don’t conflate submissive as being weak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 05:05 PM
3	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? If I googled some random shit and posted it, that would satisfy you? You’re a fucking moron with no standards for yourself. How you do anything is how you do everything, remember that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 04:42 PM
1	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? This is what frustrates me about Reddit, people with heart on their sleeve opinions with zero ground to stand on. Who also don’t like to read. Who also have little to no life experience. Who also constantly troll. It’s such a damn cess pool and all it takes is READING before you respond. Goddamn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 04:35 PM
-1	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? 1 minute of reading and you can get a feel for every one of the insane bias or irrelevance of those studies Goddamn did you even read them? Just google and post it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 04:28 PM
-1	Where is the incentive for a woman to be submissive? Someone in this thread show me one ounce of evidence that being submissive to a man or attracting a more traditional man leads to abuse. Because that sure as shit is being thrown around a lot as gospel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 04:02 PM
–	Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. I think you’re women splaining and need to check yourself. I have two kids and covering half the cost of food, school functions, medical bills, and clothes is the majority of all costs. So what, pray tell, the fuck are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 03:29 PM
–	Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. I’m for making men be financially responsible but I think it should be capped or some system put in place to show where the money is going. Personally, if that happened to me, I would much prefer to NOT straight up give money to a woman and trust her to spend it wisely. I’d 100% be okay with buying whatever clothes, food, money for school functions (50%), and paying my share of medical bills. Edit: I love how I got downvoted for saying I’d pay for half of the expenses of a child instead of handi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 03:03 PM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Hey that may be the case but I think it can be true as well that women purposely withhold as a form of resentment, when my marriage was rocky I could clean all I wanted but if I wasn't doing it WHEN she wanted and HOW she wanted, sex got withheld.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 12:54 PM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Oh never mind, context clues… Yeah I’d question whether or not he’s ACE or just has hormonal issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 12:08 PM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Tell me what ACE is referring to then and maybe I’d understand	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 12:07 PM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships So you have potentially solvable medical issues that play a role in not desiring your husband sexually and you choose not to treat it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:59 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Also I can’t possibly sit and argue every single medical condition, exception to the rule situation with you so unless you’ve got something else relevant to the original post I’m gonna say good talk and not respond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:42 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Asexuality is less than 1% of the population, there’s nothing to argue about there. I’m not saying sex isn’t a priority for people who don’t have a doctor, I’m saying for a woman with PCOS who can have penetrative sex without extreme levels of pain, it’s obviously not the priority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:42 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Label it whatever word makes you feel good about the situation, people tend to make excuses to withhold intimacy. It gets talked about a lot and specifically about women but men do it to. This is not okay, it’s not acceptable to avoid intimacy because you’re butt hurt over something and don’t fix the issue at hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:38 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I know, I was being a dick lol. Never mind that asexuality is rare, it’s abnormal and the probability of both parties being asexual is almost nonexistent. If that’s the case, then someone isn’t having their needs met. As far as the other things you said, I don’t have a response. If you don’t have access to medical care and have painful sex then I’d think it’s obvious sex isn’t exactly the priority. I will say, however, that even then it will destroy a relationship whether you want it to or not. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:32 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Everyone has times where they aren’t in the mood; that doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t try to get in the mood or see the need and be intentional another time. Regular sex is mandatory in a healthy relationship, if you’d rather phrase it that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:28 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships “Or even forever” You’re talking about roommates	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:21 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I mentioned the vibrator as a catch all, as in, it’s not difficult to make sure you please your woman in bed. No woman will want to have sex if she’s not getting orgasms too, and I don’t blame them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:19 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Well I can’t argue with that, I can’t possibly know	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:18 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I’m sorry for whatever happened to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:17 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Oh yeah definitely agree, the second anything isn’t working you should leave, even if you have kids. Talking about things is toxic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:16 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Right? Men should never aim to please their partners in bed	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:15 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Call it whatever you want that makes you feel however you want to feel. Sex is mandatory for a healthy relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:12 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships 10 years going strong	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:11 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Married for 10 years with two kids and we both run successful businesses. I’ve already explained what happens when she’s not in the mood and you belittled open communication, claim that I won’t get very far, and apparently can’t see how it’s possible that we want to be intimate. Sometimes I come home from training Jiu jitsu and couldn’t get it up if you held a gun to my head. It’s cool, I’ll get her the next day or day after. Rinse and repeat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:10 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships We communicate well enough that I know things are more than fine, they’re great, I’m guessing you’re not very experienced in long term relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:04 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships So you’re just copy and pasting the same cheesy response?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:03 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I’m as happy as I’ve ever been and my wife is a great wife and mother, so I doubt that	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:02 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I think you’re emotionally immature and probably aren’t married	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:01 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships It’s working very well	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 11:00 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Apparently its wildly controversial and will lead to the end of my relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:58 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I don’t know what to tell you, my wife enjoys sex enough to fulfill my needs and it started with intentional, mandatory sex. I’d question why yours would rather lay in bed and read a book than fuck, maybe you should get a vibrator?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:57 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships People who don’t learn how to fulfill needs in a relationship will end up alone, that’s for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:54 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships It’s the complete opposite, when you begin to make excuses for withholding intimacy, that’s when your relationship is about to end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:48 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships My bedroom isn’t dead, you’re projecting. Sex is a need in the context of a healthy relationship, period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:43 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships We talk about another time in the not so distant future where we’ll get the kids to bed and fuck, it’s not that hard “And what if she’s not in the mood then either?” Well it sounds like we need to have a conversation about what the hang up is don’t we?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:42 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Yeah fair enough, I communicated poorly	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:33 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Well here I am and I’m in one, so I guess I’ve debunked your opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:33 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships It’s actually the complete opposite, I’m married with two kids and we have sex 2x/week and are happier than ever. What’s your situation and how is it working out for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:31 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I don’t know what black pill is but I doubt it applies to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:27 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships Lol no, you should be talking about it or going to marriage counseling. My wife and I have sex twice a week, which is perfectly fine with me, if I’d just left years ago when we weren’t then where would I be today?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:21 AM
–	Sex is mandatory in relationships I genuinely understand why people on Reddit always bring up the very clear exceptions as if it’s somehow a valid way to discredit someone’s stance. Do I need to list every single medical issue that could cause lack of sex in a relationship? But yes it’s both parties responsibility to fix, I’m just saying a general gripe about dishes not being done or whatever isn’t a good enough reason to deny it. The issue of household chores gets brought up a lot and that’s going to be entirely dependent on ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/24 10:17 AM
0	Gender roles are fine, but it doesn't mean its entirely set in stone They are being “revived” without anyone necessarily pushing it, that’s my point and why it will continue to lean into a more hybrid version. Men need to be men, women may falsley believe they don’t need to be women but (and I’m purposely generalizing here because nothings absolute) they would be happier following traditional values. More liberal women want traditional men but have a hard time finding that with liberal men, but they also don’t want conservative men. It’s a rock and a hard place b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 01:43 PM
8	Gender roles are fine, but it doesn't mean its entirely set in stone It’s not sustainable. Traditional masculine/feminine archetypes are being revived for a myriad of reasons and it’s not just conservative leaning people. Over the next 30 years there will be a lot of change but it’ll be a hybrid version of traditional male and female roles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 07:57 PM
0	What does it mean when you ask for a boyfriend to be a leader/ dominant in your view Relationships are never equal, if they are they have problems because someone will always be giving or taking more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 09:27 PM
6	CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being mean The phrase leading by example comes to mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:29 PM
–	Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreated It’s not about being nice, women are repelled by men who don’t have standards or boundaries for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 05:31 PM
–	Is it wrong to leave men once you start feeling like the male in the relationship or a motherly figure? That’s fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 05:16 PM
–	Is it wrong to leave men once you start feeling like the male in the relationship or a motherly figure? I hate the way blue pillers pretend as if they don’t know what typical gender norms are	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 02:52 PM
–	Is it wrong to leave men once you start feeling like the male in the relationship or a motherly figure? It’s not sexist, don’t let people put you down for wanting a man who acts like a man	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 02:48 PM
-10	Why is the term “partner” EVERYWHERE Yes you do	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 10:56 AM
-8	Why is the term “partner” EVERYWHERE No they aren’t, and you know it, you’re just attempting to virtually point a finger and laugh It’s more to do with the type of person that would use those terms than the terms themselves so you’re either ignorant or trying to signal	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 10:42 AM
0	Would a lower male libido pill solve most male dating problems? I’m just not getting how you think that men have too much aggression to begin with And uncontrolled aggression is bad, in itself it’s not	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:37 PM
1	Would a lower male libido pill solve most male dating problems? Why do you think aggression is a negative?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 09:18 PM
1	People misunderstand the idea of "stop chasing women and focus on career and life" I'm Red pilled and I have never heard the advice of make more money to throw more money at women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 03:23 PM
1	All of men's dating issues are caused by men Because we don’t actually have a society of predators lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 11:58 AM
2	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? I think it was on me, I see it now that you explained	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 11:21 AM
1	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? Toxic masculinity doesn’t exist, there’s only toxicity in people. The problem with your viewpoint is that it ignores the fact that even if someone is being whiny and a self proclaimed victim, those are still emotions. In order to work through emotions you have to FEEL them first and recognize them, become aware of how they affect you and those around you. Men do not want to show any of those emotions because of comments and attitudes like this. You are quite literally proving the point of the ty…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 10:04 AM
1	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? What is the podcast mentality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 09:56 AM
2	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? He’s saying that your criteria is so strict that no man could qualify because men being men, will always have some differences in opinion when it comes to that kind of thing. So by your own definition you could only end up with a dude who people pleases and says whatever you want to hear. At least that’s how I’m perceiving what he’s saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 09:54 AM
1	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. How is that overestimating their worth? From your statement you’re assuming the men get those jobs, which in turn validates their worth. In other words if you apply for a job and get it, at least in the employers eyes, you aren’t under qualified. You’re bringing up personality trait differences too, which I’d agree with completely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 11:21 PM
2	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. Oooh okay, I well I genuinely don’t understand the “can’t make this shit up” part either way. It’s not a black and white issue at all, there are just a lot of men who NEED a strong male figure in their life and haven’t had one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 06:53 PM
1	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. Right, you operate from a completely unbiased view with nameless studies with perfect methodology and no conflict of interest and also subscribe to “Blatant Misogony” That’s the irony part, the hubris part is proclaiming it’s not a guess. Good luck with overcoming the trauma from whoever hurt you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 06:03 PM
0	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. BB?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 06:01 PM
2	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. You live with hubris and irony. It’s called being too big for your britches where I come from, and women tend to fall into that category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:25 PM
3	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. You don’t live in reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 04:54 PM
4	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. Well I’m going to point out that the complete opposite is true lol Men tend to be based in reality as far as where they are on the totem pole	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 04:22 PM
3	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. I agree but there is some very serious levels of delusion going on lol, I’ve had girls that I used to work with talk shit about what would be considered average men while being 300+lbs and has 4 kids from two different dads. That girl legit thinks she’s a catch and I don’t think there’s anything you could say to change her mind. Men need to step up but society is telling these women that they’re 10s and that’s just not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 01:42 PM
19	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. The issue is that if there is a LOT of average women who have an over inflated ego due to social media. So sometimes the problem is more so an average woman looking down on the average man. Before I get flamed for saying this because it’s a RP take: I think men are mostly to blame. There are far too many men who haven’t learned that chasing after women instead of working towards your own personal goals is keeping them from achieving anything in life. Besides that, women find it unattractive if t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 01:26 PM
1	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? No clue what edit you made but either way, if it’s difficult for someone to lose weight it’s very much an individuals problem. Becoming rich is hard because no matter what there will always be multiple factors. Education, work ethic, timing, acquirement of a skill, even luck. With losing weight, there is no luck, pick one of these and do it. You will lose weight: Stop drinking your calories, walk 5-10,000 steps per day, stop eating processed foods, drink a gallon of water per day. Any ONE of tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 10:54 AM
1	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? Yeah, sounds easy enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 10:45 AM
0	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? Y’all are wrong but keep commenting. It’s both simple and easy to lose weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 10:44 AM
3	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? Drink a gallon of water a day, make sure to get 10,000 steps in, call me in a month and let me know how much weight you’ve lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:14 PM
9	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? Lack of awareness about the way to lose weight, poor discipline, overly processed foods	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:27 PM
8	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? Dude I’m a personal trainer, losing weight is not difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 01:57 PM
9	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? That’s a very poor comparison and you know it	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 01:48 PM
–	I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table. Okay this comment explains this entire post. You’re wounded, and I don’t mean that in an insulting way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 03:26 AM
–	It's sooo damn hard to resist when a girl shows interest More people need to be educated on attachment styles, it really is a game changer	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 12:37 PM
–	Question for men. When you hear that your male friends and family members have gotten girlfriends have you ever once asked them what they do for a living? Very dependent on your circle, I haven’t asked a single friend about a new girlfriends career and I’ve never heard that question come up in casual conversation really. I’ve found out down the road after getting to know them but it’s just something that tends to come up, usually after being asked what I do for a living.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 11:36 AM
–	Question for men. When you hear that your male friends and family members have gotten girlfriends have you ever once asked them what they do for a living? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 11:32 AM
–	Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished place It’s hilarious you think you have the right to stifle conversation you don’t approve of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 10:14 PM
3	Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished place I’m going to preface this by saying that I disagree with every single thing the comments above have said regarding women. Now kindly shut up and allow discourse to happen even if you don’t like it. This may be the only subreddit I’ve seen that actually allows conversations to happen in real time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 02:10 AM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually Thank you for proving my point	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 01:39 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually It’s low key abusive, in your opinion, that’s the key here. Some people may see it that way, some will see it as a normal boundary. The difference here is that before you hop on Reddit, you assume that however you feel is THE way to feel and that’s that. It’s the whole “but they’re literally evil” situation where it doesn’t really matter the argument I make, you aren’t looking for a difference in opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 01:24 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually Either I’m a disgusting abuse apologist as you say, or you’re being extremely hyperbolic. That’s never happened over the years of being in the internet, not once. Nobody makes outrageous claims about people they disagree with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 01:20 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually That part was very strange for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 01:17 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually Hey fair enough, but you’re also still making an assumption based on one side of it so if that’s how you try to rationalize it there’s not much I can say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 01:17 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually This is the type of shit that really makes people sound crazy. Boundaries = abuse. Okay Fred.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 01:15 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually I read your post, you said you didn’t know what to do, and you didn’t mention not contacting her again until this comment. So, I gave the advice of leaving her alone. Her boyfriend having a boundary around other men isn’t insecurity, it’s the complete opposite in fact. My wife doesn’t have male friends and I don’t have female friends. Also, getting secondhand information from a friend is like playing that game you learn in grade school where the teacher whispers a word or phrase in someone’s ear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 12:38 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually It’s ok for her boyfriend to have boundaries as well, you’re just making an assumption that she’s being “gaslit”. And, because he’s a man with a boundary, it’s seen as controlling. So.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 12:30 PM
–	Lost a friend because her new boyfriend has gaslight her into thinking all men are dangerous and want her sexually She’s in a relationship and has boundaries now, she gets to choose the boundaries, leave her alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 11:34 AM
11	As long as men are way hornier than women, none of this will change. The only solution to the current disaster is a pill that safely lowers testosterone/DHT and subdues the male sex drive, leveling the playing field. It’s called self discipline and lack of it makes you unattractive to women to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 05:36 PM
–	It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilege This post is gross and indicative of mental illness more so than social dynamics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 06:53 PM
–	People who complain about toxic masculinity are jealous of it. Yeah that’s fair enough, I see what you mean. OPs post and switching his stance to not reflect the title was weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:58 PM
–	People who complain about toxic masculinity are jealous of it. You could argue that a lot of the spaces that debate these types of subjects would label masculinity itself as toxic. Then it just comes down to who gets to define what masculinity is and that whole rabbit hole. All in all I don’t believe there is such a thing as toxic masculinity, there are toxic people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 12:56 PM
2	Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge it I think men need role models to be honest, like it or not the red pill space has become a thing for a reason. Having another man tell you to get your shit together, train your body to look better, take responsibility for yourself and those around you is something that lost men are soaking up because it’s what they want to be told. Whether or not you agree with TRP type stuff or not, that’s how I view it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 12:14 PM
3	I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” society Most are, which is the entire point. You’re speaking on the exception, not the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 11:30 PM
6	I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” society We have a very natural disgust response to high body count, that’s all the reason we need. You aren’t wrong about access to sex though, I can’t imagine dating right now. I had a woman I work with show me a guy she turned down recently and it was really eye opening. Guy was making 60k/year, average looking, from what I could tell his social media was normal as well. She’s 300lbs, makes 40k/year, has an extremely high body count, and wants to get married. To be clear, she wouldn’t even go on a sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:28 PM
–	Men, do you actually reject women for this reason? Very well said	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 11:05 AM
–	Men, do you actually reject women for this reason? You just don’t like the answers you’re getting, it’s every Reddit thread about this subject. Women ask why, men give answers, they don’t like the answers and call it insecurity. As in, if only men could get past those insecurities then the fact that you’ve been with 25 different men suddenly wouldn’t matter at all. My problem with conversations like this is that it does not matter how well laid out someone puts it women will defend it by simple dropping the word insecure. The fact is that women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 11:03 AM
5	We live in an age of equality but women's sexuality still hasn't caught up. I think my wife always wanted someone to take care of her and lead, but for a long time I subscribed to a less traditional way of maintaining our relationship so I never thought it was necessary to do so. Looking back, I was always super frustrated about our relationship and the dynamic. It held me back mentally from growing because I felt like I needed to run decisions by her before taking action. I’d stay paralyzed by decision making instead of trusting myself and doing what I know to be right…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 10:29 PM
9	We live in an age of equality but women's sexuality still hasn't caught up. One of the most well thought out and articulated posts I’ve seen on the subject. Good job dude. It’s also been my experience as well, I literally fixed my marriage by changing into the complete opposite of what I was told women want. From progressive to red pilled led my marriage from broken to whole again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 08:37 PM
–	Why are men here so obsessed with a woman’s past? Insecurity has nothing to do with being disgusted by a high body count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:09 PM

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