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Makes more sense on r/asktrp (they won't pussyfoot around the issue, and probably even insult you as well while giving you advice on getting to where you want to be instead of the extra non-red stuff that ends up here). Tone down the "lookism" before posting over there if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 01:32 PM
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It's best for this planet if humanity goes extinct. I thought I was crazy for thinking this, but yes, for the ecosystem and other organisms it's better if we're either gone or the population is greatly decreased. We have pretty much polluted the Earth beyond repair and exhausted its resources. Not to mention that for 1 good person, there are hundred thousands of assholes. Evil has overtaken the Good. I'm a non-believer, but it's interesting that religious texts tie into this in regards to greed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 12:35 PM
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Yes it is. He's omniscient & omnipotent and knew exactly what the Devil would do, and is apparently currently doing while completely allowing it even though he could use his power to vaporize the devil into nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 12:23 PM
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Why do we always blame God for this shit? According to religious text God made everything (which includes the Devil), and is omniscient so it's reasonable to route blame back around to God.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 12:14 PM
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In this day and age with online dating/hook-up sites/apps I wouldn't be remotely surprised if it was "common".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:49 AM
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And the 'non-utter cucks' will die childless, removing themselves from the gene pool. That "doesn't matter" long term since we'll be extinct. Disregard this comment since I'm not sober and groggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:31 AM
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Women like men who can grind, grope, and control the flow. If you solo, you gotta step it out, walk it out, break it and dip it. This choreographed effeminate stuff gets iffy in terms of arousal from women, if not outright turning them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:15 PM
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Women like men who can grind, grope, and control the flow. If you solo, you gotta step it out, walk it out, break it and dip it. This choreographed effeminate stuff gets iffy in terms of arousal from women, if not outright turning them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:57 PM
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I've had sex with over 300 women. Do you think that having sex with that many women has had any negative psychological effects in regards to "romance", "love", and relationships? Also how did you not manage to catch something? I know it's harder for men to contract, but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:39 PM
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Yeah I struggle with this. I'm not sure if it's because I've been socialized this way, but I totally find tan skin to be much more attractive. I don't because you're capable of telling it's a tan and not very close to their base pigment. Almost the same concept with make-up (I see too many women who "enhance" themselves with make-up only to look less appealing to me, but I'm an exception among men apparently). When you're tan it kind of hides imperfections better. And creates imperfections over …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:48 AM
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Dunno. I'm a negro, and don't care too much when you hear nigga from other races. It becomes annoying when they're constantly using it to appeal to either you or a certain audience, or somehow manage to use it way more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:39 AM
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Tanned skin is regarded as 'healthy' and 'attractive' in Western societies today, it's the opposite in most East Asian countries. It's probably the opposite 'cuz if you ain't got a good amount of melanin in your skin, tanning is just going to age you faster. Never understood Caucasian women's obsession with tanning especially since you'd want to look younger, longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:21 AM
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Take the n-word for another example. Black people call themselves and each other that word, and it is understood to be neutral. But if a non-black person uses that word, it is insulting and offensive. The N-Word and nigga are two different words...What's so hard to understand about this? Black people DO NOT often call each other the N word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:05 AM
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A fuckboy is a prison bitch. Stop bastardizing the damn term ya'll. The word you're lookin' for is player.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:12 PM
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25 with a partner count of zero. Never attempted to date or pursue sex (Dismissed Marriage when introduced to the concept). As in never really bothered even if a woman gave me her number. Been offered a blow job in HS on the bus, but turned it down. Have always had women interested in me or see that women look at me due to having secondary masculine traits and apparently I don't look like a man without experience nor act like it somehow. Never really believed in love or romance (Matter of fact, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:27 AM
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Note to self: Don't open up about fucked up past regardless of relationship status. Be distant Die inside a lil'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:41 AM
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Yes, but it's still going to be with me until I die even if I start a "promiscuous" phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:56 PM
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purple zero zero zero zero 25 How well are you doing with women? I've never tried really. I foolishly dismissed dating/relationships/love/romance/sex at a young age, and I've completely fucked up in life in most aspects. You wouldn't be able to remotely tell IRL though since I don't look or act like a man who lacks experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 12:15 AM
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From my experience as a 30 yo virgin, I've never had this strong urge to have sex or ever felt "sexually frustrated," and I definitely don't feel like I'm lonely or emotionally off or anything like that because of it. You think that stems from high inhibitions/low libido/personality "flaws" or not prioritizing/valuing/pursuing sex? Maybe I'm just a freaky weirdo, or maybe it's just because I have lots of great friends and family that I've been close to over the years. Whether casual sex is benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 01:54 PM
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I lost my propensity to love, and I don't think it's ever coming back. Might be time for a therapeutic session with psilocybin mushrooms if this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:20 AM
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I just think being a virgin til my mid-20s does some sort of permanent damage. Wanna elaborate? I'm gonna be that guy aside from the "incel" bit since I've never bothered to pursue women. I just happen to agree that a man who lacked sexual experience in his mid20's no matter how well adjusted and how masculine he is in the future will always be emotionally off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 12:11 AM
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fuckboy/fuccboi means you a prison bitch. Not sure when it got re-dubbed to mean what it does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:45 PM
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I'm 25, and I don't get this shit from my generation. But I was never big on social media, apps and status (although I was a bit oblivious to this in HS, and didn't realize being an athlete made people really look at you that differently).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:11 AM
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I stay away from professionals because of extremely bad experiences with them and medication (very negative side effects, terrible methodology of administration, and general neglect) Stoicism is generally "natural" because of my upbringing and how negros can sometimes treat each other growing up. Comment saved
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:01 AM
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Option A. seems more optimal. I vote dive into the abyss and come out the other side a changed man. Regardless of that I think I'm permanently psychologically fucked (Never experienced partying, stable home, father, traveling, dating/sex, general life experiences you'd have in your 20s). I appreciate the real talk, erm reply/comment.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 04:48 AM
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If you can't take girls back to your place you're in de facto monk mode anyway. Why though? I'd rather at least attempt a strategy that gets me laid (might try the tent strategy once summer comes around). I'd literally be in my late 20s to get nookie for the first time if I get my own place. My own fault, I know.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:51 AM
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If your gut says ignore em, go to school, and pursue tech. Why haven’t you already? Procrastination, laziness, apathy (Let's be real here, I can blame the chemical imbalance in my brain all day, but those are the main reasons). Logistic issues (living situation, financial poverty, location of tech school, cost of public transit) Saving money to solve that. Very odd living situation (logistics isn't only an issue with women).
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:49 AM
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Not a "terper", but I had a weird feeling before I tried partying I wouldn't really enjoy it (wasn't wrong either). Kinda odd how people told me I'd love raves/EDM fests because I can dance (almost mandatory as a negro or white people don't consider you black for some dumb reason), smoked weed, and was open to psychedelics, but I couldn't stand that environment even on ecstasy. Tried a house party after HS graduation, and still...didn't really enjoy it much even though "everyone" was happy to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 06:32 PM
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Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 02:25 PM
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To determine ambition levels, and psychological fortitude so that those traits can be passed on to your offspring. To actually care about the man because that journey defines and sculpts who he is, and his views. I would assume it'd be weird to not care about your spouses journey because that's a fair portion of their life that you seemingly dismissed in your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 03:51 AM
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Do you enjoy hanging out with boring people? I guess not. My slight issue is "boring" is a lil' subjective. To people who are well traveled, have partied a lot, and are very extroverted in their mid20s I can come off as boring because I never lived that lifestyle or had much opportunity to pursue that lifestyle so I can't relate to them very well at all (not that I've ever been that interested in parties or at least what most people consider parties). I'm an artist, can dance, athletic, but pove…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:27 PM
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No it isn't but having multiple people tell you you come across as 'too serious' is. I usually get the response of being too serious at first and eventually lighten up over time (hard to not be serious at first as that's my default state. Either that or complete apathy). Most of the time people that are boring try to redeem themselves not talking much by saying exactly what you're saying. Very well could be that I'm "boring" since what I'd rather talk about is not something I'd expect people to …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:00 PM
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It's more situational in terms of caring to speak. This isn't 24/7, but there are more times I've personally found myself not caring about what people are mingling about and would rather do something (i.e play shuffleboard, dance, or go smoke some weed at a bar). People I've associated wouldn't call me boring either, and are usually glad to see me because I do initiate conversations and can keep them. It's just odd to me how people frequently and quickly deem apathy towards socializing as boring…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:50 PM
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Quick question. Go have fun and stop overthinking, stop calculating every word you say, and be in the now. What if you're not doing either, but really don't care to speak? I don't understand why it's assumed that what the OP mentioned was ego wanking, or "autism BS", or being stiff.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:09 PM
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The fact you were NOT doing that before is disturbing to me. That shit was 100% natural to me from the beginning. But glad you got there. Care to elaborate why that's disturbing to you since I kinda didn't learn anything about dating/sex/relationships/escalation, and the process didn't make much sense to me because it's based on feeling/primal desire or lacking inhibition. Doesn't help that I dismissed all of that when introduced to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 10:20 PM
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Becoming the type of man that you once looked up to as a kid is absolutely intoxicating. Can't relate, since I never looked up to anyone really. Getting the respect of a patriarch from the people who rely on you, but also other leaders and patriarchs - men you grew up looking up to - is also intoxicating and lasts a lifetime. Definitely can't empathize with much of this at all. Getting looked up too has sometimes been annoying to me, and again I never really looked up to other men or women for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 05:17 AM
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I just can't empathize very well with the idea/belief of preserving genes/bloodline DNA for a legacy since most people will never care or eventually be forgotten in the dawn of time. Not everyone is a fatalist. Neither am I, and don't think everyone is (that would be preposterous). Some people smile knowing they’re setting their future generations up well. I get that so long as you remove the amount of stress & annoyance offspring bring. Some people appreciate that their forefathers has the fore…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:12 PM
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I don't understand the legacy/bloodline bit when it comes to siring offspring/marriage/LTR. Why is this so important to people even though we're all going to expire, and not have a conscience to witness our legacy continually flourish (well you'll witness some of it when you're getting old, unless you're prematurely dead somehow).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:01 PM
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And if one doesn't really desire a serious relationship would you say that person is inherently "broken"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 11:18 AM
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And that age would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 10:53 AM
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Savage!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 05:30 AM
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Thought I was insane for wanting to die at 60 at a very young age, but what you mentioned was akin to my reasoning when I thought about mortality at a young age. Bloodline/Legacy/propagating genes doesn't matter in the long term as far as nature is concerned, and I'm still surprised people can't wrap their head around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 01:48 PM
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That's ashamed TBH. I appreciate it. Still trying to figure out why career/status goes to other men's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 07:39 PM
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I know a ton of women in medicine who get disrespected in a way that men never do. Care to share some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 07:15 PM
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LOL He's too dark, rugged, and nappy headed. I'm more of a light kit-kat brown complexion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 11:40 AM
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Resting Negro Face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:08 AM
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Black American women? Absolutely. I don't have a strong aversion to women (skeptical of them, sure) just no strong desire for LTR/Marriage or even children, and if I ever were to get my shit together I'd just keep it laid back with 'em and not promise anything. Get a vasectomy as soon as I can afford health insurance to avoid any accidents I don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:45 PM
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I won't correct your CMV, but I had an extremely controlling mother who was pretty much a textbook narcissist (verbally & physically abusive) so I'll give a personal anecdote and try to respond to the bullets/numbers. Didn't realize the importance of sex/relationships/dating/marriage and dismissed it at an early age. People don't disrespect me because I have a RNF, and I carried myself well. After putting on muscle and growing into my negronetics even more, the men & women who were generally dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:11 PM
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Can't give you an exact Q4W thread, but: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7knkn9/being_an_over_30_hookercel_something_that/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7klf9o/would_you_consider_it_a_deal_breaker_if_your/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6grc6p/q4bp_would_you_be_with_a_man_who_used_prostitutes/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4iaoz2/are_women_repulsed_by_the_idea_that_their_man_has/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillD…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:29 PM
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No, but my memory lied to me. It's more of a study/article mix, and doesn't seem to do a raw comparison between men and women "slut-shaming". https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/11/the-evolution-of-bitchiness/281657/?utm_source=SFFB
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 06:15 PM
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I do recall seeing a study that women slut shame more than men. If I can find it from one thread from months ago I'll edit it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 05:45 PM
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What I'm saying, erm typing is that. In this day an age it seems kinda the opposite from the quote below. If you can't attract any women at all even in a relationship context, how tf do you expect them to want to have sex with you casually either. Because the trend is transitioning into: casual -> attempt at monogamy -> serious LTR/Marriage it's more optimal for men to become the man that can get casual sex because they're more likely to be able to get into relationships. If you have a hard time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 01:44 PM
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It is more and more common now-a-days for relationships to stem from casual encounters, so it's probably optimal for college age guys to get the know how to get into casual encounters which funnily enough potentially increases the likelihood that they be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 03:12 PM
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I find most of the terminology as cringe-worthy as Caucasians tryin' to act like stereotypical goons/niggas (and I'm a bit of a nerdy ass nigga, who's behind socially).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 09:19 AM
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That wouldn't make sense because the OP didn't mention atheism or God, you did. You think atheists in general willfully just choose to not believe or shun religion or the existence of a deity? The lack of believe generally stems from skepticism, critical thinking, and even attempting to believe in religious doctrine. That means they have the wrong belief. Neither religion nor atheism is "wrong" or "right". They could have chosen to believe in something happier. It's not just a choice, somewhat s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 10:05 PM
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Except I didn't willfully choose. I'm just not "predisposed" to believing. They could have chosen to believe in something happier. I didn't choose atheism, and I don't think it's really just a simple choice for a fair portion of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 12:21 PM
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Gonna save this for reference. Kind of disheartening, but I'm definitely gonna see this coming into play if I ever make my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 04:15 PM
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Video games are more of detox from the average day. It's meant for fun not attention. I've been doin' this ass backwards since I've been a young negro then, because I can't really relate to that statement properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 09:02 AM
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I don't generally consider people I sell to friends (most people don't have as many "friends" as they think, especially in this day and age for whatever reason). I kinda started that way, but in reverse and just lied tellin' 'em I'm doing this since we've been "friends" for X amount of time while making some profit off them. I'm not new to this by any stretch of imagination, and not just regards to sellin'. Trae - No Help is a song that kinda resonates with me.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:16 AM
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Well I don't have the kind of setup you do and what I'm doing is saving me money vs buying out of pocket and hardly requires time out of my day. Plus the chance to reduce the cost of the next prescription. Economically with my connects/situation it's ideal to do what I'm doing. You're obviously not in the same spot as me otherwise I'd take your advice (which was good and I appreciate it, but not ideal for me). Plus look at it from an SMV perspective (selling it > just indulging in it). Also soci…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 12:28 AM
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It's just to neutralize the cost since I indulge (mainly for artwork, and regulating my body) & it's better than buying bulk and letting it sit there. I'm not pushing weight by any means, and don't plan to make money from sellin'. I have an occupation starting soon, and I'm already on very good terms with the boss/chef when it comes to higher positions and weed.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 07:28 PM
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If you’re that concerned about the girl seeing you ride a bike to your meetup them uber. Still climbing/staying out of poverty and would only use Uber if the distance was...too far. I have zero concern about a woman judging me by cruisin' through with a BMX bike since I'm not exactly that status oriented or materialistic. My looks, personality/demeanor, knowledge, and social skills, have always been more important to me than havin' it like that. After I get game down pact I could pull the weed/a…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 03:03 PM
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Yes. Faking it till you make it will always work if you sell it correctly like you said. A'ight. Can't be too hard to get shots of my display, and physique. fucking hell this better become your tinder bio smirks Will save this comment, and keep that in mind (might have to change sell to something else though).
/r/askTRP27/12/17 03:01 PM
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That comment wasn't even directed towards you nor was it to argue a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 11:23 AM
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Like if you include status Emma Watson is probably a 9. How much importance do you think men in general really put on this status stuff in regards to women? Is this more of a Caucasian male phenomena (I'm an American negro and while status can play into it, sometimes we don't give a shit. Hispanics share similarities with us sometimes, and I don't come across enough Asians so just wondering). Her rating wouldn't really change to me. If I perceive a woman to have "this" score, there isn't much sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 02:38 PM
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From a psychological standpoint this seems fairly common in both genders. And from a quick search, men may be more likely to be depressed/sad/psychologically distraught from childlessness. Haven't looked into it too much, but that's definitely not farfetched because of the male ego, and genetic legacy, and all the BS we chest bump about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:49 AM
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Comment retracted. It's early, and I'm sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 01:23 PM
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Asian men are generally considered the least attractive/masculine compared to other races. Caucasian women are very status oriented it seems and marrying/dating an Asian male probably negatively affects her status more so than being with a brotha' . Lack of attraction in general. Negative stereotypes about Asian men in general (Lacking in social grace, lack of height they're used to, average to below average wanker)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 01:08 PM
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Never heard of this before in my life, and I doubt it's many TBH (It's quite the delusion to believe intelligence accrues from not siring offspring). It's like the hipster men with glasses that play chess. Pseudo-intellectuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:34 PM
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Wasn't thinking of self-identifying intelligence when I wrote that, but okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:23 PM
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They are mentally ill. Likely borderline personality or sociopath. Women who don’t have a drive to have a child and create a family are fucked up. You have a source on this, or is this just some strong view you have? And is this also a view only towards women or are men who don't desire to have children and create a family "fucked up" too? This lack of drive to create a family is really not uncommon among really intelligent/critical thinking individuals, and I've yet to hear many reasonable view…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 12:08 PM
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PM'd
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:13 AM
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There's no strong sexual desire sober. Everything would be faked and forced which is what I'm getting at. I cannot remotely imagine being aroused naturally sober (didn't happen growing up past a certain point so it wouldn't happen how since I'm mid20s).
/r/askTRP19/12/17 12:57 AM
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I don't think it's normal, no. I'm a late bloomer and I don't masturbate. Haven't bloomed yet, and have very high inhibitions. I've tried the nofap stuff (maybe not long enough), but that hardly worked either. Damiana, Weed, and alcohol are necessary for me to be remotely sexual. Gonna have to try this nofap shit again.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:05 PM
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No I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 09:02 PM
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I get boners just from talking to hot girls if I can tell they're into me. I have never experienced this even in my teens (I was athletic/healthy too). Is this common for men? Hell I can't relate to men that can't control arousal/blood flow, unless I'm high/been drinking. Sober? Forget ever gettin' any experience.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:52 PM
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NEVER ever disclose this to any woman you're seeing. NEVER think about it even when you get serious or just genuinely want to open up to her (another questionable thing that can sometimes screw men over depending on their upbringing, and whatnot) NOTHING good will come of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 08:45 PM
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I'm a guy, and not prescribed blue pills. EDIT: Just read the title
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:55 PM
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Men lie, or omit this kind of information for a reason. You'd have to be a dumbass as a guy to admit to any of this to your LTR/SO/Wife/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:15 PM
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Again all emotions are not created equal. That's obvious to anyone who isn't legitimately on the spectrum. It means they will rather her hate his guts and be physically disgusted by him, than her lust/love him, but physically cheat once. I wouldn't want either scenario, and would end it instead of sit through that turbulent emotional muck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 02:01 AM
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Ain't talkin' about bonding at all. Just the emotions that happen when you fuck. Plus men are territorial. I'm too sober to be commenting anyway and should just go back to lurking since I don't know what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 12:55 AM
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I'm assuming it's because physical cheating is tied into emotional cheating. Sex is a concoction of emotions and an endurance round of lust & arousal (It's impossible based on how we're biologically programed to have sex with no emotions. Sure it's a saying, but I hope you get my point). Lust Excitement Arousal Curiosity These are prominent emotions that surface psychologically when it comes to sex (even casual no-strings attached), so a woman physically cheating is also emotionally cheating (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 12:21 AM
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First, you shouldn’t just pursue an education for the sake of a job, especially if it’s not something you wanna do for the rest your life. I don't plan on living past 60, and I wouldn't want to rely on my ability to advertise/promote my artwork, and potentially dead-end jobs for income. I've thought about tech/trades & Community College also gives me the social exposure I never really got after High School (plus it's "inexpensive" compared to a University). As far as the gym goes, before your ap…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 09:36 AM
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Also , quit drugs-seriously. It’s really holding you back. I'd probably commit suicide if I couldn't drink or smoke weed (Working out, socializing, and such don't help like the drugs do). On top of that I'd quit doing my artwork or any creative endevour for that matter. I have sleep issues, mediocre blood circulation, and feel somewhat mentally and physically disconnected when sober for an extended period of time (not to mention I couldn't get laid without something in my system). Yes that is th…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 08:59 AM
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Dude literally put blinders on and work on your goals. I probably need to get better goals since I really don't have strong ones (Making/saving money, getting higher education, staying in shape, & continue drawing). I should add getting laid to that since that should be a main goal. I know you’re probably horny and all that but trust me-when you have your life together, sex is so much better. High inhibition & conscientiousness prevent that, which is partly why I'm almost never completely sober …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:27 AM
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What exactly are you goals? You're not really in any bad, or unusual circumstances. If we know that, we'd be able to direct your better. Save money/frugality (from coming from nothing to "something" I've learned to control impulsive spending better) Pursue higher education or get into an occupation that pays "respectable" income for 1 person (I have never agreed with the concept of marriage nor do I desire to sire offspring), and making 6 figures would be anxiety inducing (that's a lot of money)…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:03 AM
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Instead of all that make-up that makes you look like an artificial doll why not instead drink plenty of water (.4 gallons a day), apply lotion/baby oil all over your body to help keep the elasticity, moisture, and keep it looking healthy. Add in make-up if you don't have the genetic makeup that makes your skin look really good even in the sun frequently (Spanish/Black/Indian/brownish lookin' women tend to naturally have really good skin). Stay in shape (Planet Fitness in 10USD per month and has …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 09:11 PM
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My point is interpersonal relationships arent transactional. Why don't you believe that, because they seem to be by definition? transactional - relating to exchange or interaction between people. They shouldnt be viewed as risks to be mitigated. Except they can and should be by both genders because that's just being pragmatic about life choices that could have serious psychological & economic drawbacks (marriage/divorce/drama/break-ups/abuse).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:03 PM
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I admittedly tried scraping that symbol after one off my screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:58 AM
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Boyfriend material at best since I dismissed the concept/idea/vision of marriage/getting married, and have yet to change my mind. I'm too unstable to be a proper boyfriend so I'd a FWB scenario would be more realistic. Plus I'm not mentioning my flaws here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:29 PM
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Domestic Skills (Cookin', Cleanin', and that good shit). Not a proper handyman, but the ability is there (I've done a lil' landscaping/yard work, but not enough for where I'm originally from). Mentally independent/Non-clingly (Not close to being financially independent, and have been a hot mess since 18). I'm an artist (I could do requests, and keep a stimulating conversation regarding aesthetic appealing things). Caring/Protective, but can be very blunt and dismissive of emotions at time if I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:08 PM
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No, because in my opinion people should be establishing relationships before having sex in the first place. That doesn't work for men trying to get laid/experience nor is it a mindset any man who strives to be masculine/dominant/assertive in regards to dating/sex/relationships. Last time I checked a lot more relationships that evolve into LTR/Marriage start out as casual arrangements and I don't see this trend dying soon. and instead wait until we have an actual romantic relationship with feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 05:34 PM
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Avoidant/Dismissive which is probably why I haven't "suffered" the kinds of stuff other men seem to endure in regards to lacking sex/intimacy & dating/relationship success. Which types do you think are ideal or most successful in a man or woman? Secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 05:25 PM
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[Q4ALL] Why do some people lie and deceive at the beginning of relationships? That's apparently how dating/courtship is and has been (A game of a bit of dishonesty and potentially deceit to paint yourself in a brighter light and appeal to a larger pool of potential mates). What makes them think it'll ever work? It's been "working" for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 10:05 PM
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Get gassed on 'dat grass & buzzed on 'dat booze. You seem to be an overthinker/analyzer with potentially high inhibition/conscientiousness that makes you come across as someone potentially on the autistic spectrum. I'm being serious about marijuana and alcohol though, as a combination of both at a moderate dose/pull is gonna slow you down a bit (you need that), get you loose as a goose (lowered inhibition makes you more primal, and social), and allow for a better social flow state.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 07:46 AM
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I half ass'd this thread (reading & posting) TBH, but thanks for the clarification. In theory, the advice isn't bad at all, but reality dictates otherwise regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:20 PM
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Yeah. Let's just dismiss potentially disheartening/negative psychological effects that have been ingrained within the human psyche for centuries/millennia, that can, and often do happen outside of our control (Even seasoned people sometimes find themselves in a downward mood upon several rejections).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:40 PM
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That's the highest benefit to me. I get all of what I want (good sex) with none of what I don't want (listening about her problems, drama, tearing me away from my bros or hobbies, blah blah blah). Starting a family, white picket fences, all that stuff is completely incompatible with the life I want to live. It's for somebody else I'm likin' the way you think. Minimizes stress, saves money, more freedom, & less responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:29 AM
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Ok, but I did. Understood, but a woman who wants marriage cannot be "high quality" to me even if I overall became "high quality" myself. I've already internalized that HQ women want, and strongly value marriage, so I just got used to the fact that I'll never get that. Ok, I’m not trying to convince anyone to change their personal preferences. Just sharing why marriage has next to no value/deeper meaning to me. I’m not sure I understand. I get that you can’t relate to married life, that’s fine, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:18 AM
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I don't think anyone in this little comment section mentioned anything about "quality", or at the very least I wasn't. Dismissed the concept of marriage when introduced to it at a young age, and I don't care about getting a "high quality" woman (even if I ever ended up being "high quality" myself). I've never desired children so for me marriage is almost entirely worthless/has no value (I can understand the social status/title, tax benefits, and a more potentially stable environment for children…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 08:02 AM
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Because I'll be called a husband, not a boyfriend. Behaviorally will things be different? But if I just cohabitate, then I can't get married or have a wife or be a husband. I'm assuming you want the wedding ceremony, and like the title/status associated with being a husband? These labels past a certain point are "meaningless" because very little on a primal level changes unless both of you are going to be doing "more" because you're Husband & Wife (Even then you didn't explain what changes behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:56 AM
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I get to a husband instead of a boyfriend, that's pretty cool. At a certain point in terms of behavior these are somewhat indistinguishable, I think? If you've been together for that long and you get married what really changes in that dynamic? As in how would you distinguish yourself behavioral wise from just being the boyfriend? there's also tax benefits. There's also the risk of divorce/legal issues somewhat neutralizing that benefit. It's like why not? You know? Cohabitation is cheaper, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:45 AM
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We've gone over this about a day ago. I don't want children, and never really did. They're expensive, they accrue stress levels, and my family has a history of mental illness (Bipolar Disorder mainly). Children like me though for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:39 AM
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What benefits do you foresee yourself getting with marriage in comparison to co-habitation (which has less risk & is easier than marriage)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:31 AM
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The one who would rather co-habitate, and not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:20 AM
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I will PM you a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:10 AM
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Understood, but that's why I added in: and change without to very little/light - no makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:29 PM
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Why? Dismissed marriage very early because I thought if love was real, and the bond was strong enough between two people then the process, and legal requirements for marriage were irrelevant (at the time I was too young to understand the tax benefits, social status, and such) I don't want children, and never really did. They're expensive, they accrue stress levels, and my family has a history of mental illness (Bipolar Disorder mainly). Children like me though for some reason. Didn't care to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:28 PM
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Do you have an example? photo? Erm, no. Imagine a cute lookin' plain Jane who wears a nice fitting T-Shirt & jeans that show off her legs/thighs/ass. Possibly even a stoner chick or hippie-esque lookin' woman. But what your probably looking at is the no-make up, makeup look, and your thinking of the heavily madeup look. I guess? Heavy make-up is definitely a no, because it always looks like shit, and it's essentially negro repellent to me. I would ask for a few examples of no-makeup, makeup but …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:21 PM
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I've never bothered dating/pursuing sex, nor am I where I should be in life (I'm a hot mess. Shit upbringing, psychologically fucked, and shit decisions). If/once I'm actually on track with life I'd actually look for that (go to an escort first).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 04:43 PM
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I'm not sure. Figure that out since that seems to be a strong long term goal for you. What about you? I dismissed marriage, children, and dating when introduced to the concepts so the idea of looking for an ideal wife or thinking about that is foreign to me. Now what I've noticed myself drawn to? Brown-ish women (not purely based on race/ethnicity) tend to be very appealing to me when I come across them (I'm a negro so there are shared characteristics) visually, and they're less likely to "need"…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 04:16 PM
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Lacking in sexual experience is simply a major turnoff for women past a certain age (I'd say 20). It potentially shows to them that: You're incapable of attracting women and have unattractive features. You're socially inept, stunted, underdeveloped. Women want men with experience in general (life experience, and such). Women want what other women want (pre-selection). In the most primal/subconscious sense it demonstrates either "inferior genes" or shows maladaptive behavior if you have the genet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:32 PM
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The male equivalent of that behavior is when guys say "I like girls with no makeup on" or "Girl's look better with no make up on". This statement, like the nice guy one, is complete virtue signaling. It's a dishonest attempt for a guy to sound noble or gentlemen like, but not reflective of what he really thinks. Not exactly. There are definitely men out there who like the kinda casual and/or unkempt (fritzy hair, lack of makeup, T-Shit & jeans combo) look on women. Many are. But the idea here is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:24 PM
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What would the "best possible wife" be like for you? Do you at least have some sexual experience under your belt? I'm nearing 25 and I've yet to pursue sex/relationships, and I really hope you're not 27 without any experience at all (That's an instant deal breaker even for women who are inexperienced, or a massive red flag).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:04 PM
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My situation is that I'm attractive, smart, and from a rich family...all good things for my SMV. Your height, face, sociability, race, and your ability to be seductive/flirtatious with women will be way more important than your starting point (smart, & coming from a rich family doesn't mean as much when it comes to getting sexual experience). Unfortunately, I had mental health problems in my teens and 20s, so I'm 27-years-old now with zero university-education...I will not even start my career u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 12:23 PM
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There's many areas out there where two men holding hands is 100% normal, and many of those are in societies where homosexuality is punishable by death. If that's the case then that would be applicable for "specific situations".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:28 AM
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Why does physical contact in general imply or insinuate sexuality? Specifically with me it's the kissing, hugging, hand holding, and sharing beds that make me think that that could be the case. It's an automatic thought, subconscious if you will. Where did that idea come from, and how long has it been around? I was terrible with history, and am too lazy to read into it. Why does two men bunking together sound gay when two women doing the same thing does not? That doesn't sound homosexual actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:17 AM
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Oh jeez It just does. Holding hands, hugging, and kissing man to man always makes me question "their" sexuality outside of specific situations. Nothing against bisexuality/homosexuality, but the kissing, hugging, and sharing a bed shenanigans could lead to butt buffoonery. Your argument would make sense if testosterone only started effecting male behaviour in the past 80 years or so. Stoic masculinity is a modern trend, not a natural state. Men all over the world and across history have been emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:10 AM
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This is a modern phenomenon. Historically, intimate friendships between men were normal. Man friends would hold hands, hug and kiss, even share beds much like women do. Sounds like closet bisexuality/homosexuality to be quite honest. This modern standard of emotionless, stoic, Clint Eastwood style masculinity is neither natural nor traditional, and is generally damaging. I can't fully agree here because testosterone can/does play a role on empathy and emotions and lacking emotion or having blunt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 12:47 AM
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Thought I was gonna hear something like this. Seemed appropriate for that kinda situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 09:09 PM
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You realize they all be hos Well I'm pretty sure Tinder is for that reason (and pretty much that reason alone if you're "doing it right"?) so they're behavior can't be that surprising can it? Then that image of a family around a Christmas tree.... you realize you’ll never have that. Never thought I would since I've never desired my own family (no purpose to me), nor do I celebrate holidays. I'm already dead inside so starting dating very late in the game shouldn't kill the spirit that was never …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:16 AM
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Something I'd have to get used to. Never bothered pursuing sex/dating/ or relationships and it's going to be hard apparently since I'm almost smack dab in the middle of "mid20's". Rejection doesn't seem close to being as bad as IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:12 AM
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Prowling tinder looking for sex on the other hand crushes the spirit my biggest player friend has told me many times Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 05:28 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed with spouses and family , but being alone with no kids guarantees no one. That's kinda the goal. What's the "problem" with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:55 PM
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Personality: Brooding Not very emotional without psychoactives Laidback A bit intellectual Apathy that fluctuates to kindness (devoid of emotion sometimes) Apparently likeable Skepticism of black women in general and their stereotypical behavior Relationships with other women: Non-existent since I've never pursued women (dating/sexual or otherwise). Didn't properly understand seduction or how to push things forward to sex, but this partially has to do with the fact that I just never pursued a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 07:11 PM
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That is not being resourceful. It is time consuming for one good shot and stereotypically women are gonna be taking quite a few pics. Frequently buying makeup/being into fashion accumulates over the years when it could be better saved for (debt, backup, long term savings, children, etc). A lighter more resourceful alternative is eating healthy, drinking water frequently, wearing look-alikes that don't have the name-brand/status BS and using lotion. Faking yourself via filters and flattering shot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 02:10 PM
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A man with a strong enough frame can parlay that into a different sort of life. Which is why I typed "and at a certain point it's up to the dealer/dealers to move past that." But he needs to be above average intelligent and an emotional genius. Disagree with emotional "genius". Most just let their egos run the show. Results are predictable. "Unfortunately" if men are getting the money, pussy, and ego trip they're satisfied to not create a different chapter in life. Still not sure why it's unfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:51 AM
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It can actually go both ways TBH especially if you're actually from, lived, and/or experienced living in an impoverished area. Dealing drugs can net more money that what the environment allows, and at a certain point it's up to the dealer/dealers to move past that. And with small time substances it's a great way to reduce or neutralize the cost of the product. Not sure why it's unfortunate that illegal drug dealing raises SMV though since that's pretty much just sex appeal & lust, and not relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:31 AM
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Why unfortunately?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:57 AM
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Heh, I would really annoy you since I like extra milk in my cereal, and I'm originally from Texas where spicy food is common. I have no qualms with judging people whose actions affect me or people I love, though lmao. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:56 AM
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I know it's arbitrary, but in my head, it seems like it would be common sense. And of course, I catch myself judging people for inane shit all of the time. But I correct myself, and never voice my opinions on said inane shit. You will catch yourself judging something or someone until the day you die, but not voicing your opinion/judgement upon someone is far more realistic than not judging someone. Any examples of "inane shit" people do you catch yourself judging?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 02:14 AM
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You cannot exist as a human without being judged. We make judgements towards each other on an unconscious/subconscious primal level. What you're asking for is completely psychologically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 01:48 AM
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Can't expect people who expend energy, and get exhausted socializing to "pull their own" weight which doesn't make sense since artists, musicians, writers, and such are probably more likely to have introverted brains and can pull their own weight in the social arena. I don't understand why your stereotypical extrovert is almost incapable of understanding that someone who is potentially introverted simply doesn't get energetic socializing, and it can be mentally taxing to expect them to do the ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 03:10 PM
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Correct. If you are not a quality men, you have probably disqualified yourself from a relationship with a quality woman. But I'm an optimist, it's never too late for a man turn it around. There are simply certain things that cannot change that a massive redflags (i.e. bastard child, bipolar disorder, never pursued sex/relationships/romance, and i'm nearing 25). Even if I accrued my status, and money situation over the years I'm still disqualified if 2 of those examples (bipolar disorder, inexper…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:05 PM
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Even with Booze, Herb, 'n E?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:43 PM
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Well the women that have the highest RMV, the type of women you would even want to LTR anyway, are attractive, relationship oriented, and have high FTO. FTO = Flexible Time Off in this context? Never cared much for a LTR (or children for that matter), and I hit too many red-flags that women generally seem to mention so even if I did desire something along those lines it wouldn't work out as it'd be predicated upon a lie, and withholding information about myself throughout the relationship. It mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:22 PM
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Give 'em an inch they'll take the whole fuckin' thing. "Giggity"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 09:09 AM
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Yeah I know, but it's different with family at least to me. With some of 'em I'd agree, but with most of 'em I'm fairly apathetic towards them since you don't really know or remember 'em since you have too many. Don't think I love much of nothin' really (Always been skeptical of love even at a young age). Developing strong emotional bonds is quite difficult for me so not "loving" someone, even family, is a default state since I'm psychologically off in da head. The grass 'n booze help with emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:38 PM
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Some people become fairly apathetic towards another person after outbursts of "negative/turbulent" emotional outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:27 PM
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My loose crackhead hypothesis is that: Men with introverted brains (read: not personality wise) wouldn't be affected greatly since they're already internally motivated. Truly high IQ men (I'd say 130+?) also wouldn't be affected greatly. Men with high inhibition and high conscientiousness that come off as borderline "autistic" would be "fine". Men legitimately on the spectrum (aspergers/autism) would continue do ok? These are the men who'd continue to do their own shit without being affected(eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 03:46 PM
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Oops (comment retracted). Although I'm assuming you have the same view on men who lack relationship experience in their mid20's?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 08:15 PM
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liek this dscription cant find love by 25-30 there is soemthign wrong with them Can confirm! 24 years of age Artistic/Creative Attractive secondary masculine characteristics Sells weed Secret Schizoid Personality & Bipolar Disorder Completely broken household growing up Bastard child & raised by a narcissist Emotionally broken and have a hard time connecting to anyone regardless of how well we click/are compatible Capable of socializing without coming off awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 07:53 PM
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Women prefer "naturals" to men who learned game through PUA/TRP. My question is the semantics of "natural" from both men & women (specifically women)? I can understand it used for men who are more intuitive when it comes to socialization. I can understand it used for men who have raw genetic makeup. I can understand it used for men who had a normal upbringing in regards to dating/sex/relationships. My questions are: What if the "natural" way for certain men is through mentorship from an artifici…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 08:35 AM
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Dunno, I'm not high value by any means, but I suspect some really rich high powered guys have personality quirks and paranoia (due to their status and how much money they have) so they just mitigate any potential risk or fluctuate between being wined and dined themselves and seducing conventional women. I thought you meant tango or something. Hell no. Grinding, groping, and literally controlling a woman's movement (On the rare chance I go out and end up dancing with a woman, she has to move the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:26 PM
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YOU WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO TAKE THAT SERIOUSLY You did just that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:14 PM
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It's a cliche light statement (don't take it too seriously). Although grinding on a woman, and groping a women with rhythmic precision does show some prowess. Any other type of dancing is, meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:13 PM
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It's a business transaction that: Minimizes drama, and no games. You know exactly what you're getting, guaranteed to get it when you want it, and you're not concerned about the psychological games conventional women can and will play if they know your status/power/prestige. High class escorts have to get checked regularly, and in a few cases they're apparently exclusive to high powered men (minimize STD risk, and pregnancy). Those are just the reasons I've heard and read about that I actually ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:11 PM
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I wouldn't date a guy who's been with an escort. Of course you can lie like a little bitch for the rest of your life, but secretly your value is lowered and you know it. Lying is apart of human interaction, and even in romantic/loving relationships. It's rooted in psychology. On top of that it's not remotely uncommon for high powered/status men to see high class escorts: CEO's Actors Athletes Social Elites How? The boyfriends I slept with spent exactly zero dollars on me (we lived separately, pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:01 PM
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Honestly purchase an escort. If you have money, transportation, and can setup a discrete appointment, do so. The point of an escort is to: Demystify sex (For whatever reason your stereotypical "virgin" has this warped view of sex, and how it should be or specialmagicalfeelgoodemotionalconnectionlove BS). Get your barrings (You're 20 years old and at a certain point if you have no experience and you're found out, the chances of you getting genuine sexual validation is lower than what it apparentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 01:40 PM
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Do I have a choice? I'm incel as one can get. #1 truecel. Escort/Massage with a happy ending? Yeah, its fun to joke around. But for you, you actually can. Some of us are screwed beyond repair. My dick is mostly only for pissing and jacking off atm. This is where I cannot empathize with true incels. since I've never really bothered pursuing sex, and I apparently look really good for someone of very average height (it would be impossible for me to not catch up relatively fast once I actually try s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 01:31 PM
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I’d still like a sexual relationship. Why not a few? I myself have never bothered with relationships/dating/sex, but I can't see myself ever being monogamous, let alone get married or have a LTR. My dick is entirely recreational Smirks & shakes his head Thought that was very amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 05:52 PM
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Who cares? The partner who thought their significant other had natural genetic make-up, and was duped when the baby had genetic oddities/quirks. That could definitely damage the relationship and in more extreme cases could have a negative psychological impact upon offspring. Better than not reproducing at all An excerpt from a recent comment of mine: We seem to live in a universe where most things have a "decay rate" (Even the longest lasting celestial objects come to an end, i.e black holes, re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 05:27 PM
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I think the problem with plastic surgery is when one decides to reproduce? Wouldn't be surprised if an "artificially" attractive couple had mediocre looking offspring. These aesthetic adjustments don't hardwire themselves in your DNA do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 05:16 PM
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I just can't accept that our species will ever end, or that consciousness will ever end. Based on what "we" currently know and understand, there is a "fair" chance humans as a whole will go extinct. When, how, and why? No idea. I can't say much about consciousness and death as I haven't read about that enough, but it may or may not be the end point for our conscious mind. The brain does "short circuit" in a way. It's too bleak to contemplate an Ultimate End. Depends on your psyche and outlook I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 08:59 AM
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What is the future of mankind? We seem to live in a universe where most things have a "decay rate" (Even the longest lasting celestial objects come to an end, i.e black holes, red dwarfs, and galaxies themselves). 99.9% of animals that have ever been discovered are extinct. Humans are animals, and are a byproduct of nature although some of us still like to think we're better than animals, and in extreme cases above nature. Based on that I'd say the future of mankind is extinction, and reproducti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 08:30 AM
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What would you recommend? Looks aren't an issue I sometimes sell weed I'm an artist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 10:37 AM
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Logistics (Ain't got a car, questionable location, and have never had a place I can truly call home). Money (I've been poor all my life, and living paycheck to paycheck generally although I've managed with government aide to save up to 2.4k as of recently). Probation/Fines (Monetary setback) Got robbed a few times (Bike was stolen, and 1k + credit card was stolen). Or potentially lost? That was a major setback Psychological issues I personally would prefer to work through (Bastard child, textboo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 10:15 PM
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I agree with this, but there's the problem that women who would accept these men are women somewhat "below" them. Especially to the point where they give off a "vibe". What do you mean by below them? If she is attractive enough, and there in commonality (I think this is important?) wouldn't that be enough? If she's giving off a "vibe" that is offputting to you, then leave. What you're describing is the ideal scenario where two people have an easy time connecting. This is a rather unrealistic out…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:52 PM
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I will preface this comment by stating that I've never entered the dating market (nearing mid-20s and have delayed development), but have the basics out of the way (aside from sex itself). Although I've never been interested in LTRs, Monogamy, Marriage, or siring offspring. FwB (As in actually knowing the woman, both mentally & physically) is far more appealing, and something I will seek. Point being, it's a lot of effort for a low chance of success, for arguably something rather empty. From a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:25 PM
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I will preface this comment by stating that I've never entered the dating market, but have the basics out of the way (aside from sex itself). Although I've never been interested in LTRs, Monogamy, Marriage, or siring offspring. FwB (As in actually knowing the woman, both mentally & physically) is far more appealing, and something I will seek. I cannot empathize with men who will simply approach the hottest woman they feel confident enough to engage. Chances are I'd gloss right over all the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 02:50 AM
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what else needs to be said besides "made up bullshit"? What you typed afterwords to understand why you have that view. I'm a bit skeptical of general psychology and it's terms sometimes, and was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:43 AM
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Cannot say objectively if I have an introverted brain or extroverted one, but from introspection I'd say I'm introverted. You wouldn't be able to tell that easily socializing with me though. Prefer smaller groups of people Am "sensitive" to "social energy" in the sense that I become more tired/exhausted the more people are and the more talkative people are. Ecstasy only somewhat changes how chatty I am (Won't be indulging in MDMA again unless I have a testers kit). In terms of conversation I'd r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 03:22 AM
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If you wait for women to make the first move, you're gonna be waiting a long ass time. Social script dictates that its men who do so, some women will not even view you as a sexual prospect until you've "manned up" and made yourself known as one. I'm assuming you're talking about physical escalation? I need to learn how to be sexual/affectionate. Following on from that, this is another reason why trying to "friend" your way into a girls pants, (i.e by being behaving in an extremely friendly, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:17 PM
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Expand your social circle. One of the best ways to find women to date(not just casual sex/plate spinning/one night stands) is to cultivate a large friend base which includes a lot of female friends and then date all of their friends. So join volleyball leagues or running groups or book clubs. Accept all invitations for camping trips or concerts and whatnot. Due to a logistics issue I can't do any of this. I've royally fucked up in life so I have to dig myself out of a deep hole. I can only reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:06 PM
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Is it by choice? I dismissed it around age 15. Didn't seem necessary to me, and I liked being alone. I like being alone to this day, but it seems that my hormones are starting to catch up with me. They probably made me look all this shit up. Is it due to social anxiety or lack of social skills? I'm likeable whenever I put forth an effort to go out and socialize. I just don't care enough although I do go now go to the local bar at least once every other week. I'm the type of individual who needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 09:28 AM
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Women are emotional creatures, do not treat them like a more, logical creature such as yourself, do not let her be bored for too long. There is no consistency with this for me. It will be noted and worked on when I get started. Girls just want to have fun for the most part, but they also want to feel safe, comfortable, and look up to you. Not much work needed here. I just need to not look too broody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 08:19 AM
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I am not a nice guy (Stereotypically). I generally don't smile Fairly serious I've been arrested for domestic violence for punching someone in the face and choking them I don't like to be fucked with and people see and know this. I'm physically fit for only being 5'9", and carry myself well. A translation for you: I follow some advice from the redpill, but never needed much of it I don't do things for women because they're women (The idea that men behave nicely for women just to get sex was amus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 07:30 PM
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To elaborate: Even things I've enjoyed doing (i.e. football, competitive gaming, abstract art, short fictional stories) I treat them as chores or if I don't don't like the outcome I will consider the time to be "wasted" (not literally, but you get the point?) Basically if you were to watch me do some of these things you'd ask why I'm doing them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:06 PM
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It really depends on the person. I'd say if a person made it out of college without any romantic experience at all, I'd find that strange, but I wouldn't think less of them or anything. Never went to college, and didn't bother trying to get any romantic/sexual experience in high school. Is he telling me this like it's a problem he wants help with, or just as a tidbit about himself? Tidbit. I DO NOT like talking to women about my problems or asking them for help. It has never felt natural to me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 04:57 PM
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Why do you, having no relationship experience, assume that dating or relationships have to be a "chore" or "time waster" for men? I was being facetious a little. Should've thought that one through a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 04:30 PM
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Care to elaborate?
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