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Validation is the keyword man. I hadn't thought about it as a concept in this; I do enjoy a good woman's validation, but yeah, I don't need it, I like how I am. Thanks for your input; I think it's gonna be key to my effort.
/r/seduction14/12/18 07:39 PM
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Haven't, I'll check it out; most of my experience comes from Tinder, with a few girls that I've met outside of the app where things have just happened naturally. With that said, I'm an idiot when it comes to approaching girls at a club, like I said, I hate the "pickup artist" stuff, and that's exactly how I feel when I do it and I feel creepy, and most like I look creepy too, so I need to find a different strategy for that. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:20 PM
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One of the best answers I've seen. Two step forward, one step back. Works great, makes the guy seem natural and unrushed.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:17 PM
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I disagree. You do building by talking, a very good way to "seduce" a girl is to listen to her, recall what she told you, and bring it up in conversation to make her talk more. This will make the girl trust you more and feel more comfortable about you. I've seen this many times; I barely ever talk about myself on the first couple dates (I let the girl do 90% of the talking) and it's palpable how the more they tell you about themselves, their body language relaxes more and more. At some point, ye…
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:13 PM
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Well, it's easy, and it's not. The best piece of advice I can give you is "there's never a best moment for the first kiss." This changed my dating life, before I realized that concept (from a video somebody shared with me here on seddit) I had the exact same problem you do. And this is how I fix it, it's really easy for me and I hope it is for you too. I always open the car door for the girl I'm dating (if she's coming over to your place, that means she's already getting in your car), opening th…
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:16 PM
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What about the masturbation help? Do you think that would work? And definitely! It's a long subject though. Basically it's just names to call certain types of energy in relationships. Purpose, leading, giving is "masculine energy"; support, agreeing and receiving. Feminine energy is not subjugation, it's a role; and again, this is ONLY in relationships, and men can have feminine energy, as well as women can have masculine energy. The key here is the balance. The reason I brought that up is becau…
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:05 AM
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I'm 32, was married from 24 to 31. I had a similar problem with my wife, she had no sex drive, and every now and then she wanted to "seduce" me, but it felt fake so I didn't really want it. She just "touched" with no passion or sexual energy. What I think would've worked for me is if she showed me she really wanted it somehow. For example, asking me to masturbate her with my hand or a dildo. That'd show two things from my point of view (1) you're horny and want to do something about it, (2) you …
/r/seduction14/07/17 07:32 AM
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Hahaha awesome story man. Something like that happened to me recently. I took advice from a friend (she's married) that would be my ideal girl if she wasn't married. My thought process was "if I like this girl, and she likes that, then this will attract other girls like her." Short answer - NO. Never took advice from her again (or any girl or guy for that matter). And yeah, I would summarize what you said about "HAVE IT in you" in being a man, handling your masculine energy, going for what you w…
/r/seduction16/05/17 05:44 PM
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Yeah, probably. She's the hottest girl I've dated so far, and I guess that got me a bit off balance. I'll read up on theredpill, never have heard of that before. Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction09/02/17 04:59 PM
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I would like to add: Treat every girl the same way. The ones you like and the ones you don't like. This helps you show your confidence, and not make the main idea of the party to get laid. Have fun my friend!
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:16 AM
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lol, right, maybe I should use that more.
/r/seduction08/02/17 03:52 PM
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It means nothing - looks are like the 4th most important thing girls care about - the 1st thing they care about is confidence. If you can see past your beer belly, your thick glasses, or your skinny body; girls will notice, and nobody will be out of your league. Have you ever seen a fat and ugly guy with a smoking hot girl? Well, that's how they do it; and there's no such thing as "leagues". I recommend watching this channel and reading his book "How to be a 3% man." I've gotten laid more than e…
/r/seduction07/02/17 05:18 PM
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+1 to this. This is definitely the way to go.
/r/seduction07/02/17 04:46 PM
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with that reply. But have there been other cases when you have longer conversations and suddenly stop? I never text, except to setup dates; not even to tell them I had a great time after the first date. I let them do that, then I just reply "I had a great time too, it was great hanging out with you!" (if I did have a great time that is) or something like that and stop it there. I don't engage in conversations over text. A couple days later, I text them something …
/r/seduction07/02/17 04:44 PM
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hahahaha yeah no, not like that
/r/seduction06/02/17 10:42 PM
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That's actually a good idea... AirBnB is much less "tacky" I guess than going to a hotel, plus yeah, you can easily play it off with something like that. Good info man!
/r/seduction06/02/17 10:40 PM
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Stick your tongue out for half a second. That shows you're playful, and will catch them off guard. If they stick theirs out back, wait two minutes, then go talk to them.
/r/seduction06/02/17 06:39 AM
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I love getting to know girls. Especially if they're cute. Everybody is so different that it fascinates me. Maybe that's one of the reasons I'm doing well, I'm sure they can tell how much I enjoy listening to what they have to say and getting to know more about them.
/r/seduction05/02/17 10:19 PM
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It's hard to say if you're being ironic, or if you really think I'm talking about hookers. What are you trying to say?
/r/seduction05/02/17 06:31 AM
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Happy to report that I managed to do it (had my first one night stand =D), once and a half times =P (more on that in this post I just made). What helped me the most is what the guy said about "there is no right time to kiss her." I decided to give that a shot; and yes, it works. I used to wait until the end of the first date to do it; which didn't give me time to ramp up the seduction (after the kiss it's easier to touch in a much more intimate way, hug, and even make out, but at the end of the …
/r/seduction05/02/17 05:10 AM
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This is what the book "The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck" talks about. I would recommend reading it. https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Art-Not-Giving-Counterintuitive/dp/0062457713
/r/seduction25/01/17 07:28 PM
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Start here. And trust me on this one: https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339
/r/seduction25/01/17 06:12 AM
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Corey Wayne? Love the phrase, love his book, love his channel. This guy has gotten me laid more than I ever did before I read his book hahaha.
/r/seduction25/01/17 06:11 AM
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So the guy has a point that texting should only be for setting definite dates. The rest is bullshit though... I mean "the craziest thing just happened..." really? That's like fucking click bait on internet ad "This guy tried to save his kid, you'll never believe what happened next..." c'mon; only the most stupid of people fall into that trap. The best weapon you have against a woman is being able to walk away and mean it. If they don't respond; text them once again maybe "hey, just want to see w…
/r/seduction25/01/17 04:25 AM
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Don't. Just show up; she'll be there. If she's not text her and tell her you're there already. If she says "I didn't think you were coming because you didn't confirm" say something like "of course I'm gonna come, I'm a man of my word." Most guys text before dates and it makes them weak and insecure "just making sure I'm good enough for you to still want to come.", if you don't text it'll set you apart from other guys and will make you seem confident. If you have a definite date, time and place; …
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:23 PM
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The easiest thing to change is ask questions and LISTEN (also, stop talking so much). Example (this ALWAYS works for me, I get second, third dates all the time): Did you grow up here? No in Nashville, I went to school there something, something I had two dogs growing up there something else something else. What made you leave Nashville and come here? (this shows you listened she's from Nashville) I had to come live with my aunt May because she had a problem with her something something. So, what…
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:50 AM
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