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the car scene was deliberately shot to be ambiguous. the director made 2 cuts (one where she was interested and one where she wasn’t) and combined them. it showed how it doesn’t matter if she liked him or not because he took that choice away from her. also i feel like the first scene of him practicing his confession on a waitress was great foreshadowing. everything he mentioned about nikki was things she did for him, not actual aspects of her personality, goals, or accomplishments. bear was idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:30 PM
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except they DO, i’ve known countless people who’ve been followed around and watched intensely in grocery stores, libraries, at their campus/university, etc. do you think people stop noticing people they’re attracted to the second they aren’t in a bar? THAT’S the difference between experience, the objectification does not stop regardless of what you’re doing and what you’re wearing. it’s genuinely insane to me that you’re actively advocating for women to lock theirselves in their house if they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:06 PM
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do you not realize that all of the things you listed can be negatives for women? instead of being seen as a sexual predator in public (which does suck, i genuinely empathize), you’re seen as a sexual object, a consumable resource for someone else’s pleasure to be discarded. your ideals, values, believes, goals, all ignored because you have a vagina. as women, we’re taught from BIRTH to police our actions. don’t wear something or look too long as an individual because they will see it as interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:27 PM
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completely second this and there’s so many aspects that dramatically shift the perceived “ease” of life. age, race/ethnicity, class, sexuality, appearance/weight etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:08 PM
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although i totally see this, i will say homophobia is still alive and well, and a lot of people regardless of gender see men taking as inherently gay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:43 PM
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For your first point, that reasoning is absolutely applicable to gay men, but women are statistically reported to experience DV by men at much higher levels and more severe, making them more likely to report said violence. at the same time, men are socialized to not seek help (one of the reasons why mens suicide rates and homelessness are much higher than women), and their experiences with DV are often belittled, making help even harder. on top of this, there's still a lot of prejudice against g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:41 AM
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i haven’t denied any amount of responsibility, just explained why women do what they do and why it’s different from men. there’s always a reason why people do things, and it’s important to acknowledge them when discussing complex relationships. on top of that, i haven’t placed any blame on men, so how exactly is this “politically charged?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:48 PM
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you’re directly ignoring any nuance and opting for a simple answer but it isn’t simplistic, nothing is. humans and relationships are more complicated than “woman bad, man good”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:22 PM
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both of those statistics can be pretty decently explained minus the assumption that “women are unbearable.” the statistic on dv rates in lesbian/bisexual relationships is about people who have EXPERIENCED DV in the past, not specifically in lesbian relationships. plenty of women don’t realized they’re queer until later in life, often dating men before that. also not stating that DV doesn’t happen in queer relationships, but also, women are much more likely to report DV than men in the first plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:08 PM
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as another bi woman, id say i have equal difficulty with both men and women (but women are noticeably easier). the men i talk to tend to be more inclined to respond, plan dates, etc. but they’re almost never looking for a relationship. with the women i talk to, they tend to want to be chased, and it’s always an uphill battle. especially as a dark skinned tall woman, its like im expected to chase, and it gets pretty exhausting. at the same time, its so much safer and i feel like women actually wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:36 PM
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plenty of gay men talk about their struggles with finding committed relationships in the first place. not just that, but many gay men long term relationships tend to be non-monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:28 PM
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your fabricated assumption is the idea that he wasn't attractive enough for her to stay, that women have insanely high standards that even he could not meet physically. he DID meet the physical requirements, probably exceeded them, that's why she swiped, but the ghosting is for another reason. dating apps are very superficial and not conclusive of real life. they're often an exaggeration, due to the simplification of attraction/connection (depending on what someones looking for) through swiping …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:35 AM
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you're stronger than me bc the second those cramps hit, i can barely walk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:55 AM
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you're just working on a fabricated assumption of what women actually want, completely negating any possibility that there could be any other explanation. that guy is OBVIOUSLY attractive, she could've had so many other reasons relating to her life or his personality (if this interaction even exists), but that wouldn't strengthen your agenda like you blatantly ignored personality as if she didn't talk to him in this scenario and then CHOSE to ghost. but now you've created a whole other guy to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:50 AM
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icl this is one of my frustrations with modern society. we're so tied to the expected roles of our genders that we make up nonsensical reasons for why it has to be like this. one of the comments said something like "messaging first is a masculine trait and no one likes masculine women," like what?? why can't we just show mutual attraction, why does everything have to be a performance of our "masculinities" and "femininities?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:46 AM
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doesn't that show personality/genuine connection is more important?? physical attraction is obviously relevant, but there's plenty of other qualities people take into consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:13 AM
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i totally get that and i'm really happy that you had those great experiences! i think this is more applicable to people with a different view of casual sex or people who didn't have fulfilling LTRs, wishing they had (what they see as) casual fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:08 AM
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i feel like it’s hard to see if you have the experience others yearn for. from your perspective, you only see the things you regret or the things that hurt you. idk abt other women, but im in my early 20s rn and haven’t had any genuine experiences due to personal issues. although i know with those experiences comes heartbreak and pain, but what is the human experience without that? when you’re young, you have a lot less to lose, and those experiences help shape your future choices. this topic ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:46 AM
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i think that’s more an asexual thing than autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:15 AM
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in that case, wouldn't it be wise to just sue for defamation? the justice system is known for being flawed and it's not entirely accurate to say it "tries to protect women." Most rape cases (even with substantial proof) don't even go to court, there are thousands of rape tests that go untested for years, and those decided guilty get weak sentences in relation to other crimes. The criminal justice system just doesn't care for rape and sexual assault cases and even less for the 10% that are false …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:41 AM
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the main thing i can think of is it’ll deter actual victims from reporting. rape cases are already known for being hard to prove in the first place, that’d be a very terrifying scenario if one lacked specific evidence to prove their case. to try to get justice for your assault and risk being jailed yourself? especially if it did happen and you simply lacked proper evidence? it’s just not worth it although i feel for victims of false accusations, as there are plenty of other falsely imprisoned pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:51 PM
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like there’s something wrong with them if they can’t get a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:23 PM
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that’s born out of their own homophobia but also gender roles. patriarchy has homophobia built in and those fears and expectations are directly linked to it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:29 AM
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i think you’d benefit a lot from learning actual feminist concepts because toxic masculinity (the original term being hegemonic masculinity) require an understanding of feminist theory in general. This seems really far-fetched In order to ID what is expected of women and what parameters they’re allowed to occupy, an opposite, opposing parameter needs to be set. Systemically, women are oppressed under a patriarchy. this is through our limited power, access to resources, opportunities, and devalui…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:14 PM
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i think it has more to do with the fact that patriarchal societies largely oppress women. The societal pressures that men face are an outcome of the expectations placed on women. it’s not blaming men, it’s saying it promotes a toxic, violent version of masculinity that society expects men to uphold
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:05 PM
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when did i say that was the definition of biphobia? biphobia is the dislike/prejudice against bi people. this is shown through harmful generalizations like saying they’re more promiscuous than straight/gay people, saying they’re less likely to be faithful, stuff that the op literally generalizes about them! biphobia is the reason BEHIND people not liking bi people, don’t twist my words. you clearly don’t want to actually understand this concept and instead want to “clear your name” so you don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:15 PM
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and yet you said the idea of fucking a man that has gay sex is still gross? ever thought of why you think so? might have more to do with your subconscious bias against the people and less to do with the act itself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:50 PM
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what porn you watch has no correlation to how you view a group of people. racist ppl can watch porn of various different races and still hate poc, anti-trans people still watch trans porn, it does not matter. The reasons behind why you think gay sex is gross is rooted in homophobia, you just don’t wanna call yourself homophobic. yall are seriously in crazy denial
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:39 PM
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That'd only be "gross" to someone if they view homosexual relations as gross in the first place (also shows some signs of deep insecurity). Please critically think about why you think the things you think for more than 10 seconds. When the reason you don't want someone is the queer part of their identity, that is literally some level of bi/homophobia, people believing these things are just too scared to admit it. No one wants to be seen as "morally wrong," so they try to give every reason why wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:10 PM
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So it's not biphobic, it's homophobic. Thanks for the clarification. Everyone's allowed to have their own preferences, but lets stop sugarcoating where these preferences came from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:37 PM
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This is the norm/average perspective that most people take. But lets not act like those reasons are directly enhanced by your biphobia. Why would a man have a higher body count just because he's bisexual? And why does him doing other guys remove your femininity? Because you think his attraction to you has anything to do with his for men? Or is it that his bisexuality makes him more effeminate than the stereotypical, masculine, straight man? These reasons are inherently biphobic, but that doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:33 PM
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as opposed to op who’s literally defending men? i’m saying that’s why the people criticizing men get no blowback, neither women OR men care abt men’s issues, it’s not a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:19 PM
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although i agree there’s a double standard in people’s reactions to different leaks, i will say that it’s not like the men are standing up for each other like how women did for each other :/ . now im not saying it’s okay! it’s hypocritical (if it’s the same people), but those movements against women’s leaks were done BY WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:31 AM
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algorithms make ppl see things they’re interested in, obviously you’re gonna see like minded ppl in the comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:38 PM
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i watched the clip and it kind of proves my original point that the problem is liberal feminism that barely addresses the real issues in our society. plus public discourse has pushed back on every other liberation movement, it’s pretty much an expectation at this point. at the end of the day if men want their issues to be seen, they just have to fight through it. everyone upholds the patriarchy, even feminists like in the clip you provided. an i don’t mean to use anecdotes but many people (femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:39 PM
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could you give some examples? because all i find online are examples that WERE legitimately anti-feminist / feminist theory or were conservative (what feminist would support that movement?). and i hate to be that person, but let’s not act like feminists don’t also get a bad rep just by name alone the patriarchy is upheld by everyone (including women), so i do agree there’s definitely women against a men’s rights movement but i feel like it needs to be pretty left-wing to actually be accepted (or…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:37 PM
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although i agree, i’d like to mention that’s more liberal feminism/current feminism. we can only fix that issue when men create a movement that uplifts them as well (without putting anyone else down)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:00 AM
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or maybe because women tend to show different traits than men, so they’re often mis-diagnosed or ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:27 AM
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she did say 100 of those were from speed dates
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:05 AM
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personally i only see a small difference in my area, it could also be more age based. iphone has just been more of a trend + more men tend to be more techy so they’re likely to get an android
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:45 PM
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pretty sure it has more to do with how women are raised as opposed to men, not that we’re just biologically more empathetic. men are just not taught to empathize as much as women. an example is how men are more likely to think “logically”, ignoring emotions and other factors like that. that’s one reason why men are more likely to be more closed off when it comes to emotions. women are more likely to think “socially”, an emphasis on emotions and other people. another example could be how more men…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:59 AM
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I feel like it gets weird when you’re pushing 30. Saying at home should definitely be normalized with these prices we’re seeing, no matter what age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:16 AM
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live however you like ig 🤷‍♀️. i will say this is all based off the parent comment, about leaving a partner if they asked for a paternity test. in this instance, it is a committed relationship. just like to clarify im all for asking for paternity tests, im jus saying people will react negatively when asked that question in a relationship. i think these tests should only be mandatory when it comes to child support, i don’t think the government should be forcing this onto people. plus this isn’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:46 PM
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we just have a difference in how we view humans, i don’t think we’re inherently good/evil we just have capability of being both. i think your large distrust in people is a lil unhealthy as well. there is a large difference between a new tire and a committed partner. if you can’t trust them at all? because humans are greedy? maybe you aren’t ready for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:51 PM
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I acknowledge there are people with those experiences, but let’s not act like it’s the vast majority of people. imagine being with someone for years and they randomly accuse you of cheating “just in case”? that’s not how you keep a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:33 AM
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why would you be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t trust you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:15 AM
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