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Used to happen all the time to me as well. Best advice I can give is to ask the girl if she can put it on. But not all girls is able to do that. Second best is to make putting it on part of the warm up, like doing it directly over her face or something, make some tension. But thats hard to do when you dont know the girl or are inexperienced. Overall advice is to not stress, but again, difficult. Practice putting it on at home to reduce the time it takes. But seriously mild wisky dick, condom and…
/r/seduction02/06/18 12:08 PM
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Would suggest it just for the women, but a piano works really well. "Let me teach you something" is great for Kino.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:20 PM
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You're getting downvotes, but I've seen women tinder and never once seen they look at a ugly guys bio to decide of they will swipe right even though they dont like him
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:58 PM
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Thats.. not what this sub is for. Go to /r/Rateme or something
/r/seduction31/03/18 08:44 AM
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I think the problem as you put it isnt really valid. The problem here you are going for a specific girl. This is generally not a good idea. If they are single, if they have a SO, dont go for one person. Try to be adaptive and generally a more attractive you. If by chance a girl with a SO is attracted to you. Controversially I dont think its that bad. If you meet a cute girl on a party, you connect, she goes home with you to check out your stamp collection, and she say "I dont think my boyfriend …
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:04 PM
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Nigga what. Snapchats are never lost. Never seen it happen, never heard of it.
/r/seduction23/12/17 10:40 PM
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if I can get her to fuck me Dude. You cant. The potential hope you are clinging on to will hurt you a lot more and overall hurt you as a person than the extremely far off potential possibility of fucking her.
/r/seduction09/12/17 10:35 PM
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Firstly, of course your friends opinion matter to you. Trying to pretend they dont is just lying to yourself. Humans are social, we care about others and their opinion. If you honestly dont like chubby girls on a regular basis, maybe. You did something stupid you would not normally do. The last time I slept with a chubby girl was probably the last time. I did it purely to have sex, as I felt I needed sex purely to fuel my own image. That I should have sex with x amount of girls in a year. Its no…
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:55 PM
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I imagine you as some dumb, caveman/bro I also used to have this opinion of weightlifters before I stared working out. Turns out they are just normal guys that look good.
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:29 PM
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My previous encounter went like this 1) Get the fuck over to snapchat at once 2) Send some halfway sexy snaps saying you should meet 3) Pick her up after a night out, decide to "check out" your place 4) Decide its best that she sleeps there 5) ???? 6) Get chlamydia 7) Go see the doctor, but realize treatment absolutely free because socialist healthcare Last two steps are optional
/r/seduction15/08/17 08:33 PM
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Haha, a guy that spent a year in a monestary taught me. Impossible to live by, as we just aint wired that way, but helps if you are able to think about it.
/r/seduction29/05/17 09:37 PM
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It kind of depends on the situation, but I can do a few examples. For instance is HATE it when people touch my head nad/ or shoulder. I find it extremely patronizing and instantly get pretty defensive. But if I stop thinking "why the fuck is he/she touching me, fuck off", and start to think "Damn, why the fuck am I so annoyed by this", the blame/ fault is mine, and the focus shift to myself. Then its easier to just say, "hey man I really hate it when people touch my head, I dont know why, so don…
/r/seduction29/05/17 07:43 AM
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Try not to look for the reason other people make you upset in their actions, but in your own response. Do not think "what wrong with him, cant he chew with his mouth closed", but think "what wrong with me, why is seeing someone chewing their mouth open bothering me". So try to think why is this bothering you. Its fuck hard to do, and not really something one can do for every aspect in life, but is has helped me in some situations
/r/seduction28/05/17 12:39 PM
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Dont be so pretentious man. Even though I know PTSD I would never say I know how victims of torture feel. Also most women know how their period work. I mean sure Tinder women get a lot of matches, but you are are an engineer and have a income AND do sport you will stick out. Its not that hard. I concider myself average looking and still get a lot of matches. Also meeting women from Tinder is also "real contact". I've met people there i hang out with.
/r/seduction04/04/17 07:56 PM
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It started out ok, but when you got to I know better than girls how their menstrual cycles work but I'm still virgin and never hanged out with a girl Im was not sure you are joking or not. How do you know how well girls know they menstrual cycle if you never hang out with them? Also if you have the looks and experience you talk about, tinder is a pretty sure thing for you
/r/seduction04/04/17 07:34 PM
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This is code for "The cops are on to you. There are cops in your house right now"
/r/seduction17/02/17 12:55 AM
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Haha, paying for education. So American
/r/seduction06/02/17 02:03 PM
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Haha, we have all been there mate. Nervousness and condom kills every boner. It happened to me when I was ready to fulfill a long time goal of two girls in one night. She was super duper nervous and it kinda got to me aswell, no penetration :\ It still counts in my head though. The will was there from two girls to have sex with me in one night.
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:42 PM
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I was in the same boat as you man. I felt like nothing was working, inner game was ok but I just kept fucking up and felt like I was not improving. Sex with maybe two girls a year, and that was because i was trying. It might not be the most accepted method in this sub, but I found a pretty good shortcut; lifting weights. After half a year, gaining some serious mass on my upper body, things really change. First of all you are "allowed" to fuck up more. Its a lot simpler to hook girls if they find…
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:38 PM
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A lot of meme replies here, so ill try to answer somewhat legit. Treat her like a mate the first half hour. Relax, have fun, make her laugh. Note that crushing her in games is not her having fun. After the half hour, do kino. Hold your hand on her knee for extended periods when talking like 20-30 sec. Touch her back. Dont get to obsessed about the games, if she is not pushing for more gaming, you shouldnt either, stick to talking and kino for 15 minutes. Something that works for me is that i ask…
/r/seduction17/12/16 05:15 PM
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If it not a permanent illness OP writes There is no cure. Pretty sure that means permanent illness man
/r/seduction16/12/16 11:35 PM
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I guess we just have to disagree on the definition of intelligence. To me, remembering that the last time you though you were gonna make something but didnt, and the concluding that "nah, even though i feel im gonna make it, i probably wont based on last time" is a sign of intelligence. So is making a workout plan that takes into account fun, takes intelligence. A dumb person can thing "ill just jog 7 times a week", and actually believe he is going to do that. While the smarter person with the s…
/r/seduction01/12/16 03:37 PM
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Would argue intelligence leads to both. A dumb person could argue "ok ill just watch one episode of this, then ill go go the gym", even though that didnt work. An intelligent person can analyze their behavior and figure out that nope i probably wont be able to control myself. Same with diet, im sure you have seen some people buy candy in bulk because its on sale, then go on to eat it in 1-3 days. A intelligent person know if they will be able to control themselves, or implement mehods to control…
/r/seduction01/12/16 11:26 AM
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I dont know man. Ive started lifting some weights and all the diet and form advice is far from as simple as you put it. I think the harder part is self control. Its not that easy to keep a diet or go to the gym every day. Also science show there is a good corelation between attractiveness and intelligence. Its not super big but still relevent.
/r/seduction30/11/16 09:44 PM
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But again, smart girl know how to make themselves pretty. Maintain a diet and workout program.
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:33 PM
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Its like i see the point your making, and i do believe its real, but i dont agree on the magnitude. maybe one point, but far from three i think
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:40 PM
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Ah yeah, I agree its subjective on traits that individual guys like, for example readhead could give a +2 to someone. But i dont think that on average across multiple girls 9's can be 6's for some because they are used to prettier girls. Unless they dont understand the scale though.
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:24 PM
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Believe me, it was a 9. C cups that couldnt hold a pen, defined stomach, ass, 21yo, moaned like fuck, never got tired. I do believe the HB scale is pretty objective.
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:00 PM
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Is there actually any negative correaltion between looks and humor though?
/r/seduction30/11/16 12:16 PM
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That makes sense. Maybe its more the social aspect om actually afraid of. Fuck I have issues haha
/r/seduction30/11/16 12:56 AM
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Yeah maybe i am. Thing is i tried improving my the old fashioned seddit way, but i really struggled. Decided to explore alternative methods, and man lifting really helps. Its like the bar has been lowered for everything. In addition its easier to employ all the techniques when attraction is more frequent. Like not constantly fucking send snaps, because you have more girls. Still i am a retard at picking up girls, its just more ok to be retarded now. Anyways the reason i say its a rare thing is t…
/r/seduction30/11/16 12:55 AM
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I don't know how you could like someone when you only just saw or met them You might not have been down this hole, but a lot of us have. Its horrible, you you dont know it until your out.
/r/seduction28/11/16 01:53 PM
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Yeah, i think it will be hard to "act cool" during the talking thing. Never bring up sex directly during talking, act it out like a normal conversation, except that you are caressing her thigh, but try to dont care about it. If you get nervous, do some slow deep breathing to try to chill out. But again, "fake it till you make it" is a really good thing, so convince yourself it will be good.
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:56 PM
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From experience, not a whole lot but some, you sit and talk for about 5-10 minutes, where you touch their thigh 5 minutes in, dont fuck up and youll somehow end up in at their place. Will probably be hard if your a virgin though, so dont expect much.
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:30 PM
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I get laid more than anybody on this subreddit Im curious. How often?
/r/seduction25/10/16 12:02 AM
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You dont "need" to lift toget girls, but it sure helps a lot that the girl finds you attractive before you start speaking
/r/seduction08/10/16 10:48 AM
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Was more thinking upper back. Moving the shoulders apart kinda
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:47 PM
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in the case of a fight Top Kek m8. Like thats a thing people train for As a person that lift my fair share of weights, the main purpose has always been looks. Shoulders and arms are a big part of that. Also you are mixing up lifting solely for grills and other reasons like its fun, and seeing massive changes on your body.
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:21 PM
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my metabolism is stupid fast so I gain like no weight Dont want to be a dick but this just inst true. Its like overweight people saying they have slow metabolism.
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:13 PM
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Back is more important for V shape though?
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:11 PM
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Maybe "funny" is taking it a bit too far i admit. But regardless significantly less serious than if the roles have been reversed.
/r/MensRights17/09/16 11:10 AM
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Ive "approached" girls in the gym in other ways. Just as them for a spot, bench is probably the best. One of few exercises that actually need a spot and you can impress. Make some funny comment afterwards, if she responds and seem interested continue talking for a minute or so. If only "your welcome" or "hehe" just move on.
/r/seduction08/09/16 04:23 PM
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No offence but cleaning the room is a good start. Also as supergaz said, the bed is softer works. Stack something up against the wall for back support or something
/r/seduction29/07/16 03:12 PM
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I kind of think you missunderstand how a lot of muscles work. They cant just be filled with empty mass, they have to be either very strong or enduring, with empathis on the former for mass, but not that much. You are not adding fake strength, just adding strength in the most efficient way possible. Also core is a huge part of weightlifting. A lot of the main lifts, like deadlift, shoulders, rely on core. Also there is no shortage of people that works towards a sixpack (which is en essence, core)…
/r/seduction17/07/16 08:13 PM
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Thats not how you build muscle though. Firstly you did not consume enought protein (as no normal diet does), and secondly, hucking hay does not is not ideal for building muscle. Also, when you talk about "gym muscle" what exactly are you talking about? Most weightlifting exercises is based around our largest muscles. Those we use for generally everything. True, we focus more on mass than whats optimal for endurance, but i assure you the muscles are more than functional. Believe me man. I used to…
/r/seduction16/07/16 10:14 PM
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Serously, start lifting weights. It helped me a lot. Now i dont have to "impress" or shit like that, girl take a liking to me from the start. Makes things a lot easier
/r/seduction15/07/16 11:15 PM
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It means move the fuck on and never do the same thing again. If you feel like you are getting nowhere with a girl, have her as a friend, drop random compliments maybe once a week (not if they have a boyfriend), and dont think about them anymore.
/r/seduction15/07/16 10:44 PM
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Damn, 65, thats pretty impressive
/r/seduction11/07/16 03:20 PM
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Same things i go at hardcore feminists at. If you cant change every instance of man/woman with "a person" or "a gender" then its not a good argument.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/06/16 11:21 PM
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Me and my current ff recently had a pretty long convo where we tested different methods. It helped me a lot. Before i was kind of a "passionate kisser", maybe going at it too hard and too much. What ive learned is that ypu should use a LOT of soft lips. Push them forward and make them super relaxed. Like you are eating a really ripe peach. Tounge, softly lick the partners lip, but not much. Its reeeeally hard to find someone that is willing to criticize your technique, so try to learm from other…
/r/seduction30/03/16 01:55 PM
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You're the best friend that you ever had
/r/seduction07/02/16 05:05 PM
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Its not about bein a asshole i think. Its about start caring a lot more about yourself. And since you have only so much "care" to deal, you cant care about the girls as much.
/r/seduction07/02/16 05:01 PM
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Aka. damage control
/r/seduction16/08/15 10:34 PM
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Jesus christ man, wtf. Hope you dont mind if i repost this in a slightly different sub
/r/seduction16/08/15 12:55 PM
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Not if its tourists though
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:00 PM
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Jesus man, if you have a ED dont ask a internet forum or advice.
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:10 PM
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I want to kiss someone new now. That seems very smooth man
/r/seduction27/04/15 01:14 PM
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Seeems odd to me. Unless your explicit about the flirting with the other girls i think its ok. If your saying to them that you are interested in them, might be problems. But as it seems from the text you are just friends and i dont see anything they can "catch" you in EDIT: Ohh, i get it now. What happends WHEN you sleep with one of them :P Sorry! Might be that one or them get mad or something, but i dont think that it should be any of your concern, i would have continued as i were
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:36 PM
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I dont think you have to tone it down. As it is now your just having a lot of girls as friends. The moment you start sleeping with one of them it starts to get a bit complicated and you gotta choose.
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:02 PM
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Its a bit strange yes, but not like super weird. I know girls that asks for the dick 15 minutes after they have met someone, i just accept her as a very sexual woman. A few days isnt that odd if you hit it off good.
/r/seduction12/04/15 11:28 PM
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People are different man, no two persons is the same. Some are more sexually straight forward than other
/r/seduction12/04/15 11:14 PM
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I dont know if there is a orignal study, but would you really understand 93% of what a mongolian guy told you?
/r/seduction10/12/14 10:12 PM
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I was more pointing at the fact that there is probably no original study, or the original study never got accepted to any respectable journals. How do you even collect the data? OK might not be so hard to set up lol, tv with person talking in a language you dont know. I seriously doubt one would understand 93% of the message if some guy spoke mongolian to me. Gz on your phd. man. Can i ask in what and where?
/r/seduction10/12/14 10:10 PM
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Got a bachelor in psychology and working on a masters and i can pretty much confirm this is 100% bullshit.
/r/seduction10/12/14 07:18 PM
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As nice as it sound i have to disagree man. Its hard to put a finger on why, but it all seems to complicated for a so basic emotion. I feel like its more like a general feeling of belongness.
/r/seduction30/11/14 05:36 PM
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Love is the answer to the problem of aloneness I would argue that is friends.
/r/seduction30/11/14 02:20 PM
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Haha wow now i feel kind of guilty, i gave that advice about half a year ago to someone in here. I dont know if it was you, but if: You dont need to take it that far! Fucking a 3/10 in BDSM style is pretty hard. For me it helped f closing some uglier chicks to get some experience in doing it. Gotta start climbing to mountain from the bottom so to speak. Think of it as a hell of a funny story to tell others in a year or so.
/r/seduction28/09/14 11:26 AM
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Man i dont think you got what i was trying to say. The title sounds good but it really contradict itself. "Get approval from others so you dont have to look for approval". No?
/r/seduction16/08/14 02:11 AM
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Isnt this title a bit hypocritical? Using less fancy words the title basically say "Make your life so others will envy you, that way you wont care that other people think of you". Isnt it best to just skip the first part and try to not care about what others think of you? I dont think he says that line in the clip linked.
/r/seduction15/08/14 11:48 PM
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As someone that consider themselves going from pretty awkward to pretty good, really good advice but i want to expand some. Girl love talking about themselves, but you also have to contribute some. Fill in with own experiences or secound hand experience, the prime example being "oh you study X, i have a friend that studies the same thing, know [professor/student]? / she says its really hard/easy boring, is it?" Its dangerous to be caught there saying "oh tell me more", w/o actually listening. Li…
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:06 AM
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As a friend of mine said. One-liners dont bring a lot of girls but they sure bring a lot of funny moments.
/r/seduction26/05/14 10:30 AM
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Good points to bring up. Introvert dont sit in a corner in silence, they just dont shout. Its a difference between introversion and shyness.
/r/seduction25/05/14 11:37 AM
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I really think op i confusing introvert with shy.
/r/seduction05/05/14 11:59 PM
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Inn all honesty ive tried the same thing, being upfront about my intentions to women for about a year. Im really not having much success. You?
/r/seduction10/03/14 12:25 AM
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If Darwin was a asshole, would you ignore evolution? You dont have to learn from people to learn from them.
/r/seduction18/02/14 12:43 AM
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As harsh as this sounds this is actually a likely possibility. EDIT: Also the fact that you live with your folks lowers your status, you dont want a relationship with 25 y/o living at his parents. Not saying you dont have a reason for doing it, but thats the way it is.
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:08 PM
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Whoa that were some cold bitches. I really dont know why you got rejected that hard every time. Try taking some alcohol to smoothen things up or work on your looks, might make things a little easier.
/r/seduction14/12/13 03:56 PM
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Ah man ive been there. Had a casual thing with a girl but her friends were some of the hottest things ive seen on planet earth. Ive ended it with the girl but i thinks its pretty impossible to close anything with the friends now. And even if its possible i dont think its worth the effort. Trying something else might be easier.
/r/seduction14/12/13 03:49 PM
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Ah man i had to lie about my number today, going down from 7 to 4 cause i didnt want to come off as a manwhore to some girl. Still didnt get laid though but its k :\
/r/seduction10/12/13 10:22 PM
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I think the problem here is how we perceive "all that matters". For you its more "the fundamentals" and for me its "Everything that influences". As for the good looks part, anyone can get a fit body, learn to dress nice and do your hair. Throw in some facial products and your good.
/r/seduction04/12/13 07:08 PM
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They dont matter? Wont anything that help you get what you want matter? Its like saying a good nights sleep dont matter in front of an exam, because it only help. Like come on, it matters.
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:30 PM
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That's all that matters. Kinda think thats an overstatement. Being good looking and fit certainly helps a lot.
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:39 PM
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Quite a lot the last weeks.
/r/seduction12/11/13 04:57 PM
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Im starting to wonder how often guys here get a one night stand out of meeting girls at clubs.
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:20 PM
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Pluss according to my experience they are somehow a lot better lovers. Dont know why.
/r/seduction24/10/13 04:58 PM
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I used to have this problem aswell. Dont know if it works for everyone, but go for a notch uglier women, somehow takes away the nerves. After your comfortable, should not take more than a couple times, the nerves was gone!
/r/seduction24/10/13 04:39 PM
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This is the kind of things you can fool yourself with after a night out thinking "Well i didnt want sex, after all i just wanted a meaningful relationship". Its sets you in a state where you convince yourself that you made it. Realise you dont actually want to treat your girl friends like your guy friends. Dont treat sex like its something magical and emotional that should be spared for that someone special, the faster you get this the better. This is the pinnacle of congetive dissonance, you th…
/r/seduction23/10/13 09:09 AM
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So a sedditors Guide to Seduction?
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:39 PM
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Well you drop you fucking oneitis and use this sub for what its intended for.
/r/seduction13/10/13 06:14 PM
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They are comparing humans to fucking monkeys. Everyone that have been at a bar for more than 5 minutes know how this have nothing to do with shit.
/r/seduction13/10/13 10:08 AM
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Wow guys are you fucking kidding me. This is the worst bullshit advice ive seen in this place for months and this sub have a lot of bullshit advice.
/r/seduction12/10/13 04:06 PM
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Im having real issues with this, im graduating psyc this year and we learn that pretty much everything of freud/adler is bypassed by better theories or proven just plain wrong. Your "questioneer" also have zero scientific looks to it, also using google survey will be better. Very sceptical, but here you go: 22 years, norway (or minor city if thats what you mean by location) 3 if you count trying to get laid, 20 if you count talking to girls and having fun. Not so sure what you mean by 4, but whe…
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:16 PM
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I just cant shake the wibe im getting here. Why are you saying your friends is assholes and almost seem happy they dont get laid? Dont act like your this super fly guy that all the woman want and ditch out your friends. It seems you never escalated sexually so cant really say your game is good, just friendly. Billy will most likely stick around for much longer than the stripper, bro's before hoe's man :\
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:12 PM
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Same for me op. I though one night "hey lets act a little douch today" and it worked fantastic. Never did stop doing it when meeting girls. Wish it didnt was that way.
/r/seduction07/10/13 05:05 PM
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Ive had a much easier time picking up women after i started wearing better clothes and working out some more, cant believe some actually ignore this. Keep up the good work man.
/r/seduction25/09/13 05:46 AM
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And that, is what we call arm-chair pua, and its taking over this sub. A lot of people is just circlejerking advide that sounds good without actually knowing shit. /u/God_isPoohBear have probably more game than any of us, and we should fucking listen to him, and not shit like that.
/r/seduction24/09/13 08:43 PM
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Um that link leads to this thread.
/r/seduction21/09/13 09:59 AM
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This is not the correct subreddit bro :\ This is for seducting girl and not your general basics of establishing friends. You need to start at a lower level. Friends -> Girls friends -> social skills -> seduction
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:47 AM
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This "attraction" forum have a lot higher standards than every single other sub ive ever seen.
/r/seduction24/07/13 08:52 AM
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Thanks for posting this shit here. We need more stuff like this to chill out the moral-police.
/r/seduction23/07/13 07:40 PM
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Aha. Since its the way you and 9 other got it, i guess it sounded that way.
/r/seduction20/06/13 08:54 PM
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I dont get this. I messed up the subs, why are people angry?
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:21 PM
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Its your first night out, and you dont know things. It took a year for me to start bringing home girls. Just keep on trying and dont give up!
/r/seduction20/06/13 02:42 PM
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This is like the fifth time ive thought im looking at a /r/stutter post and im actually in this place.
/r/seduction20/06/13 02:37 PM
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Solid story man. Ive grown a little tired of all the "Great success got her number" things.
/r/seduction20/05/13 01:48 AM
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I dont see how im beeing so unclear. If your making a pickup book you HAVE to adress these issues, if not directly then indirectly. You have to decide if you want to implement picking up girls with a bf or leave it outside the book. You have to decide if you want to write about using the cheapest dirtiest techniques ior leave it out. In making these decisions your making a stand in the ethical debate on seduction.
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:13 PM
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I have a really hard time understanding what this book is actually gonna be about if its not including stuff like that.
/r/seduction17/05/13 11:11 AM
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I wasnt saying that coke is a good thing. But a book that have no ethical lines should include everything.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:33 AM
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But you have to take a position towards it reagardless. If you want to actually implement how to pick up girl with a bf. Also ethical stuff like what drugs can improve you pickup. I read somewhere that cocain actually makes it easier.
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:30 PM
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Very good, had me real worried there. But im really worried this will be to moral straight. A lot of content here suggest never go after girl with a bf, never go for a girl you really dont like and so on. Plan on adopting seddits morals?
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:19 PM
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Waitwait let me get this straight. Your taking tips and tricks we all wrote and contributed to and plan to make money off it? :S I mean can you even legally do that?
/r/seduction16/05/13 09:52 PM
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Dude seriously. THis will not work in a million years. Take a look at how they pass other girl, if they dont look at the ground you can assume your either godly handsome or pretty ugly. That or they find you awkward or something. Try to make it a habit to smile at EVERYONE that passes you, gets you practise and will probably improve your confidens by some. But then again i can only speak for my own culture and dont know you. If your the type of guy that fucks 5+ girls a years its probably someth…
/r/seduction10/05/13 10:18 AM
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Like that other guy said yeah expand your social network. Also if your aproching women and they start off thinking your a creep you must be doing it wrong. I know i can only speak for my own Scandinavian culture but im sure it applies elsewhere aswell. Dont start off with hi or something like that. You have to for example comment on a book their reading or something thats happening. For example "man the waiter sure takes his time". The conversation seems more natural if it seems like it just app…
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:11 PM
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This is somewhat opposite of a book ive read, translated "Since your likely like most other Norwegian guys, try to stay away from the dancefloor as much as possible".
/r/seduction06/05/13 07:14 PM
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Comment history reveals to much :< They have pretty decent advice, or atlest used to.
/r/seduction24/04/13 12:08 AM
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It started out real nice seddit, but shit like this does nothing to improve anyone. Its sad that this went from guys actually trying to get laid more to guys that fucks twice a year upvoting well written self-confidence boosters and honestly beliving that learning how to unhook a bra is doing anything to get them laid. Honestly look at this weeks top posts, virtually NOTHING that helps a average guy, learning the girls names is somehting we learn in kindergarten ffs. As a guy on another sub desc…
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:16 PM
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So did i. If you need a excuse to talk to her, you need to prep you social skills more. Also point made in first post still valid.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:22 PM
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Geez, buying her something will get you in a clutch. Is she talking to you because you bought her something or because she likes you? Just talking to her will serve you better. Also it improves your social skills.
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:07 PM
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The world would be so much better if all girls was like this.
/r/seduction10/04/13 09:53 AM
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In psyc. if there is a <1% chance that the result is made at random, its accepted. Ofc. the experiment is cunducted again, so it becomes 0,01*0,01. And thats just 2 instances. But this is another discussion, hope you can use this sometime!
/r/seduction08/04/13 11:06 PM
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But but.. science IS when: something actually is comfirmed and one can show results If i took the time to look up every single study done on every single phenomenon i psyc. i wouldnt have time to eat. Im sure you understand. Most textbook stuff is well researched.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:21 PM
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Ah god damnit. I swear to god i was this () close to putting "inb4 your trolling me" in there.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:18 PM
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For some reason, positive feeling raises eeg in the left hemisphere and vica versa. Sight nerves is crossed and therefore apply to the opposite sight-field. And dude really, this post is more accurate than 90% of these mumbo jumbo tips. This is science, not personal experience. This should work all around the world, im pretty sure this work on apes aswell.
/r/seduction08/04/13 10:05 PM
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Nono, sorry if i made the text that easy to misinterpret. Its a SIGN of emotion, not a maker. You dont get more positive emotions of looking to your right, your just showing the emotions. Its like you dont get happy from smiling, you smile from being happy (Actually not true, but i failed to make a solid example, you get the idea).
/r/seduction08/04/13 09:58 PM
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Geez man. I highly doubth anything in my textbook is based off one study. Its not a norm, its there allready, not 100% sure, but i think animals do it aswell. Im sure you can drill yourself to not do it, but i dont see the reason why. As before, not based of one study, this isnt some psychoanalytical bullshit. We tried it in class, knowing about it has suprisingly little to say, it was almost like a reflex, and you staring a little more at her eyes is rarely a bad thing. I would imagine alcohol …
/r/seduction08/04/13 09:52 PM
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Hers :p
/r/seduction08/04/13 09:41 PM
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Social skills is what you need for those "problems". Im guessing the improv class will help alot.
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:40 PM
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There is no guide to this, only social skills.
/r/seduction29/03/13 06:34 PM
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Since she is that pretty, you just become "antoher guy that wants to fuck me". The situation is always best when she have to find a way to win you over, not for her to "give in". Anyway thats my experience, if that thing gets you laid i have something to learn.
/r/seduction27/03/13 11:36 AM
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In my experience, the problem is deeper in this one. Opening that physical with her friends around never worked for me, she KNOWS you are hitting on her, and since she is hot you just become "just another one that wants to fuck me". By all means never say you not hitting on her, but it take super good social skills to maintain those super smooth and aggressive openers. She wont have sex (if thats the goal) with you if she doesent feel she knows you, trusts you. I actually dont know if you have g…
/r/seduction27/03/13 12:47 AM
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I like to think "Statistically, she is not the one for me, and there is plenty of girls like her and better than her", works most of the times.
/r/seduction26/03/13 11:44 PM
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God damnit folks start downvoting oneitis allready.
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:31 AM
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Because its dumb to inspire "fancy quotes" that will get you nowhere. As op is implying, he will need to train social skills. This sub have turned into a shithole where unexperienced non-puas pat their own back at the slightest engagement with women.
/r/seduction25/03/13 09:06 PM
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Its good that you gain some confidence, but really this had nothing to do with seduction, isnt there a sub like /r/confidence ?
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:23 PM
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wow thanks. Thats what i means.
/r/seduction17/03/13 03:48 PM
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Jesus fuck. with this being downvoted, this sub is transformed to awkward teenagers trying to date the hottest girl in class. I really hope this changes.
/r/seduction17/03/13 02:25 PM
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God damnit guys. This sub is not about shit like this, oneitis is suppost to be downvoted like gore in r/funny. We are suppost to learn how to seduct more, not help people getting the only girl that they like. Fucks sake guys
/r/seduction17/03/13 02:22 PM
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Was a good read. I agree with almost all of it. However i want to point out the "you don't want anything there's no agenda". Dont misinterpret this as "tell her your not there for the sex". By all means dont tell her that all you want is sex, but never disconfirm the sexual part. Important to not de-sexualize yourself.
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:01 PM
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But for reals, is there any other subs that is a little more directed towards people that actually know how to talk to girls and have sex more then once every second year?
/r/seduction07/03/13 02:48 AM
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Can we please make this sub a little more fuck-oriented?
/r/seduction06/03/13 01:26 PM
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I always seem to get massive downvotes when i try to get that message through.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:36 PM
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Because ive read it in my pua-book. And mostly it works for me, also it makes kinda sense.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:30 PM
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As far as ive experienced there need to be two things for a woman to have sex with you, attraction and comfort. If the girl dont feel like she knows you, sex will probably not happends.
/r/seduction25/02/13 09:20 PM
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Dont be so fast at assuming attracted = want to have sex with me.
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:27 PM
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Sex leads to attraction more than attraction leads to sex. That moment a girl walks out your door after a night out without having sex with you and you think "that went perfect, she is attracted to me". Youve lost your game. The op-line rewritten to something like "Sex is the goal, attraction is the tool", then id agree.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:36 PM
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I dont want to fool myself into believing i dont want the sex just to make it better when i get rejected. No, i dont support this.
/r/seduction25/02/13 12:08 AM
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Hi, im learning in the pua-game aswell, and its been going good for me. A more experienced pua-mate told me that 1/3 of the girls he engages in allready have a boyfrind/husband, and he oftens finds those the easier targets, is this your experience aswell?
/r/seduction24/02/13 09:58 PM
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Basically my story is: I managed to lock myself out of my dorm and ended up with a student about 6 years older than me. I ask for "studying advice" and he gave me this book called "pornopung: håndboka", a very straighforward, blunt, honest guide to picking up girls and getting laid more. I went from going down with 2 girls a year to about 20 a year, best decition of my life. Also improved my social skills by a whole lot.
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:47 PM
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Because for some reason redditors dont like people that dont get stuff :( Somone could have just told him "hold the smoke longer :)" but no, just downvotes.
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:39 PM
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I guess i do, ninja-edit incoming.
/r/seduction24/02/13 03:43 PM
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Actually the pua-book im reading atm. talk about drugs and going out. On the weed part it says it kinda makes you slow and "in your own world", some get horney. No personal experience though.
/r/seduction24/02/13 03:42 PM
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Sorry if people misunderstood some of my points there. Im not saying "failure doesn't lead to success", im saying that its a very slow route, buy a book about it the game is a good one, and do that instead. Sure you can try 100 girls and score 2, and then try another 100 and score 5, but its slow, and a bit painful to get 98 rejects. I see your point of the approach being time-saving, but if you do this to many girls, you will evolve a reputation of beeing desperate. The "done de-sexualice yours…
/r/seduction23/02/13 07:07 PM
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Im not a huge fan of the whole "the more you fail the more you will success later" thing. Its has a very slow learning curve compared top actually doing things right. You cant invite for a DATE 30 seconds after youve met her, its too much. The girl gets scared and wont work 9/10 times, and as we all know its better to aim for the majority of girls. Work your way up better, SHE have to be "hunting" YOU, not putting her up on a pedestal like that, if she is pretty (witch you said she was durr) she…
/r/seduction23/02/13 12:55 PM
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Yeah sorry wasn't pointed at someone specific, but i feel thats the general opinion of the votes here. Is concidering posting some of the content in here, maybe you'll see it in a week or two!
/r/seduction21/01/13 11:04 AM
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Well excuse me for asking o.0 I was not expecting immedient feedback, but downvoting because its not my own language is harsh.
/r/seduction21/01/13 10:47 AM
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