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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
120	Life gets better for the HVW	MINDSET SHIFT	_grow_up_already_	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 07:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform. I am so confused, why did it go away and is it back now?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/22 09:49 PM
5	How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset. Finding a man is not easy and I am sure I cant really suggest anything you haven't already tried. But if what you are concerned about is not fulfilling a calling to become a mother I would highly recommend adoption. For those that aspire to it, becoming the mother to a child who needs one is an incredibly powerful force for good. Obviously, single motherhood is not a cakewalk, but if motherhood is your calling do not let disappointing men keep you from creating a family for a child.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 09:20 PM
4	Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’. This is exactly why the "still not asking for it" movement fell flat as well. Yes, it would be nice if we lived in a utopia where women could act as they saw fit without unrelated labels like "dumb" being applied to "blonde" However, there is a reason why "utopia" sounds like the Greek word "ou-topos" meaning nowhere. Because the perfect world does not exist nor will it exist as long as human beings have free will. As a result, we must acknowledge that our actions do not exist in a vacuum and ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 04:54 PM
17	Made a mistake and fell backwards. Devastated and need help with feeling grounded back into the real world. “If he wanted to, he would.” has never hurt so bad. It's going to be okay I promise. Everyone makes mistakes, it's part of being human. The important thing to do now is as you said "block and delete" and give yourself the love he wouldn't give you. It's not your job to convince someone you are worthy of their love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 09:18 PM
147	Fantastic post over on popular womens' subreddit. But OP's edits demonstrate clearly why the FDS subreddit and its mods are so precious. Case in point, the hair salon I’m in has an automatic lock, you can only be let in if you have an appointment. Why? Because homeless men regularly try to break in to harass women. Until a hair salon (womens spaces) no longer need locked doors and bullet proof glass “good men” can kindly shut the fuck up about how they are “one of the good ones” I don’t give a shit, it doesn’t change the fact that women live in fear of the bad ones. You earn my trust, you are not entitled to it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 07:22 PM
2	BDSM is abuse Consent does not erase abuse Lack of consent is abuse Coerced consent still is abuse Uninformed consent still is abuse Consent does not erase abuse it is only a portion of the correct circumstances which PREVENT abuse	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 08:53 PM
128	Men feel entitled to women's bodies and their sex. That's why they believe their words have any worth when they call women sl*ts or prudes. It has more to do with their issues than the woman. Omg that makes so much sense!! Both insults are basically saying “you are controlling who you have sex with and it isn’t me bitch” Scrots really do be out here	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 04:41 PM

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