_islander Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ? 5’3” here. My dating life can be divided in two: until I was about 30, I had a tough time with women. I was deeply insecure, shy and pitied myself for being short. Once I worked on myself (a long process of several years), my outlook on life changed and success with women followed. I’ve been married and on long-lasting relationships with women who I consider “out of my league” ever since. I consider myself average looking, not jacked, average build, but I do exercise regularly and take care of m…	/r/seduction	24/09/25 02:31 PM
1	Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ? Exactly. It’s not even about pulling girls (more like a side-effect). It’s about having a positive outlook on life and connecting with people. That changes everything	/r/seduction	24/09/25 02:26 PM
2	What happened to everyone from The Game? 🤣🤣🤣	/r/seduction	23/07/25 12:11 PM
8	When the higher power gives you a sign to move on from a woman, LISTEN!! (my story of how I learned to put myself first, and play the game better) I’m sorry or good for you, buddy. Learn to summarize	/r/seduction	02/05/25 01:01 PM
–	A girl I banged in LATAM just asked me to buy her shoes as a gift You have to understand the mentality, which you must if you’re living there: men are expected to provide something, and it’s not just about being a foreigner, locals too.	/r/seduction	08/02/25 02:53 PM
6	I feel insecure about not being able to have sex every day Many women won’t have sex more than 2 or 3 times a week anyway. You just have to communicate expectations, and also get creative	/r/seduction	04/02/25 11:30 PM
27	Are guys that work in porn good at pick up/game? They’re probably tired of having sex every day for work and take a break on their time off	/r/seduction	03/02/25 05:34 PM
7	Mexico city — approaching a girl who is on date and noticed me five times Just be careful approaching girls who are with a date. Some guys in Lat Am see this as a disrespectful act and you never know who you’re dealing with. It’s a different culture, be mindful of that fact. And just because I have some time, here’s a little anecdote: Some 20 years ago I was in a beach town in Colombia. One night, I saw a very tall Australian guy approach a girl at a bar. She was with a date and her parents. The Aussie dude was a bit drunk and didn’t give a fuck. Before you knew it, t…	/r/seduction	09/01/25 02:31 PM
1	It’s likely that I can sleep with three women next week. Should I? It seems like you haven’t been acquainted with Murphy’ Law	/r/seduction	25/12/24 11:24 PM
1	I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I Learned Yeah, because this is scientific speech, instead of a jargon that a few dweebs invented	/r/seduction	09/10/24 12:49 PM
7	I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I Learned God being a pickup artist sounds so exhausting. Don’t get me wrong, I know this stuff is useful to build confidence, but I could do without the cheesy jargon	/r/seduction	08/10/24 12:01 PM
2	Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRL I've had my accounts for many years and I've never been banned, but if that's the experience for some people, I'm happy to stand corrected. Now, claiming I'm 'spreading misinformation' is a bit extreme	/r/seduction	12/09/24 03:32 PM
78	Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRL Hmmmm, Tinder and Hinge don’t ban people just for the sake of banning them…. Just saying Edit: Apparently some people are getting banned for no reason. I’ve had my accounts for more than 5 years and never been banned, but I’m also not a heavy user	/r/seduction	11/09/24 03:52 PM
3	Does being seen with unattractive girls hurt your game? If you had game you would know that being kind can be a big factor in attraction	/r/seduction	09/09/24 10:45 PM
1	How to get laid with minimal conversation lol, motherfuckers are getting so lazy	/r/seduction	26/08/24 10:58 PM
2	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? She did tell me she likes women now	/r/seduction	17/08/24 05:07 PM
13	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? I'll give you a tip: learn how to dance and then attend dance parties or events. I've had a lot of success this way. Find a dancing partner and talk to her. The rest is on you.	/r/seduction	16/08/24 04:44 PM
147	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? I started approaching women. Yes, for years I was stuck in fear of rejection until I said fuck it. Little by little I gained confidence and got better at relating to them and being myself with them. The sooner you say fuck it, the better.	/r/seduction	16/08/24 05:09 AM
1	How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line All good responses, and I will use some of them, but still make no mistake: there’s no attraction and one liner won’t change that	/r/seduction	05/08/24 06:58 PM
2	How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line In my view and based on experience, it’s not worth it, but to each their own	/r/seduction	05/08/24 04:38 PM
4	How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend line A girl who tells you she has a boyfriend will most likely not want to hang out with you under any circumstances. There’s nothing you can do or say to change her mind. Take the hint, be classy and move on.	/r/seduction	05/08/24 04:22 PM
2	Is it possible to get laid if you are unemployed, no education. M[22] 5’9 My son has adhd and is on the spectrum. He has struggles but at 19 has been working steadily for 2 years now.	/r/seduction	01/07/24 12:34 PM
1	After two dates she told me that she lost interest This so what I’m thinking too. In other cultures, women expect men to express interest in them, otherwise they feel slighted. Good idea to communicate and ask before hand what’s her communication style. Does she like to text every day?	/r/seduction	10/06/24 07:05 PM
1	Need advice on disrespect The best way to do it. Shows that you don’t take yourself so seriously. Nothing worse than getting into a dick measuring contest in front of a girl.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 01:31 AM
–	Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond? Hey, not nearly enough, haha. But seriously the things I’ve learned are common knowledge, and probably things I already knew but had put into practice. The main thing I learned is to be cool, even cold blooded in social situations. Talk to anybody and be curious about their lives and what makes them tick. And of course, approach women with this mentality, you’re trying to get a number but if it doesn’t happen at least have a pleasant interaction with them. Be funny, but don’t try too hard. Rejec…	/r/seduction	07/06/24 04:37 PM
13	Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond? Hmm, I was married for a decade and divorced before hitting my prime in my forties. Before getting married I was extremely introverted and downright shy. Not particularly rich or powerful, but did learn a trick or two about approaching women and piquing their interest. Never thought I would be relatively successful with women at this late stage of my life, but I’ve been told I look better at this age than when I was younger, for whatever that’s worth.	/r/seduction	07/06/24 04:30 AM
65	So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day... Exactly. Do it if you don’t care about losing your family. Do you have kids?	/r/seduction	17/05/24 02:32 PM
1	What should an ideal male ig profile look like? If you’re meeting girls on instagram, I guess. Otherwise, what’s the value?	/r/seduction	27/03/24 07:12 PM
25	What should an ideal male ig profile look like? Here’s a trick that drives em crazy: The best is to not have an ig.	/r/seduction	27/03/24 01:06 PM
38	I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence. I partially agree with you. In a conversation, you don’t need to spit out ready made pickup lines and crazy witty answers all the time. After all, more than specific words, what we remember about conversations is the general energy, how someone made us feel	/r/seduction	25/03/24 01:22 PM
4	I get bored on dates Man, pick up a book, watch a movie, make something. The gym is great, but what about if some day you can’t go so often and you lose some of your gains? You have to find fulfillment somewhere else	/r/seduction	18/03/24 08:29 AM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? By not caring about getting a second date	/r/seduction	08/03/24 02:58 AM
1	I’m 26 she’s 46….want to pursue her but I’m stumped. Nah, being touchy can lead you to HR in no time. I would just ask her out. If she accepts, great. If not, stop thinking about her	/r/seduction	21/02/24 08:40 PM
1	Approached a girl today Way this the is	/r/seduction	06/08/23 01:40 AM
2	Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs I'd say "Sorry, I only buy drinks for a girl I'm having sex with"	/r/seduction	10/07/23 04:44 PM
1	Keeping a solid 9 Even when you’re saying the opposite, it sounds like you’re afraid of losing her, and that’s not a good thing	/r/seduction	28/10/22 06:56 PM
1	Am I a Simp for this? I’d fly coast to coast for good Pusey, but that’s just me	/r/seduction	20/07/22 01:04 AM
34	Weird technique that actually worked So you’re the weirdo who thought I was Brad Pitt?	/r/seduction	02/01/22 04:45 PM
1	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? Messaging someone who gave you their IG = perfectly normal behavior Looking for someone on IG, maybe just by their first name and then messaging them out of the cold = weird and kind of desperate As a guy and if a girl does that to me and I like her, of course I don’t care, but I think girls perceive that sleuth work differently	/r/seduction	17/11/21 07:36 PM
19	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? You came up as a massive creep for looking her on IG and DMing her	/r/seduction	17/11/21 03:17 AM
1	Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough? Nah, not in the US at least. Here if a girl wants you, you’ll know. You don’t ever have to worry about not chasing her too much.	/r/seduction	16/11/21 07:09 PM
1	Why do women only describe my looks as `cute’ instead of `hot’ or `sexy’?. Also how do I increase my sex appeal? I’m 5’3” with the voice of Kermit the frog, and women exclusively describe me as hot and sexy	/r/seduction	16/11/21 03:39 AM
4	A guy at work always steers our conservation towards sex “Would you like some dick?”	/r/seduction	10/11/21 03:14 PM