| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 92 | Cockblocking yourself 101 | Field Report | _isthisthingon | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 01:05 PM |
| 15 | Getting hot and heavy, she stops and asks me to clean my hands | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 08:41 PM | |
| 13 | What cologne do you wear? | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:00 PM | |
| 6 | [Career] Is a major change a real solution? | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 01:12 AM | |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line on being reliable (AF/BB wise) | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 02:11 PM | |
| 1 | Field Report of sorts - Shit-test or Disrespect? | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 11:43 PM | |
| 1 | Higher levels of sexual frustration of the common men being directly related to the start of civil wars? | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 12:57 AM | |
| 1 | Help me put this in perspective (not girl related) | _isthisthingon | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 07:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Getting hot and heavy, she stops and asks me to clean my handsThat actually might work. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Getting hot and heavy, she stops and asks me to clean my handsI don't see it as a red flag either, I actually get it and am amazed how this issue never crossed my mind. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Field Report of sorts - Shit-test or Disrespect?I won't try to argue your logic as it's exactly the angle I was hoping I'd get. Still, what's the mindset here? I recognize I might be in over my head, but isn't TRP meant to give us a set of skills to deal with this manipulation? Skills that need training and experimenting. I know until I fuck her I can't have the upper hand. I'm coming from behind. Fact. But in this particular situation, isn't simply fucking off, too weak? It's not like I'm bending over backwards to accommodate her in my sched… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Field Report of sorts - Shit-test or Disrespect?Damn, man. What was your end game? Well, to fuck her. Each time we were together I tried to escalate it further. But it was late in the middle of the work week and I could only push so far without it seeming needy/annoying. She'll be home alone in the weekend, hence why it feels like she's setting me up for a booty call. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Cockblocking yourself 101Not what I meant. Composure as in actually not losing my cool in any given scenario, never taking a misstep. I was way too emotional as a teenager, had to work on that and fight it until it was no more part of my character as I couldn't help but feel weak. This being said, I can also see how you might be right. I just never made that connection. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Cockblocking yourself 101I identify with a lot of what you've said. I truly wouldn't mind reading more of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Cockblocking yourself 101It sounds like you were responding to her body language instead of maintaining your frame. She looks away and so you look away? Fuck no. You give her a nice long "I like how shy you are around me" look. You have to have a baseline of presence and engagement and yes, sexuality, that is entirely your own and completely independent of her body language, reactions, etc. I don't think this is my issue, although I'm always looking for improvement on the way I carry myself around others, not only becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:08 PM |
| 25 | Cockblocking yourself 101Thank you. I've actually been feeling like I needed someone to punch me in the face the whole day, this was close enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 09:36 PM |
| 7 | Cockblocking yourself 101Won't work. She went back to her hometown for the weekend. This one's done for. I'll just keep looking straight ahead. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 09:28 PM |
| 20 | Cockblocking yourself 101Sometimes waiting for her body language/direct IOI's to open up when all the other cues are there can be counter-productive. I'll never forget this again. The longer you wait the harder it get's, the bigger it becomes, the more pressure you put on yourself, the more time you waste. Precisely. it's a far shittier feeling than being rejected isn't it? Don't know where to begin describing it. Nothing worse than knowingly failing with yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 04:36 PM |
| 18 | Cockblocking yourself 101Every minute after we're both sat on that couch was a minute too late. Fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 04:26 PM |
| 11 | Cockblocking yourself 101I think you need to practice showing your sexual desires. This clicked with me a lot. What makes you say this? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | “Friend” keeps trying to square up on methat shorty is looking for a fight to prove himself. I don't think so, then again, there's not enough context here. Shorty knows OP has buttons he can push, and as OP stated, he ends up "being a dick back to him", ergo, entertaining shorty's efforts to discredit him. If they were real friends, this would just be some good old shit-talking back and fourth which would be fine. Even if you "bait" him to swing first, do you really want to be the guy known for starting a fight over some petty shit? W… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:13 PM |
| 4 | “Friend” keeps trying to square up on meCrap advice. You want to get physical because shorty's hurting your feelings. If you're that much better than him, people already know it without you having to go all silverback on him. Maybe it's not shorty who's insecure. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:27 AM |
| 3 | For those of u that got out of your shell in college. How did u do it?You're a book. College is the next chapter, people you're gonna meet from now on never read what came before. Social circles you had before college most likely won't overlap with new social circles, so you're basically starting on a clean slate. Use this to your advantage, experiment, join different groups, shape yourself and enjoy the process. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:13 AM |
| 1 | [Career] Is a major change a real solution?I'll check out the sales sub and look for info regarding pivoting and what to expect. Thanks once again. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | [Career] Is a major change a real solution?Or, how about you switch to Sales and learn flying over a few years while doing that?? This would mean taking up flying as an hobbie, which isn't my goal. I objectively keep telling myself it's too late to pursue a career in aviation, and I'm a pretty down to earth guy, I know how megalomaniac of an idea it is. But then something pops up about someone chasing their dream or just doing an U-turn in their lives and succeeding and part of me wants to join that fairytale world. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 09:50 AM |
| 1 | [Career] Is a major change a real solution?I actually feel the opposite way. It seems that everyone has a bachelor or a masters degree nowadays and having gone through it, I have to say that networking, having a diversified social life and good study groups made it a breeze. My biggest struggle was in the 1st year, before switching from the "my life is over" mindset to "now I'm here, I'll see this through the end". Thank you for your insight, let me just ask you, have you started in sales right away, or did you pivot from another field? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Universal Conversation StarterIf they feel uncomfortable talking to you, you're doing it wrong. No universal opener will trump your creepy vibes. Maybe you're not the hotshot you think you are. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Help me put this in perspective (not girl related)Looks like noone in the place where logic comes before anything else can help me rationalize not going. I've been playing my own Devil's Advocate. Thanks for your insight. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Help me put this in perspective (not girl related)Nobody's tombstone says," I should have spent more time at the office." I know this. Hell, I've told this to many people, but when it comes to me, I can't seem to enforce it. Booked the flight. Hopefully there'll be a worthy Field Report in a week. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 09:44 PM |
| 2 | A guide to cologne ?Check these out: https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8xi6m3/whats_the_best_colognesfragrances_you_know_of/ https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8k4232/what_cologne_do_you_wear/ | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:39 AM |
| 3 | What are some of your favourite songs?Pink Floyd. RHCP. Tool. Dream Theater. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone smart/experienced with in life help me with this one?The frustration of not following a career which you feel passionate about won't ever disappear. You either learn to live with it and plow through or you quit and look for something else that fulfils you. This being said, you can trust that the vast majority of people aren't working in a field they actually love. People do love money though and having enough to spend as you please is a big pro on your current field. It seems to me that you're not currently fully responsible for your bills. Don't … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:25 PM |
| 11 | What does it normally mean when a girl in LTR you matched on tinder wants to hang out?She wants to harvest your kidneys. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I can’t squat for my life.Check out Athlean-X's videos, might help your form. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNYRJNDM48I | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Constantly feel wobbly and off-balance?Laughed at most replies already, so I'll try to give you some real advice for a change. I'm assuming you're tall. This might just be a matter of correcting your posture and being more aware of it when you're on the move. Slow your pace down. Or it could be something else. I'd advise you on exposing your issue to an orthopedist. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Forgot what sort of person I am.It seems you just lack calibration. Being adaptable isn't bad. It all depends in the context. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Should I hard next this "fake alpha"?The thing here is, according to OP's description, this guy's no Chad. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Why doesn't anyone reach out to me first? Why is it that I must always be the one to do so?How does one acquire that value? How can one become somebody people like hacing around, somebody his friends actually call to invite to parties&hang out? Can you formulate a statement relevant to a subject of common interest to the whole or part of your social circle? Can you debate, give thoughtful insights with a solid theoretical or practical foundation, based on knowledge you aquired through education, working or an assorted experience you lived? Can you party hard? Do you have a skill or ha… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Why doesn't anyone reach out to me first? Why is it that I must always be the one to do so?This is true to some extent, but lets not forget that people wouldn't indulge in any sort of activity with you if you didn't provide some sort of value to them. And I'm inclined to say that when this is the case, you know it and you're able to understand that you initiating said contact and setting plans is somewhat expected and eagerly anticipated by everyone else in that social circle. What OP's describing seems more like a victimization and not coming from a mindset of simply being "tired" of… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 05:04 PM |
| 38 | Why doesn't anyone reach out to me first? Why is it that I must always be the one to do so?I had a girl friend cry over this same issue not so long ago. Like, the exact same issue. More than once actually. You could be her for all I know. Ask yourself, deep down, do you provide value to your peers? Are you someone people enjoy having around? Are your thoughts and opinions valuable to them? Do people actually have a reason to want to have you around? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 04:15 PM |
| 6 | All women have same preference?There's no way in hell that with 2 years of lifting you got anywhere near your body's full potential. But it seems to me the mental masturbation of having someone agree to your statements is all you came here for, so yeah everything is biased, no lift = no pussy, enjoy your fatties kiddo. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Trying to work out if I did good or bad, with respect to both RP behaviour and common decency, in the past, so I can do better in the future.IMO always side with your principles. To my understanding, the foundation for said principles has changed and that's what's making you feel conflicted. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Most things being equal, is the fat guy more attractive to more women than the skinny guy?r/showerthoughts | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What's the best colognes/fragrances you know of?https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8k4232/what_cologne_do_you_wear/ Some more opinions for you to read into. After some more looking around I pulled the trigger on D&G The One and fell in love with it. Am now in search for something fresher to wear on hotter days, Bvlgari Aqua will probably be my choice. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What is everyones best response to when a chick asks you for the number of women you've been with?"87 and a half" "and a half?" "there was this midget with a nice rack..." | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 11:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you OWN pictures? body language/posture that sort of thing?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yretxDwOgVA | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Is the alpha chill and calm usually?I'm guessing he throws dwarves around for fun. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Update: lousy ending to my vacationi totally lost frame here. so embarrassed and frustrated. If it helps, your frame wasn't the strongest to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to shut her up?Have her ask for her fat back and get down to making some soap. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 11:59 AM |
| 1 | dealing with girls who struggle to ever accept blame?huge waste of energy abd breath and no one she always wins FTFY | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 11:47 AM |
| 5 | Looking back: How could I have handled these Shit Tests(?!)?She then snatches my cigarette, and stubs it on the veins of her wrist. Well shit, could there be a more subtle example of don't stick your dick in crazy? In the first example I would probably switch my glass with hers and resume the convo, if it was a one time thing and I felt any playfulness from her side. Win-win, more wine and less bitchery. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Aren't good looking guys going to have the natural confidence and ugly guys no confidence of fake confidence?Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard. This doesn't get said enough. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Trip with the boysBudapest | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Should I wish a female friend happy bdayNext thing you know, ppl will be coming here asking if they should greet their mom with a kiss or a handshake. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 10:35 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with a friend that has more charisma than I do?Re-reading my reply, I feel like I might have gone a bit all over the place with my examples, as you seem quite new to TRP concept, so let me just add this - always frame it as competing with your former self and not with the other shark in the tank. You don't have to always be leading the group, because this is not about guiding the sheep, it's about becoming the wolf. Cherish your friend for providing you with material to work on yourself and use it to improve. If you want to be the one always… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a friend that has more charisma than I do?I feel this provides matter for endless debate and in the end, there won't be any definite answer. I have been quite aware of these group dynamics and been experimenting (if you can call it that) with it for a while now and actually find this an interesting topic, so I'll give you some fuel for thought from my own experience. I'll give 2 examples based on 2 friends of mine: Guy A - outfuckinggoing personality, one of those ppl that gets the party started without much effort. Thrives in being at … | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on playing poker?After finding TRP I noticed this parallel aswell. I've used poker analogies to discuss some interactions I've had in the past. There's something soothing in knowing that so little comes down to "luck" and it's actually a mix of playing your cards right, putting yourself in the right position at the right time and going with the move that will get you the biggest return over a wider time span. I wouldn't say there's any correlation regarding your own experience, other than the realization that fo… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Can I help my beta friends?Short answer: no. Long answer: every person is different, but most will fight against what TRP embodies until themselves stare down into the abyss. My advice: lead by example. Drop small nuggets of wisdom when there's any possibility for it. Don't just go telling them AWALT and shoving any books down their throat, most likely it will backfire, but find the right balance between "hey you should read this, it'll help you improve your life" and "heh guys, came across this guy saying whatever it is … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on playing poker?Poker is great, and like someone already said, a parallel can be drawn between poker concepts and TRP (I would even go as far as saying you can actually draw this parallel between poker and your everyday life, to some extent). After understanding that it all comes down to statistics and variance you can apply this same perspective to many other aspects in your everyday life. Discipline, logical thinking, reading people (when playing live), outcome independance, handling yourself under pressure..… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:58 PM |
| 2 | FR Where did I fuck up?The fact that she suggests coffee or brunch instead of drinks does seem to indicate that she thought it wasn’t a date since those are more appropriate things to do as friends. +1 Think I've read somewhere advising against this kind of plan for a first date. It's always situational though. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Like eye contact, what are some other straight forward methods of building tension?Ah first time I ever see someone with the same urge as me. Can't help it indeed. Hair bun grabbers unite! | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Starting instagram for dhv: choose minimalist or show off?2-3 a day, definitely no. Don't overthink this, it'll leak. Post when you feel like it, but don't become an insta-chick with 3+ uploads every couple days. As for how to organize it, IMO best overall pics first, add other assorted pics later or don't add them at all. You can use that later when you're on a date and you go "you should come back to mine to check -whatever cool pic on travel you talked about-" . Also, inb4 assorted social network hate. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Best text to ask girl out this weekend to see a movie?"Hey dork, what are you doing this weekend? Let's hang out, catch a quick movie" Too tryhard "I want to see ocean's 8 this weekend, you should join me" Too heavy. I'll side with whoever suggested "lets go see movie X on day Y", light and effective. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Some help with some girlsShe wants him to buy clothes for himself it seems. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 10:43 AM |
| 8 | Plate abusive boyfriendFrom what you described, you can't even be remotely sure of what you're stating. You want to be her knight in a shiny armour, go ahead, but don't come here looking for help justifying you urge to white knight. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Is TRP dead?Yep, last one out closes the door. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | She says LJBF, I shot it down, she contacts me again, now whatAnd I actually can't escalate to sex until Ramadan is over, that is in 10 days roughly.. Alright, then you got a perfect excuse to prompt your DGAF attitude for the next 10 days. I foresee you won't indulge on the "text only for logistics" motto, so at least make yourself keep texting to a minimum, be busy, meet other womem and her mind will race. Then when Ramadan is over, proceed accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:22 PM |
| 6 | She says LJBF, I shot it down, she contacts me again, now whatIndeed I am. As in you should do the exact opposite of that and don't even bother to reply. You asked if her text means that she want's to be FWB in another comment. I actually understood that as some passive-agressive bullshit and her trying to keep you as an orbiter. Rule of thumb, look at their actions, not at what they say. Meet up, escalate and then you'll know where you stand. If things go south, next and work on riding yourself from that oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:53 PM |
| 7 | She says LJBF, I shot it down, she contacts me again, now what"Good morning my love, I'm soooo sorry for not replying sooner, jolliest of days to you too!" | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:27 AM |
| 28 | How would you respond if a close friend fucked your oneitis?1 - Overcome oneitis 2 - High-five bro for banging slut ... 3 - Profit. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Can i have some personal advice on look maxing and style.I agree with everything you're saying, what I meant is that, regarding OP's question, a generally aesthetically appealing watch will already add to his overall style/looks. Without having to dive to deeply in this subject which can become quite addicting. Obviously if OP wants to get the best bang for buck he should invest some time in looking through different brands/types/mechanisms, but that's a whole another story. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Can i have some personal advice on look maxing and style.Second on the trouser roll tip, actually discovered this not so long ago. As for the watch (seiko wearer myself) I don't find the brand adds anything to the perception of the common crowd. A generally nice and appealing watch sub 50$ already adds to your general looks IMO. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 05:27 PM |
| 21 | Becoming "autonomous", relying 100% on self.The usual advice on this matter is to keep yourself as busy as possible. Humans are social animals by nature and some people just need their interactions more often than others. I consider myself to be quite a loner, I enjoy being by myself just chilling, having lunch or dinner alone (many ppl I know can't stand having their meals by themselves), going shopping, etc. I would truly like to give you tips on this subject, but in the end you simply have to come to terms with the notion of being your… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 05:10 PM |
| 3 | My first night out trying game. (long)Lets get down to the point: what was the joke on Bob the builder girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/18 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Making apologiesYou mean to tell us you stuck your dick in crazy and now you're afraid she might come back to chop it off? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting your ass kicked.Wrong mindset my dude, as it's been addressed several times already, even if you win you lose. In this setup, getting in a fist fight is always a no-no. You reacting to what some random SAID (it's mere words, no action) is already a major loss of control/frame and you're not supposed to lose frame. Shrug it off, ignore it, just don't let it get to you. She's not a damsel in distress and you don't have to prove anything. If it went the other way around and you had thrown the first punch and event… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Big dick gameDo the naked man. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | which tv characters are alpha ,or red pilled for you? As in having a tole model at the back of your head.Josh (Jay Baruchel) | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | which tv characters are alpha ,or red pilled for you? As in having a tole model at the back of your head.Man Seeking Woman Do exactly the opposite of the main character. Pretty good comedy regardless. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | My friend just fucked my girlfriend and bragged about it to all our social circle friends.Plow through it OP, in the end of the day, it's their reputation that's ruined. She's a cheating whore and he's a scumbag who was never your friend. And never forget: AWALT | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How can I earn 5k this summer?I hear a kidney pays well these days. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Will crush like me more now that Im attractive?I believe you're looking for r/rateme. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked if i had a girlfriendIf you come back in 2 weeks telling us you smashed, you did good. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I being shittested?She told me over the phone that she wanted to (try for the first time in her life) to have a more pure relationship. How christian of her. Abandon ship. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:28 PM |
| 6 | Does this mean I’m beta (sarcasm)Don't mind me, just seconding this. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Want good advice? Only 10% of the population are worth talking to.Exactly. You better know the secret handshake, otherwise you're part of the 90%. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Is this Power Play?Just another example of women not taking responsability. Says she's done for, but doesn't care enough to take action, ergo leaving the responsability to you. Hold the door open for her to leave. And while you're at it, let other women in. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Please advise. I am 14 and a homeschool student but next year I have the option of attending high school for 9-12 or attending my local community college and continuing with homeschool.Go to high school. You're ahead of everyone else already, it should be a breeze. Also, If I were to choose the high school option, the classes would be incredibly boring and frustrating. The material would be stuff that I have already covered and I have grown accustomed to doing things my own way. I am slightly worried that I would lose interest in school because it would seem pointless. Don't look at it like that. If indeed you do find it easier, you'll simply have more time and motivation to d… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:08 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Dealing with guilt from Alpha Widowing a girl.Congratulations, you played yourself. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 0 | How Do I Stop Stepping on my Own Dick?Roll it around your waist, it's called the super sayan. EDIT: After reading, I'll side with the other comment. Don't overthink the concepts. There's no curve, it's a plateau. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 08:04 PM |
| 289 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTestThey're breaking the 4th wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 2 | My best friend changed once I got a hot girlfriendSome people are just toxic. Deep down, unless he's some sort of sociopath, I'd bet David resents himself more than you resent him, because you were a good influence and he failed to hold himself to the standard you expected of him. 10 years later and after you drifted apart, he's most likely capable of understanding you were a friend to him and he didn't reciprocate (at least according to this story). Keep on the right track OP and most importantly, don't lose touch with your altruistic and self… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Had a oneitis, recently she started showing more interest.Let me just add, don't ask her to join. Assume she'll be there. "Hey X, I'm gonna have a movienight around 7 pm, bring popcorn" | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 10:49 AM |
| 4 | The scary sex wordDo you even understand what dread is and when it's meant to be applied? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 10:44 AM |
| 2 | My female Therapist is flaking on me. What do?Ah shit, you're right. OP, GFTOT | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:14 PM |
| 5 | My female Therapist is flaking on me. What do?From my understanding of this matter, finding a therapist who you match with, isn't that simple. As OP stated he already went to 10 other therapists before, so simply ditching this one shouldn't come so easy to him. To OP: Like someone else stated, her being a professional, there's an obligation towards you as a client and you're on your utmost right to confront her. Try asking her if she can at least recommend another therapist who might be able to schedule more appointments with you, if you cl… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it even possible to become 'alpha' if you have a small body frame?One of the most alpha guys I know is ~5'7". The point is to improve for yourself. So you feel better in your own skin. If you don't find your own well-being worth it, noone can help you. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:31 PM |
| 39 | I cheatedHer view: I cheated on her and she can never trust me. My view: I spun plates when I thought we were through, and I was loyal to her when I knew we were together. "WE WERE ON A BREAK" | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I being cock-blocked or there's something else at play?This time though, another woman sitted there said something along the line of "now we bring each other cakes?", and the girl standing up clearly changed her mind after hearing this. You could've turned this around. It was your silence that had her change her mind. Agree and amplify. "yeah, it's your turn next" or "who let you in on our deal?" Would shut her down and encourage the other girl. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Got taken advantage of by a fat chick while I was drunkYeah, meant to reply to him. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 10:00 AM |
| 1 | What cologne do you wear?Used to steal some of this god sent juice of masculinity from my older brother when I was a kid. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What cologne do you wear?Also, keep in mind that despite I reduced it to "panty-droper colognes", your odor is part of your image and should be cared for in every social or professional interaction, with or without cologne. The smell of some hydrant lotions has proven quite effective in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What cologne do you wear?Indeed, Sauvage and YSL seem to be the top picks. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 07:44 PM |
| 0 | What cologne do you wear?Noted. Thought it to be a myth actually, but I've already found some info on it. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | What cologne do you wear?This scheme comes from your own interpretation of each season's scent? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What cologne do you wear?1 light poof on each wrist and rub them behind the ears is what I've done in the few times I wore any cologne. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What cologne do you wear?I've spent a lot of money on cologne over the years This is why I never pulled the trigger on any top-tier brand cologne, I'd just want to try another and another, and I never had funds to support that "addiction". A good cologne's become pretty much a luxury item, 60-80€ for 100ml is insanity. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:51 PM |
| 2 | I'm 5'11. Yet I feel insecure when I see guys or gals taller than me.186 cm here (6'1''), I automatically dislike anyone taller than me. Life indeed. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Getting a straight hair would increase mu SMV?Everyone knows you should pick your hairstyle from one of those pre-approved by the regime. I don't remember seeing curls there. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Possible plate couldn’t hang out. Now what?This guy games. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Got taken advantage of by a fat chick while I was drunkWhat I want advice on is what I do about the fat chick and how to approach that, because I’m sure I’ll see her around again. Don't even acknowledge her existence. Maintain frame. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Got taken advantage of by a fat chick while I was drunkYou're probably the same guy who blames a victim of domestic violence for getting beaten up by his/her counterpart amirite? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:33 AM |
| 21 | Never be an "employee"I find the concept of Body Language and how it impacts your every day life and interactions fascinating. This was a good read, would be interested in reading your study. Examples that come from real world interactions add a lot to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Couldn't do itI believe what he meant was for us to be brutal on him. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 08:38 PM |
| 14 | Those of us who are "Enjoying the Decline": is it normal to not only be enjoying it, but to literally want there to be *more* decline?"Some men just want to watch the world burn" - Ghandi | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Help me text this modelHe is being serious. It's a light-hearted, goofish way to get the convo started and you could instantly tell where you stood with her, depending on her reaction/effort to answer. Without having the slightest idea of what you talked about during your approach, I wouldn't advise this though. I'm assuming you kept a serious and non-chalant posture and if she could perceive the age difference, she'll probably find it creepish if what you text doesn't match how you presented yourself. I suggest you g… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | What happened to the sidebar???https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Field Report 4 - Got a number!Still, you originally stated he should be prepared to call time out if "she flakes or isn't interested". That alone shouldn't be a motive to run. Now obvisouly if she starts crying rape and pointing at him the next time he sets foot there, it's a whole different matter. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Field Report 4 - Got a number!So what, he saw a good looking girl and asked her out. If she rejects him and he never shows his face at that gym again, there was 0 improvement on his part. There's no big deal, ignore her presence there, maintain frame and do your thing. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How to be more subtle with my dread?This. Do you even have any reason to believe she would cheat on you and that it was some random dude texting her and not a girl friend? That was some pretty nuclear reaction. Get your shit together. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 07:12 PM |
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