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| 10 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'? | Discussion | _johnny_j_bravo_ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 08:14 PM |
| 7 | New Masculine Fraternities | _johnny_j_bravo_ | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/20 01:49 PM |
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| 1 | Is the relationship I seek to have with a woman considered wrong by the good book?You didn't ask me, and I never post here, but: First, I don't think what you're talking about is unlawful. But it is unnatural--it's not how God made the cosmos. It sounds like you're looking for an excuse to not try hard at something you're not good at. The solution is to practice and get better at leading. The Holy Spirit gives us the power to improve ourselves for the sake of our families and the kingdom. | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | New Masculine FraternitiesThanks for the reply. Fellowship isn't exactly what I'm after. I want action. I host poker nights and attend my local Beer&Hymns group, but that's not scratching the itch. The comment above about struggling and fighting together against a common obstacle or otherwise is closer. I suppose I could look into the Kiwani's. That hadn't occurred to me. The direction the culture has been going the last several decades, though, makes me think I won't find what I'm looking for in an older institution lik… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | New Masculine FraternitiesThanks for your reply. I agree, the best thing would be to form my own "tribe" with folks around me, but so far, no dice. Maybe that's because I'm not doing enough interesting things to find those interesting people--idk. I like the structure to these groups, as well, though. That structure, plus the team-building struggletogetherness are what attract me to them. Best case scenario would be if I could find folks in one of those groups in my town. Yes, some of them are quite expensive, but The St… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How often does your husband help you with housework?If he is the captain and you are his first mate, then, yes, you should obey him. If you two are merely roommates, then, no, no need to obey his leadership (he doesn't have any). By saying the jobs are all ultimately his, I mean that they are all ultimately his responsibility. It may be your fault that the floor isn't swept when friends come over, but if it is his house, it reflects poorly on him. It may reflect poorly on you, too, but the fact remains that even if sweeping had been considered th… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/18 11:10 PM |
| 3 | How often does your husband help you with housework?He thinks you have your set of responsibilities and he has his. That's understandable. It's also incorrect. He is the man. Everything belongs to him and everything is his responsibility. He sees you as a worthy wife to whom he delegates many responsibilities. You should accept that with with grace and dignity. Where he is missing the point, and which, I hope he would understand if you explained it to him in a calm, impersonal way, is that if his house is not in order, it is HIS house that is not… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/03/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?That's not quite what I meant. It isn't that I think anyone can "not ever do any housework, not pick up after himself, not help you when you ask for it, balks and whines if you ask him to do something". Rather, I think those don't apply to anyone. Never does house work? Like, never? No, of course he has done housework at some point. That's what I was getting at with my reply: your comment doesn't express something real about the world - it expresses how you feel about a given situation. You may … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: How do you respond to the claim that TRP is a bunch of bitter low-SMV/low-RMV men (or bitter male divorcees or bitter men stuck in extremely toxic marriages) who view the world through a very specific lens?First half of the question commits the genetic fallacy and/or ad hominem; the second half is obviously true—everyone views the world through a very specific lens. The question is which lens is the right one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?At what point does this go from "he should compromise with her" to "he should do what she wants when she wants it"? Surely you think there is a line, I'm just curious where it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 12:33 AM |
| 1 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?Wallstreet's comment really hit a nerve, eh? The trouble is that a man and his wife can have different valuations for a particular task, its importance, but also its urgency. If a wife finds herself thinking something is more urgent than her man does, and she can do it herself, she should just do the thing without projecting motives onto her man. I think that's pretty simple. Of course, I also tend to think that men should, as often as they can, take advantage of an opportunity to show his wife … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/17 12:30 AM |
| 2 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?he doesn't ever do any housework, doesn't pick up after himself, doesn't help you when you ask for it, balks and whines if you ask him to do something. All of these are so universal and general that they don't actually apply to any real people. They do, however, reflect how a wife might feel about her husband on a given day. But, what if she's wrong? A man should want to validate his wife's feelings, erring on the side of doing so too often rather than not often enough--just because women need t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 11:57 PM |
| 2 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?tell that to the kid who made your iPhone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 11:46 PM |
| 1 | What makes a husband a 'lazy husband'?Right. There is such a thing as laziness, and as much as a man is able, he should seek to eradicate it - not even for his wife's sake, but for the sake of himself, or his god, or his job, etc. However, when the question arises of whether a wife thinks/feels her husband is lazy, we must grant the possibility that she is wrong. In that case, where a man is not lazy, but a wife feels he is, what is a man to do? He may himself become resentful, but that's worthless, isn't it? What should he do to as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/17 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Is highlighting your hair considered as fucking gay?It's as gay as any other thing you would categorize as a "cosmetic procedure" (that isn't remedial, of course). If you have to "go and get [it] done," it's probably gay; eg, manicure, highlights, waxing, etc. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 04:08 PM |
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