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| 39 | Real life examples of High Value Men you know | DISCUSSION | _ladybusiness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 05:32 PM |
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| 74 | "As a rape victim, is it okay that I’m not into rape play?" The fact that any young woman asks this question is disgusting evidence at the harm a man who watches porn causes. NEVER do a sex act that isn't pleasurable for you.There is literally no wrong or invalid reason to NOT be into fetishized sexual violence. I’m horrified by the implication that a rape victim of all people thinks she has to justify her discomfort. To hell with kink shaming. The BDSM community gets a few short years of mainstream awareness and shit like this is already normalized. We need to push back and point out how this is a smokescreen for predators to recruit and groom victims while claiming they consent to the abuse, and a way to self-harm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:33 PM |
| 231 | The nonsense men read to convince themselves they are high valueIt’s interesting how women define being high value as self-improvement, self-respect, and healthy standards/boundaries, while men define high value as being able to get away with abusing and exploiting women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 19 | Moral of the story, never date a LVM male: UPDATE I [32\m] overheard my girlfriend [32\f] tell her sister [27\f] that she is "dating down" being with me because she makes more money than me... and is "surprised that I don't have roommates" I make 135k a year she makes 205k.Yep, this was really just his insecurities coming to the surface more than anything demeaning she actually said to him. Her observation just triggered his already existing fears of being unattractive... the whole IVF comment comes off as projection. “Nuh uh, you’re 33 so you’re old and you’re the one who can’t afford to be picky!!1!” Scrotes get mad, high value men level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:37 PM |
| 36 | Moral of the story, never date a LVM male: UPDATE I [32\m] overheard my girlfriend [32\f] tell her sister [27\f] that she is "dating down" being with me because she makes more money than me... and is "surprised that I don't have roommates" I make 135k a year she makes 205k.He is deeply insecure to blow up that much over an offhand comment made in a private conversation. TBH he didn’t value her much either if he didn’t rise to the occasion to impress her. Notice how he didn’t try to prove that he’s her equal by demonstrating he has lots of other valuable qualities, but went straight to butthurt mode and wanted to humiliate her. That did absolutely nothing to prove that she was wrong about dating down, just that there were even more substantial reasons why he was be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 83 | LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮Thank you for this comment, it has inspired me. Now if a man ever asks for anal again in my life I will respond with “no thanks, shitdick”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 20 | Today's Lesson in Objectification - Women <=> CommoditiesI know this is beside the point, but what a weird assumption that someone selling a wedding dress is divorced. Women give them away to charity or to friends and relatives all the time. Maybe they never even wore the dress! It couldve been inherited or altered or upcycled from a thrift store for profit. People flip thrift store finds all the time. Wedding dresses are also not necessarily as sentimental to every bride as this guy thinks they are. Sometimes they’re really a waste of closet space th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:36 PM |
| 97 | It's Not That We're Entitled - It's That You're Not Worth ItWomen are absolutely entitled to respect, kindness, happiness, equality/mutuality, having their needs met, and feeling valued and cared for in their romantic relationships. Anyone is. Those are not unreasonable demands. If you lack any of those things with your partner you’re in some form of an unhealthy or abusive situation. At the very least, there’s no reason to be together without them. Relationships should enhance life; while nobody is perfect, your partner should still add more to it than … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | It's Not That We're Entitled - It's That You're Not Worth ItEdit: accidentally replied to bot oops | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:36 PM |
| 41 | The downvotes I get for saying that grabbing you gf's ass and saying you'd like to fuck her isn't foreplay. Guess what? Apparently sex doesn't require foreplay every time! I'll know in ten years when I've had more sex. Honey, I've had more than 10 years of bad sex, that's why I'm saying this 🤣Porn has gotten these cumbrained zombies used to the idea of instant gratification with no reciprocation. They’re shallow creatures of quantity over quality who don’t see the value in sex with a real person if they can’t put in as little effort as possible. They don’t understand that porn is fake and their dicks are, in fact, incredibly low value assets in and of themselves that will not make women writhe and moan with ecstasy in real life by merely existing. If they want to be good at sex at a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 21 | Let that LVM goAnd this is why we HAVE to pay attention to the little red flags from day 1 and take them seriously. The LVM who can’t handle little problems and everyday setbacks is not going to suddenly become a dependable stand-up guy when shit truly hits the fan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 51 | Ladies: You all deserve to be treated like gold.I never appreciated just how feminist Sailor Moon could be as a kid. I think it comes through a lot better in the original Japanese, I grew up with the old butchered 90s dub and I guess they watered it down into the more marketable Americanized “girl power” stuff. The sailor moon crystal remake also kind of hits you over the head with a performative sort of feminism that doesn’t feel as natural and real as the first anime. Maybe it’s just because they don’t have as much time to develop the relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 8 | How would you react if your boyfriend wouldn't go down on you unless you shaved? Would you break up with him? Or would you consider shaving a small courtesy you're willing to grant?I think that something being a big waste of time and money that doesn’t do anything practical or even pleasurable for you would definitely fall under “generally not beneficial”, but it’s good to think about all the specific factors that might include. 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 03:22 AM |
| 98 | 8 years on a person like this? Girl, you better run now!SCROTESTRADAMUS 🤣💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:29 PM |
| 58 | 8 years on a person like this? Girl, you better run now!A lot of men seem incapable of genuine love or even basic human empathy, but they also usually lack self-awareness. I must say, a man who is consciously and intentionally trying to cultivate the most empty, pointless, soulless “relationship” possible is a whole new level of psychopathy. Honestly, what kind of a stupid, insane fuckwit of a man gets upset because his girlfriend made him food and wanted to go outside on a nice day? Who would get offended by that?! Does he also start to REEEEEEE if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 35 | How would you react if your boyfriend wouldn't go down on you unless you shaved? Would you break up with him? Or would you consider shaving a small courtesy you're willing to grant?I have guidelines I like to follow for things like this: 1. Is he willing to do the same for me? If he prefers it when you do [x thing], then you have the right to voice your own preferences and expect reciprocity in similar areas. If he doesn’t want to be held to a certain standard, then he’s a hypocrite for insisting others meet his. It’s safe to assume a guy like that won’t care about your feelings in every other aspect of your relationship. 2. Would I be genuinely ok with doing it as long as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 52 | The dangers of befriending a pickme: A cautionary taleI’ve seen pickme acquaintances and coworkers convert their friends into pickmes (whether consciously through peer pressure or just by rubbing off on them) and it never ends well. If they’re charismatic and attractive enough to make it seem like all the male attention they get makes their lives fun and glamorous, they are particularly dangerous because naive/young/sheltered/insecure women aren’t going to see this behavior for what it really is. I am convinced a lot of pickmes see female friendshi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 07:26 PM |
| 17 | Evening all, I’m working on an FDS oldies/rock/ soul/ instrumental/ singer songwriter/ vintage/ whatever playlist, inviting your suggestions‘Independent Women’ by Destinys Child is pretty iconic. Post-JayZ pickme Beyoncé makes me sad, but she actually has quite a few FDS flavored songs. ‘Run The World (Girls)’ is still epic, and ‘Irreplaceable’ could’ve been written by this sub. ‘What have you done for me lately’ and ‘Nasty’ by Janet Jackson too! ‘Respect’ by Aretha because duh. ‘You don’t own me’ by Lesley Gore. ‘Just Fine’ by Mary J Blige. ‘No Scrubs’ by TLC is the most hilarious mainstream pop song about LVM ever recorded. I reme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 65 | 🧐“Women don’t have feelings or problems. They exist in some kind of inaccessible vagina dimension where material reality doesn’t effect them. I also lack empathy to such a delusional degree that I think my extremely commonplace and mundane personal struggles are actually the most profound tragedy in all the human experience.” Get the fuck off of the internet and get some fucking therapy, incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:12 AM |
| 6 | Never consent to rough sex. Never be with a person who demands rough sex. Don’t go to jail or get put in the ground for a “kink”He found himself a very stupid pickme (literally the first girl he could find after our breakup) and got married fairly quickly after high school. A few of her friends even came up to me with concerns about him, I let them know everything but apparently they couldn’t save her. Last I heard was from a former classmate who used to work with him. They said he’s a huge loser with no actual career skills (because the lazy fuck cheated his way through community college lol) and everyone at their offic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 41 | That should go really well.I’m guessing the goal is to learn how to attract the same kind of men as the shaved chimpanzees with room temperature IQs pictured here. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:53 PM |
| 156 | The scrodacity of this guy!He thinks she’s a good person, but not someone who he loves and values because of it. God, I hope she realizes that and dumps him. “Plain Jane” she may be, but I bet she’s still more attractive than he is. You’d be amazed at how entitled some men are while also being objectively ugly. Probably why he’s trying to knock her down a peg to soothe his ego, because he knows she could do better. This is why I will not settle for anything less than a man I know is super into me, and who shows it consist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:48 PM |
| 13 | Never consent to rough sex. Never be with a person who demands rough sex. Don’t go to jail or get put in the ground for a “kink”I agree completely. I graduated high school before smartphones existed and every household had internet access, but even back then the new ways to access free porn was starting to cause problems. My first ever boyfriend proudly showed off his disturbingly large collection of pirated hentai cartoons and tried to get me interested in watching all sorts of weird shit like that. He ended up raping me with the excuse that it’s not fair to have sexual boundaries if I had agreed to be in a relationship… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 10:11 PM |
| 50 | Never consent to rough sex. Never be with a person who demands rough sex. Don’t go to jail or get put in the ground for a “kink”Once upon a time, “rough” sex just meant anything that was wilder than romantic candlelit missionary style to the rhythm of slow jams or something. Now it’s anything that stops just short of being charged for manslaughter (and even then, “oops we got carried away in the bedroom!” is literally getting men off the hook for killing women). Why are so many women out there insane enough to think that’s normal, much less good? I swear to god, violent kinks can only come from unresolved trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 14 | Empathic women of FDS... how do you radiate that bad bitch energy despite being quiet, reserved, and/or influenced by the feelings of others?I’ve always been quiet and reserved, but people have said they find me “intimidating”. It’s funny because I really am a huge gentle softie on the inside and nothing about my personality is cold or abrasive. I’m apparently an INFJ, if that means anything to you. I guess coming off more as mysterious and aloof rather than shy and submissive is the key. You don’t need to pretend to be something you’re not, but you also don’t need to let the whole world know what you really think all the time, eithe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:15 PM |
| 27 | I’ll take 2 of each😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Finding A High Earning High Value Male (The "Woo-Woo" Way)I am super unclear on what the concept of “twin flames” actually are and why relationships with that label seem to end up being complete disasters. They way they’re portrayed seems to encourage women to romanticize emotionally unavailable, unstable partners. Even if they were a real thing, how do naive and desperate people keep themselves from conflating the two? I’m generally supportive of “law of attraction” type thinking if for no other reason than it can really boost your confidence and help… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:58 PM |
| 73 | The dangers of a "hoe phase"People don’t understand the difference between quality and quantity when it comes to a lot of things, sex included. There’s no way you’re going to discover what you like having nothing but unsatisfying, awful sex with loser men who have no desire to make it a mutual experience, or even safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 158 | At first I hoped this is not real :/I get so uncomfortable when I read these stories about women who think they’re assholes for trying to enforce the boundaries they made perfectly clear but their boyfriends constantly violate on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:20 PM |
| 7 | RPW pickmeisha agrees to “open situationship” with BF where he can fuck others and she can’t. This is bold, unadulterated male bullshit on full display. LADIES, THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I understand the skepticism, especially on reddit where men have a reputation for being attention whores with their little creative writing projects. But there’s a kernel of truth here, even if most women wouldn’t post thoughts like this online with such a lack of self-consciousness. How many women out there are already so gaslit and desperate for approval that they have quietly resigned themselves to all sorts of abuse from men? RP women in particular are already well-groomed to second guess th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Now, how the hell do I reply to this LOLWhy can’t they type complete sentences? Chatting online is one of the most low-pressure forms of communication possible, it should be easy to present yourself well. Good luck finding a genuine soulmate with booty call levels of effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 122 | How do I even make a title for thisSexual initiation camps? So this level of male depravity is institutionalized over there? I have no words. This woman, however, is a warrior goddess tier QUEEN. May all the girls she’s saved follow in her footsteps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 48 | 😒🙄🙄🙄“I can’t believe this brief interaction with a total stranger was disappointing and didn’t result in fulfilling all my unrealized dreams. I have been personally victimized by every woman in existence.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Maybe bias confirmation.. but anyone else notice HOW MANY Sagittarius men there are on dating apps?Haha this one guy I knew fits that description perfectly, his birthday is sometime in December so he’s probably a Sag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 44 | Infant is left with multiple broken bones after being abused by the mother's partner. Redditor implies the relationship was to blame and suggests "you have to wonder what his mental state was." NO, YOU FUCKING DON'T.When a man does something heinous, we have to sympathize with his special man pain (it’s different and more significant than non-man pain, you know) and wonder who drove him to it. Because it’s not like men are irrational and lose their shit over things that don’t justify going to extremes, right? There always has to be some woman at fault to some degree. If she didn’t provoke him herself by just existing, she should have at least been a psychic who could see his meltdown coming and taken respon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Unsent LetterUnsent letters are a great way to work through things while releasing the temptation to try and get the last word in. Remember that only you can give yourself closure. You don’t need him to validate anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Interesting side effect of levelling/growing up ... hard to listen to Drake lolI’m getting R. Kelly 2.0 vibes from this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Why would a man be a bachelor later in life if he claims he has always wanted a family?Thankfully it seems like he hasn’t so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Why would a man be a bachelor later in life if he claims he has always wanted a family?This was my ex. Had 2 long term relationships in a row (I was lucky lady #2) that burned up his mid-late 20s and all of his 30s. Always claimed to want a wife and kids, both myself and his former gf wanted the same, but he never actually did anything about it at any point in his life. When I left (the relationship ended for several other reasons on top of this one, in hindsight there were a lot of LVM red flags), he claimed he’d been saving up for a ring and was totally going to propose. In the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 09:18 PM |
| 22 | My brain fell out of my head while I was reading this. Much like the writer's did before they started typing.Well they got the “unworthy” part right. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 07:11 PM |
| 57 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?My mindset is if a man who is an exceptionally good person takes an interest in me and there’s no red flags, I’ll give it a chance. But I’m not online dating and there’s no way in hell I’m going to initiate or otherwise try to chase men. I’m focused on living my best life and don’t need to waste time that I could spend doing what I want to instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:46 AM |
| 40 | FYI: any man that thinks women "need to be humbled" is LV and deserves a kick in the nuts. Avoid at all costs & heed red flags.Now do they mean humbled in the sense that they seem to only meet genuinely arrogant, entitled women that need a reality check? Or “humbled” in the sense that women with the audacity to act with even baseline self-esteem are threatening to a man’s ego (because dealing with a fully-realized human being exposes his own inadequacies), and thus they need to be viciously humiliated and degraded until they hate themselves and are easier to control? Because it usually seems to be the latter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 67 | "mEn dOn'T hAvE a WaLL"I believe there’s a lot of men out there who will never hit the wall... if only because hitting the wall necessarily implies that you were actually attractive at some point. No point to the concept when so many of them smacked right into it at birth. Even for lots of the men who could have had a prime they ruin all their potential by being lazy, unhealthy slobs when they’re young. A shit diet, poor hygiene, and overall bad lifestyle habits can do a lot to ruin good genetics. For all the fuckboys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:41 PM |
| 7 | These menUgh, I think nearly every girl who survived adolescence received the double standard treatment at some point. I was apparently never a bigger “slut” than when I was a virgin who turned a guy down. I can also confirm that if another girl didn’t like me for whatever reason I would usually hear about it secondhand. We would just stay out of each other’s way and nothing ever came of it. If it was a friend we eventually talked it out and made up, or we both could sense that the friendship had just na… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 24 | These menIt’s the same false equivalency that people use when they try to claim that feminism is “reverse sexism” or something. Women are just not taking any more shit from men and calling it out, with the end goal of men improving their behavior so women don’t have to suffer horrific human rights abuses at their hands. Whereas every “men’s movement” pretty much started out as a circle-jerk of bitter, resentful entitlement about not being able to control women that eventually devolved into an insane cult… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 06:08 PM |
| 45 | These menHa, that’s nowhere near an unpopular opinion. It’s practically a meme at this point. I hate that stupid trope about how school aged boys “fight it out” with honor when they dislike someone, while girls are these amoral Machiavellian psychological terrorists. Such bullshit. The worst girl bullies I knew were just petty and insecure. If they went after someone, they at least had a reason to (even if it wasn’t a mature or a logical one, because teenagers). They might have disliked another girl who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 11 | Don't even know where to startWell, thankfully he’s being open and “ethical” about it, but it makes me really uncomfortable to see that kind of a qualifier. There should be a baseline expectation of ethical behavior for literally everyone. That would be a fascinating topic for a thread — I imagine it’s not a lifestyle that’s naturally churning out a whole lot of gentlemen, but can a man be consensually non-monogamous and an HVM specifically for women who practice polyamory? What would that look like? Can HVW be into non-mono… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 9 | The Little Mermaid Story by Hans Christian AndersonThere’s a theory based on some of the letters he wrote that the story was an allegory for Andersen’s own unrequited love in real life for another man. That context makes it more poignant. But yes, if you read it at face value it really is about a naive teenage girl throwing her life away for the sake of the first man she likes who barely acknowledges her in return. Maybe you could put a spin on it where the Sea Witch turns out to be the good guy. Maybe her spell is trying to give the mermaid som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:08 PM |
| 174 | As if being single is a disease 🙄Wow, single for two whole entire years! I guess when you’re in your early 20s and a complete idiot that feels like a significant amount of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Dr. Toolz wants you all to know...LOL no they can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | 99% sure there'll be a double standardOof, yeah. Although in this case specifically the focus on “preserving Western civilization” makes it sound like a white supremacist dog whistle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 06:50 PM |
| 12 | 99% sure there'll be a double standardI wonder what these men think they need to improve about themselves in order to be worthy of attracting the one-dimensional tradwife caricature of their dreams. I guess they all must already be a glorious chiseled übermensch ready to provide for a suitable aryan bride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:01 AM |
| 129 | You know if a woman had done this she would have been roasted in the commentsI love how it looks like everyone immediately took a snapshot, probably to point and laugh with all their friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 63 | Apparently you can be banned from r/relationship_advice for “pornshaming”. Not liking porn is apparently a slippery slope to “bigotry” according to the mods.That’s ridiculous. If they’re talking about the negatives of porn use from a science-based perspective or defending an OP who has boundaries about it in a relationship, that’s not shaming. Not their fault if some wankers feel ashamed being exposed to reality. What about non-porn users who express their personal distaste without judging anyone in particular, but get shamed as being “prudes” or “insecure” and harassed for it? Any rules about that? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasShe was pretty liberated and ambitious for her time. Being perceived as a threat to power is what really did her in, not her desperation to hold onto a shitty man. She made sure her daughter would be cared for by trustworthy advisors who had a positive influence on her growing up. As a result, Elizabeth went on to become literally the most iconic queen of all time and the original independent HVW who didn’t need a man in her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasThat, and staunchly defending her pedophile brother. His victim was ELEVEN YEARS OLD. There was enough DNA evidence and witness testimony to convict him. She could have used her platform to help victims instead, imagine how powerful that might have been. But she’d rather destroy her reputation for this worthless clown and pay all of his bills instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 106 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasI only know anything about them thanks to Shallon Lester’s videos (lol), but Kylie Jenner and Khloe Kardashian sticking with their worthless sperm donors is proof that money cannot buy confidence (but it can buy therapy, which they both desperately need). Whitney Houston letting Bobby Brown utterly wreck her life is a genuinely tragic example. I consider him indirectly responsible for the death of his own child as well. And not an iota of remorse or desire to own up to any of his past behavior. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:32 PM |
| 45 | New Red Flag Vocabulary Word: SimpThe redpill phenomenon makes it so painfully clear how men tend to externalize their depression and self-loathing through anger against others (as opposed to women who internalize it and blame themselves). That and all the mass shootings, terrorism, and domestic violence. Imagine if these NVMs spent half the time and effort on genuine self-improvement that they do on trying to make the world even more of a misogynistic hellscape. Even if they achieved their incel fever dreams, they can never out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:13 PM |
| 11 | Proof negging doesn’t work: Olivia Wilde shares her husbands opening line...That, unfortunately, is the point. It’s a technique for loser men whose only hope for success is with low-hanging fruit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:35 PM |
| 71 | Letting your man check out other women's body's is NOT how to keep him faithful.Agreed. I don’t believe another woman’s attractiveness takes away from my own, but blatantly checking out someone else right in front of you is just a form of negging. Or proof that he’s not really that into me. Either way, what’s the point of keeping a guy like that around? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 05:02 PM |
| 328 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!“You just have to do it until it doesn’t hurt anymore.” Yeah, that sounds really sex positive and empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:49 PM |
| 12 | Krystal Ball takes apart Liberal feminist smears of Joe Biden accuser. More evidence that LibFems are just left wing pickmeishas who are feminist when convenient.Spot on analysis. He didn’t bother to seek justice for Anita Hill and even seemed to be passively obstructing her case, why should any woman think he’s “one of the good ones”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:03 PM |
| 115 | Men who like watching sports are so unattractiveWatching sports in and of itself isn’t necessarily bad. I really enjoy some professional women’s sports myself and would love to see them get more popular. It’s a particular level of immature fanboy obnoxiousness that I cannot stand. Being a petty douchebag about team rivalries and getting actually mad about losing are symptoms of a man who is almost certainly low value in general. To no one’s surprise they are often blatantly sexist as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Should I ask my HVW friend to dump him?This could be a problem if he wanted it to escalate. Some men let a fetish take over their lives to the point where it starts derailing their relationships. But unless you have some evidence that this is the case, don’t overanalyze based on one data point that you don’t know the actual scope of. For all you know their sex life is extremely light and playful rather than the horrifying BDSM dungeon you might be imagining. Even if things did get weird with him it sounds like your friend can handle … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:48 PM |
| 22 | How to start over after dating a LVM?Regain the sense of self that you lost being in a parasitic relationship. Level up and focus on your own needs. You may be completely out of touch with your feelings and desires after a LVM has drained you emotionally for so long. Read through the advice in the handbook to understand where the “pick me” mentality comes from and how to grow out of it. Make sure you know what negative cycles need to be broken before you start dating again. Grow your confidence and consciously act with self-respect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Serious question: are you still allowed to be a part of FDS even if you don't 100% agree with everything?It’s not a religion. You’re free to pick and choose whatever works for you. However, don’t be surprised if you say something on this sub that’s a little naive and get a few no-bullshit replies that may seem harsh. Women aren’t given a lot of leeway to be blunt and direct in everyday life, so the tone around here might take some getting used to. But not dancing around the truth is a good quality to work on in yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:52 PM |
| 15 | This pandemic is making a lot of women realise they have LVM partnersIt’s like these men are angry and sulking that “their” women are taking care of other people and don’t have the energy to coddle them, and therefore should be punished. I would be surprised if I didn’t already know men get jealous of their own newborn children “taking away” a wife’s attention. Truly pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:44 PM |
| 15 | Is he serious????!It’s natural for female hyenas to dominate the males. It’s natural for male seahorses to carry young in their bodies. It’s natural for male birds to have to look beautiful to impress females. It’s natural for female praying mantises to decapitate males after sex. Y’all really want to use “nature” as an excuse? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Real life examples of High Value Men you knowI agree. I try to approach any men I might date with a neutral mindset, just paying attention to the facts in front of me until there’s enough data points to make a judgement (and that’s where FDS is extremely helpful). I’m not optimistic that most of them will be keepers, but that’s the point of dating. It’d be great to find a worthwhile connection, but if I don’t find one worth the trouble that’s nothing to be devastated about. There’s nothing missing in my life, and singleness is so much bett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Real life examples of High Value Men you knowThat’s lovely, I’m happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Real life examples of High Value Men you knowThey aren’t emotionally capable, they aren’t providers, they are just lonely or horny. I think it’s generally true that women expect to be the givers in a relationship (and we’re socialized that way), which explains a lot of pickme behavior. What man wouldn’t want a woman who twists herself into knots to please him? One day it’ll work, right?? Maybe he’ll finally appreciate me if I try twice as hard! The intentions are good, but this behavior will naturally attract entitled men who only want a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Real life examples of High Value Men you knowI appreciate this comment and I agree with you. While I understand the need for financial stability and that a man with career ambitions can be attractive, our current economic system is also not exactly a perfect meritocracy. It can and does reward people without much of a positive work ethic (or just ethics in general). For that reason I wouldn’t put making a ton of money that high up on the list either. Sincerity and effort are more valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Real life examples of High Value Men you knowThat’s a very refreshing anecdote given how much we hear about “tech bro” culture in the STEM world. Do you think there’s something unique about their backgrounds or your particular line of work that helps make it a less toxic environment? Maybe your hiring managers have a talent for attracting and vetting good candidates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart and intelligent women?Maybe some do on paper, if their identity is tied up in their own intellectual superiority. Of course that’s only as long as she isn’t outclassing him somehow, or otherwise starts using that brain to challenge his bullshit. It’s a particular type of narcissism. We’ve all met guys who looove to explain things even if no one asked and no one is interested. LVM will find any opportunity to talk down to a woman no matter how smart she is. And he doesn’t want to hear any feedback either. HVM find wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:35 PM |
| 34 | Be wary of men that say they want an ‘independent woman’I’ve learned that it’s great for a man to not be intimidated by an independent woman, but never underestimate the depths some men will sink to by using faux-feminism as a way to manipulate women. Be wary of the performative “woke” man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 05:38 PM |
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