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| 1 | Q4W: Whats your thoughts on men dating younger women? 6+ years age differenceMy ex was 16 years older than me. When we broke up he was 39 and I was 22. We were together 4.5 years. We had started dating when I was a senior in high-school and looking back now I think it’s pretty gross. I think I was taken advantage of because of how naïve and easily persuaded I was. I think there are some healthy relationships out there but mine was definitely not it. I can’t say the whole thing was bad. I mean there were advantages for both of us. Because of him he was able to experience … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Are there some men you will have sex with but not have a relationship with them?Well, I’m not upset by it and wasn’t upset by it at the time either. I’m pretty happy with who I’m with now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a man whom has an OF account and regularly tips on it?I’d be pretty pissed if I found out he was talking and paying for it. I already told him that if he wanted or had any interest at all with or for someone else to just break up with me. We are almost a year in, and things are pretty solid so far. We are both old enough to know what we want, how we want it, and when we want it. If I’m no longer good enough and you have to buy sex then we don’t need to be together. Watch all the free porn you want, but buying, tipping, and talking to others is a no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Are there some men you will have sex with but not have a relationship with them?After my last relationship and before my current one there was two people that I would see every now and again. We would get food, hookup, talk and then go on about our days/weeks. We both knew what was up and kept it that way. The one guy I liked but I never pushed for anything serious, and the other one had started to like me more and more, but I wasn’t super interested in him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Who are better in bed, genuine good guys or toxic guys?A dick is only as good if the person knows how to use it and makes the experience worth wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:16 AM |
| 3 | What differences have you seen with the way women cheat vs how guys cheat?My ex cheated on me because he wasn’t attracted to me. As to where I cheated on him once because I was drunk and emotionally distraught about him being with someone else and what not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:12 AM |
| 2 | In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?I could probably have sex two times a day a couple times a week. I’ve been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and we keep it going pretty well. Some days and weeks we have sex more often and other times we only have sex two times. We don’t ever want sex to become a chore, and make it something we have to do rather than something we want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the idea of AF/BB?My ex was pretty big in this stuff and I never really understood it much. He was pretty adamant that he was an AF. With my current boyfriend I don’t even know where to start. He works as a police officer and carries himself pretty well in that aspect, but also can have an emotional side to him to. He protects me and is dominant when he needs to be and opens up to me at other times too. Either way he gets me off so I’m not upset. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?I certainly wouldn’t be opposed to the idea of it meant taking care of my family. My boyfriend and I discuss the pros and cons of that in our current financial situation. He makes enough now and will continue to make more in the future, and with the help of my income it will help us provide more for what we want. As long as I can contribute in some way or another I wouldn’t be mad or upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterMy ex and I are 16 years apart. I can assure you we were at different stages and levels in life. When we got together I just 18 was a senior in high school and he was well 34. I mean yeah we got along and had similar interest, but looking back that’s pretty weird. The fact he lived his life and was where he needed to be at and I barely even started mine was crazy to think about. I was still getting grounded for talking back, and he was sitting in his home paying off his mortgage. We last just ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:27 AM |
| 0 | q4w: How do you SHOW that your current boyfriend is more special than your last?I enrolled in school, starting seeing therapist, got involved in his family church, and put more into my physical health. My current boyfriend motivates me in such more positive ways, and makes me feel more like a person. Instead of telling the things that are bad about me and things he wish I had or did differently, he asks me what I’d like help with. Not going to lie was hesitant about changing or doing certain things, but once I seen how much more caring he is I was down. Also, he’s just and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"I mean the title isn’t wrong. I’m a curvier women, not too fat, but definitely have big boobs and butt. I have about 20 pounds on my boyfriend, but it doesn’t bother him. We’ve been working out a lot together, eating better, and motivating each other tons. He’s pretty fit and good looking and I admire that about him. He’s been super awesome about helping me out and when things get tough he helps me push through. I don’t want to date a fat dude who criticizes me for things he wouldn’t dare to do.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How many times in your life have you became attracted to an "ugly" guy AFTER he opened his mouth? And how about the opposite?Oh this is huge for sure. I’ve had this happen a lot for either way. Personality goes a long way especially if you can make me laugh. Like really laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsMy boyfriend took me to dinner and then we hung out at a park afterwards and walked around. We have been together almost five months now and all I’ve asked from for him was to be honest, communicate, and be there for me emotionally. We have bumped heads a couple times, but he’s been nothing good to me. We both agreed we weren’t here to play games, and have stuck by that. I feel like anymore I’m the opposite. Our first date doesn’t reflect the relationship at all. I would have been fine with just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:19 AM |
| 2 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"My boyfriend(29m) and I (23f) have a five year age gap, and big difference in our dating and sex life. I’ve slept with a little over 20 people and he’s somewhere around 15 or so. I’ve been in one ltr that lasted a little of 4 or so years. While his longest is about a year. I told him about my sexual history and answered all his questions he has asked or wanted to know. When him and I met I told him was just going with flow, and if something happened then I was okay with it. He then has chosen to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do you women want romance in life?I clearly remember you saying it one day to me. It was probably more of a joke, but you still said it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you women want romance in life?I (23f) feel as though my last relationship was purely based of sex and finances and there was no form of direct intimacy. My ex(40m) at one point even said “we don’t make love we fck.” I threw the idea to my current (29m)boyfriend and he didn’t like that at all. My current boyfriend is a very intimate person. Not even in a sexual way. I’m the beginning of our relationship we had sex, but then we got on the idea of no more sex until we are married. He is very Christian based, and now I’m getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.I’m a 23f dating a 28m currently. Before him I only or mostly dated older men. Literally my ex had nearly 16 years on me. A lot of guys my age just don’t have a plan and just want to fool around. Which isn’t bad all the time, but it’s in my dream to find someone to settle down with. My only issue with dating older is they want to settle down almost immediately. I fortunately found someone a little older that wants to settle down but in sometime. We both want to travel together and have our fun a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Women boasting about their boyfriend to their friends as it's an achievement.I love to talk about my boyfriend no matter who is to. For the first time in awhile I’m really happy. I love to brag about it and don’t have shame. We’ve been dating for about 4 months now and have been making great life strides. I enrolled in school, started working out, cleaned my entire diet up, he’s helped me turn to god, and I’m just happier. To some that’s nothing, and easily achievable on my own, but he’s so motivating and moving it really helps. My friends are happy in their relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 0 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?The only person I found to really have a negative thought on my weight was my 38m ex. After him I split I worked out here and there, and was able to still get laid by just about anyone. I noticed when I started to actually work on myself more people actually wanted to date me. I’m a 23 year old average looking female and I’m on the thicker/curvier side. Currently in a relationship and losing weight consistently. I meal prep, workout everyday, and take good care of myself. My boyfriend 28m is pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guySounds like you poured a little extra salt on your eggs this morning. I guess getting bored and giving up on yourself is only okay when one person does it. Finding the right person who gives you motivation, and treats you respect goes along way. For anyone wondering I’m the ex he’s talking about, and I’m making a great life for myself. Promoted at work, have my own place, going to school, and work out often. My new relationship is pretty good too.I take road trips frequently, but the things I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | What is a 10? What is a 5? What is a 1? TO YOUAs a female a 10 to me is someone who has a well balanced personality, attractive to myself at least, and is decently balanced between work and home. A 5 would be someone is attractive, lacks personality, and not motivated for anything at all. A 1 would be a guy almost 30 or if not already 30 sitting at home loving his hometown more than any girl. I was talking to this guy who was in his late 30s and he had no motivation at all. He had his own place, pretty attractive, but had lost his job and j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment?I used to just find rough porn, and go from there. Sometimes I’d think about a guy I was seeing and think about a good sexual experience I had with them. Lately, I have been thinking about my boyfriend. We have pretty good sex, and for the most part I always orgasm. I used to hate when guys would go down on me, but when he does it it’s like chefs kiss good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitMy ex was super bothered that he had a high paying job and I worked at a gas station. We had a 16 year age gap, and just our overall life experiences were wildly different. I had just graduated high school when we got together. We were together five years and he always demanded that I did something different. I understood why he was frustrated, but it always felt like I had to something or do what he wanted me to do. I was recently promoted and opening a new store and for the most part love my j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlI don’t think it would be necessary for men to take it. As a female I hated what it did to my body, and could only imagine what it’d do with a man’s body. After being in it for 6 years I said I wouldn’t go back in it. Talked to my current boyfriend about it and we just stick to the pullout method and what not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who post sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship?If a girl still posts provocative pictures she’s still seeking validation and trying to seek attention from someone. I gained a pretty big audience on TikTok for making sexual humor videos. Once my boyfriend and I got together I deleted them and switched up my content. I have nothing but respect for him. Same goes for instagram I deleted anything that made him uncomfortable or that didn’t really need posted. I’ve noticed a decrease in following and likes, but respect and what not from him is mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 0 | What makes women want to enter into a casual relationship?I was in a ltr for almost five years, and when I got out of it wasn’t ready for anything for awhile. When I slowly started getting back into the dating realm I didn’t want it have the time for a completely full relationship. It was easier to grab lunch, bang, and then see each other in a couple days. Nothing too much and we knew what was coming out of it. Now that I’m with my current boyfriend we value each other more. We have sex often, love spending quality time together, and just being there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | PPD women in relationships, how did you meet your SO & do other women desire them?I’m a 23f and met my 28m boyfriend on Facebook dating. We chatted a bit on there, but didn’t think he wanted anything serious from me so i kept it short. Ended up checking my insta dms one day and there he was hitting me up. I think he’s pretty attractive. He works out everyday, keeps himself presentable, and super hygienic. He’s also a police officer so holds himself to some standard. He doesn’t think see himself attractive enough to attract anyone, but see how girls look at him. I’m pretty ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Women, does status and/or wealth have an effect on how attracted you are to a man? How big is that effect?My ex flaunted his “wealth” a lot. He made a pretty good amount and bought things to show that. Not saying it wasn’t nice going on vacations and nice restaurants, but that’s not why I wanted to be with him. Not going to lie that’s all he really had going for him. He lacks personality. The guy I’m dating now is a cop and lives a pretty good life. He’s bragged a little bit about some of income and what not, but I put a stop to it. I told him that I don’t want him for what he has but for who he is.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | How true is the theory that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents?My mom is a bipolar slightly crazy person, and my dad is just a dude barely getting by. Dated a couple guys like that when I was younger, but when I started working and actually grew up my taste in men changed drastically. My ex is A veteran, makes great money, and lives a decently good lifestyle. My current boyfriend is pretty well off too, great career, and also lives a great life. Both men are very different from either parents financially. Both men are conservative/gun owners where as my par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 05:28 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Women of PPD, when did you know you wanted to have sex with a man? What made you feel that way?Yeah, he’s a pretty devoted Christian. He said he wanted to make sure we have connection, and general interest before having sex. His goal was and is to make it more than just a one night stand. We waited went out a couple times, he met my parents, and then we had sex. We see each other about twice a week (we have busy work schedules and live kinda far) and have sex then. I had and have nothing but respect for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Women of PPD, when did you know you wanted to have sex with a man? What made you feel that way?I know almost instantly. It’s all about attraction. My boyfriend is pretty attractive dude and I was ready the day we met, but he insisted on us waiting after a couple dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.There are times when I’m texting and then actually get busy and don’t respond. If I’m generally not interested in someone I straight up just tell them. One of the the things my boyfriend talked about when we got together was we both are busy people when it comes to work and can’t always respond. I’ll send a react thing to his text or quick voice message if anything. If we are FaceTiming and he has to attend to a call then he hangs up and it’s nothing personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?I didn’t care that my ex played video games. It was his hobby. What bothered me was everything was revolves around the game. We couldn’t have date night, go grocery shopping, or be out too long, because it might interfere with the raid times. It was literally work and game. It was seeing more time and energy going into a game with people who you’d never meet than your girl begging for some one on one time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Which is better when it comes to meeting someone you want to date?? In person or someone you met online in a dating appI just got into a relationship with someone I met online. We hit it off pretty well. Starting talking on insta and then had long phone calls. I spent the night over his house (no sex was involved, crazy I know). Then the next day he took me to dinner after we finished running errands. Introducing him to friends and the family shortly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?As a female I’ve learned I can support myself without the help of anyone. When I’m horny and in need of emotional attention I can hop on Tinder and talk to Mike who tell and give me everything I need for the night. Being on this sub I’ve learned some men can’t easily do that causing them not be happy being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?My ex followed the red pill pretty hard. We’d argue about stuff, but it wasn’t all that bad or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneI think people should stop putting themselves on pedal stools. Eventually you’re looks are going to go away, and your money will be the least cool thing about you. You have to bring something else to the table. That’s why I always chase personality and drive. After we bang and date what else is there to the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?"This was basically my last relationship… I lost a bunch of weight and gained it back. Do I blame him for being losing attraction for me no not at all, but the same happened for me towards him. He gained weight and his hygiene wasn’t the best. It sucks when stuff like this happens( but you just have to keep in mind what is it that brought them in. A lot of girls want people to feel bad for them, but accountability has to come into play. Now that we aren’t together I still have been working on mys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Women, how do you like being approached/hit onI like when someone can make me laugh. I work in customer service and have endless amounts of dudes trying to get with me. The ones that sticks out are the ones who can make me belly laugh about something stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a pre-set range of attractiveness you look for, or is this something that you approach case by case?I don’t have a set range by any means. I like tall fit bald guys, but always really like the typical bearded blue collar type of guy. It just depends on our connection we have. There’s been times when I didn’t find someone attractive at all, and then after talking became super attracted to them. Then vice versa reallly liked someone and thought they were hot then feelings changed once I hung out with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below.I would and have a joined other couples, but wouldn’t have one myself. If I’m with someone I want to be with just them. It a couple is looking to open their relationship, and I know both are open to it I’m down. I’m talking to a couple now, and planning on hanging out with them. It’s just something new to try. I’m too focused on getting in myself for an actual relationship and just like the company of others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have it easy. Hot men have it easy.The title is very much accurate, and the only people who are going to complain are those aren’t getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How much backup men do you have?I don’t have any backup men. I have learned that no matter what I look like it’s not hard to get what I need or want at any point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is it possible for a woman to truly love a man for who he is or will it always be attached to his money, looks, or social status?I love a guy who has a good sense of humor and character. Who just wants the better of life, and is up for adventure. I’m young and youthful and seek someone who is maybe not the same as me, but similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive?The ultimate attractive thing in a man is a broad chest and shoulders. Then comes a nice smile. Other than those three things height, weight, and hair don’t bother me. Obviously, I wouldn’t want some super overweight dude. Just like any guy wouldn’t want a sloppy fat girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How many women would be willing to get marry if child support and alimony did not exist?I’d make a great single mother. If you don’t want to be apart of our or their lives I don’t want your money. As far as alimony I don’t see the point of it unless you were a stay at home wife/mother, and that was a choice you too made together. If we/you were both working then you can go depend on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?I’ve done it a work couple times. A couple of them thought it was funny the way I pulled it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers?I mean to each their own. I’m in a secured spot right now where I don’t have to worry about anything. Paying off an 8 year loan or whatever is not ideal, but I’m not in a rush to buy anything new. You’re not wrong by any means, but I like I said Im contempt with where I’m at financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you discovered a man wore a hair piece after having sex with him, how would you feel?I’ve come across some pretty attractive people in my area/state that are bald. I’m not out here looking for some God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers?I owned a 2002 Ford Escape previous to my new car for about 4 or 5 years. Now I own a 2021 that I can afford pretty well. Overall, I had about $10 grand down at the start and my payments are at $266 a month. I was putting in the same amount of money in repairs as I would be putting into a payment. I in no means have the dream car or cool car, but it’s affordable and does what I need it to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you discovered a man wore a hair piece after having sex with him, how would you feel?Bald is hot. Shave that shit baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How much emotionally vulnerable do you want your partner to be in front of you? At what point it becomes "emotional labour" or to you?I personally just want a man who can let me know when something is bothering him. I don’t think it’s less manly of a guy to cry if he’s hurt by something. Yeah, I want you to be a tough guy and protect me, but at the end of the day you’re a person too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who pay in the first dates?I think if it’s your idea to go out then you should pay. I’ve went on little dates and paid. My ex made a ton of my money and would always pay. Occasionally I’d take him out nothing fancy, but I’d still try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 07:56 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers?I’m a 23 and I’d consider a guy a loser who doesn’t have their own car, no work ethic, and no sense of motivation for anything. If I’m capable of owning a newer car, having my own, place, and being able to pay bills on time if not early then you should too. I don’t make a whole lot but still have enough money live freely and do the things I want to do. I don’t care where or what you do for a living, but I refuse to raise a mamas boy who will solely live off everyone else. There will be no scrubs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?Titties and beer right? Or whatever Rodney Carrington said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?I run into men having “average” size dicks more than bigger dicks. I found an average size dick can get me off more than a larger one can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Single women, what are you looking for in a relationship?I just want someone to stand by my side to love and want me. I can provide and do a lot of things on my own at this point. I’m 23 live on my own, have my own place, and can afford all my bills and all my activities. I just want trust, stability, and growth. Someone who is motivated for me and wanting to build a future together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.I just met a guy last night and I’d say he was out of my league. He was tall, fit, and pretty much everything I wasn’t. Of course we hooked up, but we also had some really good conversations. He gave me some really good pointers for working out and other types of advice/tips. Idk if we’ll meet up again, but it just goes to show it doesn’t hurt to try even if it might not work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Yeah, someone already addressed that. My bad for my misunderstanding of the definition of a pump and dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Ope, lol well my bad for referring to it as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:51 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?That particular night I didn’t think anything of it. We chatted a bit before he went off to clean himself up, and that’s when I left. There was no hard feelings I just was like okay we are done and left. Kinda forget about him until the other day when he hit me up to catch up. We are on good terms so I guess it didn’t bother him too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?The thing with my Fwb is that we will go so long without talking and then randomly talk and hookup. So leaving didn’t seem like a problem. It wasn’t until recently when he would or is getting offended that I don’t talk to him often or stick around. We always were just on sex only basis. Never said what our intentions were just went with it. He’s cool and all but never thought anything else of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters or LTRs?I guess it comes from attraction and communication. When I go on tinder I know I’m most likely not going to find Prince Charming to swipe me off my feet and marry me. Found some guys worth dating, but not bring home to mom and dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Women, what are you insecure about?Even though I have control over it my body most definitely. Even when I was in the best shape I still hated it, and always felt insecure about it. I’ve learned to love it more so now. I get so much more attention from all different types of guys for it. There’s guys from high school that I liked them but now that are constantly trying to get with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Haha I’m 23f and have pumped and dumped a couple guys. A fwb I guess you could call him, asked me to come over late one night, and so I did. I came over we hooked up, and as he cleaning himself up I left. No goodbye, no thanks, or anything. He texted me later on and was like “you left without saying goodbye or anything.” I didn’t even put much thought into it. It’s kinda funny sometimes seeing a guy get upset over being pumped and dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:11 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this behavior?Oh yeah I’m not going to sit here and lie to people lol. I mean I still have things I’m working on, and slowly getting to where I need to be fully. I just know I’m in a lot better place mentally and what not to where I know I can be in a relationship. I’m no longer seeking validation from anyone, and more secure in other places in my life where I wanted to be before getting with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedI don’t think Jada needed all that. I don’t think she respects will enough to deserve a reaction close enough to that. Although, there’s nothing more attractive when your man protects or stands up for you. That was one thing I loved about my ex. We were in New York and had a couple run ins with some odd people, and he stood by my side and made me feel super safe and protective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Woman users of OLD apps; how many matches on average a month do you actually get?I live in a pretty big city, and with having tinder premium get a lot of matches. More so on the weekends especially. Went back and forth between Facebook dating and tinder. Exact numbers I don’t really know, but I have thousands of likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | can men and women be friends without attraction?Yeah, I have male coworkers and not attracted to them at all. We go out for drinks, dinner, and we all hangout at each other’s houses. None of us make moves on each other or have ever thought to do so. Don’t shit where you eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of this behavior?M clearly doesn’t belong in a relationship at all. She’s lonely and desperate. She clearly needs to work something’s out for herself. I’m a 23f and went through a breakup nine or so months ago and found myself doing stuff like this. Took a couple months away from having sex, and focused on my self and getting to where I needed to be. Recently have been getting back into the dating and what not. Anyways, I knew I had issues and they needed attended to, which makes me think M might have some too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?Not at all. I’m an average 23 year old, and can attract a lot of different people. I’ve learned it’s all about how you carry yourself and confidence. I was hanging out with this guy from tinder and even said I’m surprise you wanted to hangout with me considering you can pull anyone I’m assuming. I mean this dude was a spitting image of Johnny sins. He’s like you’re not wrong I can, but you’re a cool person to be around. We had a pretty fun night too. Had pretty cool conversations and what not an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do you judge men if they are into unconventional sexual acts?My(23f) friend(36m) is purely into foot jobs. At first it threw me off when we first started hanging out and doing it, but it makes it more interesting. We have had normal sex and done anal too. Always fun to mix it up. We’ve been doing it on and off for a couple months now and our friendship has stayed strong. He’s helped me get into the place I’m living at now, and he’s overall even a cooler dude for embracing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How important is playful intimacy in a relationship?I’m seeing someone currently and our sex is so much fun. We’ll be chilling in the living room, and he’ll be like okay time to have sex. Sometimes we just go at it, and do what we do. Other times we’ll try to go as far record it, and it makes it a whole lot more interesting. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable. You have to make the experience enjoyable and memorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Is political incorrectness/a very dark sense of humor (in both men and women) generally a positive or negative?I find it attractive when someone can have a dark sense of humor. I have it in my tinder profile at that. I love hearing funny jokes as pickup lines. I think it’s a fun way of starting convos. I think if you can laugh at something dark you can laugh at almost anything. A dry sense of humor makes you a boring person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 0 | If you notice a trend in how your past partners treat you, it’s probably your fault. Instead of generalizing “all (wo)men,” realize that there’s something lacking in what you offer.I’d say the range of people I date they are all pretty much different. I think the biggest thing that we all have in common is being insecure. I’m a 23f and date mostly older men 25 and up. No matter the age I find most are insecure about something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | sleeping with neighborsI got my apartment through a bumble hookup. Started seeing someone for a couple months, nothing serious, but we’d hangout time to time and then too hookup. He lives in a small private owned apartment, and was able to talk to his buddy the landlord about getting me in. I’ve been here for awhile, and it hasn’t been a problem. Occasionally run into each other and talk, and he’s been over a couple times to hookup. Helps me out with just about anything. He’s much older and what not so I think it help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Would you hookup with your past partners, today?Considering I’m single yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todayI’m a 23f seeing a 24m we are pretty average looking at that. He’s not super fit or has ton of hobbies, but he’s great in bed and has an awesome personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.My friend and I just like each other a lot, but seeing our boyfriends get excited is fun too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:12 AM |
| – | P*rn, h***tai, and unrealistic expectationsThe porn I watch is very different from the sex I have. I get off equally the same… by myself… It wasn’t until recently when I met this guy that I was able to get off through penetration or anything. Our looks together aren’t anything great, but everything about him is like perfect to me. So I guess that helps a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes?If you’re going to cheat on me at least make it with someone at least with more value than me. Someone with a good job; healthy body, or something more than a meth head whore looking for her next hit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes?I have lost a quite a bit since then just not a whole lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.My ex and I are 16 years apart. I’m a 23f and he’s a 39m and we were together for almost five years. Despite other issues we had I think our biggest problem was just where we were at in life. I loved how smart and knowledgeable he was. I liked how he was already established he was. The thing that hit the hardest was he had already done everything. He had his fun when he was younger. He had already been there and done that. I was just graduating high school when we met. So I wanted to do a whole … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes?My ex cheated on me with prostitutes, and it broke me down. I was and am still overweight, and he wanted someone smaller than me. At one point it was stated, “I don’t fck them for their personalities. I do it because they are more attractive.” Even when I was at my best and doing really good he still slept with them. I don’t care if I’m not dating someone, but if we are together that’s a no go. Especially if they are doing hardcore drugs. That’s what really blew my mind. How is it exciting and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?The real question should be how many relationships/situationships are you in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,Hahah I’ll be sure to post dates on when I post about hookups. Not that’ll mean anything to anyone, but a comment posted about a hookup from 4 months ago doesn’t say anything. An occasional hookup is always going to happen, but hasn’t or isn’t a huge priority. Not everything posted by anyone has to be a recent action that has taken place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Women of this sub,I’m not going lie and say I never cheated. That happened once in the very beginning. I knew he was out doing it, and happened to be after a big argument. I did do stupid stuff when him and I broke up. I’m not going to lie and cover anything up. I just hated how it was always something I was always doing wrong, and he could never do wrong. It just hurt me that only I could be unattractive. Or I couldn’t spend my money how I wanted. If I lost weight then other guys were going to look at me and wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Women of this sub,We we were in a sexless relationship, and he was cheating on me religiously. At first I tried to brush it off, but it hurt more and more. It was routine for him to wait until I left for work, get all cleaned up and then screw whoever. By the time I was getting home from work he was just settling to finally get sleep. Constantly gaming and sitting in one spot continuously and when I wanted more to life it was an issue. There were nights after he’d get off and tried to meet with people. I’m too fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,He introduced me to the app and eventually I followed this sub seeing him commenting on it while we were together. We had some similar and different ideas when it came to this kinda stuff. We occasionally throw shade at each other, but I’m not really in it for the drama anymore. Like to keep it bay as much as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,My ex is a redpill guy and showed me this sub. Now I’m trying to gain aspects of relationships and what not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?I’m a 23f and my ex is 39m. We were together for 4 1/2 years, and only a handful of people had a problem with the age gap. I think the a struggle within us was of energy and experience levels. I was just finishing high school and he was well settled into a career and had a house. He had done everything that I was just experiencing. He was okay with staying home and I wanted to go out more. I had a rough image what I wanted my life to look like and tried getting there. I understand or understood … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,I’m the ex he’s referring to. I’m not here to bash or what not. I did have quite a bit of sex after we broke up. He’s 39 and I’m 23 with a bit more of a sexual appetite. Neither of us were being pleased to our desires. Lately I haven’t had so much, but I’m cool with that. A significant other watching porn not so much of a problem. Then going on cam sites… Yeah, kinda problem, but we’ll let it slide. Nowww screwing other people when they are at work or hanging out with the girls is an issue. To e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How many people here were the cause of their relationship ending?I don’t think I was the main reason, but I know I played a key part. My weight played a role and my inability to get the highest/greatest paying job was a huge thing. I don’t think that should have resulted in the things that took place though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?I grew up in a blended house, and there was a time when I was the only one with a different last name. I always felt left out because of that. It was really hard explaining to people the family set up. Now that I’m an adult and hope to have my own family one day I would want everyone to be the same. If that never happens I hope I can make something of my own last name. My family name doesn’t hold many accomplishments. They all have settled for less and show nothing for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you want your son / daughter dating a woman/ man like you?If I had children of either gender I’d would love if they dated someone like me. It took me a long time to say that, but hell yeah. I’m a super motivated, happy, and determined person. I occasionally let people or things get in the way, but in the end I always get to where I’m going. Just like anyone else I have bad days, but try to learn from them. I have bad a lot of bad decisions with my life already at 23, but have grown from them. My friends and family say I’m a well rounded person. I love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Do we need each other?I was just going based off the females I am surrounded by and know. The females you talk to or whatever are very much right as well. I have learned over the past couple months I don’t need a man to survive. I’m doing pretty good on my own. For me it’s an emotional connection that I desire and crave. I love and miss having someone to come home to and have around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?I’m in insecure about the way I look. I don’t have a problem with finding people who want relationships I just have a problem with the way I look. I have my own place, I have a pretty decent job, I have a brand new car, and overall a pretty happy person. I just want to make sure now that I can look good for someone. In my last relationship my weight played a huge role. I lost weight and regained it back. I don’t want it to ever have a problem again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?Yeah, I’d date a guy that didn’t want to get married. I mean I want the big day where I feel like a princess and have everyone surround us. I desire to have the same last name as my spouse and children. Then when I look at it a different angles why would I mess around with a relationship that already has a good foundation. Getting married only serves greater or lesser purpose on financial related issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Help me understand the safety concerns women repeatedly talk about when meeting a guy from a dating app for the first time?My biggest fear sometimes is knowing what his attentions are. When you meet someone from Tinder you know you’re going to hookup. But it’s the meeting them and how you’re meeting them. If you meet and don’t like them how are you going to get out of the situation. I was in something like that a couple months ago. The guy picked me up we went out and I wasn’t feeling too great. I wanted to go home, but he insisted on us doing stuff. He didn’t rape me, but he did jerk off and finish all over me. I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Do we need each other?I think it’s a lot of women’s biggest desire to be wanted. When we are not wanted then we immediately assume something is wrong with us. I’m a 23f and have been in that spot before. Now that I’m single I relate to how you feel. There’s days when I really want a relationship, and other days I think why would I want to sacrifice my happiness for something not so significant. I don’t think it’s about needing someone in our lives it’s more about wanting. If you NEED someone In your life then you nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?This no joke just happened to me last night. Been snap chatting this guy for awhile, and didn’t know if we were actually going to meet. Last night we were FaceTiming and he dropped the bomb. It was so hard to believe him. We are similar in age, and by the snaps he sends he seems a bit more attractive than me so it totally threw me off. He just said he’s waiting to find someone he has general interest in and that would make it worth it. I mean I’m down for it, but I like a man that takes control … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?I think the key take away is knowing the difference between wanting someone and needing someone. There’s always going to be someone there for you, and if there isn’t then start reflecting what’s wrong with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:07 PM |
| 18 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?I got out of a LTR about 6 or so months ago, and dated one person since then. I found myself to be happier single. I do miss having someone around and what not, but I’m doing pretty good otherwise. My work life has been better. Have interview soon for a pretty big promotion, and that mostly happened due to my work performance being better. I moved into my own place, and like just doing what I want with it. I don’t have to ever stress what someone else is doing. I don’t have to worry about who so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?Considering I’m only 23 my only rule or exception is the child is under 13. It would be awkward and weird trying to parent a child my close to the same age as me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:34 PM |
| 3 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Like any person who does CrossFit they’ll be sure to tell you any given point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on men who don't care for marriage?I’ve (23f) been talking a to guy(33) now for a couple months. Been on one date, but talk regularly through text and FaceTime (he travels for work). Anyways, he’s been divorced now for a couple years and doesn’t care if he gets married again. Part of it scares me, because I fear he won’t want anything serious long term. We talk about what we want, but are both aren’t exactly jumping into anything serious until we can see each other more regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?I’d consider myself a pretty a good women. I have super strong head on my shoulders, and have been doing everything to my best ability. I have pushed so much harder at the gym, excelling greatly at work, finances are pretty much at their best, social life has went up tremendously, and my dating life could be better but I don’t really play into all too much. Good men are around and have been around for awhile. This could go either way, but people have crazy expectations anymore. I’m a 23f and wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 05:41 PM |
| 5 | Triggered by a confident woman.So I know I’m not the perfect ten. I’m far from it. I’d give myself a 5 or 6, but with that I have the most love for myself than I have had in awhile. I know what I can improve and I’m slowly doing that. What irritates me the most is when people make you feel like shit, because of that. Like why do you care so much about how I feel about myself, and things I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | If all women suddenly become equally really unattractive/ugly, how would society/dating change?We would actually have to go off of their ethics, personality, and other traits. I mean I find myself not being attracted to either gender at times (specially someone I’m talking to), but once I get to to them find them more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 11:48 AM |
| 2 | If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics?I personally wouldn’t like that. I’m a 23f and actually like a male especially if I’m dating to be stronger than me. It’s a huge turn on. I want to feel protected by them. Even at work sometimes when I’m in an uncomfortable situation with a customer I like to have a male coworker by me. I guess if something like this were to happen we would eventually just conform to it, and I’d find more courage within myself, but until then I’ll leave it the men on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 11:45 AM |
| 15 | Fat/overweight women have ruined the American dating marketplace for menI’m a 23f and would consider myself overweight, and only have found a handful of guys who haven’t liked me because of it. I’ve been on tinder for a couple months, and haven’t had a problem with finding and or getting with men out of my league. A lot of “fit” guys don’t mind my curvy body especially when I have more to offer than just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?For me not particularly. I know it caused problems in my last relationship, and in some ways I wish I would have lost the weight, but then again since we broke up I’m doing really good. So not much of a total loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?Not at all. I went from dating someone who made nearly 200k a year to someone who made just under me. I thought both were equally attractive. Money impresses lazy people. I was talking to a guy after my ex and I broke up, and all he did was talk about the money he made it, and it became really obnoxious. I can understand you wanting someone who has a decent income for financial reasonings, but if it’s for attractiveness your priorities are in a weird place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | At what number of sexual partners would you consider somebody ‘promiscuous’?I’d say anything over 10 would be pushing it I suppose. I’m a 23f with a higher end body count of at least 21 guys I’ve had actual sex with. Idk if I have to include the females I’ve slept with, but if that’s the case tack three to that. I’ve been having sex since I was 17 so idk what that says about me. Was in a relationship for about year we split then went a little wild, and then we got back together and I stopped. After we broke up I splurged and had some fun. Stopped hooking up with people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Question to all men out here who work out.When I workout I know I do it for myself mostly, but then also to get the desired job I want, and now I also do it to attract the men I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Question 4 Women: After this recent Purge has your opinion of Red Pill Men changed for better or worse?My ex is a RP guy, and it only ever bothered me sometimes. I feel like some of the guys try to dig to deep into how a female works and lives her life. Everything is always based off looks and money and all these other things. A lot of men try to live up to this standard of being an Alpha or whatever, but from what I see they look like a Chad. I think it’s all weird, and I know I can be wrong, but this obsession with women is wild. You call us whores, because now we’re treating you the way we hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | If You Ever Have Kids, What Advice Would You Give Them So They Don't Wind Up Becoming A 30 Year Old Virgin?Don’t be weird. Have a sense of humor. Personality goes farther than your money ever will (that can be debated, but eventually you’re going to run out of things to buy, and are going to actually want someone). Shoot your shot even if it fails (don’t chase and never beg) Importantly,take care of yourself. Practice good hygiene and maintenance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | No Prenup = 50/50???I think if you make a significant more money than your spouse, and have more higher end valuables you should. My ex made a lot more money that I’d ever make, and would not have been mad if he had wanted a prenup. He told me stories about his coworkers going through divorces and the women taking everything. Whatever you buy and or “earn” together should be equally split, but other than that go full send on the prenup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is your max age gap and why?I’m a 23f and the oldest I’ve dated was someone 16 years older than me for a couple years. My cut off is 40 so you can do the math there. A lot of the guys in my area and my age don’t have a lot of the same views and mindset as me. I stay motivated for growth and improvement, and a lot of guys aren’t into that. Some of them are okay with settling, and not growing at all. With dating older men they are more understanding that I’m working my way towards better. Also, too, I think most older men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)Well, looks are definitely what lead you to the first date/meet up. Following that I go into their personality. For me the biggest turn on is a sense of humor. If you can make be belly laugh then you automatically have a win. I’ve met people who I was unattracted to, but once talking to them was super into them. Vice versus meeting someone who was quote super attractive, but they didn’t have much of a personality. Money only goes so far. You can’t buy love or anything with objects. I talk to to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Are men rewarded for chivalry in today's society or by women?I went on a date with a guy recently, and after the date he kissed me, proceed to open my car door, and then once inside he kissed me again and told me to text him when I got home to know I was safe. I would have done anything for him after that. So, yeah it definitely doesn’t go unrecognized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Do women who sleep around really "settle" or is it "Chad" or bust?Guess it all depends on the guy and or current mood. After my breakup I wasn’t looking for anything serious, but recently met someone and actually taking things slow and turning into something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Not all the time. When my last relationship ended I didn’t have anyone else in mind who I wanted or whatever. I knew I wanted to focus on myself primarily. It wasn’t for some time after that I starting seeing other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Women - at what point in life did you have the most sex?I mean the hours I put into the gym everyday, and the time I spend counting calories, and not eating really do show how much I don’t care about myself. Weight has been coming off like crazy. Leading with that I don’t want to invest my time in school for a profession I’m unsure about. I make $20 an hour, but looking a two promotions. I’m saving a considerable amount of money being at home with my parents right now. But please do continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?I feel like a lot of emotional connection comes from sex. You really get a sense of someone after you have sex. You see that slight emotional side of them, and then afterwards you can get a sense of what either of you want. For me personally, I’ve had a huge crush on someone finally had sex with them and realized my feelings were different. Waited years for it and felt nothing afterwards. Met another person on tinder and thought I wasn’t really into them until I had sex and realized I liked them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Women - at what point in life did you have the most sex?I think In my late teens into my now early 20s. I started having sex when I was 17, and shortly after losing my virginity it really boomed. I got in to an LTR for about 4 years and stopped seeing people. Now that him and I split my body count has went from 11 to somewhere in the 20s. I was under the impression I couldn’t find anyone who’d be interested in me, and little did I know how easy it would be to find someone to have sex with no matter what I looked like. I like the thought of having sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Work is not a "choice" for most womenMy boyfriend is an ATC and I’m a supervisor at a gas station. I could very easily live off his income and be a stay at home wife or whatever, but we choose not to live that way. I don’t want to live off an allowance that he sets for me. I want my own money. He makes way too much money for me to be comfortable to share an account with him. I work crazy hours and do most of not all house work. It becomes overwhelming most nights, but seeing him come home to a clean house and him be happy makes me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How has seeing a man cry affected your opinion of him?Seeing a man cry in a relationship allows you to know they actually have feelings. I live men that are tough and mean but when they open up and show you they have feelings it’s nice. It allows you to know they are pure stone or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who are anti-porn, how did you come to this stance and what has its effect been on your dating options?I honestly don’t think porn has a big impact on my dating life. There’s porn I watch that I’d never want to do in real life. My boyfriend watches porn and it only bothers me when I’m honey and don’t have sex often. If there is something he wants to do that isn’t too crazy I’ll do. We have had threesomes, foursomes, group sex, he’s tied me up, and we have used toys. You just have to find the person you can trust and has similar taste as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Do attractive men really have no interest in LTR?I think they do want LTRS, but they don’t want to give up having everyone and anyone they can have at any given point. They try to manage an LTR while messing around with others on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | If women cared about male n-counts then how come they still sleep with/date men with high n-counts?As a female I never really cared about how many girls a guy slept with, but the type of girl he slept with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Getting rid of oneitis when abundance is momentarily impossible?Hoes will do anything for cash | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?Yeah, I told him he's not a lot to say he's old anymore, because we both know it's an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?I mean yeah a little bit. I without love him more than anything. I trust my life with him, and I would risk mine for him as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?I feel as if I owe him to sleep with others, because I'm not everything I can be for him. He's financially stable, has a house, a good job, and just about everything else. Meanwhile I'm a high school graduate still working at her first job for 4 years now. I started college but realised I didnt like what I was going for. Then tried for the army, but failed out basic training because of not meeting the pt standards. My weight is a big up and down roller coaster. And if you read in some the commen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?He's likes variety in girls and some offer more excitement. And because I'm not the type he likes to sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?He's been with me throw a lot of things. When I met I was 18 and wanted to party and what not. About a year into our relationship I cheated on him and now I just kinda look at some of this as pay back. I don't really see it as disrespect all that much, but I get where you're coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?It's more of a one sided open relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?That's the thing I'm not too big into the hookup seen anymore. We were having threesomes for awhile, and now I'm just kinds of over it. I'm in a relationship, and don't want to have to go out and look for others to have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?I see where you're coming from, but Idk about the whole whore thing. My boyfriend likes to have options, and other girls are more exciting. I have tried lots of things, and yeah things have been rocky with my weight and even his, but it just gets frustrating. I feel like shit about myself a lot, because of the drop in sex. I used to feel so confident, happy, and motivated, but anymore I feel the exact opposite. I don't want to break up, because of it, but its hard knowing you can't be everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Does it ruin a relationship faster to want sex a lot than it does to never want sex?When I first got when my boyfriend we had sex what I felt like a lot, and I thought it it was different but never bad. Now that we have actually intercourse once a week it's starting to become rough and a small problem. I still love him and don't want to break up, but my sexual needs are not being please like his. He (37m) claims it's because of age and he's tired, but he also gets to see other people whenever. Rather than myself (21f) who has a sex drive like no other, but I just stick to pleas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 01:55 PM |
| 3 | The concept of Alpha males and those similar to it have nothing to do with women. It’s guys fantasizing about their perfect life.Like the few women who masturbate at the thought of Charles Manson. Wait, I'm not the only one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How many of you admit to being shallow?I've judged people based off looks, but then talked to them and realised I actually liked them a lot. M | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessMoney makes people do a lot of things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsHeh decent woman. You must be some decent guy to have as a boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | If people marry for love (now), then why are divorce rates higher then ever?They are blind sided of what's really going on until later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What are some things you've done to get the attention of a guy you're interested in?I didn't even realize I had such a bubbly personality until recently. When I started going blonde with my hair people finally starting saying something about it. I can see where you're coming from tho. I'm annoying at times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What are some things you've done to get the attention of a guy you're interested in?Both I guess. I was pointed out by my bf that I had stopped doing it so I have been trying to step up the game a little. And too when I did act like that no one complained about it. Most said they liked it. There were a couple people who said I tried to hard, but they aren't wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Is sex a need for women?I would say so. I am a 21f and feel like sex is pretty important, especially in a relationship. It allows for deep intimacy, connection, and helps improve you mentally. I feel happier with not only myself but with my relationship when we can have sex on weekly basis. Meaning 2 or 3 times a week. Could go more but it is what it is. You are able to connect and talk about things that are going on, and allow each other to gain insight of how each of you are doing. There is also meaningless hook ups … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Q4Women: What are some things you've done to get the attention of a guy you're interested in?Well, with my boyfriend I do just about anything it takes to get his attention. If I'm trying to have sex I will wear super provocative clothes and touch him a lot. Back when I was single and liked a dude I would be over the top flirty. I had been in good shape, platinum hair, and a super bubbly personality so it sometimes wasn't hard to get someone's attention. Or if we would snap I would go onto our messages and start typing and then stop. That only worked sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW: Why are so many women dissatisfied with men?Because we try so hard to be the perfect girl for these guys and its almost never enough. I literally have went every direction to please my boyfriend and he still looks for something different. You can only try so hard for people when enough is enough. Why do I have to keep putting myself out there for you when you aren't doing anything for me? If I can change the way I look, flirt more, and any other thing you ask, then why you can't you put some effort in? Us women are being shoved away by me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Which gender's emotional outbursts is worse? Crying or anger?I think a man's anger is worse. A women you can nor.ally take by just listening and talking. Men get angry and say quiet while women get more mad and cry and yell more. Well, for me that is. When my boyfriend and I argue he gets angry and yells. Then has the ability to stay quiet, which is the worse. For me I cry out of frustration and yell, because I'm tired of not be listened to and ignored. If I could voice things more with out being ignored my "outburts" wouldn't be as bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Do women like pain or do they just deal with it as long as they can experience an alpha?No it fucking sucks, but I'm not going to lose everything over something that can eventually get better. What one man can offer another man cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?Why would you want to go for a guy who is less of a guy than the guy who is "hurting" you. Chad isn't going to provide anything, but less than decent sex while an alpha can provide more with what you want. Yeah it sucks getting hurt but sticking through it feels like the best option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 07:30 AM |
| 3 | What’s the point of wanting marriage if all the guy wants is sex?My boyfriend said the only purpose for marriage is for finances. We won't be getting married until I get a better paying job. If he wants sex he's not going to get married. He'll get sex one way or another whether it's from me or someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 7 | I tried wearing a nightgown to bed last night, and this is what happenedDamn send some vibes this way lol. I need that kinda energy | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W How would you react if in a club or bar i told you I want you to use my face as a seat?I would turn away and walk off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl reject a guy out of her league?I personally wouldn't want the "perfect" guy, because then that's constant competition against everyone else out there. Not saying there's not competition in any other relationship. And too you're always going to feel like you have to live to their maybe high standards. If you have insecurities you may start to believe that at that point they are just desperate. Why would a 10 want someone less than them when they could easily get someone on their own level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Should women fuck a guy who let himself go?A guy wouldn't fuck a girl who let herself go so why would a girl fuck a guy that let himself go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Who are your role models?My mom and one of my female Ds from basic. They are both are very strong and influential women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/20 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Good sex changes a woman’s behavior more than it does a Man’sI'm a 21f and when I have sex with my boyfriend it makes me feel good. It not only makes me happy, but I feel motivated and positive about myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your age range?1.) 21 2.) 21-38 (my bf is 38 and my dad is 42 so stay under that) 3.) I've always had a thing for older guys. As far as guys my age it has always varied. 4.) Typically younger people 21-29. I was fortunate with my bf not having kids and an ex wife, but anymore the older guys have a lot going on, not that I'm actually looking for someone. But I do work at a gas station and notice a lot. 5.) 34 and that is with my current boyfriend. I was 18 when we met. He was the first guy who actually took thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | If your partner is cheating on you, should the "mistress" tell you your partner is being unfaithful?Why would the mistress bother telling you?? Chances are she knows about you and doesn't care about how you feel, and if she did then she wouldn't be doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How many dates would you go on within three months?I would personally go as many as we set up. That's how you get to know someone, and see if you have any interest in someone. Talking/texting over the phone everyday isn't going to spark anymore interest in you if you do it every day. I would find it weird of someone wouldn't want to hang out with me if they had any interest in me. Once my boyfriend and I went on our first date we seen each other frequently. We started out with a hookup, didn't see each other for a few days or so, and shortly aft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] How long would you stay with your husband/bf if all of the sudden by his choice he refused to have sex with you ever again?This shit sucks honestly. I feel like I'm almost living a dead bedroom relationship sometimes. My boyfriend and I used to have sex a couple times a week to almost nothing now. We started having threesomes, and then when I didn't want to do that anymore it's like sex wasn't an option almost. I've heard all the excuses now. I know i could better myself a little, but I feel like it's not only me who could being bettering themselves. It hurts a lot, and it sucks more than anything, but I'm not going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How were your sexual experiences? 6 Questions.1.) Shortest probably 5 minutes Longest an hour or so 2.) Mostly all the time through oral mostly. I can only oragasm if its doggystyle or my bf plays with me. 3.) No but yes. I mean as long as you're over 5 inches at least we're good. I was with a guy and the way he was hard was the was most guys look soft. I've also been with guys who had a very large penis and just was uncomfortable some of the time. Average is good. 4.) Neutral for looks. So I can't be too picky on weight, but I don't like g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Men as a collective decide not to get or stay in a relationship with overweight or obese women.See this where I'm struggling. My boyfriend loves skinny healthy girls. Which is okay, but I'm overweight and not his general type that he adores all the time. My weight has been up and down alot in the past 3 years of our relationship. When we met I was bigger and then lost about 40 pounds. We broke up for a little then I gained some and lost a lot of it off. In almost 2 years I went from 207 to 156. Was starting to look good. And we were back together. This year was the worse year for weight g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: When was the last time someone approached youI'm a 21 f would rate myself as 6 or 7. I work at a gas station so getting hit on by stranger is usual. Yesterday two black guys came to my register and were hyping me all up. It had everyone at work laughing. Told me how good looking I was, saying I shouldn't lose any weight, and just saying a bunch of stuff. I shrugged it off, but it was actually pretty funny and well played off on how it all happens. I just wanted to say too I'm a white girl, up to 185 ish or so and I get a lot of Spanish and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls are actually bad at communicating their feelings.I'm a 21f and hate venting my feelings most of the time. I feel like everything goes unheard and is made out to be a joke. Growing up I was told I wasn't allowed to have negative feelings, because someone else had it a lot worse. So now that I older I sometimes still feel like that. When I do vent it helps but then I realize I just look stupid and crazy. It truly does suck always having the feeling like no one really cares about how you feel so have to keep it all back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 05:36 PM |
| 2 | It would never happen to me. She's special. And I'm wrong.Pussy is like pokemon cards. You gotta collect them all. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Women evaluated their partner less positively and were less physically attracted to him when their estrogen levels were highest.I mean damn I knew I wasn't a perfect ten, but now I really feel like shit. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/10/19 07:31 PM |
| -3 | Women evaluated their partner less positively and were less physically attracted to him when their estrogen levels were highest.Forgot to look in the mirror this morning. Thanks for the reminder. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/10/19 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Women evaluated their partner less positively and were less physically attracted to him when their estrogen levels were highest.I mean science is science, but I feel myself most attracted to my boyfriend when I'm ovulating. The urge to 'mate' with him is super strong. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/10/19 09:52 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between people who only have sex with lovers vs casual sex people?I'm not filling any void. I don't blame my dad for why or how I met my boyfriend. And nor do I plan on trapping him with a baby. My mom and plenty of people I know are prime examples on why that doesn't work. We have a plan on how we want our life to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between people who only have sex with lovers vs casual sex people?He was a part time dad. Around when he wanted to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between people who only have sex with lovers vs casual sex people?I (20f) think hookups are the worse. I feel dumb for saying that considering almost all my sexual relationships were indeed hookups, but I mean what I say. It feels "good" in the moment but after words feeling empty inside isn't fun. I love having sex with my boyfriend (37m), because it's more intimate. We get to be with each other afterwards. We have recently opened our relationship to threesomes, ffm. I'm against the idea of bringing a male into it because my boyfriend can give me more satisfa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Don’t date men with high n countsOkay, so I'm supposed to find a guy who had a low count and not be interested in sex at all??? My(f20) boyfriend (37m) has a very large count and I don't think about at all. Hes a red pill guy too. We have recently opened our relationship with other women. Just for sex not like adding someone for relationship value or whatever. I'm glad he's been with other people and done what he's done. He knows what he's doing and has enough experience. A man watching porn is a lot better than him actually go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What does "nice" mean in the context of this shirt?A nice guy won't pull my hair, slap my face, and call me his dirty little whore. He's going to have boring missionary sex, pet my hair, and or ask me to call him a little bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?I didn't say I liked it or enjoyed it. I really don't have a say or opinion on what he does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Is porn these days an accurate representation of women's sexual behaviour and desires?I think it all depends on what you're watching. I've been moving away from the scripted stuff, and watching ametures do what I'm in the mood for. Occasionally watch things that I wouldn't do, but still turn me on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopathsI laugh at this, because my friend and I refer to them as bitch boys sometimes. Guys that are sometimes too nice let you control them. Which what she likes. She claims she likes a guy who takes control but then says their to controlling or whatever. She just wants all the sweet stuff. There's nothing wrong people with treating someone good, but for myself I like a tough manly man. I like the toughness of a guy and well I like assholes. Treat me like shit and then tell me you love me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to?-Medium SMV ~ I was 17 and he was 22/23 -semi popular ~ he was a stoner - car ~ Newer ford fusion - Poor - My best friend's bed Haha story time ~I knew him for about 6 months and we had been on a couple dates. We talked here and there and then stopped for awhile and then the day we hung out again is when it happened. My friend and I wanted a fun movie night so we both invited our 'boyfriends' over. We watched movies for a little bit and then we started falling asleep so I suggested going to bed.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?I hate that he wants to see other people. It kills me inside. Everyday I'm constantly thinking if he's going to be with someone. We have been together 3 years, and live together too. I try hard to be what he wants but nothing is working. We have talked about it a lot, but it just leaves us both in anger. If it were me wanting to do what yes foing our relationship would be over. I try to laugh it off and act like I don't care sometimes about it, but that's doesn't mean I support it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?As far as I know he's just on a dating app, but idk if he has fucked anyone yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?I'm 20 f and my boyfriend 37m. I don't give a shit who's he fucked in the past. I care who he's fucking now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Well, if you love every guy/girl you fuck then you're going to run into a world of hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men.I think it depends on what you're doing and who you're with. If you're going to a crazy party or club the ultimate goal is to get laid. Whether you're thinking it or not. But if you're just going bowling, the movies, or maybe a small bar, that maybe not the goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | How do women view, and what do they think of, a man’s interest in or desire for sexual intimacy?Umm well if my(20f) boyfriend (37m) didn't enjoy having sex we probs wouldn't be together vice versa. We both enjoy having sex. It's hard to type it out to where it make sense. You can gave sex for love, for fun, because you're horny, or I guess even bored and you can. I think the actual intimacy comes from the person you're doing things with. Such as when my boyfriend kisses me, or massages me certain ways, or just small things like that, means a lot. Most women are always said only to have sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | In my experience, women tend to show interest after I have shown interest in them. Why is that?There's no sense of waiting time on someone who doesn't show any interest in you. I think this goes to when you're someone out of their league. I know from personal experience if I thought someone was super attractive like a ten or whatever that I wouldn't show interest in them unless they initiated a conversation or something of the sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this new "daddy" fetish?Hahaha I used to be friends with this girl and her boyfriend would call her mommy when they had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this new "daddy" fetish?Lol new??? Its been a thing for a long while now. People are just getting into it. I heard about it about 4 or so years ago, and didn't care about it at the time. A lot of people like it for different reasons and some get really into it. For myself I just like the controlled part I guess. I like when my boyfriend tells me what to do and what not. I'm not into the whole diaper and pacifier thing tho. That's way into it. But like getting spanked for having an attitude is a major turn on. When I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Female Teachers Sleeping With Students?It doesn't take a lot of work to convince a guy, especially young, to fuck you. High school guys love anything with some tits and ass if someone is willing to give it to them they're all over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?I'm a 20f and feel like I'm competing with younger girls for my 36m boyfriend's attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Women should marry the men they sleep with while on the CCIf I married the guys I liked or slept with when I was younger I would be in a world full of shit. Since getting with my current boyfriend of three years now I have learned what a real man is. We have an age gap of about 16 years. He has taught and has shown me the great wonders of life. I couldn't be anymore grateful to have someone like him around. Previous people I have been with have always brought me down, and didn't really care about a future but with him the future and even the present is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Can someone be hot but not be BF material? Im worried my lack of career is holding me back from finding somone.I think it has to do with competition. No one really likes to compete unless they know they can win. When I know I have to compete with another girl I instantly start to loose interest in a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Does your mans sexual history ever bother you?My boyfriends past doesn't bother me but his future does. It sucks when you can't meet all the needs he desires when some other girl can. I'm 20 and he's 36 with a very much high body count into the hundreds. Mine is a bit high with 11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Virtually all men would rather have a 15 year old than a woman in her 30sIt's easier to "control" a girl in her teen years. She's more nieve and willing to do what it takes to be with you. You can't "change" a girl who is 25-30. She has already developed a sense of who she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Are women who want kids that scared of being single moms?I'm TERRIFIRED of being a sinlge mom. I was raised by a single mom and know many single mothers, friends or family. I have always wanted a real family with real family values. I want my future children to get the full benefits of having two parents living in the same household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Do men who lie to women and tell them what they want to hear generally get more sex?"Fuck boys" nod their heads and tell you what you want to hear. If a guy is actually interested in you he'll want to have actual conversation and put info in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What’s it to you if women are hypervigilant and cautious around strange men?I'm a 20 f who happens to work at a gas station. I encounter tons of people everyday for 5 days straight. A lot of people you can shrug off, but there's a select few that you can't. Once they learn your schedule they'll come in and try to talk to you and try to get with you. One guy came in about a year or so ago wanting my number. I thought maybe he was a decent dude but I wasn't really into him so I gave him my snap. Well he would send me long paragraphs on how he felt about me, and how we are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do women go home with men they don't 100% intend to have sex with?Coming from a 20 year old female I'd say maybe for some male comfort. I have had male friends before who I had no intentions on banging. We would go to lunch and then go home play video games or watch movies and that was all. You don't really want anything else from. Now if you know the guy is interested in having sex then I wouldn't advise going alone. Maybe stay po ut in public or have others with you so it can't happen. In my situation my friend at the time and both had an agreement we were c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Height Vs Looks Vs MuscleI overall think muscle would be the go to pick. I think the height thing is so over rated. It's annoying when guys post their height on Tinder. I think it would be the equivalent if girls posted their weight or something of the sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | If your fiance asked you to delete your Instagram and Facebook accounts as a condition of marriage (with him deleting both as well), would you do it?I would for sure. I have deleted apps and people off of my accounts. Whatever makes him happy and feel like it'll make things better than I'm okay with it. I mean I'm going to ask he delete some stuff as well. Or at least suggest it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Would forcing men to go though basic training help the current pathetic state of men?Men still flirt and so the same shit in basic training. I was I'm OSUT for 19 weeks and males and even females would claim to be in relationships but would hardcore flirt with each other. Basic training doesn't really change a whole lot about a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are your boundaries for opposite-sex friends in a relationship?I would be cool if my boyfriend wanted to gave female friends, but I know he loves female attention and wouldn't want him to catch feelings or anything for one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | under what conditions will you allow yourself to be a 'forever gf'?As long as my boyfriend is willing to keep me around I guess. He believes that marriage is purely for fincial reasonings, and if there is no benefit than there's no reason to get married. Currently we have a huge pay difference so I totally get it. He's an ATC and I'm a salesperson and make a couple thousand way too less. So waiting for me to potentially get career to almost make as much as him is alright. Growing up I've always been scared to get married, because I've never seen one that had la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what would be the ideal partner?I was born in the end of 98. And no he doesn't say anything like that lol. I think I made a joke like that once tho, but that was it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: what would be the ideal partner?No??? He gives me advice and what not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: what would be the ideal partner?Well I'll just go and describe my boyfriend. We are 16 years apart so a lot of people always ask us how things work out so well here's something. I'm a 20f and he's a 36m. What would they look like? ~ Average man with nice strong arms, big chest, and "thick." I like men looking manly. Facial hair is a must but I can go without it. Hair on his head would be appreciated. My boyfriend has a head of nice thick hair. What type of lifestyle would they have? ~ Adventurous would be the best answer. Some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Is women's intuition real?Whether someone is attractive or not you can tell if they're up to any good or not. I see and talk to people everyday and you learn to read people. And too just going out you can see how people act. I know when to continue a conversation and when to cut if off. Especially when I'm at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 07:11 PM |
| 2 | How much do you care about penises?How would a penis penetrating you be a pyschological issue??? Its physically in you. I mean I guess size could play a feature in it, but not a big one. I have sex with my boyfriend because he has a penis. A finger or tongue is okay, but its not going to give me the same feel good experience as a dick would. I like to take a ride to pound town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 05:33 AM |
| 5 | What happens when a man turns down sex from a woman?Well, I go on pornhub and find something good and grab my fav dildo and go at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What's up with these rich men hiring escorts for "companionship" ??Because they don't need to keep them along for along period of time. It's easier to keep some around for a period of time and then at which point when you're done with them you can kick them to the curb. You're getting exactly what you pay for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 10:29 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on non-monogamy (polyamory, open relationships)?Nope. Nope. And.... Nope. Tried a couple times and it went all wrong. Like where they leave you for the other person, or spend too much time and effort looking for someone new. I think if you're interested in having someone else in your relationship you aren't interested in your partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/19 01:48 PM |
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