| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 602 | Don’t let your boyfriend keep you from your husband | NAH, SIS | _mangoes_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.That's so messed up. A HVM will stop at any sign of pain or distress during sex or when initiating, they get turned off by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 28 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?I say no, I believe women are superior to men (I’m engaged now but even my fiancé agrees with me lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!Damn I went to high school with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:46 AM |
| 10 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)I just asked my fiancé who's a dr about this and he referred to it as "broke dick" lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Top comment says “naw that’s a husband privilege”. I’m glad someone has some senseYeah she’s gonna regret that big time when they break up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 35 | A guy invited me to go to a local restaurant that’s similar to Panera bread. Is that too casual?Yes it’s too casual. I’m also dating a resident and for our first date he took me to my fav sushi restaurant which is expensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 38 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Is it ok if I give the guy I’ve been seeing for 2 months a small box of chocolates for Valentine’s Day? So far he: -picks me up from my house for every date which he either plans or let’s me pick wherever I want to go -pays for everything. I paid for an Uber once when I was drunk and he made a comment to let him take care of it next time. -sent me roses on my birthday -introduced me to a few of his friends -asked me to be exclusive -invited me as a plus one to his good friend’s wedding -texts me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:23 AM |
| 17 | To OLD or not to OLD?My last LTR ended 4 years ago and since then I’ve been OLD. (I’m 30 btw) I’ve been on many many many many many dates and had a few short relationships. I started grad school last year, so was using OLD passively and focusing on myself more. I am now finally with a guy who I met on an app who checks all of my boxes physically (6’2, fit, brown hair, blue eyes), is a doctor, smart, funny, reliable, super generous. He picks me up and pays for every date, he sent me one of those giant rose bouquets f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Moving in advice neededI agree with all of these points. I’m glad you posted your story because it’s a good lesson for other girls to learn from why you should never move for a man especially if you don’t have a ring on your finger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Under 6’1 (sorry not sorry) Not fit Bad teeth/skin/nails No sense of style Doesn’t smell good Also I prefer brunettes with blue/green eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:06 AM |
| 75 | We don’t date based on potential. Who is he TODAY, sis?I wasted half of my 20’s dating potential | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:17 PM |
| 18 | This is a REAL fb post from a REAL woman!! How to be a Pickmeisha 101 😂I just saw a post on r/datingoverthirty about how women should buy men flowers... 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | I Fall in Love With MyselfShe is adorable and absolutely radiates joy and self-love. Thank you for sharing ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 45 | When did you wake up & level up?I started waking up to men’s bullshit at around 26 after being dumped by my ex of 3 years who wasted my time. Then it took me being single for a year to really internalize everything and start fully leveling up. Now at 29, I am truly a savage on the inside (sweet on the outside) and have multiple men wrapped around my finger. I wish I knew this stuff sooner life is way more fun now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:40 AM |
| 66 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.What I would love to say to these men, “Pretend you don’t know me in public, be my atm in private” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 05:07 AM |
| 10 | The Power of Self CareYess, I’m obsessed with self care. Taking care of my skin, hair, nails, teeth, dressing cute, exercising, getting enough sleep, time to myself, spa days. The more I show myself love, the less I feel I need it from another man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:55 AM |
| 11 | First date in a while and since finding out about FDS.Aw that sounds like a really sweet date. Just out of curiosity, do you prefer men to ask you before they kiss you? It's been a turn off for me I prefer the guy I'm with just find the moment and do it. I find it kind of hot that he's taking charge but I guess it depends on the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 11:28 AM |
| 8 | Ask for pics before meeting up with your online date. Men lie about their ages to prey on younger girls. Don't accidentally date an old scrote!!Ya that guy is 50 for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Bad Date NightYou don’t have to explain to him why you’re upset, he knows. He most likely did that on purpose to push your buttons and make you react needy or insecure. Don’t give him the satisfaction of a reaction. Definitely start going on dates with other men and if he tries to apologize make him get you a gift so that at least you get something out of him wasting your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:19 PM |
| 32 | “I’m not like other men...”A shit ton of toilet papers out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:22 PM |
| 11 | Why do males think we should respect their opinion, when their hairline looks that disrespectful?🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | To retcon or to move on?I think at the very least you should be dating other guys while seeing whether he steps up to the plate or not (spoiler alert: he most likely never will unless you leave him). For me personally a man who isn’t generous is a dealbreaker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:37 AM |
| 13 | Single Queens only - if you are 27 or older, what is your living situation?I’m 29 and also living at home while I’m in grad school. None of the guys I’ve dated care, if anything they appreciate that I’m being “financially responsible” although I only date wealthy men who want to be providers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 10:07 PM |
| 11 | Mythology Break Down #1: Men Telling You You'll Max Out At Thirty is Their BIGGEST CopePlz teach me your ways queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 05:41 AM |
| 3 | This sub has helped me! Last night I straight up rejected a dude and told him to bring me home after he tried to make out like 30 minutes into the “date”Bless this comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 06:41 AM |
| 11 | Is there good Youtube channels related to the FDS mindset?Sheraseven1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 03:01 AM |
| 5 | At war with myselfYou’re going to have to get over your guilty conscience. You might have to learn the hard way, but being completely honest and upfront is not going to benefit you, it just isn’t. He’ll also be better off without knowing. What you do before being exclusive (or even before having a ring on your finger but that’s another post) is none of his business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Moids who are perpetually cheating on their GFs / WivesGirll I know, the truth is really sad, but with the way dating is today we have to be savage AF. I want all us girls to protect ourselves as much as possible. I live in LA so I’ve definitely had to deal with a lot of douchebags, but boys will be boys wherever you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Are you ladies straight up about dating multiple people at a time?LIE LIE LIE. Men literally lie all the time so we will too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 01:30 AM |
| 7 | Moids who are perpetually cheating on their GFs / WivesIf there’s anything I’ve learned, almost all men will cheat if given the opportunity. I know this because the amount of married/taken men who have tried to date me is disgusting. Until I’m married, I’m on the market and none of the guys I’m dating have to know that. I’m only getting married if the divorce will benefit me financially (knowing that divorce is likely because of how common it is for men to lie/cheat). If my husband were cheating I would not only do the same to him, but use his cheat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 01:18 AM |
| 23 | Feminine athleisure?1- be thin/fit/curvy 2- make sure your hair is styled and looks soft, not like a greaseball. I use lots of dry shampoo before I sweat and then blow dry the sweat off my head after. 3- wash your face/fix your make up after gym so that your face looks natural and dewy while enhancing your features 4- wear cute, girly colors and patterns or if you’re wearing black leggings wear cute pink sneakers 5- wear dainty, sparkly jewelry 6- get a cute backpack/gym bag I live in altheisure during the week and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/19 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with a guy who is potentially seeing other womenYour response was perfect! You're different from other girls because most girls are desperate for a relationship so don't change anything you're doing. See, as soon as you asserted your boundaries he started accelerating things physically. I can guarantee you if you tell him you're super interested he will start to withdraw. In dating someone is pulling and the other is pushing, you want him to be the one pushing. Flirt by using a soft, sweet voice, smelling nice, dressing up, complimenting him,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/19 07:01 AM |
| 18 | Tried to improve as a person, but now men abuse my "vulnerability"?Read the book “why men love bitches”. It’s not about being mean to men, but how to have strong boundaries while still being sweet and soft on the outside. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/19 09:54 AM |
| 6 | How to not hit the wall/ age gracefully?Retin-a, sunscreen, and preventative Botox | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/19 01:47 AM |
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