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_meursault_/r/askTRP03/06/17 11:09 AM
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No. I had a very happy childhood.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:25 AM
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I can understand. "If they want it they'll make it easy." Makes sense. It's too soon to call yet, but I've began escalating early and often.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 11:34 PM
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she spends most of her time with a guy who she fucked and won't add to her N count if she fucks him again. Can you clarify this part? I'm in agreement with the rest.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 08:35 PM
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I'm in my late 20's, although, I had often felt behind the curve until I started my new role. Now I feel back on track. I'm happy for the time being with my current job and prospects (I should be able to get a healthy yearly raise). Fortunately, I've ingrained some really good habits. I'm just trying to adjust. Flings would be preferred, it's just about making the most out of any opportunities. I would still like much more experience under my belt. Cheers.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 06:36 PM
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Traveling and an hour for lunch. I tend to listen to audiobooks (self-improvement) during these times, but often find it difficult to absorb the content in noisy environments. I have no kids, no girlfriend, no serious responsibilities. Also, I like time to myself, so after a long day I don't feel encouraged to socialize.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:23 PM
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Depending on your porn habits, it could take another few weeks for you to see an improvement. Do you still feel attracted to these girls? Do you still feel excitement, or boredom? Are you eating, sleeping properly, and keeping fit? It could be psychological. Don't allow excessive worrying turn it into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 10:45 PM
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You evidently have zero street smarts. These kids were bored and you ignorantly played into their hands and placed yourself in unnecessary danger — over an insult that you should have had the maturity and experience to ignore. Any other day of the week and you could have easily had your head kicked in or stabbed.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:44 PM
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You shouldn't have confronted them in the first place.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:14 PM
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I don't believe many women are "willing" to be a plate, rather, the topic of exclusivity hasn't arisen. I realize my responsibility as a leader. I do provide some verbal comfort & display comfort in some of my actions. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:03 PM
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I have used a small dosage of sildenafil citrate (25 mg. Highest dosage is 100 mg.) in the past to alleviate anxiety, after it was prescribed as a temporary solution by a doctor. To my knowledge, the effects of Cialis will last around 36 hours. Viagra (sildenafil citrate) is only a brand name (Pfizer's patent claim does not apply in some countries, so there are cheaper alternatives that contain the exact same ingredient.) This is intended to be taken around an hour before sexual activity (but it…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:47 PM
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It's likely a mix of over consumption of porn, coupled with anxiety from the pressure of fucking someone who isn't paid to do it. If you have no issues staying hard watching porn, experience morning wood and have plenty of random erections throughout the day — then it is psychological. Limit yourself to fapping once per week (minimum) using your imagination alone. Cut out porn completely. Ideally, fantasize about someone you are actually dating or attractive people you know. Buy a variety of con…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 07:49 PM
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I pushed as hard as I was comfortable with. I decided against leaving. I've made big strides in the past few months — this is an additional scenario I can learn from. Any thoughts on being direct with her? Thank you.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 01:23 PM
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If someone needs the seat more than me (elderly, disabled, pregnant, etc.) - regardless of gender - then I have no problem standing and would do so without being prompted. It's simple manners. It doesn't make somebody less of a man to be polite.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:31 AM
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I only use Reddit for learning. At most I browse for an hour each day (breakfast/lunch), but it's time well spent as I use it as a tool for educating myself. If it has become a mindless time sink, then it's well worth stepping away - or setting hard limits. I use software to help with my productivity. All porn is blocked and I can only access Steam on Sundays.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 09:32 AM
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What advice did you take on board from your post regarding this issue a month ago? Otherwise, most replies will be similar...
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:50 AM
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I don't think you are overreacting. He responded by asking me if I was fronting and if so that it was going to end badly for me. It doesn't sound like there is anything to salvage, considering his confrontational response. No saving graces. You are better off spending time with those with an ounce of loyalty and respect for you. He clearly has none. There is no reason to tolerate his disrespect and attitude. I would not waste any energy trying to mend your friendship, or even confront him about …
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:13 AM
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I live in the UK (so approaching girls isn't a thing) Why do you think cold approaching doesn't happen in the UK? Of course it does. It sounds like you have a lot of preconceptions about dating in the UK that really aren't true. It's an avenue to meet women that you shouldn't ignore. There is no easy option or trick. If you want something (in this case, women), then you need to take risks. You will get shot down along the way, sure, but it's worthwhile. This is how I've met the most quality wome…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 01:42 AM
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Verbally chastising girls for flakiness will never have the outcome that you want or expect. It always has the opposite of the desired effect. This is explained in detail in How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie‎. The best course of action would be to brush it off. Allow your actions to speak volumes. Do not give her any more of your attention. If she is interested, she will initiate a new date. In the meantime, forget about her and focus on moving forward.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 06:21 PM
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Thanks for your input. I was recently asked to go for drinks with someone who's in a LTR. I've made improvements since we first met, and it's been a few years since I last seen her. I'm not very trustworthy of women, and always suspect an ulterior motive. I will loosen up and enjoy it, and hopefully learn a thing or two.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 12:44 AM
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The Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged, both by Ayn Rand.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:15 AM
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Your ex cheated on you and has the audacity to bring her new boyfriend into your social circle – now you are willing to step aside? I understand you've acted completely nonchalant and indifferent about the whole thing. Still, in my opinion, there's absolutely nothing wrong with hitting up a few (or even just one) of your closest friends and mentioning you'd prefer what's-her-face wasn't involved any more. I don't know the dynamics of your group, but they may just be waiting for your nod - consid…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 12:15 AM
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I blocked her so she started messaging on fb. Bullshit about how she was sorry. And how I am a huge part of her life she can't let go - she won't give it up and will never go away. She just wanted you to absolve her of her guilt for cheating. It's not real remorse. I read some of your previous posts. If this group is largely your male friends, then why is she still being invited to social events after she cheated on you? Why don't your bro's have your back?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:18 PM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I understand your viewpoint. To be stern, lecture or admonish someone's behavior is definitely futile (also explained in more depth in How To Win Friends And Influence People). I've tried various methods with identical results to the blog post. I learned through trial and error. Do you never burn bridges? There is a degree of flaking I obviously tolerate; but I was recently stood up (for a second time) by a girl (HB8) who was consistency unreliable – without as …
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:35 PM
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Aren't you just tolerating disrespect? Surely it's important to set boundaries. Personally, I've learned to cut flakes out of my life. Accepting this behavior is belittling. I'd rather walk away and have dignity. There are plenty of women that have manners and do not behave like self-entitled children.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:31 PM
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So a girl rejects you, but is somehow still the one for you? Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? You need to move on from that mentality. It will not benefit you in any way. She is likely just being polite, after all, it's a group setting with mutual friends and she has declined your advances in the past.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:17 AM
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She dumped you. Yet, all it took from her was a few texts and without any resistance you are over there cooking? You are putty in her hands. You even admit you are initiating contact and crave "emotional intimacy". Have a backbone. It was her choice to leave. Let her take responsibility for her actions. Cut her out of your life.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:26 PM
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