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Science_mwk/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:39 PM
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Purge Week!_mwk/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:49 PM
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Science_mwk/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:07 PM
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mine have known my brother growing up too but it’s not what bothers me. I would hate haaaate fo be stuck in the middle if/when things don’t work out and if they do work out, i’d hate to have to be competing for one of them against the other. it also changes all the dynamics between all of us and I do not like change lol their sisters are fair game for me too, i wouldn’t mind or care. your sister sounds super sweet tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:13 AM
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pencil and paper, always. i also like to doodle and draw stuff as a way to journal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:08 AM
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A, we’ve broken up 3 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:54 AM
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i couldn’t take him having anything remotely flirty with another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:50 PM
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as long as nobody can tell and you don’t tell anyone, why is it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:08 PM
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i’d never speak to a friend who did anything with my slightly older brother and would probably punch my brother or break something he loves while he watches if he went for one of my friends, but i am particular about not wanting to mix family with my friends so it depends on the younger sibling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:03 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:00 PM
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if i don’t love them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:59 PM
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idk but I just lived through A on the other side, I broke up with my ex in june and heard he had a thing with some other girl and it drove me so insane I had to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:53 PM
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omg, that was unexpected lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:49 PM
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my ex had a similar experience last year and sold his, it really did shake him a lot. i hope you feel better soon and it doesn’t stick with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:39 PM
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aw that poor girl. i hope it teaches her to not be so giving to her detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:34 PM
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i would be offended, i wouldn’t break up over it but i also would use it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:30 PM
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what do you have against korinne, it’s cute! altho id write corinne
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:20 PM
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they do know what they’re talking about, the people who pick one line from a report and rephrase it 100 times to make catchy headlines don’t. sea levels have undeniably risen between 1980 and now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:08 PM
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he’s not cute, his voice and mannerisms are cringy. he doesn’t look old but he’s past the mid 20s. pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:27 PM
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there’s obviously no other way to verify it other than ask reddit about this mathematical enlightenment he just discovered
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:23 PM
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i think im missing something, it’s not something i’d consider bad but you know best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:22 PM
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maybe he meant he can assure he’s not going to get any bitches ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:22 PM
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how is the first person so confident in their stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:17 PM
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they’re always pretty in the most elegant way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:14 PM
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oh wow i remember how inconsiderate he was
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:27 PM
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some of us are messy and disorganised janice ok, no need to flaunt your organising skills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:25 PM
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jack draper is the one that got me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:53 PM
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high five bestie! i got obsessed with tennis too bc i found them all super hot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:38 PM
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im jealous of the people who don’t have to work bc of their families, this girl i went to high school with had her grandpa buy her a hotel in either bora bora or bali and she ”works” there now and has two little kids and i am super jealous . but i always feel some pity for people like your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:32 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:52 AM
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i don’t think we’re talking about the same shit lol it’s not fds type of subjects but well, bottom line is don’t take it personally if there are women who get cranky when you show in female only spaces. it’s not you, it’s them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:23 PM
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not really, it’s because it’s uncomfortable to discuss stuff like that with men. they have men reactions to it and it’s not the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:00 PM
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ive noticed it too but i find it funny af
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:59 PM
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i cant tell you what i’d say differently but you pay attention to what you say and how you say it more, you don’t want to give the impression of acting single or something in the same realm, you censor yourself and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:50 PM
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say and act differently yeah and so does everyone else. it’s just not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:29 PM
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parties in mixed groups then meeting the friends of the people you met at those parties
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:03 PM
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no probably not ill never sleep peacefully again if i did
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:01 PM
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no, it’s not about sexual predation at all or them being out to get me or anything like that. it just changes the whole vibe of the space and they just don’t fit in correctly. it’s less fun when there’s a guy around and i expected it to be girls only, even when they’re perfectly nice people. if it’s something i expected a guy to join, then i’m completely fine with them and acknowledging then and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:58 PM
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yes but also no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:38 PM
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it’s so embarrassing, she deserves to be clowned for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:36 PM
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who sits in the backseat like that, don’t apologise to crazy people it validates them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:27 PM
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i don’t like men in all girls spaces either tbh. i’m sure you were perfectly polite and nice but personally it always bothers me, especially irl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:53 PM
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my mom’s screeching will one day get that habit out of me im convinced
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:48 PM
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..i do that lol. i dont like letting the water run and sometimes i just simply forget
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:44 PM
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really good advice thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:43 PM
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that’s not a thing here lol we have to get our own
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:31 PM
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oh yeah definitely, especially since im a maximalist and i like having stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:26 PM
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what do you look out for when visiting an appartement to rent?? i know the obvious stuff but i just know i won’t notice something that will come back to haunt me later
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:21 PM
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A, men are weak and can’t usually say no. id leave over B too tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:16 PM
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he’s cute, he’ll get even cuter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:08 PM
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yeah unless you have really pale lips. it also depends on skin tone, darker complexions get away with ashy nudes more imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:57 PM
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in my humble opinion, picking the right colour that’s not too light for your lips. there’s nothing uglier to me than a nude that’s too light and ashy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:53 PM
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i want to learn so sooooo badly but i always lose patience. best thing i ever made is an ugly uneven coaster
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:56 PM
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honestly the sensible adult mature breakups are the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:17 AM
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never in my life has a man noticed my nails. i remember asking my ex what colour he liked to literally please him and he didn’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:00 AM
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who has the motivation to clean the coffee machine daily!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:30 AM
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this type of lists calls me messy in so many ways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:15 AM
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i keep seeing this trend of people wanting/advocating to have kids super young, under 21, and like..i understand, you want as much time with your kids as possible but being a young parent with a partner is hard enough, but being a young single parent is truly something I can’t imagine wanting or encouraging other people to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:14 AM
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do you think there are more men or women with control issues? i used to think women were the most controlling gender bc i recognised my control issues in them but recently i kinda opened my eyes to mens’, fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:57 AM
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ooh that’s exciting!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:37 PM
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that seems great! what are you studying? i’m alright, had a pretty great summer with my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:28 PM
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i do this with cab drivers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:46 PM
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right! it’s like hearing it on another level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:44 PM
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well that’s obviously not the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:31 PM
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you either get the vibes or you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:46 PM
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it’s for the vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:33 PM
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same, except i do an ungodly amount of complaining. currently things are pretty good tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:11 PM
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aww i think i know! how have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:53 PM
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thanks! what was your old username?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:47 PM
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of course I do! how are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:09 PM
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same, hungover and sleepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:50 AM
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hi!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:42 AM
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i bet they made up for it by being cute though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:42 AM
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I dont recognise your username, did you go by another one when i hung out here more? I’m alright! No summer camp for me this year, I got a real adult job lined up so i went on a super long vacation instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:24 AM
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hello there, how are you guys doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:12 AM
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how i look next to him is very important, but when i say aesthetics i dont count it in it. everything you mentioned means a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:24 PM
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from far away, yeah, but you dont date someone from far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:20 AM
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my fav is benawad’s comment sections, the way women go feral for him is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:37 AM
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i watched a movie about that a while ago, or a show im not sure. it seems pretty creepy and i’m sure the couples didn’t think the doctor was the anonymous donor and would like be ok with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:35 AM
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i would tell someone who knows them well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:26 PM
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deepti is the only normal sweet person in this season, she deserves better. she’s the only woman i liked, and nick was cool too. i didnt like iyanna bc…like, come on. he basically told her she was the second choice and she still said yes!!! where is her spine i also didnt like sal, he made me feel embarrassed for him for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:09 PM
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i love those so much they’re like a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:57 PM
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stellar taste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:57 PM
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i used to think these people were delusional too but last month i chatted with some older ladies (early 30s) at my gym and they were all very fit and looked great but they all were around 160-175 for 5’6 to 5’7. i do still think some are def delusional but it seems more complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:50 PM
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the oldest of my brothers is also like that, i don’t like accepting cash from him, so he buys me stuff. my other older brother’s money always comes with strings attached and untold demands though so i tell him to keep it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:26 AM
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no mine is also stupid when it comes to that. in his mind this one clingy girl is just being super friendly and nice and just happens to be where he is so often but men who stare at me for a split second too long were obviously hitting on me 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:57 PM
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everyone mocks disney adults lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:44 PM
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i’m so sorry that sounds mortifying but i cant stop laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:38 PM
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1 seems unlikely people already talk about them 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:33 PM
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who knows maybe they met into one of those spicy situations. the shit i hear med students do makes me clutch my pearls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:00 PM
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i also love biting and seeing my teeth marks on his skin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:47 PM
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imo it’s a terrible idea unless you know the girl is already into you and you leave enough hints for her to figure out it’s you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:46 PM
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ooh that changes a lot. i typed in my first comment that work would be less weird than my home address but then removed it. yeah i wouldn’t be so freaked out if it’s work, lots of people would know that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:01 PM
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yeah for sure. it’s still a very weird thing and i’d react like your sister but there isn’t much any of you can do, except be a bit more observant for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:39 PM
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no because I just wouldn’t understand. why does he want to be married without actually being married? what’s there more to risk if we already have children together, pay a mortgage together, share families etc? when you do all that unmarried, you cant just walk away either. there will be legal mess when you tangle your lives that much, might as well do it in the simpler way. i can understand not wanting marriage at all but i can’t understand wanting marriage on the surface like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:29 AM
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for me, second hand embarrassment mixed in with some pity and some disgust. im judgy about pickmes who are successful in their pickme endeavours bc i just find it so humiliating but i only feel major pity and disgust for the pickmes who fail. it’s embarrassing, degrading and they dont even get what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:26 AM
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i would also be worried if someone i didn’t know knew where i lived. it’s pretty strange. its extra strange if it’s a burner email. how did the stranger get that info? id be okay with an anonymous gift that didn’t involve my address.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:20 AM
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yeah they’re everywhere and in the process of buying everything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:49 PM
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is it really a kid’s streaming service?? ive watched a lot of not kid appropriate stuff on disney+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:28 PM
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i couldn’t believe my eyes watching it, 10/10 entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:25 PM
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lauren and cam’s relationship seemed the most normal of the show, it’s almost shocking that it came out of that show lol i think their relationship seems flat bc neither of them is crazy or extreme and nothing interesting or passionating happens to them, they’re just living their lives and vibing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:24 PM
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it’s not wtf. my friend of 10+ years and I also discussed that but haven’t made any decisions yet, ruining the friendship by living together is a scary thought
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:42 PM
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valentine’s day being on a monday sucks and makes anything fun impossible so ill probably just give him a cute card and we’ll do something later this weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:55 AM
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oh no thats tragic 😟 good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:51 AM
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oh damn i didn’t know poppy was getting divorced ! omg that’s exciting!!! congrats 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:43 AM
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no, the opposite actually lol i have a ton of free time but i got out of the habit of checking reddit every day ill have to come back from time to time. did i miss any interesting ppd drama?? also do you have a date in mind for the wedding??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:24 PM
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right here babe 💞 how are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:37 PM
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so relatable 🥲 my last year of molecular bio was full of classes i didn’t like and didn’t want and wouldn’t ever use
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:35 PM
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you study something bio related too right? freedom is very close indeed, i literally felt my personality and joy come back once i finished lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:37 PM
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oh man i cant wait for you ! i didnt realise how soul sucking it was until it ended lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:40 PM
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terrorised by winter? or is something else happening in 4months?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:37 PM
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i have no idea what that game is about so this may be a stupid question but can’t you play jusy with your bf ? btw i wasn’t around on the sub when john mulaney and olivia munn broke up but you were right! when i heard of it it reminded me of the post you made about him replacing his addiction with the new relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:11 PM
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yeah, sometimes i do envy the empty headed idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:29 PM
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damn i hope it gets better or at least easier soon unfortunately my only torment is my own brain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:24 PM
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misery high five! why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:22 PM
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how is everyone doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:18 PM
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24 lmao he used to have the little phone that had a sliding keyboard and you have to push a button 3 times to change letters. he only got an iphone bc of his job lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:31 PM
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not until a couple months ago when he got his first usable smartphone lol it’s been very useful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:19 AM
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this is the greatest idea ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:16 AM
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omg there’s this idiot on tiktok faking hers too and people are actually defending her, it’s insane to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:53 AM
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i have a very “good girl” face, people usually find me endearing. my worst imo would be my height
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:49 AM
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it depends on where you are in europe and whether or not there’s a fun college party culture there. it also depends on the college you go to, i know there’s a big difference between universities in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:00 PM
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i’d break up with him and never talk to him ever again. some fetishises are better left unsaid forever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:10 PM
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i can understand tight clothes, there is nothing more horrible than working out in baggy clothes, it’s disgusting. i can also understand wanting to check yourself out and feel hot af when working out, what i can’t understand either is the butt scrunch. this horrible weird thing isnt even flattering. as for the make up, i usually go to the gym on my way back home from something, so i get there already wearing make up from the rest of the day. i think many people are like that. last year, i switch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:03 PM
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idk why he thinks it’s so much trouble to cut stuff normally lol it takes no time to cut stuff evenly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:37 PM
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i was the favourite💀 my dad was obvious in his favouritism but my mom didn’t really show it, i knew i was my dads favourite all my life but i only noticed my mom’s favouritism a couple years ago. maybe she changed her mind at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:39 PM
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yeah, they’re funny sometimes! i used to like his videos like 2 years ago but he’s so annoying and so full of himself. he’s not a good cook, he has shitty recipes that make no sense at all, he keeps trying to convince ppl(himself?) that his laziness is actually genius tips. and omg he can’t take any criticism or any disagreement with his dumb methods at all, he has a reddit account and he lashes out on people that do like him for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:55 PM
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i got 14, i thought i’d have less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:42 PM
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omg this was amazing! makes up for missing the purge!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:40 PM
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I love Joshua Weissman’s channel and I’m currently on a mission to make almost everything in his cookbook. Chef John also has really awesome recipes I do have really strong opinions about the ones i dont like, they include all the silent cooking channels, adam ragusea, lisa nguyen, and tasty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:29 PM
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yeah i missed a word! can you not save it with idk hair masks and oils and stuff like that? hot water isnt that hot compared to hair heat tools, it can’t be as fried as hair straightener fried
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:54 PM
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omg i didn’t hot water could do that! is it really that doomed? it suits you well and it probably took a while to grow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:48 PM
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i rarely forget though but there are a couple of people i know i hate for a good reason but i don’t remember exactly why. otherwise i hold grudges forever 10/10 i approve of that message
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:55 PM
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a hot* girl with dark hair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:46 PM
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omg i didn’t imagine you like that at all, you’re cute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:44 PM
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you really do have great hair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:44 PM
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how pretty!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:41 PM
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you look like you’d be a really funny dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:40 PM
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thats a really handsome side profile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:39 PM
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i think i remember and he said he doesn’t use shampoo but washes it with water
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:37 PM
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oh. then i wouldn’t get mad 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:36 PM
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ooouh that’s a good way to get me to replace shampoo with hair removing cream
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:21 PM
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eating the food i’ve saved for myself and looked forward to eating all day long is a good start. can’t guarantee you wont be harmed tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:15 PM
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yay, congrats ! and good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:14 PM
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i def have some anger issues lol i also rarely forgive people once i cross a certain threshold of being mad at them. i might forget, but probably wont forgive. i used to be a lot more vindictive, that’s something ive been changing for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:07 PM
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idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:10 PM
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ppd is terrifying when i come back after not thinking about it for a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:08 PM
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oh no i forgot ppd did a new year purge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:10 AM
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be more organised, i am so tired with always looking for my stuff and not knowing where it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:26 PM
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it goes that way if neither party can work with the other, if the insecure person doesn’t make any effort to address it and if the other person ignores it and intensifies it. it’s never just one person that’s insecure 100% and the other perfectly secure, you work together with what bothers each person and you make compromises out of love for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:22 PM
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it is, making each other more insecure will just ruin the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:42 PM
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old people and technology are so adorable. my grandma tried to send me a voice message but sent me a selfie 5 times before just calling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:38 PM
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🤷‍♀️ we’re not perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:37 PM
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incredible work, it should go in the ppd sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:27 PM
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haha thats awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:27 PM
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im probably guilty of that. my bf doesn’t like it and he does things to calm my irrational jealousy, so i do things to calm his. if it includes being a bit distant with male friends, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:25 PM
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it took me a couple months, it wasn’t that bad, just practice a lot! im still not comfortable driving in big cities center with tons of crazy people but its an anxiety thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:20 PM
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that’s incredible, you’re amazing! enjoy your new tiny baby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:53 AM
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aww congratulations!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:51 AM
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benedict cucumbersmthing is oddly attractive, in the weirdest way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:27 AM
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i need some details about the affair 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:24 AM
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it depends. id be okay with a bad family, manageable depression, even light drug use. i cant handle suicidal depression or social anxiety. as for bad relationships, it depends on how bad. like..would i be treated badly as a result of those relationships or is it just a sore spot for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:13 PM
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it usually looks better, like a bigger portion of dark haired dudes look good than blonde men. but sometimes blonde can really work with the right skin complexion and face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:10 PM
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the second one is really pretty! i havent cut mine in 2 years so it’s shapeless and really long rn. i think ill wait a bit and cut it into layers for the spring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:04 PM
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😟 it all makes sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:53 PM
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every time i go shopping at our local hippie hipster grocery store, this dude tries to sell me herbal mixes for focus and bRaINpOwER very insistently, this will keep him away forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:49 PM
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yeah same, it was straight and fine when i was a kid but it got wavier and thicker all throughout my teens and now it’s wavy but loosing thickness . it also got a lot darker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:42 PM
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lmao ill steal that phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:40 PM
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no, i haven’t and it doesn’t have much to do with the value of the man. i am both too prideful and too insecure to compete for someone’s attention like that, i don’t see myself doing that unless i build a lot of self esteem and/or lose all my pride
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:06 PM
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yeah there’s green, brown, red and black i think. they taste slightly different, and have different textures imo. I also like adding them to salads, they’re pretty filling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:03 PM
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i hate quinoa but lentils are so versatile. i really like red lentils in a curry, black lentils in bolognaise sauce or mixed with onions and bell peppers and chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:36 PM
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probably not, im a judgmental person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:34 PM
2

molecular bio
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:51 AM
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oh god. i remember how they made such insignificant things into a big deal, i had so much anxiety over that stuff when none of it mattered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:47 PM
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oof, i have a core memory of my teacher at that age shaming me brutally for not liking tomatoes in front of everyone. i think half my shyness comes from there lol so…dont be like that. kids retain the words you say a lot more than an adult would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:13 PM
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how old are kids in 2nd grade?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:04 PM
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im sure he’ll love it just for the fact that it moves with a remote!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:58 PM
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the 5yo boy i babysit likes paw patrol stuff and spider man merch. he’s also obsessed with those popping plastic thingys and always has one with him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:53 PM
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her songs are addictive, i grew up with them so i associate them with a lot of my life and i like feeling nostalgic. she also has really nice storytelling that attracts girls a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:44 PM
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22, i wouldn’t go past 3, 5 if things are really exceptional. i want to be able to relate to each other’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:04 PM
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its only a matter of time! and the whole new relationship energy thing will only make it more frequent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:24 PM
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it depends, in some situations they’re easy to understand, in some others i’m confused af
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:31 PM
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one is worse because i’d assume the sex didn’t happen yet but would happen soon. second is also grounds for divorce/break up but I’d feel more disgusted than betrayed so I’d move on faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:11 PM
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oh i didn’t get that there are multiple women involved
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:21 PM
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usually there is one or two products like foundations that are used almost daily, find those and put it under them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:53 PM
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menstrual products, hair brushes, inside make up boxes or palettes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:35 PM
2

i would probably be less afraid of spiders
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:28 PM
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aw isnt that cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:40 PM
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my brother just told me he watches the brazil vs germany game of the 2014 world cup whenever he’s mad about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:38 PM
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this reminds of something i read a while ago. a sociopath who would make suicide pacts with people in mental hospitals and then not hold his end. he did it enough times that the cops got involved and when i read about it, they still didn’t know if they could charge him with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:33 AM
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nothing, he would be dead too soon for me to have my grandparents life vision
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:27 AM
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this woman is a disgusting trolling idiot, i can’t stand her. she’s probably selling them to the fetishists from her 90d audience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:21 AM
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lmao that was a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:15 AM
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raw red onions are divine on everything but they have to be thinly sliced
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:14 AM
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he’s really hot though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:10 AM
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i made it in the summer, it was so good!! i was so glad i made it when nobody was home, it wouldn’t have survived a day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:15 AM
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this sounds so good and so easy to make, please don’t delete it, ill make it someday
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:13 AM
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this sounds so good! there’s really nothing better than the combination of sweet brie and berries
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:11 AM
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i love mulled wine so much, mine is a little different, i make it the german way. i don’t use cranberries or hibiscus tea, but i add 2-3 oranges, cloves, anise stars, and fresh ginger. i simmer the spices with equal parts water and sugar until its a very fragrant syrup then add the wine and oranges. my dad is a little freaky and likes serving it with rum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:09 AM
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i dont really think she actually knew she could. i think in her case it went from excuse to excuse to not be a desirable celebrity , like she didn’t need to lose weight because she was a new mom at first, then because she was in a committed relationship, and when that relationship started to crumble, bc she was now a married mother and desirability isn’t expected of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:20 PM
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I kind of agree but idk if my memories are blurry but she lost weight after the divorce. my take is that getting close to her thirties and realising that she has never had the “desirable” celebrity moments made her 1) marry the dude as a cope and then 2) divorce him and loose the weight to get that before she’s too old
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:47 PM
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do they think in words at all? my mom has a narration but not with her voice. idk dont ask me, i talk to myself 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:24 AM
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you’ve awakened my inner judgmental self, wth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:22 AM
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im so sorry ):
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:20 AM
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ladyboners is full of old women, go on tiktok to see young women’s thirst traps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:18 AM
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this isnt a woman thing, i was shocked last month when a bunch of people here said they think visually and don’t talk to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:11 AM
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yeah lol he learned his lesson, all he talks about now is ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:10 AM
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if i remember well he recommended gay conversion therapy to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:07 AM
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she actually has a multi-million following on tiktok, her channel is a repost of those. she got in right when the previous icecream cake dude was getting cancelled and exploited the opportunity so smartly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:00 AM
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i watch her on tiktok almost every day since march or something, she has a soothing voice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:57 AM
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i like getting gifts from people who know me very well, so i can appreciate the gift but not from other people. my bf says he doesn’t like getting gifts but he was happy when i gave him little gifts and he still uses them, so i ignored what he said about that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:19 PM
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i agree with grid, i don’t think we’re meant to all get along even if the world only had people of the same gender. its easier for me to relate to and understand women therefore it’s easier for me to form close friendships with women, but…65% of women still secretly annoy me and id never be friends with them. that number is just higher for men bc i don’t usually have things in common with men and don’t usually seek those friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:55 AM
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idk it depends on what the occasion is, when i say that for christmas i really really mean it bc i don’t have anything to give back, its always so embarrassing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:50 AM
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it doesn’t matter if they act like platonic friends and go to those lengths to deny it, i am not the thought police, idc what is the truth deep down in their head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:44 AM
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genes are funky, my parents are both tall and had 2 tall kids and one really short one. in any case, short + tall is more likely to produce tall than short+short, that’s pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:27 PM
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it’s okay, i do that too. we can heal someday maybe, hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:13 PM
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a close friend asked me to move in together sometime in the next few months and i really want to but ill say no, im pretty sure we’re not compatible to live together and it would ruin the friendship. i like living in chaos and she likes hyper-organisation, i already can see myself going insane
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:29 AM
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i havent seen you around in a while!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:23 AM
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when we both have stuff to do, he picks me up in the morning and i make him coffee and breakfast to bring with us in the car
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:05 PM
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oh no same major, just different..orientation or specialisation i guess would be the right words. i liked it but i was way more excited about the other one. i was so excited to learn then the pandemic and lockdown etc happened and i lost all that excitement and after going through that, i just wanted an easy semester. so when she told me that, i kinda resigned myself to the fact that what comes easy to me isnt the stuff im the most into. im guessing she meant it as a compliment bc we were talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:59 PM
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well it’s a tad too personal but she basically tried to compliment me by saying i was so great in another field of study than the one that i initially wanted to get into (in which she’s in too) and that i don’t have the sense of detail for it, which was true but i thought i could improve on that. she was right, but the discouragement i got from that little conversation changed all the school choices i made in the next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:39 PM
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i was thinking about something a professor i had at the beginning of the pandemic said and how many major decisions i made differently because of that short conversation. she has no idea it was that decisive to me and i wonder if i ever said or did something that stuck with someone without knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:15 PM
1

me too! ive been curious about it for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:12 PM
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i get uncomfortable when i read male astrologers for some reason. i used to buy a little weekly astrology booklet last year and i loved it until i found out the author was a man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:09 PM
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evil 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:08 PM
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there’s this video of a clown screaming and his screams kill me every time i watch, nothing else about the video is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:39 PM
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😟
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:37 PM
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that subs makes me so uncomfortable, i cant wrap my head around carrying around so much vile hatred for children. it’s completely normal to not want kids or not enjoy being around kids but….that sub is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:56 PM
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it’s not a detriment at all if the dude is funny, as long as he’s not alone in his clown moments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:51 PM
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mean girl behaviour, smiling in your face while acting just passive aggressive enough to let you know you’re not liked but subtle enough to be able to deny it if confronted about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:49 PM
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mh this is true, little things start to mean a lot more than they should
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:46 PM
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most of the “waiting” at the start of my relationships were insecurity driven, but 2 weeks is enough time to have a couple of dates and figure it out. by then, i know how i feel about it. but i never really make the first move, so if he doesn’t try, nothing happens until he initiates it. well at that point, it’s usually pretty obvious if i like the guy bc i act flirty and affectionate and if we’re going on dates for 2 weeks, we probably made out a bunch of times by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:49 PM
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i would fake my own death and go start a new life as an immigrant orphan somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:28 PM
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no, not at all. sometimes i feel self conscious when he’s more dressed up than i am, but i never like…have any urge to sabotage him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:45 PM
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same my favourites are october and june, and i hate january and february, sometimes depending on the weather march too. but january is truly the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:20 PM
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constantly, but im insecure af.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:04 AM
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i used to think like this sometimes but i also never struggled with studying ever. thats not the case for everyone, sometimes “putting the work in” isn’t worth the effort bc what you like to study doesn’t make money and what makes money isn’t worth the effort it takes you to get through studying it. plus, it’s never a complete meritocracy especially under 18, where and how you grow up change how easy it is for you to put in work so much more. looking down on people bc you think that job is for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:36 AM
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yeah but like the source of the insecurity is him not being that attracted to me, not that id be a good mom. i dont want to be chosen if his compromise is how much he’s attracted to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:46 PM
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it really is!! but it takes time to get that comfortable and go through those situations often enough that it’s an implicit thing, ive been friends with mine for at least 5 years and 10+ with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:26 PM
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with my close friends, i usually get butt hurt and do react immaturely but they also know that i do get over it at some point and we talk about it later, so they’re still comfortable with calling me out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:59 PM
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it’s truly fascinating. my boss owns a tiny rich people dog that she brings sometimes to work and that dog is so adorably stupid. i always wonder what is going on in her head
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:57 PM
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its normal for it to be hard, but it’s better for you in the long run. there is no such thing as a bad texter, especially for many many days. your instincts will tell you to give in more and chase her as she ignores you, but don’t listen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:52 PM
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i have never given this any thought
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:49 PM
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it is not, cut your losses and let them go
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:47 PM
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i visited my ex roommate last month and i lived with her for 3 years, but when i stayed the night she really went all out on the cleaning and decoration and everything. it was so sweet haha i teased her a little about it but i found it very endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:06 PM
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it depends on exactly how bad, if it’s really bad yeah but if it’s not great or awkward it’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:40 PM
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people have interpreted my normal friendly behaviour as flirting too but sometimes when i do intend to flirt, it can also be interpreted as normal friendliness so it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:46 PM
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good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:24 PM
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i watch those when i come across them on tiktok but i have no plans of ever becoming a stripper or sugar baby lmao it’s like how i watch hours and hours of men hairstylists talking about and setting hair implants but i wont need one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:06 PM
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butterflies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:06 PM
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i have no idea lol i don’t have much to my name at 22, and my parents are both married to other people who have other kids so it’s complicated to say how much exactly is “my” family’s property.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:02 PM
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i kinda agree. i found out my bf did some when my opinion of him wasn’t great and it only made it worse. then i kinda forgot about it and got to know him and we dated then he mentioned it again and it didn’t matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:57 PM
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i kinda agree. i found out my bf did some when my opinion of him wasn’t great and it only made it worse. then i kinda forgot about it and got to know him and we dated then he mentioned it again and it didn’t matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:56 PM
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size them in their sleep. i did this to my bf when i wanted to get him a bracelet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:25 AM
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i think avoiding tearing might be worth it but once you’re close to being due, you could definitely have a lot of “fake” contractions. i am way more terrified of being cut open AWAKE and have my organs pulled out of me and core muscles cut than of contractions but natural birth complications like huge tearing and placenta issues scare me more. and c-sections are not good for the baby so that would probably haunt me forever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:19 AM
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it smells sooo good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:14 AM
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flirty social relationships describes it well, i knew they had a thing for me and never doubted their attraction so it’s easier than trying to gauge how a stranger you don’t know will treat you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:41 PM
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i had 2 fwb and one blurry fwb-bf thing between my ex bf and my current relationship. i feel guilty for the blurry situationship , but i cant say it wasn’t good or that i regret it. and i was close friends with one of the fwb before so that made things more complicated but also more intimate and that i think i regret none were “strangers casual sex” though, i knew them all for a while before any ambiguity and imo that probably shielded me from the “bad” casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:30 PM
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almost a year now but we also had a short lived thing 2 years ago lol lmao that was so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:23 PM
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omg stop you’re going to manifest it and i still have 3 years to go before being married at 25 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:15 PM
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im guessing its a microfiber towel and i also have a special microfiber hair towel like that i only use for my hair and nobody has ever found it weird. why would he focus on something so insignificant, that’s insane and thinking about what his family would say about a towel??? wth?? why would anybody notice her hair towel let alone judge it? i bet he’s like that about other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:05 PM
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aw how cute, congrats!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:01 PM
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what symptoms do you have? its kinda hard to ignore a concussion for weeks let alone focus enough to get through exams, maybe something else is happening to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:09 PM
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dry your tears, there is a unique type of cringe to 30 something angry bored millennial women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:30 PM
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blog entries articles like that are dying, they need anything to keep them alive. if using harsh angry words gets them, they’ll keep using them and the more you click on them, the more you’ll see like them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:16 PM
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i mean its not that open of a platform, it has 2k viewers so im guessing things like that are kept alive by ragebait clicks and bored ageing millennial women like the author
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:49 PM
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they focus on being sexless bc they're horny and it seems like this one important thing, more important than everything else i agree, especially if they don't develop friendships later on. that seems like the kind of loneliness that would be draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:23 PM
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no, whats superior is staying close friends with your hs friends all throughout college and associating them with way more than “home”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:48 PM
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but they can do fun stuff like parties with friends without a gf though. they missed out on that because they didn’t have friends or weren’t sociable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:44 PM
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i find them so hot too tbh, they’re usually flattering
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:40 PM
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we’ll have a better week!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:22 PM
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i enjoy it as well, i would have hated her even more if she was an exaggeratedly good person who never did wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:28 AM
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she deserves everything she got, that dumb bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:27 AM
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no but i’ve had a similar shitty week, i feel for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:08 AM
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yeah, you like things to belong together rather be look the same what kind of vision do you have for your live edge table?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:11 PM
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that would be my second thought, i would think its some kind of trap and if it’s not, i would conclude that he doesn’t love me anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:09 PM
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no, i would again obsess over it and over why he would offer me a hall pass lol i would never trust it's well-intentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:42 PM
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damn that is beautiful but i never would have guessed that price lol honestly if you can find one with similar legs, it would create a cohesive theme and it would be pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:38 PM
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sure! what are your options?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:17 PM
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i never reach the relaxing part :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:17 PM
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how do you feel about spending time with your bf/gf’s family? my bf wanted to meet mine and often asks me to hang out with his and i always found it awkward af and i avoid it as much as i can. when i talk about it to my friends, they all kinda agree that im actually the weird one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:01 PM
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YES! omg sometimes i even get an "uh oh" feeling when the minor detail happens and i think to myself "omg this is going to come back to haunt me" but i have no idea how to prevent it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:27 PM
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no, i couldn't. i would never let it go, i would obsess over it, it would bother me forever and resurface as a reason to be mad at him at every fight or argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:20 PM
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to add some minimal balm to your heart, i was born just a year earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:06 PM
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i have met those people already 😭 some 13yo this summer told me she wished she were 13 in 2013 like i was and i was grossed out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:17 PM
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obvious enthusiasm and excitement at the beginning from both of us kinda set the tone of the rest of the relationship. if i don’t feel like he is, i get insecure and things suck but if i also dont feel enthusiastic and excited about someone, it’s no fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:17 PM
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i will, i was already so shook that she got engaged to hater of all people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:14 PM
1

what??? was she not engaged last month???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:41 AM
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lmao that's so cute!! how old is he now? 5 or 6 months ? babies are so shockingly strong for their small size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:48 PM
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omg lol did he smash his head against yours
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:21 PM
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i thought my bf had a ton of options when i met him, he had a gorgeous girlfriend but i was sure other girls were interested, altho he says otherwise. we were “friends” for a while and i was always suspicious that he didn’t have a girl after his break up. he’s a very cute party boy and plays many instruments but he’s also an introvert so i think that may have held him back. i don’t think he would struggle to get attention, he does but he’s oblivious to it and doesn’t act on it unless he’s really…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:17 PM
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honestly it could be that your exes were trying to mold you into the style they like or they had no idea what your style is and bought something generic. most men dress themselves just fine but most are dressed very boringly and not in a way that is the most flattering. depends on the guy tho, my ex hated caring about what to wear, he was in jeans and tshirt every time he could and switched it for a shirt if necessary. my bf has impeccable style, he knows exactly what he likes and it's all very …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:19 AM
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oh i have no doubt pete is also like that. he’s going to have to be careful and he doesn’t seem like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:44 AM
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pete is pretty young, he probably came of age when kim was THE sex symbol and he’s kind of a simp so that’s probably what drew him to her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:05 PM
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excessive obvious thirst disgusts me in men, i don’t want to know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:01 PM
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oh! yeah the hair in the pic is probably styled that way but mine is natural that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:32 PM
1

what do you mean crafted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:44 PM
2

anna karenina was so good. have you read war&peace? it's so long but also better my favourite would be pride&prejudice, but i also think it's pretty overrated lol a second one would be the unspeakable lightness of being the most overrated in my opinion would be the great gatsby or macbeth or romeo and juliet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:12 AM
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😔 unfortunately for him, I like my wavy hippie hair more and im just going to have to ignore that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:14 AM
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oh hell no, that's way too embarrassing, I'll forget about it in a few days anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:12 AM
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idk I always thought men liked the big voluminous wavy hair of celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:10 AM
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I don't have curls :'( I have wavy hair, like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:09 AM
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I know I figured it out lol I'm just annoyed because I don't like it. I like my regular hair better and I'm not a fan of straightening it, I wish our preferences aligned
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:51 PM
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I get insecure about the weirdest shit so fucking fast, it's really annoying I straightened my hair today for the first time in years and my boyfriend said he liked it 5 times in the 3h we hung out. by the third time, I was so annoyed about it and overthinking why he doesnt say that about my regular hair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:26 PM
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4-6 we rarely go anywhere expensive though and most of our dates are just eating at the same places we already like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:31 PM
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you're the one not grasping that the change resulted of the legal battle that allowed the album to be recorded and released again, not the album itself, and that happened years and years ago. you're also not grasping that this isnt her first re-recording.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:31 PM
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im nosy, bored, and i hold grudges
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:29 PM
1

nobody is saying that. but she's the first to affect the norms this much for smaller artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:42 PM
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yes to this degree. it may have came out only a few days ago but the legal battles for it are from years ago. she set a precedent with both her fight with spotify and her fight with big machine that have significantly changed things for smaller poorer and weaker artists. before her, spotify took advantage shamelessly of everyone and her standing up to them have saved careers. and now labels are going to think twice when making their contracts and selling catalogues without the artists input. you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:07 PM
1

it stays in the person's post history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:19 AM
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me neither, until it affects me or a little kid but that's how i feel about most things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:09 AM
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uhm this is embarrassing but i keep tabs on everyone, i don't usually reach out to everyone but i have an anonymous insta account specifically to stalk people i dont talk to anymore and see what's going on in their lives. exes are no exception to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:33 AM
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morning laughs and easy procrastination bc interesting topics. I'm also embarrassingly invested in the regulars' lives here so I come to follow that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:41 AM
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the hurt in his eyes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:32 AM
2

baked salmon over half cooked rice and spinach with garlic butter and lemon slices. when it's done, I top it with some pickled red onions and roasted bells peppers. divine!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:29 AM
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dont you know that she had 7 boyfriends in 10 years and that's obviously all that got her famous??? 🙄 not the #1 spot every time she releases anything nor her songs being icons of the last decade???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:23 AM
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she's the first to have succeeded to this degree. her re-recordings aren't the first massive shifts for artists she made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:20 AM
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an absolute legend I now measure time with how many times I can listen to all too well 10 minutes version.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:18 AM
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I went to uni in a city full of people like that omg. they felt superior for absolutely everything from the coffee they drank to the drugs they took lmao I met people like that a lot 3-4 years ago, it gradually got a lot better gatekeeping happens in everything but people I picture as "hipsters" gatekeep everything for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:45 PM
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they're pretentious af and feel superior for doing things that aren't that special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:52 PM
3

well transitioning is really expensive too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:50 AM
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yeah, but I don't really agree. I feel like a fancy long dinner would be so awkward with someone you don't know at all but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:09 PM
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I'm not really fds, and not really. it's mostly about how isolated we would be and how easy it would be to leave if it sucks. I'm not big on huge dinners as a first date but a public location is way better also I'm assuming it's a first date with a stranger, if it were like...an acquaintances first date, the picnic wouldn't be creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:04 PM
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still wouldn't trust it imo, but depending on the picnic location I would be more open to it. great 3rd date though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:01 PM
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wouldn't go if it's a first date tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:56 AM
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yeah I did find a couple of variations of that description that thankfully liked me back too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:54 AM
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not to stroke your ego, but that's not accurate at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:12 PM
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throwaway lady, what is going on??? that guy isnt a 5 even if he were 6'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:01 AM
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you're not a 5.5 ._.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:00 AM
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kids are weird, I feel for the parents who get too into 1. the kid I'm babysitting rn has an emotional support ladle, I'm sure his dad would prefer a doll over taking him in public with his huge ladle I followed her drama, i had no idea conservatorships worked like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:54 AM
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look, dude, if you want validation for cheating, you won't get it from me. it's not hard to not cheat and it's not hard to see why cheating is a disgusting thing to do to someone you supposedly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:48 PM
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it's not low enough to compromise looks for and it's certainly not accurate enough to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:30 PM
1

the pain horrifies me tbh lol but ive heard some people say it's not that painful if that can encourage you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:26 PM
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I hate the taste tbh. in some dishes with a loooot of other flavours I can tolerate it but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:25 PM
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I'm in my early 20s and no I haven't dated a rich dude ._. a guy being fat doesn't make him more unlikely to cheat if he wants to, hookers are a few clicks away. I wouldn't really pick a guy being fat as an indicator of loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:22 PM
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1.5years and I'm pretty sure I haven't been cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:55 PM
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i have never been cheated on, no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:28 PM
1

why would you put yourself through that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:38 PM
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this is such a bizarre thought process '-' these aren't the only options, but if it were, id choose celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:31 PM
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that's a bit sad for everyone involved but if they enjoy their sex life, who are we to judge
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:29 PM
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I want Jake perralta in the body of sxgebender but we can't have everything we ever wish for. a cute guy I have good banter with and doesn't repulse me in any way is the minimum. then there are the nice stuff, like very different but compatible personality from me, a nice smile, a nice voice, sexy hands, self esteem and internal drive. I don't consider being dumb a dealbreaker at all, depending on the rest of the guy, it's even cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:37 AM
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my bf and I's birthdays are 2 days apart, we boh celebrated the day of with friends and then a week later celebrated together. I would have found it really rude if he didn't want to celebrate it with me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:04 AM
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I.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:01 AM
4

remind us of your usernames!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:58 AM
1

going to see my grandma and spend the holidays where she is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:16 PM
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luckily for both of us, that's never happening
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:53 PM
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no, it is pretty normal outside of religious circles and i think i remember you saying you live in a religious community?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:42 AM
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yeah, i agree. mental issues of that order hurt the person and everyone around them. still, i don't know if therapy would be enough to shelter the relationship if it came to that, it's a lot of damage to both people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:32 AM
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a ton of people do divorce for really dumb reasons, and a lot of them are incapable of being peaceful for the sake of the kids post-divorce either. obviously making divorce illegal isn't going to help these cases, they're just going to use the kids to fight in their marriage instead of during the divorce. before my parents divorced they "stayed" together for us, everyone was miserable, walking on eggshells in your own home is never good for a kid. otoh being used as a weapon against one of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:27 AM
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yeah i don't do that, i don't have the patience and id rather just shower everything off after lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:56 AM
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do you go in the evening or morning? in the evening, i get to the gym with the makeup of the day and the way my hair was already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:17 AM
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lets hope it wasn't for murder lmao happy cake day btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:11 AM
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1 year seems like a very long time to be without a job, I think I'd get annoyed at the 1 year mark, I'm not super patient unless it's like related to a health issue and he hasn't started to give up hair loss will also be a hard one to go through and accept but hopefully I'll be more mature about it once we reach that age I wouldn't know how to deal with him being suicidal, that would be very scary. I don't know how I'd handle it irl, I'd probably be terrified and anxious 24/7 until I burn out if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:22 AM
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no, that's a pretty big difference. the matchmaker sets people up taking into account their families, their "marriage projects" with the expectation that if a relationship forms, its with the involvement of family and marriage is happening soon. if I as friend set up two people, I don't give a shit about whether their families would like each other nor do I set them up because I think they'll be a good husband/wife to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:06 AM
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I'll use the day to book a trip sometime in the fall, there are always great flight deals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:00 AM
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no because a friend introducing two people doesn't do it with the goal of getting them married soonish in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:52 AM
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he's probably a big city european, I passed mine at 20 bc I never needed it before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:47 AM
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this whole thread was amazing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:39 AM
1

you saved my eyes!! who knows what I would have seen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:34 AM
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I should have listened omfg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:35 PM
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my curiosity is killing me but I'm scared
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:29 PM
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he wasn't going to let it get his wife's attention 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:25 PM
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would you believe a message like that from an ig that doesn't look familiar or has no identifiable details if you were in her place? I don't think I would, I would ask questions too. it's up to you if you feel that it would threaten your peace too much to not give her more details, don't but if you can, a screenshot should be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:19 PM
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to give you an example, most girls are still in a sport bra and leggings but it's a regular sports bra and not something that looks like a bikini top and the leggings dont give them a wedgie. lmao yeah it is, this place is chaotic af
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:44 PM
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tbf they're not that much more..covered..but they're way less cringy and "show off" less
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:14 PM
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I am so glad I changed to a girls only gym, no more weird cringy women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:05 PM
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he did!! I thought I was having a deja vu moment but he posted her a week or so ago
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:00 PM
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absolutely didn't expect that. I laughed so hard I had to explain it to my coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:34 PM
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im not happily married and my relationship is not the most stable but i've been here single and stayed bc it's pretty hilarious and entertaining. where else am i going to read this : person A : "i hate when i like someone and i know it won't work out" person B : "you tell me, the guy i liked just went to prison" ??? or "dick fumes"??? this sub is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:09 PM
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im guessing because thinking about the kid 24/7 makes them feel disconnect from themselves and they start to miss the free mental real estate they had pre-baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:05 PM
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lmao i laughed so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:12 PM
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i found them on tiktok a month ago and they're so damn addicting. i haven't bought an avocado since just to avoid that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:49 PM
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when he asked himself if he would let the bag of popcorn stand in his way omg lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:28 PM
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I don't really have an opinion about this but sniffing dick sex fumes sent me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:04 AM
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I hope it works out for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:35 PM
1

never bi, but lesbians more often
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:49 PM
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I encourage this!! I would be livid if the father of my kids asked me before getting one but I'd take it a whole lot better if I found out he did that and never told me anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:54 PM
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aw that's adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:30 PM
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same! and specifically with my parents, gratitude turns into guilt. both of my parents insisted so hard on paying my tuition every year of uni and I knew they could both afford it and they both wanted to but feeling grateful for that always turned into feeling really guilty I let them. well I'm not asian so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:34 PM
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i think that even if my parents were being unreasonable, i'd tell them so and still talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:58 AM
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she is soooooo insufferable omfg. she's right about no sexual innuendos, some nervousness, hesitation to touch you too fast and no alcohol pushing. she pushes the nervousness thing too far but I suspect that's because she's a harpy and likes having weak men to bully in her relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:24 AM
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omg haha that's true I never thought of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:16 AM
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yeah I feel like that often even with my parents and especially my friends, if I don't get to give back something, I feel like a burden lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:10 AM
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hilarious and embarrassing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:07 AM
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I think he never liked them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:03 AM
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oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:01 AM
5

but if he loudly identifies as such...he's either socially impaired or didnt understand any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:58 AM
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no because that would be absolutely retarded. if he outright tells me that, he's probably embarrassing in other ways. that would bother me way more than having "red beliefs"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:57 AM
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it is but imo you have to ""diversify"" your support sources. there are many issues I don't feel comfortable going to my bf for support for and it's not his fault, it's about me so I go to someone else that I feel comfortable with. he doesn't need emotional support very often but he likes complaining about things after they're resolved and it doesn't make me feel like his mom to listen to that, that's weird. that girl's reaction is mean. I'm able to meet and date women just fine, but I have this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:51 AM
1

well that's not very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:08 PM
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lmao i thought you were a bot i know but sadly, usually it gets deleted before it can get archive to be recovered like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:57 PM
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they're trying to attract female viewers to actions genres with that because generally, men rarely care about the backstory of a female action character anyway. it failed with captain marvel and mulan, but it worked for the first wonder woman. not because the latter is a better character but because the plot is inherently more attractive to female viewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:38 PM
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oh yeah, i should edit that, extended family is always different. personally i would throw my aunt in front of a car to save a random person i don't even know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:25 PM
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no, if anything wives are the ones who usually keep the marriage unit open to other relatives and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:21 PM
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yeah i get that tbh depending on the reason, i think i would just not make a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:16 PM
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i can agree with your first paragraph yeah, i've seen some people being really awful to their kids and then react with a pikachu face when they stop talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:14 PM
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well no, marriage is merging families, not cutting each others out of their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:12 PM
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do you think you'd drop your immediate family for your boyfriend/girlfriend ? i went to visit a friend this weekend who recently moved in with her boyfriend. she's a white immigrant. the boyfriend's parents didn't like her because she disagrees with them politically and doesn't speak their language so the boyfriend just stopped talking to them. i don't think i could do that, I'd try to keep some peace
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:59 PM
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keep it, it doesn't look too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:50 PM
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oh my god, I thought it was just a bojack horseman joke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:39 PM
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plan b wont work on an advanced pregnancy, but there are a bunch of herbs that will get her """miscarrying""" and could or could not leave her infertile. if it doesn't work, the stairs are still there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:10 PM
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I wouldn't do something that would kill her. just harm her enough to kill the baby, if it takes throwing her in the stairs, or hitting her with my car, or even subtly drugging her, I'll take the legal charges. I'd obviously do my best to make it as non-obvious as possible. assuming this happens where I am, I might just invite her over to "discuss" the pregnancy and "offer" my help over some abortive tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:48 PM
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me too, I feel like I missed out on something great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:43 PM
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I would save the daughter and throw the woman rapist in the stairs. I can't force her to have an abortion but I'd take the assault charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:38 PM
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they're a local artist! oh that sounds so fun!! I never went to a concert with my mom, that sounds like a really nice moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:29 PM
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i got last minute tickets for a concert next weekend, it's my first since 2019 and i really forgot how awesome and joyful the anticipation of it all is, im so excited when was your last one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:12 PM
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she could have brought up being inexperienced but i doubt she would flat out bring up virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:03 PM
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yeah that's a good point. I wasn't treated like his bio kids but I also never had to act like he was my bio parent. I can see how consistency in that point is important for those relationships. I'm sorry you didn't have the type of relationships you wished for, that can really sucks in teenage years. my relationship with my stepmother is very different, but still somewhat healthy and it also was consistent on the bio kid/bio parent front. I think making sure of that was something my parents put …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:17 PM
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only one of my friends has a similar taste as me, most of the time I have to defend my crushes lol but to be fair to them, I also rarely see what they see in theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:13 PM
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i think a big part of men aren't really used or tuned to the overt subtle communication style of women, and most women are. I disagree strongly with the other user, women don't commubicate in an obvious direct way, not even with each other. and yes, sometimes it's defensiveness but sometimes it's just being clueless. I notice girls being into my brother/male friends that I have no romantic interest in. and most of the time, they kinda brush me off unless I actively wingwoman things and they star…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:11 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:30 AM
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as someone with a stepdad and step siblings i adore, i disagree. Imo it depends on the kids and what kind of situation it is, like is the stepdad the only father figure the child has and how the kids get along together i think a big part of why we have a good relationship is because he never treated me like his bio kids, because I wasn't, and he never tried to replace my dad or parent me like one. he never made me feel unwanted or excluded but he is a parental figure in my life but not a parent,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:30 AM
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0.5
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:09 AM
2

why the fuck would he volunteer that information like that right after a kiss, this kind of behaviour is probably what held him back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:31 AM
2

that's what you wish happened. not what actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:23 AM
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I see you don't pick up sarcasm either. why don't you actually defend your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:20 AM
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oh no how edgy, how special, I respect your position so much now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:16 AM
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no, not really and especially not if they're not in a dating setting. and the more inexperienced a guy is the more iois fly over his head
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:53 AM
1

not as much as I value other things. I need them to communicate with me about the things that bother them enough to make the relationship less enjoyable, I don't feel the need to discuss everything and I'm not good at it. im a pretty bad communicator when it comes to my side of things but I'm usually really receptive of their side and style of communication. as long as I know they enjoy being around me and I know they know I do, I think it's good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:33 AM
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she wants to be near you often, talks to you a lot and shows interest and enthusiasm when doing so. casual touching. if she gets a bit more shy than she usually is with other people around you it's a pretty good sign too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:26 AM
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or like a whole lot of men, he's clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:23 AM
1

she left her husband or boyfriend??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:18 AM
1

I'm sorry I can't take this opinion seriously from someone who doesn't like cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:16 AM
1

lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:03 AM
2

older people here eat everything with a fork and knife, my mom is the only older person I know who eats burgers with a mix of both. I don't, and most people my age also don't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:03 PM
1

😐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:02 PM
8

they're actually really *gross
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:08 PM
3

she is so weird, even beyond dating and marrying a kid she used to teach
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:08 PM
1

uncommon enough that I don't really come across it and it would make me feel very icky. current bf likes "soft drugs" and it already makes me pause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:18 PM
1

yeah, I'd find it really weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:14 PM
2

there is nothing random on tiktok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:06 PM
1

I saw it too, I was puzzled. why would you get yourself in troubles like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:13 AM
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I honestly have no idea, I've mostly seen those on the internet and very rarely in real life but they're ugly and crazy impractical, idk why they do that to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:08 AM
2

aw that's great!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:05 AM
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paternal one yes, my grandpa and dad are pretty sappy in general and very affectionate in their words, even if "I love you" doesn't come easily to my grandpa. he does say other stuff like he got lucky to have the best grandkids and life is great when we visit him. but maternal side is. they're from a different country and culture originally than my dad's side and the main "enforcer" of it in my family is my grandma and as she gets older and my direct family is less close to my uncles, it kinda d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:45 AM
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are you the pro chad castration person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:38 AM
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I don't need several months but of course I would lol if I didn't care, it means that I'm not that into him and I'm better off dropping the whole thing. it also means he's not that into me, and again, we're better off not together
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:34 AM
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at least a little insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:25 AM
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my paternal grandpa is pretty comfortable with affectionate words but its true that him saying "I love you" is rarer than other affectionate words. my maternal grandma died when I was kinda young so i dont really remember a ton, but I dont think he ever had a problem with that. maybe he was compensating for my grandma because I don't remember her ever saying I love you, to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:42 PM
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someone who understands 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:21 PM
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but what if it's genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:16 PM
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35-40 ? maybe 45 but above that, he would get too close to her dad's age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:11 PM
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q4all : do you ever get annoyed at someone because they're kinder than you or chose to act in a kinder way than you in a specific situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:09 PM
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i used to think he was ugly, i have never seen him as an adult until now!! i definitely had the "😍" reaction lol edit : i take it back, he was still ugly in midsommar but whatever he did between then and now is working great for him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:06 PM
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I think so. my parents married each other in a rebellion driven fever and stayed together for 15 years, but only liking each other for 10 of those. they both would have options today, they were both good looking in their youth, and they were both outgoing party loving people. also if my grandparents were parents today, they would have had the same rebellious feelings towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:35 PM
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gamer-gym bro or outdoorsy car guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:54 PM
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idk I don't feel like I'm competing with porn stars whatsoever lol it's not like he would actually pursue them?? or that him having an orgasm over them is anywhere near comparable to us. I would also be extremely annoyed if he felt insecure over the equivalent for me, like I'd find it insane if he told me that he felt insecure about me following thirst trap hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:01 AM
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there are way worse things to do your body, including eating too much. but more power to you if you dont like it! no I mean ppd and pills shit, you're only 17, maybe you're still in high school even, you have plenty of time to grow up, this place will fuck up your perception of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:12 AM
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no you're very normal, you're 17, you should leave this place before it screws up your growing up. also try fruity cocktails, they taste like fruit juice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:00 AM
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alright, thank you for answering all my questions!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:00 PM
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i was jealous of his ex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:53 PM
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I was stupidly jealous of his ex, so I brought up the subject of past relationships but we didn't really get into numbers for the reason you just said. I wanted to know his but I also didn't want the feelings that come with knowing, and I think he felt the same bc he didn't push for more discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:22 PM
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thanks! i did my research and mentioned a range when they asked in the very first phone screening, and it falls just a bit lower than the average i found (like a few thousands/year less). I've felt like I had the upper hand throughout the recruitment process the entire time, because they reached out to me, I came out better than the team members themselves on everything they tested me on (my english level, problem solving tests etc) so I feel confident in asking for those few thousands per year …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:13 PM
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not until my current bf but i kinda started the discussion myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:07 PM
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thank you! it went really well, can I bother you one more time and ask if it's seen well to take a day to think about an offer? or should I be prepared to negotiate it and accept it or not on the day of?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:36 PM
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oh I said that bc I remembered them being the ones making the ww2 gas but maybe there are more than one company doing that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:52 PM
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I'm terrified of the whole insertion process, the metal forceps pulling the cervix, the thing pushed all the way in, opened, pulled, cutting the strings, the whole thing scares the fuck out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:51 PM
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ouch damn that's awful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:33 AM
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lmao that made me laugh out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:32 AM
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is it monsanto/bayer/whatever they go by now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:31 AM
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oooh i already asked almost of those questions on the zoom interview, just out of curiosity. I'll keep in mind the expansion question, I didn't think of it. thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:58 AM
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it did until I told him that if I get pregnant, I am 1000% keeping the kid. tbh I've never had sex without a condom, but I still enjoy it just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:54 AM
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vasectomies are great when you're done having kids. there are new techniques that make it more easily reversible but most procedures and most doctors do it with it not being reversible in mind. as for me, I used to be on the pill for sex unrelated issues but I had to switch pills and the new one killed my libido entirely. I was an asexual sex repulsed person for close to a year. then I started dating my bf and was still sex repulsed and I didn't want to get into a relationship like that and I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:47 AM
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that's masturbating, not sex. women dont go to male prostitutes like men do. anyway, I looked at your post history and it seems that I'm not being trolled, you actually hold that opinion. imo you're wrong but you already made a post about it, and arent really open to actual discussion here so there's no changing your mind. enjoy your day or night and bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:39 AM
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it is high and will be high because women are the bottleneck there. men go to lengths for sex that women just don't. even in the age of sexual freedom and easy sex, men are still hornier for women than women are for men. sexual availability is still something men chase, and women give.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:33 AM
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if women are the hornier sex....why aren't they paying for sex? why aren't they the sex giving money to things like onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:30 AM
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alright, I'll keep it in mind thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:22 AM
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great tip, thanks!! do you have any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:21 AM
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._. it always takes me too long to figure out trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:20 AM
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see how much he goes out of his way to hang out with you, wanting to talk to you a lot is a pretty good sign. but you won't know for sure if he doesn't ask you out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:16 AM
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lol this is mean but ultimately it would make me laugh after a few days if I were the wife I wouldn't do it, the mean cat would be too heavy on my conscience but I understand the husband
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:11 AM
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dont be obtuse, the supply isnt the presence of pussy but the sexual availability to it. do you think men and women are equally horny for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:04 AM
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it's not an individual thing, my personal genitals and yours are just a drop in the ocean. when you look at the big picture, men are waaaay more horny for women than women are for men. do you agree with that or do you think men and women have similar sex drives?? it's not a value thing, it's a demand and supply thing. women control the supply because they're the bottleneck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:00 AM
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sure but men still go to crazy lengths for it, there's a reason onlyfans customers are men and sellers women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:58 AM
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I am very easy going so I think that kinda made up for my scientific report way of doing interviews but I'll definitely approach it more like a monologue with some personality and showing off. I kinda always treated interviews like acting gigs and it worked very well for everything but interviews for sciency positions make me go into "structured report" mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:31 PM
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tell that to male sex drives and the lengths men go to for pussy no, the burden of performance isnt what makes it a male asset. nobody values sexual availability in men, it is in women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:27 PM
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yeah yeah I understand but it is what it is. evolutionary speaking,sex is a high risk activity for women and a high reward one for men and the way female and male attraction/ sex drives evolved reflects that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:24 PM
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oh that's good advice. I never think to do the second one, I kinda forget that I am a person telling a story and not narrating a report lol I'll practice adding some personality in them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:54 PM
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tbf they're not wrong that it's not something reluctantly given and women do enjoy it, but again, it's something they give.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:51 PM
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not exactly, because when you add up all these pairs, men come out wanting sex from women more than women want sex from men so it does end up as something women give and men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:49 PM
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thanks! do you have any advice on how to actually show soft skills? is the same star approach good for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:48 PM
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idk how to ask human questions to recruiters, they're like enemies I'm trying my best to bullshit in my head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:43 PM
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for 2 individuals. not for the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:42 PM
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that is true, telephone conversations used to be only for my mom and doctor appointments before I met my current bf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:41 PM
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an entry chemist position, but the competition doesnt seem to be tough. im curious about what kind of general stuff I should be conscious of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:40 PM
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I dont tbh, I know my good angles very well and almost always look better when the pic is staged
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:38 PM
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what are your best interview tips
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:36 PM
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thats not how it works. sex between 2 individuals can be enjoyable and free of expectation but overall, sex is still something women give and men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:34 PM
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do we have children? if yes, I'll probably quietly check out and keep the peace. if not, I'd divorce soonish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:40 PM
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very hot, love it but only in the moment then it bothers me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:23 AM
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like 75% ? depends on where we are and what kind of sandwich filling there is since im picky af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:20 AM
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I forgot about seemedgood but he was so insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:17 AM
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I don't think that trans peoples experiences are...accurate? its very rare to pass completely and it's important to remember that these people felt miserable enough to go through a transition living as their "previous" gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:11 AM
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my favourite to watch is football(soccer) closely followed by tennis, and uhm idk I don't really have a favourite to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:06 AM
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I don't mind, I'm nosey, it's like reading their journal lol I don't understand either, I feel like broadcasting something so private and vulnerable to random strangers and trolls is counterproductive. if I wanted to heal, I'd protect the wound from internet weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:23 PM
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i would let him be a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:16 PM
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I think there really are a ton of bad parents, social media is just treated as a journal rn. but the word "trauma" is absolutely overdone and overused too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:50 PM
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me too, and every time its mentioned later in the show, I cry a little
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:47 PM
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yeah, you can actually sneak into places with your SO. it's not hard to make it like that if that's what you want lol idk about you but my brother is 25, he's partying, travelling and getting high right now. sometimes he probably has boring at home days but his life is definitely not dull nor stale. you have control over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:46 PM
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same could be said about many things in men. but the question here is about insecurities, not what gets you relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:43 PM
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everything. billions are made out of women's never ending insecurities about every possible body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:23 PM
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none of my breakups ever went smoothly but the one I was cold to did ask for "closure" without really using that word, I didn't really answer that bc I felt like it was clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:38 PM
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since I am home, safe and sound and biked back home without a scratch, I'm guessing the nirvana is the most likely 1
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:34 PM
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you absolutely are. you're 26, you've been an adult for 5 years only, 30-35 is old, not 26. you're literally in the middle of your youth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:46 AM
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you don't have to be boring! you're 26, not 46! you have the time and energy to be fun and have an exciting life. why do you reject your youth like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:38 AM
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it's not all rotten apples, you're thinking of "winning back" teenagerhood as your mission. give 26 year old you a chance, you can't always compare it to the version you think you could have been at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:25 AM
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ive been accused of being a hypocrite, it sometimes turned out to be true, i am one about some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:23 AM
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do you guys ever get that sobering up instantly feeling and then be unable to get a buzz again ? i got really drunk last night then something kinda snapped me out of it and i felt cold stone sober in minutes, then i kept drinking a bit but it did absolutely nothing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:12 AM
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you're shooting yourself in the foot and aging yourself when you're only 26. you're still young, you're still youthful and you have time to have youthful experiences. you're aging yourself on your own. you're pedestalising teens and teenage relationships because you missed out on them but you need to realise that there's no rewinding time, and you can either work on accepting that loss, grieve it and make the best of the youth you still have and still have control over or let it pass by too and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:03 AM
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yeah, exactly! it's like brainstorming to figure out what part of my feelings are genuine and what part I exaggerated by overthinking them. idk when it comes to things like migraines, you cant ignore them and there aren't that many immediate solutions. I could be wrong but i think she could have just wanted something like "that sucks, sorry" my bf is like that too, his way to shows he cares is fixing something I complain about but more often than not, I don't exactly need that. it took some adju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:28 AM
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bojack horseman "the view from halfway down" and jane the virgin s3ep10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:06 AM
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I get teary eyed just thinking about it. I ugly cried when i first watched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:02 AM
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I do that a lot, I often come up with my own solutions but I like talking my emotions around the problem out. I don't like coming up or discussing the solutions when my focus is on emotions, and I often approach those things very differently and in different mindsets. i don't like coming up or hearing about solutions when I'm really angry because I can be overly vindictive and cruel when I'm angry and I prefer to wait out the anger before acting. I also don't expect the person listening to agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:58 AM
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oh yeah I remember. idk I have wavy hair and I cant live without shampoo, but i only shampoo the roots and try to not let it run down the lengths. probably harder with short hair tho! yeah, full blown oil masks can be overdone but just a drop on wet hair every time you wash it helps so much with frizz. dont get too caught up in brand names etc, it's all marketing, you need very little products
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:48 PM
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wash it less frequently than you would straight hair, and moisture keeps frizz away. a basic silicone free conditioner and an oil is all you need. put the leave in and a tiny bit of oil when your hair is wet, style the curls when it's still wet and them leave it alone. dont brush it dry ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:07 PM
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realistically I will have like 4 kids. imo the first years will be tiring but I don't think it's all consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:04 PM
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oh hell no, why would he sit and do nothing. I'm a bit different from other women there because if left to my own devices, I can live in huge messes. I'll happily do the cooking and child raising but the cleaning is either split, paid for, or his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:48 PM
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no, the men in my life look like this when I say I want 6 kids : 😨 I like children, being around them, caring for them. it brings me a lot of joy and I find it really fulfilling. in another life, I'd have been a preschool teacher. I don't want to be a ceo or an executive and I want a career where I do my 9-5 and leave, I don't really have the high achieving ambitions, I just like what I studied and want to keep learning about in a job. I also kinda want the same philosophy in a man, I don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:34 PM
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no there's a lot more to it, but i don't think it would be interesting to you, bottom line, i like babies. yeah i upvoted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:03 PM
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What are some mistakes men frequently have made when approaching you? opening up with a negging joke, especially when i haven't noticed him. it makes me want to be real mean back so i just walk away. other mistakes would include opening up with something really sexual, or very personal, or too obviously cocky. then comes being very shy, stuttering, 0 eye contact, no smiling. some nervousness is okay, but if he looks terrified, it's not ideal. most of these can only be approved with practice and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:39 PM
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babies have squishy faces and tiny tiny hands that hold on super tightly to your finger. so i want a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:35 PM
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like 15? there's a loophole though, find a group of kids and be their babysitter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:33 AM
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we're going to have to break up. it's a huge incompatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:30 AM
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his pictures are really awful lol he's cute, he's probably missing social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:28 AM
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pls give us the next chapter of your dating adventures
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:27 AM
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still hasn't, he's somewhere between my siblings and my friends rn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:41 PM
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depends on the person, I like dating someone very different from me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:30 PM
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why are you turning this into a contest lol I do find 100+ hard to believe unless you're like 50
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:28 PM
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every single one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:16 PM
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no, not really. but excessive thirst and obvious pussy chasing repulses me and I cant respect those dudes, and therefore cant date them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:14 PM
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alcohol is used in sunscreen to make it more enjoyable to wear, the alcohol is liquid when you spread it on your face and then it evaporates so it doesn't leave a greasy feeling. sun protectant chemicals are well....chemicals, and arent especially comfortable to wear without formulating them correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:06 PM
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I'll watch your videos later and edit my comment, but I'm obviously not asking him to be a slave to the woman. she deserves everything he could throw at her, and worse. I would probably get physically violent had I been him, but the kid is innocent and as much of a victim of her evil. simply texting her "I need space" and not talking to her would have been better than being mean. edit : holy shit that first video almost made me throw up. jesus fucking christ wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:02 PM
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i can imagine it would, but he raised this girl and presumably cared about her until then. it's misplaced anger to lash out on the kid rather than the one who hurt them both, the mom. the kid is a victim of both, the mom is obviously the worse one but the dad's reaction is much more harmful than him removing himself from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:29 AM
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yeah, like when i see your username i don't associate it with obsessed but maybe pickle set the bar too high because that was true obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:19 AM
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the mom in the thread down is the one to blame and the evil in that case, but the guy didn't have to be nasty to the kid either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:04 AM
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that was a sad read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:43 AM
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the mother is the evil one there, but yelling at her and being nasty to her makes the guy a part of the evil that is traumatizing that kid. she didnt ask to be born. he doesn't have to stay and parent her, but he doesn't have to add salt to a giant open wound already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:41 AM
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I would probably cry to, crying people make me cry. I don't really know how I'd react to crying, but negative emotions is something I've dealt with often and it makes me feel bad for them and makes me want to comfort them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:38 PM
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lmao tbh I don't think you're that fixated, you need to up your game
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:35 PM
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I have a small house party planned. my bf and I are going as perry the platypus and doofenshmirtz
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:33 PM
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no kids, but want them and a lot of them, non-negotiable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:29 PM
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my bf and i were broken up for a week, idk if that counts but neither of us got with someone else. I would break up if I learned otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:01 AM
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no, we trash talk the guy before it gets serious, once they're invested, we keep physical criticism to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:49 AM
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we already have a penis mascot, you should aim for another obsession!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:24 PM
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you cant write a book about flirting, you have to do it or watch it. books dont convey tone and body language. you could say the exact same sentence in a normal way and in a flirty way depending on tone, body language, eye contact and a ton of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:42 PM
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he's not even that cute 😫 it's his monologue, I'm always convinced by his twisted reasons and I'm like "omg but he's right!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:30 PM
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I'm a girl and yes, we've had many MANY conflicts about it. it's mostly getting sucked up in the fun of a new relationship and wanting to be with them 24/7 and thus skipping time with friends. she gets better once we call her out on it though, that's why I believe it's not exactly intentional. she's been with the same guy for 2-3 years and every now and then they get new "honeymoon" periods and they spend every waking hour together for like a couple of weeks and her texting gets significantly lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:51 PM
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joe goldberg lmao he corrupts me with his monologue and I side with him every time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:47 PM
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yeah, my grandma hated everything slightly feminine and delicate in men and often shamed my brother for things like reading and watching "girly" cartoons when we were kids, whatever that meant. thankfully my mom managed to protect him from most of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:44 PM
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that hasn't been my experience with weed smokers at all. maybe people who are high 24/7 but those are extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:23 PM
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yes they do, they actually give out antidepressants for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:20 PM
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having some issues != mental illness/disorders, i get anxious af sometimes but it's not a disorder. being happy all the time is not possible and not realistic, people are not mentally ill when they go through tough times. having a disorder means being more affected by emotions like anxiety, apathy, lack of motivation significantly more and in different ways than healthy people. non mentally ill people aren't unicorns, at all. there are more mentally healthy people than mentally ill ones, but peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:18 PM
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i also trash talk the people next to me in group chats when they keep looking at my phone, this lady is extra insane wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:14 PM
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dont listen to cats, i liked your first post and i like reading people here enjoying their lives, keep us updated!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:10 PM
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the first one isnt toxic femininity at all, its actually pretty good to recognize that she's shitty to that guy and work on it. the toxic trait there would be blaming him for something and playing the victim to ignore that she's the problem. I didn't understand the second one toxic femininity is a thing, but it's not this. an example of toxic femininity would be the women who are extremely passive in everything but the moment things go wrong, the other person is entirely at fault and she did eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:32 AM
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I don't blame them, they have to think of their mental health and struggling people that you don't yet have a bond with are draining. especially if they need to talk about it extensively
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:24 AM
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insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:22 AM
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no, I don't like my personality in men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:30 PM
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joe goldberg behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:49 PM
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pasta breaks my heart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:49 PM
1

There is a certain endearing charm to him, as he's just kinda dumb but seems generally ok and is really trying. my type of dummies 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:45 AM
1

a brave and obvious one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:35 AM
1

I just don't like feeling like a kid or being seen as a kid, and shorter dudes dont seem to give me that impression and I stick to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:30 AM
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I struggle with it in other ways, I can accept being helped and taken care of temporarily like being sick but I struggle a lot with having any type of bond of dependence on anybody including my own parents. it bothers me so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:25 AM
1

i wasnt born when the animaniacs aired but i still watched it growing up, it was so good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:18 AM
5

go out and get out of your comfort zone and coddle your social anxiety as little as possible, make normie friends first and try to learn social skills from them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:52 PM
2

that seems like her personality tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:37 AM
7

you started by complaining???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:33 AM
4

guard your drink, never accept a drink you didn't see being made, if you get drunk go with a friend to the bathroom and do your best to not get too far from them. dont go with any valuable, try to go with just your phone, keys, a card and ID. hold your phone tightly at all times, it could get stolen very easily. otherwise, relax and have fun. it can be really fun if you go with people you like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:38 PM
2

some kids are born a karen, I've noticed kids like that as young as 5 and kids already think they're the center of the world but some are more extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:00 PM
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manly hands
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:57 PM
1

my country already has had coed """"frats"""" equivalents for decades where they put you through hell and back before accepting you in. hasn't been an issue except a few murders and accidental deaths here and there occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:52 PM
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....i do that with my mom too, is it weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:49 PM
2

seeing how more possessive and neurotic men are about cheating (makes sense bc paternal uncertainty), I'd say most men are like you rather than your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:07 PM
4

being a simp on onlyfans doesn't make a man more attractive in any shape or form
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:55 PM
2

no, I just boil a couple of romaine lettuce leaves for a few minutes, take them out and drop an ice cube in the water and drink it a little bit before bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:35 AM
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for me, the biggest trigger is stress. if I'm anxious about something and spiraling, I don't really sleep. the best way to fix it then is to get better at managing that. in the meanwhile, intense exercise, camomile tea, boiled lettuce water, and body scan meditation gets me to fall asleep and stay asleep long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:00 AM
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i found my life and anxiety is so much easier to deal with when I focus on the positive, and I think that will keep me from hopelessness. my mom almost died this year and I was miserable for most of it until I stopped spiraling myself down worst case scenarios and started actually enjoying the moments I had with her. she came out of it okay, and I truly regretted all those months I spent hiding in my corner to soothe my anxiety. I think I'm better off applying this same mindset to relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:12 AM
5

I haven't reach apathy like that, I still have optimistic hopes and feelings around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:08 AM
6

tell me seriously that men would rather get cheated on than dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:22 AM
6

it being disappointing doesn't mean nothing else is ever disappointing, it's not a zero sum game
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:14 AM
6

I consider being dumped and divorced better than being cheated on and I think you do too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:14 AM
1

loud sneezing and being hunched over come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:10 AM
0

kids and teens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:06 AM
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yeah, they screw up the business more than Visa and mc do so they're rarely accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:04 AM
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idk if it's really surprising, more like very disappointing and even lower than regular cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:01 AM
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Ive had nightmares where I'm a dad. very distressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:29 AM
2

I wouldn't go, that's wrong to lady B and you seemed to be so into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:28 AM
1

half a day is probably fine, a day or more does
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:25 AM
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you get more offended by the one that you can relate to, but that's it. both are insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:03 PM
1

I would kill for her hair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:23 PM
1

wearing flesh coloured leggings and black see through stockings is life changing in the fall
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:18 PM
1

not my style but i like the color
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:16 PM
1

right, thats just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:15 PM
2

i think that's a pretty fatalistic article. we're in for major climate changes and likely more natural disasters, but the collapse of human civilisation is very very unlikely. i dont think not having kids is a solution or something that would help at all. having an old population and no young people is a recipe for disaster when the circumstances are far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:57 AM
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omfg what a coincidence i just landed in Manchester and i see this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:52 AM
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I do haha they're also never average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:35 AM
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what other point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:34 AM
1

you should bring it up with them, can't relate to being that tall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:57 PM
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I haven't seen a show with an average looking person in forever, everyone is always hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:54 PM
2

that seems just a little exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:49 PM
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I couldn't live in pure nature, I'd go insane in the long run. I grew up in urban environments and I really cant picture myself living elsewhere. I need to be able to walk to most of the stuff I need to be really happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:42 PM
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to be fair to him, it's also shit women dont tell men about, they tell other women around them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:38 PM
2

okay I get the knee jerk reaction but....isn't it basically a "what to avoid" crash course for you then? the whole know your enemies thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:42 PM
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but...like....people still do these things? they're just not advertising it on a platform that reaches men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:40 PM
2

yes, bc of loyalty to someone who does hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:33 PM
2

small feet or shoes that make feet look small. dirty nails. anxiety ticks, like feet tapping. stuttering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:31 PM
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i like following it, it's pretty fun to read about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:51 PM
1

i don't get how anybody would be surpised by that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:49 PM
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idk im 5'0, there is a point where logistics interfere far more than aesthetics. i dont like feeling like his kid you know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:25 PM
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that's pretty accurate ???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:12 PM
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tiktok taught me to stop negatively engaging, even liking comments that are protesting it makes the algorithm show me more of that. now I rarely run across something I'm not happy to see. negative attention is still attention and is still money. but more importantly why is it thaaat infuriating to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:08 PM
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you haven't met my loving mother
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:34 AM
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i get why a guy would feel that way, but my first boyfriend dumped me and broke my heart for that once already and I will never take that risk again. an open relationship might work if you felt like that and were with a girl that could accept that. I personally know I can't, I'm already jealous in exclusive relationships, an open relationship would probably push me into psycho territory. if I were you, I would never trust someone who stays friends with their exes. especially if the friendship pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:30 AM
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clothes that fit their body type, colors that match, flattering cuts and haircuts and coherent style. you have to make your body look proportional and dorito like with clothes and wear clothes that emphasize your good parts and conceal/draw attention away from the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:05 AM
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I like gym bros and muscles. I draw the line at ped tho, that would worry me in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:02 AM
1

sometimes my snooping urge is strong but never with his posts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:45 AM
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the other side of that coin would be fomo anxiety. I'd be really anxious about being a guy's first everything, I would be very resistant to it because imo it's inevitable that FOMO will get to him sooner or later and resent me for it. no, I don't relate to men's possessive feelings about a woman's life. some of my RJ is related to their relationship lasting 3 years while my longest relationship was 1.5 years. I feel like he already knows himself in long term relationships while my relationship w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:17 AM
2

what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:23 PM
1

I would put them at #1 if it weren't for the french
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:39 PM
1

that's a lot of mental load off your shoulders, self acceptance is great I don't know, I don't relate to this. I think I can be a little crazy and a little weird at times but imo I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:06 PM
1

yes!!! exactly!!! sometimes with little visual trailers but most audio
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:28 PM
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no, sometimes it's quite enjoyable. I also "hear" a different voice when I read words that aren't mine, it makes books very enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:22 PM
2

same 💀 i always think I'm a little crazy when I do that but sometimes it's just easier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:30 PM
2

infp and either 9w1 or 6w5 I don't remember
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:35 PM
3

yeah, I talk to myself all day long in my head, sometimes it's a full blown conversation with back and forth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:32 PM
4

they're into you enough to message but not enough to feed the convo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:55 PM
9

they're not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:22 PM
7

there's really no excuse for that, it sends a very very clear message no matter what they come up with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:02 PM
1

I've never been a fan of purple but I think you can pull it off. your lint roller is your best friend. or switch to dark blue jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:31 PM
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I'm a girl with retroactive jealousy, not exactly about any...behaviour or action of my bf, im just deeply insecure and his ex is everything I would want to be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:06 PM
1

damn that hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:02 PM
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my fav male height is 5'6, my head falls so perfectly on the guys chest, right below the shoulder for perfect hugs and kisses. I've never met a man too short for me, men shorter than 5'5 are extremely rare. above 5'10 gets...uncomfortable for me, 6'+ and above is way too tall. so obviously I'd take the handsome manlet any time, in fact I always did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:00 PM
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mine is too heavy to be thrown, but I have to admit I've cursed, hit, screamed, yelled at that thing many many times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:11 AM
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if my new bf ignored me for 5 whole days, I'd dump him too. hopefully you learn from this short relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:07 AM
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yeah, I can make a list of things I like a lot in him but it's ultimately the sum of all of that and more that makes me love him. sexuality is a difficult thing, she probably needs time to figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:04 AM
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metric system countries have 180cm or 185cm as the "standard" even when 180 is different from "tall", its just a nice round number. from our pov, 6' is an internet meme, the standard is still 180. asian countries and countries where people tend to be shorter also have 175cm as a standard. idk who """started""" it but round numbers are attractive to us instinctively.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:35 AM
1

I expected everything but that omg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:27 AM
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you're maybe just not straight or attracted to men. I have romantic feelings for my bf because he's an all around awesome sexy person. who he is is what makes him attractive romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:26 AM
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deep dark green goes well with black, khaki green too. if you're not used to wearing green thats okay. red too! i didnt think of it but its good. what kind of dark purple? if you don't have pets, then it's unfortunately it doesn't have any solutions. a good quality lint roller is the best option or those clothes brushes. do you wear a lot of wool? it might come from your other clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:11 PM
1

interesting, I've never tasted that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:56 PM
2

I love myself for making a ton of dough and freezing it, I can just go and make 1 cookie when I crave one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:43 PM
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to be fair to him, printers are made to enrage humans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:31 PM
2

they're so much better than cake imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:10 PM
1

its obviously not a good thing lol but you seem to be at peace with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:09 PM
3

happy birthday to him, its also my sister's birthday! I made her cookies since we aren't celebrating together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:07 PM
1

do you have pets? and something green, like those slightly oversized shirt-jackets men wear. leather jackets are also always always a good option and fit well with your style
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:57 PM
8

you just lost your youthful spark and can't enjoy good fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:53 PM
3

i would be hurt af and it would be time to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:50 PM
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you'll relate more and more to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:35 PM
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I'm too young to realistically picture this but I'd feel strange about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:15 AM
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oh my god a real life joe goldberg. where are you in the show? joe is living the same thing you are. I always root for joe but I think this post is ruining it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:12 AM
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idk sometimes more than with makeup, depends on how I woke up that day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:08 AM
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I do that too, it's the emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:06 AM
1

well i thought you knew and were trolling me. but do you want a woman like your mom??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:04 AM
1

yeah, boring exercise is always harder. I like hanging abs exercises, I feel them more and it makes my grip strength better. or weighed dead bugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:44 PM
1

so freud believed we all subconsciously want to fuck our opposite sex parent so we unconsciously look for them in partners. so he believed men wanted to fuck their moms. psychologists after him and modern psychology says he wrote a whole lot of bullshit but he keeps getting proved right by ppl on the internet that do want to find their mom or dad in the people they fuck. hence my rolling in his grave comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:42 PM
2

I only started liking planks once I had built enough core strength to be good at them lol I feel you on the push up, I can hold a plank for a while but still cant do a push up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:22 PM
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why cant you make friends with women?? it's not healthy for either of you, but mostly for you, to have sex with this guy just to be friends, it's going to hurt your self esteem a lot in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:40 PM
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my tone is getting lost here, I'm not trying to be snarky but I did feel too lazy to give you a crash course on freud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:37 PM
2

it is so frustrating! I get so salty about it and they're barely aware of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:24 PM
1

use your own condom and don't leave her alone with them!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:18 PM
3

I honestly dont think it's a man woman thing because some of my friends are like that too even about other stuff than dating. it infuriates me. I spend my time listening to them and giving them detailed advice and then some random person they barely know tells them the same and suddenly it's genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:57 PM
1

but wouldnt it be easier to find friends you enjoy hanging out with that you dont have to fuck to keep them around?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:12 AM
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not really no, there are a ton of types of women I look down on for many reasons so my expectations are low to begin with. the women I chose to be around and be friends are usually cool people who only disappoint me with their horrendous taste in food.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:00 AM
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we have stupid fights, I didn't want to go out with him bc i didn't want to go to the place he picked and also was tired af of socialising, we haven't been seeing each other enough and I complained about it. he took it as me having a dumb excuse just to not see him when I was the one complaining. we moved on since lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:48 AM
1

that's okay then, if you ever look into him you'll understand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:40 AM
1

okay, that makes sense. I wouldn't do that if I were you because I'd eventually resent him and just end up miserable. how do you think you would feel after fucking him? that's the important question to ask yourself to see if you'd do well in that arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:37 PM
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you cant take away status in female attraction, it makes no sense to look at them from that pov. without the fame if you put the two of them in a crowd, they would gravitate towards travis. he's cooler and grabs the attention more. scott isnt ugly but he's a squishy finance bro, there's millions of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:35 PM
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it sounds like you don't even like him enough to be regular friends, let alone placeholder fwb. what do you gain by keeping his friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:31 PM
1

do you know who Freud is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:30 PM
1

oh man that really sucks. I don't get it when it's like a straight route but the moment the car bus whatever starts turning too much I'm deep breathing to not puke. it also depends on the driver, I almost never feel sick on a highway but if my dad is driving, it's over for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:30 PM
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his tattoos are a plus, he looks cooler, I'm saying even without he has a handsome face. scott has a dad bod??? they're not equal, travis may be skinny but he makes it work with his whole vibe. scott just looks squishy yeah but hot musician is more attractive than finance bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:19 PM
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I don't agree, he looks really cool and has aged really well. he has a great body and a handsome face without the tattoos. scott looks bland and very...finance bro type of attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:14 PM
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travis is much more attractive than scott, and he also has status he built on his own while scott is famous bc of the kardashians so women "respect" travis more than scott
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:09 PM
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I don't get it very often but god it is so annoying. and it is time pharmacists accept that ginger chews aren't enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:48 PM
1

oh I didn't know if only, there is no glory in curing hairloss and aging
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:40 PM
1

its banned in my country :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:29 PM
1

because he keeps getting proved right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:02 PM
1

isn't there surgery for that? mine is slowly getting worse but nothing impairing honestly the answer to all of this is lack of financing but still motion sickness seems like such a tiny tiny thing we should have figured out a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:01 PM
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it really bothers me that it's 2021 and there's no real cure to motion sickness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:46 PM
1

what do you mean why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:42 PM
1

oh no, not at all, she's alive and well, she just didnt want me to get covid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:45 PM
1

that's nice! i miss my grandma so much. i wanted to visit her when she had covid but she told me she had more important plans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:20 PM
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i hated beck so much, i had more sympathy for joe than her lol she was a stupid idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:16 PM
1

that's not enough at all, aim for at least 20g per meal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:25 AM
1

freud is rolling in his grave AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:15 AM
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it's a meme, the real time where a ton of people get together is spring and idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:05 AM
2

this is so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:01 AM
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they do, that's good but protein is still what you're lacking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:59 AM
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real, it's how dog training works. it's the same thing when you teach a dog that the sound "sit" means sitting down and will get them approval from human. they don't understand the language there but they understand its consequences. even the ones where it's more "complicated" words like "mad" or "sad" works like that, if they press this button, the human will comfort them in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:51 AM
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carrots are carbs, it's good but try to balance macros on your plate. like you want to add something, add a macro that's not present enough. here if you're eating pasta, you have carbs and fats, but you need protein and some fiber.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:48 AM
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who is she? she looks terrifyingly fake in these so im curious what she looks like in other pics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:44 AM
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young people are naive and stupid, that comes with being an 18yo. you don't have to protect them from everything, they'll learn by making mistakes. it doesn't change that they're naive and a prime target for all types of predators, not just the sexual kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:54 PM
2

me too, ive been having an absolutely shitty week but every time I drive past beautiful trees and breath in the cold fresh air I get all 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:48 PM
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I moved for uni an hour away then came back. I like it here, I am a city person for now and I don't want to move away from my family so hometown it is for the moment. I would like to try another big city at some point but only for a short time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:13 PM
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one of my friends has only been involved with guys that look like clones of each other, some people like what they like and only that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:09 PM
2

it is but it has to be one of many signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:58 PM
3

it has a horrible aftertaste imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:39 PM
1

oh yes definitely I really thought Love would kill the therapist after she took Joe's side and called her impulsive!! yeah, she's the normal person where I'm at too and Love would kill her without hesitation again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:09 PM
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this is so true. especially the downright stupid part, so many people are incapable of formulating why they have the beliefs they have and break down at the tiniest confrontation. I cant stand them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:06 AM
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a lot of women are simply homophobic. they dislike and judge male homosexuality. some also see it as feminine behaviour and don't like that in men. some are worried he's secretly gay and she'll be his beard. some are grossed out by the thought of their partners having sex with men. I've never felt that way towards bi guys and I never thought they faced that kind of things but then I became friends with one and his dating life is.. rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:40 AM
1

no offense but....are you blind? on drugs??? looks like ed sheeran????!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:31 AM
1

a good apple pie with a lot of cinnamon is very hard to resist. second place is raspberry pie. I've never had pumpkin pie but that never seemed very appetizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:22 AM
1

I never initiated anything with anyone but I did want to date some before they showed interest in me, they're slightly different looking. I am kind of a comforting friendly person so I tend to attract mostly guys who are insecure about one thing or another that I never cared about. this usually worked for me bc I like shortish very cute extro guys, and those are the ones I wanted before they showed interest in me. very tall "golden retriever personality" guys seem to like me a lot but are rarely…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:21 AM
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so much worse!! she kills impulsively, he kills with a bigger more obsessive plan I loved how the therapist was like "it's a good thing that you want to kill each other", I appreciated the laugh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:50 PM
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right?? he's insane insane like why would he be horrified that she thinks like him? that's all he wanted from beth!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:46 PM
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??? what a weird reaction to receiving a pity bj
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:38 PM
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I'd choose looks, I'd be treated better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:29 PM
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it does but like...still not enough. losing your virginity is going to be a very vulnerable moment and you want to be sure that the person you do it with will be attentive, considerate and selfless enough to make it as comfortable as possible for you. I get that you know him already but you don't know yet how he is romantically and sexually. be careful to not let new relationship/crush feels to influence you too much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:00 PM
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dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:09 PM
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yes, it's really my fav part of going out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:07 PM
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its pretty normal, especially if you're already tipsy and low inhib it happens very often
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:06 PM
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I have never thought about it and I don't want to ever think about it again. in fact, I am kinda mad that this post will make me think about it in the heat of the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:42 PM
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if I were you, I would still keep it for myself at that stage. I would wait a bit longer until I can trust him enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:55 AM
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yeah, women make themselves close to the guy they're attracted to. if you seem to run into a woman a lot or she always finds a way to be next to you then it's an ioi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:50 AM
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current bf and I decided we were bf/gf 4-6 weeks after our first real date too. it only felt like a serious relationship a few weeks ago though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:41 AM
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I can't think of anything more exhausting and soul draining than dating 6 guys at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:32 AM
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I am scared shitless of spiders, they make me hyperventilate BUT I'd never lose sight of one. never flee, watch where they go and honestly if they're on the floor, take a deep breath and squish it with a shoe or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:52 AM
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I do this shit too, it's so easy to find people with very very few details
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:45 AM
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then I don't really understand, there is a lot between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:44 PM
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I like the feeling I get after exercising and I like how it improves everything in my life. but I also was never an athlete and my starting point was 0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:40 PM
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in a metaphorical way or practical way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:39 PM
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i like your multi paragraphs long analysis of your own thoughts comments tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:47 AM
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it's the kind thing to do if you don't want them to get hurt but I wouldn't say morally obligated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:59 AM
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me too or during the night, idk how to fix the bad habit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:53 AM
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yes, talkative people who have resting smiling face and roundish features
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:17 PM
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same thing with my video, it's so incredibly annoying because there is a reason for very specific objective terms in science. and coddling a tiny tiny part of the population's feelings shouldn't overthrow that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:54 PM
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I watched a video about pcos the other day and it was exhausting, I gave up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:24 PM
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sxgebender on tiktok ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:01 PM
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that is sad 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:53 PM
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people here are mean to you for no reason! you're welcome! I'm doing okay, I've been trying to set my life into a good routine but it gets tough from time to time. how are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:23 AM
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yeah, that's understandable that it would need new boundaries if one didn't have a partner. oh wow! I feel closer to my family than I feel to my friends, so my bf is even further from that. but I live with my family so your theory is being confirmed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:20 AM
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oh yes. I'm glad I met my closest friends years before or it would have been hard for me to trust them as much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:00 AM
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it takes a long time for me to forgive, but I'm not completely against reconnecting. maybe in a year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:54 AM
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I have conflicting feelings about her. I miss her a lot and still love her but I'm also still really really angry and hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:09 PM
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live and learn indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:02 PM
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that's good, if you can stay friends without animosity, at least you still have that bond I wonder too. they're a completely different dynamic for me, but my relationship is also pretty new so I still feel a lot closer to my friends than my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:57 PM
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damn. my ex-friend and I also talked about weddings and being godmothers to our kids. we were friends for a decade so I really did believe we would always be in each other's lives. I still really miss her lol I can relate to that gut punch feeling, I don't know how long ago you stopped being friends but it's hard to move on from that quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:54 PM
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ouch. double the hurt 😔 I don't think I can ever be besties with a boyfriend, it's a whole other bond in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:43 PM
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I swear friendship breakups hurt more than romantic breakups. I never miss hanging out with my ex but I constantly catch myself missing lost friends a lot and it's been years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:36 PM
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please tell us more, your old adventures are entertaining to keep up with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:33 PM
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this is very interesting. you judge her based on how different she is from you when you're doing the same thing that disgusted you initially. I wonder if she'd have the same reasoning and think of you as toxic for reading it without flinching. you also see yourself as objective and rational when two paragraphs before you say you cant help but get triggered. would this push you away and lead to the end of a friendship? did she ask you how you knew fds?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:32 PM
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love was so fucking bad. nothing was okay, and the pretty girl with the ugly weirdo just happened to be a sex addict. I hate that show with a burning passion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:17 PM
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you are so adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:08 PM
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did finding out that she reads fds negate all the good things you liked about her or is it more the idea of her spending time there and your expectations of it that bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:07 PM
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those expectations will hurt you more than the ghosting, especially if it's the very early stages of dating. I understand feeling bummed but manage your expectations so whatever happens you're okay, ghosting is common practice nowadays. if you've been dating for a while, then it sucks even more and you're right in feeling blindsided. I've even heard of people getting ghosted after long relationships so nothing is really surprising anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:03 PM
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im not saying its the only question that matter or that it's what should decide who gets custody. but it is a relevant question to assess the level of involvement. That question is generally asked for kids in elementary school and lower, who typically have one or two teachers and caregivers that the parents interact with on at least a bi-weekly basis. the older the child gets the less the parents will have to interact with the teachers and the question loses importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:32 AM
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I love them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:10 AM
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knowing their teachers names is a direct indication of how involved they are in their education. it means that they met and spoke to said teacher enough times to know them, and listened to the kid talk about school and the teacher. it depends on the kids age and the older they are the less important it becomes but for small children under 10, it's a pretty important detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:01 AM
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you're thinking about other dudes that may or may not be a fragment of your imagination while your gf is being nice to you. wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:19 PM
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that doesn't happen lol best you can hope for is the facade of being respected like one. achievements and knowledge can make them value you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:38 AM
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I both pity her and feel disgusted by her choices, it's a conflicting feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:46 PM
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im a girl, dont dismiss me as a man just because you disagree. from what I read, most experiences with gynos are bad, male or female. I really doubt it's much more likely. I also felt more comfortable with the idea of a female gyno at first but after so many horrible ones, I decided to give male gynos a try and while some were as terrible, I found one way better than all of the others. it's just not logical to expect male gynos to be worse because they never experienced having a vagina. lots of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:15 PM
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that's your obgyn being a terrible doctor and not exclusive to males lol you're going off the false equivalence that female gynos will be more empathic or understanding but that simply isn't a universal experience, especially older female gynos. they can be just as judgemental, rude and cold hearted as you describe. dont judge your doctor by their gender, read reviews, advocate for yourself and get to know them before getting into a serious situation first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:03 PM
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i have watched hundreds of videos of these before/afters, they're so satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:57 PM
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omg I had forgotten code lyoko existed, I used to be obsessed with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:39 PM
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my sisters and my mom and I do, less graphic and more whining but the level of detail is pretty accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:28 PM
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I think the basics of its anatomy, hormone cycles and like how getting pregnant works should be thaught in sex education. but talking about the details and experiences of it is a girls only thing imo. I don't think it brings men or women any benefits and especially not teen boys or teen girls. I get extremely irritable when hangry but for me personally it's not the same emotions. like I'm cranky in a leave me alone, existing sucks rn when on my period and I'm cranky in a picking fights way when …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:27 PM
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god I love the phineas and ferb one, especially in my native language but my fav is kim possible 100%. the kim intro was kept in english when I was a kid but I recently found out they translated it and it is horrendous, idk why they messed up something so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:12 PM
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eh I don't think I agree. men are judgemental af about periods and skeeved out by everything related it. it makes sense from their pov but it doesn't help the girl talking about it in any way. it's not like men learn from it if it doesn't affect them (so if it's not the period of the girl they're fucking). if period talks happen it should happen way into adulthood imo. no, it's not like that at all. the closest non period feeling I can associate with it would be waking up really really tired fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:32 AM
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your poor wife. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:09 AM
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randos? no. people you care about and who care about you? their opinions will matter to you consequently bc you care about them. no matter the decision you take at the end, you'll have their opinions in mind. sometimes it's good to hear them out and take it into account, sometimes it's not, it depends on the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:02 AM
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it depends on the woman and on her diet/lifestyle. cramps are pretty universal bc the cramping is needed to eject the uterine lining, but the severity and pain depends from woman to woman on a variety of factors. mood swings depend on how her body handles hormonal fluctuations and depend on underlying factors like preexisting mental illnesses, again diet, stress etc. you don't know about it bc generally, men are sheltered from periods. women avoid talking to men about periods unless the man is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:47 AM
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I'd look for a nice pillow to scream-cry into
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:08 PM
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that one is truly straight to fashion jail
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:58 AM
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me too, I'm so excited about it, they're always so adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:58 PM
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he's def a dirty player but in social situations he has an endearing attitude imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:56 PM
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he's always so joyful and positive, he has a warm attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:45 PM
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this goes with I see irl. my bf likes to think that I need him for a lot of stuff but I just ask him or let him do it bc i know he likes feeling needed and i want to make him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:42 PM
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men - socks and slips, socks and flip flops, socks and sandals. ass crack revealing pants, tops that don't fully cover a gut, unmatched colourful combinations. small thick square glasses with no edges. women- the tiktok uniform(sweatpants and heels), underboob stuff, oversized everything, ass crack revealing pants, see through stuff, small tits in big tits clothes, big tits in small tits clothes. super long pointy nails. I dont mind booty shorts on thick legs, some girls look really cute like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:34 PM
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no but I understand his reaction, that would have made life so great for him lmao. he loses me when he protects it on all women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:07 PM
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I'm a juventus fan but I still wouldn't just date a guy just bc he plays for juventus. however I'd be really pissed if I found out one of my sisters rejected one of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:01 PM
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chiellini is endearing in his own way, he's not handsome but he's a charming guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:59 PM
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damn, why did you ask lol you did this to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:00 PM
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idk I think I'll resent a husband who saves me over the kid forever, unless we already have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:56 PM
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same, one of the only situations where I could live with choosing myself would be if I have other kids who need me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:53 PM
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meh that's just mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:48 PM
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if my parents adopted a baby, I'd never leave the baby again. I can completely understand. but you're young and naive, don't make decisions that will change your whole future based on your feelings rn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:40 PM
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she doesn't like muscular dudes in general but this guy is plenty assertive. like he just approach her in the middle of the day in the street on campus and told her she was cute and they should exchange igs lol then on that same say he set up a first date. I think she wouldn't have given him a chance if he did anything that would make her anxious in any way, that's why she dropped all the other guys she has been interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:26 AM
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aw yeah it doesn't make sense. it would, its stains are pretty resilient and if you drink coffee shortly after whitening your teeth, the stains are even more resistant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:10 PM
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do you drink coffee or tea?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:04 PM
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oh no he doesn't have any typically feminine traits. altho you still look fairly masculine even with long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:42 PM
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yup me neither but i keep it to myself, im not going to be mean about her first boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:41 PM
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she or he??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:48 PM
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see you in dec 2022 for the other one!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:51 PM
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oh well in our sad country, new years eve is like 2 days before the important freshman exams so that's unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:50 PM
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why specifically new year? as for end of 2022, I kinda have the same feeling. by then she'll be working a boring 9-5 and he'll be discovering the real fun uni times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:47 PM
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end of 2021 or 2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:45 PM
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well I don't think it's desperation bc a week before meeting him, she rejected a much more attractive dude imo but otoh he's really not my type so I'm biased. I'd say they'd be more or less looks matched. by non threatening masculinity I mean that she doesn't see him as hyper masculine bc he's young and naive etc but he's also not feminine at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:44 PM
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idk the specifics. but he also looks like a skinny teenager so he's def not at peak strength. and he's intimidated by her being unexpectedly older than him, so that's reducing that threat too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:09 PM
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peak of horniness, yes but strength eh idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:07 PM
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lmao I'm sure we could set up something like that, wouldn't be as funny translated tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:05 PM
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we have a group chat where we text each other updates throughout our days, I know what they eat, when and how they feel about it. comparatively banging is big news
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:35 PM
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those samsung sliding phones. I had a pink one and glued a ton of fake diamond on it, it was hideous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:34 PM
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I think she likes him bc he's young but still masculine, so it's like non threatening masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:32 PM
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they haven't seen each other naked yet, she's definitely fearing him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:31 PM
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I told myself the same thing lol but my mom has been in therapy for a few months for way more serious stuff and from what she tells me it really sounds like she's paying someone to be her friend and argue with her about her life. I think ppd is a nice free alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:56 AM
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22!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:54 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:40 AM
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in a shocking turn of events, the 18yo who approached my man fearing friend and her are now seriously dating. she's been whining about wanting a boyfriend for years while never going out of her house and rejecting every boy who somehow managed to get to see her that I seriously believed she'd be single forever. never did I expect her to date a 18yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:36 AM
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some people really look so much cuter with glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:32 AM
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I like the way society is rn, and I'm pretty content of my dating life. I don't believe hookup culture is bad or shouldn't exist, my one issue with it is how it's portrayed to naive stupid teen minds and the consequences that come from it. but it's more of an issue with media portrayals than with hookup culture itself. I don't do anything to prevent or spread it out, the only thing I try to do is demystify it to the pre-teens I come in close contact with so they dont grow up basing their self wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:31 AM
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life is a never ending cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:31 PM
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I get an urge to kidnap every baby and toddler that interacts with me in public. especially when they're talkative toddlers who have a lot to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:28 PM
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I don't understand why infrastructures and hospitals aren't transferring into dealing with it like a seasonal illness that peaks in winter. I could understand mandates in the urgency of 2020 when the danger of overwhelming hospitals was real but it's been more than a year now. they had enough time to prepare for the winter peak, both in terms of resources and space. as for trust in medicine, it would really help if the general media didn't reduce information to "yay" and "nay" news and could use…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:25 PM
2

well they sound like they're on the same vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:20 PM
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idk why or how but it feels amazing. it's like satisfying pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:41 PM
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honestly if the best friend is as religious as her, god told me is a genius anti-conflict solution 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:37 PM
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I'll wait semi patiently until the next purge!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:24 PM
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I don't think I saw you, the only blondes I remember are the gif girl and splithe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:25 PM
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yeah, we didn't see your face a ton but still omg lol your dress was adorable tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:24 PM
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oh damn, i saw you before and still didnt recognize you !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:43 PM
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ive been with a bi guy before, never been with someone who paid for sex. I'll take the former
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:47 PM
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💀 what an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:42 PM
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no, I watched the spidermans exclusively for her. I completely disagree, she's gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:20 AM
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crushes like that suck :( don't make up scenarios in your head, you'll break your own heart every time. expectations like that hurt way more than whatever happens in real life. try to snap out of it when you catch yourself doing it go out and flirt with other girls and forget her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:17 AM
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oh my lol thank god you're maintaining this place tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:51 PM
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ew no, hell no. im not a thirsty man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:52 PM
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same, it depends on the days and I too have a horrible relationship with pics. a single bad pic can bring me down for months. especially unexpected "candid" pics bc it haunts me for so long that I could be looking like that and unaware of it. and it's definitely worrying too much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:45 PM
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I love my little tiktok thirst trapping crushes but they need to stay online only
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:36 PM
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no, some people here (some self IDed incels some not) are genuinely shitty. they use ppd to lash out. but we also have a few great people, it's not all doom. I don't really take anything I read on ppd seriously bc of that if it's you in your post history, you're really not bad looking. but I understand, I'm also insecure and self conscious af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:32 PM
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okay, but you dont have to be "on a break" and technically single to think about it. you can just be like "hey let's not talk for a few days to think about it" I see it as a pass to cheat too, that's why I don't understand why would anybody get back together after that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:25 PM
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kinda expected from ppd lol thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:16 PM
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many women wish that their careers made them attractive too, yet I wouldn't say that being valued for your money is a privilege men have. would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:14 PM
1

retinols increase the skin turnover rate & stimulate collagen production, keeping the skin looking younger for longer. they're not necessary at your age, especially if you don't have any acne. find a simple good moisturiser, a good spf and a cleanser and you're good for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:58 PM
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he's a man who doesn't know shit about female lifting. ideally you should be squatting near your body weight, something like 70 to 80%. if you can't, try to build up to that by starting at half your bodyweight and loading progressively and squatting twice a week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:04 PM
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how can you practice to 135 with dumbbells '-' if I dont have the thighs strength to squat 135lbs, what makes you think I'll have the grip strength to carry, hold and move any weight near that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:01 PM
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I've never understood the concept of a break. why would you just not break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:52 PM
1

aw :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:49 PM
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cute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:26 PM
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I suck at baking complicated stuff, im not even joking it's been infuriating me forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:23 PM
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I love scrunchies, I love wide legged pants. love the dresses trends rn, and hair trends. the worst imo are the low rise pants. they're so ugly. and the baguette bags.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:14 PM
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fashion challenged I love this saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:32 PM
1

really???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:29 PM
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well I do agree that a lot of women look down on being a sahm but that also means that it's no longer a one income household anymore. otoh isnt daycare expensive af in the us too? I read a ton of women who dont really want to be sahm but do so until the kid goes to kindergarten bc their pay is lower than what daycare would cost. I don't live in the us so that's a concern on nobody around me and effectively most households are a two income one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:28 PM
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maybe but to me, it's a good influence. having fathers is really important for kids and it's probably a good thing for the men too. it was even more that way, do you think men got custody of their kids in the 50s? I disagree, most modern women wouldn't want a man like my grandpa. I loved him, but he was really not involved in his kids life. he was just a floating presence. fathers who have such a hands off approach today are complained a ton about today and probably divorced too. I also disagree…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:22 PM
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I mean, it's not something I wasn't agreeing with. hot people have everything way easier. you're wildly romanticising my grandma, she really isn't the stereotype of the 50s housewife lol she was beautiful in her youth, that's for sure. way prettier than the average woman today, but she's also more merciless than average women today. to her, mental health and bumps in the road are shameful excuses, she would have left my grandpa for sure if he wasn't pulling his manly weight. she also may or may …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:10 PM
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my grandma would say (and did lol) be skinny and make him good food. she's not about the whole sweet submissive wife though, she was always bitchy and it only got worse with age. my grandpa was a chill man though, he was very patient with her crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:46 PM
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she never worked, my grandpa was her provider, then when he died she lived off his retirement and savings and still does right now. she doesn't live with her boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:18 PM
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my grandma? she's still alive and well, rn on a trip with her boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:59 PM
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exactly! which is why I'm not doing a relationship with those terms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:40 PM
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lol well listen my guy, maybe ppd should start a backbone 101 class it's never too late to trust yourself enough to make up your own opinions and hold onto your values, you got this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:38 PM
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oh yes, it absolutely has to be freely given, agreed. it's not an obligation I would tell someone out loud that they have to do it, but it's a big part of a relationship for me. if I really like the guy and he doesn't seem to want to talk to me, I'll feel rejected and I'd bring it up in a gentle way. but if it's still something he doesn't want to do, it would be time to peace out and move on, there's no point in forcing someone to do something they don't want to do with ultimatums and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:04 PM
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the 70 orgasms, the dumping hot girls, the weird hookups details. 10/10 entertainment, 0/10 realism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:24 AM
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omg that was an entertaining read lmao here's definitely a larp wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:14 AM
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sorry those are girls only, go bench press or smthg one of my leg days used to be done almost entirely at the squat rack. I'm shy in mixed gyms, I don't like changing locations lol so I'd do squats, barbell lunges and good mornings then move
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:10 AM
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going to a girls only gym has been the best decision ever. so many squat racks and stairmasters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:00 AM
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I haven't seen it in a while, I think I'll follow it this year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:50 AM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:50 AM
1

I think too hot to handle is more cringe that the bachelor bachelorette, those people are so horny for no goddamn reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:49 AM
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no pls I have ptsd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:39 AM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:38 AM
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he has today!!! this place finally felt normal, I hope whatever he was battling that kept him from his mission is over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:34 AM
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busy days is a shitty excuse in this day and age, no matter how busy we are, we are all still holding our phones 24/7 in our hands and still checking it multiple times a day. I don't expect daily hours of texting but like a daily 5min of texting doesn't hurt you days a ton and goes a loooong way in making me like the dude. I just can't picture a relationship without daily conversations, why are we together if the dude can't stand talking to me everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:33 AM
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bc it's nice bonding and nice to hear from someone you like and ask them about their day and how they're doing daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:23 AM
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you were 29 when I joined this place and somehow it stuck as your age in my head. I've been here for too long
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:19 AM
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this is so specific, would you ever send it directly to the women you have in mind? You call it “settling” your married grandmothers did not. this is a ppd men fever dream. grandmas aren't sweet submissive heart eyed women lol my grandma fled a war torn country and settled for a local and led her household with a firm hand and fds-like values. she was against my parents marriage and told my mom to dump him and settle for a nice man who wouldn't make her work like my grandpa. to this day, she tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:16 AM
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facts 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:07 AM
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I'm on tiktok all day every day and except for bella and Dixie, I have no idea who these girls are. china truly gifted us an amazing algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:05 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:56 AM
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right haha like it's not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:47 AM
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okay being 19 is a good excuse for being influenced easily so I understand and isolation adds to it. but it's never too late to develop a spine sometimes I read the stuff the women here describe about their lives, and I kinda feel 2nd hand rage at men. but then I remember that I cant relate to that at all, and it doesn't gain me anything to feel like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:46 AM
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no it's time to develop a backbone! you cant let things influence you so easily, where are your own opinions???!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:36 AM
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exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:31 AM
3

current bf is the tallest guy I've ever kissed let alone been with at the tall height of 174cm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:24 PM
1

could be the glasses effect aw no, I have my mean girl side too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:21 PM
1

who
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:11 PM
1

I'd be devastated what am I going to procrastinate with if ppd is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:11 PM
2

I only date manlets
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:05 PM
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you're such a valuable presence here pickle man, what would ppd be without your daily simping for low n women? we love you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:59 PM
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the title made me laugh so much. you remind me of a slavic version of rami malek, very cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:53 PM
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i've never been proposed to, how special
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:55 PM
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it's kinda cute in a way, I love the angst of this place. sometimes when some users here are in a heated debate I have to restrain myself from commenting now kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:00 PM
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his beautiful plump booty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:57 PM
2

hell no i wanna be a cottagecore picnic bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:51 PM
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I find it to be a very accurate stereotype, at some point in July most of the white boys are walking around with either a salmon polo or salmon coloured shorts, including my own fam. but yeah you look very much like the opposite of that lol you look like you have a unique cool style
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:47 PM
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validation!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:45 PM
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you post a lot on the daily thread, it's the only thread I read lol a stereotype, salmon polos and cargo shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:34 PM
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I'm shook, I know your username but you weren't anywhere near my guesses. I expected you to look like a basic white guy during white guy summer, pleasantly surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:01 PM
1

is it you??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:51 PM
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I forgot his username and was hoping you were him so the wondering would go away lol now the curiosity of who you are is taking over
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:29 PM
2

it's so strange. consequently I find you very handsome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:27 PM
4

I already told you last time but you are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:24 PM
3

you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:18 PM
3

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:10 PM
2

embarrassingly good. honest to god, the coolness vibe. you're attractive af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:56 PM
1

you look so damn cool!! are you nesseae?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:48 PM
1

ill try to pay attention to a user who matches your hint can I ask from where?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:45 PM
2

it makes me laugh tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:46 AM
1

my first crush
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:34 AM
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my fav is the copy pasted face on the fat guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:27 AM
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they're so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:25 AM
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I say this every purge but you're so pretty. congrats again on your wedding!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:46 AM
1

that sounds like it could be me but I'm not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:43 AM
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very relatable. in that same vein, we did interact before, about your ingrown hair. well i hope you come across high confidence days soon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:42 AM
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i unintentionally keep tabs on everyone, it's very embarrassing, please pretend I don't even fat girls dont usually approach men they're not attracted to, dont overthink it. did you think you were ugly back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:44 AM
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it cant be too bad, take care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:23 AM
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you were approached by women, you're probably not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:19 AM
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nooooo. I went to bed that's why no one did and im really curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:12 AM
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😟 I'll go burn all my bandannas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:09 AM
2

right, I want a refund
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:05 AM
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I cant guess who you are even with the hint 😔 do you post often ? as for your ethnicity, if not asian, middle eastern?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:05 AM
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you look like an older version of my boyfriend it's terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:43 AM
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bc I was thinking of another user who is also 175, into guitars but he's from Norway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:27 AM
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fast friend lmao that's a great word for it I found it endearing but also mildly anxiety inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:23 AM
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you don't look like an Italian so I'd say spain or portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:21 AM
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mmh that throws away my guess. I was convinced you were from scandinavia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:16 AM
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yeah definitely not just the women, I've noticed it a lot more when I visited the us than I do here. I enjoy chit chatting with random strangers but I never reveal so much about my life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:15 AM
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are you from norway?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:11 AM
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how are you doing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:10 AM
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I took a uber when I visited la with my brother (another talkative person) and by the end of the trip, I knew about where she came from, how and why she moved to la, the college her daughters attended, their majors and she knew all about my brother's high school experience,all his previous trips and it's like they were long time friends when we got off the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:08 AM
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are you 5'8?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:02 AM
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what got you banned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:58 AM
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I have a few user guesses but I'm bad at remembering funky usernames. will answer questions if I ask or are you keeping the mystery for longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:55 AM
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yeah I'd agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:50 AM
1

are you pm_me_boys or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:36 AM
3

your arms look amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:12 AM
2

I also pictured you differently, your hairline is amazing for your age btw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:12 AM
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look in my post history it's the mystery thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:03 AM
1

do it anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:00 AM
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I did but you have to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:59 AM
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I always imagined angels as a happy man, he says he likes his life a lot which is kinda adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:54 AM
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I can't believe berries and cream has followed me all the way to ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:52 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:50 AM
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join us in the only valid thread, the pics one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:45 AM
2

the cringe was unmatched but I couldn't look away
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:20 AM
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I'm down for a swap, I have such a clear mental image of you, I wonder if it's accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:17 AM
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your eyes are so pretty and look so good for your age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:05 AM
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oh I would never have guessed that lol I imagined you as a brunette for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:04 AM
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it's the going from long hair to no hair that confirmed my guesses
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:54 PM
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mh then you're not who I thought you were. yeah, there has been a discord for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:51 PM
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hm I have no idea. you're pretty though. give me a clue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:50 PM
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aw thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:41 PM
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good strategy! you're also easy to guess even tho I pictured you with a different style
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:31 PM
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that's too damn bad also post cats in banana hats pics pls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:24 PM
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you have really good skin and that 2nd hairstyle really really suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:21 PM
2

are you mostly active on the sub or the discord ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:20 PM
1

you really do look like how imagined you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:09 PM
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for sure. we were all submissive to her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:08 PM
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you're pretty, I can't guess who you are tho. give us a clue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:07 PM
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really handsome! and easy to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:04 PM
2

a few, at least 2 that I remember from last summer that post less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:46 PM
3

me too! its fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:36 PM
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being short (around 5'6) is a disadvantage and unattractive to a significant amount of women, if combined with other unattractive qualities and behaviour, it makes the dating lives of these guys harder. but that doesn't mean that 5'9 dudes are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:34 PM
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I had this friend, that was absolutely unbothered about periods. never wrapped her used pads or tampons in toilet paper and even boiled her menstrual cup in front of all of our group of friends and when a clueless dude asked her what she's boiling she said my menstrual cup and offered to let him see and touch it. I saw the trauma form on that boys face in that moment when she pulled the cup out of the pan, dropped it in cold water and handed it to him. a terrifying person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:50 PM
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too hot to handle, 2nd season is juicier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:43 PM
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truly the best. dont forget that other show where a bunch of horny people are thrown on an island just for the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:38 PM
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amazing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:27 PM
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what do you do exactly? asking in good faith, I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:23 PM
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long live the bachelorette 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:22 PM
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right now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:17 PM
1

no the business as usual is out of the window, its incel shitposting and racist shitposting 95% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:22 PM
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there are no subreddit rules,just the admin rules. it's chaos and shitposting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:17 PM
1

hm true me too lol all of this is so healing for my soul, maybe my fat body wasn't as gross as i pictured it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:13 PM
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I came here to comment exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:12 PM
2

oh well it seems that my problem was with the word haul then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:56 PM
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I wouldn't give a shit about how a son wants to get laid and why. in the case where he comes to me for dating advice/dating chit chat, if he turns out too idealistic, I'd try to take a more judgemental role with the women he gets serious about. if he turns out too cold hearted, I'd take the softening him role.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:54 PM
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excuse my city girl ignorance, but what is a hauler?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:49 PM
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they're adorable. I'm glad narnia stays though, I come here daily mostly to read her comments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:11 PM
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someone who also had throwaway something something and no tag, when you added your purple square the confusion went away. he's also an asian dude who gets confused for a woman so other people's comments threw me off most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:07 PM
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no it's not her lol I wouldn't confuse her with anyone else, she's too nice and I knew her well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:05 PM
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It's a dick move to keep doing it if they've expressed that it truly bothers them but idk if I would go as far as calling it assault between siblings and/or parents. annoying and playful bothersome touching is how I bonded with my siblings and step siblings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:04 PM
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Alex from arctic monkeys does that to me. butterflies just from his voice when I listen to r u mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:00 PM
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not at imo, she has a pretty big tummy. I used to look like that and she's posing well on that video but on her other videos, it's all I could look at. the blessed fatties I see have tiny waists and larger hips and that "smoothes" the belly fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:59 PM
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well this is enough ppd for today
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:56 PM
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this is very specific and I think you should direct it to your friends instead lol but yes, men do catch feelings for women. the people here who pretend men are robots are either trolling or terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:29 PM
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I confused you with someone else for a while. rn I'm confusing two users with a pink avatar but I don't remember either of their usernames
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:22 PM
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don't, you don't need to ask him directly but bring up the subject when you're hanging out and see what his opinions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:11 PM
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why on earth would you date a braincels moderator
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:07 PM
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no! me too! it doesn't clash with clothes anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:04 PM
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that makes the sentence a lot clearer lol my first guess was that they had a beer gut but it didn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:05 PM
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every year since I can remember
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:02 PM
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this is unnecessary gemini slander, being a gemini myself I know we're not all insane
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:49 PM
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imo she doesn't look average at all but it's heartwarming that all these people are into that look
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:45 AM
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I disagree, but it's a good thing that you hold that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:31 AM
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that's a very sheltered view. most people are selfish and will do you wrong if they see fit for whatever reason. some of those assholes will be really great to some people though, maybe you're one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:09 AM
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idk if this counts as sexual validation, since it's not me, I wouldn't want to be in her place and I would call the cops on anybody who calls me mommy. it's more like it's proving myself wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:28 AM
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another healing comment 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:47 AM
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this is the one I'm talking about meh most men don't like chubby, they like curvy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:24 AM
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really? are we talking chubby chaser as in goes for really obese women or chubby chaser as in likes chubby women? bc in my case I'm talking about the latter lol I know a few guys who don't like skinny girls and date pretty chubby women and they're not particularly weirder than other men. I don't know anybody who's into morbidly obese people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:57 AM
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chubby chasers on tiktok are healing my soul and insecurities. there's this girl who has the same body type I had when I was 30lbs overweight and she posts thirst traps. she has legions of men and women calling her mommy and simping. it's cute af.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:30 AM
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I think some are popular dealbreakers for men but not bc it's a low value thing but bc they see it as an indicator of something they don't like. and imo when men complain about hobbies in women it's more often than not complaining about them not having any and conveniently dismissing all the hobbies she has. or they didnt pay attention to it at all at the beginning stages and just noticed they dont like it but now that they're in a relationship, they have relationship inertia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:00 AM
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geminis and scorpios. current bf is a gemini sun scorpio rising. both my longest relationships were giminis. my fav are gemini by far followed by aquarius.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:54 AM
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I think a first step would be to stop this internet phenomenon of saying "just adopt" every time someone mentions having kids or an issue with having kids. and then a next step would be to stop painting it as an altruistic morally higher alternative to having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:35 AM
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I find it very hot, but only black and only if it fits the dude's aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:04 PM
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ridiculed? a ton, but very few are dealbreakers to men when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:03 PM
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it's not dressing well that's ridiculed, its having it as a hobby that's time consuming. it's like the difference between a guy who plays video games and a guy who spends most of his free time playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:02 PM
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i left when the sjws got too intense. i used to write fanfictions and promote them on tumblr and sometimes i would post short stories on there. i remember one day a bunch of people started hating on my short story bc it was apparently homophobic and full of internalised misogyny and in a dramatic moment of indignation i deleted the whole blog lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:52 PM
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I was on tumblr in 2010, I used it to get updates on fanfictions i was reading lol I used to spend so much time on there omg that's a real meet cute, adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:42 PM
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i used to love it, it had pretty specific discussions about things that i noticed but never put into words or looked into. it has gotten repetitive when it got popular though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:26 PM
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that's good parenting, and it will develop her natural curiosity. little kids can be assholes. i don't think you should worry too much about it, kids are resilient and she'll find her way through social interactions as she grows. she may not get along with most kids but all she will need are a couple good friends to share childhood memories with. it's not so much the slapping that i found very harsh, i don't agree with it but kids recover from it very well, it's banishing her away that will hurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:23 PM
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that's really cute aw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:46 PM
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im keeping the country secret, doxxing is rampant lately. but yes, this sub made me notice the cultural differences even more god that's so cute. it's amazing, ill bet she'll be proud of that for a long time that's a horrible thing to do to a 4 year old. like there's nothing bad enough that a kid so young can do that would warrant kicking them out of their home. i hope her mom grows up and handles their relationship better. im glad you got time to spend with her tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:42 PM
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i would have understood if it was something like depression that was sinking them down, but adhd manifesting in a scattered disorganised lifestyle isn't as "disturbing" as a severe depression. i completely understand not wanting adhd meds, they're not like SSRIs. and therapy is expensive and a hit or miss. either you vibe with the therapist and they understand you and you make some progress or you've poured money down the drain. she also kept her critics secrets and only expressed them when she …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:36 PM
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but I mean it's bad that she's still married to him but...she didn't sexually assault anyone. it's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:31 PM
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no, a european but I remembered you. it's nice to see you post here again!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:29 PM
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yeah but when it does get viral, it's either bc it's getting hate or bc they're making people laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:27 PM
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then i think the wife is being a bit harsh and giving up a bit too easily
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:08 PM
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are you the cobra guy who has a 4yo daughter and used to post a lot last summer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:06 PM
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the "6' tall and super strong" trend guy from tiktok, i don't know his name but he has a greek god body that i love watching over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:04 PM
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idk how to explain but all my relationships have been "mixed", we would meet in real life through various stuff but the "building up" to a date always happened online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:02 PM
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was it a good relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:00 PM
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