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I think we have the same mindset lol except I do Instagram first. A girls social media can tell you a lottttt about her. Ill scroll a good amount and if I like what I see, Ill ask her about certain posts like "Oh you like the 49ers?!" even if the post was from over a year ago. I usually like to get the "interview questions" out of the way here like where you from, what do you do for a living etc. and then Ill set up a date and if shes down, THEN i take her number and talk details about schedules…
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:50 AM
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Well first of all, don’t do this for just one specific girl. Because that’s what makes you the fisherman. You gotta get into the habit of telling yourself that women are easily replaceable. Don’t text her 24/7. Don’t text her at all unless you actually plan to meet up. You can’t “convince” a girl to like you. If she doesn’t like you, she doesn’t like you and you can’t do anything about it, but that’s okay. You gotta be able to be happy with or without her. As a fish, you can’t jump out of the la…
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:54 PM
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Never said it was. But she’s wrong for choosing to lead people on in the first place that’s the main issue here.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:50 PM
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Either they’re lying to you or they’re lying to themselves. 99% chance they’re gonna be wanting more, unless he clearly has options and you’re not the only one he’s talking to. But even then he won’t entertain it for long when he senses you don’t want anything more and then move on
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:11 PM
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Highly suggest you don’t. Especially with the more desperate guys, they’ll instantly jump at the slightest sign of flirting and you’re gonna break their heart no matter what. Only practice flirting with people you would like something more with
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:06 PM
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I’m gonna be honest that’s actually really selfish. As men, we’re automatically gonna think you’re leading us on. Only flirt with someone that you actually want something more with, and don’t use people as free attention because you’ll be taking them away from the girls that actually want more than just flirting from them
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:56 PM
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I mean i wouldn’t call it a game. When I would be preoccupied with life I would kind of do this naturally without thinking about it, and I noticed the girls would stick around more often and initiate conversations. Whenever I nothing going on, I’d find myself giving them too much attention and it would drive them away. So solution to the problem? Stay preoccupied with life
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:58 PM
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A good catch is a fish that isn’t afraid to go back into the lake since it knows it’s a rare breed that other fisherwomen are at the lake to try and catch
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:22 AM
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Its all about keeping her invested. If she fishes for you and reels you in, shell enjoy you and then eventually put you to the side and start fishing again. At this point you gotta get back into the lake and shell notice youre not there and go "wtffff i thought i had him", and try to fish for your attention again. Add the fact that theres other women at the lake also fishing for you, shell go the extra mile to ensure she catches you again before the other girls. Just keep doing that, let her cat…
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:02 AM
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I know the whole saying that "consent is sexy", but from experience, Ive learned to be able to "read the room". It really all comes down to body language. A lot of guys get this wrong and thats what usually makes girls responds negatively to lets say a first kiss, because while the date mightve been fun, there was no sexual tension created, making that first kiss feel forced. Now when it comes to sex, what I DONT do is get instantly aggressive because thats just fucking stupid, especially when i…
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:46 AM
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Not necessarily. I’ve been with a girl who was very attractive, a gym rat and smart. Her sex was actually abysmal, even without protection. She was more concerned about getting herself off, didn’t like certain positions, and I just didn’t like it at all. On paper, the handjobs and blowjobs were good, but i can tell she just wanted to get it over with, which left me unsatisfied 90% of the time even after i finished. I’d argue that it’s more about her channeling her inner femininity and having gen…
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:09 PM
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Just hand on her neck as if I was choking her but not actually choking her lmao
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:12 PM
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Yup! I actually don’t even ask i just do it and it’s always a positive response lol I start off with light hair pulling, choking, pinning down and I’ll gradually increase the intensity just to the point to where it’s aggressive enough for her to feel the dominance but not too much to where it’s actually painful to her
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:59 PM
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Yeah I openly talked about it with both of them right after their first respective sessions and one of them described it that way. She said its something about the feeling of “being used” that really turned her on. She even said that most women deep down love this type of sex but are embarrassed to say it, which I’m assuming is the fear of being slut-shamed
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:37 PM
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The best sex ive had is the “do whatever you want to me” type of girls. I just love the submissiveness. Especially when you can tell she genuinely enjoys watching and feeling you enjoy yourself. I’ve had 2 girls like this and they both told me they love it when I just lose myself and let my “inner beast” naturally take over. Surprising thing is they don’t even care if they finish or not lol. These are the exact type of women I personally look for in sex, and other guys can probably agree
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:16 PM
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Yessirrrr king. But fuck it be a city boyz and talk to other women anyway bc you’re 22 fuck it
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:59 AM
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She’s probably likes the amount of requests and she’ll probably wait on purpose and add you back in a day or two to keep you wondering and to not come off as too interested. Happens to me all the time😅
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:53 AM
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Well if you’ve matched on tinder before and she’s STILL on Tinder, are you sure that’s girlfriend material? Lmao but if just hooking up then okay. And no it’s not corny I always say “hey you sound like a really cool person I’d like to get to know more. Send me your -insert IG handle/number here-. I’d love to move the conversation there if you’re interested” it’s direct and bitches love direct😏
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:50 AM
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Yeah I’m 29 and I’ve used snap before to “flirt” with girls that frequently used it. It was cool but definitely not my preferred method at all lol. But yes either way talk to other girls. I do this and it keeps me from being disappointed. Girl 1 stopped replying last Friday(we’ve already met and kissed), I assumed she’s not interested and Girl 2 was conveniently free that same night and we met up, hooked up and still hooking up, and now Girl 1 texts me today to hang out and will hang out this we…
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:46 AM
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He will make your work life worse than hell lol
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:36 AM
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Well first, anyone that primary communicates on snapchat is already a red flag to me, unless youre just trying to hook up lol dont wait for her, go talk or match with other women
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:34 AM
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And she’ll ask where your other ball is and that’s the signal to show her
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:36 PM
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Honestly this is what changed my life. Chasing women got me nowhere. They’re not attracted to men that make that a priority. Once I started focusing on myself and trying to be the absolute best man I can be, that’s when the women started coming to me. If you look at athletes and rappers and other notable figures, they didn’t let women interfere with their grind towards success and that’s exactly why the women chase them. Obviously you still have to allow yourself to be exposed to women so they k…
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:13 AM
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Masculine also means being able to stand up for yourself if you’re not being treated how you want, not tolerating a girls attitude and letting her know you don’t like something she’s doing, only giving respect to the women that deserve your respect, speaking your mind raw and unfiltered, doing the dirty work, providing protection and security, and also bringing home the bacon.
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:01 PM
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I stopped wearing T shirts and started wearing floral printed short sleeve button downs from J Crew Factory or long sleeve vertical line pattern button down with the sleeves rolled up. Bottoms are usually fitted chinos or chino shorts from J Crew factory and Target. Navy and Khaki are my go-to colors. Shoes are usually low top white Nike blazers or dunks with no show socks. Accessories are a small rope chain necklace and either my dive watch or leather strap watch depending on my outfit. Almost …
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:47 PM
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Good cologne that isn’t common! If you wear something popular like Acqua Di Gio, the girl might smell it and get flashbacks of a previous guy, which is exactly what you don’t want.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:35 PM
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Girl talking shit about a guy that rejected her is no different from a guy talking shit about a girl that rejected him. They’re both just salty and immature. No need to prove her wrong she already looks crazy for even ranting about it on social media
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:38 PM
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The best analogy i can give you is to treat them exactly how you would treat a bratty 13 year old. If they acted up, you tell them straight up to their face that the way they’re acting is disrespectful and you will not tolerate it and don’t break eye contact. They’ll most likely start barking back at you but you hold your ground and they’ll see that you’re not fucking around and respect you. Whether they’re 5 or 45 it works for women of all ages. They’ll eventually calm down and realize how brat…
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:47 PM
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Talk to multiple people at the same time until you find someone deserving enough for your exclusivity. I assume almost every girl I match and talk with has a roster of guys in their DMs so I do the same and it’s honestly been giving me better results since it doesn’t make you act as needy as you would when focusing on only one person
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:33 AM
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Be wary though. There are some girls I knew that would feed off social media attention and have a bunch of followers, then all of a sudden for whatever reason, they just deleted all of their posts OR they started over and got a completely new Instagram. So even though they don’t have the social media presence of a thirst trap, they still have the attitude of one lol
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:24 PM
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Almost everything they say they want is the exact opposite in reality lol
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:05 PM
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A cute girl with a private Instagram and <400 followers is also a gold nugget from my experience
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:00 PM
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-Always have a backup, unless you become exclusive or turn it into a relationship -don’t say “hey beautiful” because they get that 100+ times a day -Never get mad or chase after someone that stops responding -find a woman that’s willing to work and fulfill YOUR needs, instead of molding yourself to fit her needs -the ones you give the least attention to are the ones that give you the most attention -always tell yourself that she can easily ghost you the next day so you don’t catch feelings
/r/seduction02/07/22 12:10 AM
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That’s actually a good setup. Gives you a lotttt to talk about and ask her questions. Just don’t make it seem like a job interview. Find ways to tease her when she’s answering your questions and you’ll be fine!
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:26 PM
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