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| 19 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?question their self-worth, literally gaslight themselves, and lose sleep over some piece of shit who literally just watches porn, plays video games all day and never thinks about them. It took me a couple months of being subbed here to fully commit. The gears were turning but the fear of being alone and believing I was worthless was strong. Had to be the Cool Girl who watched porn, played video games, and only pretended not to be thinking about NVM scrotes all day. Now there's no looking back. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:01 AM |
| 47 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?Biggest pet peeve is the "she was so beautiful, what a waste" ... so her whole life was worth it just bc she'd get your dick hard? And if she's ugly you don't think it's a waste of a life? In a crime show (UK Law & Order) there was a hilarious scene of upon seeing a picture of this old lady who died, they did the cliche "what a waste" then said "she had such a great smile" lol. That would be kinder to do for everyone if it wasn't still related to looks. They only said smile because they thought … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 25 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?💀💀💀 They rlly be like that tho, as if that is sane in the slightest. "My love language is pedophilic rape fantasy" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:31 AM |
| 16 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contact😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 47 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactI was a clown. Girl, I feel this in my bones. This has been me. I'm looking up to you and your strength dealing with his bs, and you knowing you deserve the best 💅🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 34 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.He knew exactly what he wanted. He should be the one in therapy. At least now that HE'S the breadwinner he's faced with the agonizing reality of how pathetic he is, and how much better she was than him. Every. Single. Day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:55 AM |
| 50 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Even though he regularly misses child support payments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 70 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.And to think, most men in that situation cheat. A whole year? And then another? Yeah... he's "getting it" from somewhere. I don't trust any of them. I've seen too much, had too many married men with young children try to hook up with me back in the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:42 AM |
| 93 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Oh, so they just ~conveniently~ forget that we often die in childbirth? That's rich. A spit in the face of all the women who've died from childbirth, going back thousands and thousands of years. Men like that don't deserve offspring 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 9 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?Facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:48 AM |
| 18 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsThose were my first thoughts as well. Striking resemblance. It feels gross to say but it's true - she got off lucky. Everyone needs to stay alert when it comes to scum like this, the red flags are camouflaged better but they're visible if you check yourself. Watts's wife saw him/them as a fairytale story she had in her head. We never really know anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:41 AM |
| 2 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.Add sports to that list. Like all-day ESPN zombie-mode. Can't stand to hear it, triggers memories of childhood neglect. Gone or glued to sports, that's it. I won't see a guy who does one thing all day that takes no skill or independent thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.Whoa, which country, if you don't mind me asking? I heard the US threatened to but didn't hear about another county going thru with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:00 AM |
| 8 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.Lol, oh it's real easy when you go to work all day, never lift a finger at home, make your wife get/stay up with the baby every night bc you have to be rested for "real work," and occasionally "babysitting" your own damn kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 4 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.🤣🤣🤣 We need some tiktok vids mocking these assclowns with basic ass cleaning tutorials, or how to use a bidet, etc. Or just like, yknow, giving a shit (lol) like it is LEGIT a thing for dudes to have "dingleberries" in their buttcrack pubes. Anyone recall watching that in Jackass? They're perfectly fine having little poo-balls deco their ass pubes like ornaments on a xmas tree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesUgh :/ I'm so sorry. Therapy is supposed to be the place we're safe. This is why co-ed group therapy is insane. They should know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:47 PM |
| 6 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesIt's really cool that you were able to stand up for yourself regardless of the setting or in front of a grroup of men. I know how much courage that takes, I'm hella proud of you ♡ I was thinking the question could be viewed in another way (when you take his intentions out of it.) It could mean "try not to overburden yourself with all the things, all at once." Burning the candle at both ends can be bad for mental health and anxiety just like doing nothing can. He could've said something genuinely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:59 PM |
| 9 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.God damn children i swear. And they're as proud of it as toddlers are, making their mommy make a mad face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:14 AM |
| 12 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.LOLLL they never gonna live tht one down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Sigourney Weaver, 71. Hitting the wall never looked so good.This. I'm only about to be 30 but I've watched my mom (nearing 60) dye her hair and be stressed and ashamed about greying hair for years, battling weight changes, etc. She's the most loving and giving person to her community, is kickass in her career and has creating a committee for young women, to support them in her male-dominated field. She finally had her hairdresser blend her greys in this month and has never looked better. It's all about what shines through us, our character. Though I'm su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:32 AM |
| 15 | She thought this was cute and quirky, but this made my stomach drop.Have you seen the Dane Cook creepfest? Dating the girl since she was maybe 17, went public when she was 18? The cherry on top is how monstrous he's made his face to look "younger" they look like father and daughter it's fucked. One day soon she'll wake the f up. But yeah, she def flexes it like the girl in this vid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:41 AM |
| 17 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️So smooth-brained he legit wasted all that TP to prove his "point." Thoughts and prayers for this woman 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 34 | Brainwashing in Greek media.Also, if you ever look at Amazon reviews on Amazon Prime for ANY female-lead or female story all the reviews are 1-star "this liberal femi-n*** propaganda has gone too far!" It's insane. They really believe that everything on planet earth is supposed to revolve around them. And if not, they throw a meltdown tantrum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:22 AM |
| 9 | Stop wasting your time with crows.This bothers me too and it is literally everywhere. Men haven't understood why, they openly accept that man means human and therefore is the default for both sexes. Like, yeah because you guys came up with that, it's not like we got a say back then, the invisible housewives, servants, and whores. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:27 AM |
| 5 | W/ a side of big purple and I’m set!Ahhh got it. Thankyou!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 17 | W/ a side of big purple and I’m set!What's an air fryer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 35 | Fearmongering about single mothers is just male propaganda to make women afraid of leaving their shitty baby daddies.Either that or more commonly combined with sexualizing breastfeeding. My theory is they are jealous/territorial or uncomfortable that it turns them on to see it, so they make it the woman's fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:42 PM |
| 6 | This is a REAL MGTOW scrote video giving advice on how to verbally abuse and manipulate women!! So many trash males out there. Ladies, watch out for this scum!🤮Crust butt 💩 🍑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:25 AM |
| 31 | Degrading names during sexI just pictured - if women called men nasty sluts and whores everytime they expressed their sexuality with us/women or during sex. That helps tear down the perspective of it being normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:29 AM |
| 13 | Degrading names during sexLOL. Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:26 AM |
| 38 | Don't trust porn when wanting to learn about "the sex" 😂Straight up when I went in with a UTI my FEMALE doctors always were like, "remember to wipe front to back" as if I wasn't potty trained as a toddler, and not a 17 yo girl who told her I was sexually active. WTF happened multiple times with different female docs. No one mentioned that until a kidney infection at 19 and my mom told me -_- ffs. That really should be in sex ed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:13 AM |
| 14 | Pornhub exploiting minors 😔This^ that thick soft thousand-pound blanket of denial is safer than the truth. They will realize one day, way too late, the tragedy being that they helped perpetuate it themselves, essentially doing the abusers' dirty work for em. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Pornhub exploiting minors 😔Ugh idk why but that song made it so much more haunting, and I don't even like that song. Props to whoever made this, hope to see more of them, call all these deplorable limp dicks and hold them accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:26 AM |
| 14 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?Highhh key... like, high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 11 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.ty♡ 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:44 PM |
| 9 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.Lol oh shit I just commented the same sentiment, must be on the same wavelength. Or this is such a widespread issue within the legal system that, dare I say it, smells of systemic violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 27 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.Ted Bundy's judge over there talking to him like that one judge did to The Rapist Brock Turner. Jfc I imagine the victims' parents and families were in that courtroom. Yeah that heart attack was truly an act of god. People so blinded by charm that they treat brutal rapists and killers with respect and admiration don't deserve to hold any position of power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:55 PM |
| 17 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.This would be perfect as a book-turned-movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 29 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.LOL can confirm, is me. Graduating from abuse at home to abuse in the form of kink is subtle. It's mind-boggling to have even woken up and gotten out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:44 PM |
| 232 | Gonna pull up to the Drive Thru and get a Frosty just to cool down from this BURN 🤣F i n a l l y. The misogyny on that sub is unfuckingreal. Get ready for mass downvotes and death threats for even pointing it out. It's swarming with prepubescent boys, averaging around age 17, from the maturity level I've seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:32 AM |
| 14 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I'd say "lol omg you texted this to the wrong person! 😂 that's so embarrassing, I hate when i do that! At least we can laugh about it." Aaaaaaand block. That way if he really did text the wrong person you're in the clear, if he really is being a creepy stalker maybe this will ward him off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:05 AM |
| 15 | Lots of LVM in the comments, ofc.NVM Reddit males love to go pissing and shitting their diapers burn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:51 AM |
| 8 | Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan TorresHave we lived the same life?? Have we talked to the same scrotes??? Scrote is as scrote does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 5 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.This^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 7 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.the west has had only one guiding morality for years: "all choices are good choices as long as you choose to make them and feel ~empowered~" regardless of reality, history, or context. And this makes for a very unfulfilling way to live. It's instant gratification but no real substance. I think people unconsciously realize this and they're actually desperate for something substantial to believe in, Truth. So much truth. A part of it could be disbelief(disillusioned?), posing as a black hole of de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:45 AM |
| 7 | Realizing that I’m lean towards having an avoidant attachment style after being hurt so bad by past relationships....how should I attempt to date if I’m too scared of being hurt?Dude... yeah 💔 idk why I hadn't made that connection. It's a major component for me, was in Seeking Safety group therapy before Covid hit. Gave me the strength to leave my last abusive relationship. Can't wait for tht group to start back up. Great book/workbook if you haven't already been through it, it's amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 10 | Realizing that I’m lean towards having an avoidant attachment style after being hurt so bad by past relationships....how should I attempt to date if I’m too scared of being hurt?Definitely fearful, with some aspects of avoidant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 10 | I’m so sorry for sharing this...How many dudes vs women have I walked past who smelled like poop/didn't wipe? Too many vs Fucking Zero. They(western/toilet paper users) are that confident in their power as men that literally wiping their asshole doesn't factor into attracting women. Oh but if we have any clean natural hair there we forget to shave/wax then WE are the gross ones. Ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:54 AM |
| 129 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.I remember the first time I watched porn, at 11/12. Seeing beautiful desirable women I could never be, being lavished with attention and as I perceived it- love. As a mini-pickme I went as far as distributing it at school like the cringe coolgirl I was. For that love, that attention, that desire. Still second guessing how I feel about porn and sex work in the back of my mind. But being so young when my molestation and porn watching started, it's no wonder it will be a tough cord to cut subconsci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 196 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.Thank you for this. I'm new and have been leaning heavy toward FDS but honestly, still heavily indoctrinated and stuck in a lot of my old libfem ways. This literally shot me so far across that line, deep into FDS like, never looking back. Your writing verbalized every single feeling and perception I've ever had since I was a girl, every single one I had shoved down and been trained to disregard. To my own demise, deep pain, trauma, assault, rape, sex work & addiction, unspeakable things too nume… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 15 | Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"Whoa... never heard about the assault bragging that's so awful, I've no words. When did this happen? Is the girl ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 45 | Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"FINALLY she stepped forward, not that there's a deadline or even a timeline anyone should feel pressured to follow. But. We were all waiting for this, it was so obvious he was a shitty abusive alcoholic/addict who exercised control over young women using his fame and power. Fuck him. Plenty of years to change, grow, reconcile and recover, there's no reason or excuse for him to use. Not gonna be shocked if he releases the same bullshit PR or even says nothing at all. Makes me so happy to see ERW … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 8 | What LVM really mean when they say...It's a way to make us second guess the truth that he doesn't want us to believe. Controlling the narrative, our beliefs, everything. All. For. Fucking. Ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 14 | What LVM really mean when they say...Lollll yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️And he assumed if we didn't want him to rearrange our guts we must be getting off to watching someone else getting their guts rearranged? Or wanting it, just not from him? vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 23 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️I laughed out loud, like head thrown back laughing, literally in this exact scenario, in bed ignoring horny LVM texts, looked beyond my phone to my laptop(Netflix) and vibe like...holy shit, is me. Bout to have hella sweet dreams on my own and wake up with self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Women search for stocks and funds to invest in that reflect their core values. $GME is not it.Thank you! I'll check them out. Yeah the pro-gentrification is messed up but I guess understandable when coming from someone who (I assume) values money and property over most things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:22 AM |
| 9 | Women search for stocks and funds to invest in that reflect their core values. $GME is not it.Do you happen to know of any female youtubers who teach and/or discuss stocks, the market, financial education for other women? I've been interested in learning and think it's sich an important thing to be knowledgeable about... but find it such a male dominated topic that it turns my interest into intimidation and self-doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 02:45 AM |
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