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| 19 | Why you didn't get the job and what to do about it | _pecanpie_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:16 AM | |
| 5 | It’s science. | DISCUSSION | _pecanpie_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:50 AM |
| 0 | PSA LPT: How to know what their d*ck looks like without the d*ck pic | _pecanpie_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:32 PM |
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| 2 | If the science witch says "Don't violate quarantine because we could all die.". Don't violate quarantine. Because you may all die.Which is why it’s extremely important for women to be licensed professionals in their field. You wouldn’t believe how powerful a piece of paper is. Know your worth, frame it, hang it in your office. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | If the science witch says "Don't violate quarantine because we could all die.". Don't violate quarantine. Because you may all die.Time for you to get your PE license. Level UP 🍄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 01:23 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Same was addicted then it was just repeat videos of the same damn pickme thing, omw to daddy’s house during a pandemic lol, women telling others to cam for easy $, or buy these makeup productsss!!! just brainwashing myself with normalizing sexualization of women, like, is this my value as a woman? Is this what women have to offer? So sick of the exploitation like we get it every commercial every advertisement every movie every song every IG snap now TT...I’m so SICK of seeing sexualization of wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:05 AM |
| 3 | I’ll just leave this here...👀🤫Just say you hate women and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Just not in the mood today 🤷♀️swamplife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:24 PM |
| 6 | You're not his mom: what to do instead of "nagging"The fact “she” needs to add... “and my bf appreciates me bc IM not a NAG 😍😍😍” My KING 🤴 I live for his validation. Funny how all throughout FDS women block the words man = m’n, dick = d‘ck and others... yet “nag” the term of abuse "a worthless person," often of a woman, is a transferred sense, first recorded 1590s. For "one who annoys by scolding" (by 1925) ... is left so openly to refer to what women should be (or SHOULDNT be) doing for males. Huh 🤔 it’s almost as if it’s a male moonlighting a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?Do you report their accounts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:07 PM |
| 5 | You're not his mom: what to do instead of "nagging"Yup. This is the type of shit that makes me suspect FDS is FULL of men too. Can’t get no peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 61 | This how we move from now on“k” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Imagine being quarantined with someone who doesn’t even consider youLmfaooooo 🤣 🤣 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:54 AM |
| 2 | amazing advice!✨ I love you ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:50 AM |
| 5 | Retired PornStar Lisa Ann says the demand for extreme hardcore porn is pushing veterans out of the industry. Pornographers now rely on drugging young amateur women and forcing them into things during filming by surprise that they did not agree to, because experienced porn stars won't do it.Can we just castrate them all please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:36 AM |
| 3 | From tinder a while ago, have at himDon’t do women like that sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Michael Buble, who is 12 years older than his wife, has disproportionately angry body language toward his wife in livestream video leading fans to wonder if she is being abused.Oh yeah she’s DEFINITELY going to end up in a grave or “missing” on a vacation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:51 AM |
| 0 | Michael Buble, who is 12 years older than his wife, has disproportionately angry body language toward his wife in livestream video leading fans to wonder if she is being abused.I’m really scared for her.. she’s gonna end up in a grave soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a guy that has InstagramThis is what I don’t understand. If you’re doing XYZ and your audience isn’t there for XYZ but to thirst @you / masturbate to your face... like...TF??? I Just don’t understand why TF you’d want that??? So degrading keeping these thirsty scrotes drooling at you ...FOR FREE 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:35 AM |
| 5 | Has your ex ever tried to commit fake suicide? Because mine has!Same girl same. He threatened to jump off a building. I told him to do a backflip lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:04 AM |
| 0 | PSA LPT: How to know what their d*ck looks like without the d*ck picBc there’s numerous negative and triggering posts on FDS.. it’s okay to find humor once in a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:47 PM |
| 0 | PSA LPT: How to know what their d*ck looks like without the d*ck picIsn’t the pt of FDS to vet men? At some point you expect to have sex with said man and this is supposed to be humorous take on vetting their D. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:45 PM |
| 2 | PSA LPT: How to know what their d*ck looks like without the d*ck picThat’s what the disclaimer is for 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Come watch me waste my time explaining to a Scrote that "Divorce Rape" is nowhere near the equivalent of Child Rape_pecanpie_FDS Newbie4m “SoUrCE??!??!?” THIS IS HOW DELUSIONAL THEY ARE. God these inbred imbeciles couldn’t muster two seconds of effort to type some shit into google. Too afraid of their limited world view collapsing onto themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 16 | The Biology argument is in our favorIf you Really want to talk about male biology I’ll gladly point y’all to SEVERAL studies on genetics stating males are more likely to have reading comprehension and empathy problems and are more likely to develop mental retardation. It’s biology lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | It seems like men will only settle down with someone who’s absolutely perfect, and I don’t have the energy anymore.Don’t worry their loss in self respect is eating them up inside too. You can see that from this post as an example. These pickme women will always be competing and starving themself for scraps of attn from clowns on IG. They will always be more beautiful more fun than you bc that’s the angle they show you. They don’t show you their mental breakdown of dealing with the clowns they downgraded themselves for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:43 PM |
| 4 | It seems like men will only settle down with someone who’s absolutely perfect, and I don’t have the energy anymore.Guys who use IG are peak LVM. And women who use IG scream cool girl. IG = free porn from easily exploited pickmes. You don’t need to be a people pleaser, you don’t need a daily status to tell strangers how you’re doing or what you look like today, the sooner you find that out the healthier you will be. PS, Don’t bother chiming in with your “but I use IG to follow puppies!!” I don’t give a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | I need help!!!! I feel like my boyfriend is obsessed with keeping a female friend in his life that I feel insecure about and dislike.This is why women needs FRIENDS not boyfriends. this is why women need financial independence. Girl I’d say you could crash with me but last time I offered that someone accused me of being a creep so best of luck at your parents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | I need help!!!! I feel like my boyfriend is obsessed with keeping a female friend in his life that I feel insecure about and dislike.Big yikes ...this pickme mentality of yours is going to give you cysts.. cut Allll that shit out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | First time relationship adviceBumble BFF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 17 | Daily reminder to take zero shit from men!!Screenshot and send, anonymously if you need to.. but also feel like anonymity would have more influence bc it’d be seen as “everyone knows my husband is a scumbag” instead of just u | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Husband did a LVM thing todaywell DAAAAAMNNN... comment so fire I had to screenshot it and sign in 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:30 PM |
| 33 | Love is Blind on NetflixBarnett and Amber are made for each other, two trashy people fit perfectly together. Rooting for that guy and Lauren tho lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Bieber really had me out here looking stupidOh lord trashy ass dudes always expecting unconditional love but don’t know what it means themselves. I’m convinced the idea of “unconditional love” is yet another ploy on women to breastfeed LVM until they mentally emotionally financially and physically cripple us. Vile leeches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 14 | FDS is the antidote to patriarchal female socialization: share your stories!Congratulations on your awakening, I sincerely hope you find your peace because you are worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:53 AM |
| 59 | FDS is the antidote to patriarchal female socialization: share your stories!Yes and while we’re at it... can we get rid of the users who feel they need to chime in with their “it’s EVERYONES responsibility..” or “both men and women” like STFU this isn’t an All Lives Matter rally. You want to diminish a woman’s POV go to Any other sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha needing advice. What would FDS women do next?Jsyk... you are putting WAY more thought and effort into this situation than this scrote brain could comprehend. It is out of his 10word count limit ..and none of the words include sex. You already know sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Music by female artist that is empoweringTanerelle. You’re welcome 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 14 | Scrotes out here sexualizing their teen daughters again. Reminder that YOUR BODY is YOURS and YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BOUNDARIES!How are you not on a list... I would’ve snapped!! 🔨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 25 | Scrotes out here sexualizing their teen daughters again. Reminder that YOUR BODY is YOURS and YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BOUNDARIES!Guaranteed this worm has disturbing shit on his personal devices that she Definitely needs to know abt* OP you need to speak plainly with your mother ..if she doesn’t take your side, you need to leave that house ASAP. There’s No convincing an ULTRA pick me, she either listens to you and stomps on him and y’all both run tf away.. or she loses you for good. This isn’t a father, it’s a disturbed pedophile and you are subjecting yourself to its perversion, soon he’ll be “accidentally” _____. He is t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | The Verge’s Erin Taylor Doubles Down on the “Choosy Choice Feminism”, completely missing the point of FDS⭐️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | We talk a lot about “value” here. Do you actually value yourself?No. Cos I’m getting triggered by the horror stories shared here. when you thought you were doing a damn fine job of self improvement... BAM memories of being a teenage girl pop up. today was the wrong day for the internet🚪🏃♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:26 PM |
| 9 | I always think it’s hilarious LVM think somebody’s going to care if they voluntarily take themselves out of the gene pool via sexbots.Can you please delete this? It was clearly made by a disturbed mentally-ill child... no one actually talks like this... this is poorly done rage bait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.80%* the other 15% are liars in denial bc they’re “HVM” fathers and the 5% is for error. In a law free world you know for fact they’re all sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.Holy shit. I seriously hate you for this comment. Bringing these nasty memories back into my head. Fuck this whole thread. We need to castrate these depraved men, they ruined my fucking life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.It’s because teenage girls are powerless. Who’s going to stand up for them? Their pathetic pickme mothers? Or their depraved spineless fathers who are exactly the same as them? Sure as shit when I was a kid I fantasized about castrating them Or doing something like girl with a dragon tattoo did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:15 PM |
| 3 | r/Shortcels wants to know why we’re “obsessed” with rapists and pedophiles.They could NEVER understand this. I’ve tried explaining this to men before, their disbelief is rooted in Absolute ignorance or straight up denial because they themselves passively participated - but bc it is so deeply rooted in them it isn’t present in their conscious memory, i.e denial. If ONLY you were a teenage girl you’d see how fucking depraved and foul EVERY. SINGLE. MAN is. No not just here or there, EVERY SINGLE ONE. They ALL look at you like you’re meat, fantasizing about a law free wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:07 PM |
| 16 | I am sure most of them probably scream about double standardsPornsickness. Only in porn would that be normalized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 9 | I'm so happy for this woman! Here is a prime example of a HVM. He shows up to her presentation to show his support, AND demonstrates active listening skills, AND helps to enhance her career. More men should aspire to be like this.Basic* this is the basic package. Yet THIS is what is considered HVM these days lmao just kill me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 7 | Why I'm not dating broke guys or guys who don't want to pay for dates.Lmao Amen girl 🙏 Never dating someone who is not on my financial or academic level again. You must have a PhD or bachelors with 10 years experience. That or have a VC-backed company. I don’t care for anyone else. They cannot afford to take care of themself or others, they can’t afford me. They can’t afford the headspace of reflection or have high emotional intelligence, they can’t afford my conversation. LVM, stay on the floor and keep scrubbing 🧼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 117 | Unapologetically female-only spaces are so necessaryLmao. Facts 💯 check out ANY Women in Engineering club or related “women’s only groups in STEM”... it’s FILLED with guys, and they all won’t SHUT THE FUCK UP. Most women end up leaving and it just becomes Engineering Club. Lmao I’m hurting inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:39 PM |
| 76 | Unapologetically female-only spaces are so necessaryThe reason pickme women exist is because there are NO women only spaces. Especially with FDS values. SPECIFICALLY for women coming from low socioeconomic communities. Very few educated and well-off women think like FDS. It’s a socioeconomic issue. I wouldn’t have ever been a pickme if all the women around me growing up weren’t MEGA pickmes. My mother specifically, told me frequently growing up that I need to be a housewife and marry a rich man irrespective of how he treats me just to escape pove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 15 | 21 year old woman tells 34 year old fiancé that she’s pregnant, he joked about throwing her down the stairsTrivia fact - anti-birth control and pro-life movement only began because of Anthony Comstock who couldn’t produce a child with his wife that he had to adopt and resented women because of it. The propaganda that spewed from his mouth traveled all over. It was because of his spite that we have pro-lifers. He targeted women who use birth control devices and drove them to suicide when he tried to arrest them (see the Comstock Act of 1873). Imagine that.. a spiteful hateful white man who couldn’t pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:43 PM |
| 4 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityGreat question and great point. I’d like to re learn what turns me on that’s Not BDSM related.. there’s got to be self help books or other forms of sex for me to try on myself that’s not abuse related..? Is there anything specific you’d recommend? I’m not interested in having sex with males ATM. I’m only interested in changing my attraction for BDSM lite.. I feel like I’m infected by porn for being attracted to it (haven’t watched much in life but when I did it was about 6 years ago)😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Sexually frustrated after a breakupDamn nvm you DONT have free time lol. Look at you killing the game. I’m not sure what to say but a body pillow to sleep with and self massages before bed daily help me. I saw a comment from an FDS user somewhere I forget where but she oils herself up now and then- I’m trying it too! Apply coconut oil in hair + shower cap, castor oil at feet + plastic wrap, massage castor oil everywhere + pjs. Sleep and wash. You won’t think about dudes again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Finally deleting all my online dating profilesHmm.. I haven’t had OLD for over a year but recently downloaded Hinge to “see what was out there”... god that was a mistake lol esp after finding FDS, lmao they’re all the same. Beware every man is a self proclaimed “feminist” these days lmao. Not interested, deleted. Damn I love myself 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:42 PM |
| 29 | FDS-strategy helps women support eachother, while pickmeishas will put eachother downSuch a trope. Women having hidden agendas with one another is LVM fantasy. Nah we love, respect and support each other 💪✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Why you didn't get the job and what to do about itYes!!! That’s awesome 😎 spread the word to fellow women.. we have each other’s backs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why you didn't get the job and what to do about itYes yes yes!! Completely understand your experience. Why is that..? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I'm 18 and quite sensitive and afraid of being taken advantage of by lvm. I've decided to keep them at arms length until I've finished university but still paranoid.Do yourself a favor and find women to be friends with. Are you pursuing higher education? At university we have plenty of opportunities to befriend women, in clubs, organizations, sporting events, your regular gym schedule, gym classes (running swimming yoga etc), job fairs, seminars, lectures, workshops, projects, internships, research group, at the library and so so much more. There is No need for you to focus on how men perceive you. If a man calls you “cold” or “hostile” what that actually m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | This made me giggleMe but with pecan pie 🥧💕☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Men can't rely on their money and status anymoreMen genetically have low intelligence and preponderance for mental retardation. It’s science. I’ll make a separate post about it later with the genetics publication. The ONLY quality they have is being of LARGER size. Watch the birds at the beach if you feed them. The larger birds always attack the smaller birds for the food. It is why women have been kept at the back burner for ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY up until the past generation!! Not even your mother had the same rights as you, she was statistic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Men can't rely on their money and status anymoreHow to grow a terrorist: step 1. Let it dwell in your basement playing video games and watching tv. Step 2 brainwashing - let it watch porn and find reddit subs or imgur or any site in general that spews hatred for women online. Now you’ve got scum shooting up planned parenthood or raping a woman in an alley. That’s the recipe. Yes I’m saying this to scare you of the reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Just because a guy "commits" to you doesn't mean he cares about you or even respects you.Why isn’t there a public forum for women to post stuff like this online???? I SHOULD know if a dude I’m about to meet/ or date previously raped, molested or hurt another woman whether physically or emotionally. A place to post cheaters, liars, manipulators!! the way men do to us with revenge porn except ours isn’t to harm them, but SAVE ourselves from a life of misery!!!! I don’t want to be with a con man. What if he’s Really good at hiding his past? or has deep seated evil? We deserve to know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | LV and HV, is there ever a MVM/NVM?Lmfao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:56 AM |
| 14 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityYou know I have never thought this way before.. this post is dangerously well worded and truly explains why so many other places hate it so much. But what is the solution? I didn’t mind very light “BDSM” if you can call it that and you have convinced me of a different POV to chew on. But if I do decide to change, how do I UNLEARN what I thought was okay? How do I UNLEARN what feels good? I understand telling men “No” and setting boundaries, but how do I UNLEARN what I like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Is having a three strike rule too pickmeisha?Wow.. I’m continuously shocked by the level of poise and intelligence displayed on this sub. The comments take me aback.. it is why I decided to finally create an account. Your comment is well-worded and shows you value self-reflection, you are a highly intelligent and beautiful person. ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Update on my depression and guyWow good for you ✨ Epiphanies are indicators of huge personal growth. Congrats 👏 👏 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Sexually frustrated after a breakupYou have Everything to lose and nothing to gain. You are putting yourself at risk of STIs and potentially permanent physical damage sleeping with LVM. Casual males are not HV. You may receive temporary satisfaction (IF he can even find your clit) but it is not good for long term mental stability; you are training yourself that THIS is what you deserve and how you should be treated. Dick is plentiful and low in value. Dildos are clean and don’t come with baggage. You deserve self-love, self-respe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Can a guy be HVM if he still lives with his mom?Doesn’t that say something to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:05 AM |
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