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| 1 | NSFW? Tinder response.Answer however you would naturally. Even if someone came up with some incredibly witty line for you that would spike her attention, it wouldn't be congruent to your personality so the initial spark would eventually die. Just be yourself, so if she ends up liking you, you don't have to put up a facade. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 10:38 PM |
| 4 | How to pick up a girl without looking desperate?I initially thought this was a general question, but reading the body of the post made me realize it's in reference to a specific girl, which is against the sub rules, and also pretty stupid considering we have no idea what type of person OP/the girl in question are (and their relationship). It's like me asking "how do I date the girl I have a crush on?" while providing absolutely zero context. But I guess to provide an answer: there is no way to 100% avoid looking desperate. No matter what you … | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?You're going to get a lot of "Yes"s in this thread, but honestly, the same rules apply as a guy approaching a girl. Do they find you attractive? Do they have a gf? Are they having a good/bad day? Are they just visiting from out of town for the day? There are a ton of things that can either increase or decrease friction when approaching, but ultimately, you will never know unless you approach. So I say go for it! | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Advice for first date ever!Just leave it at drinks, it's far less commitment for both parties. You guys will naturally get hungry after drinking, and if the date goes well, you can transition to dinner then. Do not go in "planning" to kiss her. Read the mood, read her body language, and if it feels right, go for the kiss. Getting a kiss is not a measure for success, connecting and building rapport is. I recently went on a few dates with a girl -- didn't get a kiss the first two dates -- got laid on the third. Using textin… | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Can't tell if women are looking at me, or just noticing me looking at them. Any advice?find out. go up and say hi. pursue what you want boldy, don't wait for them to make the first move. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?I deleted it because arguing with you is a literal waste of time. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 05:44 PM |
| 0 | how would you flirt/ask out a your hairdresser?If shes on the clock, she dont want the cock. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?I never said it wasn't? It just baffles me that you literally do not see any merit in in-fields and consider it for people of "complete ignorance." You don't have to like something to see the value in it. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:10 PM |
| 12 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?If you want to have a discussion about the ethics of in-field footage, that's one thing, but to say "I made it without X, why do you need it?" is really stupid. Everyone starts at different levels and what might not work for you can work for other people. Don't be so quick to judge, especially when you're on a subreddit about seducing women. A lot of people would group this entire subreddit as creepy, so I find it kind of hilarious how even within seddit, people are trying to create a "creepines… | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Friday Night Pep Talk: Stop Reading and Go Out.Getting a phone wont suddenly transform your game. Practice is always good, even if you cant always follow up. But that being said, you should do what you can to get a phone. Basic texting and calling is important for a lot of aspects of your life, not just game. | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 08:54 PM |
| 4 | What to do when a girl is checking you out?Make a funny face at her | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 08:46 PM |
| 4 | 18 year old Korean guy. I want to change my lifeThere are two things I'm going to point out for you. The first is that women are not trophies to be won or attained. They are people. When you say shit like "I want to date really hot western girls," it sounds incredibly selfish and closed-minded. Girls don't exist purely to become someone's girlfriend. They have their own upbringings, interests, careers, and dreams. If the only thing that interests you about women is their looks, then you'll never get anywhere in game. The second is that if you… | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 11:04 PM |
| 13 | 18 year old Korean guy. I want to change my lifeSince when has telling someone to "stop being a pussy" ever fixed their problems? | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 10:10 PM |
| 31 | [FR] Stole someone's date accidentallyDamn. That story went from sad to depressing real quick. Dude needs to get on seddit ASAP. | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 04:03 AM |
| 10 | this is what rock bottom feels likeRead Models. It is exactly what you need I think. | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to not have an agenda. Top 10 ways to play it cool.Was hoping for more internal game than external | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 06:31 AM |
| 2 | I want to be better at pickup/women but I'm afraid of getting too emotionalIts called tough love. Honestly, your post is just one big excuse. What have you got to lose by trying? What do you hope to gain by making this post? You're already coming at the subject with a failure mindset. You havent even begun to start yet you're already quitting. Not sure what else to tell you man. Just get out there and try. | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 and I'm so hopeless with girls just on looks alone....improvement advice?Dude, don't buy into mainstream media garbage telling you need to look like channing tatum to get girls. If that were true, 95% of American men wouldn't be dating. Be proud of how you look, and believe in yourself. Your self worth is not measured by your success with women. | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 09:19 PM |
| 13 | This really changed how i view pickup. RSD Julien telling us how to never run out of things to say.Hes trying to say that girls WANT you to approach them, and you dont have to have some perfect lines prepared to do it. Pretty basic stuff, but i wouldnt call it useless | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 12:06 AM |
| 4 | This really changed how i view pickup. RSD Julien telling us how to never run out of things to say.The in-field in this is pretty weak, but the video is on how to break down your own interactions, which he does pretty clearly. Overall, i actually enjoy juliens inner-game talk and he releases a lot of content for free. im surprised the comments are here are mostly just bashing the dude. | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 12:03 AM |
| 4 | How I sometimes open girls who are "busy"Why are you putting him down for sharing advice that worked for him? | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you just let go?You gotta just practice man. There is no easy-solution for it, you've gotta get used to meeting new people and slowly become more comfortable. They key is to be OKAY with being tense at first. I always expect my first few sets of each night to suck, so I just dive in to get myself loosened up. Try not to eject early, and embrace the tenseness/awkwardness. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 04:46 AM |
| 1 | "You're too girl crazy"Pretty much none of my girl friends know the extent to which I game, except for one. And when she found out, she had NO hesitation in immediately calling me "desperate, creepy" etc. basically all the sexual-desire shaming bullshit that girls are conditioned to believe (and even some guys). It's just a societal thing. Not even offended. Some girls just haven't been in the same situation, so they don't understand. She's a fairly attractive girl, so she's never had to "work" to get sex/relationship… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 04:39 AM |
| 1 | She hasn't paid for anything after 3 dates and it's upsetting me"You're cool with splitting the bill, right?" Just be casual about it. Not a big deal, and if she makes it one, then you know what kind of girl you've got on your hands. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 03:56 AM |
| 1 | My wing's AA is starting to kill me. How can I motivate him to approach.Try opening sets together. Once you get the ball rolling for him, he'll probably find it easier to open. This is how my wing helped me get over my AA. | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on Julien Blanc's new SHIFT stuff?I absolutely love Julien's inner-game talk. His outer-game though is a bit hard for me to align to. To be honest, I'm just not the kind of guy who would go out there and do obnoxious shit to get into God-mode. Maybe I just haven't given it enough of a try. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 07:58 AM |
| 12 | Received a weird text from my ex tonightI doubt anyone here can "read" a random girl off of one text. I think the better question here is: what do YOU want from your ex? Once you've established that, you can decide how to proceed. | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 07:26 AM |
| 6 | My advice to those starting outIn my opinion, the best way to kickstart your motivation is to get one or two GOOD wings. And by good, I mean people who are dedicated, inspirational, and always willing to push you. I have a lot of friends, and for a long time, I thought almost all of them would be great wings. But after going out night after night with them, I realized there are just some people who don't give you the right motivation. People who will say "no" to certain sets, or even dissuade you from opening. Energy and mood… | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 05:00 AM |
| 3 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfI think the main problem with your post is that by "staying true to yourself," you risk not leaving your comfort zone. Most people in this sub have tried the "introverted" way their whole lives, and failed, which is why they are now trying the "extroverted" way. You said in your post that you've had a lot of experience in both paths, and prefer the introverted way now. That's fine, but you shouldn't encourage those who HAVEN'T tried both to just "stick with their strengths." People need to get o… | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Expectations are the death of fun.are "goals" and "expectations" synonymous? cause i certainly like to have goals when i go out, but i know how expectations can drag me down if a night doesn't go my way. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] TIFU by going out highOh god I have been in your exact shoes before. Went to a music show stoned as hell (don't smoke regularly) and by sheer luck, a cute girl actually ended up approaching ME. She lost interest real quick cause I had the personality of a rock... still get cringe-attacks thinking about it. Glad to know I'm not the only one. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 13 | Am I a loser if i dance alone myself?it is what it is. | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 01:41 AM |
| 9 | I fall in love with girls from just talking to themclassic schmosby | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 10:06 AM |
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