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I agree you're not alpha if you get a girl to cheat on her BF. It simply means you're different than her BF- and if her BF isn't giving her enough security, that could actually mean you're more beta than him.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:37 AM
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Honestly I'd carry business on as usual but I would consider ghosting thr girls or making sure they never cross paths with your gf. When she arrives and she meets your friends just introduce her as your gf. A lot of people actually open up their relationship for long distance so they might assume that's what you've done. If they ask any questions it's none of their business really. Obviously the biggest danger is your gf talking to someone immature and that person makes a joke or lets slip someh…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:15 AM
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and I suspect it's these pseudo-intellectual professors at the forefront of this particular indoctrination machine. Yes exactly. Luckily my professor acknowledged that this was incredibly crazy and manipulative in deflecting blame, but every tragic hero needs a mortal flaw, right? This one was simply a woman. She was more getting at the "every lie has a little bit of truth" idea, and also she was trying to get us to "focus less on the words an author puts down and more on the intentions/feelings…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:17 PM
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It's almost heisenberg uncertainy principle. If they are sure of the guy they want, they are all of a sudden unsure about everything else. But if there's no suitable guy in the picture or unsure of him as a partner they turn into control freaks and suddenly know everything.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:56 PM
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I agree. I think this is another way of saying that women don't want to be responsible for anything, so you need to give them a crutch their hamster can lean on- she's not being calculative when she cheats, it just happens. She's not intending to be a slut, it just happened. And while she pretty much has an easy out pretty much at any point until your dick is inside of her, the plausible deniability makes it comfortable for her to ignore and just continue.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:37 PM
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For a woman, the "truth" is less about words and more about feelings. This is actually discussed a lot in "Phaedra's Love"- a modern interpretation of Racine's Phaedra. Basically Phaedra falls in love with her step-son, who is a total player and ends up using her for sex. She says she was raped. My English professor (woman) explained this as "so while it was a lie, technically, it was the only way for Phaedra to truthfully convey what she was feeling." So pay more attention about the message she…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 04:20 PM
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See someone about your anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:36 PM
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Lol it is unbelievable to me how it just keeps spinning and spinning and how all OP needs to send is a simple "ok" to renew its momentum
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:31 PM
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If you want to continue seeing her: If she doesn't give you any more shit, act like nothing happened. If she apologizes, that's even better. Accept the apology. If she continues to play along/gives you more shit, and you are still sure you want to continue seeing her, just repeat that your new behavior is not indicative of the fact that you are not still interested in her. If she still demands for more, that's your call, but I'd probably start walking and explain to her that you're both looking …
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:28 PM
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Slutty girls tend to go after guys, yes. In this area, I feel half of RP is sometimes common knowledge- the part that guys have low standards for sex. So girls know that if they willingly offer that to a guy, they will probably be successful. But then they don't understand that throwing in sex coins isn't going to yield a relationship. I've seen girls ask a guy's friends for his number and sort of "cold text" him after he leaves the party. I've seen girls ask out guys to happy hours, etc. Invite…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:10 PM
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She asked me if she can go, I told her no Ehhh, there is a fine line between asserting your boundaries and controlling her/telling her what to do. I think this is probably ok since she asked you upfront "can I go", but in the future, I'd phrase it more like: "I'm not comfortable with you going." Then the choice is hers whether or not she wants to put you in a position of whether or not she makes you uncomfortable, and you can make the call later whether or not it's worth nexting over. It's kind …
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:01 PM
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Agree we need more information. How long has this been planned? Did she plan it after you guys started dating- and did she think to invite you? Has it even been booked yet? It could just be all talk and she's gauging to see whether or not you're ok with it.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:39 PM
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I think the comfort was OK to throw in. The verbal reassurance was the right move- good job on not making any promises or compromises ("oh well I can try to make an effort to call you more" or whatever). Just wait until she texts you, which she will.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:37 PM
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Yes and now she's sure that a simple text back from you would have made her feel way more validated than the afternoon she spent with him.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:42 PM
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Ok well maybe it's time to buy out some politicians then? I'm on board.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 08:39 PM
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No, no, no. He did it to impress a secret society. I absolutely promise.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:35 PM
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how long of a time span here? it's going to be hard to plate her if this was fairly recent
/r/askTRP16/03/16 08:33 PM
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oh true forgot about that. idk about a trp fashion subreddit but I guess why not
/r/askTRP16/03/16 08:24 PM
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Yeah but there are so many different interests buying out whoever that I figure it evens out anyway
/r/askTRP16/03/16 08:22 PM
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What a great idea. Be sure to post here when you get it up and running.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:40 PM
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You basically agreed and amplified their shit testing, and let the other girl's hamster spin when you blamed the booze. Good work. Remember shit testing doesn't just come from romantic interests- it can come from family members, co-workers, or pretty much anyone who wants to test your masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 03:52 PM
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If you tell her the truth, you'll want to imply that it's because you're picky and prefer to just hook up. Honestly I'd say "define girlfriend :p"
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:38 PM
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Hillary's affairs are entangled enough with Wall Street that economy-wise, we'll be fine. I think her presidency will essentially be the same as Obama's with the added benefit of her husband's influence. Just remember it's just the presidency- we have two other branches to keep her in check. I don't anticipate anything too severe in terms of womens' rights or mens' rights.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:26 PM
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I did slip up and do the whole reassuring thing and "I'm a serious guy" a short while after we met and I'd say that's one of the reasons why things have gone to shit. Glad you recognizeyour slipup. I mean it's your call whether or not you want to be one of those guys that say anything to get in a women's pants, but this is why I myself would advise being honest and to steer very clear of that- because the woman will soon press for you to deliver on that. I agree with /u/SkorchKang - treat her li…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:22 PM
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Men want to be loved too- and unconditionally at that. Just realize what you want is a fantasy. The other advice here is good- love yourself first, enjoy male companionship, and maybe get a dog if you still want to be leader of the pack.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:16 PM
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Agreed here. This guy must really be boring.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 02:13 PM
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Think about the consequences. Instill that fear before you go out. Rambling on about men's rights and implying every girl at the party or whatever is a slut is going to kill the mood and people won't want to be around you. Doing it at work will make you less likeable and less promotable. It's not easy, but it's simple. Just shut the fuck up and learn some self control. You're telling me you can't stop your mouth from babbling? Maybe read some redpillwomen posts about shutting up and not talking.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:09 PM
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You don't "find" good girls instantaneously. You learn who they are through continued contact and investment. My friend met a really good girl (virgin, catholic) at a college frat party. She was there with her sorority sisters. She almost didn't go out that night. But, he met her there, and of course it took a few dates for him to find out she was a virgin. Good girls are not going to be overly obvious that they are "good" because they are naiive enough to think most other girls are like that to…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 02:06 PM
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Sounds sincere. I'd say "Let me know if you can't and we'll reschedule."
/r/askTRP15/03/16 07:26 PM
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I know, sadly I know. I'd also argue though that a man cannot truly make a woman the "chosen one" she wants to be because a man will "choose" other things- whether its himself, other women, or other activities
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:22 PM
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Wow. Good job with this. The spinning just took care of itself. I was wondering why you decided when you did to start the transition from shit test to comfort test- (I think telling her she's being a bit paranoid is offering a bit of reassurance, though granted not much). What would you have said if she had taken you up on the offer to talk in person? I just feel like in my personal experience this is usually the moment where it breaks so I'm really impressed at your ability to first respond as …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:18 PM
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This is a good mindset. No need to change.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:58 PM
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"I don't really understand why you're telling me this" is the attitude you want to have, but you may not have to say those exact words unless she's going into detail. This puts the pressure on her to say directly what she wants and if she can't answer, she looks like a fool.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:57 PM
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Yikes. I'm at like 3mg I think but that's how big the tablets are.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:55 PM
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Melatonin and/or magnesium
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:55 PM
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Defriend her on social media, as well. No contact.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:54 PM
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Generally kissing too early is bad as it destroys sexual tension. Maybe a little is ok, but too much is bad. This. Within 5-10 minutes you've already kissed her on the hand and at least once on the lips while dancing, if not more. I mean I'm all for escalation but you are leaving no room for anticipation/sexual tension, even for a ONS. Also kissing a girl on the hand might come off as strange depending on your region.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:52 PM
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I don't know much about specific brands in London but I've noticed the well-dressed guys there tend to wear blacks, dark greys/coals, and navy blues. Ralph Lauren has good tees and button downs and Calvin Klein has nice merino/cashmere sweaters but I'm not sure about specific London brands
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:48 PM
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Your question is pointless. Why wouldn't you just try to have the best body you can? You can't change your face, but you can change your body. You are going to be the best man you can be in part by lifting. Muscles might not be essential if you're not fat and have a great face but why not just lift and be better? Conversely, if you have a bad face but good body, it still beats having a bad face and a normal body.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:38 PM
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Don't move somewhere for a nonexistant woman. Go somewhere where you actually want to live, and make the best women-wise where you land. If you like the beach, go somewhere that has a beach. If you like skiing, go somewhere that has mountains. If you like rowing, go somewhere with rivers. You get it. This will ensure you actually like your life, and you won't care whether or not you find a good woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:34 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I agree it's the ultimate fantasy for a woman to be chosen above all- to be queen of the harem. It's just that women, as they have varying threshholds for dread, will have varying threshholds for what they need to feel chosen. Some might simply want you to come home to them every night. Another may flip out if you even text with any other girls, because if you have her number, you should choose her to text with first. If women were privy to red pill knowledge or how m…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:56 PM
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You know, before this month, I would have said my boss. Very easy going and laid back, but very easy to respect. 6'8'', sort of in shape, about to hit 50 years old. You just have this natural desire to want to work hard for him and impress him. You want to do a good job and not screw him over. He's not controlling and he doesn't micromanage you, but you know that if you mess up, you're really impacting the company, and you'll suffer consequences some how. My boss just does what he wants at the o…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 05:27 PM
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Focus on the fact that she would rather be with the new guy and not you. You do not want to be with someone who would rather be with someone else. Yes it sucks, but use that as motivation for self improvement. And focus on all of the reasons why she sucks. That should breed a bit of resentment to make the split easier.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 05:19 PM
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Agreed, which is why I tell him to encompass traits her boyfriend is missing
/r/askTRP15/03/16 05:14 PM
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First time back in the game and you're focused on her pleasure? Worry about yourself for now. Baby steps.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 05:14 PM
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Women are dopamine fiends. So yes, it's really hard to find a girl who doesn't do drugs- because if she can't get her fix from the cc, she'll search for that feeling through other means. You need to find girls who are used to a low amount of dopamine, and those are not likely going to be at parties.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 02:39 PM
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But I have literally exhausted every single option of getting my message across. No you haven't- dread game. I even listen to the suggestions she gives me. Who's in control here? I have tried leaving the relationship in the past and she continued to press for us to work on it, but this intimacy issue never makes a permanent improvement. You don't need her permission to leave. I continue to assert my feelings to her, and then she hears it... You are approaching this problem how a woman should app…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:59 PM
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I think you came here to figure out the best "lie" to tell this guy you're interested in and adjust what you tell him accordingly. My advice is, instead of lying, simply do not volunteer this information unless he asks for it. 4, while it's not an astronomical number, is still not 0, and he will not want to know unless he asks. But when he does ask, you shouldn't lie because he WILL eventually find out...and dump you for it. I promise. Whether it's when you're drunk and trickle truth, or you tel…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:52 PM
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I mean this is precisely why the investment/cost of an LTR is too high unless she's a virgin. I myself debate this a lot. If you're dating an actually LTR-able girl, she's probably not going to be ok with a one-sided (or any sided) open relationship. It's hard to start at total exclusivity and work your way back- that's why it's best to drag the plate phase as long as possible. But if you want to keep abundance mentality and remain satisfied, you'll still want to fuck other women even if the one…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:46 PM
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just be better than her boyfriend and try to play up (not totally encompass though) any traits her boyfriend is missing- if she complains he's controlling or insecure, be more manly and aloof; if she complains he's an asshole, maybe get in touch with your deep, sensitive, caring side. I agree with /u/frerri- do not escalate to sex. You want her hamster to rationalize that she's giving you her number as a friend. She's meeting up with you as a friend. She's texting you as a friend. If she seems p…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:35 PM
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I told her I don't wanna hear about that person ever again it's not my problem. I think amused mastery could have worked best here...so many cat lady and pussy jokes
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:27 PM
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don't sweat it. you did the right thing by blaming the booze. that'll make her hamster spin.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:27 PM
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She was never your LTR right? Just #1 in rotation (and she knew that?) I think a conversation is overdoing it unless you're trying to break up. but not much more serious. She admires my "mission" and works hard in helping me with that. I need a lot of people to help with that, and she's a hard worker. What's your aim here? Why would you provide that detail if you didn't want anything serious? It sounds like you yourself don't know what you want from her. Figure that out first. If all you want is…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:24 PM
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You could stop being a bitch and tell her straight up that you're not wasting your time meeting up with someone when you don't even know what they look like This
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:20 PM
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Wasn't this the "no means yes and yes means anal" school? The school is probably trying to overcompensate. Honestly though ridiculous. I hope he gets justice in court.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 06:27 PM
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Netflix and chill all the way Put your arm around her, kiss her, etc. It's a good sign she asked you to hang out but make sure she's not trying to friendzone you.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:20 PM
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I just don't feel like I can spend my life with her. This is a good reason to break up, especially if she is looking to marry and spend her life with someone. We are completely different, we don't get along with eachother's friends. I don't like her family too much. These aren't really good reasons but it sounds like you've made your mind to break up and are just grasping at straws for reasons. Just tell her you're unhappy. I really want to break up but after two years, even if it's a cave troll…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:54 PM
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My junk works, I get my morning greeting, its just I don't feel an urge to even give him a little tug. Maybe give it a tug anyway? Sometimes it's a "use it or lose it" type of deal. Anyway if you're that worried I'd recommend seeing a doctor. It certainly couldn't hurt.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:46 PM
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It's more of a mindset that I have to work on. Yes exactly. Don't let anyone make you feel badly for taking time for yourself--- jesus you're still giving her 3 overnights a week. She's trying to lock you down asap. This should help you establish confidence and abundance mentality since she'll probably be very forgiving of beta mistakes and you won't lose anything if you mess up.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:53 PM
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Yeah I mean you going from everyday to pulling back 3 times a week sounds like enough dread to keep her spinning. Just do you.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:51 PM
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I sounded very defensive trying to justify myself and of course I'm annoyed by that. She's probably annoyed by that too. She can't expect the relationship to retain that crazy NRE. Just do what you want to live your life- see her as much as you want, do your own thing as much as you want. Giving in to any demands is going to put the relationship on false foundation/expectations. This could be a comfort test, btw, but high 30s she's probably looking to lock down a beta bucks. 3 times a week is st…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:45 PM
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No need for justification just curious. Sounds awful. Glad you got out.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:37 PM
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Yeah. I also think girls, since they become more attracted to a man who makes them jealous, will think that if she can get a guy to realize he's jealous, then the guy will realize he likes her. But they just don't get that guys don't think like them and won't naturally want to cling on to her if she does that.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:59 PM
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Focus on all of the bad things she said during the divorce. Focus on how she didn't want to be with you. Become a better person so that she looks at you when you drop off your kids and regrets it. By that time you won't want anything to do with her. You're in a good position to upgrade to a younger, newer model.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 03:57 PM
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You weren't attracted to her. Can't negotiate that. Were you exclusive though or did you just KNOW you were never going to fuck her again? Because I probably wouldn't have dumped her before the date with buxom unless she thought we were dating exclusively. I guess if she were worshipping you though then there was a pretty strong implication of that.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:44 PM
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The true "alpha" way to respond to any flaking via text is to simply not care and take the 2 seconds it takes to text back acknowledging you got it "bummer" and maybe in proposing another day if you know you're free. If you look up at your text string and see multiple exchanges that is literally just bailing and rescheduling, then you're wasting your time and should just acknowledge it or not...whatever you want...but don't put time into blocking off your schedule unless she comes to you. If she…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:34 PM
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If you stay with TRP I know you'll look back on this in a year and cringe. Good advice here. Maybe take a hiatus from women and just read all of the posts here. Harden you up. Then when you get to college you'll really see what sluts most girls are and it will be hard for you to idolize any girl ever again.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:09 PM
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I think by the time you're on a first date you should have already built up loads of tension and interest. Agree, with the amount of tension/interest correlating to the type of relationship you want. You should be able to talk about needing to take a shit or her periods. No. If a girl is OK talking about this with you on date 1, even if you've been talking for weeks, she is not LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:01 PM
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One constant comfort test here I often see mistaken as a shit test here is when a plate youre fucking tells you about another guy whos interested in her. I think this is the trickiest test because it really could go either way. It's also mind boggling how stupid/solipsistic women are- "I want more than just casual sex with this guy...so I'm going to tell him I have tons options for casual sex" In my experience this is usually a comfort test, though so off putting. The girl doesn't really like th…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 02:54 PM
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I don't know why she'd think to go through your pockets unless she was already suspicious/uncomfortable, or if you left them unzipped. Either way I'd make it clear you're not going to remove the condoms. It's not even proof you're fucking other women. But if she's trying to talk about exclusivity: If you decide you still want side action, tell her so, and then it's in her best interest for you to keep the condoms so that she stays safe. If you decide you want to commit, still keep the condoms. I…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:48 PM
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Just remember AWALT. She's not some unicorn/perfect match for you. Think about everything bad about her that you don't like. Focus on the fact that she's probably riding the CC. Even if she's not, focus on the fact that she'd probably give it up for chad, but didn't for you. Maybe unfollow her on facebook other social media. Don't let your mind build up something that's not real. Luckily oneitis is curable, I promise. Keep doing what you're doing. Focus on lifting and your career.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:43 PM
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Some women are ok with that at first but the deeper she falls for you, the more commitment she will want from you. As far as literally removing the condoms, don't. But if she's trying to talk to you about not fucking other plates/you're asking what you should do, that's your call. Some girls are OK but then when they see you're actually fucking other plates they get hit in the feelz and can't handle it. That's why you need to be REALLY discrete (though honest) if you do- don't rub it in her face…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:37 PM
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Dude you need to "talk" about something you already blew up at her about? FYI, if a girl is really into you, one or two mistakes in frame won't totally change things. This sounded like a pretty big screw up though. Next time show it with actions and not words. Instead of threatening her how you'd be gone in a heartbeat, just soft next her. You're instead sinking to her level of manipulating via oral threats about the quantity of your commitment to get back at her manipulating via oral threats ab…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:32 PM
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You need to fuel the fire a bit to keep it going. In a study of rats and feeders: There were three feeders. One that gave out food generously and on schedule, one that rarely gave out food (on schedule), and then one on an unpredictable feeding timer. The rats tended to crowd around the unpredictable feeder. I'll try and come back with a link for this.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:26 PM
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True. I guess what I'm saying is that she might accept that arrangement if she already has a boyfriend. Maybe not pursue it but accept it...at least for now.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:20 PM
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Literally same situation here. The hotter girl though proved to be a massive slut, which in its own twisted way, provided reassurance knowing she wasn't a meaningful threat.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 09:50 PM
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Absolutely agree. But it is much, much easier to salvage an overdread situation than it is to gain back respect once you've gone too beta.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 09:39 PM
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this is why you keep her at plate and don't promote her Don't look to women to get more than "poontang" as you say. Unless you don't want to fuck her anymore there's no reason why you shouldn't keep doing so unless she is high maintenance or requires a ton of investment/energy...then she actually might not be worth it
/r/askTRP11/03/16 09:12 PM
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She's LTR worthy until she's not. WRONG Keep her at plate status until you're 100% sure. And then even when you are sure and decide to give her the gf title, worry less about other things (dates, affection) to keep her still proving herself to you. Worry less- don't completely hold back though.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 09:02 PM
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She wants to friend zone you I don't really think this is necessarily the case. She might want to AF-zone you while keeping her BB friendzoned. She might just want you to pursue her harder so she can hamster herself into the victim where something just happens instead of taking responsibility for the fact that she's a cheating whore. You're at least more attractive than her boyfriend, so you got that right. you can probably still smash, if you can get her alone through witchcraft level plausable…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 08:50 PM
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All girls are just messed up in the head and can't let things go. ftfy. AWALT. Literally all girls keep a running list of things in their head. They might say they "let it go" but their scoreboard is still going, trust me.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 08:40 PM
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whose +1 are you? Doesn't that mean you actually aren't going by yourself? In any event, yes you should go.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 08:30 PM
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