| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do? | ADVICE | _red_poppy_ | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 09:51 AM |
| 11 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidence | _red_poppy_ | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 05:59 PM |
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| 9 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenYour description of travelling is such a weird one. Like it is only super luxurious, glamorous experience or nothing. You don't like women going to beach resort, not women who like to travel. Travelling is exploring both local countryside and other continents. Sightseeing monuments and museums. Multi- kilometres hiking and biking trips. Participating in activities of the local travelling groups. In my opinion, such hobbies are a sign of self discipline and good physical conditions. What not to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 11:16 AM |
| 5 | *NEW NUMBERS* 4 out of 10 young men in Sweden don't dare to flirt with girls, study showsEuropean people do not have that level of confidence, conviction, pride in their nation, their culture, heritage and ethnicity. "European" is not a nationality. Is a name of a freaking continent.You want to insult Swedes or Brits, go ahead, but leave the normal nations alone. In my nation, we sure as hell have pride in all the things listed above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Bullshit. Average women are left alone by men, who don't even spit in their direction. Never on a date, never kissed, bullied as teenagers by these "wonderful men". All average women I know are great human beings who deeply desire romance, love, marriage and family. Yet they howl at night from loneliness, since to men they're worse than worms. So stop your bullshit. You only care about hot women and the whole essay You've just wrote is about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Smile to a normal woman, not a hot chick, and watch her giving you a tentative smile too. But who would smile at a worm, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 06:07 PM |
| – | Are women not getting approached anymore?For years now, women have complained nonstop about how just because they left their house and are at X location, doesn’t mean they want to be hit on or approached Not true. The only ones, who said things like that are humble bragging hot sluts. Aka the only women visible to men. Normal women would love to be approached and dated, but to men, they're worse than worms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:08 PM |
| -10 | Are women not getting approached anymore?That's not true. Women like OP, myself and plenty others would have been thrilled to be approached. But men only approach hot chicks from clubs, who may be displaying such behaviour. Normal women are invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:04 PM |
| 3 | "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"That's very reassuring to hear. Especially tha part, when your husband was grateful and prideful you had stepped up and started cooking. Tbh, I meet and read about all these "cooking is my passion" men and I don't want that in my man at all. I don't want to compete with anyone about who would rule in the kitchen and is the better cook. I only want my man in the kitchen to eat and praise whatever I will cook for him :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/23 07:02 PM |
| 15 | Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist?I am friends with a buch of below-average and avarage women. None of them fat. They're deeply traumatized by everything men did to them, bullying, ridiculing, names calling, contempt. They do not interact with men in any shape or form to the point they'd not go to the grocery shop cash register staffed by male employee in fear he'd think they're hitting on him and start ridiculing and bullying. To women, ugly men are just that, ugly men. To men, ugly and avarage women are dirt and worms. And the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:36 AM |
| – | Most women with green flags are boring and men don't actually want them.You still do not understand. Your definition of the word "boring" is flawed. Sorry, there's nothing exciting in drinking excessively, doing drugs or trampling to pseudo music. For us, you're boring. Why would intresting, smart, well-read women with exciting hobbies be interested in party crowd? but she can’t be mid, sorry One day, you'd sitting on the corner and asking this "mid" for a change, after the psycho slut stole everything you have. Enjoy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Most women with green flags are boring and men don't actually want them.Reading posts like this, it's very easy to hate men. Based on the OP, men are trash. They go for sluts and then they cry the sluts cheat on them, steal their money and their children etc. And, fyi, for myself there's no more boring place than bars, clubs and parties. So for me, you OP and your sluts are the most boring people on the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:33 PM |
| 15 | Husband is (almost) perfect: How to balance his sexual fantasies and my faithVanilla only? There are so many things, sexually, that can be done between two people, that are definitelly not vanilla. Or anything that is not cheating left and right is considered vanilla now? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/23 06:39 AM |
| 1 | A man starts a conversation with you outside of a club/bar/festival venue, what do you assume about his intentions?I assume it's either a joke or a dare. Run away as soon as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidencejust walking by a group of men is anxiety-inducing because of the likelihood that they’ll give me unwanted attention So is for me. Only that I fear they'd start ridiculing and laugh at me. Please keep in mind that being catcalled does not equate to being approached, asked out, etc. I understand that. But it's an indication that they find me attractive, that I'm not ugly to them. And it means a lot for me. Given that you admit to having low self-esteem, it’s best to focus on that instead. Yes, I'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidenceThank You so much for the advice and sharing Your experiences. I seem to have very similar type of personality, so I hope it will work for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidenceThank You! I definitely agree with You and I was being sarcastic a bit in the OP when saying it's vile and all women hate it. It's so masculine and attractive to see men just casually check the women up on old photos and pictures. I would never understand why feminists hate it so much... | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidenceI say I visited quite a few different neighborhoods. The closest I got to get catcalled was by a merchant in a not-so-good neighborhoods shouting behind me to check his merchandise. Go to Latin America I'd love to visit one day, but now I'd be anxious the same thing will happen, I.d. no one would notice me there hey, if that's your cup of tea, Not really. But I'd love to finally feel like a woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidenceThank You for Your comment :) I don't really make an eye contact with anyone and I might try smiling more! I usually just look neutral and not really smile to people, because I think people are not really interested in smiling to me.. We went to Musee de Cluny just today :) and I found Lady with unicorn tapestries really stunning. I'll definitely check Dyptique suggestion! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 07:50 PM |
| -2 | Pretty privilege is everywhere and is actually the strongest discrimination on earth??Talents and skills and personality are all very nice features, but unless one's also attractive, they mean nothing. Who a man would choose? A kind plain or ugly woman, however skillfull and kind they're, or a hot bitch? The bitch would win every single time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:05 PM |
| -3 | Pretty privilege is everywhere and is actually the strongest discrimination on earth??Most of the comments were written by hot women, who have no idea what does it mean to be ugly and what kind of life we must endure... | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Pretty privilege is everywhere and is actually the strongest discrimination on earth??So? There're still on beautiful yachts and there're plenty of men desiring them and wanting to do sexual things with them. Thats more we, ugly women, can ever dream about. Hot women would never understand what it is to live one's life as ugly and undesirable... | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have nothing significant to offerMen in their early 20s are at their handsomest, with head full of hair and stamina that leave man in his 30s far behind. They have time to study, party, travel and explore their passions. I'm upset that I'm good to serve soup and bring slippers, but was not good enough for marathon sex nights and backpacking trips to wherever he took with his hot, cool ex. That ex was of course only for "fun" and not for serious relationship. And according to you, it's perfectly all right. I suppose to cherish g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have nothing significant to offerGuys have a duel mating strategy - hot girls for fun, good girls for serious relationships. So I am supposed to be elated that my man gave his best, carefree, fun years to some hot, bitchy whore and then decided it's time to settle with "good girl" me? While reminiscencing his youth and resenting his boring current life and a boring wife, probably. What a depressing life that would be. And it is supposed to be a reward for a "good girl", you say? It's a classic AFBB. Plenty of girls would love t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating strugglesOnly a man could be delusional enough to think hot and ugly women are treated the same by men. Ugly and average women are dirt and worms to men, subhuman at bests. They're approached only to be laughted at or to serve as a butt of the joke to men. Lonely and unwanted, virgins at 30 and 40. Where are these scores of "good men" that supposedly love them? "Good men" are in clubs and bars moping after hot sluts, the only kind of women that exist to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 07:27 PM |
| 2 | What are your hobbies?I also love to read! My favourite genre are mysteries and history (fiction and no- fiction). I'm learning French and finishing off my Russian. I've recently picked up crocheting and am eying up starting up the sewing. I'm collecting old Christmas tree ornaments and pottery from my country. I love cooking and baking, especially trying and recreating recipes from old cookbooks ( r/Old_Recipes is one of my favourite subreddits). I am a member of two historical reenactment groups. And a dozen of oth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/23 06:45 PM |
| 17 | Partner says we cannot be together in the futureI don't know about this particular guy, of course. But if I'd want to count all Muslim guys that "didn't believe in religion" when wanting a Western girl to sleep with them, the number would be huge. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 07:52 PM |
| 15 | Partner says we cannot be together in the futureYou made a good decision. No one would respect you, if you're not respecting yourself. Sorry to say, but you were just a bedwarmer for this guy. I'd bet he will soon have an arranged marriage with virgin muslim girl. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 07:48 PM |
| -1 | how to date to marry, and be a wife material?And she was probably super hot, right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/23 07:02 PM |
| 6 | how to date to marry, and be a wife material?If she treated you as awfully as you say, why on earth were you in a realtionship with her for 8 years? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | The Top 5 Biggest Traits That Predict Someone Will Become A 30 Year Old Virgin (Not By Choice)There're also 30-years-old female virgins, you know? Why you just assumed it's only men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:48 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men who seek to date conventionally attractive women are compensatingI read somewhere here, that men are petrified that women would treat them the same way they (the men) treat ugly and average women. Reading posts like this, there's certainly some merit to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 10:10 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Men who seek to date conventionally attractive women are compensatingAnd what your girlfiend thinks about it? Is she aware you settled for her? Is she aware you're not finding her beautiful? It would kill me to be with a man, who thinks about me: "Well, yeah she's good enough I guess". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:55 PM |
| 3 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Wow, getting to be summed up like this is a bit ouch, but you are plenty right, of course. I'm afraid I got myself into a vicious circle of running away from men because I'm afraid of them and being afraid of them, because I don't know them since I'm running away. realize that no one cares enough to hate you, embarrass you, or judge you What a refreshing thought that is! Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Thank you, I try to do just that. I'm 5'6 and weight around 115 lbs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Here you go | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 05:32 PM |
| -7 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?I beg you pardon, I didn't take an offense to colleagues joking about tinder. I was aftraid that they found my account and were making fun of me, ridiculing me. I don't expect anyone to walk on egg shells around me. I just don't want to be the butt of other people's jokes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?No, I don't think so. I smile often and when not I kind of keep the smile in the corner of my lips, so I do not look like I want to murder someone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 04:57 PM |
| 5 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Thank you for your advice. I've already started researching teraphists in my city. I haven't decided I will do it yet, but it's a quite a big possibility for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 04:52 PM |
| 3 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?I would have to check if Bumble or Hinge are present in my country. I know OKCupid, for instance, is virtually unheard of. Thank you for your kind words! It's hard to deal with insecurites, but I will try. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 12:53 PM |
| 10 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Thank you for your perspective. I am an optimistic person and, save from occasional vent, I don't like complaining. I am aware that being jealous of other women is a bad thing. I don't want to be like that at all! Maybe therapy is not a bad idea at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 12:51 PM |
| 3 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Thank you. I suppose you are right. But I've got so very few compliments from men myself that I cannot help but a bit jealous when other got them in my presence. I guess I just feel tired from being overlooked so many times. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 12:13 PM |
| -8 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?I have a problem with dating apps. Once, I was browsing a Facebook group for dating in my city, where people write short ads about themselves. I didn't know this group rules by then and I liked a post by a guy that I thought was really well written. I wasn't aware that by liking I give an okay sign for guys to write to me. So someone write to me and we engaged in conversation. After a while he sent me his photo and he was very handsome on it. Too handsome for it. I got petrified it's some sort o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 12:02 PM |
| 8 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?I'm on the shyer and more introvert side, but nothing extreme. I do understand that socialisation is necessary for me. I am a smiley person. I don't know about a therapist. I cannot just go to see one and say "I have a problem but I don't know what it is" can I? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 11:50 AM |
| 7 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Thank you. I read the post you had mentioned. I think it is a great way to act if you already know the man in question. I do not have any male friends. And that guy...he was in his 50s or 60s. I do not expect any 10/10s (I am a bit afraid of them, to be honest), but a man old enogh to be my father is a bit too extreme for me. And I cannot say if I react or not when someone approaches me, since it has never happened. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 11:26 AM |
| 2 | What can the girl, for whom RedPillWomen's advice is not working, do?Well, my mum and I went on a city break in a neighouring country's capital. My mum does not speak local language, I do a little bit. We were at the subway train, preparing to get off. I was standing front to the door, so I didn't see the guy approach. My mum was standing behind me. He also wanted to leave the train and in the meantime, he asked my mum: "Hi. Is this your sister?" pointing at me. I practically ran out of train wanting to leave him behind. My mum hadn't understand what he said, so … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | What all is this for?OP takes care of her appereance and has a sweet and kind personality. These things are supposedly on the top of the list of traits men "look for in women but cannot find anywhere". But in practice, it turns out to be all crap, like a lot of things men state to want. OP is not hot, therefore, for you she is a subhuman. Of she was a hot extrovert, she could be as bitchy as she'd want and you all would be in awe. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/23 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do men today prefer to be chased?I used to be, I admit. But now, I look much more better, but nothing changed in that department. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do men today prefer to be chased?No man ever has ever talked to me, unless gay or in professional manner. So no, no on ever told me that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do men today prefer to be chased?Average women are invisible , ignored and forgotten. Only kind of women men see and are interested in are hot, extroverted ones from bars and clubs. Saying that an average women is being wooed and pursued nowadays is ridiculous. I am an average women and have never been on a single date in my entire life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/23 08:14 PM |
| 8 | Why do men today prefer to be chased?Men should just stop chasing and even acknowledge the existence of feminists period. Anytime you hear some women yapping about creeps, catcalling and men offending her by existing it's always feminist. Why men stop talking/noticing them and focus at good girls? In 99% of cases it's the easiest thing to differentiate between those two. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/23 07:20 AM |
| 16 | Do you offer to split the bill on the first date?No, more like paying one's half obligingly, but deciding against another date (as our values clearly do not match) with this man. Or deciding to have another one, after weighting the odds. I cannot even imagine anyone behaving in a way described by you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/22 07:37 PM |
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