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You shouldn't be at the club if you're married in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:22 PM
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Plenty of people have been wrong, the bystander effect exists for example, we’ve even seen it in past generations of bluepillers on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:59 PM
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Women tell themselves they’re good people and would never cheat, I say people don’t know themselves as well as they think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:49 PM
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Everyone is capable of cheating, demonstrate you aren’t likely to cheat through your actions and the company you keep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:24 PM
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It increases the risk of cheating as it’s a venue men feel comfortable looking for hookups in and there will inevitably be a sexual interaction even if it is one-sided and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:17 PM
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Read again fool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:54 PM
6

The kind of person who cheats is the person who puts themselves in a position to make cheating easy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:15 PM
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Like I told someone else, going to a club and expecting nothing sexual to come out of it is like stocking your fridge with booze and expecting no drinking to happen. It's an order of magnitude easier to avoid a behavior by fixing your environment than just telling yourself you're not going to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:58 PM
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Going to a club and expecting nothing sexual to come out of it is like stocking your fridge with booze and expecting no drinking to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:56 PM
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Good post, also curious if the women who say their bfs and husbands are okay with them clubbing are under or over 30, I'm over 30 and that would be a huge fucking red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:40 PM
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Huge moral hazard, just takes one hot guy to create a cheater in your friend circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:36 PM
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They can feel like that at their parents house
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:09 PM
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It's on the man to make it not boring, all women can come up with is asking about work I wfh so it cuts down pretty majorly on workplace gossip, if I were to talk about the details of my work it would bore most women to tears
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:52 PM
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Agrarian society is pre-history if it predates writing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:10 PM
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I don't agree to your premise, I don't think that women overall are even making more money for the effort put into education regardless of the debt load.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:06 PM
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Education did not pan out like millennials were told, many people have $200k in debt and are making mid 5 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:47 PM
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I doubt women have greater career success overall, what they have is a lot of student debt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:43 PM
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In the past it was regarded as a faux pas to ask about salary, and most people don't love their jobs, even if you got into a job you kinda like it's going to wear on you after 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:30 PM
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What natural incentive do you have to be not self-centered other than that you have children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:26 AM
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You’re meant to lose yourself, you’re not meant to go on as the same self-centered dipshit after having children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:18 AM
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Based response
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:14 AM
1

Time to bring out the pillow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:06 AM
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Because people are so atomized they have to pay a quack to hear them out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:00 AM
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Not my 🙈 not my 🎪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:36 PM
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That’s hardly a threat and women the world over already aren’t doing their social “job” of childbearing or rearing with fertility rates dropping world wide. Governments the world over have found natality incentives have done nothing to reverse birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:42 PM
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It should remain uncompensated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:28 PM
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The global fertility rate is going to go below replacement level so it doesn't seem like women are doing even that, if you're younger than Gen X you should consider that you might be better off eating a bullet in old age since whatever you saved will be inflated away by the cost of labor due to the shortage of young workers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:16 PM
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Why would it stop at casual sex? If it's a chore, why would you get into a relationship with a guy who makes your skin crawl at the thought of fucking him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:11 PM
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Mucho texto
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:15 PM
2

Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:13 PM
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The man in that scenario doesn’t sound like he prefers single mothers to the exclusion of other women, but his only options are single mothers and he has to take what he can get
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:09 PM
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Yes, but the homeostasis for your mental state isn't peace of mind, but to eventually take for granted what you have and grab more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:45 PM
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Yes I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:30 PM
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Who else is enthusiastic about dating single mothers specifically, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:07 PM
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I don't see that changing, given that the mother will in the end still be responsible for the child, it's better to just nip the problem in the bud at the very beginning because there won't be much social support for actively punishing mothers and their children.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:57 PM
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Yeah I mean the bugout bag that's specifically for if something goes wrong in the relationship displays a similar amount of distrust
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:55 PM
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It's weird how normalized it is for employers to screen candidates, and perfectly reasonable given how many people fake credentials, but it's a breach of trust for you to do the same when considering a prospective partner or to verify that your child is in fact yours People are encouraged to vet their partners, but no not like that!
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:50 PM
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Another theory: they're pedophiles and single moms are the easiest way to get at kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:45 PM
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I don't get why single moms don't give their kids up for adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:22 PM
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"Homeostasis" isn't peace of mind, it's the hedonic treadmill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:20 PM
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It doesn't matter what the reason is, it's a burden with no upsides
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:13 PM
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They will inherit the earth along with the Amish and Mormons Seriously though millennials are going to have whiplash when they reach retirement age, even if you have your own money saved up in your 401k birth rates are falling across the board, the supply of care workers and young tax payers won't keep up with demand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:11 PM
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It's easier now than ever to find a childless woman over 30
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:09 PM
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Men don't need red pill to not want to get with single moms, usually it's just that she's hot and he's thinking with his dick against his future interests All things being equal being a single mother is a steep negative
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:07 PM
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Pedophiles romanticize single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:04 PM
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Wow, that's incredibly naive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:38 PM
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Everyone is capable of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:16 PM
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It's not practical to make it a prosecutable crime, it's better to nip it in the bud by testing and let the guy have his out, while the woman can support the child alone, without a jail sentence or payments needing to be made
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:05 PM
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They were never going to win without NATO joining boots on the ground, if that doesn't happen they were just used as a speedbump
/r/MensRights07/09/23 02:26 PM
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As a climate doomer you are just as bad as the people banking on AI/tech to save them from their bad decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:07 PM
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Well, you're factually wrong on that, keep coping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:43 PM
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In one breath you talk about how men are disposable and in the next about how their lives need to have some transcendant purpose, to me that reeks of cope I'd say "material idealism" is an oxymoron too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:09 PM
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At some point there won't be countries to steal population from if the same trends in the West occur and wages equalize, birth rates are falling across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:54 PM
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Let's be real, you aren't having kids period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:53 PM
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It kinda is for anyone growing old just as the system crashes, without positive growth you can count on 10 or 20 years being cut off your lifespan
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:51 PM
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You shouldn't have a child with someone you don't like, but don't count on social systems remaining stable enough to pay for your child
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:49 PM
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I mean if you're pushing 40 your life already is going to be nothing like baby boomers or Xers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:47 PM
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This is some schizo shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:42 PM
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Humans are one of the few species with concealed oestrus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:20 PM
1

Sure, in the two cases I have in mind it is more where emotions or insecurities come to a head and one party discloses their vulnerabilities in an effort to explain their behavior or fears, and end up walking away with all their fears confirmed and the worst possible outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah, I guess I agree that it is ridiculous to not settle or pretend that you're not settling when for example, you probably settled in other places in your life Not everybody gets their first pick of college, not everybody gets to work their dream job, not everybody can afford to buy a brand new car, not everybody gets to live in the house of their dreams, why would relationships be any different? If you don't settle, your life just doesn't move forward The complaints about settling could have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:24 PM
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Yes, it's common and good relationship advice for women to have sex with their male partner even if they aren't feeling 100% about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:14 PM
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Not cohabiting that's for fucking sure, I'm willing to buy that a lot of women end up dating the same select group of men, but they're not going to be living with them or confront the humiliation of being one of many women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:09 PM
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I agree. I don't think it's rational necessarily, a lot of people consuming this content or similar content for the opposite side are triggering themselves and lowering their quality of life, sometimes ignorance is bliss. Chalk it up to neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:00 PM
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This is how most women see struggling men, they will always imagine the absolute worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:23 PM
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Often times parents give you advice they wish they were given, based on the struggles they are having in their present lives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:13 PM
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You can still discuss this while saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:11 PM
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I have been on both sides where being "vulnerable" lead to worse heartache You can't fix shit by being vulnerable, expecting unconditional love or some shit, you can't put the pieces back together when things are broken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:07 PM
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It can be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:30 PM
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Because there are more choices available than deadbeat vs cuck, and there are more factors than this that factor into attraction, it should be pretty obvious don't be dense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:54 PM
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It's a false dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:44 PM
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You are just butthurt tbh, and you kinda make a fallacy of contracting disparate views into one monolith, there are people who advocate what you're saying and people who are more trad, people inbetween and people who just don't give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:32 PM
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Neither of those factor into attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:30 PM
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Yes, even that is baggage, being born poor and having experiences of being in poverty or homelessness is baggage, having a history of addiction is baggage, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:51 AM
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I have dated muslim women who were clearly traumatized via their culture, having been beaten and raped by ex husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:48 AM
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Someone with PTSD who was beaten or raped, stuff like that PTSD can lead to psychopathic tendencies, weird and dramatic reactions to minor conflict in a relationship, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:46 AM
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I think you need to completely abolish fatherhood and socialize the costs of raising children to make liberal societies have a positive TFR
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:54 AM
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Is-ought fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:18 PM
1

Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:21 AM
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If you can manage to treat each other with respect, I don't see how your quality of life would be lowered
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:15 AM
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A whole ass law though, when how many people are unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:02 PM
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Yeah, IIRC still 65 for men, and it was raised from 60 to 62
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:55 PM
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Just because you can imagine up some rationalization for why something must be does not mean it is right or correct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:30 PM
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Is that the argument used in Brazil, or did you just pull that out of your ass? The argument that women are healthier for a shorter time is fucking stupid too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:16 PM
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Seems like the argument is that wives and mothers have a double shift, so they should get to retire a little earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:16 PM
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Today I learned that the retirement age in Brazil is 65 for men and 60 for women, thought that was really interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:09 PM
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I have a job that pays well but something tells me you wouldn't think it's shit despite being well compensated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:31 PM
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I'm so glad I killed myself at work despite having no wife or kids to support
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:28 PM
3

No, I think the vast majority do not enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:06 PM
1

Plenty of small towns and cities in the Midwest you could move to with everything in cycling distance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:43 PM
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If people like you made the economically rational choice to move to these cheaper rural areas there would be more work for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:30 PM
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The way you repeat this in every comment to me means you have a conclusion and are looking for affirmation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:14 PM
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How long have you been in the workforce? All your hard work can be for nothing if say your company is sold and your project is cut Most people work for others, and most businesses would prefer not to have the risk of a key employee leaving, they want you to be fungible Hard work isn't a guarantee of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:08 PM
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My ex told me she'd never date a plumber even if they made six figures and they were decent men Supply and demand isn't everything, there's a social aspect too, so many millennials flocked to college because they were told to and sold as a ticket to the middle class. It worked out for some, and some have been wrecked by it and are drowning in debt, including many women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:59 AM
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Remote work is super common nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:55 AM
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I guess as a man you just gotta wait for the group of women who hit the skids and aren't actually able to make that work out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:55 AM
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Surrogacy for single men isn't common or socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:47 AM
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Not really, not the first couple dates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:26 PM
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You're right. There is no such thing as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:30 PM
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They play in it whether they know it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:42 PM
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I don't see how advocating for multigenerational homes is strongly opposing the nuclear family, multigenerational homes just means you might be living with your parents and your grandparents under the same roof. "Multigenerational homes" as practiced in for example Germany meant that the firstborn son stayed with their parents and brought their wife while every other child was forced to fend for themselves and might not receive an inheritance. It doesn't mean you can be a busted up slut who does…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:34 PM
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Just hope you don't swap places with a Ukrainian male circa February last year
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:11 AM
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Have you never been cockblocked before? It's definitely a competition
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:24 AM
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So we're going for the no true scotsman angle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:20 PM
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Andrew Tate is not conservative whatsoever I don't think conservatives are looking to bring back the traditional dynamics of the jungle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:15 PM
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Note depending on where you live many whites were not even in the country during the civil war era It's a problem that America can only understand race and ethnicity in terms of extraordinarily broad categories
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:15 PM
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>You can find the same phenomenon at the work place but reversed. "We are a family" is typically the kind of mentality your boss tries to push onto you, because to them you're supposed to take all the orders and never question them, you should be for ever motivated to bust your ass for your "family". Atomization levels off the charts, imagine getting this backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:02 PM
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Eventually it sours the relationship, it's not actually a 5d chess move and it takes more energy out of both of you than its worth If you need to go out of your way to stir up drama you aren't compatible in the first place, enough drama happens naturally, it's more a sign of bad social skills if keeping someone around is your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:57 PM
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I agree that 4) sounds like a clear indication of interest or bright green light, given how closely it fits gender norms, it just seems like OP was beat over the head bloody and still didn't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:29 PM
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I think this is charitable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:22 PM
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Mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:45 PM
1

Miss me with your patriarchy bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:17 PM
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I think you are either making an exclamation or are incredulous, you don't really have the experience of being or dating as a man so I suppose you will just have to take our word for it if it's the latter Whether you think it's acceptable or not doesn't impact that more men experience these expectations than the other way around, most men who chase money for women were told that women expect a provider, you are expected to bring in a surplus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:02 PM
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How is what you would do relevant? No one asked you do absolve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:52 PM
1

>they are sharing finances Not necessarily, why is this an expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:26 PM
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There are plenty of women who think single mums are trash lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:31 PM
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Suck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:40 AM
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Wtf are you talking about Single dad means they have custody and are raising their own kids by definition, not that they are a baby daddy who happens to have kids somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:38 AM
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If we’re talking about leveling up your income or SES, it might land you in a “higher” social strata to date within but if you have to work your ass off to get there and are stressed and had no fun in life I’m not sure if it’ll meaningfully benefit your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:43 PM
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Bullshit, if there was a war and a draft right now and enough of society was behind it, the men would be bullied into accepting being drafted, just as Ukrainian men are in their war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:36 AM
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Women are pestering Ukrainian men though who flee to Western Ukraine to go back and fight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:48 AM
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Yes, it can just as easily apply to individual men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:54 AM
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