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LTR_some_asshole/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:02 PM
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Just remembered this quote from House - nearly dying changes nothing - dying changes everything
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 11:42 PM
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Depends on the girl. The key is to tell her what she wants. When she goes off at you like that, there's usually a thing she's trying to tell you. All drama is a hidden cry for help. I would say amused mastery is good - but if this girl is your unicorn - you also have to actually listen to what she's saying. You need to stay calm. Not go off at her. Actually listen. Then calmly disect what she's saying and try to make sense of what she really needs (not what she says she needs). Example: Girl sta…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:58 PM
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Don't disagree - and yet - here's the thing: being an oak is all very well in theory - but in practice at least for me - anger, sadness, love, loss are each unique in the way that they hit me and I need a different mechanism to deal with each of them. For example the way I feel with feeling sad or depressed is different from how I handle a fight or being angry.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:48 PM
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I don't act depressed.. But I do use her to feel better if that makes sense. I try to never make my depression her problem. I don't ever ask for help - I tell her what she can do to help. I don't ever cry to her and tell her I'm depressed and ask what to do. But I'll come home feeling shitty sometimes, and tell her - get in bed, take of your clothes and lie on my chest. And that helps :) .
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:43 PM
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I dunno, she likes doing nice things for me... :)
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:33 PM
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Testify! Yeah Bill Burr is awesome. I actually even like Louis C K a lot too #StandupWisdom
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 11:04 PM
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I guess I meant this: Back when I was a 17 and a teenager there's a gazillion things you could have said to me that would piss me off or make lose my temper - because I was an insecure little shit back then. Now there's relatively few things anyone can do to get me mad - because I'm much more self aware and secure in myself. I think a good goal to have fewer of those insecurities that can be set off
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 11:02 PM
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Oh, I wouldn't really agree.. I really do love this girl, and the support and love and all the other good stuff I get from her far, far outweigh the occasional fight and shit-fit. I wouldn't trade what I have for anything. Honestly I think all relationships need work in one way or the other. Guy-friends tend to be easier to deal with mostly because the relationship is very clearly defined - but they also tend to be very low-expectation.. Romantic relationships ask waay more - but they also dare …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:58 PM
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Oh, I don't mean to get lost in semantics. Basically, in a fight you have two upset people shouting at each other. Both can't afford to indulge their anger - one of them has to step aside, manage their own emotions, then come back and solve the other person's problems. This usually ends up being me in my relationship. Was there any option that didn't involve leaving? I suppose if I were a better man I'd never get angry to begin with - but when I do, I've learned it's better to step aside and man…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:37 PM
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Hmm not sure I agree about that. If I manage to maintain frame, be the 'grown up' in a relationship - be sensible, firm and handle the situation, I feel like I do come out on top. Even she says sometimes that just the controlled way I handle her gives her the lady-tingles.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:29 PM
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Lol, she's nowhere near that bad, there's just a communication gap. What I meant to say is that when we've been fighting for hours - and everything I say that's rational and logical seems to have no effect - I start to wonder if I'm even making sense. In my head it's like 'I'm making sense - why doesn't she understand.. Am I not making sense?' The thing is every relationship needs one person who puts their own anger aside and solves the fight - the 'grown up' in the relationship. The downside of…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:53 PM
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I can obviously only speak to my own experiences, but I've been pretty decently successful accross the board (I've dated many shades of brown, yellow and white). Two things: I have a certain type that is perhaps less likely to be racially biased: I like smart, intellectual women, who're into books, politics and poetry. This type of girl connects a lot more on a shared love of Camu or Frost and less on the color of my skin. I think books and a love of fine things in life crosses the divide a lot …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:31 PM
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Strange.. As an Indian FOB myself, I've often found the inverse to be true.. In my experience, FOBs tend to be grounded and confident, and have a firm idea of where we're from. Some Indian Americans I've met have been pretty confused (brown on the outside white on the inside) and have these weird racial aspirations that makes their sense of identity confused.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:03 PM
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I don't understand why this is here... What is your aggro with this guy exactly? Did you want him to throw a shit fit when he found out? The trans girl may have brought up issue (her penis) after the kissing began, but she did it before they started getting too intimate. It's hard to say what else she could have done other than wear a sign around her neck..
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:44 PM
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Much needed perspective. I like it
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:37 PM
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Yeah, I hate sounding so pedantic, but stuff like that is just so distracting I can't even pay attention to the post
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:18 PM
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My god man, learn to spell: trailer not trailor
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:28 PM
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