_sotheniwaslike Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Boyfriend won’t give me a timeframe for marriage OP said in later comments that they don’t live together. But also, it’s not that I’m saying marriage so young will necessarily last better, just pointing out/asking for clarity cause I thought that was a main focus of this particular subreddit. Now I’m just lost for what this group is advocating. The group may be pushing for women to partner at 25 instead of 21, but that also starts by getting out of situations that a going nowhere early enough. If I were OP I would say waiting is fine but try t…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/23 05:37 AM
-6	Boyfriend won’t give me a timeframe for marriage Isn’t one of the main points of this group though, to encourage women to be proactive in their peak and not wait until they’ve hit the wall to land a husband?	/r/RedPillWomen	16/07/23 04:47 AM
2	Women Have Lost All Power And How They Can Get It Back Yeah feminism sucks	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/23 11:23 PM
1	Women Have Lost All Power And How They Can Get It Back I don’t use sex to impress by the way, but yeah the apps often feel like a giant waste of time lol	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/23 12:54 PM
2	Women Have Lost All Power And How They Can Get It Back So if we’re talking about an average Joe that hardly gets matches…why wouldn’t he want to settle down? Wouldn’t he get more sex than he would by just trying to score different hook ups? And of course the real benefit is companionship and intimacy. Getting married would be great but it’s not required. I just don’t get what men want when it comes to building a meaningful life. Career alone doesn’t cut it for me. I would want to live with someone to share in life’s struggles.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/23 10:49 AM
3	Women Have Lost All Power And How They Can Get It Back I guess that’s somewhat true. They hold the key to commitment in their pocket, but there still needs to be women who want that from that particular man. I’m just so tired personally of going through hundreds of matches constantly yet being single for the past few years. Every guy is willing to fuck me based on pics…Where are the ones willing to commit 😞	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/23 10:39 PM
1	Women Have Lost All Power And How They Can Get It Back Thiiissss 👆👆 https://youtu.be/cO1ifNaNABY The economics of sex	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/23 10:07 PM
3	Women Have Lost All Power And How They Can Get It Back The economics of sex. Men are winning in the area that actually matters. Which is commitment https://youtu.be/cO1ifNaNABY	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/23 10:03 PM
5	Am I being awful for not wanting to pursue a relationship with him because of his p€nïs size? His oversharing (that he cried) and lack of boundaries is a red flag. Beating himself up in the bathroom where you could hear him? What a way to make it even worse 🤦‍♀️. He needs to work on himself and if you want to try to be friends, definitely make sure you’re distant for awhile first and not giving him false hope. Might even be worth mentioning when you’re interested in another guy to get the point across.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/23 01:39 PM
5	Single at 30 - how do I not freak out? Who is the author of this book?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/23 03:03 AM
8	how to date to marry, and be a wife material? Okay thanks! I guess what I would ask as a follow up then is…if someone isn’t having a hard time with family or something specific — how can we send the message that we’re taking the guy seriously without seeming like we’re chasing them? Initiating phone calls? Coming right out and saying that you’re interested in a relationship with them?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/23 05:30 PM
23	how to date to marry, and be a wife material? Can you give a few examples of HOW she showed she was serious? Cause I feel like showing you’re serious as a woman sometimes just comes off pushy and desperate.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/23 03:37 PM
2	A friend is married to a man who refuses to do a job and just sits at home while she brings in a significant pay check & she’s encouraging me to tolerate the same. Thoughts? Okay makes sense. And yeah I think doing almost nothing for a long period of time isn’t healthy either. I just know there’s lots of productivity that could still occur within the home or without a job, but you’re right they didn’t go into that	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/23 10:19 PM
0	A friend is married to a man who refuses to do a job and just sits at home while she brings in a significant pay check & she’s encouraging me to tolerate the same. Thoughts? Oo. Cut throat.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/23 04:42 PM
0	A friend is married to a man who refuses to do a job and just sits at home while she brings in a significant pay check & she’s encouraging me to tolerate the same. Thoughts? Why? Is embracing differences bad? She should definitely make it clear she doesn’t want to have these conversations though.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/23 12:58 PM
1	A friend is married to a man who refuses to do a job and just sits at home while she brings in a significant pay check & she’s encouraging me to tolerate the same. Thoughts? Hi! Can you elaborate on what you mean by “it’s not healthy for anyone to do that”? I’m curious about this statement because I’m always healthiest when I don’t have a job 😅. This is when I get enough sleep, have enough time and energy to cook balanced meals, and have enough time/energy to workout. I definitely wouldn’t want a husband who doesn’t work - but this is because he needs to contribute and not put all the burden unfairly on me. Never would have thought of it as a question of it being “h…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/23 12:53 PM
3	A friend is married to a man who refuses to do a job and just sits at home while she brings in a significant pay check & she’s encouraging me to tolerate the same. Thoughts? Yep! Use some variation of the broken record technique so it’s more obvious you have nothing more to say on the matter	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/23 12:47 PM
7	Hook up culture at uni and finding a boyfriend How does one even “insist on a dinner date” gracefully? “Hey would you be up for grabbing a drink sometime?” “No I would not, but I’m open to a full 3 course meal.” 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/22 09:33 AM
3	Giving Up on Men Just seems like a lot of wasted time. You find out if it’s going nowhere faster when you see each other often and see their behaviour around you etc, see how much free time they spend in your company	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/21 06:44 AM
2	Giving Up on Men I can’t think of anything that matters more than living in two different countries 😟 It’s not just about if he CAN travel, it’s just harder to build a solid connection when you’re not around each other much. Out of sight out of mind	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/21 02:43 AM
-2	How is it that my traditional, conservative husband seems to be way lest "sexist" than the majority of femnist's husbands I know THIS! 🙌🙌🙌 Being alone is stupid. Also wasting your prime years on independent pursuits is stupid.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/21 10:12 PM
1	when the thrill is fading...? Read up on some of Katarina Phangs principles, especially “leaning back”	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 08:39 AM
6	Cohabitation to living separately: is it possible? I can understand not wanting to use the bathroom in your shared place if it isn’t clean, but why are you doing his laundry? Sometimes you just have to leave things undone until he has no clean clothes left and no choice but to do it himself 🤷‍♀️	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/21 04:38 PM
2	Should I be concerned if a man doesn't think sex has to be deep / emotional? You make two very valid points here! She shouldn’t be ignoring the “nature” aspects of sex. And yes as someone who waited longer than most to have it (age 23) I can definitely attest to not really understanding it until you’re sexually active for awhile. So yeah the strong opinion can only be so valid	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/21 05:30 PM
3	Should I be concerned if a man doesn't think sex has to be deep / emotional? It can be a constant niggling need for women too! Lol I need the release almost everyday!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/21 05:28 PM