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| 1 | Best books on seduction and body language for newbiesAn interesting one is Fundamentals of female dynamics. This geeky dude dissects how he figured out what works with women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Focus on having fun. They'll join your vibe. 🔥 | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Never too late | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to seduce someone after they said they don't feel a spark?👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Drop your standardsPreach 👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Bro, You're Not Gonna Change HerLmao also that Giacomo dude published his memoirs in the 1800s hahah, dunno if things have changed since then but I agree, trying to "change someone's mind" usually produces the radically opposite outcome than the one you were hoping for. Speaking from life experience and what I've seen and read in real life and online as well. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Bro, You're Not Gonna Change HerNah dude honestly, if you're done you're done and she most likely will give some bs excuse or not even entertain your question. Not asking anything makes you look 100000% cooler than otherwise. Sometimes you don't even need to fuck up, it can be any other number of reasons like she met someone, ex came back to her life, etc. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 09:59 PM |
| 9 | Girl rejected me, still invites me to hang outUnironically extremely wise advice, thank you u/Condom_Leak | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?First of all, kudos for being able to analyze this and explain it rationally, doesn't feel over emotional so good on that. Definitely okay to feel sad and down about it, but good attitude trying to figure out what happened! My first hunch tells me that you probably got a little too dazzled by her. It sounds like she liked you as well, but the way you describe her she might as well be the only woman in the world. She sounds like an amazing woman and while that may be the case objectively, I do th… | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 04:29 AM |
| 12 | Lots of female friends, funny, tall and some say good-looking but still, just turned 27 and no serious relationship, what to do?In short, probably too nice. Women like to be teased and challenged. If there's no tension you're like a brother or sister tbh. Would be good to know exactly how you relate to them or even better, how do you go about it when u want to get with someone? | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl won’t do a simple task you ask of her?Beautiful comment with a great example to boot. This should be required reading for everyone on this sub. Fully agree with it and subscribe it af! Goat 😎🔥 | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Used to be unshakable with women. Now one girl has me anxious as hell. What’s happening?Yeah curious about that too, hmu if he shares it lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?Hell yeah I align with this! Dunno if OP's friend is shitty or not but I can tell ya that getting that fixated on a random fling definitely can ruin your game. (Talking to OP here) | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: The Essentials of Good GameYeah amazing advice. If anyone out there is a bit on the shy-er side or too sensitive to rejection you owe it to yourself to workout for an hour before going out or talking to a girl you like. I can promise you, you'll do 10x better. | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you build self worth?Nah dude, I think you have the wrong idea of what cocky is. "conceited or arrogant, especially in a bold or imprudent way." Another definition from the internet: An example of someone being cocky is a student who dismisses their teacher's feedback, believing they already know everything and can't be improved upon. Other examples include an athlete who refuses to practice, assuming their skill is enough, or a confident colleague who talks over others in a meeting because they think their ideas ar… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 08:24 AM |
| 11 | Toronto is hell if you're a normal black dude tryna dateThis. Dude been in the hub a lil too much lmao. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you build self worth?Yes and no. If I know I'm looking fly af and are in a good mood I can be confident event without external validation ig. I don't know how to explain it. But I think deep down you know just how good you are (or not) regardless of events. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:49 PM |
| 6 | What I have learned from some of my player buddiesBro u are insane, there are a lot of posts on this very sub about good looking guys that don't get any and are looking for advice. Sure they get one step on the door but they can absolutely fumble if they have 0 game. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you build self worth?Thank you for recommending this! Looks like a banger book so far. <3 | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you build self worth?True enough. True confidence comes from within, compliments and external validation are nice, but meaningless/useless if your internals are weak. | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Scarcity mentality isn't just about quantity, it's also quality relative to your reference pointThanks for sharing my dude! Did you feel nervous or anxious at all when you approached her?? I fully agree with the numbers game, had some fun experiences thanks to just racking up those numbers and not taking any rejections personally. Not everyone likes the same ice cream flavor! No need to take it personally ;p | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/25 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Agree with this, me and my friends do this when we go out, we vibe with literally EVERYONE! Unsurprisingly, a lot of time girls will approach us and even flirt with us just to join in on the fun. Good shit! | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Scarcity mentality isn't just about quantity, it's also quality relative to your reference pointHey can u share a bit more about how u decided to go for it and how things started off? Sounds like an awesome experience! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/25 10:51 AM |
| 12 | She is at your place, how to you make her hornyLmfao goated 🔥 | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | I wanna get a girl obsessed with me in a good way. Cuz I love her.How did the ambiguity dissolve? Interested in the process, not asking for a how-to, just would be cool to know your experience. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Why you shoud not double text a woman that's making you chase or ghosting you👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Here is the deal: I can’t imagine myself with a hot girlPreach brotha, some of the best advice I've seen on this sub. Keep cookin'. 🔥 | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why Being a Nice Guy is a TrapDayum bro, have you tested this with good results? | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Being a Nice Guy is a TrapIn the real world, behaviors and demeanor that show preselection value just come more naturally and automatically to bad boys and pricks. Everyone else has the ability to succeed if they learn and execute this stuff manually. Any examples? | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | The Second She Feels Safe, She Leaves You.Probably the best thing I've ever read encompassing all of the things that one should master. As a personal advice, don't forget to keep teasing and being cocky and funny! Keep it fun always and then vanish and make her long for your presence. Good stuff! 😎👍🔥 | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/25 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Is there any truth to the idea that too many consecutive rejections will damage your psyche and ultimately hurt you?Look son, a legend. 🐐🔥 | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 08:14 AM |
| 1 | WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME?Thanks my dude, appreciate the input! 👍 | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 05:45 PM |
| 5 | WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME?Appreciate you sharing your experiences. Out of the stories you heard from them are there any general do's and don'ts you can share?? Definitely would be cool to read! | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?I think if you're naturally charismatic, don't have any extremely abnormal physical features, have self belief/confidence, social awareness and playfulness you can get really far. I don't think it takes years if you know the core concepts but then again I was always charismatic and shit, would definitely take longer for asocial people or peepz with 0 social calibration. Appreciate your reply! | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?Appreciate it, I'm more interested in which part you think people have to understand to make it easy. Genuinely curious lol. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Are dating really harder now, or is that just a myth?Once you understand the game it's super easy. Curious about how you would define the game? | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Hell yeah 😎👍 | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Confidence hits harder to women when it looks unjustified and you have no objective reason to be so comfortable with yourself🔥 | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 04:08 AM |
| 2 | How I Used The 48 Laws Of Power, Making Women Instantly Attracted To MeAmazing comment. If you have any more insights keep em coming! But thanks for sharing such awesome stuff! 🔥 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: The toughest pill to swallow.if you told her you needed a wall to be red by 1pm and she ran out of paint, she would kill a guy and use the blood so it would be red by 1pm. Beautiful way to word this hahaha. Cool comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Stop Being An Emotional ManThis is an awesome post that resonated with me, surprised it didn't get more positive reactions. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How I Used The 48 Laws Of Power, Making Women Instantly Attracted To MeWhat principles helped you or did you apply the most? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/25 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How To Deal With Women Acting DistantPretty interesting take and I fully agree with it! If you know when to detect signs of interest and know how to go from there it does become a breeze when a girl starts showing them. Do you have any more insights on this?? Like what happened when you transitioned?? What was it like before compared to after? I know the theory but always interested in personal experiences! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/25 11:48 AM |
| 2 | How To Deal With Women Acting DistantIn the sea of gold that this post is, this example was fucking awesome to really reel the point in: Say you’re working on a big project at your job, something that could land you that bonus or promotion you’ve been chasing. You’re paired up with a coworker, and it’s supposed to be a 50/50 split. You’re putting in the work, staying late, making sure your half is airtight. Deadline hits, and you find out your partner did absolutely nothing, zero, zilch, nada. The project’s half-baked, and now you’… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/25 11:45 AM |
| 3 | How do I know if she rejected me for my looks?👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | 10 tips to get women from womenCan you elaborate on what you mean by tame monsters? Intrigued af | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t tests80 - 70 - 80 heck yeaaah! Loved the game 😎🔥 | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man."Become your best self" is the best advice imo | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect ThemselvesHonestly even if you don't give a lot of actionable advice, I do feel like this is the good kick in the nuts that some guys need to finally wake up and start trying to get their shit together. Good post. 👍 | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time.Amazing advice! Appreciate it <3 | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 05:49 AM |
| 0 | How Porn is Secretly Killing Your Dating LifeLook son, a legend. 🔥 | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?Workout before getting ready/showering. Its like having a superpower. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:24 PM |
| 0 | Women Only Find Me Attractive in a CostumeLmao your thoughts are the end are awesome and DEEP man. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Never compliment her looksThe Wow and sending that reel ruined it imo, too simpy. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 06:02 AM |
| 4 | My son's teacher finds me attractiveHahaha this guy teachers??? lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 04:52 AM |
| 8 | I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence.squeezed her butt a few times and kissed her within the first hour. Just a light peck but just enough to sexualize her mind. Did not telegraph my intentions Bro ngl I'm pretty sure she knew your intentions haha, u did great this part just made me laugh. 🤣🤣🤣 I agree with everything you said while at the same time I feel like the girl met ya knowing she was gonna close the deal or that she wanted to do it (unless u fumbled it somehow which u didn't!). When u talk about boring conversation, its tru… | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Why I struggled with women as an engineerGOATED link bro, appreciate it! 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 12:16 AM |
| 7 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowThat's good bro, do NOT chase. I can tell you this, once the roles have been set as you being the pursuer and the other person the pursued its game over most of the time. Play it cool, she might have gotten busier out of nowhere, had family issues, ex messaged her or any number of things not related to you. Stay chilled. When they came back they 99% of time initiated first, sometimes a short message, sometimes a "hey its been a while I missed you" or "been a while how you been?" Or even "hey wha… | /r/seduction | 22/01/24 07:50 AM |
| 3 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowI can believe that, but u gotta admit if a woman ghosts you, replies to you with one word answers and never seems to be available to go out with you its prolly time to move on. In my experience at least, its very clear when a woman is into you or not. I def agree that some women don't give out clear signals that they like you, but most women won't ghost ya entirely if they like ya either lmao. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 04:15 AM |
| 41 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowSame! Been a bunch that came back months later and I was like "aight I'm down no biggie" lol. Just gotta learn to move on without bitterness or sour grapes, if u chill the door is open. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 03:37 AM |
| 5 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowI'm a persistent man, I don't just give up on a person (friend / potential lover) because they don't respond a couple times. Lol, learn to take a hint bro, no one's telling you to give up early, to be a pessimist or a debbie downer, its simply to realize when the reciprocity is not there and move on accordingly. If you were wrong and she shows interest cool, if she doesn't good riddance (in a good way, not sour grapes, you just didn't waste time in something that wasn't gonna work). I've heard f… | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | What i learned👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 27/12/23 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Former US Women's Soccer players lose 12-0 to a bunch of older British dudes in 40 minutes 😂Thanks for sharing, legit a very interesting article. 👍 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/06/23 12:09 PM |
| 0 | Fear of rejection and abandonment has ruined my mindset over the yearsAgree with everything except the bashing of cocky and funny. That shit's gold bro. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What are the common traits guys who get laid regularly show?I'll give u one, when you say you ask out "plain average girls" you sound like a fucking douchebag lmfao. If that's the way your mindset sees them then you probably give off a smug vibe or a "I'm better than you" vibe that's off putting. By all your replies you also sound kinda too brainiac or something. Like way too analytical/overthinker instead of letting go and having fun. More than seeking some deep connection, focus on having fun and enjoying every experience. Just because a girl won't be … | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What are the common traits guys who get laid regularly show?/thread lol | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What are the common traits guys who get laid regularly show?Is the guy's name Stiffler by any chance lmaoooooooo | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | For menCan I just say I freaking love this interaction, you both are some smooth ass dudes! Also, tell Master Splinter I say hi, I found a splinter the other day but of the wood kind. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m too comfortable with my girlfriend🔥 | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Remember: we don’t chase, we attractPreach 🔥 | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Saving. Also crotch goblins is mvp, gonna use that on my future kiddos lmaooo. Edit after second read: Truly amazing comment. Thanks for the perspective boyo. 🔥 | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Intimidated by curvy womenHahah preach, Shakespeare bot. 👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I suggest we become friends with benefits?Homie tryna get her to sign a TOS agreement lmao. Let it flow bruh overcomplicating leads to failin. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them.One of the best posts on this sub! I wholeheartedly agree with this and had been unkwnowingly been doing a lot of these (like befriending everyone) for a long time. Great job OP! 😁👍 | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Made a Summary of "Models" By Mark Manson. The best book I've found for dating advice.Amazing job OP! Love me some self improvement books! 😁 | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Are there any advantages to being a short guy when cold approaching?Hahah ninjas get all the pootang lmao 😎🔥 | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that?👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Feel intimidated by attractive women, not sure how to fix it.Preaaach! A lot of people need to hear this. Unless you wanna be a faker you gotta put the work in and actually feel good about yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!All gucci. 😊 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 8 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Lol he's not a guru per se, just someone extremely skilled that passed some knowledge to me. Forever grateful. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 01:32 AM |
| 54 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!As a guru I admire once put it: "The power of detachment." | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.Best comment in here. I don't comment much here but if I can give a piece of advice its this: Work on yourself first. No amount of game can replace a solid inner self. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Had a one night stand since a loooong timeI'm right there with ya but like I said: Go for it if it works for you! I know ppl that would prolly slay it with mystery cause if fits their overall persona, but also seen people that don't convey mystery but rather extreme fun and a take charge attitude and they get it as well. I agree that mystery can add something to your game, but imo its not "essential" as cocky+funny is. Just trying to not get new people trying to force that shiz if it doesn't align with them when being totally comfortabl… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 16 | Had a one night stand since a loooong timeDisagree, bro I can imagine guys trying to fake a mystery aura and it looks cringe and awful. The real combo that never fails unless you're not the girl's type at all is cocky + funny. Imo not cocky as arrogant but more like comfortable with yourself and in the situations you're in + funny which doesn't mean run a stand up routine, more like keep things light hearted, flirty and most of all: FUN! I've never in my life had mystery in my mind when flirting and I ain't starting now lol. If it fits … | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Twelve Ways To Improve Your Attractiveness To WomenPreach. Amazing post. 👏👏👏 | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 308 | My Most Successful Cold Approach TechniqueOH NO. THE INFINITE COLD APPROACH LOOP HAS BEEN FOUND. 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 12:56 AM |
| 4 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysNo worries, I wanna learn salsa to learn salsa, idrc about cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 3 | 6 years of pick up experience and my take-awaysHaha that sounds awesome and fun! Always wanted to get into salsa classes and I think now's the time! | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 12:49 AM |
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