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| 1 | I’m a freshman in college is wondering how I could possibly pickup girls that I see in passing sometimes but don’t have any classes with them or an obvious connection of any kind?Talk to them. Just say "Hello." and introduce yourself. You have to make the connections happen or else nothing will happen. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 04:57 PM |
| 3 | How do i get this girl to come to my dorm so i can eat her outYou've already talked about that subject. If you bring it up again, you will look like you are desperately trying to get her back to your place to fool around. Just play it cool, talking about it isn't going to make her any more interested than she may already be, but it could hurt your chances. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 03:54 AM |
| 6 | How do i get this girl to come to my dorm so i can eat her outDon't talk about how much you've learned. Don't even bring it up again. Just try to hang out with her again and invite her over to your dorm. Then show her what you've learned. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Advice that a girl gave me.Men are cowards because when they do approach they approach the unapproachable. Rejection stings, so if a guy doesn't know how or where to approach, they get rejected. Some women are very defensive and will react very negatively in public settings. Men become conditioned to expect that approaching means rejection. If a strange person, unless they were super hot, came up to you and started asking you personal questions and demanded your phone number, you would be as defensive as women can be. If … | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How is it possible to develop friends-with-benefit?Well I'd say your looking at going out with these women as dates, which implies you're looking for a relationship. If you want fwb don't treat them like girlfriends. You'll get rid of the ones that only want a boyfriend and keep the ones that aren't. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:59 PM |
| 0 | How should I go about building attraction with a girl at work?Don't. Flirting is fine, but it can backfire if you're wrong or things go wrong. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Whats the best book: Models, Bang, or Mystery Method?Mystery Method is out of date in my opinion. It's mostly false psychology. The basic underlying principles are ok, but the rest is just hit or miss. Most of the techniques in the book are known by people in and out of the community and you will be called out trying them out. I tried reading the book again recently and found it to be less helpful than when I started. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 07:08 AM |
| 2 | So if a girl being intoxicated means she cant give consent, why would anyone ever try to pick up chicks at a bar?when she is sober | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 08:13 AM |
| 11 | So if a girl being intoxicated means she cant give consent, why would anyone ever try to pick up chicks at a bar?There is a level of intoxication where it is plainly obvious that a woman is unable to give consent. This is a state in which she isn't sure where she is, who you are and what is happening. Chances are at that point, she will be passing out or blacking out. This is not a level reached at normally in a bar because bartenders and bouncers will usually turn someone away before they get that drunk. Besides, if you are worried about consent because she is drunk, let her make the call later on when sh… | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Are there any girls that are off limits to approach?Don't try to seduce people that are forced to be around you. This includes co-workers, people working their jobs. They have to be nice to you, they are paid to be there. Think of these women as cornered. Just be nice and flirt, do not approach. You may have some success if you try, but more failure can be worse for you if the approach is unwanted. I've been approached when I am working by women (I am a dude) I didn't find attractive, not at all ugly, but I was put into a situation I didn't want … | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Video games in the life of a man attempting to improve himself (and attract women)Put your video game time into your schedule so you get the time you need. Even one four hour session a week can be enough. Just set the time aside for games that works with your schedule and stick to that schedule, juggle as necessary. Video games are a form of recreation, they shouldn't interfere with everything else you want to do. | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 03:50 AM |
| 1 | No girl has ever been interested in me and I'm almost certain it's because of how I look. I'm pretty sure I have some sort of mild facial deformity. Is it that bad? Looking for honest feedbackIt's not how you look that would tell someone that something is off, it's the way you carry yourself and how you approach and interact. Those make longer lasting impressions on people than the way you look. As an example: If someone walks up to a woman and is very neutral in appearance and talks quietly and nervously, she will become nervous because that is the mood the guy is projecting onto her. If someone walks up to a woman and very neutral in appearance and talks with confidence (loud enoug… | /r/seduction | 29/01/15 07:26 PM |
| 6 | No girl has ever been interested in me and I'm almost certain it's because of how I look. I'm pretty sure I have some sort of mild facial deformity. Is it that bad? Looking for honest feedbackProbably more about the interaction than the way you look. | /r/seduction | 29/01/15 03:43 AM |
| 5 | No girl has ever been interested in me and I'm almost certain it's because of how I look. I'm pretty sure I have some sort of mild facial deformity. Is it that bad? Looking for honest feedbackYour neutral face looks really intense (kinda creepy). The smile looks forced. With out seeing you in a normal setting and being social I can't give any better feedback than that. I saw your picture before reading your text, so the first part was my genuine response to how you look in the pictures without context on you. I don't think Asperger's is really a disability (I mean in the context of being a hinderance), it doesn't show on your face, when you approach a girl, what she sees is all she h… | /r/seduction | 29/01/15 02:43 AM |
| 3 | I am short, bald, and look very old. I am aware of all the available resources, but have problems at a very basic level. Help!If your balding head bothers you, shave all the hair off. If you can grow an awesome beard, do it. Women find men with beards more attractive (at least subconsciously) than men with shaved faces. Having no facial hair won't hurt, but why not add the attractiveness points with a beard? Stubble, unless it contrasts with your skin and is very dense, is not very attractive. Plus when you get in close with a girl, it's like sand paper on your face. Height shouldn't matter. While being tall is certain… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | [Mini FR] Questions about girls with boyfriends and how/if I should proceed or just drop itPolyamorous. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 03:52 AM |
| 3 | [Mini FR] Questions about girls with boyfriends and how/if I should proceed or just drop itI've been with women who didn't tell me they had a boyfriend. While it's hard to let them go after you find out, it's better to just let them go. They will most likely cheat on you too. Open relationships are hard, having them because you have been cheated on and it makes it easier is not a very good reason. I had an open relationship once, and she still cheated on me (we had rules, she broke them all). | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 08:25 PM |
| 2 | [Mini FR] Questions about girls with boyfriends and how/if I should proceed or just drop itSome guys think that taking a girl from her boyfriend makes them a better man, or they have issues with unavailable women. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | netvideogirls and nlp/game. great learning material, but how did the california pimp produce such realistic porn? Seddit, help me out!Porn, set up before hand. It would not work as consistently in the real world. All the videos have one thing in common. The girls in the videos are nervous and shy even a bit argumentative until he brings up the topic of his clothes. Thats the signal to them (direction given by a director) to be willing. Sorry, it's all fake. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 05:24 AM |
| 11 | Does anyone else find themselves constantly comparing themselves to the other guys in the room? How do I stop doing this?Well, you should tell yourself it doesn't matter if he is better looking, or has more money, more friends or whatever. Why? Because it doesn't matter, if you are too busy comparing yourself to someone else then you aren't paying enough attention to what you are doing. It takes time and practice, but eventually you will get to where you see a guy and think "Man, that guy doesn't know when a girl is giving him signals." or something like that | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Sex God Method - Legit?I wouldn't go so far as to call it a scam. There are lots of men who don't know what to do in bed, or even how to get a woman to enjoy the experience. I'm sure they can get something out of it. But I do think that if he has only been having sex for less than five years, thats not enough time to have the necessary experience to write a book. If it's only available as an ebook, thats a red flag to me, especially with something of this topic. I've seen to many pdf or ebooks with no more tidbits and… | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Am I giving the wrong impression?Do they know you're dating other women? If not, they will feel led on and will be angry when you tell them. You better tell them if you haven't. If you are getting nowhere with the others, just tell them they need to pay for themselves from now on. It isn't a free ride. The ones that want to be around you won't mind. The others will storm off since they aren't getting a free dinner. Just be honest and put your foot down. Don't forget to smile. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How bad of an idea is it to ask (probably via text) your previous interests what you did wrong?If you ask a girl what you did wrong here are what your results are going to be: You did nothing wrong (lie, trying not to hurt your feelings) You did nothing wrong (truth) You aren't going to get any straight answers or critiques from someone you tried to date or broke up with. If anything it will make you look worse in their eyes because it shows that you are clueless. Move on to the next girl. If you've learned anything from past experience, take that with you as you pursue other relationship… | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.Of course I am generalizing off my own experience. Who else but my own? | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.It's hard enough when you explain what you want or even show them a picture. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.You can follow what they say on there or not. There is still lots of useful feedback and info shared there. If you don't like the way they lean to higher end (expensive) clothes there's also /r/frugalmalefashion Now you can hate on that too. :) | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.I have. And I've been to barbers. Guess where all the bad and uneven cuts came from? | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.If they aren't on commission then they are minimum wage (usually). Do you really want to take the chance that the sales clerk is actually giving good advice. Looking okay is not looking great. I love /r/malefasionadvice | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 05:15 AM |
| 8 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.I disagree with 3, at least the tips you suggest. Men should go to a barber, not a stylist. You also can't really trust someone whose job it is to sell clothes. They don't care how you look or how well the clothes fit. They'd rather sell you an ill fitting shirt rather than lose the sale. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 02:33 AM |
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