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In high school I dressed like a mall goth. Now I can't say there is a single element of that left in my wardrobe. I would say my style was pretty typical for a woman my age (30s). I wear mostly leggings and something looser fitting on my top half. In the summer I wear dresses with bike shorts underneath. I am a very prominent inverted triangle and I remember struggling with pants even as a teenager. I have no hips and butt to hold anything up and I have memories of being 15 and constantly hiking…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 11:45 AM
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He sounds like a raging sociopath.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 11:36 AM
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I think people are forgetting that he almost killed her.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 11:36 AM
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Then I don't blame her for cheating on him and I have no sympathy for this man. He drove his wife to the affections of another man with his violent temper. It was obviously a terrible marriage. He sounds like he has serious problems and instead of staying with him your mom should have taken you and gone to a women's shelter. Assuming you grew up in the USA. I'm guessing he may have calmed down with age, but I would still be wary of him and if I ever had kids I would not leave them unsupervised w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 11:32 AM
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You are saying he nearly killed her? I am guessing that this wasn't even a minor incident. I would personally be afraid of someone that violent.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/19 12:16 PM
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Thanks for the advice everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 01:09 PM
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How an I work on my glutes? No I haven't done that. My stomach muscles are separated as well. I would love some advice from someone who has been there. I have done kegels for the past 11 months.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 10:20 PM
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I'm one of those women who gets off purely on the man I am with. I thought most women were this way. I'm not fussed on having orgasms. I used to get them from PIV (I guess I am in the minority there) but since having a baby this has become harder, I think I have nerve damage. Still I enjoy sex with my husband just because I get to be with him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 08:30 PM
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I have noticed that a lot of the men who do post here are insecure and needy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 07:30 PM
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When I say this I am talking about the majority of men in first world countries. Most people just accept cultural norms and that's it. A man who is so insecure that he thinks I'm comparing him to past partners would be a no go for me. I want a man who is confident in himself and values the connection that me and him have. In my experience the few men who do care about n count outside of cultural and religious reasons get jealous very easily. I can't deal with a man who is more emotional than I a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 06:56 PM
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"Marriage isn't about your happiness". "It's not a man's job to make you happy" I don't understand how that has anything to do with anything I said. You have jumped from one subject to another. Do you care to discuss a different subject now?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 06:43 PM
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I am married. Also, I suggest you don't speak to women like that. Telling a woman to 'close her legs' is vulgar, creepy and disgusting. At least I feel creeped out when people use that phrase. You could use the phrase 'sleeping around' or 'premarital sex', it sounds a lot more tasteful and less vulgar. It makes me feel like you are not picturing my private parts when you are speaking to me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 06:40 PM
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You are talking about things from a red pill perspective. Most men out and about in the offline world don't care about red pill philosophy. They don't analyse things to such a large degree. You are referring to a small minority of men. "body count and risk go hand in hand" There has been one study on this that I have seen so far and the evidence is really poor. https://www.livescience.com/55104-sex-partners-and-divorce.html "Though it's not clear why exactly, the researcher speculated that women…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 06:06 PM
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How is it nonsense? Care to elaborate instead of just being dismissive?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 05:48 PM
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My husband does the same and I find it attractive. I wouldn't use the word 'animal' to describe myself as I am clearly a human being but there is a side of me that really likes being infantilized by my husband and I get some validation from it. It's a bit of a double edged sword, though. When I actually want him to take me seriously he never does and there have been times when I am right but he still doesn't like admitting it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 04:49 PM
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I think it's really hard to keep your body count low nowadays. Early sex is an almost universal expectation in a relationship. I don't think men expect women to have a low body count any more and they don't care nearly as much as they used to. I think this is where the red pill fails on things. Very few men are going to care about you having sex before you were with them unless you are dating a man from an isolated religious community. Men just want to know that you won't cheat on them and you a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 04:46 PM
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That's charitable providing you don't enter it with a hero complex. Make it about building bridges as much as you can with the teen's family and try to remain impartial. When people disown their teens for such reasons it often comes from a place of fear. I have a big concern for all these children being encouraged to transition.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 12:27 PM
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Don't get me started on CPS. The whole system is incredibly corrupt in just about every first world country and it all started in Israel where 'child protection' was used as a pancea for adoption and foster care. The vast majority of children who do get adopted from the system are babies and toddlers. When a child is adoptable, family reunification and preservation is often made difficult or impossible because of financial incentive. Very few people want to adopt a kid who is 10 years old and ha…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 12:00 PM
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You will either find men who don't want children or who want children of their own. Saying that you don't want to give birth to your own child but that you expect another woman to give birth to a child for you to raise sounds a little entitled, to be honest. Then again 99% of the childfree people who say they want to adopt never do, it's just one of those holier than thou things people say when they don't want kids. ​ To answer the rest of your question, I don't think it would be that difficult …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 08:53 PM
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All you can do is bring it up with him in the nicest way possible and hope he sees it. The only thing that might make him consider therapy is an ultimatum, maybe even that won't work. He will have to sacrifice his ego and swallow his pride to see that he needs to change his behavior and it takes a lot of strength to do something like that. If he continues and can't see it then you will either end up divorcing him as the resentment builds or you will end up brow beaten by his outbursts.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/19 05:22 PM
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From what you have written here, your husband seems unable to control his emotional outbursts. From the sounds of things, it's not something you are doing. Rather as the marriage continues his true colors are showing as he's unable to keep it together. Does he come from a home where there is a lot of fighting? Because it sounds to me like a learned behavior. There are some families that constantly bicker and fly off the handle. I grew up in a family like this. There was no such thing as talking …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/19 05:09 PM
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As someone who is less attractive dating isn't impossible as long as you go for men on a similar SMV level. The quiet nerdy engineer who isn't in the best shape and is introverted will most likely give you a chance over a good looking chad. Find men who you have things in common with and are not desirable to the most attractive women. You say you are a goth? There are a load of socially awkward men in the goth community who don't quite fit in who would love a girlfriend even if she's not the bes…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 01:04 PM
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No one here can give you any advice without details.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 01:01 PM
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I know this sounds cliche but I think you need to do everything you can to forget about this man and move on. This is an experience that virtually every woman has been through nowadays as awful and as devastating as it is it's very common. I know I'm probably going to get downvoted for saying this but I don't hang out publicly with women who are more attractive than I am. I do it for my own self esteem. I'm guessing you have probably been comparing yourself to this woman and running yourself dow…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 12:39 PM
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It sounds like he has a hording problem. My husband has the same issue. If I didn't secretly throw worthless things away we wouldn't be able to get through the door. He doesn't even notice. I don't like doing it but I have no other choice. He keeps things like cardboard boxes and broken cables and doesn't even notice them when they are gone. He admits he has a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 05:43 PM
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It's up to you. No one else can make that decision. You have to weigh up the pros and cons of both and do what feels right.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:48 PM
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You don't know who else she could be having sex with, especially since you did it with her at a time where it would be unusual for a woman to conceive but not technically impossible. It's best to just live in the moment until you are really sure.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 02:08 PM
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My condolences. It's a difficult situation.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 02:04 PM
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And as for plan B it's very misleading. It doesn't work if a woman's pituitary gland has already released the ovulation hormone (leutinizing hormone) which happens between 12 and 36 hours before ovulation. So she may not be lying.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 02:04 PM
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Catch her off and ask her the average length of her menstrual cycle and menstruation duration. Most women ovulate 10-16 days before their period arrives with 14 days being the average. Most women have a cycle between 21-35 days although this is a tricky one as cycle length can vary. When I conceived my son I had had a stressful few months and my cycle was unusually long and I ovulated around day 30. 95% of pregnancies happen within 1-3 days of ovulation, with most of those within 1-2 days. Menst…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:25 PM
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Its likely not his though.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:08 PM
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Get a DNA test. I don't think the kid is yours. She wants your money.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:58 AM
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It's really rare for a woman to be able to get pregnant on her period. She would have to have an incredibly short cycle and a long menstrual phase.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:57 AM
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You could try a bralet or a seamless bra. I'm a droopy F cup and even I wear them. They don't quite give me the same impressive results as a wired bra but they support me enough so that I can go out in public without them hanging down to my knees. They also minimize my bust a little.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 01:47 AM
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I think you need to tell her the truth, it's your duty as a friend. Maybe the partying lifestyle in her 30s is scaring away the men who want to settle down.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 12:42 PM
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If you already get cold sores then you won't catch cold sores from someone with an outbreak. Most people have had a cold sore in their lives and catch the virus as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:49 PM
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"Behind a dumpster sucking off a homeless guy". Who the fuck have you hung out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:23 AM
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When men think of women, they only think of the women they idealise and find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 11:04 PM
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Being alone is better than being with a man who is violent, unemployed, has emotional and anger issues. These men are everywhere waiting to cause trouble in the lives of less attractive women. A relationship is only worth being in when it improves your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:58 PM
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You are complaining about a man with a cold sore? I can understand the others but you lost me there. Doesn't pretty much everyone have mouth herpes? Why are Americans so crazily obsessed with it that they would expect someone to cancel events?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:15 PM
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5 or 6 years really isn't an age gap. Are you telling me that 28 and 33 is an age gap? How about 30 and 35? I really wouldn't say so. I would say that was fairly typical. 10-15 years I would consider an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 09:33 PM
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Women are afraid of men. That's the bottom line. Women live their whole lives in fear. It's nothing personal, just that women are vulnerable and desire to protect themselves first and foremost. If a random man approaches me in the street and asks me to hang out, how do I know he doesn't want to harm me? I don't know him. He could be anyone. However, I don't believe in punishing men for expressing their sexuality. Just don't expect me personally to feel comfortable with it all the time and to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 09:30 PM
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Eat 2,000 calories a day and you will gain weight in no time. If you are eating 1,400 a day there is your problem. Sneak in things like drinks like full sugar soda or fruit juice, add oil to your meals, eat some Nutella on your toast. You will gain weight very easily.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 12:38 PM
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It sounds to me like he's jacking off to porn and has an addiction to it. You say you met him in a BDSM dungeon? Is he the type of guy that is constantly chasing thrills?
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 05:18 PM
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You are not too old to wear fashionable clothing. Please don't start wearing Boden and baby poop colored linen kaftans. You will age yourself even more. I was shopping in the grocery store the other day and I saw a petite woman in her 40s wearing a crop top and high waisted mom jeans. She had lovely dyed blonde hair and she had it styled in soft curls. I was thinking about how great she looked compared to all the other older women around her who looked fresh out of a lularoe party and had frizzy…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 05:09 PM
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You don't find your husband attractive. It sounds like you never have and you never will do. This was always going to end badly. The worst decision you ever made was marrying a man you don't find attractive, not cheating because you were always going to cheat in this situation. You will do both of you a favor if you leave now. You will only get older and waste more time the longer you stay in a completely passionless marriage. I don't think the other women here are being reasonable by asking you…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 03:42 PM
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Thanks. I'll try this.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 04:05 PM
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If you want to take a fashion risk bring a safe outfit with you so you can pop to the bathroom and change if you feel regretful.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:41 PM
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I don't think you should stay with your boyfriend. Women and men experience love and attraction differently. A man can notice a woman is more physically attractive then his wife and think about sex with her and still be devoted to his wife. It's not the same with women. Women don't like to think about this but it's true. A woman's husband has to be the most desirable man to her. Women are hypergamous by nature and the man of her choosing has to keep that in check. Your boyfriend doesn't keep tha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:34 PM
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Initally, I have a certain type of man I like physically. I usually know if I like a man pretty soon after meeting. If there is no attraction after the first date then it's a miss.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:29 PM
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If you were really 'arrogant as fuck' you wouldn't be on Reddit hunting for validation in a female centered subreddit. Something tells me you are a neckbeard that watches hentai. I would be really surprised if you were anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 09:20 PM
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He's probably still with his wife and he probably goes home to her when he's not with you and they play happy families. AKA unofficial polygamy. That's usually the case when men are 'in the process of a divorce'.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 08:23 PM
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Look pretty Be young Have a low waist to hip ratio Have a symmetrical face Look hot naked
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 08:21 PM
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Are you actually unironically calling yourself 'lordkingalpha'?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 08:20 PM
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Do all men call you ugly, though? I understand some men just say those things to upset women and keep them down but I have never had a man that I have an attraction to tell me I am attractive or pay me a compliment. I have asked numerous men I have booked up with and none of them have told me I'm attractive. I am basically invisible to men, either that or they taunt me. I have had some men find me attractive and I even had one man stalk me once but they were ugly, brutish lower class white men.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 12:02 AM
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"can't view community"
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:58 PM
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Then what? Just go back on the dating market again as a single mother? I had enough struggles dating to begin with, I can't imagine it with a kid. I also have no means to support myself financially and no friends or family. I also have needs. I have the desire to be with a man and the thought of never having that again scares and upsets me. I wish I could just have zero desire to be with a man and be asexual and be happy single.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:56 PM
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I hope none of you ever meet my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:45 PM
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It sounds like you don't understand what it's like to be ugly. I just want to be desired by my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:44 PM
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I like mostly Asian men. The only white men I like are small built and delicate looking. My husband is Chinese, 5'7 and slight and wears glasses and his body is nice and smooth. To me he is the perfect man.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 11:15 PM
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C/D is relative to your band size. For example, a woman who wears a 38D has much larger boobs than a woman who wears a 32D. 32D is probably only about 2 handfuls. Either you are bigger than you actually think you are or your anxiety is effecting the way you see yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 10:37 PM
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A C/D isn't even big, it's average. Are you sure that's your bra size?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 09:37 PM
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You are going to be rejected a lot on dates. Just keep trying until you meet the right person. Try online dating. At 34 you only have a few more years left. Female fertility usually ends in a woman's early 40s. If you want a baby I don't think you should be wasting time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 03:59 PM
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Work work work That's Asian men for you. I'm married to a Chinese man and I can confirm that's all he does is work and think about making money. When he's off of work he's making money through side hustles. I have dated a lot of Asian men and I can confirm that most of them were like this. I had one say to me "if western men had to live in China they would die". They will live up to their practical duties and you will always be taken care of in that sense but don't expect them to be emotionally …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 03:48 PM
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Hello. I sent a message.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 03:41 PM
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Don't blindly listen to your stylist. They make money off of doing things to your hair. Damaged hair doesn't need to be cut off. You just have to take care of it gently and use products that make it feel manageable. I haven't had a haircut for years and my hair has seen some horrible damage within that time frame. I have done nothing more then trim it every 6 months and that's only because I don't like wispy ends. If you ask me I think your boyfriend has problems with jealousy and possessiveness…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 03:30 PM
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