_zerofoxgiven_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
158	Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducer		_zerofoxgiven_	/r/seduction	04/03/16 07:19 PM

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1	Girls sleep with me all the time but never call me back... what am I doing wrong? Great comment, thanks for the high quality post	/r/seduction	07/08/16 10:03 PM
1	Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducer Sure does. :)	/r/seduction	06/03/16 12:14 PM
2	Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducer Maybe 60-70% respond, and usually they respond with "zerofoxgiven!", maybe 20% respond with a question or conversation starter. It should be obvious from my post that I'm trying to minimise my time investment, rather than maximise the response rate. I only want to invest in strongly interested girls, and a low effort first message acts as a good filter for this. To give you some real numbers, I match 20-30 girls each week, and after filtering out those I am not interested in and those who have n…	/r/seduction	06/03/16 02:57 AM
2	Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducer yep!	/r/seduction	05/03/16 09:50 AM
9	Effective tinder tactics for the busy seducer A major European city with a lot of students and english speaking tourists. It's heaven. :)	/r/seduction	05/03/16 03:34 AM
1	Any sedditors currently in Barcelona? How long are you in Barcelona for?	/r/seduction	14/01/16 07:55 PM
4	Giving up already, because I'm aware it's all a fucking lie. I'm the opposite of everything women want. Fact. Dude, if this is your general attitude in life I wouldn't even want to hang out with you as a guy, it's no wonder you're frustrated with girls. You've made a lot of mistakes in some of your basic assumptions here. I don't want to write a long post detailing them all, because I don't think it would help you much at this stage in your development, but I want to address the most important thing. the consensus is this: "Be an amazing, impressive man who has a very active life and achieves a lot of t…	/r/seduction	18/12/15 11:10 AM
1	What's the best book for learning seduction for a guy? What would you say were the main lessons you got from it? I read it for a while, enjoyed the esoteric writing style, but eventually moved on because I didn't feel like I was getting much actual value. It was a motivating read though.	/r/seduction	04/11/15 09:39 PM
8	What's the best book for learning seduction for a guy? Neither of those books are particularly useful for learning seduction. "The Game" is useful for learning about the history of the community, but most of the actionable advice is outdated or too mainstream to work now. "The Art of Seduction" is interesting as an investigation into how seducers have been portrayed in literature, but doesn't actually contain much that is actually helpful - and what good it does contain is mixed up in long passages that are as much fiction as reality as well as some…	/r/seduction	03/11/15 10:27 PM
2	(x-post) I am Neil Strauss. I wrote NYT best-selling books about pickup artists, Motley Crue, and Marilyn Manson, and ended up in sex addiction rehab after my book The Game. AMA! : AMA Actual post is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/3pe3qg/i_am_neil_strauss_i_wrote_nyt_bestselling_books/	/r/seduction	20/10/15 08:52 AM
7	Feeling real cringey at the end of tonight. This happens to me a lot - I think it happens to everyone. This is my technique for over-coming it: Notice your inner monologue has become negative - "I'm such an idiot for trying to kiss her, it was obvious she didn't like me etc. etc." Repeat the negative words to yourself in a stupid voice (make a mockery of it) - this step sounds silly, but it can really help Exaggerate it to a ridiculous extreme - "Oh yeah, I'm literally the stupidest guy that ever lived, I bet she's never going to forget h…	/r/seduction	11/10/15 07:37 PM
1	Sedditor Locator 2015 Spain	/r/seduction	01/10/15 06:22 AM
1	Offering Value VS Being A Doormat Reading your post and comments, you have a really interesting perspective. Especially when it comes to your attitude regarding opportunity cost with hard work vs socialising, I don't think many have your way of thinking. Think of "hard work" as a solid, reliable investment that pays out reliably, and "offering value to others" as a much more volatile investment that often pays out higher over time on average. In this analogy, hard work, gym, etc. are bonds, and offering value to others is stocks…	/r/seduction	22/09/15 11:40 PM
1	Sidebar. Sidebar. Sidebar. Identifying quality of information is essential to using the internet in general, and I think most people are getting pretty good at it. I just thought that it was a shame that the opportunity for a good discussion was wasted because more energy was spent complaining about things virtually irrelevant to the original question, or seduction in general. Seeing as you're subscribed to multiple communities, would you have any recommendations for other places to discuss seduction, or is seddit really …	/r/seduction	22/09/15 08:47 PM
1	Sidebar. Sidebar. Sidebar. Maybe "super-douchy" is a loaded term (or perhaps too subjective to be useful) - I hesitated using it, but couldn't think of a decent alternative. I don't mean to hate on persuasive behaviours that might seem too aggressive or extreme for the mainstream, but which have the ultimate goal of increasing the pleasure for all parties involved (push-pull, for example, or forcing qualification) or which cater to a reality which has to be dealt with (women prefer dominant men in general, seduction occas…	/r/seduction	22/09/15 08:44 PM
7	Sidebar. Sidebar. Sidebar. I'm interested in being part of a high-quality community that discusses seduction techniques without being "super-douchy". I was surprised and disappointed when a top post yesterday devolved into racist rants and unnecessary anti-feminism. Are there better places for me to go? Or would there be any interest in starting a private seduction subreddit where quality posts could be more highly valued?	/r/seduction	21/09/15 08:57 PM
1	European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas? Haha, who knows... it's been a long time since I lived in England, and I rarely if ever meet British women I'm interested in. The foreigner effect works both ways! :)	/r/seduction	21/09/15 08:41 PM
330	European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas? I'm British and have travelled both Europe and the USA extensively. Obviously there are cultural differences - and actually, the nationalities you named are all quite different when it comes to seduction. For example, the swedish generally need a gentler, more chivalrous approach, whereas the spanish value men who are more direct & passionate. I suspect that what you are experiencing is more to do with the "foreigner effect". You have to work harder to hook girls in your own country, because the…	/r/seduction	20/09/15 02:01 PM
3	I'm going to a club in an hour for the first time, have any advice? But not too much! Differentiate yourself from the other guys who got drunk to find their courage.	/r/seduction	19/09/15 07:02 PM
2	Coffee date tips Fuck, why are you complicating things with coffee dates then? Invite her to your house for "coffee", jobs a good'un. I live in Europe, kissing on the cheek when meeting a girl is normal here.	/r/seduction	20/08/15 03:24 PM
2	Coffee date tips Here's the general outline I try to follow for coffee dates. I've yet to pull it off perfectly though. Go the the cafe. Be 5 minutes early, but be mentally prepared for her to be 10 minutes late. Read a book/newspaper in the time it takes for her to arrive. When she arrives, stand and kiss her on the cheek. Make general conversation for 30 minutes. During a lull in conversation, bounce to another location: any public location with a bench is good (park, beach, etc.). Escalate touch while you wal…	/r/seduction	20/08/15 11:47 AM