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Their abilities, their prowess, their skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:23 PM
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I don’t think it’s socialised, it’s biological. Men display and women pick. It’s pretty common in mammals. Especially primates. Humans are mammals. Humans are primates. Culture arises from biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 11:23 PM
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Like... Just don’t go out and eat in restaurants. So simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:26 PM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:34 PM
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That’s why you go 21F with 41M. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 03:48 AM
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Well we do live in the alternate reality. The tangent. The clown world version of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:43 PM
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Likewise. It’s like stage makeup. It looks fine under harsh lighting but makes people look like clowns in real life. Can’t stand the drawn on with pen eyebrows or blow-job lips either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:12 PM
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That sounds like hell. I’d honestly rather commit suicide than work in an open plan office. The world of extroverts man. How are you supposed to get anything done? No wonder everything is so mediocre and bland.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 04:55 PM
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Well, that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 05:30 PM
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Feminism fights abstinence in the name of women’s liberation and sexual freedom. Also feminism: promotes abstinence. Which is actually the best preventer of STIs, unwanted pregnancy and sluts. I support them on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:54 AM
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So if they don’t want kids they don’t “end up childless” they do exactly as intended and don’t have kids. That’s called achieving a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:21 AM
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YAAAASSSSSS SLAYYYYY KING
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 05:54 PM
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It’s a completely sensible thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 06:20 PM
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You’re solipsistic. It’s fine. You’re a highly sexual person that deals with highly sexual people. “Your experience” isn’t “everyone”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:02 AM
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In the UK, prostitution has never been illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:59 AM
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I definitely have a looks type. It borders on conventionally attractive, but a lot of people I know think I have really unusual taste in girls. So, they will be surprised if I don’t find some conventionally attractive celebrities attractive. My “type” seems to be women with a large degree of north-western European ancestry. Irish, Scottish, Scandinavian, German comes up a lot when I look into the ancestry of celebs I’m attracted to. Then, from that, very fair to pale skin, blonde to fair hair, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 09:10 PM
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The idea of Male privilege and patriarchy is teleological. Ie, looking at the result of a system and inferring that the cause was the intent of the result. So, much like the whole “if you find a watch on the beach you assume it had a watchmaker, if you look at life and it looks like it was designed, then it had a designer”. That’s exactly what feminism did, picked a limit: “Fortune 500 CEOs”, found out that they’re all men, decided that if they’re all men then there must be a global conspiracy b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 08:43 PM
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Yes. I’ve had my ass grabbed. My arms grabbed “ohhh muscly”. Been kissed on the cheek. Been kissed on the mouth. Lewd comments made. One girl even got her boobs out in the office once when we were alone. None of which I wanted or asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:36 PM
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Well I just got off reading the synopsis of that movie then came here and bam, there it is again. I’ve seen it before, I think it has such a shitty premise and resolution. The tomboy girl just happily accepts the gift the guy got for the popular girl? What world does this happen in? The guy is a total asshole in the movie. Granted, the lesbian looking chick should’ve acted less like a lesbian and more like she was actually interested in the guy from the start. It would’ve saved all the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 11:06 AM
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Yeah, so it’s illegal for a prostitute or a pimp to offer sex as a service and to request payment for sex, but it’s not illegal to pay someone for sex. Prostitution in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 02:44 PM
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If I still had all the knowledge I have, I’d be more lesbian than Shane from the L word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:40 AM
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It’s not illegal to pay somebody for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:35 AM
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That’s a guy. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:33 AM
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I honestly can’t remember. And I lived with a chick for 2 1/2 years, that’s a lot of sex. I really just remember the feeling of a vagina around my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:31 AM
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Alpha females exhibit the outward sexual characteristics that are most desirable to males. A “strong, independent, career” woman is more like a beta-male than an alpha female.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:19 PM
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Male purpley-red Affiliations? Centre-right, anti-statist (somewhat), anti-collectivist, anti-globalist Gender equality? Equality of opportunity. Gender discrimination? Denying a qualified person an opportunity based on their gender. Making legislation that specifically cites gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:54 AM
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In addition to the ethics, generational human studies are also really hard to conduct, because human generations last such a long time. It’s easier with fast breeders like mice. It’s unreasonable to expect a consistent study team over 250 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:26 AM
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The filter isn’t body shaming either. If the preference exists, a filter just stops anyone from wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:27 AM
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Not being attracted to fat women isn’t body shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:23 AM
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I like heart shape faced north-western European girls with blonde hair and blue or green eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:02 AM
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If I was a chick I’d be like Shane from the L word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:41 PM
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Your 8 is the best looking one, and your 6 is the 2nd best looking. Your 10s are like 7s max
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:37 PM
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Seven
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:35 PM
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6 and 4
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:35 PM
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I’d call that a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:34 PM
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Your 10 is my 3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:33 PM
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Came here to say this. FWB only.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:24 AM
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Well yes. Drinking a bottle of rosé every night and eating your own weight in chocolate and ice cream while watching “Queer Eye” aren’t hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 02:46 PM
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Then I’m perfectly happy to remain single. It’s not a problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 02:34 PM
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Nope. I won’t fuck a whale just to get my dick wet. If you don’t look like Audrey Hepburn, don’t have any hobbies, don’t have any ideas of your own, I’m not interested. I don’t lose anything by noping. But I see so so so many nopes trying to bag me, it’s more than funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:05 AM
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My testosterone. My upper body strength. My height. My penis. My bone structure. My lower level of sub-cutaneous fat. My preference for things over people. My preference for working with technology. All contribute to me being masculine. I don’t really know how to feel masculine, because I don’t know any different, I’ve always and only ever been me, I’m male and I’m a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:38 PM
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Well, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:40 AM
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I think you’ve nailed it here. Cos this app is really just for fucking, men are basically only avoiding the women they know beyond doubt they could never even pity fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 12:40 PM
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It’s actually not a bad shout to take on a pet from a local shelter. Poor critters didn’t do anything wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 12:36 PM
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Boy that’s a lot of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:38 PM
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My most recent ex was on 9, I was on 5 at the time. It didn’t bother me, the fact that she was crazy did. My FWB must be at like 50-100 or something. I’ll fuck her, but there’s no way I’d ever be in a relationship with her, I know her history, plus she’s pretty annoying/drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:35 PM
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At the start of undergrad there were 4 girls in a class of 35, at the end there were 0 in a graduating class of 21. At the start of post-grad there was 1 girl in a class of 6. Halfway through there are 0 girls in a class of 4. My STEM subject is niche, but definitely male dominated. People drop out because they don’t realise exactly how technical it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:37 AM
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Because a lot of these “educated” women think they scare men away because they’re so “intimidating” when really the word they’re seeking is “insufferable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:34 AM
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Tbh, it conflicts with my worldview, that everything is emergent from biology. So, no, in my world, gender is an emergent property of biology not a ‘social construct’ and that person is quite literally a man/male because those are one and the same. Absolutely fine to reject a man if you’re not sexually interested in men. Absolutely fine to disagree with spurious social-science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:29 AM
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And the slut offers baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:44 PM
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I think a greater part of it is that a slut is easy. Easy means low value. Low effort to acquire. Why pay new car price for an ex-rental?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:41 PM
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You don’t pay new car price for an ex-rental car.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:39 PM
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American tipping is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:00 PM
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“Cheer up it might never happen” I just have a miserable face OK?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:58 PM
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“Taking it in turns” is collectivist. It’s unsurprising that a woman thought in this way. As men tend to be individualist and maintain hierarchy by merit and force, allowing (potentially) undeserving men the spoils of breeding with the only woman just isn’t part of male mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:23 PM
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Figuratively invisible. Sure, they’re people, but I don’t really see them as the same kind of people as attractive women. It’s just like a guy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:58 PM
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That would never happen to me, those kind of women don’t even register. That’s what I mean by indifferent. They’re invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 07:40 PM
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They either fit the type, so “yes”, or they don’t, so “indifferent”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 07:01 PM
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Well, my “type” is something like this: White, blonde/brunette, blue or green eyes, heart shaped face, between 5ft3 and 5ft9, petite, below UK size 12, bra size around 32-34 B/C/D. Irish/Scottish/Scandinavian ancestry. (For comparison, I’m 6ft2, 200lbs, almost entirely British/German/Polish ancestry) Julianne Hough, Kristen Stewart, Ruby Rose all fit the bill for a celebrity comparison. There’s a bit of leeway on the hair colour and eye colour, but basically it’s guaranteed that any woman who fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:18 PM
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Whichever one sucks the best dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:55 PM
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I don’t get triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:03 PM
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So basically, you’re insecure? You’re projecting? You don’t think women can be friends with men without wanting to have sex with them, maybe because you yourself can’t? If my girlfriend started policing my friendships, telling me I can’t be friends with girls I’ve known for years, forcing me to excommunicate them just because she’s insecure, then I can tell you exactly where my loyalties would lie. Hint: not with my now ex-girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:59 PM
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Pretty much. “Socialisation” never comes first, it only exploits underlying biology. How else can you possibly explain that men globally almost ubiquitously desire incredibly attractive young women? Hollywood is influential sure, but it’s certainly not an explanation for everywhere. Being British, I find Hollywood movies to be “American stuff”, sure I watch them, but there’s only a few reference points to the reality of living in the UK. It’s just fun, cliched, America centric fun (or it used to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:13 PM
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I misread it as “live with 4 men” and assumed husband and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:22 PM
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Hell yeah!! How many of those four men are actively trying to fuck you though? Well yes there is an element of “leave me alone” involved too. Anything to avoid the cling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:20 PM
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I kinda like girls that are spunky. Some kind of hobby that isn’t social media that they’re passionate about. I dunno, skating, football, cross-stitch. Whatever it is doesn’t really matter, just something they can talk to me enthusiastically about for hours. Preferably not an SJW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:16 PM
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I disagree. I’m a 33 year old man. I used to find women my own age attractive, when I was in my 20s. Now I don’t. I still find women in their early to mid 20s attractive. I regard that as a biological imperative. Women my own age look haggard in comparison. The options are so easy, there’s no real reason to pursue unattractive women with extra baggage and ‘standards’ when it’s so much easier to pursue women much younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:18 AM
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Far too many people use “nurture” to justify ridiculous things like “there’s no biological differences between men and women”, “men are socialised to not have emotions” and “processes that aren’t biological like love”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:35 PM
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Everything is biological. Everything is emergent from much simpler biological processes. How these processes merge together makes it all very complex and far too complicated to point to one thing and say “this hormone causes this behaviour”. Even the process of socialisation is biologically driven. There is no disconnect. Nature vs Nurture? Nurture is caused by nature not separate from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:23 PM
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Yet still a dearth of male teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:29 PM
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There’s no incentives. There’s far more interesting and rewarding careers for men to pursue. It’s not: ‘teaching modern kids’ vs ‘teaching kids from the past’. Rather it’s: ‘teaching modern kids’ vs ‘literally every other career that doesn’t involve kids, many of which have incentives to enter and suit “male mentality” far better’.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:22 PM
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Shit. Your synopsis of a movie I’ve never heard of about a country I don’t even live in perfectly summed up mine and many men’s aversion to teaching. Now I’m convinced. I’m becoming a teacher tomorrow!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:07 PM
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Would take a pretty big golden hello and high salary to have any interest in being a day-care-daddy to modern inner city kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 11:22 AM
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You’d be a cuck if you went to look at rings with your fiancée’s bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 12:19 PM
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I think the Irish are comparably average to us. My DNA thing indicates Irish ancestry but lumps it in with the ‘total british’ % so I don’t know how much. Statistical anomalies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:48 PM
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I’m also from the UK, I was quite surprised that the average male height here is 5ft9. I guess those men are just invisible to me in daily life. The Scandi countries and Netherlands Belgium, Germany all have a much greater average height, when I was in Belgium and Norway recently I did notice that a lot more guys were around about my height. Interestingly, my DNA results shows that I’m only about 40% British compared with about 40% German and 15% Polish. I know both of those countries have much …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:42 PM
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That’s funny, Cos my 6ft7 friend calls me a midget and that I can’t even be 6ft tall, even though I’m 6ft2 and taller than almost everyone I know except him (what is it something like 15% of men globally are taller than 6ft2?). Which is pretty funny actually. There’s always a bigger fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:21 PM
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Oh yeah, I’m fully aware of that. I would’ve just never recognised it had I not discovered the pills. Like I said, it’s not conscious but I clearly have pre-conceptions about short men. So, the idea that it’s just women that do is incorrect. Men dislike short men too. Women are just more obvious about it because it’s a sexual preference thing. It’s not like I’ve setup my entire life saying “looking for friends to hang out, game, drink beer, play music, sorry, 5ft10 and up only please”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:02 AM
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The way these figures have been quoted, in particular the ones where it’s comparing minority answers, indicates to me that those particular questions had multiple options. It’s much easier to analyse data if it’s simple binary oppositions, but then of course it makes it easier for those conducting the study to ‘guide’ the answers in the direction of their hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:46 PM
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The way these figures have been quoted, in particular the ones where it’s comparing minority answers, indicates to me that those particular questions had multiple options. It’s much easier to analyse data if it’s simple binary oppositions, but then of course it makes it easier for those conducting the study to ‘guide’ the answers in the direction of their hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:46 PM
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It may not be overwhelming, but there is still a significant gender difference. It would be fairer to say, most men place more value on freedom than security, while most women place more value on security than freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:36 PM
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I am a tall man (6ft2) that has no short male friends. I barely have any “average height” male friends. This isn’t by conscious choice, it just hasn’t turned out that way. I think I subconsciously only trust other men who are around my height and instantly view short men with suspicion and disdain. If I’d never discovered the pillosphere I would have never even recognised that this was the case. I guess I have a preconception that short men are going to have an inferiority complex and be a total…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:15 PM
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I’d go mad if I was practising piano and had someone watching me all the time. Practise is alone time. Performance is other people time. I’d get pissed off if I wanted to play any of my single player open world games and had someone there “offering advice”, critiquing my play or asking me why I’ve done something. The whole point of a single player game is that it’s single player. There’s just two examples of additional after work time that doesn’t involve any kind of commute or any other person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 02:09 PM
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If you don’t live close to this person, that could easily be a 4 or 5 hour commitment. If you as much as live 1 hour away. Add an 8-12 hour work day into the mix, and that’s not a lot of alone time for the other person. To me, that seems like an over extension of how much time I have to commit to someone else. Once a week is adequate. There are hobbies and activities that have to occur on certain days. If one is not part of that; spending time with one is unproductive time. If your only hobby ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 01:47 PM
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4-5 days a week!?! 1 day a week is enough for any one person to occupy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 01:22 PM
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I was 19 and she was 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:07 PM
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Put quite simply, just in terms of sheer numbers: There are more of ‘you’ than men you’re after. This means, the men you’re after have the pick of the litter, and all of the things you value about yourself are irrelevant to men who have abundant choice. Even if they are selective. So it really depends, you seem more combative than agreeable, but I admit that’s based on very little info, just this thread. But, if you’re like that in real life, you’ll always get passed over for a more agreeable gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:00 PM
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It’s not “gatekeepers of relationships” it’s “gatekeepers of commitment”. That may seem superficially identical, but it really isn’t. It’s possible to have an uncommitted relationship. But when it comes to wanting marriage, kids etc, men are in control of that step.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:45 PM
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Yeah, my diet is pretty heavy on the fat and protein, and light on the carbohydrates (though not 0). Especially animal fat instead of plant oils.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:34 PM
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I did clarify that I haven’t done my ‘after’ test.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:31 PM
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Could be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:53 AM
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I did a T test a couple of years ago out of curiosity when I was about 210lbs, it was low end of normal. I’m about 185lbs at the moment, I actually have the test ready at home but I’ve not done it yet. I suspect it will be ‘normal’. I’ve definitely got a higher libido than 2 years ago. Some days it’s really raging. It was never like that in the past. Cutting sugar, really watching the carbs, eating more meat and actually doing some exercise helps to no end. Should also point out that I used to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:44 AM
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You’re probably right. Excess body fat promotes the production of estrogen. One of the best things I ever did for my T was cutting out sugar and losing weight. I was at 25 BMI at my peak. That’s not even technically overweight. I sure felt fat though. I can’t imagine what it’s like for the 60-70% of men who are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:18 AM
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I don’t think ending “slut shaming” would change men’s overall general aversion to wifing up sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 07:00 AM
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You should also tell her that you’ve got experience with thousands of children. Instant father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:05 AM
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First things first: Invest in an unmarked white van This is of paramount importance. Everything you do after that is golden. Pull up to a woman at night and yell “get in the van” and she’ll admire your intimidating bravado, if she protests, qualify it with “now bitch”. The assertion levels here will even get other females in the area interested. Pull up to a woman during the day and yell “get in the van”, and she’ll be intrigued. You own a van, you’re clearly a man of means, a self-starter, a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:54 AM
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Not really because you can always date younger, but if you do you have to remember that you’ll likely be at a different stage of development than her. If you’re after an LTR with the works, marriage, kids etc with a younger woman you may have to wait until she is ready. Which, if it breaks down, could leave you even older and further away from your goal than before. But everything to do with relationships is to do with balancing risks with rewards. If, on the other hand, you are a 33 year old ‘m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:45 AM
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Gosh darn it. Entitlement and overvaluation are just my hot button things. I am devastated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:30 AM
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Either way, definitely in the ‘avoid’ pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:19 AM
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And I think you’re a screeching harpy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:15 AM
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Yeah, you’re totally misreading the tone here. There’s no ‘triggered’ here. If anything, it’s perfunctory language because you’re hyperbolising. You’re ‘reading between the lines’ when it’s really not that deep. Reread everything I said, but literally this time, without feeling. I’ve yet to deny anything I literally said, only your hyperbole, which is misrepresenting the exact words I used to suit your pre-supposition. If anything you’re just proving mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:08 AM
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Likely because you’re reading tone, or projecting tone, that simply isn’t there. I think you’ll find I said, almost verbatim, that I couldn’t imagine dating an older woman, and I’m even losing interest in women aged 28 to my own age. I’m 33. So call that group 28 to say, 34? So apparently in your world, 28 years old is teenage? Nowhere did I say that I only prefer hanging around with teenagers. I used a recent example, specifically to do with dating, because it happened last week and was relevan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:33 PM
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Nah not really, your comment just aligned well with what I’d said to someone else, just pointing it out. Now, I think you’ll find that I said there were no issues with finding common ground with one particular 18 year old girl, not ‘I have a lot in common with all teenage girls’. Which is really just you misrepresenting what I said to support a pre-supposition you’ve made, and doesn’t really step away from the qualification I made about other women and the ‘older man - younger woman’ dynamic. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:20 PM
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‘Manchild’ is shaming language. Shaming doesn’t affect men, it’s a woman tactic that only works on other women. Applying shaming tactics to men is just indicative that men’s free choices aren’t serving women’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:03 PM
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That’s why I used the phrase ‘commonly’ not the phrase ‘every single person in existence, including everyone willowtree77, the arbiter of who can comment on generations, happens to know’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:59 PM
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Any kind of shaming from women our own age calling it ‘disgusting’ or to ‘man up’ or that we’re ‘coercing them with an odd power dynamic’ or whatever really just cements it in our minds to avoid them. The archetypal screeching harpy comes to mind. That’s not a very effective sales technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:51 PM
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Being as I’m from the UK, 9/11, while of course being a significant event, likely didn’t have as much cultural impact here as in the USA and may not be such an accurate benchmark here. Yet, overall our gen z, millennial and gen x generations align pretty well overall. There’s always some grey area at the boundaries. I’ve heard varying cutoffs for gen z as being as early as 1997 and as late as 2006.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:42 PM
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I’d say it’s pretty inevitable, the way things are going, that more and more men of our age group (early 30s) who have no interest in marriage or children yet (if we ever will) will be perfectly content with dating younger women indefinitely. Or at least as long as the interest is reciprocated (and it is). Any kind of shaming from women our own age calling it ‘disgusting’ or to ‘man up’ or that we’re ‘coercing them with an odd power dynamic’ or whatever really just cements it in our minds to avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:35 PM
4

The way I see it, millennials are the first generation to commonly have had internet at home before becoming a teenager. The period where home internet really took off is from about 96-98 onwards. I’d classify anyone who was 12 or under in that period as being a millennial, which is around 1983/84 onwards. The beginning of SMS and IM being a pre-teen phenomenon is also coincidental with that time period. That increased ease of communication while still in school marks a massive shift from the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:24 PM
3

Definitely. I’m a 1985 baby and I have very little in common with people even just 5 years older than me, yet have no issues getting on with people 12 or 13 years younger. The most recent girl I went out with (last week) is 18, 15 years younger than me. There were absolutely no issues with communication or common ground, maybe just in general that she knows less things. But our main interests are fairly on point. I couldn’t imagine dating a 48 year old woman, I couldn’t even imagine dating a 36 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:12 PM
2

Yes, because you broke that agreement whether or not it is known. If you murder a homeless person that no one knows, and no one ever finds out, does that really make you a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:59 PM
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Trust. You lose trust. Maybe you don’t value it, but many people do. Unless it’s expressly discussed as being ok, a relationship is an obligation to one another. Cheating is a violation of that obligation and of that trust. It shows poor character. Maybe you’re ok with living a lie, but nothing happens in isolation. Unless you’re cheating on someone with yourself only, there’s another party involved. It happened and it can be found out. As for me, personally, if I found out a girl cheated on me …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:39 PM
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When women with undesirable attributes like being fat, being a slut or having 3 other guys ‘wonderful’ mistakes, shame desirable men for (intelligently) avoiding them. “Only a real man can deal with x”. It’s a shit test. They’re likely still able to get men to fuck them, just not buy the farm. In reality, it’s just sensible to avoid things that show poor judgement and poor character. They’re shaming men for having standards that don’t include them. Essentially saying that only ‘real men’ lobotom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:30 PM
1

Why is embezzling bad if they never find out? Surely skimming off a few dollars here and a few dollars there doesn’t hurt anyone if they never find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:04 PM
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I’m not sure about that. There’s plenty of guys who’ve retreated to live isolated in cabins all over the place. I’d hardly describe them as ‘neets’. It’s a small subset of people and requires a certain mindset, but it’s certainly not unheard of. The whole ‘lay down and rot’ mindset is all about wanting external validation rather than true friendship. It’s pretty toxic. You don’t have to have a toxic mindset to prefer being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:53 PM
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I think it’s subjective. While friendships are important, some people just don’t value relationships as much as others. Some people genuinely prefer their own company most of the time. For some people, working 8-10 hours a day in constant contact with other people is more than enough people time. Projecting your stance on how you view friendship and relationships onto every else just doesn’t work. Holding that opinion and then finding oneself alone would indeed be tortuous. But don’t presume tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:36 PM
2

Yeah pretty much. Both exercise and low body fat percentage actively increase testosterone production. Or rather, sedentary lifestyle and body fat promote estrogen production.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:24 AM
3

Correct. Just a big massive splat of me me me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:50 PM
2

The problem is, I don’t want to open up. That’s not how I deal with problems. Talking about problems doesn’t fix anything. Fixing them does. I have never once in my life felt like I’ve been ‘conditioned’ to ‘hide my emotions’. Seriously, it comes naturally to me. People who do overshare are just annoying because they frame everything around how they feel and not what they need to do. That is anathema to me. I just need some quiet time alone to work it out, seriously stop pestering me. Yours sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:28 PM
1

Understood/respected and most importantly, left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:43 AM
4

That started out like mine and then diverged. Short girls, pale white skin, blonde, skinny, blue/green eyes, no tatts. So, we cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:41 AM
1

There aren’t any anymore. I’m very wary of placing trust into a stranger, especially the level required in a relationship. Who even is this person? Why do they deserve my free time? Are they going to start being unreasonably demanding? Are they going to accuse me of anything? Are they going to want access to my finances? Are they going to pierce the condom to steal a child from me? Are they going to cling and lie about being pregnant to force me to stay with them? Are they going to cheat? It’s j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:37 PM
2

Being a terrible cook just means you can’t follow instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:32 PM
3

I don’t think that’s a gendered thing. I am a man. I won’t be able to tell you what clothes you were wearing 5 minutes after seeing you. I don’t even know the eye colours of my best friends. But ask me what I ate 3 weeks ago on Friday and I’ll absolutely be able to tell you. I won’t remember a wedding unless you remind me what the meal was, then I’ll probably remember who’s wedding it was by inference. Food, more specifically how good it tastes, is very important to me. I still dream about the 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:26 PM
1

Man. I look at taste. Never really been bothered about price and convenience. If I can’t afford it, I don’t eat it. If I can’t get it, I don’t eat it. But, if it doesn’t taste good I won’t eat it. If I can’t find something I like that tastes good, simple, I just won’t eat. The world is full of pointless calorie laden food that doesn’t taste good, like cake, and quinoa, why eat just because ‘you’re supposed to eat something’? Taste for me also includes being heavily meat based. So I eat a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:33 PM
1

Well, quite honestly when they want to see me more than once a week is over-stepping the mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:35 AM
1

Veganism really just doesn’t have as many adherents in other countries. There are minorities of adherents, but veganism is far less of a cultural phenomenon in most European countries than it is in the USA. Vegetarianism isn’t really that well followed or catered for either, with most European countries having about 3-6% of the population vegetarian. No surprises really, the EU and Britain have much higher animal welfare standards than the USA, and just food in general, not to say that they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 11:05 PM
1

Clarify, entirely a social construct. I think there’s far more biological influence on cultural mores than is credited. I disagree that you can separate and isolate masculinity from male nature. Disciplines such as evolutionary psychology are well within this view, that behaviour and culture is emergent as much as or even more so than isolated and culturally enforced top down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:07 PM
1

I disagree that masculinity is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:45 PM
1

But only in America, so it can’t be ‘toxic masculinity’, because otherwise it would be endemic around the world, well, at least where there are human men. It sounds like an American cultural problem in general, more than a male problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:09 PM
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r/zerocarb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:40 PM
2

Learnt in British English, and correct, is learned in American English.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 06:57 PM
2

It can’t have been Gen Z kids stealing your skateboard. If they ever do venture outside they prefer those gay-ass scooters. Probably because the handles are a ‘safe space’ that protects them from the reality of bailing into hard concrete. Must’ve been the really hardcore Gen-Xers who are still hanging out at the skatepark in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 06:11 PM
2

Also millennial. Still Skateboard and play N64 like it’s 1999.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:51 PM
2

Because America isn’t the world. Also, that doesn’t sound empirical at all, that sounds totally anecdotal. Assuming a correlation between two things and then saying it is causes by ‘toxic masculinity’ is absolutely a strawman conclusion. You have to remember that there are a lot of things that are totally skewed in American culture that wouldn’t be noticeable if you live within it. Things like, the ridiculousness that fast food is cheaper than store bought produce. You’d empirically find that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:48 PM
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They’re not polar, it’s possible to neither eat lots of vegetables nor lots of meat. To instead subsist on an incredibly unhealthy diet of grain based foods, sugar and processed ‘easy to eat’ foods, which is really where the western, especially US, dietary problems are rooted. Lazy eating. You’ll likely find that in incredibly masculine health circles that most men encourage other men to eat meat and vegetables and eat less sugar, grains and carbohydrates. Not only are meat and vegetables the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:37 PM
2

Red meat is perfectly fine for you. Processed meat, cured meat, preserved meat is the coronary killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:31 PM
1

Listen to Hangin Tough by New Kids on the Block.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:07 PM
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Who said I did? There’s that Americo-centrism again. You wanted to know why ‘good men’ would be averse to wifing up a girl with a history of terrible decision making. Like, dating broke thugs and fucking around, complaining about it like she has no agency or responsibility for her actions, then blaming ‘good men’ for avoiding her. The reward isn’t worth the risk. Better options are available to ‘good men’. It’s pretty simple to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:01 PM
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It’s entitled to demand that a man not be poor. It’s entitled to be a slut with a history of incredibly bad decisions and demand a ‘good man’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:52 PM
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Picking a poor partner is your own stupid fault. It’s reflective of your poor decision making. It’s indicative that you have a history of poor decision making. It’s sensible for ‘good men’ to avoid the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:48 PM
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How so? Status doesn’t equal money. ‘Chad’ has status by virtue of being an alpha male. But then again, chasing after broke Chads really just indicates that, in addition to being slave to instinct, she’s an idiot and even less deserving of a ‘good man’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:41 PM
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Aside from sounding incredibly Americo-centric, what you’re doing is reversing the issue to somehow blame men for women’s poor choices. Hypergamy is based on a woman’s biological imperative to get the best possible genes for her offspring. In our primitive primate brains, this means being attracted to men/women who exhibit the ancestral markers of dominance/submission. Essentially, a woman choosing ‘Chads’ and ‘Tyrones’ in her youth, then expecting a ‘good man’ to wife her up when she is past he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:30 PM
1

You volunteering to show him the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:47 PM
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Point 1: Well this really sounds like a non-issue. Women don’t need to do any of those things, that’s a totally manufactured issue, not to mention that she probably already owns all those cosmetic items. Equality means equal. You fought for this ladies, a bill should be split 50/50, or at least pay for what you had. I wouldn’t expect a date to cover my ribeye, but I’m not buying you a bottle of vastly overpriced cheap champagne for you to drink half of. Point 2: Again, not really an issue. Despi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:01 AM
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I highly doubt that the OP is a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:51 AM
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Depends on what for. I’d fuck a slut, I mean I have, a few, I’ve been fucking the same slut as an FWB between relationships and sometimes during hers for like a decade. She’s easy, no strings, no obligations, just sex. But, I’m never gonna wife one up, especially not her. It’s the opposite way round for women. Betafux, alphabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 09:15 PM
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Sexual history yes, 80+ is unusually high, especially for 22, and certainly not an indicator of a ‘quality woman’. OP doesn’t need to learn to ‘deal’ at all, he’s well within reason to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 09:04 PM
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You know full well that’s not what the OP was driving at.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:48 PM
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Absolutely, nobody would shame a man for that. By the same token, if she isn’t sexually viable, her sexual history and attitude don’t match mine, she’s not LTR/marriage material. No time for a slut. It’s not slut shaming, it’s just preference and sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:40 PM
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A relationship is never free. Maybe she waited until the third date, maybe she’s still making you wait. That’s payment in time, others got it instantly. Maybe she did levels of depravity with others that she would never consider with you. That’s payment in inadequacy. You’re not a sexual being to her, you’re a provider. Maybe you commit, including all the associated financial and time costs, then the leopard is true to its spots and does what it does best, fucks some random guy. That’s payment i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:27 PM
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I doubt she’s got a 100+ n count. And Bezos definitely isn’t Chad, just a very fortunate betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:53 PM
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Resenting having to pay for what others got for free. It’s pretty sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:18 PM
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There’s a difference between being willing to just have sex with someone and partnering with them long term. Even Chad isn’t gonna wife up a Kleenex factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:17 PM
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Yaaaassss Slayyyy king This. So much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:12 PM
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I picture a normal guy. What’s with the big freak out that a lot of normal guys don’t wanna buy damaged goods? Sure, it was her decision to sleep with all those people, but he’s allowed to be skeptical, suspicious and wary of entering into a long term relationship with someone who’s given themselves away so easily in the past, especially when there are financial consequences to such a union. It’s perfectly healthy risk aversion. No amount of ‘but I’ve changed’ is going to work. A declawed tiger …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:08 PM
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How rich are these robots?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:18 PM
1

33 And she’s ruined herself with cocaine and alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:10 AM
1

None of the dwarves have Scottish accents. Maybe to non-British people it sounds ‘Scottish’ but to me it sounds ‘ridiculous’.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:01 AM
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Gimli definitely doesn’t have a Scottish accent. The actor is Welsh, and the accent he does doesn’t really exist, but it’s kinda Northern English, but it’s really over the top. Frodo: RP Sam: West Country Gandalf: RP with a slight Northern twist Merry: Cheshire/South Manchester Pippin: Scottish Gimli: Welshy sounding Northern English, not a dialect anyone actually speaks. Boromir: Posh Yorkshire Legolas: RP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:51 AM
1

Oh come on now, 17 is exactly one year too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:13 AM
3

I could beat the women’s triple jump world record when I was 14 years old. (15.5m).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:10 AM
1

Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Eliza Dushku, Jeri Ryan They’ve all aged and I’m no longer attracted to them. But I can still watch their old shows. My current crop are getting close to the wall, Ruby Rose, Kristen Stewart, Julianne Hough. Then I suppose there will be a new bunch of young beautiful famous women to take their place. Although it seems to me that the younger female celebrities all seem to want to look like thot clones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:08 AM
1

Definitely has a Scottish accent in LOTR I live in the midlands, he sounds nothing like anyone around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:04 AM
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My mother definitely was AWALT. She was a thundercunt who could never just let anything be calm and peaceful. Always injecting drama into nothing for the sake of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:54 PM
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This is one of the best things about it. The lack of censorship of ‘the wrong opinions’. There’s some great testimony in this sub, and equally, a lot of hurt feelings. But instead of the children-of-ideology running to big daddy mods with ‘the big evil man gave me an owie in my fee-fees’ and the mods responding with ‘don’t worry, we’ll just ban their opinions and you shall always remain safe from ever confronting reality my child’, the mods benevolently foster discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:49 PM
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No we’re not. I never disagree with anybody. Fight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:43 PM
2

Pssssshhhh. 25 is way too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:34 AM
2

That’s what I mean! If you’re allowing your girlfriend/wife to cheat all over the place and she has a kid, what guarantee is there that you’re even paying for the growth of your own kid? DNA tests aren’t gonna help you; you’re still gonna have to fork up the cash. Unless there are mandatory paternity tests and a legal guarantee that you don’t have to pay child support to genetically unrelated children, it’s idiotic to ‘allow women to cheat’.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:15 AM
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No, but I have been told that I’m ‘the sexy kind of creepy’ and ‘murdery, but hot’. It’s probably just because I’m tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:12 AM
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I’m pretty sure there’s plenty of need to worry about financing somebody else’s crotch fruit, especially when it’s enforced by a legal system that favours women in divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:10 AM
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Isn’t the phrase ‘death throes’? Death Throes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 12:24 PM
1

When I hear ‘catcalling’ I just picture a New York construction worker from an 80s movie that calls everyone bozo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:20 PM
1

Tall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:12 AM
1

Yeah pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:44 AM
1

The majority of displaying MGTOWS yes. The ones that don’t display, are invisible, they’ve gone their own way and aren’t looking back. That initial bitterness is commonly called red pill rage. And sure, there are a lot of angry guys that have been fucked over and are still in the moment. You can hear them because they shout the loudest. The vast majority are silent and unconcerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 12:26 AM
1

Because you seem to think that being alone is somehow ‘dooming’ or something to ‘face the consequences of’. But really the issue is you can’t conceive that other people can actively enjoy being alone. You’re afraid of being alone and are projecting it onto others. Sure, some of them might be miserable. But they’re not a collective hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:16 PM
4

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:06 PM
1

It is possible to have a successful career while working 8 hours or less a day, 40 hours a week or less and then still having the other 128 hours in a week to raise children. Sure, you’re not gonna be a Fortune 500 CEO but that’s such a ridiculous yardstick for measuring success. I don’t see why it’s always presented as a binary opposition, either one or the other. And I’m freaking MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:01 PM
1

Doomed to a life of loneliness? Sounds more like your fear than theirs. Which is called: Projection!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:51 PM
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As if men needed any more reason to go MGTOW. Who’s the arbiter of what qualifies as ‘hitting on’? A joke could be considered flirting in some contexts. Flirting isn’t always hitting on. But where do we draw the line? While we’re at it, why not just ban cross gender communication altogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:43 PM
1

Sure, there are a lot of men who complain about the state of play. The real reason for pointing out female nature shouldn’t be to complain about it. It should be to educate men that a lot of them are wasting their time and energy on something that just isn’t worth it. That they would be better served putting that effort into improving their own circumstances and forgetting about appeasing the hamster altogether. But it’s also for women to learn that if men laugh at their poor choices and reject …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:18 AM
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HAH
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:14 AM
2

Don’t get married. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:09 AM
1

Because beta simps are thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:28 AM
1

Oh she can have sex with as many people she likes, just not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:25 AM
2

If all men did that, all men would end up MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:22 AM
2

No, I really don’t think it is. There are some, but not enough for every single single mother. Honestly someone else’s child is the biggest red flag going.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:18 AM
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Because, if all women are told to ‘date up’ and that they ‘deserve the very best man’ then there’s a supply and demand problem, especially as women get older: A huge number of women competing for a small pool of men. Which means that small pool of men get to be very selective, and 32 year old single mothers are not on their radar. So what happens is that society ends up with a bunch of leftover ‘strong, independent’ women who ‘can’t find a good man’, because they’ve been told to expect the very …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:12 AM
1

“F” Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 03:02 AM
1

You make it, you fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 03:00 AM
1

How dare you feel. Don’t you know that feelings are gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 03:00 AM
2

Global mouse utopia in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 06:41 PM
1

The brain absolutely is sexed. Males have about 6.5x more grey matter and females have about 10x more white matter. Grey matter is implicated in cognition, proprioception and spatial awareness. How things move and how things work in space. White matter is implicated in connections between different regions of the brain and cross cortex connectivity. Facial recognition, emotional association and social memory. Which follows sex preferences in infant primates, including humans, perfectly. Males pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 06:32 PM
2

This is the best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 06:24 PM
1

Neither a-Walt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:29 PM
4

I’d love to be a character actor that’s in hundreds of movies. The step up from being a walk on or extra, with lines that advance the story. Like, as a cab driver or a concierge or a waiter or someone’s dad or an alcoholic clown who shows up late to a kids party and gets beaten up by the kids uncle. The actor you look at and think ‘I recognise that guy from something!!’ but just isn’t quite famous enough to be a household name.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 11:22 PM
5

I will NEVER stop wearing crotchless chaps and putting lipstick on ‘the little guy’ at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:45 AM
1

It’s possible to hold contradictory views at the same time. Hating other people’s kids while simultaneously wanting your own seems kinda standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:38 PM
0

I think many women are like you. Adamant that they don’t want kids for the longest time, then as they get older and older there’s a point where they really start wondering if they’ve missed the boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 12:23 PM
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If she’s a slut then I’ll fuck her like a slut and dismiss her like a slut, just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 01:27 PM
0

Pretty sure it has deleterious effects on their mental health and ability to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 01:26 PM
2

I think it is hyperbolic to say that TRP believe in western or white supremacy. It’s not necessary to have a collective mindset to accept red pill principles. It’s just a case of recognising that they exist more than anything. “Supremacy” is absolutely a collectivist mindset, and really this just sounds like the projection of a collectivist. Separate to that, personally I believe that direct democracy and capitalism, with a social safety net, are the most conducive systems to living the life I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:09 AM
1

Also poo. The lack of poo in the streets. Although San Francisco and Paris have been culturally appropriating those from the 3rd world recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:02 AM
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Also poo. The lack of poo in the streets. Although San Francisco and Paris have been culturally appropriating those from the 3rd world recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:02 AM
2

It’s not up to us to ‘make’ them wealthy, they have to do it on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:00 AM
1

This really just sounds like a fancy way of saying “who hurt you?”. If you burn yourself by touching a hot stove, you don’t keep touching the hot stove to see if it isn’t hot anymore. You learn to avoid it. Some risks aren’t worth taking. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Saying “it must be so lonely to blah blah blah trust and love and marshmallow fluff” is just projection. Being in a relationship is not the most fulfilling thing in life to a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 12:52 AM
3

I don’t think that’s what everyone wants at all. Certain people want ‘as much sex as possible’, but there are more fulfilling things in life than pursuing sex all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:16 AM
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Unapproachable: The situation. In general in public people don’t just talk to each other. This is Britain damn it. But if it’s a ‘forced’ situation like a gym class or a professional environment there’s nothing that makes women unapproachable. But, granted I don’t generally just ‘hit on’ women in those situations, but stuff like that has been more ‘fruitful’ in my experience. Being an introvert too, I don’t really go to loud crowded places, that’s not my thing. It’s not the women that are unappr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:28 PM
1

And it just comes off as snide and bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:21 PM
1

I’m a dude. Kids. Overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:31 PM
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I came here to say this. If everyone treats you like you’re stupid, well there’s one common factor there... Your fat friend is probably competent and contributes well at work. Just because you have an idea, does not mean it is a good idea. If you have a track record of incompetence, people will learn that and will treat you like you are incompetent. Not everything is to do with attraction. In my experience, sure men might pay more attention to the pretty girls, help them out more etc, make guy-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 11:27 AM
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How, exactly, is using the system as it is set up parasitic? I work, I pay taxes, I stay out of the way, I get left alone. That’s sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:37 PM
1

I like playing a small number of games to completion. The only analogue I’ve found to that is multiple FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:14 PM
2

I also had the unfortunate circumstance of being in love once, many years ago. Several times actually. I don’t like it because it is crippling, especially when it starts to go wrong. I find that all LTRs are like cages I’m trapped in by obligation and having someone else constantly attribute intent to my words and actions that just isn’t there. I hate that. My shorter term flings have been much more fulfilling and if I want ‘companionship’ I have friends. I’ve always been a mostly solitary perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:12 PM
2

This is it really. Once men ‘self-improve’ and realise their own worth, work towards their goals and become successful in their own pursuits, be that financial or otherwise, I think it puts ‘the companionship of women’ at a lower rung of importance, maybe even completely irrelevant. So on the one hand, I agree that JBP is probably better for men collectively than nihilism and TRP, but on the other it still doesn’t offer a solution to the declining marriage and birth rates in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:57 PM
2

Agreed. I can’t think of anything worse than having children. So much that It’s not even a slight consideration, I couldn’t give a shit about other people’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:49 PM
4

That’s still a socially conscious view trying to dismiss a socially apathetic view by using a hypothetical ‘I don’t want to work 12 hours a day on a farm’ and kinda projecting that onto future generations. I don’t want to farm 12 hours a day either, and I don’t have to. At the moment society is set up just fine for me as an individual to participate as little as possible. The more people do it, the worse it gets, but by that point I’ll likely be infirm or dead, so I’m indifferent. I don’t care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:47 PM
4

Well, you kinda can, it’s not zero sum nor a binary opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:38 PM
2

The way you project your insecurities onto this is by reading ‘generally’ as ‘all’, which isn’t the case. This is a hypothetical man, the man who has all those attributes: good looking, financially secure, successful, tall, nice etc. His pool to choose from is large. He belongs to a tiny pool. I’m talking about this in the terms that: not all women are attractive and not all men are models. You really have to understand that what women find attractive in men is not the same as what men find attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:12 AM
1

HAH, now that’s funny. I’m not planning on settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:09 AM
0

HAH, now that’s funny. I’m not planning on settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:09 AM
0

HAH, now that’s funny. I’m not planning on settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:08 AM
4

It seems sensible to me. College age girls are still attractive. I’m 33 and totally uninterested in women my own age. I’ve never been with a girl older than 27 and the last one was 19. Didn’t seem weird, seemed totally fine. Women my own age all have serious baggage, baby rabies or want to ‘find a nice guy and settle down’. I’m not interested in any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 12:13 AM
4

Women my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 12:11 AM
3

But! Your list of requirements are very desirable traits in men from almost all women. That means, a man that fulfils all of them has a very large pool to choose from, while belonging to a tiny pool. Because men generally value youth and beauty over almost any other metric, that hypothetical man has access to young and beautiful women as well as ‘high flying engineer women’. A woman’s career and financial stability just aren’t as important to men as they are to women. This causes women to over v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 12:10 AM
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I guess there a few things that could explain the aversion. I can’t honestly say I’ve ever been told that sluts are gross, I just know they are. Firstly, it shows that they’re not willing to delay gratification and will ‘give it away’ to the first person who asks. That’s indicative of poor character, poor morals and low discipline, those are pretty gross traits and best to avoid. Secondly, their chance of having communicable diseases is higher, that’s pretty gross and best to avoid. I know a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 11:54 PM
20

He’s totally in the right. That information should have been disclosed before the relationship began.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:14 AM
1

Become the über-dyke of legend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:37 PM
2

The shortest girl I ever got with was 5’2”. So that’s a full foot shorter than me. I can’t honestly say that it was that much of an issue with being mismatched, but this was almost 10 years ago when I had more flexibility. Having said that, most of my girlfriends have been around about 5’7” give or take. Which I kinda think is around the ‘correct’ height for a woman, not just in comparison to me, but also aesthetically. I find they have a proportionality (limb ratio, torso size, head size... so …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:19 PM
1

Short-shaming! It’s really interesting, the whole height thing. Unlike fatness it’s not a choice, there’s nothing you can really do about it, so really there should be something defending short men. As a 6’2” man, I’d never really encountered/realised the whole ‘women prefer tall men’ trope until I started delving into the pill communities. There’s genuine anger from men about it as well, short men that is. There’s no ‘shortphobia allies’ amongst the tall men. I also realised that I actually don…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:18 PM
3

As someone who is vehemently against collectivism, I find things like ‘healthy at every size’ and other such movements both deplorable and hilarious. The issue with that particular movement, really at its core, is that men generally aren’t attracted to fat women. But, instead of absorbing this information as individuals, taking it away and asking ‘what can I do to change. Change my life, my health, my prospects?’. It’s turned into a collective ‘shame men’ exercise. ‘You can’t have preferences be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:40 AM
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I don’t consider myself to be in some kind of collective called ‘team men’, where we all ‘share issues’ and collectively have an opinion on ‘body shaming’ or ‘gender issues’. I consider myself to be an individual that happens to be male. I don’t look and wonder what other men are doing, what they look like, what they wear, I couldn’t give a shit about them. I look in the mirror and see one individual that I have control over, and I can see what I need to physically improve on, and I can find out…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:20 AM
1

I’m answering the Q4M: Stop: Asking me repeatedly how I am when I’ve already given an answer. Inferring alternative intentions behind what I say/do. I am a matter of fact person. WYSIWIG. Assuming I think what you think. Talking about feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:54 AM
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I love how people always conflate disagreeing that men can be women with hating gays. Or that I’m saying that somehow people aren’t ‘valid people’. Sure, I’d be disgusted if someone tried to be gay with me, but they can be gay with each other if they want. Gayness isn’t a mental illness, it’s present in a large number of populations of animals and current evidence suggests that it provides a survival benefit to cooperative group animals, like people. Be that in terms of camaraderie or rearing of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:37 PM
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Not really. He’s an American, a Republican, a conservative, a God fearing Jew and a monogamist. I’m none of those things. Sure I’ve seen him talk before and I don’t dislike him, but his justification for a lot of things is religion or conservative rhetoric. Same with Jordan Peterson, who I am a fan of, but his justification for a lot of things is religion and monogamy. I don’t agree with those aspects, but I agree with the ‘bettering yourself’ shtick. I’m more of an individualist/nihilist/agnost…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:59 PM
5

Not in the sense that you’re reading it. But yes. They are an evolutionary mistake. That is the truth. It is a fact. You don’t have to believe it. You can rationalise it however you want. You can feel however you want. Countless millions of people believe in a personal god that intervenes in the universe, when the reality is that that doesn’t exist. Believing otherwise doesn’t change the truth. Believing otherwise and forcing others to hold your viewpoint, either by law or by compelled though, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:50 PM
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My feelings don’t change reality. You don’t set the standard for anything by the exceptions. Especially when it is so clear cut. 99.7% is so many that the 0.3% is statistically irrelevant. An anomaly. An evolutionary mistake. A genetic dead end. Nature makes mistakes. Feeling aggrieved that one is a mistake is understandable, but it is a harsh reality that one has to accept. Placating feelings over the truth is just so pre-school. There’s no such thing as ‘cis-gender’. There’s sexual dimorphism …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:26 PM
3

It’s not unrealistic that a man realises that women have other attributes than just their looks. You don’t have to want to fuck someone to value them. But, I always consider women’s physical attractiveness to be ‘the gateway’ to those other attributes when it comes to relationships. Without the initial attractiveness, anything else just isn’t going to be found out relationship wise, because the interest is just not gonna be there. Of course attractiveness is subjective. I think it’s rare for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:39 PM
2

Yes. I got bullied, kinda, by a girl in high school who was older than me and got on my bus. It didn’t really stick, but she used to be really mean to me, and do stuff like punch me in the arm. I found out later that she actually really fancied me, and that’s how she showed it, by hitting me. Needless to say, I never asked her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:25 PM
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I saw a movie kinda like that, this one chick broke into this other chicks back yard. The chick who owned the place started yelling at this other chick for breaking in to her yard, then she saw she had cuts and bruises so she invited her in to have a shower, so then they showered together and had sex in the shower, then went to the bedroom to carry on eating each other out. What this teaches us is that all women are open to having sex with each other, even after they’ve wronged one another. Soun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:10 PM
4

I think it’s unrealistic for a man to leave his beautiful wife for an ugly cripple. It’s feelings porn for unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:07 PM
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Default And no, it’s not insulting to call 99.7% of everyone ‘the default’.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 03:36 PM
3

Being fat is unhealthy and unattractive. If you are fat, you are unhealthy and unattractive. ‘Fat shaming’ may not necessarily be genuine concern for your health, but it is in response to your (likely) attitude: lazy, unmotivated, undisciplined, unhealthy. There is no such thing as ‘healthy at every size’, there are a range of sizes that people are healthy at, everything outside that range is completely unhealthy. Fat people have become more of a drain to the health system than smokers, and bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 02:21 PM
1

Said the fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 02:13 PM
1

Well, there are people in the UK that have never met a black person, and this country as a whole is pretty diverse, although the population is only about 3% black. There are countries in the world with 0-3% white people, and the people you’re talking about are a very small percentage of everyone, the travelling classes. I can assure you that there will be people in the vast majority of Asian and African countries where the white population is either small or non-existent, and since most people g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:54 PM
1

I think your numbers are vastly skewed. I’d estimate that 50%+ of people have never met a white Person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:23 PM
1

Well, quite a lot. White people only account for 800 million people out of the 7 billion on the planet. They’re also concentrated in a few countries, and tend to only migrate between those countries. There will be billions of people on earth that will have never come into direct contact with a white person, let alone been culturally raised with a ‘eurocentric model of beauty’. Sure, they might see us on tv and movies, or on the internet, but that’s not the same thing as direct contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:04 AM
1

Did I say all? Did I say exclusively?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:46 PM
1

White people are more neotenous than other races. People generally find neoteny ‘cuter’ and more attractive. It’s just speculation, but I doubt it’s only explained by ‘culture’, cultures around the world prefer lighter skin, and hardly ever come into contact with genuine white Europeans. Shit, there was a massive paper that I read on this, the prevalence of finding lighter skin attractive in non-white cultures that have very little exposure to white Europeans, but I can’t remember the title or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:13 PM
2

I only watch lesbian porn, and there’s no imagining anything, I’m watching attractive females bodies writhing around together, it’s a visual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:07 AM
1

Neoteny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:02 AM
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I agree. I’ve been a man for 33 years, had a load of male friends in that time. I think only one has ever expressed his genuine desire to have children. Most of the rest aren’t just indifferent to kids, they actively hate children. I know it’s only anecdotal, but I don’t think having kids is as much of a bucket list item for men as it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:55 AM
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I meant the waifu concept to 11. I’ve already GMOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:57 PM
1

Do elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:43 PM
1

They’re leaving the game in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:42 PM
1

Hehehe you said tit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:42 PM
2

That’s what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 11:04 PM
1

I dunno man, I kinda miss the late 90s internet. If it had stayed like that all this time it’d be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 09:26 PM
1

Really I think it’s a self-correcting system that goes through periods of boom and bust. If unrestrained female sexuality leads to a destabilisation of civilisation and societal collapse, something else will take its place. We are seeing increasing numbers of incels, but also increasing numbers of single mothers and older ‘where are all the good men’ women, which are pretty much the female equivalents of young male incels. Then there’s the pretty solid rationale for avoiding marriage altogether …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 08:18 PM
3

Seven and Janeway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:32 PM
1

Rain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:30 PM
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Because women say things they don’t mean or intend to do anything about because it’s the current vogue thing to say, primarily just to get validation from all the other women who are saying the exact same thing. It’s simply the way humans have evolved. It’s a textbook case of the conformist, collectivist, human female hierarchy system in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:32 PM
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I live in England, it’s raining outside, wearing revealing clothing just indicates to people that you’re an idiot, and toughing it out in this weather to show some skin? Yeah you’re probably a slut. Avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:21 PM
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Don’t ‘most guys’ as in 51%+ go to work, go home, watch porn, play video games, not have sex and not go out? I really don’t think ‘most guys’ think that when someone dresses attractive they want to get fucked. If they equally don’t recognise fashion, they’re not going to recognise what ‘dressing attractive’ is either. You’re actually referring to what is actually a small minority of guys, who also happen to be vocal, visible and extroverted which makes it seem like a much larger group than it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:15 PM
2

When I picture ‘catcalling’ all I see is one of those 1980s New York construction worker stereotypes from a movie who calls everyone a Bozo. I really don’t think it’s as well thought out and teleologically analysed as you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:02 PM
2

When I picture ‘catcalling’ all I see is one of those New York construction worker stereotypes from an 80s movie who calls everyone a Bozo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:01 PM
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When I picture ‘catcalling’ all I see is one of those 1980s New York construction worker stereotypes from a movie who calls everyone a Bozo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:00 PM
2

Gotta agree. I was ‘MGTOW’ for 6 years before I even heard of MGTOW. I’d already come to the conclusion that relationships really aren’t worth the hassle all on my own. Finding MGTOW really just confirmed for me that I wasn’t the only one. There’s really nothing magical or special about it, it’s not a club, it’s not a society, it’s not a collective. There’s no creed, no dogma, no leaders. It’s just an idea. It’s just affirmation that it’s possible to live a happy and solitary individualistic lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 06:28 PM
1

Cling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 06:19 PM
1

I hate rap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:26 PM
0

I’m quite attracted to fictional badass women like Shane from the L word or Seven of Nine. But: It’s lust. Those kind of women don’t really exist. If they did exist, they’d make appalling long term partners. I can’t honestly say I’ve ever met a ‘badass’ woman. Sassy. Yes. Bitchy. Yes. independent? Sure. But when it comes down to it, all the women I’ve ever met are flakes and pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:14 PM
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Some of them might be, but it depends. A middle aged man who is married with kids and still working in low level retail is going to be financially worse off than a single childless man of the same age. Then also, they may be miserable at work, when you observe them, but fine in their time off. Some people really do prioritise leisure over everything, and this is a growing proportion of adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 03:26 PM
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And you like rap too... All bravado and solipsism. I’m merely explaining that not everyone is you and not everyone cares about what you care about. You’re not a template for everyone to live by. Your observations of people you see are really just that, your observations. And you’re coming from a biased place of ‘I am better than you, just look at my car’. You’re probably mistaking ‘envy’ for ‘contempt’. And I’m not exactly the template I set out. In terms of career I’m currently doing a Masters …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:27 PM
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Cheaper. Don’t nag when you play other games. Don’t nag when you don’t reply to their message within 30 seconds and with more words than the 4 words that constituted the answer. Don’t nag you to ‘spend more time together’. Don’t nag you about ‘you never say anything nice/do anything nice for me anymore, aren’t I attractive anymore?’. Don’t make you go to events you legitimately don’t give a shit about. Don’t take up more than half the space in your bed. Aren’t neurotically obsessed with how they…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:45 PM
3

That’s a lot of effort, and a lot of people really don’t care about external measures of success. Even though you claim you’re doing it for yourself, it’s still a show. Showing what you’ve achieved and obtained. As an introvert myself, all of that just sounds like pointless posturing. I like nothing more than to have my space, peace and quiet. It doesn’t cost a great deal to have your own space, peace and quiet. Why work any harder than absolutely necessary to cover your basic needs and a few wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:35 PM
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It’s fuck all to a guy who doesn’t notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:21 PM
9

The juice isn’t worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:19 PM
1

Yes, it seems that my peers all seem to be having this problem too. Fortunately for me I am committedly single so I just smile and nod and laugh on the inside. I blame She-Ra
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 10:19 PM
1

Abortion should be legal but absolutely shouldn’t be used as a contraceptive when so many alternatives are available and certainly shouldn’t be paid for by taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 02:34 AM
2

I’d unplug. Fuck that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 02:32 AM
2

You have the taint. You reek of the taint. The taint follows you wherever you go, always there, waiting to strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 05:10 PM
2

But you still wouldn’t want a future partner to discover the information right? It doesn’t just have to be sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:34 PM
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‘You disagree with me therefore you believe in the literal truth of the bible’ I’m pretty much an atheist that ‘believes’ in the scientific method and skepticism, but whatever American cultural hegemony. You do you. I also didn’t say anything about homosexuality. You lumped them together and I would argue that they’re not the same thing, not at all. There’s pretty compelling evidence emerging that homosexuality offers some kind of group survival advantage - generational level - over individual g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:46 PM
1

See that’s the thing, it’s only because of things like ‘gender studies’ that people believe that there is a distinction between sex and gender. In some languages that concept doesn’t even exist. You see, in English, strictly speaking, ‘man’ is the word we use to describe an adult human male, that’s it. Adding all the extra stuff about ‘male gender roles’ into the term ‘man’ was done by cultural theorists in the 20th century. You see, I, and many other ‘biological determinists’, don’t agree that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 12:04 PM
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So, you disagreed with the original comment then admitted you pretty much embody the comment. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:45 AM
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Oh come now, I don’t think younger women are any less neurotic. They just haven’t channeled that neurosis outwardly yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:42 AM
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Don’t get me started on the betas. Like this one guy I know, had sex once at 18. 11 years later starts dating a girl who I’ve known for a long time and hasn’t been single since she was 13. She’s seen a LOT of dick (and pussy). Then again, he’s got a good job and a nice car and a lot of money so, she doesn’t have to work now... Totally not textbook monkeybranching to a beta simp AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:39 AM
1

Some dudes don’t even care, they just want the hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:35 AM
1

And if they love sonnets, well girl, that dude probably ain’t into girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:31 AM
1

But we do not state that humans are not bipedal just because there is an anomaly somewhere. You got my point totally backwards. And yes, actually, a three legged human is still bipedal by virtue of the fact that humans are bipedal. They just happen to be a genetic mistake. A male to female trans person is still male and a man by virtue of the XY chromosomes and every single primary, secondary and tertiary sexual characteristic that they present because of that fact of biology. If they have an an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:12 AM
1

Evolutionary biology explains everything, it just hasn’t got all the data yet because it’s hard to gather the behavioural data of species from the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 11:02 AM
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Biological determinism absolutely allows for anomalies. We know this is an intrinsic part of nature. The problem comes when one starts to define something by anomalies. It’s not too much of a stretch with trans because 99.7% to 99.97% of all people are not trans. This means we can say with biological certainty - with a very low error % - that all biologically adult male people are men and all biologically adult female people are women. It’s not defined by ‘gender roles’ it’s defined by biology. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:59 AM
1

It means misery-guts!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:51 AM
1

I look like a jolly swagman, camping by a billabong, under the shade of a coolibah tree, and I sing as I watch and wait until my billy boils.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:48 AM
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If you touch a flame, and it burns you, why bother trying to touch it again? MGTOW especially isn’t really pigeonholing. It’s a loose collection of men who’ve simply decided that women and society confer no net-benefits to them and have checked out. It’s not really an ideology or a movement or a pressure group. There’s no rules about how they go their own way. ‘Men going their own way’ is an just easy way to name what is essentially total individualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:41 AM
1

It definitely did with my ex. Holy why?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:36 AM
1

They can claim all they want it doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:33 AM
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Starting an interaction with a dickpic however, that’s much more likely to be a fail safe way to clearly state your intentions. /s cannot stress this enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:30 AM
1

Haha yeah I’ve experienced all those too. Neurotic outbursts exist, no? Internalised overthinking leads to external odd/unusual/wild/irrational behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:26 AM
1

Oh, that is the kind of batshit insane I’m thinking of, I’ve known and experienced many women throughout my life. I don’t think any of them have been totally mentally stable. I find really the most bizarre and seemingly innocuous things can sometimes bring on the (irrational) pussy wrath. But Potato/potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:22 AM
1

I don’t think that a.) ever really leaves women, they just get progressively less b.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:17 AM
1

They’re pretty much all insufferable harpies now. Especially the ones at the extremes, the triple kidders with 2 divorces and the fat-never-marrieds. These are not the girls I knew in high school, they’ve ‘matured’.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:13 AM
1

The beginning of the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:03 AM
1

If they know what they’re doing is bad, they can’t expect people to enable them and they can’t complain about the inevitable consequences when their poor decisions affect their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 07:33 PM
1

Recognising that something is detrimental to someone’s personal circumstances and those in their immediate environment, is not ‘righteousness’. It’s acknowledging reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 06:06 PM
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It’s not that fascinating. As for your list, most of those are actually irrelevant in whether or not a man finds a woman attractive. The problem here, and reason why you’re possibly not understanding how male attraction works, is likely because you’ve been raised in an ‘equalised’ environment, where men and women are constantly being told that they are the same. Therefore it’s been instilled in you that men and women have the same standards for attractiveness in the opposite sex. Your list is ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 04:38 PM
1

I think it’s the same as shaming people for smoking, or any other form of substance abuse. It starts with personal choice and personal responsibility. Shame is really just an effective way of teaching personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:59 PM
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Being a slut indicates poor decision making skills and attachment issues. Also a slut more likely to have sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted children, baggage etc. It’s not judgmental, it’s rational to avoid sluts. Be a slut as much as one wants it’s absolutely one’s choice, but don’t expect to impose one’s values on other people when they lose interest in one based on one’s track record and actions. The coin flips both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:30 PM
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Not all of us hold the same values as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:23 PM
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But I’m not religious and I’m only economically conservative...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:10 PM
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What wrong with slut shaming? Like with fat shaming it’s the result of poor personal choices and shouldn’t be stopped to accommodate the fee-fees of the person making terrible choices. Being a slut is a bad thing, for men or for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 11:12 AM
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But it can mean co-morbidity. High n count = reduced ability to pair bond = lack of satisfaction with long term partners Not surprising that that may increase the odds of that individual divorcing. It’s not the sole cause of all divorce but certainly a factor in many.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 11:08 AM
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Short for (Alpha) Male Of Group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:31 PM
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Short for (Alpha) Male Of Group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:31 PM
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Anglosphere+Western Europe. It’s not implying anything about what women not in the west do. It’s not ‘if not A then B’. It’s only referring to what women in the west tend to be like. If you’re talking about a thing, you don’t need to explain everything about what that thing is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:04 PM
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Not necessarily, categorising what ‘women in the West do’ does not mean that ‘women not in the west’ are the complete opposite. It’s not implying that ‘women not in the west’ do anything. It is just a simple way to refer to the Anglosphere, where culture is more similar than different, and other first world countries (like those in Western Europe) which, again, are more similar than different to the Anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:02 PM
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Because women don’t/can’t lie and are all slayyyyy kweens /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 06:47 PM
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Or you can choose to not date people with kids... Being in a relationship isn’t the be all and end all of life, and if kids are a deal breaker don’t make the deal. Nobody is holding a gun to your head saying you have to wife/husband up single parents (yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:53 PM
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An intelligent man who outsources responsibility and instead focuses time and effort on recreational activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 03:33 PM
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Erm, they’re called ‘People of Gender’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 12:52 AM
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5-6 is beneath me. I don’t appreciate being aggressively flirted with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 11:51 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:24 PM
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