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There are plenty of dominant women out there who like meek and weak guys. Women aren't a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:45 AM
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Because of western porn becoming increasingly violent and exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:00 AM
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Cryptocurrency scams. See my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:03 AM
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It's more common than you think. https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/iuknkk/hinge_dating_investment_scam/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/l3vur7/chinese_foreigners_whatapp_scam/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/nc72bd/comment/gz0wg8a/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:01 AM
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Nope, I base it on what profile bios say. Even ugly, fat men write in their bio that they're looking for fwb/hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:34 AM
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The problem is that most of those options are looking for sex, while most of the women on there are looking for relationships. Thus proving that few men actually want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:44 AM
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Any woman who has used dating apps for even one day can tell you that is blatantly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:17 PM
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I don’t think I’ve met a woman who wasn’t into those things or at least doesn’t enjoy them on some level. Look up femdom sometime lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:59 AM
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That dude is ugly AND balding. Is that what passes for "above average" these days??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:26 AM
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So if a girl tried anal with her ex and didn't like it, she owes it to you to do it again? Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:35 AM
2

Nah, it definitely applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:33 AM
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Just because a woman did something with someone in the past doesn't mean she has to do it with you, too. That's a really rape-y way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:34 PM
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Only insecure men would mind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:23 PM
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Who decides which content is "more difficult and meaningful"? All education is equally necessary and useful to society, and women teach the majority of it. It's clear you know nothing about teachers. It's difficult for new teachers to find positions because most veteran teachers stay for literal decades even after getting married. You seem very bitter for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:53 AM
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So you think education, which is one of the most important pillars in any society, is a "bare minimum" contribution. That says quite a lot about you. It's okay to admit that women do one of the most important jobs in society while also acknowledging that men contribute in their own ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:44 AM
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A tiny body frame does not look good with giant bulging muscles. It doesn't suit them and they just end up looking like silly tryhards. From my observations as a member of r/short, yeah that's the main reason. Tons of dudebros telling each other that muscle can "make up" for lack of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:37 AM
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No one said anything about salary. We're talking about whether the jobs that women do are useful contributions to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:29 AM
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Slightly muscular to lean muscular is the sweet spot. Short men in particular seem to go for the big bulky muscles to overcompensate and it looks comical on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:24 AM
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Adults of either gender should not still live with their parents tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:14 AM
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Only field women flock to that’s actually useful is the medical field and that just ties back to natural urges to be a caretaker. The majority of teachers are women, but I guess education isn't useful to society in your book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:09 AM
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I think it's more to do with looks overall, but there truly are a lot of stunted Millennial and Gen Z men for sure. Manchildren who still live with their parents as adults and things like that. It's extremely unappealing and frankly I don't know how any man can expect sex when he doesn't even offer a private place to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:03 AM
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I haven't heard of that happening in China. Do you have a source? I've heard they've just been mail-ordering women from Russia/Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:33 AM
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I've seen plenty of good looking but short men slay with women. The important part there is being good-looking. Men who are average or below average in looks blame their lack of success on their height, when it's actually their face. I could easily see women forgiving social awkwardness too if the guy is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:51 AM
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Do you have any actual proof of that or no? Even full on incels tend to say they'd never get with fat girls, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:41 PM
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It's what good looking women want, yeah. If you want to approach women on your own looks level or below, go for it. The problem is that most men want women who are out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:04 AM
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Yeah, honestly this is just a fact. They don't notice simple makeup like foundation or concealer because it blends seamlessly into the skin. I doubt any man actually prefers a woman showing dark undereye circles, uneven texture, red patches, etc. What they like is minimal makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:46 AM
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I read somewhere that women are more sexually turned on by actions than by looks. Nope. Ugly dudes are still gonna be ugly no matter how nice or caring they are, and I'm not getting with uggoes for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:46 PM
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confidence, charm, charisma, ethic for hard work, humor None of those are "masculine" traits. All of these are considered attractive traits in women as well, except maybe work ethic since I doubt most men would care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:09 AM
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Sex without consent is rape. That's literally the definition of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:19 AM
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Lying to someone so that you can use them is manipulative, yes. It's also rather sociopathic to see women as nothing but holes to be used for your own gain, rather than fellow humans with thoughts and feelings. A lot of women end up traumatized or develop trust issues as a result of these fuckboy games and it shouldn't be encouraged. FWIW I feel this exact same way about women manipulating men for money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:30 AM
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Same reason they aren't into sizes 0 and 00 etc., they don't find them attractive. Super skinny Asian women with no T&A are super popular with men of all kinds, so not quite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:55 PM
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Women care about looks at least as much as men. Anyone who claims otherwise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:28 AM
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If she wouldn't have consented without manipulation, it's not true informed consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:27 AM
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Oh I see, you're one of mail order brides type. In that case, good luck after they get their green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:08 AM
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Manipulation and abuse is disgusting and not the victim's fault regardless of the genders involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:47 PM
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Victim-blaming logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:45 PM
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Good luck finding one!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:45 PM
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My point is that the ugly ones also only want sex a lot of the time. If the choice is between ugly guys who only want sex and hot guys who only want sex, why would anyone not choose the hot ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:44 PM
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Your implication was that on average, the ugly dudes on apps want real relationships. This is not at all true from what I have personally seen. Most of the men on apps, regardless of how they look, want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:43 PM
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Welcome to the club lol. You should play on easy mode until you get used to the controls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:52 PM
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I have seen plenty of ugly and/or fat dudes on dating apps who state outright in their bio that they're looking for hookups/fwb, so nah. Boys will be boys, might as well go for the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:47 PM
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These people are the ones who often don’t know where they’re at in terms of looks because they know they’re not hideous but not attractive either. This really is the main issue. I think both men and women tend to overrate their attractiveness level. Ugly men often consider themselves average and average women often consider themselves above-average. This results in thinking they're in a league above their own - the guys who are 3s think they deserve 5s and the girls who are 5s think they deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:11 AM
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That means any girl who has slept with up to 8 or 9 would be fine then, doesn't it? She doesn't have to be a virgin. Sounds like you guys just have a fetish for virgins tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:29 AM
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Do men really believe that women develop some kind of obsessive unbreakable bond with whomever takes her virginity? If that were true, there wouldn't be so many of us who dumped our first boyfriend in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:14 AM
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I have never asked nor do I care. I have never been asked either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:08 AM
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From what I hear, the single men are just going to poorer countries in Asia and Africa to get brides. Eastern Europe/Russia*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:43 AM
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Being a SJW is an instant dealbreaker, so I'd take the second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:42 AM
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You've never seen Latino or Asian men...? That's average height for men in both groups, so tons are below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:09 AM
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Not at all. 5'0 No preference. 5'3 6'1 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:03 AM
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I'm not one of the people who expects it (prefer very simple first dates so I can duck out easily if I don't like the guy) but I understand it. A filter for fuckboys is unfortunately necessary and that is one that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:21 AM
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Their core dating advice is solid, ie making a man wait for sex until he has invested a certain amount of time or money successfully weeds out fuckboys/PUAs. Not accepting lazy/low quality dates like "taking a walk" contributes to that as well. I do believe these principles can help women get results in finding a serious committed relationship and avoid being manipulated into sex/being used just for sex. They also often call out the harm that liberal feminism is doing to women, which really need…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:36 AM
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Extroversion 7, Neuroticism 19, Agreeableness 40, Conscientiousness 87, Intellect/Imagination 84 I don't really subscribe to any pill, but lean more toward blackpill ideology being the most accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:56 AM
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Ha, this is an excellent point. Makeup is incredibly deceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:31 AM
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Interesting. I know a lot of men legitimately have a fat fetish which could explain some of these. But otherwise, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:30 AM
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Please do. This is mindblowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:13 AM
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I'm a vegetarian. All the men I've ever dated loved meat. It never caused any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:46 AM
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Well, East Asia's dating scene is very money and status focused rather than being about looks. There are good looking men there who are virgin incels just because they don't have a high salary and that makes them completely undateable to these women. "Princess Syndrome." It blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:41 AM
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I've literally never seen an attractive man with an ugly woman. Does that ever actually happen? In contrast, there are definitely attractive women who will date ugly men based on their income or status. See Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:35 AM
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I would say Danny Trejo is ugly. George isn't on that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:17 PM
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Everyone seems to be using white examples so far, so I'll deviate from that. My definition of average is not hot, but not hideous. Just exists and isn't really noticeable. Average Black man: Kenan Thompson Average Asian man: Ken Jeong Average Latino man: George Lopez
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:26 PM
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I consider average to mean not hot but not unattractive either. Just plain. You think average = ugly rather than below average = ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:08 PM
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I've experienced this as well, unfortunately. People can be so unabashedly racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:34 PM
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It was started by millennials and has been taken to new heights by gen z with the growing obsession with e-boys, femboys, and guys with the kpop aesthetic. Prettyboys have been popular since way before millennials. Elvis, glam rock, visual kei, OG boybands, etc When I hear women talk about feminine men it’s never in a relationship sense. I only date and have sex with prettyboys, and I'm far from the only one. That aesthetic works out very well for men in East Asia too; it's the peak beauty stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:28 AM
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I am indeed shallow. Is that supposed to be an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:26 PM
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Ever heard of femdom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:47 AM
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Because ugly men aren't perfect either. So him having flaws plus the fact that he isn't even attractive to make up for it, like the other guys were, becomes an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:17 AM
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Having consistent opinions...? Not sure what is bothering you this time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:11 PM
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From what I've observed, at least some of it stems from women being burned repeatedly by good looking fuckboys, and conversely thinking ugly men will be good to them. So they give it a try. Usually ends up with her resenting him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:19 PM
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They are the Chads of East Asia. Like literally those are the peak beauty standards for men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:17 PM
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Er, no. It's because women are not a hivemind, just like men aren't. People evolve to have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:15 PM
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Going at what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:08 AM
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Yes, millions of women of all races and ages do. I'm not into the music itself but soft, fem Asian men are absolute perfection. I was into that type long before it was cool lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:35 PM
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There are kpop fans of every age including middle age, with a lot being early to mid 20s. Those are adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:28 PM
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If you consider 5'9ish to be tall, I guess? I would say tall is 6'+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:26 PM
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The "taller" men are still relatively short. These are not 6'+ dudes. To answer your question of who they fawn over, kpop fans have what are called "biases" which are their favorite member(s). There's always a few members that are much more popular than the rest. Nope. Skinny, soft and fem are the East Asian beauty standards for men in general society too. Men who conform to these beauty standards do very well regardless of status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:21 PM
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but they’re masculine men Is this trolling? If you put a wig on these guys, they could immediately pass for women. They are peak femboys. Ugly men like the ones you're describing are not fem. They're just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:44 AM
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It sure does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:42 AM
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It's amazing how many men believe women are a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:33 PM
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I don't know how to further explain to you that multiple examples are more valid than a singular one if your level of logic does not allow you to see so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:31 PM
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Yeah, no there are koreaboos of all ages including plenty of middle aged women. The most common group are early to mid 20s women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:56 PM
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Picking one singular group out of hundreds when there are tons of counter examples is cherry picking, yes. It's clear you have no scope of the culture if you think koreaboos only like and lust over one group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:51 PM
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Mhm, and millions of women want to bang them because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:40 PM
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Cool cherry-picking. Here's a list of tiny ones who are popular and you can find many more by utilizing Google skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:31 PM
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I don't wait around for men to do things. If he doesn't, I simply make the move myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:17 PM
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Kpop dudes are short, scrawny, and feminine, yet women of all races all over the world desperately lust for them. Those things honestly don't matter much - having a good face is the most important part by far. People need to be more honest about how much face matters, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:11 PM
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Case in point: all the girly kpop guys who are currently popular with women all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:07 PM
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Both genders: aiming solely for people out of their league and then complaining that they can't get anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:22 PM
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6 is pretty good actually. It's above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:25 PM
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Here's a good reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:24 PM
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Face - 90 pts Everything else put together - 10 pts Absolutely nothing makes up for an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:33 PM
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Some women are dominant and some men are submissive. Role reversal can be a huge turn on for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:31 PM
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What is even the point of that...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:10 AM
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How long would it take you to walk around and find 2 guys with the same personality? Can you even do it? Very easily. Are you not aware of how many ultra basic dudebros exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:45 AM
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This. Conventionally attractive men get approached first quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:55 PM
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I thought he was rather cute. EurasianTiger as well. Meanwhile I have seen plenty of guys who are so ugly that they should be incels but somehow are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:59 AM
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Face is by far the most important. An ugly guy will still be ugly even with a six-pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:58 AM
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All unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:22 AM
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Japan has an immensely messed up dating/sex culture that has been getting progressively worse over the past decade. Can't really be compared to any other countries, so I don't think this kind of thing would work in the west. I would totally do this as a side hustle though, seems easy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:17 AM
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Nope. I know the sentiment is common in East Asia for sure. Japan is a particularly egregious example - feminism and the push for women to have careers irreversibly screwed up their dating/sex culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:26 PM
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This. Peak masculine beauty standard in East Asia is being a pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:19 PM
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The mass popularity of ultra-fem kpop guys with women of all ages the world over basically disproves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:16 PM
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I like to see a man being vulnerable. To know he trusts me enough to do so deepens the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:01 PM
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In my observations, people of both genders tend to overestimate their level of attractiveness. That means a lot of Quasimodo-looking men think they're "average" and a lot of average women think they are supermodels. So that results in all these people thinking their league is totally different than what it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:53 PM
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Some of us do. Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:42 AM
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It's nothing like what you say in most countries in Europe for example OP specifically asked about the US, which is where I am. And I know many Asian countries are even more strict about marriage, with the women being marriage-minded from the very first date and definitely not going to wait 3 years. No idea about Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 09:25 PM
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Most women will not stay with men past a certain point if he does not propose. The limit is usually around 3 years before they get tired of waiting and bounce. If a man wants to retain a woman for a truly long term relationship, he pretty much has to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:09 AM
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Are you unaware that romantic relationships involve many things other than sex? And that women are humans, not holes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:05 PM
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Didn't you say you're East Asian...? It is absolutely not the norm for Chinese or Korean women to split payments with men (not sure about Japanese). That's one of many things I enjoy about dating Asian men- the fact that they are happy to pay for everything without even being asked. It's 100% expected that the gender roles will be traditional. These aren't exactly some type of progressive feminist cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:28 AM
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In Japan, "herbivore men." In China, nothing that I know of, but they will get just as much familial pressure to marry ASAP or be seen as a disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:55 AM
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My current attraction status is for conventionally good looking men. These men have a lot of options and require effort to lock down. If I could change this, I would make it so I only care about personality and not looks at all. I believe that would result in easier and healthier relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:34 PM
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China refers to unmarried women in their late 20s as "sheng nu" (leftover women). Japanese calls unmarried women over 25 "christmas cakes" (aka expired). I'm sure plenty of other countries have similar expressions. So no, it's not an American thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:55 AM
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Try some that aren't. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:36 PM
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P.S. Please don't say online dating because we all know that is a crap-shoot if you are not in the top 20% of men. But the same concept applies in real life. No random woman wants to be approached by an average-to-ugly stranger, just like they don't want to match with that guy on an app. The best hope for an unattractive guy is to attend activity-based singles events, like the ones you can find on Events And Adventures or Meetup, which will showcase your personality. You can approach and sociali…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:19 AM
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