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Observe how she is with others. Some people are overly touchy. But usually means she's into you
/r/seduction29/05/21 10:18 AM
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That's a nice closing sentence. Sure. I'd transform it to sound more playful...but again, calibration. About your second paragraph...I didn't mean it should be something over the top but there are other factors that matter besides what you mentioned in your original post. That's all.
/r/seduction08/03/21 09:37 AM
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I'd read some books on that. And by that I mean your self confidence. People are but our mirrors. By interacting with others you see where your weaknesses are and what you need to work on. Take it that way. It's a small thing and a huge thing in the same time. A book that really made an impact on me is Honoring the self by Nathaniel Branden. You could check out Brene Brown and her work on vulnerability. I don't know where exactly your issues come from but it's definitely worth looking into. Beca…
/r/seduction08/03/21 07:19 AM
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Decent looking guys who make an effort to communicate with a woman..not enough. There must be more. What's his goal? How is the conversation flowing? Is there chemistry? Is he calibrated enough? Is he flirting? Is there intent? The woman can just take it as a casual interaction if there's no intent. No need for excessive flirting, you're right. But decent looks and the effort to approach alone are not enough of a base for a good result.
/r/seduction08/03/21 07:13 AM
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Pulling in the wrong moment could win you a rejection. If you're already in contact with her and you estimate she's not sold on you completely just yet, I'd just back off a little and give her space to come to you. In that moment if you push too much she will run. Make her come to you. Be more mysterious, neg her a bit more, don't act so interested, let her take a step towards you. After that you can do your pull the way you normally do it.
/r/seduction08/03/21 07:04 AM
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As a woman, I'm telling you that's not a good idea. You'd be surprised what men say to women. I guess it depends on your target audience...for me that's not good game though
/r/seduction03/03/21 10:13 PM
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Start small. Strike conversations with low stakes. What I mean by that is start talking to people you don't want anything from. Just make conversation. Anywhere you can. People you're not interested in. When it becomes easier, when you get used to it a little bit, start approaching girls you are attracted to. But don't ask them for anything. Just talk to them, give a compliment and leave. After you get comfortable with that you can start aiming for a close, ask for a number, a date etc. Read som…
/r/seduction03/03/21 10:10 PM
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Not a fan of that "method". If that's your girlfriend, and you reply in private, fine, I get it. But doing that to people you don't know seems kind of creepy and I don't think it will give you the results you want. Actually, what is your goal with this?
/r/seduction03/03/21 10:03 PM
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Sounds like she's expecting something in particular. It's a shit test. If you say what you would do and it's not what she wanted to hear you fail. Read on shit tests a bit and try to get out of it. Say something that doesn't comply with what she wants you to do/say but that tops her. Like you're one level higher. Turn it around. Example: ask her what SHE is going to do 😆 tease her, don't play her game. Hope that makes sense to you
/r/seduction03/03/21 09:36 PM
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Read some self development and pick up books. That will give you a nice overview of the situation. You can start with The Game by Neil Strauss.
/r/seduction03/03/21 09:33 PM
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To be honest it really doesn't matter what you're wearing as long as you can pull it off. If you feel confident,no matter what ridiculous clothes you're wearing, people will think you look awesome, it's just your character/charisma. It won't matter. If you want you can try the clothes your friends recommend you and practice getting out of your comfort zone. It depends on you. Yes, obviously when I say it doesn't matter what you wear I still mean you should look at least presentable and clean. Sa…
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:54 PM
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Okay a few tips I can give you: don't reply immediately. Don't be too invested. If you chase too much she will run too much. Naturally. Don't say everything, be more mysterious, that means don't always answer everything she asks. If you want to meet her and take it further don't be too available on text, make it clear that if she wants more from you she has to invest and meet you. Hope that gives you an idea! Good luck
/r/seduction28/02/21 06:41 PM
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It's about treating her man to woman. Eye contact, flirt, don't talk too fast, make pauses, tease her, carefully choose your words. Incorporate words like-open, fill, wet etc in casual conversation nothing sexual. just be mindful of what words you use, they really have an impact. Smile. Talk about feelings. More specifically make HER talk about her feelings. For example you can ask her to describe a memory from the past, a good one, then subconsciously she will start connecting the good emotions…
/r/seduction28/02/21 02:52 PM
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Yes, sure!
/r/seduction31/01/21 03:43 PM
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You can wave, yes. Go talk to him in the recess. I guess you will have to be bolder than usual in this case. Use your body language. You can flirt with him. Use the mask situation to your advantage, involve it in a joke of some kind. It all depends how aggressive you want to be with this. Pass a note to him occasionally. Just throwing some ideas out there. Bottom line: approach him and make conversation and take it from there. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:30 PM
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Done. When can we see the results from the research? Or can we at all? Also interested in such research in general! Any studies you can point me to are appreciated!!
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:23 PM
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I'd say if you are anxious starting out and don't have experience a good goal would be to just do the approach itself. That's it. Once you get more comfortable and confident you can have whatever goal you would like. Normally you assess the situation and decide in the moment: if she's in a hurry, obviously she will turn down an instant date. Etc. To help you get in the right headspace you can start just talking to women. Randomly. Paying them compliments for example and leaving. Do it in a matte…
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:06 PM
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You can start practicing striking a conversation with the people you meet in your daily life like baristas, cashiers, people on the bus, in different institutions you go to do some administrative work, anywhere really. Start feeling yourself more free and chatty. When you get in that state of mind, where you feel comfortable talking with anyone it won't feel weird at all. Something to help you get in that headspace is start by NOT wanting anything from that person. You can just make an observati…
/r/seduction23/01/21 10:47 PM
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I would say learn how to handle some tools, how to repair basic stuff around the house. That includes some basic knowledge of electricity too. Example: How drains work, how to fix the kitchen cabinetts' doors, how to repair sockets and change bulbs, how to solder. Learn how to use a drill, how to hammer nails in walls, learn a few knots. (In addition to what has already been suggested like discipline and healthy cooking, keeping tidy, knowing how to do your laundry, budgeting, time management)
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:10 AM
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