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I didn't want to comment on this sub, as I generally absolved myself of TRP for a while due to some of the insults hurled my way and the overly political agenda of some of the people in the sub. But the core of TRP, which is to become a better man and to respect yourself as a person, resonated with me in a way that most of these other philosophies have not. When a woman says that she loves "confidence" in a man, what exactly does that mean? It's fairly common knowledge that most women will not p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 03:52 AM
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Isn't a display of self-defeat a blue-pill tendency? "I'll never get that woman because I'm not attractive enough." "Us white folks are losing this multicultural battle!" Face reality, dude. And this is the reality. Either accept it or not. Isn't that what TRP is all about? Anyways, I think all religions that have this nonsense are stupid. But there's a far, far, FAR difference from "My religion teaches me not to reproduce with people outside of the religion" and "That other race is inferior to …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 06:24 PM
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Who does? And which "lefties"? Which national platform has pushed that stuff? I'd argue that the "rape culture" stuff transcends political boundaries but that would be too down in the weeds. I'd hate to say that it's all blowing smoke, but certain instances have cropped up where raping women at parties is a legitimate thing that people do. There was that one case out in Ohio that Anonymous went after, which after investigation shows that things were massive coverups and people are going to jail.…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 06:17 PM
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No, I'm not talking about invention, patent holdership, or anything else. His net worth is $12,000,000,000. No matter how he managed to get there. I'd argue that it is completely impossible to get to that kind of net worth without being "red pill" (or the best you can be) in some aspect of your life. There are many other contributing factors to financial success, many of which are outside of our hands. But he has led a successful company against one of the largest, most entrenched industries in …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 11:50 AM
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On the simple note that I do prefer left-wing political stances, I do also like to point out that you can still treat women with respect of ownership to their bodies and minds while having a fairly equal playing field when it comes to politics, finances, and legal issues. I too spend much time disagreeing with things like child support problems, mens' rights, and other stuff of that nature. And I'm very passionate about it. Us men get SHAFTED legally with women in so many ways. But my push for t…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 11:42 AM
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I would argue that financial success to the degree of billions of dollars makes you dominant and masculine even if your physical body doesn't show it physically. You don't HAVE to have the biggest muscles in the room if you can compensate. Just like a scrawny guy can land more women than a muscular guy if he plays his cards well with good verbal game. But aside from that, because RP is more than just game, he has staked out a significant portion of the economic pie for himself and whichever kids…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 10:13 AM
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I think you're pushing it a bit too far here. What, exactly, political 'ideology' do you think abuses this? Because I can certainly point pretty open to a political ideology in the US that keeps people in "constant fear" of the "boogeyman"; and I'm pretty positive neither you and I agree with which ideology does this. I'll say it before and I'll say it again. It is entirely possible to be TRP and socially and economically liberal. See: Elon Musk. The guy could run circles around most of the peop…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:28 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T5oKcrbzeT4
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:11 PM
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LOL...This reminds me of a personal story I know of. This is just freaking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:41 PM
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Where is this attitude towards her? Nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 04:31 PM
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I think /u/toysjoe was getting at the idea that when someone realizes they want a 'high paying job', they don't have the experience nor skill set to obtain it. They spent their youth squandering it away in favor of "having fun", and at some point realize it's all dried up and that's that.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:46 PM
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Or laws that force the child to live with the more capable parent.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 02:39 AM
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I didn't give a woman that I was into sex when we were quasi-dating but it was because she was bat shit fucking crazy. We kept in contact here and there (i.e. she would call me when she wanted something) and it would always devolve into her calling me out for not fucking her. Glad I didn't. She was way too nuts for my liking. I enjoy a little bit of crazy and adventure but she was out there.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:17 PM
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I think the oddest thing about her blog post is that she said it was 'mutual' but then in turn says that she 'makes decisions that are best for the group, not the individual.' It sounds a bit like she actually fired the guy, because notice, he didn't "quit", and now needs his assistance. A businessman would take whatever salary you were earning, double it, maybe even triple it, and charge that. It's a business relationship after all.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:30 PM
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I'd be interested to see how people could modify this to make it more RP. I went light on the details. I chose a way to express "waiting to start a family" as a personal choice. I did mention "without worrying about the financial details", which I think could open one up to criticism. (You don't have good money NOW!?). I think one could trim the 'financial' part of this statement as well to make it a bit more ambiguous. But it could also work in your benefit...who knows. I originally mentioned "…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:10 AM
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"I'm a professional and educated man. I have waited to start a family until I know I can raise children without worrying about the financial details. I prefer women whom also make stability a priority in their life before settling down."
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:06 AM
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I doubt much of this would matter. It might matter for long term prospects but does not matter for sexual encounters. Especially in modern society's handling of the situation. The alpha male DOESN'T have to have long term prospects. Why should he when beta men will pick up the slack?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 06:03 PM
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This is one of the ugliest truths in social interaction that so many people seem to conveniently ignore. I wouldn't say I've become jaded from most people, because I do actually have buddies that want to hang out and go places with no benefits gained; but there's a whole host of people out there who will do anything to take advantage of you.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 05:59 PM
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"maturity"
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:35 AM
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It's INCREDIBLY common.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 12:09 PM
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I'm not really enjoying the coopting of TRP for other issues. Politics and racist propaganda has been popping up recently in more frequency. It's been bothering me. If it continues I'll end up contacting the mods.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:49 PM
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This is important, and I'd like to add here that I don't think 'female friends' (if you're BP/Orbiter type) counts for this one. I could be completely wrong on this as I'm going off anecdotal evidence, but a female wing man who isn't fucking you isn't likely to help you get laid in bars. At least, it never worked for me. The only thing it MIGHT help you with is maaaaybe that initial hump of talking with a girl, but if your wing man tries to talk you up, it's potentially going to back fire on you…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:22 PM
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The ROK's drivel really turned me off towards their site, no matter how much 'good shit' they MIGHT have. Your post is the only one that makes sense and should be upvoted to the top of this thread. That said, this whole post should just not be on TRP. It's just not really going to look good in the eyes of others, even if you may agree.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:14 PM
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For me it was never a single event but years of issues going back through a few girlfriends, even. I can even pinpoint the situations and how I bluepilled them up and how I redpilled at times and the reactions they got. The following story stands out as an example of my red pill behavior and what it achieved. I was an incredible redpiller online in WoW to this one chick that admired me. I texted one of our fellow WoW guildies one night, then a bit later got a phone call from her. She had asked h…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:54 AM
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Doesn't mean that this still doesn't happen. It happened to a few females I know. Married straight out of college, had a kid--now nearly 10 years later the men are working crappy jobs, their marriages are in shambles, one's going through a nasty divorce, the other isn't far behind. I don't know what will come of these women in time, I've decided they weren't worth my effort to be around while they were constantly complaining about how their lives suck, etc, etc; when I told them 10 years ago the…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:27 AM
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I'd give him gold for that one if I could.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 02:16 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding this subreddit and its posts a little bit. No matter what people say or do on this subreddit, or disprove of, the reality is that these things happen. Whether you want to call it "cock carousel riding", "women finding themselves", "freedom", or whatever people wish to say it is--it happens. The subreddit, therefore, exists to enlighten men about this reality and help them maximize their sexual market value (SMV). The reality is we all want to reproduce, to have se…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:10 PM
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I just wanted to respond to your post and say this was the moment I woke up to TRP ideology--when I realized that the women I really wanted thought worse than absolutely nothing of me. It was blatantly obviously and deviously malicious. That you mean absolutely less than nothing in their lives. It's a situation that is worse than even casual friends and acquaintances. If you see an acquaintance, they will always be glad to see you. But a female "friend" whom you're trying to get with, whom you'v…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:02 PM
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FYI, this is illegal in some states (Maryland, for one). I don't think you people understand. In Maryland, it is illegal to record another person without that person's consent. Now, if you want to say, "Hey I want to record us having sex" it can be argued that you got her permission to record. However, you cannot just shove your phone in your pocket and turn on the recording. It's illegal here. Period. Amusingly, this does not cover video. So as long as you don't record audio you're free to reco…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:25 AM
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I disagree. The reality is the political system in our country (the US, specifically) is vastly complex. There are a range of us that are 'liberal' on many issues that don't even notice to such things. I can assure you that I've gotten my fair share of women bitching me out over my TRP posts (didn't even know one of them read TRP!) and I'm about one of the most 'liberal' people you will ever come across. I'm up for ALL gender equality, and this includes mens' rights in matters of family, divorce…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:19 PM
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There are a whole host of ways to get infected with HIV that aren't even related to sex. However since she didn't disclose them it's likely it was. http://www.hivlawandpolicy.org/resources/heterosexual-risk-hiv-1-infection-sexual-act-systematic-review-and-meta-analysis With this meta study, about 4 in 10000 cases of heterosexual acts with a woman will result in HIV infection of the male. 8 in 100. The highest risk is when you have other diseases in the process which cause lesions or sores, with …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:57 PM
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Please do not attribute liberal socioeconomic beliefs to the loss in values that men have.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:45 PM
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FYI, in many states you are even on the hook for child support for children that aren't yours. So you're probably not getting out of taking care of the kid in the long term. A good divorce lawyer might help you out, though.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:41 PM
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I think you mistake STDs a bit here. "Herpes" is not a single STD but more of a family of viruses. http://pathmicro.med.sc.edu/virol/herpes.htm If you have HSV-2, you can still get infected by someone with HSV-1. Just because you end up with 2 doesn't mean you want to end up with 1, either. The same goes for other infections.... There are subtypes of HIV, even: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subtypes_of_HIV So it's not quite as nuanced as "OH YOU'VE GOT HIV!"--you could end up with a multitude of …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:38 PM
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It could be argued that the mention of the PHD could be his way of justifying her negative qualities. I would love to see a social experiment, however, if you took 2 8's for women and put them in a bar and one with a PHD and one without and see what would happen. I suspect the amount of men that would leave with them would be similar. Given that they are both 8's physically. Throw together an 8 w/o a PHD and a 6 w/ a PHD, and that's an even more interesting social test. I don't think a 6 w/ a PH…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:52 PM
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For what it's worth, I'm not. I wouldn't date a woman with an STD because it proves to me that she made poor choices in the past. And I equally wouldn't expect a woman to date a man with an STD either for his poor choices. I expect people of all genders to make that determination.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:45 PM
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Honestly, it doesn't matter to most men. I'm not sure who you are, but it's clear you're not likely male, or just really, really sheltered. I've gone after women whom have had 0 degrees in sometimes more intense fashions than the women I know with more advanced degrees. Some of this may be insecurity and feeling the woman is more high value than I am (or, rather, she'll just leave me for a man whom has that degree level and more); but the reality is that we just don't care. A woman's cognitive a…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 12:38 PM
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I completely disagree with you on this one. There is no way a 'confident' out of shape guy can pull that with women. It doesn't happen. Been there, done that. I'm well-educated, carry an ever-increasing game, well-off financially and only going higher--and I can guarantee you, without fail; that if I tried to pull something as blatant as that it would not work. Why? Because I've got a belly and skinny arms.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 03:25 PM
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Perhaps a bit tired.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:04 PM
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Firstly, let's throw this out there: I do believe women deserve the right to have birth control and abortions. However, I do agree that the laws surrounding this are slanted in their favor. My approach is that we can resolve this issue in a more fair manner for men. If a woman wants an abortion, and the man does not, he should have equal say in assuming the role of the baby's father and she must carry it to term. If she wishes to absolve herself of all motherly duties, that's her right as well. …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:50 PM
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I think you confuse what American liberals/leftists believe and what government system is in place like Russia. There are a wide range of ideologies and I recommend you do a bit of research.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:29 PM
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People always abuse the system. This is how every day life goes and I've considered writing another TRP post on how this happens and how you should stand up to day to day abuses. But no matter the system, people will abuse it. The question you ask yourself is what system do you prefer that affords you the greatest chance of success? As the above poster under my comment stated, concentration of power and wealth in the hands of a few will lead to unequal distribution. In effect, you nor I will eve…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:12 PM
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I think it's very important to keep politics off of this subreddit. /r/politics is ----> over there. At any rate, I'm a very 'leftist' man, so far 'left' in fact that the US doesn't really do it for me with regards to what it considers "left"--but I also fully, 100% support red pill ideology. It's no mistake nor chance that those whom are red pill GENERALLY are right-leaning in the US; but it's more because of the masculinity afforded with their ideology than anything. (Primal hunting, 'protecti…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 12:39 PM
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Added this to the local 'book club' reading list ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 08:34 PM
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I, OP, downvoted you.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:53 AM
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No, considering I'm still a very strong WIP most people don't really consider me 'alpha' yet. I've been cutting a lot of distractions out of my life, though; including people. And focusing on interactions with new people with strong alpha qualities from the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:52 AM
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Nowhere did I say be an asshole, I just stated to speak up and request a change. You can do this without being an asshole. And you can do it completely politely. The exercise in this case is to get people to speak up when needed. I've found in my personal life I spent a lot of time going "Well, I'll just accept it." Since you're TRP Endorsed, I'm not sure how much you've experienced this in life. But from my POV the attitude of acceptance when people "wrong" you will take hold across your life. …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:49 AM
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Indeed. It is important as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 11:45 PM
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Indeed. And oh do I party.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 11:10 PM
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Already knew this, been there, done that. Was just looking for success stories :P
/r/askTRP31/03/14 02:06 AM
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Real world example where "fighting" for a woman and "oneitis" has actually worked? Trust me, I don't hold my breathe. Just interested.
/r/askTRP30/03/14 10:39 PM
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I don't get what you're trying to say other than referencing some of my other comments. When I mean submissive, I mean the portion of their rain that normally drives their day I day interactions shuts off. I've seen incredibly intelligent women, self-motivated, and highly educated reduce their own thoughts and actions to mere drivel in the presence of their alpha male husbands. I've watched a woman whom worked for NASA on the shuttle program reduce herself to listening to everything her husband …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:17 PM
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You have TRP wrong my dear, let me point it out in ways that other men here haven't quite made clear. They're too busy being trapped into your comments more than anything and respond directly. I won't really even entertain your ideas because they're from your perspective. TRP is not about shaming, guilt, gaming, or dating. TRP merely points out the reality of the world we live in. That's all. The entire euphemism of the name of the subreddit is to help men wake up to reality (Matrix's Take the R…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:36 PM
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This sort of thing is often something women do to justify finding a man that has those things. They put their own bar at a certain level, and then move the bar up a few rungs to find the man they want.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:25 PM
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I'm going to definitely agree with the bottom paragraph and something I have often thought. That feminism is really just a way to ensure alphas have access to more women. And the best part is the hamster just rolls through this as if there's some sort of equality, etc. But I have never, ever, in my life seen a straight woman with an alpha male whom was not submissive to him. I'm talking not just submissive in thoughts and ideas, but in behavior and the words that come out of their mouths. So thi…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:23 PM
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There's as much of a "real and present danger" of being the victim of violence as there is being a victim of some idiot in a car, if not significantly more so on the latter. Fun fact: I spent the other night wandering the streets of Baltimore between the hours of 3AM and 9AM on a weekend (don't ask...) and had no problems at all. And some of that was spent in the less than affluent areas.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:00 PM
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Our society (at least American) reveres these types of people. We hold them on a pedestal. In fact, we go so far as to say if you are not one of these types of people there is something wrong with you. Granted, there is a substantial difference between actively murdering someone and simply not giving a crap. But it's not much of one. Many of the types that don't do anything don't do it because the law exists. (That is, the penalty of punishment for their actions overrides their natural urge), bu…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 08:12 PM
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How the hell do you manage to do all of this in the short time in which a decision on this is critical?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:09 PM
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I don't think people realize just how much our society revels in sociopathic tendencies. This goes beyond just how to handle women. I think one of the largest challenges for any beta/BPer is to understand that the world itself does not want empathetic men. No matter the society you live in, no matter the economic system your country adopts; empathy is not common among the leaders of any country or business. Empathy is a weakness you must get over if you want to follow the red pill path. Taking t…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:06 PM
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Links for the lazy: HPV: http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/hpv-genital-warts/hpv-virus-information-about-human-papillomavirus Syphilis: Can't find much information on it, http://www.hhs.gov/opa/reproductive-health/stis/syphilis/; "Health workers are at risk if sores come in contact with wounds." Doesn't say much about direct skin contact other than can be spread if you contact a sore. Genital Herpes: http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFact-Herpes.htm ; "Condoms may not fully protect you", and…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 01:44 PM
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Since it seems you are a woman that is getting "TRP", try to understand that he has spent his entire life being fed the BS he's regurgitating to you. It's very challenging to overcome that situation. And you know, for you? He may never overcome it. If it bothers you that badly then you're going to do what you're going to do. However, understand why TRP exists. It exists to help men get out of that situation. The only way he's ultimately going to learn is if you leave him over it, and then he'll …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:42 AM
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Wonder if you approached them with, "I expect you in my bed"; what would happen? The obvious, of course.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:09 PM
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It's entitlement, really. And it's not something I wish to put up with anymore. The issue is there's at least a decade of precedent with this group of friends that one person would drive, etc. But after the group split up, that didn't happen much anymore. Now that some of the group is 'back together', they expect that I'll be doing all the driving--but I'm not the guy that was driving everyone around beforehand, and I carry a much different attitude towards these things than when I was 19/20. He…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 05:28 PM
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I knew a couple of (more or less) single moms whom haven't quite hit the wall yet, or at least haven't realized it. Or if they have, they're in denial about it. It's very interesting to watch, to say the least. I know one that's extremely pissed off at me still because I didn't want her kid and her in my new car. My attitude has been "She has a husband, make him buy her a new car. I didn't get the benefits of fucking her to allow her toddler in my brand new $30,000 vehicle." Needless to say, she…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:22 PM
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Yes. But he was under control at all times. He just didn't use coercion. He asserted dominance.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:37 PM
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Did we read the same post? He controlled her from the start. He wanted to get some, he did. He grabbed her phone and gave her his. He ran the entire day through his itinerary and she was along for the ride. I can tell you from experience I know what this man pulled. I've had this wok successfully for me in the past on dates. On the times I blue pilled, It bombed everything. Yes, this means the man is in control.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:01 PM
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Yes. I do this as well. Nearly every other female "friend" in my life I have cut off. I've known these women for so long, however, (and early on one of them was there for me in very helpful ways) that I've stuck around. However, keeping one as a friend was made significantly easier by her move out of state for the vast majority of the past 10 years. I go out of my way to really not make female friends anymore. I more or less 'interact', but I keep a distance. It's just not worth it. You want my …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:07 PM
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Yeah. It's been interesting to watch. I have formally introduced one of them to TRP. She's pretty much text book and has hit the wall. I've explained this to her already. This was in a conversation we had after her separation in which I asked her not to come to me to be her provider. But, as I've stated in another comment; it doesn't mean we must stop being friends or hang out on occasion. It just means that I refuse to take over a role that they denied to me years ago when it was a more opportu…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:14 PM
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It's unfortunate that one's full life events cannot be adequately explained in a couple of paragraphs on an internet forum. Who's to say I don't have male companions? Who's to say I didn't follow up this engagement with drinking and strippers with a few fellow guys on that evening? (Okay, the strippers is pushing it, that's next weekend; this weekend was a little more low key eye candy at a Tilted Kilt) It seems I'm at a bit of odds with some folks in here regarding what TRP is. TRP is not neces…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:05 PM
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I do not believe this sort of post belongs on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:45 AM
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What a cunt. All I gotta say right now as I sit in the car dealer buying a new car.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:16 PM
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Oh, none of this was for this particular woman (or any of the ones I've walked away from). As I stated, the thought came to mind after an unrelated woman shared a Facebook meme.
/r/askTRP15/02/14 05:42 PM
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Agreed. I guess what I'm more asking in this case is to how, if at all, it's possible to include this in some sort of frame holding, red pill ideology? Or not? I'm 100% sure it doesn't even matter in the slightest, but was looking around TRP to see if it could be used in some productive capacity.
/r/askTRP15/02/14 04:39 PM
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In any other situation I'd disagree with you, but sitting here and reading what happened to this dude infuriates me just reading the text. I didn't even go through it. I would most definitely lose composure if this happened. I don't know what that would involve. I'm glad I don't have to.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:55 PM
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How exactly would it be obvious? I've had 'bros' (that I dropped after they fucked me over) that I know wanted to hit it off with a girl knowing that she and I were very close to dating. We're talking one of them drove up to my house smelling like Axe with a freshly cleaned car. To my house, where she was... You can definitely call her on her shit, as I did when it all happened (we ended up not dating for very long). But 'bros' need to be there, otherwise they're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 11:12 PM
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I don't think the intent of posting the video to TRP was "slut shaming" so to speak more so than it is to show many of us "blue pillers" how it really "is".
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 03:14 PM
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It absolutely was. As the guy above stated, she was solid 100% no until the other guy came up and started playing it out with him.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 03:12 PM
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Personally, I think you rate yourself 'average' but in reality you're probably above average attractiveness. I know tons of guys who do this, you wouldn't be much different.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 04:41 PM
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Yeah. I'm still rather empathetic. Was out with some friends a while back and picked up a large bug (a stag beetle) and took it outside. They called me out on it, I said "yep, I just did that." I'd say the most challenging part of being empathetic is to not let my empathy cross into how I treat women. It's been an ongoing process for much longer than I've been reading TRP (which has only been a couple of weeks). I'd say I'm pretty good at that now (I don't try to internalize the 'anguish' that w…
/r/askTRP28/12/13 10:16 PM
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The oldest memory for which I remember knowing I was an empathetic individual.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 10:02 PM
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I've got little interest in that. Perhaps I'm just not there mentally or emotionally yet to handle that.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 09:47 PM
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I fail to understand how so many women can fail to see what's right in front of their faces when they use it to their advantage all of the time? They are doing EXACTLY what TRP is telling men they should be doing, from a man's perspective.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 09:40 PM
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Well, some of it is conditioned, and some of it is not. I'm naturally an extremely empathetic person. I've been this way my entire life through a number of situations (the oldest memory I have is when my father took me out at 7 years old to go shooting animals and I shot and killed a squirrel and cried). As far as the conditioning is concerned, you are correct; but I think I've done a good enough job of keeping this aspect in check with the aforementioned woman. But I did happen to enjoy hanging…
/r/askTRP28/12/13 08:02 PM
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Interestingly, I think she was a bit surprised at my willingness to just walk away. I don't think she's ever experienced it before from what she told me last night. It will be interesting to see how she reacts. Or at all. Not that I should care, but I do; because I am who I am. But I've got enough strength in myself to know when a situation isn't good for me and when to walk away. So there's that. I'm actually kind of surprised she hasn't hit "The Wall" yet. She's 39 years old, single, and start…
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:17 PM
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lol. Just watched this. This guy was spot on. Christ. This is why I've been reading TRP. To re-assure myself that me doing these things is exactly the right course of action no matter how much of an 'asshole' it makes me appear to be. Thanks for that.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:04 PM
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Yeah, I just kept answering her with "It is what it is." and "I don't know." I'm not going to say she didn't provide value as a friend, because she did; she was extremely fun to be around. But because I took that approach to spending time with her, it went exactly as expected. She was like "I should have just gone out with my friends and not accepted a dinner invite with you." and I was like "This was bound to happen sooner or later, so that's irrelevant."
/r/askTRP28/12/13 06:53 PM
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